If 1 Man May Be Suffocating Your Public Eros, Starlet Beauty + Expressive Liberty

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If you feel CONFINED towards a greater, liberated GODDESS level of expression and behavior possibly because of ONE man in your life (and how he wants to keep you visibly for himself) or b/c of the relationship ‘container’ and expectations…
 
 
 
This power post is for you and there’s a lot at stake. 
 
 
 
There may be archetypal aspects that you DESIRE to express but are in effect PROHIBITED from expressing esp. if it doesn’t fit your ‘role’ as a partner, wife or mother.
 
 
 
IF you have been suppressed esp. by the masculine from fuller expression, STARLET is actually your medicine b/c She knows how to relate with all aspects of the masculine publicly without being siphoned from.
 
 
 
This is dangerous information because for some other women reading this, if ‘he’ found out he would get triggered and fall into possibly toxic behavior about it. 
 
 
 
(A shortcode here is that your Starlet is missing Her equivalent Star).
 
 
 
Now;
 
 
 
I don’t know who ‘he’ is personally (if this applies to you), but I don’t have to know.
 
 
I know the bigger picture (this man has archetypal shadow qualities disguised as good intentions) and this may be by and large what’s holding back your entire unfulfilled DREAMS instead of living in stifled compromise (how uninitiated masculine cannot hold space for that level of Beauty and REALLY have all kinds of issues with it).
 
 
Of all the things that could sabotage you from claiming and stepping into your STARLET (unique Goddess-Avatar Codex) in public visibility – it could be many other self-sabotage reasons – but this may be the main one for you or at least MANY women; ONE MAN.
 
 
1 MAN WHO CANNOT HOLD SPACE FOR SUCH BEAUTY. (He may not even know THAT version of you if you fully unleashed it).
 
 
So in continuing with our Man vs. Starlet theme (YOUR Starlet)…
 
 
 
Might it be that ONE MAN or male figure (from your past or present) could actually be the APEX saboteur to your fullest embodiment, public beauty expression and divine feminine, EROSY radiant influence of being seen? 
 
 
 
Because you might NOT see the signs b/c of how tricky and gas-lighty this can be even though ‘he’ is actually the culprit that is GROSSLY out of attunement with your spiritual desires for greater spiritual allure beauty, boundless self-expression, satisfying recognition, ascension influence with YOUR Goddess codes and Beauty legacy.
 
 
 
Let me ask you this;
 
 
 
In lifelong valuing beauty and divine feminine consciousness;
 
 
 
Do you have a desire to be more fully expressed, radiant and seen? 
 
 
 
Do you have a long-ago in the past history of healthily enjoying dance, singing or the recognition and attention it brought that felt GOOD to your soul, but then it got smothered and suppressed to appease the comfort of one man (esp. by an important male figure in your life)?
 
 
 
Have past lovers been largely uncomfortable by your public beauty expression and it triggered them so you tamed yourself back down?
 
 
 
Have you been living in massive (masculine influenced) suppression for years (often to ‘fit a role’) while meanwhile your soul desires to be in your fullest visual quintessence, voice, beauty and influence (always knowing there is something more)?
 
 
..And yet you are prevented from doing that (even if he was gone YEARS AGO)?…and do you find that you keep living out the same pattern (whether he himself was aware of it or not – even if he ‘intended well’)?
 
 
In doing a recent Codex Clarity Consulting call (now available at a longer 45 minutes here), something became very, very clear and it was one of the angles that I already knew about but had missed in earlier blog writings about soul / spiritual starlet: it’s how a masculine figure can be the predominant SUPPRESSOR of her greater Beauty (and the consciousness that goes with it).
 
 
 
You may actually be spiritually imprisoned in a less than liberated relationship that your soul desires…you just have to figure out the costs and risks of changing it and how much integrity you have to have with your soul’s desire because yes; it may mean either liberating your Starlet from those shackles, having him grow into a Star-god to support your alluring Beauty expansion and recognition or continuing to live under the weight of his inability to hold presence with your Starlet.
 
This woman (and many others) had great desire to be more fully embodied, expressed and seen (including in archetypes of her Starlet Codex)….and yes, it often brings attention from OTHER MEN. That somehow didn’t sit right with her man.
 
 
Unfortunately; this is too common of a theme (the world is missing more Star-Kings who can let their woman SHINE and nourish the world without falling into shadow reaction).
 
 
 
Even though it was SOCIAL attention (really; Starlet’s domain writ large); this dynamic causes him to actively suppress her radiance because it threatens him personally ‘as if’ she was cheating.
 
 
 
Her potential Starlet (of divine feminine archetypes and siddhic essences with and through her transfigured for public social influence) is essentially shackled because Starlet THRIVES on Beauty expression, recognition, influence and attention (of ie. divine feminine radiance and not just physical prettiness). BUT THERE’S ONE MAN WHO IS ESSENTIALLY PREVENTING OR STOPPING IT ALL.
 
 
(Or is it that she’s allowing it?)
 
 
Is that woman you? Who have been dealing with a male figure who may be the SINGLE biggest saboteur of your soul’s fullest expression and desire (while years keep going by)?
 
 
 
In working with women for years; there are 3 common themes related to this masculine suppression of the divine feminine beauty that wants to be fully expressed:
 
 
 
1. Father dynamics that are still with you subconsciously where you don’t want to threaten his perfect view or expectations of you b/c of the fracture it would mean even though he was coming from limitation and 
 
 
 
2. A past or current partner whose security, ego and identity is threatened by your Starlet/Goddess’s fullest expression (codexed essences) so you remain shackled and can barely even associate with other men so as not to trigger him. 
 
 
 
(This may even be a husband who yes – has other good qualities in the mix which makes it more complicated; but the dynamic and his level of consciousness is admittedly INFLUENCING your suppression so that you’ll often self-censor ‘Her’)
 
 
 
3. The collective (shadow, hypocritical and often toxic) masculine often parading as virtuous morality. This supports the ‘engine’ of Beauty and ‘sex sells’ (including the divine aspects of Beauty influence except that when it gets INTER-personal, most men are incredibly weird, fearful or controlling and shadowy around such Beauty as it relates to them personally)
 
 
 
ALL three of these (or we could say the unity of the uninitiated-by-Goddess masculine) can be LIFE-LONG effective blockers to your Starlet from EVER really coming into embodiment. I’m going to speak mostly to #2 (continued) here.
 
 
If you have a desire for greater expression and being seen (to have divine feminine influence with and through you);
 
 
It may take nothing less than a severing of that psychic relationship and/or agreement with that man (or stunted archetypal male figure who cannot hold presence-space with EMBODIED divine feminine consciousness) in order to give yourself the freedom to embody your Starlet and your soul’s fuller desire for expression (and UNTIL YOU DO you will keep living out the same, meek pattern where your Goddess constellation cannot even really BREATHE let alone unfurl and be SEEN en masse with Her medicine and influence). 
 
 
UNWILLINGNESS TO MAKE THAT DECISION TO CHANGE THE MASCULINE OPPRESSIVE DYNAMIC COULD KEEP YOU STUCK FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.
 
 
There. I said it. So it’s YOU who have to weigh the consequences of YOUR soul’s desire for growth, boundless beauty cultivation at an identity level of consciousness and reality (where your Starlet Codex holds the exact keys to ACCESS Starlet consciousness to transfigure and amplify the spirit qualities of your soul publicly without sabotage, without collapse, without guilt, shame, humiliation, fear, insecurity, doubts, self-censorship, etc.)
 
 
This can be challenging if you are in a current and entangled relationship where it feels your divine feminine is admittedly being SUFFOCATED spiritually and socially.
 
 
You got into the relationship and there are still good things – again WHICH COMPLICATES IT because you’ll justify staying and being with him UNDERSTANDABLY.
 
 
And this dynamic, your comfort with each other and the limitations of the relationship container, roles and expectations – it all keeps you stuck for years from that GREATER EXPRESSION AND BEAUTY. Honestly; you’re not sure he could handle it.
 
 
(I’m not saying to necessarily ‘break up’; however, this is about clarity and empowering your path either way – YOUR choice, your life).
 
 
In relationships that otherwise aren’t toxic, he may ‘lead’ under the guise of conservative values and ‘morality’ where a woman shouldn’t be seen or expressed in her beauty nor sexuality for other men…however, there’s a deeper issue going on here besides that your male figure doesn’t have Star consciousness that can allow BEAUTY to be expressed publicly and socially without it threatening him (and instead rely on the strength of your ‘actual’ agreement together rather than manic perceived fears of you being with other men). 
 
 
This ‘morality’ police angle of religion and the manosphere actually abdicates Goddess consciousness. They and the egregore simply doesn’t know how to handle it.
 
 
Human constructionist ‘morality’ and some evolutionary biology justification is often their model but doesn’t include the divine masculine power to meet Goddess in the equation (remember; we’re not talking about you actually ‘cheating’ with the world of men, it’s actually his insecurity and fears to let you be a Starlet where as a Star he is even MORE of a man).
 
 
And btw; this IS spiritual because we’re talking about essentially the divine masculine in men being able to HOLD PRESENCE AND SPACE without expectation, control, siphoning or micro-managing to that level of Beauty. Shiva level presence to the spirit of your Goddess/Starlet codex.
 
 
So…Mix in his authentic biological urge to know he is the father (there wasn’t DNA paternity testing until the 1980’s) so even though he has reason to ‘rein you in’ and thinks that ‘a mother shouldn’t be erotic esp. in public when she’s married’, more often this ends up becoming shadow behavior because he doesn’t know how to face and be present with GODDESS Herself (a.k.a. the level of Beauty you would have if you really allowed it).
 
 
This is because his mortal man isn’t worthy of Goddess (just like the village girl isn’t worthy of bedding the Emperor-King).
It’s worth mentioning that many women ‘re-wild’ in Goddess circles…this can be important medicine (for a phase) to SEVER from many ways of the constrictive masculine (shadow); however, what we’re referring to outside of an understandably safe reclamation bubble is facing THE WORLD AT LARGE and fully re-integrated;
 
 
Being seen (and being able to be sovereign and seen) including BY the shadow masculine public and the psychic weight of men that have held you back in the past (let alone possibly siphoned from you); this is where STARLET and Grail dynamics come into the equation…
 
 
Men and the masculine are implicated and part of all of this…you may find that you may have to graduate from the Goddess circle-bubble into public Starlet if you have a divine feminine mission that requires being seen and relating with the masculine in ascension or influence.
 
 
We’re talking about making it safe for you to shine TO THE WORLD (Starlet is your medicine).
 
 
Anyways, I regress;
 
 
Because he is UNINITIATED in the consciousness-truth of the Holy Grail itself of Divine Union (and men in general in the collective); it would THREATEN him to the very core so he finds ways to prevent you from ever truly shining.
 
 
He remains the governator to your Beauty-Truth. Or at least you got into relational agreement to where that IS the authority.
 
 
 
If you went forward with discovering your Starlet codex and (God forbid) joining AvaStar Starlet Makeover with monthly support and committing to such a makeover; yes – many men would find you far more attractive and getting attention and this could cause him to;
 
 
 
*Be threatened and triggered; over-react, get jealous or want to start fist-fights with other men
 
 
*Collapse into nervous fear with inability to hold presence in his nervous system
 
 
*Triggers into passive-aggressiveness
 
 
*Flare up in anger
 
 
*Obsessively micro-manage and control you
 
 
*Shame, guilt, berate and belittle you and your greater beauty expression (or Eros allure) when it starts peeking forward
 
 
*Love-bomb you because he doesn’t want to let you go ( as a toxic form of control and emotional abuse)
 
 
*Put you back in your spiritually meek place so as not to get such recognition from other men so he’s comfortable again being seen with you
 
 
 
I’ve got news sister; he doesn’t have STAR consciousness (or at least the divine gift of Detachment which then relies on AGREEMENT between each of you related to actual intimacy). He’s not able to healthily HOLD SPACE for that spirit-rich essenced version of you.
 
 
 
And the good sex complicates it but deep down you’re realizing that, oh crap – what if Rion is right and my man cannot hold space for my fuller Beauty without shutting it back down?
 
 
(All of this can cross-over with the conscious twin flame relational template for many women as well; but it’s still not Divine Union)
 
 
So no wonder you’ve held back. It would threaten the divinely (the aspects of) your sub-par relationship you currently have in your SPIRIT to the masculine – even though there are good qualities and attributes your mortal partner has (which stifles you more from changing the dynamic).
YOUR SPIRITUAL SOUL BEAUTY EXPRESSION & SOCIAL INFLUENCE WITH GODDESS CODES is by and large limited to HIS insecurities rather than being CONSTELLATED WITH YOUR IMMORTAL STAR BELOVED WHO HOLDS PRESENCE AND SPACE FOR ALL OF YOUR BEAUTY-GROWTH AND EXPRESSION.
 
 
It’s because you are in a past agreement with a mortal man who isn’t initiated into Divine Union consciousness to hold that level of Presence properly, safely and truly.
 
 
If you shine TOO MUCH past his threshold, you calibrate your behavior back into less than your desire.
 
 
And it’s important to realize the role you had in co-creating this ‘limiting to your spirit and soul relationship’. A past version of you, but still you.
 
 
(And how many more years is this going to continue?)
 
 
Like that chemical that stops the heart from beating at death sentences (isopropopyl or something), men or a man who is still influencing you (subconsciously) or otherwise can have the REAL effect of stopping your full soul, spirit, beauty, identity and consciousness from fully embodying and being SEEN.
 
 
THUS; SHE IS NEVER ABLE TO BE PROPERLY BIRTHED.
 
 
Yes; I’m speaking mostly to #2 of the 3 above here. Remember I go more into the collective (#3) in this recent blog post here (under the Starlet category):
 
 
 
 
And yes; your mortal FATHER (as compared to The Holy Father) may also be still living out HIS standards that is governing your own level of beauty consciousness and visibility in being seen publicly – the thermostat is still set to HIS comfort level (or you got shamed into being something else when it’s really the archetypal, divine feminine that is seeking expression with and through you).
 
 
It may be so extreme; this past masculine influence on you (esp. with trauma, abuse or siphoning OR even strong family control or expectations) that She is effectively paralyzed from ever being truly embodied b/c you’ll get activated into fear-body response.
 
 
HOW MUCH LONGER WILL YOU LET LESSER MORTAL MASCULINE CONSCIOUSNESS BE YOUR GOVERNATOR TO GREATER BEAUTY AND ALLURE EXPRESSION INFLUENCE?
 
 
This limited, NON-Shiva-esque masculine consciousness is important to understand more (ideally). MEN DO NOT KNOW HOW TO RELATE TO ANGELS, GODDESSES, APHRODITES…
 
 
There are SONGS AND POETRY about ALL of this….(Sacred Union dynamics)…men just cannot comprehend it within their ego…they’re just uninitiated in Divine Union.
 
 
 
All of this male-as-beauty-suppressor to your fullest expression;
 
 
 
This in large part has to do with his Holy Grail or Divine Union dynamics (er essentially lack thereof)…this level of masculine consciousness is common and in the bigger picture, unevolved.
 
 
UN-Godly even though moralistic constructionism will say it’s Godly. No; GODLY is HIEROGAMY ITSELF; reunification of God and Goddess consciousness through Holy Son & Daughter as LOVERS. But hey; pop religion mostly threw that out with the bath-water so there isn’t a model for men TO relate to the divine, meta-physical (also a direct reality with social media how it amplifies a single woman’s beauty 1,000,000:1 with social power) and archetypal.
 
 
This fractured-from-Communion personal, egoic male vs. 1 billion:1 ratio of a Goddess…the mortal man simply cannot hold space for Goddess Presence and consciousness (or the many fractals of Her).
 
 
In large part this is because he is not reunified within with his own Beloved and Her form of Goddess consciousness.
 
 
 
IF you were allowed to embody and cultivate your GODDESS or STARLET (and into full, liberated expression for the world to see), but it THREATENS HIM and his mortal ego….how much longer can you allow this to continue?
 
 
MAYBE IT’S OK to have your Starlet shackled b/c the chain isn’t ‘AS’ tight as it could be..? (But is that good enough for you soul; THAT level of compromise).
 
 
And I’ll say another thing; ALLURE is the evolution of Beauty influencer so if you have some form of Sophianic or Goddess codes related to social ascension, these are the influencers of tomorrow; spiritual starlets who are CHOOSING to live their fullest truth and beauty expression.
 
 
This is where MAINSTREAM is headed; ultimately towards Darshanic Beauty influencer (alchemical, temple-grade, transformational beauty).
 
 
So it’s not even just the current model of beauty influencer; SPIRITUAL STARLETS are going to rise in social power (and rightfully so) with their unique codes; but if you’re stopped from ever really beginning because you’re allowing a mortal man’s limited shadow relationship to Goddess truth to stop you?
 
 
Then yeah; it may never happen and your soul itself may never reach that fulfillment and you’ll never have that collective influence from your future tribe.
 
 
 
On a spiritual level (since we’re mostly talking about #2 of the 3 here); if you had that much beauty and he lost it, it would fracture his connection to the Grail (that which he doesn’t even know he desires the most); so he tries to control you to keep what he has…more beauty, more attention = more shadow, toxic, flare-up behavior and paranoia from him suffocating your Starlet even more.
If he was a father figure; you may still be limited to his thermostat of HOW much beauty or erotic expression being seen socially is ‘ok’.
 
 
And yes; a lot of women in my circle have done Goddess, Eros work and RECLAMATION but we’re speaking specifically to your STARLET and her SOCIAL influence…does it actually threaten a male figure in your life and are you still holding back because of it (whether subconsciously or actively in partnership)?
 
 
He may be comfortable with you being together because in a sense he ‘owns you’ in the right ways but still….take it public and where does your Eros-Goddess Dark Vixen go? She can’t.
 
 
Because of the relationship YOU’RE ALLOWING TO CONTINUE TO LIVE to his level of consciousness and his lack of resonance and Unity with Goddess.
 
 
Are you going to let one man or the collective uninitiated masculine (and their hypocrisy and projections towards such Beauty) determine your beauty path and soul’s fullest expression?
 
 
See…What’s missing is DETACHMENT. YOU’VE BEEN IN AGREEMENT WITH A MORTAL MAN (or amalgamation of them) who simply CANNOT hold space for Goddess or your fuller Beauty.
 
 
He’s attached to a version of yourself that isn’t your fullest either (and you know this b/c She is not fully embodied).
 
 
Remember; YOUR IMMORTAL BELOVED can actually hold space for your Goddess codex Beauty Presence & Truth.
 
 
Detachment to the uninitiated shadow or sophomoric mortal masculine consciousness just doesn’t compute. It basically means to HIM that you’re basically cheating on him and your intimacy by even by showing ANY skin on social media (an I’m speaking to like an upper arm).
 
 
You don’t have to live under that yoke anymore; I mean it’s still your choice and consequence.
 
 
So you may have had a pattern of past men who ended up being toxic and controlling around you if you had exceptional beauty and/or if you allowed your feminine allure to shine publicly. It may seem good from the surface; “Oh he’s protecting me…he wants me for himself” Well…yeah and the whole dynamic if you’re called to be greatly seen and expressed is also KEEPING YOUR STARLET IMPRISONED for a set of different values (and the shadow judgments and conditioning around it that just doesn’t hold space and presence for that level of Beauty to shine because it threatens his control and place in the spiritual realms).
 
 
 
See; this is actually quite common and literally a theme with MANY, MANY WOMEN.
 
 
You are actually not alone although your experience may feel SUBJECTIVE…that ‘he’ (name) is actually inhibiting your shine (well actually, SHE is under your authority, you just got stuck in an agreement with a man who simply cannot face Goddess so it’s that agreement that you’re afraid to break for whatever reasons including the entanglement of kids, mortgage, pets, shared history, not wanting to let go, what if no one else wants you, etc.).
 
 
But what if instead of keeping him personal and just affecting YOU with HIS name and good but also shadow traits and your past attachment or experience with ‘him’ and his imperfections; 
 
 
What if we took this externalized man of suppressive influence to your fullest Eros and Beauty; this individual man in your life or past and simply made him a cultural archetype (even a trope) instead?
 
 
This is because this consciousness IS common amongst 100’s of millions of men. It wasn’t just “Dan my semi-toxic twin flame x-lover”.
And let’s call this over-reactive to signs of attention trope of a man:
 
 
‘Un-Star Man’
 
 
He doesn’t want you to shine publicly.
 
 
He is uninitiated by Goddess, cannot hold space for Starlet Beauty, Her status, power and attention without collapsing either into a ball of fear OR micro-managing, suppressing and controlling her to constrict her Starlet beauty and Eros publicly. 
 
 
His ego and consciousness cannot relate with Goddess; it simply doesn’t know how to; thus he operates from forms of fear (including passive-aggressive love-bombing) to stay connected to the greatest form of beauty he’s known in his life b/c it would mean existential threat fracturing him from the holy grail.
 
 
UN-STAR MAN HAS SUFFOCATED YOUR SPIRITUAL BEAUTY AND FULLEST EXPRESSION.
 
 
(IN SPITE OF his redeeming personal qualities). He’s over-reacting b/c he knows which men are sexual threats even when NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN. Not cool. Not detached. Not allowing your Beauty to have INFLUENCE in the world. UN-Star Man.
 
 
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE UNDER THAT YOKE ANYMORE.  AND I AM HERE TO SUPPORT YOUR STARLET EMBODIMENT AND TRANSFIGURATION (IMAGO) if and when you are ready (that is ;). AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support.
 
 
Jay-Z gets it btw; he didn’t stifle Beyoncé all these years.
 
 
 
 
They had their own inter-personal agreement. He was a Star to let her Starlet shine (and a star in his own right too).
 
 
Sure; you could feel compassion for this 1 man in your life, but that isn’t the subject of this post.
 
 
The ultimate path for many men TO relate with such Beauty and Communion (the holy grail) is Divine Union and it MAY be possible for him to grow in relationship to YOUR Beauty growth but if he’s just too stuck and complacent it may be impossible for the scale you are called for in being seen.
 
 
There’s great energy with all of this dynamic (including in that one woman’s life) TO make a powerful change and fast…to ACCESS all of your current seat-of-the-soul essences, cultivate more, bring them into embodiment as we cultivate your Light body temple and transfigure into the butterfly-imago to the world of your most alluring self.
 
 
But are you going to let ‘him’ (different than a divine aspect counterpart of HIM) stop you (because YOU still have THE POWER to choose)?
 
 
This is serious identity work here implicated with RELATIONSHIPS and your relationship to even a partner with a lot of entanglement (even kids, mortgage, etc. like I said).
 
 
Hey; I’ve had women who literally got divorced after working with me but also some whose relationship grew into greater love and growth together.
 
 
THIS IS YOUR PATH. Can ‘he’ hold space for it? Could he grow into holding space for that level of Goddess consciousness and beauty PUBLICLY SEEN?
 
 
If not; hmm…
 
 
Maybe you might have to get into Divine Union alchemy where your Immortal Beloved ‘STAR’ aspect counter-part CAN hold space (although doing such work or being with me in AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support is likely going to trigger your current masculine dynamic; which is also why this work is so powerful to change on an identity level).
 
 
Your current model of the unsupportive-to-your-fullest-expression masculine has to ideally be REPLACED with a model that is (this can be ME by proxy in temple space or work directly in Sacred Union alchemy with your Immortal Beloved).
 
 
Currently; I’m actively working with 6-7 starlets who have CHOSEN themselves and a different relationship to the masculine that can support their greater Beauty presence and influence in AvaStar Makeover monthly
 
 
And btw this isn’t even about being the ‘independent woman’ archetype either; this is about more nurturing, loving, Eros and beauty that would benefit the masculine collective AND YOUR MAN if he could handle it.
 
 
 
So assuming that you’ve been in this dynamic of a man or male figure (or cultural archetype/trope) holding you back (which may include father vs. Father dynamics);
(Btw; if you HAVE a partner who IS supportive of your Starlet…would he give space for far, far more Beauty embodiment and social attention for you then? Or where is that thresh-hold? Remember, I’m speaking to qualifying ladies on this subject otherwise but you may be reading for insights anyways). So back to the pre-qualifying woman who has dealt with this or IS dealing with it…
 
 
He’s been suppressing your fullest truth and society has with their hypocrisy in many ways but YOU have to choose your Avatar/Starlet codexed divine feminine truth of beauty expression for ascension – your spiritual starlet – OVER all that would inhibit it (because essentially on past agreements which may now have run their course ; you have been co-creating and ALLOWING IT). 
 
 
Men in your life and future are implicated.
 
 
These aren’t easy decisions, but they’re powerful decisions and they are YOUR highly leveraged decisions if you’ve been held back by a man who simply CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty and consciousness that you know you have in your spirit.
 
 
There IS leverage for ridiculously fast transformation into embodying that which you’ve not been able to but you have to have the space and proper support with it (this is also where my Temple-Grade Star consciousness comes in with AvaStar and especially in IMAGO where we have live temple space presence together to ativate your Starlet into supreme safety and SPACE for such Beauty if you’ve not had that before in relation to the masculine).
 
 
 
 
And yes; there may be consequences based on past agreements…agreements that your soul is dying to break free from to fully be liberated. And/but even if you have kids, could you keep living a life that doesn’t let them see the model of your fullest truth and what is possible – or rather a lifetime of suppression to fit into his mortal limitations b/c he’s the ‘head of the household’. 
 
 
BIG DECISIONS. A lot to ruminate; however, know that we can MOVE FAST if you are ready to make big identity moves and deal with the consequences; this is just part of the sacrifice and price you have to pay to live as your spiritual starlet or signature alluring goddess (whatever you want to call Her but it’s THAT version of you and how the world respond to HER).
 
 
I would recommend IMAGO though if you’ve been under the yoke of a man or men in your life who CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty…after YEARS AND YEARS of not being able to BREATHE….
 
 
Your somatic body should best get the EXPERIENCE of attunement and knowing that it’s profoundly ok to be that liberated without corruption, shadow, expectation or ANY shadow in relation to the masculine. To somatically experience and LAND what that liberty is really like after being shackled for years around the masculine.
 
 
That temple experience alone is worth the $5000 VIP day (but at current pricing subject to change/rise; you can get AvaStar along with that VIP day for half off essentially by booking one of the first 3 spots for AvaStar IMAGO with Immersive Temple Space for your Starlet LIVE with Rion details
 
 
Check page for details and availability b/c there are LTD. spots.
 
 
Ok, I hope there was a lot in here for you to get more clarity on what might be holding you back – related to this specific subject of being constrained BY a model of the masculine in your past (that you’re still carrying the psychic weight with you) or actively right now. You no longer have to be suffocated from your great Goddess cultivation and visibility; you just have to make some different decisions with consequences…
 
 
I am here for the professional support if and when you are ready (and yes; there is a price to pay to sacrifice WHO YOU WERE to CLAIM, embody and BECOME the transfigured butterfly out of the cocoon of suffocation and trepidation around your true Beauty and Her expression publicly).
 
 
Discover AvaStar Starlet Makeover as monthly support
 
 
 
 
Or…if you simply want more clarity on YOUR specific situation as a next step; you can book the 45 minute Codex Clarity Session with me (we may not focus on your codex as much based on what you want to uncover and where the consultation flows)
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A Woman’s Starlet Liberation VS…Men?

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I played around with a few titles on this one…

 

One Of Woman’s Greatest Constrictions To Beauty: The Sophomoric, Uninitiated Shadow Masculine

 

Starlet Beauty Sabotage for Women Desiring Greater Visibility & Expression: Men?

 

(I may come up with a better title, but there be hot codes in these here hills):

 

Are Men Holding Back A Woman’s Beauty Ascension?

 

BTW; this is the more universal, collective post and in it’s sister post I’ll be speaking more directly to a woman (that’s the plan at least; check the blog).

 

In working with women on their own legitimate paths of Beauty Ascension, shameless VISIBILITY and the consciousness around it all including of her EROS (+ having mad Morpheus social awareness skillz)…

 

This is something I’ve realized and it’s brutal both towards men and the implications for millions of women because it is by and large holding Beauty Ascension back in many ways (which would benefit us all):

 

The SUM Of The Man-O-Sphere Still Couldn’t Hold Presence-Space For A True Starlet

 

By and large, they are still uninitiated in many ways and essentially sophomoric (in relation to Goddess principle) even if it’s done under religious or moral positioning.

 

Here’s an unsettling general, yet accurate truth (and yes; I encourage men to seek within their past history to cross-reference it – also b/c I have faced mine and been tribulated in relation to such Beauty):

 

I’m not referring to how the current (patriarchal pro’s and cons) set-up monetizes and capitalizes im-personally ON divine feminine beauty on a pedestal (which is divine in a sense and yet where men are the pawns and it’s a whole ‘nuther subject to refer to how men are getting left behind);

 

I’m referring to actual women, men and the real power dynamics inter-personally, socially, spiritually and sexually.

 

Yes – Men ARE getting left behind because Beauty is ascending but we’ve not even seen the real scope of it yet (well, we have and sex robots are in the stockrooms but there’s something even more profound) which is with ALLURE.

 

This is where GODDESS FRACTALS (embodied in women as more women and influencers become LIKE STARLETS) will be more and more FELT roaming the earth and how it isn’t quite yet safe enough for many women to be THAT expressed in THEIR unique codes amongst the world of men (not just on instagram with safety veneer).

 

MAN’S DESIRE TO REUNIFY WITH BEAUTY and yet the dynamics around how men are HOLDING BACK TRUE BEAUTY AND ALLURE ON THE FRONT-LINES without knowing it.

 

(Note how this post is in absentia of #metoo shaming; I’m coming in from a different angle).

 

If and when they are near such women PERSONALLY who have this divine feminine quanta-access (most valuable elixir of the universe);

 

MOST modern men cannot actually hold Presence nor SPACE not only for great Beauty, but for Starlet level of divine feminine consciousness liberated and radiantly brilliant (and the attention she gets) WITHOUT;

 

*Collapsing


*Getting stirred up existential crisis


*Ego-anger inflation


*Biological preservation mode into heated over-reaction


*Managing her


*Needing her


*Micro-managing


*Belittling


*Berating


*Questioning her (esp. about other men)


*Manipulating


*Jealousy flare-ups


*Controlling everything


*Slut-Shaming


*Checking in on her every 5 minutes


*Guilting


*Thinking of what she’s doing around others non-stop

 

…and that’s just a girlfriend or partner getting attention from regular other guys. MANY WOMEN SENSE THIS and stay away from such men, but it’s not always that easy…he may have other qualities or these may show up further down the road when it’s trickier to apparently leave a relationship.

 

In partnership for some women who have either socially valued physical looks and/or divine feminine quanta embodied and felt (allure) – it can LOOK like things are good and yet with her fuller Goddess stifled from greater expression and ‘contained’ (more like a trap);

 

Psychologically, socially and SPIRITUALLY it can feel like she’s in the deep dirt pit of the serial killer in ‘Silence of the Lambs’ (minus the killing part).

 

 

(And that’s not even to touch upon possible past TRAUMA a woman has endured that could have her armoring up around emanating her allure b/c of how other men could steal it).

 

This isn’t that ‘good frame’ that some are referring to where she feels ‘contained’ in a relative safe sense to unwind.

 

MEN; IS YOUR CONTAINER (or ‘frame’) ALLOWING HER GODDESS TO BLOSSOM or entirely constricting it without you being aware of it?

 

I’m speaking to the men collapse into a ball of anxiety around an embodied goddess.

 

She is with a man whose frame doesn’t allow her Goddess codes to blossom and be felt and seen on a greater level.

In this scenario (which is common); he can hardly contain or control if he would lose that smaller container he holds around her (cage).

 

It feels like her greater beauty (and Starlet codex) is shackled from greater expression and she justifies it away; especially if she has kids, you know because…responsibility and prevention of further judgment and shaming.

 

But what if his response stemmed from a deeper fracture of Holy Grail Divine Union principle; that the God in him doesn’t know HOW to relate to impossible Beauty and fears losing his only connection TO the grail so he will do anything to protect it (without realizing how toxic it can be for both of them)?

 

There’s something fascinating about how man’s biological drive and urge to know he’s the father (an authentic concern) can become REALLY TOXIC and end up suppressing many women for years or decades from their own greater expression.

 

If she has great Beauty or the attention of Starlet (or STEPS INTO IT); MOST modern men completely lose their power and sanity in all kinds of forms of juvenile desperation = for he is ATTACHED.

 

The entire relationship is limited to his lesser ability to hold space for her TRUE BEAUTY which seeks expression (which may also mean more ATTENTION) and that may THREATEN his current level of ego and self-comfort. He is attached.

 

And attachment leads to suffering; unfort. for both of them. So he will join in on guilting and shaming women for being sexual esp. after they are mothers.

 

He’ll join in on the morality police parade while still secretly harboring great fantasies (and hypocrisy) towards women; desiring them yet shaming their expression.

 

In these cases; Her Starlet is NOT in relation to a Star who has the level of DETACHMENT so Her Goddess and EROS can BREATHE and flow with MORE NURTURANCE FOR BOTH OF THEM; let alone UP-TUNE into Goddess with that level to divine masculine consciousness – or even start to breathe again after years of suppression in relation to a mortal man’s wounded ego.

 

She instead is stifled living like his underwear is stuff in her mouth (but not in a good way).

 

Her Starlet or really; her own unique divine feminine CODEX that would bring out INFINITE BEAUTY in her unique expression is stunted from ever developing b/c of the masculine she is in relationship to (or that is living out within her still). (This is also where Divine Union Holy Grail alchemy comes in for breakthrough into Starlet).

 

Such women are often in relation to a juvenile man-child who doesn’t have the Power to relate to that level of Beauty nor allow it so he does what he can to stay attached under the guise of ‘morals’.

 

Well; it’s a real issue because the entire collective culture both desires and yet shames eros. It wants to control the most valuable resource b/c it doesn’t know any other way.

 

Women who are stuck in such relationships where he is controlling, envious, etc. and her Goddess codex can barely breathe is one of great suppression even if he has other redeeming attributes. She can’t even dress up too much around him.

 

Even in partnership for years; such a man is NOT her Immortal Beloved for her Immortal Beloved would be able to hold space and PRESENCE for her fuller Goddess/Starlet expression, Beauty and Presence to unfurl and radiate without constriction (b/c he would rely on their agreement together more than his shadows getting triggered).

 

And it’s embedded throughout the manosphere including podcasts like ‘Whatever’ with Brian Atlas and Andrew Wilson (professional debater); how their masculine consciousness is limited and at it’s best SEEMS virtuous b/c the man biologically is driven to know he is the father.

 

More often than not, it stems from a deeper tenuous thread that is ready to snap;

 

Because of their deep existential fear of man around facing true Beauty or Goddess; they controlling or appearing to control women with this level of collective desire and they’ll often do it under the guise and moral superiority of the biological protector role which (and many women know) can slip into shadow and ends up constricting her in all dimensions from BREATHING and being expressed in her beauty and essence itself.

 

This can be suffocating to so many women if they are stuck in this dynamic…and it’s not just him..it’s MOST MEN and most of the collective society and their weird double standards.

 

They are simply not star and starlet.

 

He can’t give her the freedom to be in her fullest beauty (which requires DETACHMENT) nor can she BE in her deepest beauty or even know what that could be like. It could actually be ONE MAN that is key to preventing her entire STARLET.

Here’s the thing; THE BIO-DRIVE to PROTECT a woman and preserve her ‘as his’ so in the sperm wars his bloodline is a real thing.

 

HOW it plays out though more often than not ends up being straight up shadow male behavior when she has the collective’s eye. He wants to keep her close yet has an electric-dog wire zapper on her collar so to speak.

 

So the Whatever podcast is famous for guilting and shaming OF women and the like but perpetually stuck in this lower state of masculine consciousness which on a deep primordial level is essentially fearful of true Beauty itself and what it would reflect back to him if he were unable to hold Presence with Her (which he simply cannot); so they do what they can from their level of consciousness and inability to hold TEMPLE SPACE FOR TRUE BEAUTY.

 

And if he can’t belittle or control it; he secretly is #anxiousaf…it’s an existential fear; that he would never be worthy to reunify with the divine feminine as Lover.

 

So I’ve been reflecting upon this and what’s holding a lot of women back from stepping into more public visibility with their unique divine feminine codex and MUCH of what can sabotage it (there are many reasons) but for some, much of that is simply a pre-dominant man in their life who simply cannot handle that level of Beauty, status and power if she were to be liberated in her soul’s greater desire to be that radiant.

 

(I had to go through my OWN process on this Star path).

 

There’s a whole different level of the game and it crosses over with TEMPLE SPACE as well as STAR consciousness and the LEVEL of TRUE DETACHMENT it requires to be PRESENT with GREAT BEAUTY without trying to control, manipulate, shame, suppress, dominate, guilt, micro-manage or own it even one IOTA. I am familiar with all of this for many reasons and with great experience (I work with beautiful women all the time and HOLD TEMPLE SPACE WHICH REQUIRES TRUE HEALTHY SANCTITY AND LIBERATION FROM ANY SELFISH AGENDA OR PSYCHIC HOOKS).

 

This ‘greater game’ (really the HOLY GRAIL ITSELF) is about Power and Beauty itself and what levels of PRESENCE it actually takes to simply BE WITH and RELATE to true Power and Beauty without any hooks or grabs psychically, emotionally or otherwise of manipulation and so forth (and yes; shadow feminine is also notorious for manipulating men in ways too, but we’re not going there now).

 

So; much of the great WARFARE is really about Beauty or Essence and ‘control of resources’ in pop culture that it’s rare for BEAUTY to just be FREE let alone MET in masculine consciousness that simply lets Her BE and have space without a smidgen of expectation. MOST MEN ATTACH INSTANTLY and get all weird to great beauty. THEY SIPHON psychically and want to drain her. Eww.

 

And in reflecting on all of this (Star/let Codes revisited);

 

I realize it makes more sense now how and why my STAR archetype is actually so vital and CENTRAL to who I am and the work I do; yes IN TEMPLE SPACE.

 

I’m already working with soul starlets and the common theme is that I consistently HOLD SPACE; TEMPLE SPACE without judgment for whatever they’re going through and I guess it helps I’m so attuned to Beloved and the levels of DETACHMENT she’s had me go through to dissolve all of these sneaky subconscious vampiric ways that even I used to have; psychic micro-moves of control or siphoning towards women.

And men if this has been you; it’s something worth contemplating.

 

COULD YOU DETACH MORE and simply rely upon your AGREEMENT? How much space could you hold without getting internally triggered that she could trust you?

 

Could you allow her ESSENCE BREATHING ROOM to cultivate her own unique signature Goddess or Starlet codes to BE SEEN without it threatening your ego or biology?

 

Can you see how and where you’ve been toxic in the past? I’m not talking about taking away your primal desire or shaming that whatsoever; it’s more about integrating your Dark power but with healthy DETACHMENT and PRESENCE b/c that’s what leads to more respect and POSSIBLE (non-expected) attractions and connection with great Beauty.

 

Remember; we’re not even speaking to a woman ‘cheating’…instead, it’s all the delusional fantasy within the shadow of man that she would that he ends up in toxic behavior because he doesn’t know how to be PRESENT with that level of Beauty or her status and attention. (I had SOME of those tendencies in the past that I’ve worked through)>

 

He’s not a star. Healthy STAR consciousness is rare and actually very TEMPLAR. DIVINE (put aside that stars and starlets have their own individual shadows and that we PROJECT collective shadows onto stars; I’m talking archetypal Star and Starlet).

 

If you want to cultivate your Starlet, your Immortal Beloved may indeed have STAR codes or at least enlightened detachment that relates to all dimension including SOCIALLY.

 

See; the higher level of ‘the game’ of Power and Beauty in actual partnership doesn’t come down to the inability (and shadows therewithin) to hold Presence with such Beauty; it’s actually about being able to hold equivalent space for it (which itself is a form of true power) >>> WITH AGREEMENT.

 

IT’S ACTUALLY ABOUT AGREEMENT between two beings who hold Star and Starlet power; desired by the collective.

 

This is what most consumer manosphere broskis cannot fathom whatsoever. That an MGK could allow his Starlet partner (or ‘x’ partner) of Megan Fox to be a starlet and that actually EMPOWERS their relationship.

 

 

Or that Jay-Z could allow Beyonce to shine like that. It’s DETACHMENT but with AGREEMENT (to each other n their own boundaries).

 

Essentially;

 

NO ONE ELSE HAS DETACHMENT…it’s attachment or other forms of shadows like judgment, control, envy, hatred, jealousy, etc.

 

Men are all wanting something from her and she can sense it a mile away, thus it’s hard to actually RELAX around humans in person (even though there are social-meta advantages to it all; the whole Pussaliah dynamic).

 

IMAGINE JUST PURE TEMPLE-GRADE DETACHMENT AND SPACE FOR BEAUTY TO EXIST, BREATHE, THRIVE. THAT is what I provide but I’ve been on the path and have HAD TO step into these greater levels in relation to great Beauty through great annihilation and rebirth of Sacred Union.

 

Soon people are going to start SEEING how beautiful women are attracted to me socially (in simply being able to HOLD SPACE without agenda or expectation) and it has to do with TEMPLE-GRADE AUTHENTIC DETACHMENT.

 

I’ve brought this up before; how there can be goddesses but we’re socially not allowed to have gods but that’s who can meet them (referring to the healthy embodied not ego-driven).

 

In the work that I do, I realized (and with reflection from clients) that I already provide incredibly rare space for them at any level of beauty or status socially that is TRUSTABLE without expectation (and remember; I had to do my work on all of this). I MUST provide that space and the tantra training alone put me through the ringer to detach.

 

And you know what? The women themselves ARE the greatest caliber-gauge of that. Socially speaking and evolutionarily; the most powerful and beautiful people are the most psychically sensitive and attuned anyways; discerning to people who have any psychic signs of control.

 

This is about a woman stepping into her greater expression and beauty SAFELY (and having that ideally constellated within with her Beloved) but at least allowing her Goddess, Avatar or Starlet Codex of siddhic, gift, elemental, archetypal and soul value signatures to shine radiantly as temple-grade beauty itself.

AND…it’s a lesson for a lot of men of what’s possible; he who DESIRES beauty and worthiness with it…the journey to dissolve all neediness, expectations, triggering and to be powerful in detachment.

 

I’ve realized that I HAVE TO BE AMONGST THE MOST DETACHED MEN IN THE WORLD b/c I’m literally on the front-lines of Beauty Ascension.

 

I will (continue to) provide SIMPLE PRESENT-SPACE for unlimited Beauty and the CURATION, the cultivation of literal STARLET CONSCIOUSNESS in the world. A haven for starlets (and that’s what I offer with the on-going AvaStar monthly starlet support).

 

I am attuned literally to GODDESSES because this is the kind of work I do and part of MY journey of the holy grail (and tbh; bufo has been helping attune me to God-Star space with great Beauty even more).

 

So back to women who are suffering forms of divine feminine STIFLING, MITIGATION, SUPPRESSION, OPPRESSION including (and especially) EROTICALLY (and how sophomoric the majority of the manosphere and Western male consciousness is towards it all);

 

I do have to say that I’m going to do another blog post that addresses this more specifically b/c it might be ONE MAN or one past-known relationship that is making you feel somatically UNSAFE to be SEEN in your GODDESS and EROS CODES…to truly be seen and experienced…so remember that STARLET is unsiphonable divine feminine transfiguration of your Avatar/Goddess codex which we can work on directly in AvaStar.

 

This work is very powerful for fast transformation in just getting more clarity like in the now extended, 45 minute Codex Clarity Call with me ($100 retainer or more and IF available).

 

We just have to get more clarity on what is specifically stopping YOU from being seen and your relationship to less than divine masculine consciousness (at Star levels of TEMPLE-GRADE SIDDHIC DETACHMENT PRESENCE liberated from ALL expectation, micro-managing, jealousy, hooking-on siphoning, etc.) is quite likely an un-safe culprit.

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2026 Grail Fracture: More Fallen Men As Beauty Ascends

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Prologue:

More and more single men (MILLIONS) will be left behind as beauty ascends and more women embody DIVINE feminine truths; JUST ENTIRELY out of reach and out of his league…more men will become depressed, hopeless incels or pursue flailing paths in hopes of worthiness and intimacy with such Beauty (like becoming famous but wasting years).

 

I predicted it 15 years ago and it’s even stronger now.

 

Women are not only becoming ‘prettier’ or ‘hotter’ in many ways; but they’re EMBODYING these powerful attributes of Goddess lines so that it seems no mortal man and his ‘inner game’ can compare. If you’re a single guy; you may feel hopeless. (For some women; this is a great calling for Prince and King-makers).

 

YET women desire connection also; not just social status (unless they’re only driven by shadow).

 

This is the reality of things as BEAUTY ascends…the fracture is growing even stronger, so if you’re a man who values BEAUTY, connection, intimacy and relationship without compromise; this is affecting you on ALL DIMENSIONS. Grail principle is the only powerful and accurate lens from which to understand WTH is going on.

 

Read this powerful post now here (or avoid this advice at your own peril):

This is both a ‘state of the union’ update as well as a prediction.

 

Yes, there will be more men ‘left behind’ which I’m repurposing as ‘fallen’ in regards to BEAUTY (including love and sexual relationships with the feminine).

 

My holy grail tattoo literally has knights falling to their multi-dimensional existential doom.

 

Fortunately; upon rewatching ‘Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade (after 2 decades);

 

 

I saw the exact same image I referenced for the tattoo design itself.

 

 

Remember; this isn’t just bio-sperm wars …this is an existential doom and crisis many men are facing in all dimensions when fractured from The Goddess.

 

We just don’t usually cover it from a spiritual and soul lens of truth and implication.

 

This update covers more than just the singles dating marketing; this is the greater global theme that is occurring sexually, spiritually, socially, psycho-sexually, emotionally and psychically: FRACTURE.

 

Not just between men and women (let alone the socio-political factions driving the shadow of Division) but between the divine masculine and feminine (shortcode: archetypal).

 

Fracture between Son of God and Goddess as Lovers in spirit and the prevention of the Holy Grail and the proliferation of disavowment, fracture, abandonment, hopelessness, purposelessness, suffering, sexually, socially and spiritually in both the masculine and feminine b/c of the fracture (but esp. the masculine).

 

Yes; Beauty is ascending and more women will take on embodied divine feminine aspects while having that meta-physical power supported with visual social media.

 

This pits mortal man vs. Goddess and how can he compare? He can’t. Unless he ‘plays the game’ and tries to become famous (this is what it seems he has to do but may not be the deeper answer whatsoever).

 

I may do a separate post just on the subject of Beauty Ascension; yet consider that NOW we’re aware of what’s BEYOND ALLURE (with ‘Darśanic Beauty’) and if you think there is fracture now – with where things are headed, most single men REALLY won’t stand a chance…(to compare to and relate with beauty).

 

I have spoken extensively through years about the state of the social matrix and the fracture between the masculine and feminine in all the ways including socio-culturally.

 

There’s an even larger ‘fracture’ between mortal man and The Goddess (or ‘Pussaliah’ some might say). Media is all in on it but non-consciously b/c it’s really Grail principle that is driving everything (my theory).

 

And to mankind’s dismay; MOST women will not ever become Grail priestesses to guide these single men back into reunification, power and worthiness to relate with such beauty.

 

As BEAUTY ASCENDS and there will be even more goddesses and starlets in the populous…women who take on these archetypal aspects of identity and beauty.

 

Most divinely embodied women don’t have REASON to even care if a single man (or ‘suitor’) is not already showing up as powerful ;

 

The fracture is growing…many modern men are still left behind LOST IN FANTASY and have anxiety around Beauty..GOOD quality well-meaning men, not just incels who are extremely fractured (and many who’ve already checked out and are lost in p*rn addiction, gaming and hey; sex robot ‘sexbots’ are almost here);

 

 

My prediction – as it was 15 years ago (remember that I was a top natural dating coach in the online ‘seduction’ industry with a different last name; NOT a pick-up artist or manipulateer) is that;

 

(Single) Men are simply getting even further left behind as Beauty ascends (and I’m blessed to be a tip of the spear on this ascension).

 

It’s not just with women; it’s in ‘how do they talk to an angel’ …how do they relate to the divine feminine ARCHETYPAL power, status and beauty these women embody that is supported socially?

 

Men are getting more existentially disheartened, desperate, lost, depressed, bitter and disavowed because it all comes back to the holy grail itself which is what his awakening spirit seeketh yet he seems light years away from;

 

HOW TO COMPARE TO A GODDESS? How to be worthy? How to speak to her without anxiety (when she can sense it all)?

 

He cannot, actually be worthy as a mortal compared to The Goddess.

 

But he has to realize he is more than his human self to relate to the aspects of her that is connected to the IMMORTAL.

 

And yet; he is still driven to REUNIFY b/c mankind seeketh the true holy grail itself.

 

Meta-physically (which essentially IS spiritual);

 

With social media visuals;

 

Beauty now has so much power and is continuing to ascend leaving the social, sexual, psychological and emotional fracture even FURTHER left behind and fractured from how to relate with the true holy grail which is Reunification with the Divine Feminine hierogamic counterpart (Goddess to his soul’s Avatar Codex).

 

Even men in relationships often don’t have a clue how to relate to or turn on her authentic goddess self.

 

The real ‘game’ is archetypal and with Divine Union; the heresy of the Holy Grail (beyond merely Communion with the Holy Father).

 

A man’s personal ‘inner game’ egoic self doesn’t compare. It’s not even relevant b/c BEAUTY IS DRAWN TO POWER. And he is disembodied of his divine masculine inheritance.

 

But there’s a greater game going on than even the Matrix is aware of with its superficial valuation of status – and it has to do with Holy Grail dynamics.

 

ESSENCE and Reunification I argue are the DEEPER true higher bandwidth drivers of pop culture behavior.

 

I speak to this more throughout the blog: Divine Union.

 

With more and more starlets and goddesses OWNING SUCH BEAUTY and PRESENCE, modern men riddled with anxiety can hardly compare to her beauty-power in person b/c their personal ‘inner game’ power unit value of ‘1’ means nothing to her meta-physical archetypal Goddess (meta-social) power of 10,000,000 : 1.

 

A goddess wants a god whether she says it or not.

 

Social media and music video puts these women effectively as powerful as goddesses (and hint; they are – at least socially).

 

(I think it’s a GREAT thing but man just has to know how to relate with such power).

 

What can men do? RECLAIM THEIR POWER…their divine masculine inheritance AND REUNIFY their own psyche and consciousness. That is with Divine Union alchemy.

 

Most men will seek a partner who has all of what he dreams but since he cannot be present with that level of beauty he’ll end up compromising on his true desires or live mostly in fantasy b/c he doesn’t know how to relate with that level of beauty.

 

He doesn’t know how to be that powerful in presence. He can looks-maxx all he wants; but it’s still not it if he’s energetically unworthy in Presence….nor is it ‘inner game’ when this is a DIVINE GAME being played of GOD AND GODDESS POWER and BEAUTY. Amplify his ego? That’s not it either.

 

It’s not just status through a superficial or social lens; that’s relevant but it’s that divine masculine PRESENCE embodied is the divine status that he’s been missing.

 

For men to awaken to their soul identity, greater purpose and archetypal embodiment (divine masculine inheritance) to be worthy in Presence to the women who have embodied goddess and starlet.

 

I have shown a path with my work (and archetype activations) and am now on the front end of Beauty ascension shamelessly (AND Grail reunification work).

 

Most men aren’t going to become grail alchemists however so will seek the answers in the lower dimensional truth around then; women literally but often women who aren’t initiated themselves nor give a damn until he’s at a certain minimum level of power (divine) embodiment to hold presence and BE relevant to her.

 

This is where Grail priestesses come in like Muse priestesses.

 

The Beauty Evolution is only really BEGINNING MEN; so are you going to settle for being left FURTHER BEHIND in the shadow of FANTASY and fracture with your worthiness and eternal place in worthiness to Goddess spirit?

 

Queens won’t really ever give a damn for you unless you’re their man.

 

I’d seek sessions with Grail priestesses (as proxies of the Beloved) to help reunify and transform who you are into empowered embodiment.

 

Or just do ‘something’ about it when you know something can be done. (I used to work with men for decade before working with mostly women).

 

Men you don’t have to be left behind; embodied women and their Beauty want you rise to meet them in Presence. It’s not only about status for a lot of them; THEY want options with high quality WORTHY MEN who have re/claimed their worth in Presence to such Beauty.

 

THIS is the work. Not merely superficial dating techniques and looks-maxxing…charisma transformation (the proper real work which can’t be faked b/c women can tell anyways) connects you to this authentic POWER.

 

If you want to date ‘out of your league’ then you’d better enter that upper league.

 

This is also a calling for women who ARE called to be kingmakers or ‘Grail priestesses’.

 

Men can do work such as archetype embodiment activations and expand their identity to decondition their egoic self and reclaim more of this divine masculine inheritance (King, Lover, Warrior, etc.) and watch everything changes.

 

Divine masculine POWER (not force corruption games) is the equivalent to divine feminine Beauty and when the two of them meet in the bedroom (God and Goddess; Hieros Gamos), that is holy sacred union.

 

He/you can prepare now. Or risk being left behind. Even the Charisma Makeover on-site connects you to divine masculine power and embodiment.

 

Men do not have to be further fallen and fractured, but they must do something about it of their own volition that actually works b/c the cultural climate values further disenfranchisement (sex-fantasy sells) and division.

 

End of transmission.

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Beauty As A Commitment To The Full Visual Expression Of Your Spirit & Soul

Archetypes Beauty & Allure Beauty Essence Blog Charisma Soul Starlet

Somewhere it is written or spoken that ‘Beauty is/as a commitment and integrity to the fullest expression of your soul‘.

 

(And that can refer to masculine essence expression as well).

 

Because your light of RADIANCE is soulful and not just corporeal b/c you are multi-dimensional and exist on more bandwidth than the visible light sliver (IN the transmission of all of your visual media);

 

Will you choose to be more truly SEEN and fully expressed visually in your multi-dimensional beauty (and not merely skin-deep optimization) so that you have more FELT influence?

 

Recently; I have realized (in lieu of all of the places that I have been HIDDEN and hiding) that THE most important thing (this year/in general) is that I visually embody and express the TRUTH of me and my codes.

 

Of course this is in the bigger picture context that WE know of in which LIGHT of your image is multi-dimensional and not merely constricted to the .0035% of visible light that the Beauty industry values with its skin-deep superficial mastery of beautification.

 

IT’s both Beauty 1.0 as the world knows it AND the expanded frequency bands of essence based power and beauty radiance as felt influence (charisma + allure) itself; all of the above.

 

This integrity to my ACCURATE expression is now one of my most important values long-term too.

 

That I embody and be my AUTHENTIC self…that the qualities of my SOUL and spirit can be expressed visually + to lead by example as a testament for the industry and world leading charisma and allure work that I’m doing (here with Sexy Chi and Allure Priestess).

 

I’ve been hidden for far too long and I realized that it was mostly a shadow web of fears; insecurities, doubts, fugly duckling, past performance anxiety public failures and more but that my greater purpose was far more important.

 

Beloved’s Divine Will for me is far greater than not only my own vision but in allowing these visibility wounds to continue to hold me back from anything less than EMBODYING my CODES and Power so that I come across as one and the same with how advanced I am spiritually and soulfully.

 

This is THE most important thing; to BE the brand (and as REAL). Here…we’re getting a more solid glimpse too…

 

 

To be the living testament with alchemical presence of the magic so people can get MEDICINE from image alone and know that it’s real.

 

This is the advanced work of ‘inner beauty’ applied to what’s relevant on-camera.

 

This is what’s going to take my brand and work global and change industries; I can no longer hide ‘behind the scenes’, in audio meditations where I’m not ‘seen’ or in testimonial reliance.

 

Wouldn’t you want to ACCURATELY convey the felt-sense of your truth to discerning soul tribe peeps?

 

THIS WORK is far too important and the time is NOW for the codes to evolve industries in the way they’re meant to.

 

And the same goes for you…YOU have codes that you could be expressing visually that people will KNOW it’s IT more than 1000 words.

 

But we have to work with your light body; essence, embodiment and expression as well as visibility wounds to swiftly do a real makeover.

 

For me; it’s been a long journey and you too may have had many blockages.

 

I’m one of those that we could say is image ‘post-conscious’. We’re self-aware that we’re self-aware. And that has its pro’s and cons.

 

I wrote about this somewhere else; but it’s where a lot of ‘masculine men’ aren’t even aware of any image related insecurities or issues and people laud them for it.

 

The thing is; those men also don’t have the conscious competence to do more advanced image work and soulful versatile expression either; they’re more fixed into a certain, constricted dimension and paradigm of reliable self-image.

 

I haven’t had the luxury of that form of pre-conscious ignorance.

 

Consider that professional actors are some of those who (like me) have to be consciously aware (essence acting just takes that to new heights).

 

We’re conscious that we have image related issues and/or dynamics instead of just not giving a damn…but we have the advantage that we MUST work with them and it opens up entirely new realms of image mastery and expression.

 

The only thing some of us can do who HAVE visibility issues is to actually take them on and RESOLVE THEM….to end up MASTERING our own visual communication and soul transmission visually.

 

That’s the best thing….Muse and I are re-writing the code and there are many advantages now.

 

Another lightworker once had some issues about what I was doing;

 

“You shouldn’t be that insecure about your image Rion…you shouldn’t care….it’s weird that men should have to care about that (like you).”

 

It might be worth mentioning that he himself didn’t come across as visually stunning b/c he valued himself as ‘behind the scenes’ and didn’t really care. (And yet still others would ‘read’ him from his online branding, etc. too)

 

But it DOES matter not only because I’m the leading guide OF a visual revolution with Beauty and the Performance Arts infusing pro energy work with image itself, but because anything less is NOT authentic to my true self. First impressions matter b/c people are getting a ‘read’ of you and me…are we being most HONEST about who we really are?

 

I was HIDING OUT and living FROM insecurities, doubts and fears by just being known behind the scenes or in my vocal powerliminal meditation attunements.

 

For whatever reasons, I’ve been dealt these cards (mostly from nurture I guess).

 

If I do not resolve them, I’m still living from fear AND there’s no chance of changing the game for millions of others with the true image mastery archetype, allure and charisma essence work. (Those remaining pockets of self-image, etc. resistance which I’m progressively working out btw; would still be coming across but I’ve shown you some before and afters in recent blog posts)

 

Will you BOLDLY embody your brand where no one has gone before?!

 

The good news is that if you like me have done SOOOO much spiritual work and have access to ESSENCE qualities of consciousness yet still have image wounding; you have advantages…it’s just in working with the light body and psyche to allow the LIGHT of those essences to be EMBODIED and then EXPRESSED radiantly while dissolving the energetic chakric and auric distortions and blockages TO that which you already have in essence.

 

The AvaStar work with knowing your own unique Star or Starlet codex just does it all directly in the fastest possible way for your metamorphosis from cocoon to butterfly. And this work is the precursor to ‘Essence Acting’.

 

If you’re REALLLLLY meant to have massive influence, you’ve likely undergone SEVERE self-image dysmorphia and crippling image anxiety or fear of being siphoned from in past experiences which have created armor and anxiety in your body which is still preventing the great beauty you hold to become alchemized into the swan.

 

Will you COMPLETE the process? The metamorphosis from cocoon into butterfly?

 

Will you resolve your visibility wounds?

 

Will you get the professional support for INNER (essenced) beauty rather than remaining in the world of visible light superficial beautification?

 

Will you commit to your multi-dimensional BEAUTY cultivation and soulful, spiritual expression visually in ALL of the light and felt influence of your image and presence?

 

Will you commit to your archetypal beauty (and the authentic consciousness that goes with it) instead of just being ‘styled’ like it?

 

Your siddhic beauty in the seat of your soul into alchemization INTO visual presence and image?

 

(We work on that in EACH activation sesson available on-site and in the packages)

 

Will you become the most enchanting, alluring version of yourself with YOUR codes?

 

Will you include ALLURE (or charisma) as a prime component OF your professional Beauty and image itself?

 

(The expanded RESPONSE-friendly felt influence frequency bands outside of visible light)?

 

The most alluring, beautiful you…

 

This is the work we do here at Sexy Chi throughout the activation sessions and different packages (including Allure Makeover and AvaStar Makeover).

 

WILL YOU (like I’m doing); ALCHEMIZE the Beauty of your codes in essence INTO your visual embodiment and expression as the Star/let version of yourself to be felt and seen?

 

To truly REPRESENT your truth and felt influence in this era of social media to let your codes have the MASSIVE impact you’re meant to?

 

Will you DARE to be seen and on a larger scale?

 

Can you afford to play it small and hidden anymore (secretly run by these fears)…esp. in this attention age economy with social media?

 

Or are you ready for the larger currents and living as the highest timeline SIGNATURE brand of YOU in all dimensions?

 

Will you step INTO your voice, beauty and power on a larger scale?

 

To embody, amplify and express YOUR unique archetypal and siddhic qualities of INFLUENCE?

 

If you are also ALREADY a powerful or beautiful soul but THAT BEAUTY and the vibe-truth of it is NOT coming across accurately (and more likely energetic blocks are causing DISTORTION and making you even uglier than you KNOW you are and it triggers you), this is the work.

 

It’s not just who you are and then expecting people to know or respond to that hidden genius.

 

It’s how and WHO you are communicating yourself as.

 

Yes; we can do it authentically….your Star/let codex is REALLY a powerful key for signature allure publicly.

 

And yeah; that’s in first impression and yes we can tell a lot more than just the visible light frequency range b/c so many intuitive people are becoming even more psychic, experienced and discerning to know who and what is REAL and not a poser.

 

Your Star/let codex is a direct path. We have to activate and embody your soul codes and then have them RADIATING while dissolving remaining visibility insecurities.

 

We just have to work with your light-body directly for the FASTEST (and conscious competent) results.

 

If you’re here;

 

You already KNOW it’s about essence. (+I have 100s of client testimonials and other testimonials on-site).

 

I don’t have to sell you on that (even though I’ll continue educating the mainstream that charisma is more than just looks maxing superficial glow-ups); you ALREADY know…and your codes already hold such MEDICINE and power.

 

WHY WOULDN’T YOU want that visually expressed in social media so that your dharma can accelerate and you can be in greater influence?

 

And if not; what’s actually STOPPING or sabotaging your avatar self icon?

 

I’m doing the work…I’m like that hair club president for men as well b/c I’m also a client (with self-activations).

 

If like me; you realize that YOU ARE THE BRAND and you want people to sense, feel and know your CODES organically and have THAT non-salesiness do most of the selling FOR YOU b/c WHO you are speaks louder than words (and the words flow from fearless authentic TRANSMISSION), then I invite you to,,,

 

Discover more about the monthly star and starlet support with the AvaStar here.

 

I choose the Beauty of my FULLEST, versatile siddhic and archetypal expression. I am committed (and that includes to showcase the REUNIFICATION that I have with Beloved in my image/presence).

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Remember that YT influencer JFLA’s secret VIRAL influence and 14 million + subscribers (larger than fashion brands) is encoded IN her siddhic Gene Key radiance of Grace. She offers alluring MEDICINE to people and that’s why they are so affected by her image.

 

I talk about this elsewhere on site…THAT is part of HER codex and how she’s INFLUENCING people from her allure to stand out from other vocal cover artists.

 

p.p.s. If you still don’t believe it’s possible…the ARCHETYPES already hold the keys to most Power and Beauty…you just have to ACCESS and embody them as they amplify your soul…your SOUL (not egoic self) gets to CHOOSE.

 

In the direct light body work itself in the AvaStar Makeover;

 

Starlet (and how we leverage Her) is proxy for the divine feminine transfiguration and amplification of YOUR unique codex (even if it doesn’t include literal Starlet archetype Herself).

 

And yes; there are the Siddhic Beauty Meditation Powerliminals

And here Siddhic Beauty Meditation 2

 

Will you CHOOSE Beauty and your fullest expression which includes ACTIVATING, activated and alchemical ALLURE as a testament and commitment to YOUR fullest expression?

 

I’m here to directly support your journey…

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The Fugly Duckling Within Can Be Crippling

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If you’ve had image related insecurities, keep reading.

 

If you’ve been triggered by your own image and thought “Good lord, I look like a GREMLIN!”

 

(literally me; pre-debut)

 

 

‘Even ugly would say that’s UGLY…’

 

Keep reading because this can be amplified if you KNOW you are meant to be SEEN and have great social influence.

 

For much of your life you may suppress your secret lifelong desire of being a star/let or you may be ‘held back’ by some unseen forces (which may include past trauma from when you WERE in your shining vulnerability and essence that you no longer want ‘stolen’).

 

However the fugly duckling within was created, if it’s there, you know it. So how do you BECOME THE SWAN (or Beauty starlet)?

 

The fugly duckling can prevent you from ever having the REACH of influence you’re meant to have; especially in today’s social media future-proof era (AND where prosumers are becoming more psychic about whether you’re B.S.ing them or not).

 

I also dealt with extreme fugly duckling anxiety but I found ways to overcome and integrate it on a further past of mastery BECAUSE I’ve always secretly wanted to be a STAR.

 

BEAUTY IS THE OTHER SIDE OF THE UGLY DUCKLING. GREAT BEAUTY.

 

And with all of this, it’s not just as simple as getting a visual makeover with hair styling and wardrobe.

 

And it’s more than just the ‘confidence’ that goes with it; you want people to FEEL you are a star esp. to high status DISCERNING people who can sniff out if you are ‘real’ or not.

 

And it isn’t just as simple as just ‘being seen’…it’s about accurately embodying your UNIQUE Star or Starlet codex that is the truest, BEST version of yourself that OVERCOMES your crippling visual and performance anxieties while INSPIRING yourself to be seen so that you can finally be SEEN and expressed in your Beauty, Truth and soul service which is key to visual social media influence and making more money as your AUTHENTIC self.

 

(Your Star/let codex gives you access to STAR/let consciousness to AMPLIFY your codes and stability in being seen).

 

It’s about having the organic social influence you are MEANT TO HAVE after YEARS of preparation and secret anxieties so that you can get out there SECURELY in your true essence and have influence without internal or other self sabotage, insecurities and doubts.

 

You’ll know if you are meant to GO BIG but again; you might also be crippled from being seen and have compromised in ‘playing it safe’ and small; but that is NOT how you’re going to really breakthrough to that larger scale (and you know it).

 

(After all; we’re not talking a wave of AI human hybrid automaton marketeers hiding out behind the screen with creepy AI voices; we’re all about ORGANIC influence and timelines)

 

And you know what? The inner GREMLIN or QUASIMODO is one helluva saboteur on ALL levels.

 

They carry your visibility wounds SHADOW matrix. This not only keeps you living in fear but it also warps and distorts your literal energy field itself.

 

The fugly duckling isn’t just psychological; it creates LIGHT DISTORTION and enhances your ugliness. When I was aware of it, I became EVEN UGLIER on camera (these are true stories and I have the proof).

 

You know who doesn’t have those issues? The archetypal Star and Starlet. Put aside cultural differences or dualities of separation and it’s important to note that K-pop male idols are pristine examples of stars embodied and their photogenic confidence and presence on cameras. They’ve found a way to access and integrate STAR into their identity.

 

You just have to find your GATEWAY/PORTAL into STAR CONSCIOUSNESS because it will never be resolved when you are stuck in the same shadow swamp itself with ‘inner game’ issues and plaguing fears, doubts and insecurities (including wanting to CONTROL every aspect of how others consume you).

 

If you’re triggered by the word consume, you may also have work to do with STAR/Let codes.

 

The fastest path to embodying YOUR public, divine service self is your STAR/LET CODEX and then you’re able to ACCESS and EMBODY Star and STARLET consciousness and Truth in public and social influence.

 

It’s what can give you the confidence, inspiration and impetus to LIVE as your best self actively instead of ‘out there’ or ‘never’.

 

Star consciousness eesp. at identity levels is ‘out there’ for most people Your CODEX bridges that gap and understanding the soul Star/Starlet concept.

 

This is what I’m not only doing myself after overcoming YEARS AND YEARS of CRIPPLING visual anxiety (I have around 80,000 stills that I’ve never shared of me just screen-testing)…but it was my CODEX ITSELF that gave me the POWER and CLARITY to access STAR consciousness and earthly embodiment of my TRUTH.

 

NOW; I’m having a BLAST on camera and being seen getting 1000s of views and engagement (on a starter public scale just debuting 2 months ago which is very scalable).

 

So…if you are TIRED of the crippling self-doubt and anxieties…fed up with being ‘held back’ by the inner quasimoda, what others would think if they experienced the real you or past siphoning from others who have ‘stole’ or misused your own essence, this may be one of the MOST important things for you to resolve especially if you are MEANT to be seen in your soul aligned and embodied beauty confidently to evolve industries and have INFLUENCE.

 

If you also know that your WEALTH is going to come from BEING SEEN and you MUST be in aligned embodiment, this is central work to do in becoming your own AUTHENTIC and empowered signature BRAND of you (as some form of influencer).

 

From Gremlin to Star/let Swan?

 

 

Let’s do it.

 

I’ve lead by example (but in THIS dynamic I’m not sharing my fugly photos b/c some people can take it out of context and it could destroy my brand but it’s part of my history).

 

For going through a real MAKEOVER, for that I recommend the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Oh; and also consider that…Starlet is unsiphonable! You just have to know how to access and embody Her. That’s what we do in the AvaStar Makeover!

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