If 1 Man May Be Suffocating Your Public Eros, Starlet Beauty + Expressive Liberty

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If you feel CONFINED towards a greater, liberated GODDESS level of expression and behavior possibly because of ONE man in your life (and how he wants to keep you visibly for himself) or b/c of the relationship ‘container’ and expectations…
 
 
 
This power post is for you and there’s a lot at stake. 
 
 
 
There may be archetypal aspects that you DESIRE to express but are in effect PROHIBITED from expressing esp. if it doesn’t fit your ‘role’ as a partner, wife or mother.
 
 
 
IF you have been suppressed esp. by the masculine from fuller expression, STARLET is actually your medicine b/c She knows how to relate with all aspects of the masculine publicly without being siphoned from.
 
 
 
This is dangerous information because for some other women reading this, if ‘he’ found out he would get triggered and fall into possibly toxic behavior about it. 
 
 
 
(A shortcode here is that your Starlet is missing Her equivalent Star).
 
 
 
Now;
 
 
 
I don’t know who ‘he’ is personally (if this applies to you), but I don’t have to know.
 
 
I know the bigger picture (this man has archetypal shadow qualities disguised as good intentions) and this may be by and large what’s holding back your entire unfulfilled DREAMS instead of living in stifled compromise (how uninitiated masculine cannot hold space for that level of Beauty and REALLY have all kinds of issues with it).
 
 
Of all the things that could sabotage you from claiming and stepping into your STARLET (unique Goddess-Avatar Codex) in public visibility – it could be many other self-sabotage reasons – but this may be the main one for you or at least MANY women; ONE MAN.
 
 
1 MAN WHO CANNOT HOLD SPACE FOR SUCH BEAUTY. (He may not even know THAT version of you if you fully unleashed it).
 
 
So in continuing with our Man vs. Starlet theme (YOUR Starlet)…
 
 
 
Might it be that ONE MAN or male figure (from your past or present) could actually be the APEX saboteur to your fullest embodiment, public beauty expression and divine feminine, EROSY radiant influence of being seen? 
 
 
 
Because you might NOT see the signs b/c of how tricky and gas-lighty this can be even though ‘he’ is actually the culprit that is GROSSLY out of attunement with your spiritual desires for greater spiritual allure beauty, boundless self-expression, satisfying recognition, ascension influence with YOUR Goddess codes and Beauty legacy.
 
 
 
Let me ask you this;
 
 
 
In lifelong valuing beauty and divine feminine consciousness;
 
 
 
Do you have a desire to be more fully expressed, radiant and seen? 
 
 
 
Do you have a long-ago in the past history of healthily enjoying dance, singing or the recognition and attention it brought that felt GOOD to your soul, but then it got smothered and suppressed to appease the comfort of one man (esp. by an important male figure in your life)?
 
 
 
Have past lovers been largely uncomfortable by your public beauty expression and it triggered them so you tamed yourself back down?
 
 
 
Have you been living in massive (masculine influenced) suppression for years (often to ‘fit a role’) while meanwhile your soul desires to be in your fullest visual quintessence, voice, beauty and influence (always knowing there is something more)?
 
 
..And yet you are prevented from doing that (even if he was gone YEARS AGO)?…and do you find that you keep living out the same pattern (whether he himself was aware of it or not – even if he ‘intended well’)?
 
 
In doing a recent Codex Clarity Consulting call (now available at a longer 45 minutes here), something became very, very clear and it was one of the angles that I already knew about but had missed in earlier blog writings about soul / spiritual starlet: it’s how a masculine figure can be the predominant SUPPRESSOR of her greater Beauty (and the consciousness that goes with it).
 
 
 
You may actually be spiritually imprisoned in a less than liberated relationship that your soul desires…you just have to figure out the costs and risks of changing it and how much integrity you have to have with your soul’s desire because yes; it may mean either liberating your Starlet from those shackles, having him grow into a Star-god to support your alluring Beauty expansion and recognition or continuing to live under the weight of his inability to hold presence with your Starlet.
 
This woman (and many others) had great desire to be more fully embodied, expressed and seen (including in archetypes of her Starlet Codex)….and yes, it often brings attention from OTHER MEN. That somehow didn’t sit right with her man.
 
 
Unfortunately; this is too common of a theme (the world is missing more Star-Kings who can let their woman SHINE and nourish the world without falling into shadow reaction).
 
 
 
Even though it was SOCIAL attention (really; Starlet’s domain writ large); this dynamic causes him to actively suppress her radiance because it threatens him personally ‘as if’ she was cheating.
 
 
 
Her potential Starlet (of divine feminine archetypes and siddhic essences with and through her transfigured for public social influence) is essentially shackled because Starlet THRIVES on Beauty expression, recognition, influence and attention (of ie. divine feminine radiance and not just physical prettiness). BUT THERE’S ONE MAN WHO IS ESSENTIALLY PREVENTING OR STOPPING IT ALL.
 
 
(Or is it that she’s allowing it?)
 
 
Is that woman you? Who have been dealing with a male figure who may be the SINGLE biggest saboteur of your soul’s fullest expression and desire (while years keep going by)?
 
 
 
In working with women for years; there are 3 common themes related to this masculine suppression of the divine feminine beauty that wants to be fully expressed:
 
 
 
1. Father dynamics that are still with you subconsciously where you don’t want to threaten his perfect view or expectations of you b/c of the fracture it would mean even though he was coming from limitation and 
 
 
 
2. A past or current partner whose security, ego and identity is threatened by your Starlet/Goddess’s fullest expression (codexed essences) so you remain shackled and can barely even associate with other men so as not to trigger him. 
 
 
 
(This may even be a husband who yes – has other good qualities in the mix which makes it more complicated; but the dynamic and his level of consciousness is admittedly INFLUENCING your suppression so that you’ll often self-censor ‘Her’)
 
 
 
3. The collective (shadow, hypocritical and often toxic) masculine often parading as virtuous morality. This supports the ‘engine’ of Beauty and ‘sex sells’ (including the divine aspects of Beauty influence except that when it gets INTER-personal, most men are incredibly weird, fearful or controlling and shadowy around such Beauty as it relates to them personally)
 
 
 
ALL three of these (or we could say the unity of the uninitiated-by-Goddess masculine) can be LIFE-LONG effective blockers to your Starlet from EVER really coming into embodiment. I’m going to speak mostly to #2 (continued) here.
 
 
If you have a desire for greater expression and being seen (to have divine feminine influence with and through you);
 
 
It may take nothing less than a severing of that psychic relationship and/or agreement with that man (or stunted archetypal male figure who cannot hold presence-space with EMBODIED divine feminine consciousness) in order to give yourself the freedom to embody your Starlet and your soul’s fuller desire for expression (and UNTIL YOU DO you will keep living out the same, meek pattern where your Goddess constellation cannot even really BREATHE let alone unfurl and be SEEN en masse with Her medicine and influence). 
 
 
UNWILLINGNESS TO MAKE THAT DECISION TO CHANGE THE MASCULINE OPPRESSIVE DYNAMIC COULD KEEP YOU STUCK FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.
 
 
There. I said it. So it’s YOU who have to weigh the consequences of YOUR soul’s desire for growth, boundless beauty cultivation at an identity level of consciousness and reality (where your Starlet Codex holds the exact keys to ACCESS Starlet consciousness to transfigure and amplify the spirit qualities of your soul publicly without sabotage, without collapse, without guilt, shame, humiliation, fear, insecurity, doubts, self-censorship, etc.)
 
 
This can be challenging if you are in a current and entangled relationship where it feels your divine feminine is admittedly being SUFFOCATED spiritually and socially.
 
 
You got into the relationship and there are still good things – again WHICH COMPLICATES IT because you’ll justify staying and being with him UNDERSTANDABLY.
 
 
And this dynamic, your comfort with each other and the limitations of the relationship container, roles and expectations – it all keeps you stuck for years from that GREATER EXPRESSION AND BEAUTY. Honestly; you’re not sure he could handle it.
 
 
(I’m not saying to necessarily ‘break up’; however, this is about clarity and empowering your path either way – YOUR choice, your life).
 
 
In relationships that otherwise aren’t toxic, he may ‘lead’ under the guise of conservative values and ‘morality’ where a woman shouldn’t be seen or expressed in her beauty nor sexuality for other men…however, there’s a deeper issue going on here besides that your male figure doesn’t have Star consciousness that can allow BEAUTY to be expressed publicly and socially without it threatening him (and instead rely on the strength of your ‘actual’ agreement together rather than manic perceived fears of you being with other men). 
 
 
This ‘morality’ police angle of religion and the manosphere actually abdicates Goddess consciousness. They and the egregore simply doesn’t know how to handle it.
 
 
Human constructionist ‘morality’ and some evolutionary biology justification is often their model but doesn’t include the divine masculine power to meet Goddess in the equation (remember; we’re not talking about you actually ‘cheating’ with the world of men, it’s actually his insecurity and fears to let you be a Starlet where as a Star he is even MORE of a man).
 
 
And btw; this IS spiritual because we’re talking about essentially the divine masculine in men being able to HOLD PRESENCE AND SPACE without expectation, control, siphoning or micro-managing to that level of Beauty. Shiva level presence to the spirit of your Goddess/Starlet codex.
 
 
So…Mix in his authentic biological urge to know he is the father (there wasn’t DNA paternity testing until the 1980’s) so even though he has reason to ‘rein you in’ and thinks that ‘a mother shouldn’t be erotic esp. in public when she’s married’, more often this ends up becoming shadow behavior because he doesn’t know how to face and be present with GODDESS Herself (a.k.a. the level of Beauty you would have if you really allowed it).
 
 
This is because his mortal man isn’t worthy of Goddess (just like the village girl isn’t worthy of bedding the Emperor-King).
It’s worth mentioning that many women ‘re-wild’ in Goddess circles…this can be important medicine (for a phase) to SEVER from many ways of the constrictive masculine (shadow); however, what we’re referring to outside of an understandably safe reclamation bubble is facing THE WORLD AT LARGE and fully re-integrated;
 
 
Being seen (and being able to be sovereign and seen) including BY the shadow masculine public and the psychic weight of men that have held you back in the past (let alone possibly siphoned from you); this is where STARLET and Grail dynamics come into the equation…
 
 
Men and the masculine are implicated and part of all of this…you may find that you may have to graduate from the Goddess circle-bubble into public Starlet if you have a divine feminine mission that requires being seen and relating with the masculine in ascension or influence.
 
 
We’re talking about making it safe for you to shine TO THE WORLD (Starlet is your medicine).
 
 
Anyways, I regress;
 
 
Because he is UNINITIATED in the consciousness-truth of the Holy Grail itself of Divine Union (and men in general in the collective); it would THREATEN him to the very core so he finds ways to prevent you from ever truly shining.
 
 
He remains the governator to your Beauty-Truth. Or at least you got into relational agreement to where that IS the authority.
 
 
 
If you went forward with discovering your Starlet codex and (God forbid) joining AvaStar Starlet Makeover with monthly support and committing to such a makeover; yes – many men would find you far more attractive and getting attention and this could cause him to;
 
 
 
*Be threatened and triggered; over-react, get jealous or want to start fist-fights with other men
 
 
*Collapse into nervous fear with inability to hold presence in his nervous system
 
 
*Triggers into passive-aggressiveness
 
 
*Flare up in anger
 
 
*Obsessively micro-manage and control you
 
 
*Shame, guilt, berate and belittle you and your greater beauty expression (or Eros allure) when it starts peeking forward
 
 
*Love-bomb you because he doesn’t want to let you go ( as a toxic form of control and emotional abuse)
 
 
*Put you back in your spiritually meek place so as not to get such recognition from other men so he’s comfortable again being seen with you
 
 
 
I’ve got news sister; he doesn’t have STAR consciousness (or at least the divine gift of Detachment which then relies on AGREEMENT between each of you related to actual intimacy). He’s not able to healthily HOLD SPACE for that spirit-rich essenced version of you.
 
 
 
And the good sex complicates it but deep down you’re realizing that, oh crap – what if Rion is right and my man cannot hold space for my fuller Beauty without shutting it back down?
 
 
(All of this can cross-over with the conscious twin flame relational template for many women as well; but it’s still not Divine Union)
 
 
So no wonder you’ve held back. It would threaten the divinely (the aspects of) your sub-par relationship you currently have in your SPIRIT to the masculine – even though there are good qualities and attributes your mortal partner has (which stifles you more from changing the dynamic).
YOUR SPIRITUAL SOUL BEAUTY EXPRESSION & SOCIAL INFLUENCE WITH GODDESS CODES is by and large limited to HIS insecurities rather than being CONSTELLATED WITH YOUR IMMORTAL STAR BELOVED WHO HOLDS PRESENCE AND SPACE FOR ALL OF YOUR BEAUTY-GROWTH AND EXPRESSION.
 
 
It’s because you are in a past agreement with a mortal man who isn’t initiated into Divine Union consciousness to hold that level of Presence properly, safely and truly.
 
 
If you shine TOO MUCH past his threshold, you calibrate your behavior back into less than your desire.
 
 
And it’s important to realize the role you had in co-creating this ‘limiting to your spirit and soul relationship’. A past version of you, but still you.
 
 
(And how many more years is this going to continue?)
 
 
Like that chemical that stops the heart from beating at death sentences (isopropopyl or something), men or a man who is still influencing you (subconsciously) or otherwise can have the REAL effect of stopping your full soul, spirit, beauty, identity and consciousness from fully embodying and being SEEN.
 
 
THUS; SHE IS NEVER ABLE TO BE PROPERLY BIRTHED.
 
 
Yes; I’m speaking mostly to #2 of the 3 above here. Remember I go more into the collective (#3) in this recent blog post here (under the Starlet category):
 
 
 
 
And yes; your mortal FATHER (as compared to The Holy Father) may also be still living out HIS standards that is governing your own level of beauty consciousness and visibility in being seen publicly – the thermostat is still set to HIS comfort level (or you got shamed into being something else when it’s really the archetypal, divine feminine that is seeking expression with and through you).
 
 
It may be so extreme; this past masculine influence on you (esp. with trauma, abuse or siphoning OR even strong family control or expectations) that She is effectively paralyzed from ever being truly embodied b/c you’ll get activated into fear-body response.
 
 
HOW MUCH LONGER WILL YOU LET LESSER MORTAL MASCULINE CONSCIOUSNESS BE YOUR GOVERNATOR TO GREATER BEAUTY AND ALLURE EXPRESSION INFLUENCE?
 
 
This limited, NON-Shiva-esque masculine consciousness is important to understand more (ideally). MEN DO NOT KNOW HOW TO RELATE TO ANGELS, GODDESSES, APHRODITES…
 
 
There are SONGS AND POETRY about ALL of this….(Sacred Union dynamics)…men just cannot comprehend it within their ego…they’re just uninitiated in Divine Union.
 
 
 
All of this male-as-beauty-suppressor to your fullest expression;
 
 
 
This in large part has to do with his Holy Grail or Divine Union dynamics (er essentially lack thereof)…this level of masculine consciousness is common and in the bigger picture, unevolved.
 
 
UN-Godly even though moralistic constructionism will say it’s Godly. No; GODLY is HIEROGAMY ITSELF; reunification of God and Goddess consciousness through Holy Son & Daughter as LOVERS. But hey; pop religion mostly threw that out with the bath-water so there isn’t a model for men TO relate to the divine, meta-physical (also a direct reality with social media how it amplifies a single woman’s beauty 1,000,000:1 with social power) and archetypal.
 
 
This fractured-from-Communion personal, egoic male vs. 1 billion:1 ratio of a Goddess…the mortal man simply cannot hold space for Goddess Presence and consciousness (or the many fractals of Her).
 
 
In large part this is because he is not reunified within with his own Beloved and Her form of Goddess consciousness.
 
 
 
IF you were allowed to embody and cultivate your GODDESS or STARLET (and into full, liberated expression for the world to see), but it THREATENS HIM and his mortal ego….how much longer can you allow this to continue?
 
 
MAYBE IT’S OK to have your Starlet shackled b/c the chain isn’t ‘AS’ tight as it could be..? (But is that good enough for you soul; THAT level of compromise).
 
 
And I’ll say another thing; ALLURE is the evolution of Beauty influencer so if you have some form of Sophianic or Goddess codes related to social ascension, these are the influencers of tomorrow; spiritual starlets who are CHOOSING to live their fullest truth and beauty expression.
 
 
This is where MAINSTREAM is headed; ultimately towards Darshanic Beauty influencer (alchemical, temple-grade, transformational beauty).
 
 
So it’s not even just the current model of beauty influencer; SPIRITUAL STARLETS are going to rise in social power (and rightfully so) with their unique codes; but if you’re stopped from ever really beginning because you’re allowing a mortal man’s limited shadow relationship to Goddess truth to stop you?
 
 
Then yeah; it may never happen and your soul itself may never reach that fulfillment and you’ll never have that collective influence from your future tribe.
 
 
 
On a spiritual level (since we’re mostly talking about #2 of the 3 here); if you had that much beauty and he lost it, it would fracture his connection to the Grail (that which he doesn’t even know he desires the most); so he tries to control you to keep what he has…more beauty, more attention = more shadow, toxic, flare-up behavior and paranoia from him suffocating your Starlet even more.
If he was a father figure; you may still be limited to his thermostat of HOW much beauty or erotic expression being seen socially is ‘ok’.
 
 
And yes; a lot of women in my circle have done Goddess, Eros work and RECLAMATION but we’re speaking specifically to your STARLET and her SOCIAL influence…does it actually threaten a male figure in your life and are you still holding back because of it (whether subconsciously or actively in partnership)?
 
 
He may be comfortable with you being together because in a sense he ‘owns you’ in the right ways but still….take it public and where does your Eros-Goddess Dark Vixen go? She can’t.
 
 
Because of the relationship YOU’RE ALLOWING TO CONTINUE TO LIVE to his level of consciousness and his lack of resonance and Unity with Goddess.
 
 
Are you going to let one man or the collective uninitiated masculine (and their hypocrisy and projections towards such Beauty) determine your beauty path and soul’s fullest expression?
 
 
See…What’s missing is DETACHMENT. YOU’VE BEEN IN AGREEMENT WITH A MORTAL MAN (or amalgamation of them) who simply CANNOT hold space for Goddess or your fuller Beauty.
 
 
He’s attached to a version of yourself that isn’t your fullest either (and you know this b/c She is not fully embodied).
 
 
Remember; YOUR IMMORTAL BELOVED can actually hold space for your Goddess codex Beauty Presence & Truth.
 
 
Detachment to the uninitiated shadow or sophomoric mortal masculine consciousness just doesn’t compute. It basically means to HIM that you’re basically cheating on him and your intimacy by even by showing ANY skin on social media (an I’m speaking to like an upper arm).
 
 
You don’t have to live under that yoke anymore; I mean it’s still your choice and consequence.
 
 
So you may have had a pattern of past men who ended up being toxic and controlling around you if you had exceptional beauty and/or if you allowed your feminine allure to shine publicly. It may seem good from the surface; “Oh he’s protecting me…he wants me for himself” Well…yeah and the whole dynamic if you’re called to be greatly seen and expressed is also KEEPING YOUR STARLET IMPRISONED for a set of different values (and the shadow judgments and conditioning around it that just doesn’t hold space and presence for that level of Beauty to shine because it threatens his control and place in the spiritual realms).
 
 
 
See; this is actually quite common and literally a theme with MANY, MANY WOMEN.
 
 
You are actually not alone although your experience may feel SUBJECTIVE…that ‘he’ (name) is actually inhibiting your shine (well actually, SHE is under your authority, you just got stuck in an agreement with a man who simply cannot face Goddess so it’s that agreement that you’re afraid to break for whatever reasons including the entanglement of kids, mortgage, pets, shared history, not wanting to let go, what if no one else wants you, etc.).
 
 
But what if instead of keeping him personal and just affecting YOU with HIS name and good but also shadow traits and your past attachment or experience with ‘him’ and his imperfections; 
 
 
What if we took this externalized man of suppressive influence to your fullest Eros and Beauty; this individual man in your life or past and simply made him a cultural archetype (even a trope) instead?
 
 
This is because this consciousness IS common amongst 100’s of millions of men. It wasn’t just “Dan my semi-toxic twin flame x-lover”.
And let’s call this over-reactive to signs of attention trope of a man:
 
 
‘Un-Star Man’
 
 
He doesn’t want you to shine publicly.
 
 
He is uninitiated by Goddess, cannot hold space for Starlet Beauty, Her status, power and attention without collapsing either into a ball of fear OR micro-managing, suppressing and controlling her to constrict her Starlet beauty and Eros publicly. 
 
 
His ego and consciousness cannot relate with Goddess; it simply doesn’t know how to; thus he operates from forms of fear (including passive-aggressive love-bombing) to stay connected to the greatest form of beauty he’s known in his life b/c it would mean existential threat fracturing him from the holy grail.
 
 
UN-STAR MAN HAS SUFFOCATED YOUR SPIRITUAL BEAUTY AND FULLEST EXPRESSION.
 
 
(IN SPITE OF his redeeming personal qualities). He’s over-reacting b/c he knows which men are sexual threats even when NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN. Not cool. Not detached. Not allowing your Beauty to have INFLUENCE in the world. UN-Star Man.
 
 
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE UNDER THAT YOKE ANYMORE.  AND I AM HERE TO SUPPORT YOUR STARLET EMBODIMENT AND TRANSFIGURATION (IMAGO) if and when you are ready (that is ;). AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support.
 
 
Jay-Z gets it btw; he didn’t stifle Beyoncé all these years.
 
 
 
 
They had their own inter-personal agreement. He was a Star to let her Starlet shine (and a star in his own right too).
 
 
Sure; you could feel compassion for this 1 man in your life, but that isn’t the subject of this post.
 
 
The ultimate path for many men TO relate with such Beauty and Communion (the holy grail) is Divine Union and it MAY be possible for him to grow in relationship to YOUR Beauty growth but if he’s just too stuck and complacent it may be impossible for the scale you are called for in being seen.
 
 
There’s great energy with all of this dynamic (including in that one woman’s life) TO make a powerful change and fast…to ACCESS all of your current seat-of-the-soul essences, cultivate more, bring them into embodiment as we cultivate your Light body temple and transfigure into the butterfly-imago to the world of your most alluring self.
 
 
But are you going to let ‘him’ (different than a divine aspect counterpart of HIM) stop you (because YOU still have THE POWER to choose)?
 
 
This is serious identity work here implicated with RELATIONSHIPS and your relationship to even a partner with a lot of entanglement (even kids, mortgage, etc. like I said).
 
 
Hey; I’ve had women who literally got divorced after working with me but also some whose relationship grew into greater love and growth together.
 
 
THIS IS YOUR PATH. Can ‘he’ hold space for it? Could he grow into holding space for that level of Goddess consciousness and beauty PUBLICLY SEEN?
 
 
If not; hmm…
 
 
Maybe you might have to get into Divine Union alchemy where your Immortal Beloved ‘STAR’ aspect counter-part CAN hold space (although doing such work or being with me in AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support is likely going to trigger your current masculine dynamic; which is also why this work is so powerful to change on an identity level).
 
 
Your current model of the unsupportive-to-your-fullest-expression masculine has to ideally be REPLACED with a model that is (this can be ME by proxy in temple space or work directly in Sacred Union alchemy with your Immortal Beloved).
 
 
Currently; I’m actively working with 6-7 starlets who have CHOSEN themselves and a different relationship to the masculine that can support their greater Beauty presence and influence in AvaStar Makeover monthly
 
 
And btw this isn’t even about being the ‘independent woman’ archetype either; this is about more nurturing, loving, Eros and beauty that would benefit the masculine collective AND YOUR MAN if he could handle it.
 
 
 
So assuming that you’ve been in this dynamic of a man or male figure (or cultural archetype/trope) holding you back (which may include father vs. Father dynamics);
(Btw; if you HAVE a partner who IS supportive of your Starlet…would he give space for far, far more Beauty embodiment and social attention for you then? Or where is that thresh-hold? Remember, I’m speaking to qualifying ladies on this subject otherwise but you may be reading for insights anyways). So back to the pre-qualifying woman who has dealt with this or IS dealing with it…
 
 
He’s been suppressing your fullest truth and society has with their hypocrisy in many ways but YOU have to choose your Avatar/Starlet codexed divine feminine truth of beauty expression for ascension – your spiritual starlet – OVER all that would inhibit it (because essentially on past agreements which may now have run their course ; you have been co-creating and ALLOWING IT). 
 
 
Men in your life and future are implicated.
 
 
These aren’t easy decisions, but they’re powerful decisions and they are YOUR highly leveraged decisions if you’ve been held back by a man who simply CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty and consciousness that you know you have in your spirit.
 
 
There IS leverage for ridiculously fast transformation into embodying that which you’ve not been able to but you have to have the space and proper support with it (this is also where my Temple-Grade Star consciousness comes in with AvaStar and especially in IMAGO where we have live temple space presence together to ativate your Starlet into supreme safety and SPACE for such Beauty if you’ve not had that before in relation to the masculine).
 
 
 
 
And yes; there may be consequences based on past agreements…agreements that your soul is dying to break free from to fully be liberated. And/but even if you have kids, could you keep living a life that doesn’t let them see the model of your fullest truth and what is possible – or rather a lifetime of suppression to fit into his mortal limitations b/c he’s the ‘head of the household’. 
 
 
BIG DECISIONS. A lot to ruminate; however, know that we can MOVE FAST if you are ready to make big identity moves and deal with the consequences; this is just part of the sacrifice and price you have to pay to live as your spiritual starlet or signature alluring goddess (whatever you want to call Her but it’s THAT version of you and how the world respond to HER).
 
 
I would recommend IMAGO though if you’ve been under the yoke of a man or men in your life who CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty…after YEARS AND YEARS of not being able to BREATHE….
 
 
Your somatic body should best get the EXPERIENCE of attunement and knowing that it’s profoundly ok to be that liberated without corruption, shadow, expectation or ANY shadow in relation to the masculine. To somatically experience and LAND what that liberty is really like after being shackled for years around the masculine.
 
 
That temple experience alone is worth the $5000 VIP day (but at current pricing subject to change/rise; you can get AvaStar along with that VIP day for half off essentially by booking one of the first 3 spots for AvaStar IMAGO with Immersive Temple Space for your Starlet LIVE with Rion details
 
 
Check page for details and availability b/c there are LTD. spots.
 
 
Ok, I hope there was a lot in here for you to get more clarity on what might be holding you back – related to this specific subject of being constrained BY a model of the masculine in your past (that you’re still carrying the psychic weight with you) or actively right now. You no longer have to be suffocated from your great Goddess cultivation and visibility; you just have to make some different decisions with consequences…
 
 
I am here for the professional support if and when you are ready (and yes; there is a price to pay to sacrifice WHO YOU WERE to CLAIM, embody and BECOME the transfigured butterfly out of the cocoon of suffocation and trepidation around your true Beauty and Her expression publicly).
 
 
Discover AvaStar Starlet Makeover as monthly support
 
 
 
 
Or…if you simply want more clarity on YOUR specific situation as a next step; you can book the 45 minute Codex Clarity Session with me (we may not focus on your codex as much based on what you want to uncover and where the consultation flows)
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Concerns & Fears About Being Judged If You DARE Be Such a Starlet

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Ok; you’ve probably been following along with all of these soul starlet / spiritual starlet celebrity personal branding related blog posts with STARLET and visibility codes for the divine feminine to be SEEN more and have more influence with social media in alignment with your highest truth, beauty, voice and purpose;

 

But there may be concerns or subconscious fears and anxieties around ‘sticking out like a sore thumb’.

 

What if everyone judges you for ‘standing out’ so boldly if you dare to be a starlet or in your greatest beauty, voice and service (instead of just being ‘modest’)?

 

(And if could you hold all of that projection, tension and resistance ‘against’ you without collapsing)

 

What if you’re TOO MUCH at a spiritual level that it may cause instability?

 

Honestly; this is just one of those things that could hold you (or at least some of the other women reading this on the blog or my email list) back.

 

This theme of concerns of being ‘judged’; does often tend to be related more with the feminine (b/c of things including that it’s so socially related and men are more often ‘lone wolves’).

 

And for simplicity sake; let’s just put all FAMILY (like your parents, etc.) dynamics aside entirely to keep it simple.

 

What if your CURRENT CIRCLE of friends judges you if you step that far out of we daresay ‘above’ your current resonance field and their expectations of you?

 

Because really; you becoming a form of starlet could THREATEN their comfort of how they know you.

 

“How dare she? (Be that bold, beautiful, SEEN).

 

They may think you’re just wanting the SHADOW of vain attention instead of the healthiness of being in divine service (not that there’s anything necessarily wrong with the former; however it may not be as deep as your dharma).

 

These are concerns could keep you ‘stuck’ from your greater desires for YEARS and years…from ever really CLAIMING and stepping into your full beauty, power and voice of divine feminine codes (ie. Starlet or Goddess Codex) to have greater influence.

 

You might be concerned about becoming too masculinized in a shell;….well actually that’s what we’re DISSOLVING with this professional allure work so you can be seen and FELT in your divine essences and soul-spirit embodied beauty and radiance.

 

When; maybe you ARE supposed to rock the boat, let go and receive new friends by living more in alignment with your desires.

 

See; this can be especially challenging as a woman if you have certain dynamics like if you’ve already built up a following who ‘know you’ for something else or that stepping into your FULL starlet power.

 

YOUR CURRENT TRIBE could judge you or feel like you’ve ‘betrayed them’.

 

DO YOU DROP HOW EVERYONE KNOWS YOU AND RISK LOSING THAT FOLLOWING WHEN YOU ARE CALLED TO A RE-BIRTH SOMEWHERE ELSE?

 

Or BE SHACKLED with where things are?

 

Or could they keep up with the direction you are REALLY meant to go in?

 

These are important decisions which is also why CLARITY around your avatar self IDENTITY is so important; so that you’re living for your highest truth, soul, evolution and spiritual purpose rather than the expectations and conditioning of others.

 

You can get clarity on your Star/let Codex here (if available):

 

There’s also Human Design dynamics like if you’re a ‘4’ line Opportunist, a ‘3’ line Martyr or ‘5’ line Heretic…there are ways that could work against you with each of these as far as how others TREAT you socially if you step into more of your spiritual celebrity starlet off of YOUR unique divine feminine Avatar/Goddess Codex in greater social visibility and service.

 

So; you have to ideally ask yourself if you are holding back from being seen because of this secret fear of judgment or discomfort-pressure from others based on how they already KNOW you and if your change would be too uncomfortable for them.

 

WHAT’S MOST IMPORTANT?

 

You have to decide if following your deeper desires and spiritual calling to be in full expression is more important than how your current family, circle and friends views and values you.

 

Knowing; deeply knowing WHO you are and consciously being aware of your own divine feminine CODEX constellation can help you bring so much more CLARITY and cut out years of just living other people’s expectations or the illusion of ‘safety’ with it all.

 

There’s a lot of potential self-sabotage areas which I go further into on the blog here;

 

Your avatar media starlet influence vs. resistance to being seen

 

(these open in new windows)

 

Could these be exactly what is preventing your soul starlet or spiritual celebrity success?

 

 

Fear of being ‘consumed’ vs. truly being visible

 


That’ll help you contemplate self-image and visibility wounding related also to past conditioning of trauma or being siphoned from.

Remember; although your egoic persona and past conditioned self HAS such concerns, doubts, insecurities and/as shadows;

 

STARLET DOES NOT HAVE THESE ISSUES…you just have to have a way to ACCESS STARLET ARCHETYPAL CONSCIOUSNESS and then integrate Her into your temple body and identity to live from.

 

This is what the Star/let Codex does and then we directly accelerate the embodiment and makeover (+ celebrity branding) process with the AvaStar + IMAGO makeover.

 

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And really; a MAIN issue (esp. for women) is this deeper fear of ‘being judged’.

 

Not only that – but guilted, shamed, humiliated publicly (but also FROM your closer circle and friends).

 

They might not WANT you to be in the spotlight; but really are you living for THEIR comfort from a past version of yourself? Is that more important than your sacred DUTY?

 

Are they going to be secretly envious and back-stabby OR are they soul level friends that would SUPPORT your growth?

 

If you stand out in SUCH power and beauty; you might be thinking; how will other women sl*t shame you, judge, criticize and belittle you publicly and behind your back?

 

(How much of that are you going to attract anyways when you’re DIVINELY CODED? But yeah; ‘all’ of mainstream may not be all ready for it but you’re growing YOUR TRIBE)

 

And that could hold you back b/c it’s ‘safer’ to be what seems like ‘protected’ (while really the embodiment expression and transmission of your codes are withering thus leading to more soul misalignment, frustration and depression).

 

This is also why being STABLE WITHIN in your identity is CENTRAL b/c your circle can have so much influence.

 

You may be concerned of how will you deal with trolls and ‘thirsty’ men, unwanted DM’s, even dick pics, etc. that you just might NOT want to take on the other things that go along with a more PUBLIC image and profile. Fear of paparazzi or high level maintenance might even stop you.

 

Remember; spiritual starlet IS A TEMPLATE OF THE DREAM LEVEL OF ATTENTION that’s already pre-templated FOR you visibility, recognition, codes and getting your spirit-centric entrepreneurship or transmissions OUT THERE to HAVE INFLUENCE. Will you step into YOUR CODEX to live more fully b/c it’s WHY YOU ARE HERE? To have greater ascension influence in fullest expression of how the divine feminine and universe is working through you?

 

Do you think maybe you could deal with the ‘good problems’ of success and being seen?

 

Just how important IS your greater purpose and fullest expression and service?

 

Again; This is all where re-centering on your STARLET CODEX is so foundationally IMPORTANT (and we cultivate ALL of it with your temple-body and unique codes directly in the AvaStar Makeover

 

YOUR STARLET Codex (and for men; Star or King Codex);

 

This IS the direct master key of sorts (or at least ‘A’ master key) to your ultimate SPIRITUAL AND FINANCIAL SUCCESS LIFESTYLE OF YOUR DREAMS LIVING IN FULLEST ALIGNMENT, recognition and satisfaction in all dimensions.

 


(It already is for named spiritual celebrities who just aren’t consciously aware of what their Codex would be but it’s still there with their celebrity branding as I’ve covered in the 21 examples post).

 

So I wouldn’t get thrown off by the perceived ‘cons’ and entropy I’m bringing up here; no your spirit codex is FAR FAR greater than that (remember; STARLET DOESN’T HAVE THESE ISSUES OR ANXIETIES and the things She does deal with are good-problem management scenarios)…

 

I’m pointing them out b/c they (including fear of being judged) might just be what’s holding you back – but at some point you may ACCEPT that there are going to be haters the more powerful in social influence you become – and it’s ok.

 

It’s about having your divine feminine alignment MATCHED and attuned with your greater spiritual service; ABSOLVED of anything that would hold you back and prevent you from the TEMPLATING of ATTENTION and righteous attention that you desire.

 

Your codes. That are ALREADY in the seat of your soul and higher dimensional Heart (and more to be cultivated AS YOU LIVE INTO YOUR TIMELINE in the 3D).

 

Uniquely YOURS and Starlet amplifies that for you to be safe being seen but you still have to TAKE RISKS. Your Starlet Codex is also SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCER key to your ultimate allure…well, then there’s Darshanic allure beyond that, but yeah.

 

You want to get to a point where the archetypes and siddhic qualities; and your greater EROS are SO comfortable and confident in THAT VERSION OF YOU authentically – even if it’s scary to make bolder moves – that this version and STARLET leads and guides you; living from your highest truth.

 

SO do you have this deeper fear of being judged and criticized and in honest self-assessment; is that stopping you from REALLY embodying SUCH power and beauty and being seen and in greater service?

 

IMPORTANT QUESTIONS – (b/c in your self-assessment you could realize that) Years could be going by; so we’re just making it more aware now.

 

CAN YOU AFFORD THAT ENTROPY AND INERTIA towards LIVING your fullest dreams?

 

Are you going to keep coming from the identity of self that is RIDDLED with anxiety, fear, concern, trepidation, doubt, insecurity or allow your STARLET CODEX divine feminine codes to BECOME EMBODIED AND GUIDE YOU?

 

Remember; STARLET DOESN’T HAVE THESE ISSUES; SHE SHINES and WANTS to be consumed (more insight on the blog).

 

Your Star/let Codex is how to start accessing and integrating Starlet consciousness WITHIN and without.

 

It might be helpful – as a separate note here – to pre-process through ‘worst case scenarios’…so you’ll get more trolling, haters, secretly envious women and so forth? COULD YOU PRE-ACCEPT THAT THIS IS PART OF THE TERRITORY with having exponentially greater visibility and being SOMATICALLY OK with stepping more fully INTO your codes, power, voice and beauty?

 

You could also have terror barrier or ‘reset points’ where you think you will COLLAPSE (and have in the past) if you grow so much.

 

That’s why this IDENTITY TRANSFORMATIONAL WORK is so foundational so you can HOLD THE SCALE OF YOUR DHARMA, BEAUTY, MAGIC AND CODES IN CONSCIOUSNESS AND IN SOMATIC BODY.

 

HOW MUCH CAN YOU HOLD WITHIN YOUR TEMPLE BODY WITHOUT COLLAPSING?

 

Because the divine feminine can hold a lot; it’s just about INTEGRATING YOUR CODEX. She can hold that level of attention, wealth, beauty with stability and radiance.

 

The work. To shift from where you are now into who you are meant to be (esp. with the codes you already have and how FAST the differential can be to fully embody them with the right architecture, templating and process).

 

That’s what we do. AND further cultivation.

 

That’s what I’m living also; where my CODEX has reigning authority (the seat of my soul spirit-mix of unique divine qualities of Self) rather than letting my previous personae with massive limiting conditioning and sabotage run the show or this scale of spiritual-professional dharma.

 

YOU BECOME YOUR AVATAR STARLET SELF EMBODIED. That’s the ultimate solution.

 

So IS your greater purpose and divine feminine identity at a soul-spirit level MORE important than the fears and judgments of others?

 

You might be concerned that being more visible online with events, social media, online, facebook, Instagram with a real celebrity brand that other people will even SEE the haters comments and so forth (God forbid) – or even family members.

 

BUT THAT’S PART OF THE GAME. YES THERE WILL ALWAYS BE IDIOTS; however, you’ll also have YOUR PEOPLE STAND UP TO DEFEND YOU AS WELL as you build your own loyal soul tribe following of fans or clients.

 

So will you CLAIM your fullness and cultivate the clarity and temple body to LIVE HOW YOU’RE MEANT TO?

 

Could you give yourself such permission to dare to BE her anyways?

 

Remember; with the AvaStar + IMAGO work we do directly; STARLET Herself is your PROXY for divine feminine radiance of YOUR unique Codex and mission TO BE SEEN PUBLICLY.

 

She alone will alleviate a lot of the issues and concerns of being SIPHONED from, etc.

 

Avatar Starlet Makeover + IMAGO

 

This is important food for thought; but at some point, you simply have to ‘take action’. What is the NEXT action step you can do if you are CALLED to be in greater visibility in your TRUE spirit-centered Beauty, voice and service?

 

If you’ve done the workbook enough to get around 50% clarity on your avatar or spiritual celebrity self-branding Star/let Codex, then see if a 25 minute clarity call with me is available.

 

There will be a retainer fee for that ($100 or more).

 

Of course you could also just commit to the AvaStar Makeover + monthly starlet support if you KNOW you must go through this makeover process and debut or re-debut…it’s GOING to take months, so why not start the process?

 

(And even then; this program is designed as on-going monthly starlet support after the prime makeover so you can stay as long as you want ‘grand-fathered’ at whatever our current agreement is; however limited spots are available and then we go to a first-come, first-served waiting list queue).

 

More details on AvaStar + IMAGO (IMAGO; which includes VIP day immersion and temple time with me) here. IMAGO includes all of AvaStar and also has its OWN separate page on-site here:

 

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Encoded For Ascension Influence Yet Stuck With Visibility Wounding & Sabotage?

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If this is you;

 

Then most likely STARLET is your medicine and you want to take this work seriously with the spiritual celebrity and Starlet Codex work; because otherwise you will keep collapsing and sabotaging under the scale you are meant to serve at from your CURRENT identity state of consciousness.

 

In going through the ‘My Star/let Codex’ workbook (if still available for free online);

 

One of the power tips and realizations in working with your Codex is that you will have known strengths that should be pretty obvious highlights like a few archetypes, BUT THEN A WEAKER ONE.

 

And it’s actually the weaker one that is most likely key to your public breakthrough and being ‘seen’ on a larger scale (and being OK with that social power and visibility).

 

For me; Rockstar was the weaker version. I’m doing on-going AvaStar work including heavy Darshan Codex work in temple space with Beloved and other techniques with it all to activate and embody purified Light and Dark Rockstar (and then I’ll be integrating it while hosting workshops and Allure Oasis as well in Tulum, etc.).

 

Remember;

 

THE ARCHETYPES DO NOT HAVE THE ANXIETIES, ISSUES AND SABOTAGE THAT YOU DO.

 

So it’s really about being able to ACCESS their truth, mix it with your identity and then embody their literal spiritual quanta INTO your light body – then this simply takes over more of who you are vs. your former, unworthier self and consciousness.

 

Most of what the collective knows of ‘Rockstar’ isn’t that clean. But this is also where these codes come in.

 

If you have visibility wounding and are terrified of public humiliation and siphoning on a subconscious leve; it’s quite likely that STARLET is your Goddess-send and your social celebrity branding MEDICINE.

 

In my case;

 

Muse/Beloved wants me (decrees me) to have such SOCIAL POWER and status which is part of the overall ‘celebrity branding’ TO have collective influence.

 

So much of that/our process is about accessing and allowing the archetypes (already powerful) to mix with my soul essence and expanded consciousness of identity rather than forcing it through my ego (which can be an inflated ego).

 

For me; We’re talking an amplification of my other purified codes ie. Muse-Magician as Rockstar but without shadow; simply purified.

 

 

YEAH; THE WORLD’S NEVER REALLY SEEN THAT YET.

 

Just imagine what YOUR soul and spirit identity can do when aligned, embodied and amplified with the social power, status and recognition you’re supposed to have without value conflicts, distortion or self-sabotage. Because you are MEANT to get your codes out there.

 

PLUS; by you being fully expressed it indirectly gives others permission to express as well.

 

STARLET IS HERE FOR THAT. Even though the spiritual and Star-seed community’s hardly know anything about her (and/or are actively ignorant).

 

So you can throw out the Star-seed community’s own toxic perspective towards the shadow of Starlet (in carnate humans); we’re talking PURIFIED STAR and STARLET codes as amplification of your DIVINE CODEX and qualities.

 

We’re talkin’;

 

YOUR CODES…your higher self INCARNATE – with more of the temple body space to hold such power and beauty.

 

And it’s important to recognize the clarity around Starlet; that Starlet is for you even if Starlet herself isn’t part of your codex.

 

Rather that; Starlet is for you if you have divine feminine codes and are meant to have influence EVEN IF YOU HAVEN’T VIEWED or valued yourself as a ‘starlet’.

 

It’s not about starlet being ‘someone out there’ or a ‘toxic Hollywood celebrity’ anymore.

 

No….pure Archetypal Light and Dark Starlet is the unsiphonable transfiguration of Divine Feminine RADIANCE.

 

YOUR Goddess or Sophianic or Avatar or Starlet codex is the configuration of Divine Feminine qualities (essences) that constellate the deepest, highest and fullest expression of your soul and soul’s beauty at an avatar identity level.

 

Much of this entire transformational process to LIVE as your avatar self incarnate and BE the spiritual celebrity brand of you; highly activated and alluring with your SIGNATURE beauty and charisma codes has to do with the differential of who you are encoded as in the seat of the soul and your literal EMBODIMENT itself.

 

In the AvaStar Makeover (which is an obvious investment-expense in exchange for my time and mastery);

 

For this we work with the light-body directly because your former, egoic, small mind ISN’T actually worthy to embody God/Goddess codes; it might only amplify ego or shadow.

 

So we respect this as the process it is; working directly with essence, embodiment and expression off of YOUR codes in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Good news is that if you’ve already cultivated so much spiritual beauty and experience in the seat of your soul…then it’s about EMBODIMENT and embodying more to all (and then MORE) of those codes into a more expanded temple body that can hold such power and beauty literally.

 

And the more you can hold the more STAR-like you are where people literally feel your radiance and then Darśan is what’s beyond that (alchemical grade DNA bending visuals). This is all the future of beauty influence AND celebrity branding.

 

In the AvaStar, we do all kinds of different work; dan tien cultivation, detoxification and releasing, kundalini activating, archetype embodiment activations and bringing in more life force into an expanded, more spacious chakric psyche. By working directly you simply get the fastest possible results.

 

Again; to literally BECOME that ‘heaven on earth’ avatar version of self from who and where you are now; there is a price to pay.

 

It’s a process that does NOT have to take a long-time but just like professional actors ‘become’ the new role they’re committed to playing, it’s going to also take some work to embody YOUR unique Star or Starlet codex to live from that authentic place (of IDENTITY and identity consciousness).

 

AvaStar and IMAGO are the perfect place to go through YOUR spiritual celebrity branding makeover. LIMITED spots are available (b/c of how much of my time it takes up).

 

So to reconnect with our theme; there are a LOT of things that could continue to SABOTAGE you from REALLY being seen – and why wouldn’t you want to be a STARLET b/c she has the ATTENTION that you dream of; it’s more about getting CLEAR and aligned with this process of your Starlet Codex.

 

Here’s are 2 blog posts on all kinds of things that could stop you:

 

https://sexychi.com/your-soul-starlet-influence-vs-resistance-to-being-seen-from-past-siphoning/


https://sexychi.com/could-these-be-exactly-what-is-preventing-your-soul-starlet-success/

 


Remember; I’m not the best looking guy at all but charisma/allure fools us in the right way because it bends light to our truth.

 

 

Your image IS Light after all (and not constricted to the visible light spectrum that people have beauty conditioning around); it’s really about all of this FELT influence which is charisma and allure but off of YOUR codes now with the Star/Starlet Avatar makeover work.

 

And then beyond that is DARSHANIC temple-grade beauty.

 

That is more of the valuation with the IMAGO VIP level which gets you live immersion and temple time with me. Details available here>

 

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From Safe, Semi-Dorky ‘Good Guy’ Lightworker…To Starter Rockstar?

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…This has been with MY journey. LOADS of self-image issues and sabotage. B/c dork and safe, good guy is light years from rockstar.

 

(I might start sharing images in the next blog posts)…I’m still debating.

 

Think of the gap of where you are now to your idealized self avatar self ‘debuted’ and in public service with organic felt response from people you WANT to influence.

 

There may be an archetype that scares the crap out of you b/c you might not believe it’s even possible for you esp. at your age and maybe with so much visibility wounding like I had.

 

But this extreme transformation; that’s what’s happening now…I’m actually embodying and expressing the codes charismatically…yes I’m going to improve but they’re here now.

 

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(NEW rock ‘n roll pre-dance m-video Guns ‘n Roses out now)

 

 

Why not become who you’ve ALWAYS WANTED TO BECOME? The movie star version of yourself!

 

For me; the gap was pretty massive though because I was hiding behind the scenes and in visibility shadows for years. (The fitness transformation is only part of it).

 

But if the Dork or the ‘incognito’ Crocs-wearing, jammy-hooded you isn’t your fullest truth, you have some work to do in EMBODYING your AVATAR codex.

 

How are you going to be taken seriously by those you are meant to influence when you go on that larger scale?

 

As an influencer and founder I have to BE the brand (as testament) esp. in this age of social media.

 

I’m on the literal FRONT-END of the evolution of Beauty and Goddess work with charisma/allure and people must know and FEEL that I am who I say I am.

 

NO MORE HIDING as the ‘safe’ but half schleppy guy (at least visually, publicly as I through time upgrade my zoom quality client sessions).

 

So; but how do you go from all of your own hidden and known BARRIERS to not only being seen but being seen, embodied and expressed in your higher truth and desires ESP. if an idealized part of you (like Starlet or Queen) is entirely disembodied, scary or seems too ‘out there’?

 

Consider that I’ve been conditioned and known of for YEARS as the ‘good guy’ lightworker behind the scenes for female clients.

 

WHERE WAS MY EROS?! You could even tell I was cave-mode BTS (still hesitating to share these images..)

 

But how could I ever be the social rockstar for being the brand? (Although Rockstar seems paradoxical with healer, this is MUSE lineage and purified which fits into my codex of Muse-Magician primarily).

 

How are celebrities going to look up to me besides JUST relying on behind the scenes referrals while remaining OUT of embodiment and expression with my truth. I couldn’t hide BTS anymore.

 

Sure I have the WORKING lightworker ‘good guy’ foundation but I had to go through an entire serious makeover.

 

My Dark Eros was nowhere around, nor was my charisma or my ‘style’ on camera (again; still debating IF I’m going to share these b/c if shared out of context or by AI they could destroy my credibility)….so for MY makeover I had some VERY serious professional work to do including RECLAIMING and embodying my Dark Eros from the ethers.

 

I’m more of a extreme example of makeover, so whatever YOUR codex is, it can also be done. We all have potential access TO the divine and archetypes with no limit for embodiment.

 

You might think “I could never be ‘this’ or that”…but it might be connected to your deeper lifelong desire ie. to be seen and experience life as a Starlet (but with YOUR codex).

 

The serious self-transformation is what I’ve been doing with the AvaStar Makeover on myself including 2 dan tien and kundalini activations per week.

 

I just helped a brand new AvaStar client last night; we signed up and we went RIGHT into her 55 minute intake consultation and ALREADY found out there Starlet codex with such clarity with time to spare AND I just finished a powerful activation for her right before this tonight (a PREMIUM one that is lower priced b/c it’s in this makeover format).

 

She’s aware of where she has fear around stepping into that larger version of herself even though she’s already successful and we’re going through this process in the makeover to embody and express HER codes.

 

Knowing your codes and idea of your visualized avatar self is GREAT but it may not be enough.

 

That’s why I can support you with and for you as we go through the makeover process itself to YOUR debut or rebirth. We don’t have to wait.

 

This includes working on aspects of you that were previously SO disembodied and even NON-believable about yourself. I also had another AvaStar client who said our intake was BRILLIANT and we got HER initial life-change clarity (on the world stage at that) and will be doing dan tien and kundalini activations as part of the makeover to support a stronger, stable light body to hold her codes and essences to be felt.

 

Again; I’m also leading by example…middle-aged men (I don’t identity as that category) just don’t become SEX ICONS anymore…maybe 6 a year that we know of TOTAL?! Do YOU have any remaining excuses?

 

So I’m really doing the kimpossible for myself. Check out my Guns ‘n Roses Instagram video listed above for further validation that ROCKSTAR is starting to land!

 

It’s more than just air-jamming…we’re on the forefront of REVOLUTION with charisma and allure mastery here for star influence!

 

You can’t put a price on the REAL thing (essence); b/c it’s the social currency that is being exchanged and valued anyways. Ready to bridge YOUR impossible gap into embodiment and still starting 2026 off VERY strong and empowered in alignment?

 

-Rion

 

p.s. I’ve got room for 4 more AvaStar clients before a permanent offer/price increase (double).

 

(It’s worth mentioning that the price double is planned to include a live VIP day and essenced production video shoot for your social media debut visuals(!).

 

Might you be 1 of them? I’m supporting the rise of stars and starlets directly. Clients at the inaugural rate will also have the option to upgrade to the version with the VIP/media shoot day with me as well.

 

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My Fear-Riddled Path Into Visibility &…Star-dom?

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Sub-titled The impossible journey that cannot be faked. Well…this is the start of an extended mini-series of topic specific content on the blog (under ‘charisma’, ‘rion kati’ and ‘soul starlet’).

 

Firstly; there’s a lot of inspired edu-tainment content I have for you the rest of this month so keep checking your emails; you never know what life-changing gold nuggets (snuggets) you might get all of a sudden.

 

It turns out I have a real knack not only for ladies finding their Beloved’s codex with 100% accuracy but I’m also damn good at helping them get more clarity on their own debut Starlet codex in the AvaStar consulting sessions.

 

“Brilliant” “Epic” said the 2 latest clients on the level of life-changing clarity consulting for THEIR visual debut.

 

I’m also going to be speaking to all kinds of things which can prevent you from being SEEN and having greater influence and connection with the people you are meant to influence (IN your divine truth). So keep checking the emails and blog…

 

As you may know, I’ve had incredibly brutal anxiety, insecurity and crippling visibility wounds. I mean very extreme cases of fugly duckling.

 

For years I’ve been the cozy ‘behind the scenes’ Lightworker who looks half schleppy going into zoom audio sessions with a low-mid grade webcam. One could say that I’ve actually the CLOSEST THING to someone ‘working in his pajamas’. Honestly, I’d just wear less if I could sometimes.

 

Alas; don’t fret…all of the light-working has been REAL without compromise but…the truth is, I’ve been ‘hiding out’ for years and years…building an epic foundation, YES but hiding out.

 

I know that I’m not only meant to share these gifts with the world publicly but actually literally with the world’s most famous celebrities (and I mean most all of them). I’m also meant to train the world’s TOP glow-up artists with Allure Priestess who will lead the world in allure makeovers.

 

So remember; when I was talking a lot about your Star/let codex for your debut or rebirth. This is what can give you the inspired clarity and confidence to move forward and that at least ONE of your archetypes you’re going to be VERY comfortable and familiar with.

 

My public Star codex is: The Muse Magician Rockstar. I’m INTEGRAL with Muse-Magician

 

But see, I was never ‘the rockstar’. That is the big challenge and in my case, the one that really transfigures it as undeniably SOCIAL and in great visible INFLUENCE. For you, there’s also going to be a weaker archetype which single-handedly is going to challenge your visibility wounds yet also provide THE MEDICINE for you to be in YOUR POWER and SERVICE.

 

For me it’s Rockstar and then Star but it’s the unique coding AS the Muse Magician.

 

For you, it may not literally be ‘Starlet’….Starlet may be more invisible but serves as the amplification and transfiguration OF your unique codex in divine service resolved of visibility wounds to the world so you can have the influence (and even make money) with the people you are ultimately meant to serve IN your fullest Beauty, codes and active service truth.

 

So the real challenge is that I was the guy behind the scenes, but I’ve realized (through Muse’ decree) that I am meant to not just be visible but be RIDICULOUSLY visible…and that means triggering ALLLLLL of my security related comfort and visibility issues.

 

Because something like THAT is massive identity level transformation.

 

Maybe YOUR gap is that there is one archetype that puts you IN your shameless public service and power but it THREATENS everything you are now and the comfort if you’ve been hiding out also.

 

I was the one who (as a 5/1 DEFINED cave living and endless internal seeking of security before being ready to ‘share with the world’.

 

This is me coming out of my cave to interact socially

 

 

Yes; there’s kind of an ugly go-getter beauty to him, but that’s not quite it. I represent the evolution of Beauty and charisma on the frontlines, so I am ESPECIALLY being tested because I have to become the testament of the brand and this work. For all my past fugliness, I have to become the swan…fortunately it is my truth in spirit; it just has to be accessed, embodied and expressed AGAINST ALL ODDS and subconscious sabotage (including the fugly duckling and quasimodo-gremlin).

 

I can’t tell you how much anxiety I’ve had.

 

But I was/am an extreme case of visibility wounds. I remember doing improv acting on stage at high school and I literally froze for 2 minutes while people were watching me to finish a skit.

 

All of this was REAL for me; a lifelong plague…and ironically it’s a prime HUMAN or incarnate shadow of the Muse line; performance anxiety.

 

One time I was at a famous internet marketing seminar in a beautiful ballroom for dinner and Yanik Silver had tables come together to form teams and work on some problem. There was a healthy competitive environment amongst them and at some point, I was like ‘give me the microphone, I’ve got a point to make’ and then I was standing and became radically self-conscious…

 

I saw and felt ALL of the eyeballs were on me (a few hundred people with their fancy glass chalices clinging, etc.) and I tried to hold my voice steady from cracking…

 

I don’t even remember what I said but I think I juts finished my sentence and sat down in humility. All I remember afterwards was he gave the microphone to a man who DID have public confidence and a strong accent…

 

Yanik had him say ‘fine Corinthian leathers’. I do remember that. I felt smaller than invisible.

 

BUT…That’s what inspired me to host 2 free live workshops in Houston to help overcome my speaking and visibility anxiety. When it started I was at the head of the table with around 14 men; half of whom flew in from around the country and it took me a few minutes of speaking to finally ‘drop into the zone’.

 

I was the one who still had so much performance anxiety before being invited to speak onstage in Montreal in 2006 as a ‘natural’ dating coach at the Cliff’s List convention that I was swigging shots of rum from a Malibu bottle in my hotel room BEFORE going on stage just to alleviate the anxiety.

 

Somehow I think it really helped and neutralized my performance jitters away.

 

I was the one who AT my first David DeAngelo seminar in Chicago at the end in 2005 waited in line and had so much ANXIETY built up just waiting to speak to him (b/c of the power dynamic mixed with my excitement of what I was doing) that I couldn’t slow my speaking down.

 

There’s a hidden clip of me somewhere online and you would be like ‘that can’t be Rion’.

 

I had so much anxiety in recording the ‘interview with dating guru’ of the month (in late 2007 or so) that I locked my Himalayan cat-boy in the bathroom so that I could focus record into the funny looking tape machine he had sent on the carpet of my Houston apartment while he and I talked on the device.

 

(Eben Pagan then invited me to SPEAK at the Man Transformation summit in L.A. which I think was in JAN. 2008 and I HAD to say yes despite having so much anxiety).

 

I had so much anxiety speaking on stage I didn’t know if I would ever get through it…there were several 100 people there with cameras recording.

Mortifyingly;

 

He kind of said through the microphone talking to a crew member (Royster productions I think) ‘Yeah this isn’t working’ as he walked towards stage.

 

Eventually HE STOPPED the cameras (or not to use them later) and took a big step in the front onto the stage/pulpit to ask me privately but in front of 100’s (mics off) if we could switch the format because it ‘just wasn’t working’ (but that he did value what I had to say). How would you feel in this exact scenario?

 

This was a BIG event and I’ve never seen anything like that happen…

 

I’ll share what happened at the very bottom.

 

But really; although I got better at speaking especially on a smaller scale and hosting small retreats; my images issues and anxieties further compounded because I knew I was meant for greatness. How am I going to LEAD the allure and charisma revolution movement WORLDWIDE if I DON’T overcome the deep ugliness and visibility wounds within?

 

Remember; I stayed ‘cozy’ for YEARS but I knew that I would eventually have to BE SEEN in order to truly have the INFLUENCE and impact my soul was meant to have (ESP. because it’s all so visual centric). And now; social media is WHERE IT’S AT. So whatever angle you look at it; we’re all influencers and the FULLEST version of yourself is SOME form of influencer…and if you’re triggered by influencer, then just redefine what it means because you and I have codes that MUST get out there…unless we allow the shadows, doubts, insecurities to sabotage us and keep us in an ILLUSION of safety.

 

I recently caught the MindValley ; as you may know Vishen Lakhiani is actually a long-time peer of mine. We literally had the same best friends in college when I was at UW-Madison and we would drive to U of M to party on some weekends. Anyways; he was saying that 2026 is the land-rush for FOUNDERS.

 

With the advent of AI accelerating, people are going to want more CONNECTION and trust with RELIABLE sources…not companies per se but the actual FOUNDERS and those who create and sculpt their brand ecosphere.

 

THIS is where social media is at now so if you’re not primed to BE SEEN and leverage social media, well this could be one of many ways in which you are holding back on your greater purpose (including BEING SEEN).

 

Your Star/let codex holds the IDENTITY level clarity and POWER for you to be in your highest truth, beauty, power and service in alignment with your soul purpose….it holds that for me, it holds it for you (whether you’re conscious of it or not).

 

Archetypes do not have the same problems we do…it’s really just about having a way to access and embody that encoded consciousness to mix and amplify your own soul codes.

 

And the public one for you probably holds THE KEYS to your greatness in social and spiritual influence.

 

So as far as me…..I was never the ROCKSTAR. It was just a secret obsessive pipe dream that I’ve had my whole life. I admired stars and secretly wanted to be one but I never felt like I was worthy,.

 

To be clear; I never had imposter syndrome (and you or others might); but speaking of myself I’ve had OTHER hardcore visibility wounds and anxieties in the extreme. But still; how am I going to be an influencer TO stars and starlets?

 

It seemed light years away. But my codex holds the power and the codes…I just had to find a way to step into ROCKSTAR which is the social amplification and an apex of attention for feminine Beauty and Beauty influencers to CHANGE THE GAME (it’s all Muse’ brilliant strategy to be honest).

 

How could the anxious, FUGLY duckling, insecure, hiding out version of me BE THAT embodied and non-fakeable version of myself?

 

Because remember; the highest status people are like HAWKS who can sniff out any posers or fakers so the POWER and self-image I have must be real (and divine). I have to be the real thing….I AM the real thing in ESSENCE (like you may be); it’s about EMBODIMMENT and expression in influence LIKE a star or starlet who can face, engage, inspire and MOVE the collective in the larger currents with your unique codes that are compelling and socially contagious.

 

THAT’S WHERE THE POWER OF THIS AVASTAR WORK COMES IN.

 

So…over this 2 weeks I’m going to be sharing more codes in and around my transformation as well as more Starlet codes related to overcoming extreme sabotage and codes around HOW to make real progress to be IN your power and codes against all odds in ‘being seen’.

 

And you know what?

 

My (Social) Rockstar era is beginning. It’s more important that OTHERS have the experience and affect of it; but it’s still important to have the INTERNAL compass of your my Star/let codex consciously so that you are ALIGNED.

 

I use the Beauty Sorcerer more publicly and the ‘brand’ is really Rion Kati and having influence as a real star/lightworker, etc. but as a ‘brand’ but I’m sharing this with you as part of my (and the) AvaStar process.

 

If you’re following me on Instagram, there’s a LOT going on in my JUST released video because (for me and you) the impossible is WITHIN REACH. It proves this work is real (oh and ‘miracles’ are already happening for the lady AvaStar clients). I’ll deconstruct what’s going on b/c in some way, I’m not ‘competing’ with the late Michael Hutchence of INXS, BUT we’re both 5/1’s and…well, stay tuned (or check it out now). I’ll speak to it soon.

 

STARDOM is the mid and long-term outlook but in a sense, I’m already a star in the work that I do and those sub-markets (now really post-debut and going visual public public).

 

 

OH; so what happened when I was speaking at the Man Transformation event when Eben Pagan/David DeAngelo stepped up on stage to STOP my speaking presentation (which was printed to DVD’s and sold as a product later)?

 

Well…they took a quick 4 minute stretch break to set up some couches and somehow that did the trick; we went into a sit-down interview format and it alleviated most of my anxiety and saved the day.

 

Yes, it’s THAT Eben Pagan famous marketer; he’s been a multi-millionaire for a long time. I actually have him LAUGHING…here’s a screen shot of that. I was doing a Mr. Anderson impression from Beavis & Butt-head.

 

 

I HAD TO DO BE THERE and speak because I had codes that NO ONE ELSE HAD in that industry; literally no one else was sharing this (and I was frustrated they weren’t), so I had to fight through my anxieties and do the right thing. I was still one of the very few ‘naturals’ in the dating and seduction industry back then.

 

I even had 1 man give me a standing ovation near the front left (speaker’s view). Fortunately overcoming my anxieties opened all kinds of doors for me b/c I knew that I HAD to do it or I couldn’t live with myself.

 

Stay tuned to more real world Star/let codes on the blog soon…and yes, the AvaStar Makeover is available.

 

 

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