If 1 Man May Be Suffocating Your Public Eros, Starlet Beauty + Expressive Liberty

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If you feel CONFINED towards a greater, liberated GODDESS level of expression and behavior possibly because of ONE man in your life (and how he wants to keep you visibly for himself) or b/c of the relationship ‘container’ and expectations…
 
 
 
This power post is for you and there’s a lot at stake. 
 
 
 
There may be archetypal aspects that you DESIRE to express but are in effect PROHIBITED from expressing esp. if it doesn’t fit your ‘role’ as a partner, wife or mother.
 
 
 
IF you have been suppressed esp. by the masculine from fuller expression, STARLET is actually your medicine b/c She knows how to relate with all aspects of the masculine publicly without being siphoned from.
 
 
 
This is dangerous information because for some other women reading this, if ‘he’ found out he would get triggered and fall into possibly toxic behavior about it. 
 
 
 
(A shortcode here is that your Starlet is missing Her equivalent Star).
 
 
 
Now;
 
 
 
I don’t know who ‘he’ is personally (if this applies to you), but I don’t have to know.
 
 
I know the bigger picture (this man has archetypal shadow qualities disguised as good intentions) and this may be by and large what’s holding back your entire unfulfilled DREAMS instead of living in stifled compromise (how uninitiated masculine cannot hold space for that level of Beauty and REALLY have all kinds of issues with it).
 
 
Of all the things that could sabotage you from claiming and stepping into your STARLET (unique Goddess-Avatar Codex) in public visibility – it could be many other self-sabotage reasons – but this may be the main one for you or at least MANY women; ONE MAN.
 
 
1 MAN WHO CANNOT HOLD SPACE FOR SUCH BEAUTY. (He may not even know THAT version of you if you fully unleashed it).
 
 
So in continuing with our Man vs. Starlet theme (YOUR Starlet)…
 
 
 
Might it be that ONE MAN or male figure (from your past or present) could actually be the APEX saboteur to your fullest embodiment, public beauty expression and divine feminine, EROSY radiant influence of being seen? 
 
 
 
Because you might NOT see the signs b/c of how tricky and gas-lighty this can be even though ‘he’ is actually the culprit that is GROSSLY out of attunement with your spiritual desires for greater spiritual allure beauty, boundless self-expression, satisfying recognition, ascension influence with YOUR Goddess codes and Beauty legacy.
 
 
 
Let me ask you this;
 
 
 
In lifelong valuing beauty and divine feminine consciousness;
 
 
 
Do you have a desire to be more fully expressed, radiant and seen? 
 
 
 
Do you have a long-ago in the past history of healthily enjoying dance, singing or the recognition and attention it brought that felt GOOD to your soul, but then it got smothered and suppressed to appease the comfort of one man (esp. by an important male figure in your life)?
 
 
 
Have past lovers been largely uncomfortable by your public beauty expression and it triggered them so you tamed yourself back down?
 
 
 
Have you been living in massive (masculine influenced) suppression for years (often to ‘fit a role’) while meanwhile your soul desires to be in your fullest visual quintessence, voice, beauty and influence (always knowing there is something more)?
 
 
..And yet you are prevented from doing that (even if he was gone YEARS AGO)?…and do you find that you keep living out the same pattern (whether he himself was aware of it or not – even if he ‘intended well’)?
 
 
In doing a recent Codex Clarity Consulting call (now available at a longer 45 minutes here), something became very, very clear and it was one of the angles that I already knew about but had missed in earlier blog writings about soul / spiritual starlet: it’s how a masculine figure can be the predominant SUPPRESSOR of her greater Beauty (and the consciousness that goes with it).
 
 
 
You may actually be spiritually imprisoned in a less than liberated relationship that your soul desires…you just have to figure out the costs and risks of changing it and how much integrity you have to have with your soul’s desire because yes; it may mean either liberating your Starlet from those shackles, having him grow into a Star-god to support your alluring Beauty expansion and recognition or continuing to live under the weight of his inability to hold presence with your Starlet.
 
This woman (and many others) had great desire to be more fully embodied, expressed and seen (including in archetypes of her Starlet Codex)….and yes, it often brings attention from OTHER MEN. That somehow didn’t sit right with her man.
 
 
Unfortunately; this is too common of a theme (the world is missing more Star-Kings who can let their woman SHINE and nourish the world without falling into shadow reaction).
 
 
 
Even though it was SOCIAL attention (really; Starlet’s domain writ large); this dynamic causes him to actively suppress her radiance because it threatens him personally ‘as if’ she was cheating.
 
 
 
Her potential Starlet (of divine feminine archetypes and siddhic essences with and through her transfigured for public social influence) is essentially shackled because Starlet THRIVES on Beauty expression, recognition, influence and attention (of ie. divine feminine radiance and not just physical prettiness). BUT THERE’S ONE MAN WHO IS ESSENTIALLY PREVENTING OR STOPPING IT ALL.
 
 
(Or is it that she’s allowing it?)
 
 
Is that woman you? Who have been dealing with a male figure who may be the SINGLE biggest saboteur of your soul’s fullest expression and desire (while years keep going by)?
 
 
 
In working with women for years; there are 3 common themes related to this masculine suppression of the divine feminine beauty that wants to be fully expressed:
 
 
 
1. Father dynamics that are still with you subconsciously where you don’t want to threaten his perfect view or expectations of you b/c of the fracture it would mean even though he was coming from limitation and 
 
 
 
2. A past or current partner whose security, ego and identity is threatened by your Starlet/Goddess’s fullest expression (codexed essences) so you remain shackled and can barely even associate with other men so as not to trigger him. 
 
 
 
(This may even be a husband who yes – has other good qualities in the mix which makes it more complicated; but the dynamic and his level of consciousness is admittedly INFLUENCING your suppression so that you’ll often self-censor ‘Her’)
 
 
 
3. The collective (shadow, hypocritical and often toxic) masculine often parading as virtuous morality. This supports the ‘engine’ of Beauty and ‘sex sells’ (including the divine aspects of Beauty influence except that when it gets INTER-personal, most men are incredibly weird, fearful or controlling and shadowy around such Beauty as it relates to them personally)
 
 
 
ALL three of these (or we could say the unity of the uninitiated-by-Goddess masculine) can be LIFE-LONG effective blockers to your Starlet from EVER really coming into embodiment. I’m going to speak mostly to #2 (continued) here.
 
 
If you have a desire for greater expression and being seen (to have divine feminine influence with and through you);
 
 
It may take nothing less than a severing of that psychic relationship and/or agreement with that man (or stunted archetypal male figure who cannot hold presence-space with EMBODIED divine feminine consciousness) in order to give yourself the freedom to embody your Starlet and your soul’s fuller desire for expression (and UNTIL YOU DO you will keep living out the same, meek pattern where your Goddess constellation cannot even really BREATHE let alone unfurl and be SEEN en masse with Her medicine and influence). 
 
 
UNWILLINGNESS TO MAKE THAT DECISION TO CHANGE THE MASCULINE OPPRESSIVE DYNAMIC COULD KEEP YOU STUCK FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.
 
 
There. I said it. So it’s YOU who have to weigh the consequences of YOUR soul’s desire for growth, boundless beauty cultivation at an identity level of consciousness and reality (where your Starlet Codex holds the exact keys to ACCESS Starlet consciousness to transfigure and amplify the spirit qualities of your soul publicly without sabotage, without collapse, without guilt, shame, humiliation, fear, insecurity, doubts, self-censorship, etc.)
 
 
This can be challenging if you are in a current and entangled relationship where it feels your divine feminine is admittedly being SUFFOCATED spiritually and socially.
 
 
You got into the relationship and there are still good things – again WHICH COMPLICATES IT because you’ll justify staying and being with him UNDERSTANDABLY.
 
 
And this dynamic, your comfort with each other and the limitations of the relationship container, roles and expectations – it all keeps you stuck for years from that GREATER EXPRESSION AND BEAUTY. Honestly; you’re not sure he could handle it.
 
 
(I’m not saying to necessarily ‘break up’; however, this is about clarity and empowering your path either way – YOUR choice, your life).
 
 
In relationships that otherwise aren’t toxic, he may ‘lead’ under the guise of conservative values and ‘morality’ where a woman shouldn’t be seen or expressed in her beauty nor sexuality for other men…however, there’s a deeper issue going on here besides that your male figure doesn’t have Star consciousness that can allow BEAUTY to be expressed publicly and socially without it threatening him (and instead rely on the strength of your ‘actual’ agreement together rather than manic perceived fears of you being with other men). 
 
 
This ‘morality’ police angle of religion and the manosphere actually abdicates Goddess consciousness. They and the egregore simply doesn’t know how to handle it.
 
 
Human constructionist ‘morality’ and some evolutionary biology justification is often their model but doesn’t include the divine masculine power to meet Goddess in the equation (remember; we’re not talking about you actually ‘cheating’ with the world of men, it’s actually his insecurity and fears to let you be a Starlet where as a Star he is even MORE of a man).
 
 
And btw; this IS spiritual because we’re talking about essentially the divine masculine in men being able to HOLD PRESENCE AND SPACE without expectation, control, siphoning or micro-managing to that level of Beauty. Shiva level presence to the spirit of your Goddess/Starlet codex.
 
 
So…Mix in his authentic biological urge to know he is the father (there wasn’t DNA paternity testing until the 1980’s) so even though he has reason to ‘rein you in’ and thinks that ‘a mother shouldn’t be erotic esp. in public when she’s married’, more often this ends up becoming shadow behavior because he doesn’t know how to face and be present with GODDESS Herself (a.k.a. the level of Beauty you would have if you really allowed it).
 
 
This is because his mortal man isn’t worthy of Goddess (just like the village girl isn’t worthy of bedding the Emperor-King).
It’s worth mentioning that many women ‘re-wild’ in Goddess circles…this can be important medicine (for a phase) to SEVER from many ways of the constrictive masculine (shadow); however, what we’re referring to outside of an understandably safe reclamation bubble is facing THE WORLD AT LARGE and fully re-integrated;
 
 
Being seen (and being able to be sovereign and seen) including BY the shadow masculine public and the psychic weight of men that have held you back in the past (let alone possibly siphoned from you); this is where STARLET and Grail dynamics come into the equation…
 
 
Men and the masculine are implicated and part of all of this…you may find that you may have to graduate from the Goddess circle-bubble into public Starlet if you have a divine feminine mission that requires being seen and relating with the masculine in ascension or influence.
 
 
We’re talking about making it safe for you to shine TO THE WORLD (Starlet is your medicine).
 
 
Anyways, I regress;
 
 
Because he is UNINITIATED in the consciousness-truth of the Holy Grail itself of Divine Union (and men in general in the collective); it would THREATEN him to the very core so he finds ways to prevent you from ever truly shining.
 
 
He remains the governator to your Beauty-Truth. Or at least you got into relational agreement to where that IS the authority.
 
 
 
If you went forward with discovering your Starlet codex and (God forbid) joining AvaStar Starlet Makeover with monthly support and committing to such a makeover; yes – many men would find you far more attractive and getting attention and this could cause him to;
 
 
 
*Be threatened and triggered; over-react, get jealous or want to start fist-fights with other men
 
 
*Collapse into nervous fear with inability to hold presence in his nervous system
 
 
*Triggers into passive-aggressiveness
 
 
*Flare up in anger
 
 
*Obsessively micro-manage and control you
 
 
*Shame, guilt, berate and belittle you and your greater beauty expression (or Eros allure) when it starts peeking forward
 
 
*Love-bomb you because he doesn’t want to let you go ( as a toxic form of control and emotional abuse)
 
 
*Put you back in your spiritually meek place so as not to get such recognition from other men so he’s comfortable again being seen with you
 
 
 
I’ve got news sister; he doesn’t have STAR consciousness (or at least the divine gift of Detachment which then relies on AGREEMENT between each of you related to actual intimacy). He’s not able to healthily HOLD SPACE for that spirit-rich essenced version of you.
 
 
 
And the good sex complicates it but deep down you’re realizing that, oh crap – what if Rion is right and my man cannot hold space for my fuller Beauty without shutting it back down?
 
 
(All of this can cross-over with the conscious twin flame relational template for many women as well; but it’s still not Divine Union)
 
 
So no wonder you’ve held back. It would threaten the divinely (the aspects of) your sub-par relationship you currently have in your SPIRIT to the masculine – even though there are good qualities and attributes your mortal partner has (which stifles you more from changing the dynamic).
YOUR SPIRITUAL SOUL BEAUTY EXPRESSION & SOCIAL INFLUENCE WITH GODDESS CODES is by and large limited to HIS insecurities rather than being CONSTELLATED WITH YOUR IMMORTAL STAR BELOVED WHO HOLDS PRESENCE AND SPACE FOR ALL OF YOUR BEAUTY-GROWTH AND EXPRESSION.
 
 
It’s because you are in a past agreement with a mortal man who isn’t initiated into Divine Union consciousness to hold that level of Presence properly, safely and truly.
 
 
If you shine TOO MUCH past his threshold, you calibrate your behavior back into less than your desire.
 
 
And it’s important to realize the role you had in co-creating this ‘limiting to your spirit and soul relationship’. A past version of you, but still you.
 
 
(And how many more years is this going to continue?)
 
 
Like that chemical that stops the heart from beating at death sentences (isopropopyl or something), men or a man who is still influencing you (subconsciously) or otherwise can have the REAL effect of stopping your full soul, spirit, beauty, identity and consciousness from fully embodying and being SEEN.
 
 
THUS; SHE IS NEVER ABLE TO BE PROPERLY BIRTHED.
 
 
Yes; I’m speaking mostly to #2 of the 3 above here. Remember I go more into the collective (#3) in this recent blog post here (under the Starlet category):
 
 
 
 
And yes; your mortal FATHER (as compared to The Holy Father) may also be still living out HIS standards that is governing your own level of beauty consciousness and visibility in being seen publicly – the thermostat is still set to HIS comfort level (or you got shamed into being something else when it’s really the archetypal, divine feminine that is seeking expression with and through you).
 
 
It may be so extreme; this past masculine influence on you (esp. with trauma, abuse or siphoning OR even strong family control or expectations) that She is effectively paralyzed from ever being truly embodied b/c you’ll get activated into fear-body response.
 
 
HOW MUCH LONGER WILL YOU LET LESSER MORTAL MASCULINE CONSCIOUSNESS BE YOUR GOVERNATOR TO GREATER BEAUTY AND ALLURE EXPRESSION INFLUENCE?
 
 
This limited, NON-Shiva-esque masculine consciousness is important to understand more (ideally). MEN DO NOT KNOW HOW TO RELATE TO ANGELS, GODDESSES, APHRODITES…
 
 
There are SONGS AND POETRY about ALL of this….(Sacred Union dynamics)…men just cannot comprehend it within their ego…they’re just uninitiated in Divine Union.
 
 
 
All of this male-as-beauty-suppressor to your fullest expression;
 
 
 
This in large part has to do with his Holy Grail or Divine Union dynamics (er essentially lack thereof)…this level of masculine consciousness is common and in the bigger picture, unevolved.
 
 
UN-Godly even though moralistic constructionism will say it’s Godly. No; GODLY is HIEROGAMY ITSELF; reunification of God and Goddess consciousness through Holy Son & Daughter as LOVERS. But hey; pop religion mostly threw that out with the bath-water so there isn’t a model for men TO relate to the divine, meta-physical (also a direct reality with social media how it amplifies a single woman’s beauty 1,000,000:1 with social power) and archetypal.
 
 
This fractured-from-Communion personal, egoic male vs. 1 billion:1 ratio of a Goddess…the mortal man simply cannot hold space for Goddess Presence and consciousness (or the many fractals of Her).
 
 
In large part this is because he is not reunified within with his own Beloved and Her form of Goddess consciousness.
 
 
 
IF you were allowed to embody and cultivate your GODDESS or STARLET (and into full, liberated expression for the world to see), but it THREATENS HIM and his mortal ego….how much longer can you allow this to continue?
 
 
MAYBE IT’S OK to have your Starlet shackled b/c the chain isn’t ‘AS’ tight as it could be..? (But is that good enough for you soul; THAT level of compromise).
 
 
And I’ll say another thing; ALLURE is the evolution of Beauty influencer so if you have some form of Sophianic or Goddess codes related to social ascension, these are the influencers of tomorrow; spiritual starlets who are CHOOSING to live their fullest truth and beauty expression.
 
 
This is where MAINSTREAM is headed; ultimately towards Darshanic Beauty influencer (alchemical, temple-grade, transformational beauty).
 
 
So it’s not even just the current model of beauty influencer; SPIRITUAL STARLETS are going to rise in social power (and rightfully so) with their unique codes; but if you’re stopped from ever really beginning because you’re allowing a mortal man’s limited shadow relationship to Goddess truth to stop you?
 
 
Then yeah; it may never happen and your soul itself may never reach that fulfillment and you’ll never have that collective influence from your future tribe.
 
 
 
On a spiritual level (since we’re mostly talking about #2 of the 3 here); if you had that much beauty and he lost it, it would fracture his connection to the Grail (that which he doesn’t even know he desires the most); so he tries to control you to keep what he has…more beauty, more attention = more shadow, toxic, flare-up behavior and paranoia from him suffocating your Starlet even more.
If he was a father figure; you may still be limited to his thermostat of HOW much beauty or erotic expression being seen socially is ‘ok’.
 
 
And yes; a lot of women in my circle have done Goddess, Eros work and RECLAMATION but we’re speaking specifically to your STARLET and her SOCIAL influence…does it actually threaten a male figure in your life and are you still holding back because of it (whether subconsciously or actively in partnership)?
 
 
He may be comfortable with you being together because in a sense he ‘owns you’ in the right ways but still….take it public and where does your Eros-Goddess Dark Vixen go? She can’t.
 
 
Because of the relationship YOU’RE ALLOWING TO CONTINUE TO LIVE to his level of consciousness and his lack of resonance and Unity with Goddess.
 
 
Are you going to let one man or the collective uninitiated masculine (and their hypocrisy and projections towards such Beauty) determine your beauty path and soul’s fullest expression?
 
 
See…What’s missing is DETACHMENT. YOU’VE BEEN IN AGREEMENT WITH A MORTAL MAN (or amalgamation of them) who simply CANNOT hold space for Goddess or your fuller Beauty.
 
 
He’s attached to a version of yourself that isn’t your fullest either (and you know this b/c She is not fully embodied).
 
 
Remember; YOUR IMMORTAL BELOVED can actually hold space for your Goddess codex Beauty Presence & Truth.
 
 
Detachment to the uninitiated shadow or sophomoric mortal masculine consciousness just doesn’t compute. It basically means to HIM that you’re basically cheating on him and your intimacy by even by showing ANY skin on social media (an I’m speaking to like an upper arm).
 
 
You don’t have to live under that yoke anymore; I mean it’s still your choice and consequence.
 
 
So you may have had a pattern of past men who ended up being toxic and controlling around you if you had exceptional beauty and/or if you allowed your feminine allure to shine publicly. It may seem good from the surface; “Oh he’s protecting me…he wants me for himself” Well…yeah and the whole dynamic if you’re called to be greatly seen and expressed is also KEEPING YOUR STARLET IMPRISONED for a set of different values (and the shadow judgments and conditioning around it that just doesn’t hold space and presence for that level of Beauty to shine because it threatens his control and place in the spiritual realms).
 
 
 
See; this is actually quite common and literally a theme with MANY, MANY WOMEN.
 
 
You are actually not alone although your experience may feel SUBJECTIVE…that ‘he’ (name) is actually inhibiting your shine (well actually, SHE is under your authority, you just got stuck in an agreement with a man who simply cannot face Goddess so it’s that agreement that you’re afraid to break for whatever reasons including the entanglement of kids, mortgage, pets, shared history, not wanting to let go, what if no one else wants you, etc.).
 
 
But what if instead of keeping him personal and just affecting YOU with HIS name and good but also shadow traits and your past attachment or experience with ‘him’ and his imperfections; 
 
 
What if we took this externalized man of suppressive influence to your fullest Eros and Beauty; this individual man in your life or past and simply made him a cultural archetype (even a trope) instead?
 
 
This is because this consciousness IS common amongst 100’s of millions of men. It wasn’t just “Dan my semi-toxic twin flame x-lover”.
And let’s call this over-reactive to signs of attention trope of a man:
 
 
‘Un-Star Man’
 
 
He doesn’t want you to shine publicly.
 
 
He is uninitiated by Goddess, cannot hold space for Starlet Beauty, Her status, power and attention without collapsing either into a ball of fear OR micro-managing, suppressing and controlling her to constrict her Starlet beauty and Eros publicly. 
 
 
His ego and consciousness cannot relate with Goddess; it simply doesn’t know how to; thus he operates from forms of fear (including passive-aggressive love-bombing) to stay connected to the greatest form of beauty he’s known in his life b/c it would mean existential threat fracturing him from the holy grail.
 
 
UN-STAR MAN HAS SUFFOCATED YOUR SPIRITUAL BEAUTY AND FULLEST EXPRESSION.
 
 
(IN SPITE OF his redeeming personal qualities). He’s over-reacting b/c he knows which men are sexual threats even when NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN. Not cool. Not detached. Not allowing your Beauty to have INFLUENCE in the world. UN-Star Man.
 
 
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE UNDER THAT YOKE ANYMORE.  AND I AM HERE TO SUPPORT YOUR STARLET EMBODIMENT AND TRANSFIGURATION (IMAGO) if and when you are ready (that is ;). AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support.
 
 
Jay-Z gets it btw; he didn’t stifle Beyoncé all these years.
 
 
 
 
They had their own inter-personal agreement. He was a Star to let her Starlet shine (and a star in his own right too).
 
 
Sure; you could feel compassion for this 1 man in your life, but that isn’t the subject of this post.
 
 
The ultimate path for many men TO relate with such Beauty and Communion (the holy grail) is Divine Union and it MAY be possible for him to grow in relationship to YOUR Beauty growth but if he’s just too stuck and complacent it may be impossible for the scale you are called for in being seen.
 
 
There’s great energy with all of this dynamic (including in that one woman’s life) TO make a powerful change and fast…to ACCESS all of your current seat-of-the-soul essences, cultivate more, bring them into embodiment as we cultivate your Light body temple and transfigure into the butterfly-imago to the world of your most alluring self.
 
 
But are you going to let ‘him’ (different than a divine aspect counterpart of HIM) stop you (because YOU still have THE POWER to choose)?
 
 
This is serious identity work here implicated with RELATIONSHIPS and your relationship to even a partner with a lot of entanglement (even kids, mortgage, etc. like I said).
 
 
Hey; I’ve had women who literally got divorced after working with me but also some whose relationship grew into greater love and growth together.
 
 
THIS IS YOUR PATH. Can ‘he’ hold space for it? Could he grow into holding space for that level of Goddess consciousness and beauty PUBLICLY SEEN?
 
 
If not; hmm…
 
 
Maybe you might have to get into Divine Union alchemy where your Immortal Beloved ‘STAR’ aspect counter-part CAN hold space (although doing such work or being with me in AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support is likely going to trigger your current masculine dynamic; which is also why this work is so powerful to change on an identity level).
 
 
Your current model of the unsupportive-to-your-fullest-expression masculine has to ideally be REPLACED with a model that is (this can be ME by proxy in temple space or work directly in Sacred Union alchemy with your Immortal Beloved).
 
 
Currently; I’m actively working with 6-7 starlets who have CHOSEN themselves and a different relationship to the masculine that can support their greater Beauty presence and influence in AvaStar Makeover monthly
 
 
And btw this isn’t even about being the ‘independent woman’ archetype either; this is about more nurturing, loving, Eros and beauty that would benefit the masculine collective AND YOUR MAN if he could handle it.
 
 
 
So assuming that you’ve been in this dynamic of a man or male figure (or cultural archetype/trope) holding you back (which may include father vs. Father dynamics);
(Btw; if you HAVE a partner who IS supportive of your Starlet…would he give space for far, far more Beauty embodiment and social attention for you then? Or where is that thresh-hold? Remember, I’m speaking to qualifying ladies on this subject otherwise but you may be reading for insights anyways). So back to the pre-qualifying woman who has dealt with this or IS dealing with it…
 
 
He’s been suppressing your fullest truth and society has with their hypocrisy in many ways but YOU have to choose your Avatar/Starlet codexed divine feminine truth of beauty expression for ascension – your spiritual starlet – OVER all that would inhibit it (because essentially on past agreements which may now have run their course ; you have been co-creating and ALLOWING IT). 
 
 
Men in your life and future are implicated.
 
 
These aren’t easy decisions, but they’re powerful decisions and they are YOUR highly leveraged decisions if you’ve been held back by a man who simply CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty and consciousness that you know you have in your spirit.
 
 
There IS leverage for ridiculously fast transformation into embodying that which you’ve not been able to but you have to have the space and proper support with it (this is also where my Temple-Grade Star consciousness comes in with AvaStar and especially in IMAGO where we have live temple space presence together to ativate your Starlet into supreme safety and SPACE for such Beauty if you’ve not had that before in relation to the masculine).
 
 
 
 
And yes; there may be consequences based on past agreements…agreements that your soul is dying to break free from to fully be liberated. And/but even if you have kids, could you keep living a life that doesn’t let them see the model of your fullest truth and what is possible – or rather a lifetime of suppression to fit into his mortal limitations b/c he’s the ‘head of the household’. 
 
 
BIG DECISIONS. A lot to ruminate; however, know that we can MOVE FAST if you are ready to make big identity moves and deal with the consequences; this is just part of the sacrifice and price you have to pay to live as your spiritual starlet or signature alluring goddess (whatever you want to call Her but it’s THAT version of you and how the world respond to HER).
 
 
I would recommend IMAGO though if you’ve been under the yoke of a man or men in your life who CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty…after YEARS AND YEARS of not being able to BREATHE….
 
 
Your somatic body should best get the EXPERIENCE of attunement and knowing that it’s profoundly ok to be that liberated without corruption, shadow, expectation or ANY shadow in relation to the masculine. To somatically experience and LAND what that liberty is really like after being shackled for years around the masculine.
 
 
That temple experience alone is worth the $5000 VIP day (but at current pricing subject to change/rise; you can get AvaStar along with that VIP day for half off essentially by booking one of the first 3 spots for AvaStar IMAGO with Immersive Temple Space for your Starlet LIVE with Rion details
 
 
Check page for details and availability b/c there are LTD. spots.
 
 
Ok, I hope there was a lot in here for you to get more clarity on what might be holding you back – related to this specific subject of being constrained BY a model of the masculine in your past (that you’re still carrying the psychic weight with you) or actively right now. You no longer have to be suffocated from your great Goddess cultivation and visibility; you just have to make some different decisions with consequences…
 
 
I am here for the professional support if and when you are ready (and yes; there is a price to pay to sacrifice WHO YOU WERE to CLAIM, embody and BECOME the transfigured butterfly out of the cocoon of suffocation and trepidation around your true Beauty and Her expression publicly).
 
 
Discover AvaStar Starlet Makeover as monthly support
 
 
 
 
Or…if you simply want more clarity on YOUR specific situation as a next step; you can book the 45 minute Codex Clarity Session with me (we may not focus on your codex as much based on what you want to uncover and where the consultation flows)
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Holding Paradoxical Archetypes: Starlet + Priestess?

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What if you could hold impossibly paradoxical archetypes like Starlet + Priestess?

 

(And what if this was an AUTHENTIC representation of your unique soul codes which could double as celebrity personal branding for online social media and marketing – esp. if you’re an entrepreneur)?

 

People are drawn to extremes and paradoxes.

 

And what if you could hold something like ‘Starlet + Priestess’ with purity and integrity?

 

Because that’s what me and my AvaStar clients are doing…here I hold Rockstar (Light & Dark purified minus shadow) and Priest archetypes; stuff we’ve never really seen before. I mean those are 2 paradoxical extremes.

 

 

Yes; I’m working with soul starlets in the AvaStar Makeover who literally have Priestess AND Starlet codes but it helps to know exactly what your Avatar Codex actually is.

 

We mostly know of Rockstar from Dark and Shadow perspectives and Starlet from the shadow of Vanity, Fame, Attention but we’re not looking at or valuing the PURIFIED form of Light and Dark Starlet let alone as AMPLIFICATION of aligned other Goddess codes that allow women to be in their fullest unique celebrity brand expression and identity as ascension influencers.

 

It’s time for Ascension Guides to start stepping more publicly in their VISIBILITY…we are the ones who it’s time to get major attention for.

 

Rockstar is a powerful archetype of social status and THAT’S WHAT THE ENERGY WORLD IS MISSING TO CROSS-OVER TO MAINSTREAM. That’s just part of the shoes I’m stepping into.

 

STAR and STARLET archetypes allow proxy AMPLIFICATION and social power for your divine codes.

 

You can break the mold of what others know of just the shadows of it all.

 

(And at time of writing ; Rockstar’s my weakest archetype; I’m still working on the overall process of integration and then further social calibration). Muse is guiding my process and transformation of my own Avatar Star embodiment and transfiguration. She has a vision for the Rockstar attention for all of this work.

 

What is YOUR codex and what IMPOSSIBLE Light and Dark archetypes represent YOUR soul signature spiritual celebrity brand and eros-pheric vibey allure?

 

Perhaps it’s time for more goddesses to step into their STARLET visibility with whatever their unique Avatar identity and signature branding is to have more mainstream ascension influence?

 

That includes allure (not just embodiment, but radiance OF embodiment).

 

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“I Don’t Want To Be A Celebrity Or Famous…I Just Want Massive Impact”

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Spirit-Centered Divine Feminine Entrepreneur On A Big Mission?

“Ok, (but) I don’t want to become a ‘celebrity’…I just want massive impact”

 

Someone said this literally to me recently so let me address this b/c it may reveal some things for you as well as we dig deeper into these updated Starlet codes and having your own business personal brand centered in spirit as an entrepreneur with social media…it also reflects MY journey.

 

IF you know that you are on a BIG dharma and you are meant to have a massive impact and influence with your ascension codes and HOW the divine feminine and spirit is working with and through you;

 

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First; Have you read the brand new ‘Dawn of the Spiritual Starlet‘ power post?

 

Ok…So here’s the thing…you might be thinking of influence but ‘celebrity’ seems too much of a stretch for you.

 

Yet ironically; you may not be thinking or valuing of the ENDGAME template that would actually allow you to fulfill your highest timelines.

 

To help with clarity, let’s FACE that word alone which can be triggering; triggering of envy and other emotions.

 

Let’s value ‘celebrity’ not as something ‘out there’ or for a handful of ‘elite’, ‘privileged’ or ‘lucky’ people (and then associate that entirely with shadow)…instead; let’s repurpose the light truth of celebrity to what it is in modern day where we CAN rise outside of ‘the system’ to have organic, SOCIAL success with attention and visibility – where more of us can be new forms of star and starlet.

 

Let’s re-frame celebrity to a bit smaller scale but still where it has:

 

DREAM LEVEL ATTENTION, ENDLESS NEW RECOGNITION AND INFINITE VISIBILITY AND BRANDING SUCCESS…

 

All with the integrity of YOUR CODES. Where it doesn’t have to be MILLIONS of fans and followers but where you are a ‘specialty’ or ‘niche’ celebrity but really with your own branding….NOW is it a bit more in reach and palatable?

 

How does ‘spiritual celebrity’ sound to you now?

 

YOU living your highest timeline with ORGANIC recognition and mass attention having that kind of impact. How is that NOT a form of great influence when celebrity IS the archetype with such attention?

 

Because if you can wrap your head around it and start ACCEPTING yourself or at least your CODEX and path as a template for you to live into AS a spiritual star/let or spiritual celebrity….by removing your resistances to ALL of being seen, known, recognized and even famous NOW will collapse TIMELINES.

 

It’s then no longer galaxies AWAY from you.

 

And what if that opened up the massive attention and recognition you were looking for?

 

What if that could shift your presence if you started accepting yourself as WORTHY of that attention like these archetypes bring in?

 

And hey; I didn’t view or value myself as a ‘celebrity’ before either…I wasn’t thinking on it or planning it before either…but now I realize it’s in full alignment with my highest timeline and Beloved’s Divine Will.

 

The right hand 2 finger tattoos I have is ‘star’ and BTS (behind the scenes); so I’ve dealt with this as well; NOT valuing myself as a ‘celebrity’. That seemed too far ‘out there’.

 

However; at several key moments the past 9 months I realized and accepted that I am on a true STAR path and it’s bigger than I ever thought…it’s not a traditional star path (remember that we have social media now so we can become our own stars with our own galaxy and people, clients, fans, followers in our own orbits), but it’s a path…I realize I actually AM meant to be ‘the brand’ and THAT visible instead of hiding behind it.

 

You and I; we’re not here for superficial vain reasons of wanting attention alone for attention’s sake; nuh-uh…we’re talking about those of us like you and I who are spiritually encoded and rich TO SERVE with the RIGHTEOUS visibility and recognition socially…to HAVE influence with integrity.

 

Isn’t that a GOOD thing? You don’t even have to be a Human Design projector to benefit from deep and wide soul level branding and recognition success.

 

But instead; you may find that you want to have one foot in and one foot out of BEING SEEN at the levels you’re MEANT TO BE….’soul’ starlet sounds cozier than being in the public eye and having MASSIVE impact if you were (God forbid!) a form of starlet or spiritual celebrity.

 

The thing is; if you’re meant to have MASSIVE IMPACT but are also self-sabotaging yourself FROM having massive impact AS a form of influencer, starlet or celebrity IN THEIR EYES – aren’t you holding back what’s possible without even realizing it?

Your Calling Is Bigger Than 'You'

ALSO; you may not be willing to pay ‘the price’ for such success either; thus getting CLEAR on your values now is critical.

 

And I don’t mean being superficial or vain; I’m talking being aligned, embodied and in divine service and visibility with integrity to your codes and soul purpose mission – socially and collectively.

 

DO you trust in your STARLET CODEX and your configuration of the divine feminine and that version of you embodied and expressed? That it’s mission first and things flow from there?

 

Well; shouldn’t you HAVE social power and status to INFLUENCE the mainstream and inspire them towards ascension?

 

Then why would you get caught up in thinking attention is just shallow? No – it’s INFLUENCE. You’re not in it for vanity alone even though some others may be.

 

DIVINE FEMININE MEDICINE is so much of WHAT’S MISSING in the world for healing, reunification and renaissance. Spiritual starlets serve a special role in breaking out of the spiritual bubble and into affecting mainstream cross-over with the integrity to their own unique Codex and branding.

 

At some point along the path I realized that I was so COMFORTABLE being the ‘behind the scenes’ guy (for YEARS); but I realized that NO – I had to be the ‘star to the stars’ where they look up to me as THEIR secret weapon; not merely ‘star bts’…that is my actual templating from Beloved.

 

So as COZY as it was to be schleppier and BTS relying more heavily on testimonials and word of mouth rather than just selling from my presence alone; my templating was and is to step into the STAR (especially with the visual work)…and simply past a certain point you CANNOT CONTROL IT.

 

You cannot control how everyone is going to perceive you…and you may want to obsessively control it – like I did.

 

THOSE ARE THE LARGER CURRENTS when we’re talking spiritual celebrity and being the ‘real thing’ in their eyes.

 

You have to accept a MUCH MUCH bigger paradigm of yourself and be able to hold it (that’s what we work on with your Starlet Codex in AvaStar).

 

Social status and POWER is important to have INFLUENCE. STARLET is more than ok with it…maybe you haven’t been because you’ve been playing smaller and questioning things; but what if you are meant to and meant to be worthy of holding such power (in rebirth)?

 

Maybe you have been trying to CONTROL things too much and playing it too small, cozy and comfortable because you can have a more a handful on others expectations and something of a buffer or protective bubble than if you were out there FULL-BLOWN like as a spiritual celebrity.

 

“I want to be massively influential but on ‘my terms’.”

 

It doesn’t always go that way.

 

Because; if you just WERE a spiritual celebrity YOU WOULD BE GETTING ALL THE ATTENTION and circulation YOU’VE DREAMT OF. THAT IS a form of powerful INFLUENCE…even though you can’t control everything about how others perceive you.

 

So are you ‘fully in’ to the scale of your dharma and service? Isn’t that your desire?

 

Or do you have one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake ready to hit the brakes at anytime (like I did)?

 

Because what happens with TRUE visible success of mainstream starlets is that they cannot control the waves of what happens; it’s MASSIVE attention.

 

And past a certain point you cannot even control WHEN people will take images of you on an ‘off day’ and things like that (it goes with the scale and territory) ; things which like me you’ve been wanting to reign control over ; but do you realize how much RESISTANCES you’re creating to it all (hiding out in your cave with zoom camera on off)?

 

You may have fears of BEING CONSUMED or burned at the stake that are coming across preventing your visibility and larger impact (what you said you desire).

What Else Do You Have To Sacrifice To Rebirth?

But, what if you submitted to the divine and FULL path of what you’re destined for; would it NOT actually be something LIKE a (social media) celebrity but with integrity of YOUR codes with branding that people can FEEL and sense you are the REAL DEAL not holding back?

 

See; this is big stuff.

 

Are you REALLY in it for divine service? Then why are you still in all these hidden and not-so-hidden ways HOLDING ON?

 

Your codes should keep you grounded and stable enough anyways to not fall into the forms of shadow from mass visibility, so why not submit, attune to and integrate to the greater architecture?

 

(This is also an upgrade for the 7 current soul starlets in in AvaStar I’m serving for them)

 

And then you want to see if you have value conflicts, tensions and resistances around the concept of ‘spiritual’ and ‘celebrity’ together because that may also reveal an area where you are unknowingly stifling your own potential.

 

Your Starlet Codex holds the keys to access and embody Starlet (even if She isn’t otherwise in your codex; She is a proxy for your SOCIAL visible transfiguration of divine feminine codes)…and then reference Darshan; the super-natural levels of alchemical Beauty which we work on esp. in IMAGO VIP Starlet support and reference the spiritual starlet or spiritual celebrity architecture (OVER ‘soul starlet’).

 

Think of how this line of thinking goes;

 

“I want massive impact but I want CONTROL over how others view and perceive me….I don’t want the cons of being famous b/c I’d rather be comfortable and not actually have that level of success or my spiritual bubble and circle will ostracize me or I’ll be burnt by others who don’t understand or I’ll get paralyzed and embarrassed in public BUT I STILL WANT MASSIVE IMPACT”...

 

…See all the confusion you’re sending out to the vibrational universe (which responds based on who you ARE)?

 

It remains a dream and fantasy; finding ways to RESIST extra attention…and then you have more entropy and are still struggling FOR attention and ‘working’ for virality, marketing, algorithmicking, hoping and dreaming, etc. to get people to notice you – or even have to chase people down. Ugh.

 

When starlet just GETS ATTENTION (and you’re resisting Her and that in many ways).

 

And soul or spiritual starlet gets attention for her codes and who she presents herself to be….you/we get to SCULPT that and it centers on your Starlet Codex.

 

SO WHAT IF YOU SUBMITTED TO THE TEMPLATE OF AMPLIFICATION OF THE INTEGRITY OF YOUR CODES?

 

That it’d be OK TO BE CONSUMED (in healthy, non-siphoning ways to get these codes out) as a spiritual starlet with YOUR unique divine feminine/Goddess codex?!

 

What if you sacrificed your lower, unworthy egoic self that cannot hold the power of those codes you are crucibled with and stepped into the fullness of your path with solid action steps forward?

 

Where STARLET can work with and through you (amplifying them)?

 

B/c if you are continually resisting that which is UNDENIABLY ATTENTION-GETTING RICH (starlet and celebrity and stepping into that identity architecture and support) how are you going to live it in reality (esp. when social media and organic attention is so prime and future-proof with marketing from here forward)?

 

It’s a process but you have to be PROGRESSIVE on it….we can collapse timelines and have a lot of leverage to work with but you still have to go through the actual transfiguration into your embodied Avatar Starlet.

 

That I ‘am’ the Muse Magician and The Beauty Sorcerer and that celebrities will be in awe and lit by this…star to stars?!…it’s all bigger than me. It’s my SOUL self and SPIRIT (codex).

 

It’s a LOT to accept about oneself that’s why the SOUL is the center; the ego can’t hold all of this and would corrupt it – then we have to work on your temple body to hold your codes (in AvaStar).

 

 

 

I’m letting greater identity of my Star Codex guide things because I cannot compromise and I am taking the ACTIONS to live it as the celebrity brand. I have to be BIGGER to have that kind of influence. STAR is the template.

 

I’ve become ‘ok’ (more than ok) with being an encoded celebrity; a spiritual celebrity is a term for it – but it’s still MY/Muse CODES that is open and attracting of ‘the larger currents’ for MAINSTREAM industry and cultural evolution. I’m on a King’s path but also a Star path.

 

Even my human design with the celebrity branding (Star Codex) has so much to do with it all…and yours does too.

 

So…if or when will you accept that you ARE on a path of greater influence, then why not accept that you ARE a form of Starlet and a new kind of celebrity (with your own channels)?

 

Because; THERE’S YOUR (BIG) INFLUENCE. BOOM.

 

Then just LIVE from that Truth of spirit actualized.

 

“Yeah but I’ more cozy with my current circle of friends and don’t want to rock their boat and what they think of me”…

 

Well;

 

What’s more important; them or your dharma? You can make new friends. And if you’re a Human Design 4 line opportunist – there is STRATEGY for you to GROWTH your form of followership AS an in-self Opportunist (with your Starlet Codex) that is more circle friendly and expansive but without compromise to the scale of your vision.

 

If you’re a 3 or 5 line, you’re MEANT to rock the boat.

 

So with more contemplation; could you step into that ‘spiritual starlet’ or ‘spiritual celebrity’ architecture for yourself instead of RESISTING IT?

 

How many more years can you afford to be held back from the organic recognition, visibility and attention that money cannot buy?

 

And just how big IS your vision? Because some of the soul starlets (soon spiritual starlets) have BIGGG visions for THEIR brand and soul path of influence in AvaStar.

 

So I’d say that this is real soul-food for contemplation. There’s a LOT of leverage here to make powerful identity changes fast.

 

The AvaStar Makeover monthly Starlet support (with LIMITED spots b/c of how much time it takes) is available with the new IMAGO: VIP Level (which is AvaStar servicing plus live immersion VIP day experience/s with me).

 

This is where we do all of the juicy work on your Codex and celebrity branding and makeover itself which changes and affects EVERYTHING including your marketing and how people are responding to you.

 

You can reach out to me for a complimentary reconnection point if you are called to seriously and possibly move forward with AvaStar (on that page) AvaStar HQ

 

-Rion

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