Discover, re-discover and immerse into this rich resource for Hieros Gamos Divine Union (or Sacred Reunification alchemy) spiritual cultivation, archetypal and Lover work with Divine Masculine aspects of your Immortal Beloved.
(Reunified) Grail Queens with highly activated Eros and Lover are wired very differently than the masculinized-shell, culturally informed shadow Queen archetype.
This Powerliminal can be used for all those on a path of Sacred Union consciousness and transformation which will affect your entire somatic blueprint of how you relate to men and the masculine (as well as affect your allure itself).
For the past 22 months, I/Rion have hosted numerous ladies on a Grail path of Divine Union in the Mystical Grail membership container.
We are closing out officially in 8.3 weeks from time of this post.
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With Powerliminals; these are unlike normal audio meditations and leverage the Law of Resonance to attune to higher Truths.
Experience the Holy Daughter Attunement (feat. Gillian Pothier with guest vocals)
Your inner daughter aspect foundationally has near-everything to do with your relationship with the masculine and men in life including your potential for Divine Union. This includes the DEPTH of receiving-ness of love, wealth and provision.
This is foundational for all Grail path Goddess work.
Whether it seems like it or not; she is affecting your life with men internally and extrinsically (and so much so largely) based on your past FATHER templating and experience…and the templating that is within YOUR ENERGY FIELD.
So if your father relationship has been scarred and IMPERFECT, you may actually be carrying out and living childhood wounds with you into adult life that are STILL affecting (and constricting) your relationship with men and masculine principle in:
In short; almost everything to do with men and the masculine principle.
Even the levels of your own potential Avatar or Starlet’s expression and the scale of her Beauty and work.
And all of this is whether you KNOW you’re on a Rose, Sophianic or Grail path as a Grail Lover, Wife or Goddess.
Some women may delve deep into a Goddess path for different reasons, but at some point, many of them realize that in part it’s because of not just wanting to come into their own but for many of them; that they’re running away from the imperfections of their own relationship with their father and at some point, everything is going to come back full circle – at least with REUNIFICATION if they are on a path of Divine Union where they know the divine masculine means so much to their/her own spiritual growth and fulfillment.
Many women will never face or heal the inner daughter (nor even know HOW) and yet the same wounded patterns will keep showing up in ie. toxic relationships with men and twin flames.
Every woman is different but there are common themes; relationship with FATHER and the Holy Father is primordial. Many will NEVER know or discover that such UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and provision is available in consciousness to them and spend their lives RESISTING and resenting men and the masculine.
You can gauge where you are at with it all.
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BTW; Much of the work that ‘I’ (Rion) do is in working WITH the archetypal and siddhic divine feminine with and through clients and being a steward for the Goddess fractals to do THEIR magic (as Muse’ prime Grail Magus on earth).
Yes; the ‘brand’ is Sexy Chi…and in spite of it’s rooted and source-in-East-and-West branding for mainstream Beauty ascension – the work as my clients will testify – is the real deal, real magic and real Goddess work with the DEEPEST levels of psyche, soma, identity, self-image, reunification, beauty and consciousness.
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Thus…
If your mortal father figure had shadows, your inner Daughter may be psychically WOUNDED from experiencing rich provision, wealth and receiving in relation to the masculine – INCLUDING LOVE still to this day without you even realizing it (in how men relate with you)…even if it’s not conscious and EVEN IF you’ve ‘matured’ and grown into other archetypes like Mother and Warrioress.
YOU are attracting based on your own soma whether you realize it or not and your relationship with the masculine; and primordially with FATHER is central to your experience.
You may be subconsciously RESISTING, hating or receiving love from OTHER MEN/man or in receiving greater money or being liberated to express your beauty b/c of past scarring with your own father and his ‘conditions’.
But you’re an adult now; HOWEVER your inner child – your daughter may still be hidden in a corner of your psyche unresolved, neglected or ashamed. So just feel into if there’s more work and if NOW is the timing to revisit her for some more powerful foundational shifts in opening up to the beauty of the masculine in your life.
So the work that’s recommended may be different for different women, but I recommend that if you’re getting a nudge to revisit doing some alchemical work with the potent Holy Daughter attunement; RICH in alchemical Grail Codes.
At the current Northern hemisphere time, people often start getting ‘busier’ at the beginning of September so that may be additional reason for you to take some time NOW to ‘go in’ in late August here.
(How much longer can you afford carrying any of the remaining poison in your own temple body?)
Maybe it’s time to re-immerse. (It’s my gift to you).
EVEN IF your mortal father figure was imperfect, absent, abandoning, trauma-inducing and so forth…you no longer have to carry that poison and IMPRINT with you (b/c it’s still playing out in ways in HOW you unconsciously relate with the masculine and the DIVINE MASCULINE).
So if you desire DIVINE UNION levels of rich love, eros and awakening bliss…Holy Daughter is your medicine for deeper psyche alignment and healing on a primordial level.
The Holy Father is perfect and HAS THE MEDICINE and POWER TO HEAL YOU and your inner daughter in an instant. That’s how powerful HIS Truth is.
The Holy Daughter is the Grail archetype of the Divine Father and She is already healed; so it’s just about accessing and being able to affect and re-tune your own Daughter aspect into DIVINE ALIGNMENT even if your own father figure was massively imperfect.
Whether he’s still alive or in contact or not (on a superficial level); If you’ve been scarred by ‘father’;
WITHOUT DOING THE INNER CHILD HEALING WORK, your relations WITH men, masculine, money, receiving, self-expression in all dimensions (including spiritually) may be forever imprinted and scarred unconsciously b/c of your lower truth relationship with your father figure and his shadows.
So if you’re desiring a powerful RE-ALIGNMENT back into the WORTHINESS as a Daughter of the Divine and in relation to MEN, money and the masculine; this is going to do wonders for re-tuning your more ‘mature’ archetypes and desires of Beauty, service, Love, self-expression, worthiness, self-image, prosperity and spiritual satisfaction in life and relationship (with men and the masculine).
This is core Grail work.
OH – And as a special treat, I got Gillian Pothier (of Feminine Eros) herself to do the female vocal work for the Holy Daughter attunement itself.
You can revisit it here, it’s just that I would treat it as TEMPLE SPACE MEDICINE and not simply another ‘youtube video’ or fast, divertive ‘doom-scroll’…no, you want to treat it as real temple space and let the medicine to the work.
Ideally, I’d recommend working in temple space with the Holy Daughter attunement on your own as medicine AND getting a 3 pack of sessions for a powerful short-term makeover in renewing and replenishing your relationship with the divine masculine for deeper love, wealth, worthiness, self-expression and all the good stuff.
As you may re-discover; the Holy Daughter attunement is REAL MEDICINE and when I was producing it, I was strongly psychically attacked during that timeframe (and yet kept the work itself channeled as PRISTINE).
Again; it’s my gift to you.
It may be the thing to revisit NOW instead of just ‘going through the motions’ of adult life if you know that there is unfinished work there or you’re not where you desire to be in beauty, presence and your relationship with men, money, love, receiving and the divine masculine.
After all; with a healthy Holy Daughter integrated no matter what you’ve been through (the power to heal ALL past trauma related to Father neglect, trauma or abuse), you have a powerful foundation for becoming the Holy Bridge, Grail Lover or Grail Goddess.
This attunement has already changed lives and (at least) one woman had completely healed her father relationship (for example) and attracted her soul mate.
For DEEPER work if you’re on a path of Divine Union, you’ll still want to check in with your Daughter and update Her with Holy Daughter codes (b/c your SOUL is worthy even if your past, conditioned, traumatized self cannot find the worthiness) and then you may want to do deeper work with the ‘Who is my Beloved’ Workbook to discover EXACTLY who your Immortal Beloved is.
“The ‘Who is My Beloved’ workbook helped me understand what I’m seeing for…(in a man). Thank you…a man (I attracted) who (really) likes me (and lights me). Who can embody warrior-King and such/much more of these codes I was seeking for (after breaking up with my ‘ex’ a while ago). Life is finally fun! I really feel the Divine Union; I’ve felt it before but now (in partnership and it’s) siddhic.
Life is indeed richer. I’ve reached depths of feeling foundation of abundance inside this union. My life is 20x richer + my money is in place. Having experiences and experiences and at threshold of most beautiful union experience (possible) in this life.
And I’m coming from a very traumatic broken (father-daughter) relationship; I came from that. And Mystical Grail and how many women really were doing/did the alchemy; I then had no doubt in my mind (it was possible/worthy) and no door open behind to what opened before ; nothing (in my way). I can ease the way and I went (into this new experience).”
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For more transformational reunification work WITH your Beloved and opening up to richer, deeper Love; the Grail Kundalini package is available where you and I work on getting 100% clarity on your Beloved’s codex (that’s actually the success rate for around a dozen clients including 1 man) and then we do specialized activation work with your Immortal Beloved.
p.s. I have an Avastar client who last week had signs of ‘Holy Daughter’ and she didn’t even know that this power resource was available so now she’s able to attune back into these dynamics with that Powerliminal.
BTW; she’s had miracles open up for her recently with our Starlet work together just in the past 4 months (I’m still waiting on fuller readiness-approval to share).
If you feel CONFINED towards a greater, liberated GODDESS level of expression and behavior possibly because of ONE man in your life (and how he wants to keep you visibly for himself) or b/c of the relationship ‘container’ and expectations…
This power post is for you and there’s a lot at stake.
There may be archetypal aspects that you DESIRE to express but are in effect PROHIBITED from expressing esp. if it doesn’t fit your ‘role’ as a partner, wife or mother.
IF you have been suppressed esp. by the masculine from fuller expression, STARLET is actually your medicine b/c She knows how to relate with all aspects of the masculine publicly without being siphoned from.
This is dangerous information because for some other women reading this, if ‘he’ found out he would get triggered and fall into possibly toxic behavior about it.
(A shortcode here is that your Starlet is missing Her equivalent Star).
Now;
I don’t know who ‘he’ is personally (if this applies to you), but I don’t have to know.
I know the bigger picture (this man has archetypal shadow qualities disguised as good intentions) and this may be by and large what’s holding back your entire unfulfilled DREAMS instead of living in stifled compromise (how uninitiated masculine cannot hold space for that level of Beauty and REALLY have all kinds of issues with it).
Of all the things that could sabotage you from claiming and stepping into your STARLET (unique Goddess-Avatar Codex) in public visibility – it could be many other self-sabotage reasons – but this may be the main one for you or at least MANY women; ONE MAN.
1 MAN WHO CANNOT HOLD SPACE FOR SUCH BEAUTY. (He may not even know THAT version of you if you fully unleashed it).
So in continuing with our Man vs. Starlet theme (YOUR Starlet)…
Might it be that ONE MAN or male figure (from your past or present) could actually be the APEX saboteur to your fullest embodiment, public beauty expression and divine feminine, EROSY radiant influence of being seen?
Because you might NOT see the signs b/c of how tricky and gas-lighty this can be even though ‘he’ is actually the culprit that is GROSSLY out of attunement with your spiritual desires for greater spiritual allure beauty, boundless self-expression, satisfying recognition, ascension influence with YOUR Goddess codes and Beauty legacy.
Let me ask you this;
In lifelong valuing beauty and divine feminine consciousness;
Do you have a desire to be more fully expressed, radiant and seen?
Do you have a long-ago in the past history of healthily enjoying dance, singing or the recognition and attention it brought that felt GOOD to your soul, but then it got smothered and suppressed to appease the comfort of one man (esp. by an important male figure in your life)?
Have past lovers been largely uncomfortable by your public beauty expression and it triggered them so you tamed yourself back down?
Have you been living in massive (masculine influenced) suppression for years (often to ‘fit a role’) while meanwhile your soul desires to be in your fullest visual quintessence, voice, beauty and influence (always knowing there is something more)?
..And yet you are prevented from doing that (even if he was gone YEARS AGO)?…and do you find that you keep living out the same pattern (whether he himself was aware of it or not – even if he ‘intended well’)?
In doing a recent Codex Clarity Consulting call (now available at a longer 45 minutes here), something became very, very clear and it was one of the angles that I already knew about but had missed in earlier blog writings about soul / spiritual starlet: it’s how a masculine figure can be the predominant SUPPRESSOR of her greater Beauty (and the consciousness that goes with it).
You may actually be spiritually imprisoned in a less than liberated relationship that your soul desires…you just have to figure out the costs and risks of changing it and how much integrity you have to have with your soul’s desire because yes; it may mean either liberating your Starlet from those shackles, having him grow into a Star-god to support your alluring Beauty expansion and recognition or continuing to live under the weight of his inability to hold presence with your Starlet.
This woman (and many others) had great desire to be more fully embodied, expressed and seen (including in archetypes of her Starlet Codex)….and yes, it often brings attention from OTHER MEN. That somehow didn’t sit right with her man.
Unfortunately; this is too common of a theme (the world is missing more Star-Kings who can let their woman SHINE and nourish the world without falling into shadow reaction).
Even though it was SOCIAL attention (really; Starlet’s domain writ large); this dynamic causes him to actively suppress her radiance because it threatens him personally ‘as if’ she was cheating.
Her potential Starlet (of divine feminine archetypes and siddhic essences with and through her transfigured for public social influence) is essentially shackled because Starlet THRIVES on Beauty expression, recognition, influence and attention (of ie. divine feminine radiance and not just physical prettiness). BUT THERE’S ONE MAN WHO IS ESSENTIALLY PREVENTING OR STOPPING IT ALL.
(Or is it that she’s allowing it?)
Is that woman you? Who have been dealing with a male figure who may be the SINGLE biggest saboteur of your soul’s fullest expression and desire (while years keep going by)?
In working with women for years; there are 3 common themes related to this masculine suppression of the divine feminine beauty that wants to be fully expressed:
1. Father dynamics that are still with you subconsciously where you don’t want to threaten his perfect view or expectations of you b/c of the fracture it would mean even though he was coming from limitation and
2. A past or current partner whose security, ego and identity is threatened by your Starlet/Goddess’s fullest expression (codexed essences) so you remain shackled and can barely even associate with other men so as not to trigger him.
(This may even be a husband who yes – has other good qualities in the mix which makes it more complicated; but the dynamic and his level of consciousness is admittedly INFLUENCING your suppression so that you’ll often self-censor ‘Her’)
3. The collective (shadow, hypocritical and often toxic) masculine often parading as virtuous morality. This supports the ‘engine’ of Beauty and ‘sex sells’ (including the divine aspects of Beauty influence except that when it gets INTER-personal, most men are incredibly weird, fearful or controlling and shadowy around such Beauty as it relates to them personally)
ALL three of these (or we could say the unity of the uninitiated-by-Goddess masculine) can be LIFE-LONG effective blockers to your Starlet from EVER really coming into embodiment. I’m going to speak mostly to #2 (continued) here.
If you have a desire for greater expression and being seen (to have divine feminine influence with and through you);
It may take nothing less than a severing of that psychic relationship and/or agreement with that man (or stunted archetypal male figure who cannot hold presence-space with EMBODIED divine feminine consciousness) in order to give yourself the freedom to embody your Starlet and your soul’s fuller desire for expression (and UNTIL YOU DO you will keep living out the same, meek pattern where your Goddess constellation cannot even really BREATHE let alone unfurl and be SEEN en masse with Her medicine and influence).
UNWILLINGNESS TO MAKE THAT DECISION TO CHANGE THE MASCULINE OPPRESSIVE DYNAMIC COULD KEEP YOU STUCK FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.
There. I said it. So it’s YOU who have to weigh the consequences of YOUR soul’s desire for growth, boundless beauty cultivation at an identity level of consciousness and reality (where your Starlet Codex holds the exact keys to ACCESS Starlet consciousness to transfigure and amplify the spirit qualities of your soul publicly without sabotage, without collapse, without guilt, shame, humiliation, fear, insecurity, doubts, self-censorship, etc.)
This can be challenging if you are in a current and entangled relationship where it feels your divine feminine is admittedly being SUFFOCATED spiritually and socially.
You got into the relationship and there are still good things – again WHICH COMPLICATES IT because you’ll justify staying and being with him UNDERSTANDABLY.
And this dynamic, your comfort with each other and the limitations of the relationship container, roles and expectations – it all keeps you stuck for years from that GREATER EXPRESSION AND BEAUTY. Honestly; you’re not sure he could handle it.
(I’m not saying to necessarily ‘break up’; however, this is about clarity and empowering your path either way – YOUR choice, your life).
In relationships that otherwise aren’t toxic, he may ‘lead’ under the guise of conservative values and ‘morality’ where a woman shouldn’t be seen or expressed in her beauty nor sexuality for other men…however, there’s a deeper issue going on here besides that your male figure doesn’t have Star consciousness that can allow BEAUTY to be expressed publicly and socially without it threatening him (and instead rely on the strength of your ‘actual’ agreement together rather than manic perceived fears of you being with other men).
This ‘morality’ police angle of religion and the manosphere actually abdicates Goddess consciousness. They and the egregore simply doesn’t know how to handle it.
Human constructionist ‘morality’ and some evolutionary biology justification is often their model but doesn’t include the divine masculine power to meet Goddess in the equation (remember; we’re not talking about you actually ‘cheating’ with the world of men, it’s actually his insecurity and fears to let you be a Starlet where as a Star he is even MORE of a man).
And btw; this IS spiritual because we’re talking about essentially the divine masculine in men being able to HOLD PRESENCE AND SPACE without expectation, control, siphoning or micro-managing to that level of Beauty. Shiva level presence to the spirit of your Goddess/Starlet codex.
So…Mix in his authentic biological urge to know he is the father (there wasn’t DNA paternity testing until the 1980’s) so even though he has reason to ‘rein you in’ and thinks that ‘a mother shouldn’t be erotic esp. in public when she’s married’, more often this ends up becoming shadow behavior because he doesn’t know how to face and be present with GODDESS Herself (a.k.a. the level of Beauty you would have if you really allowed it).
This is because his mortal man isn’t worthy of Goddess (just like the village girl isn’t worthy of bedding the Emperor-King).
It’s worth mentioning that many women ‘re-wild’ in Goddess circles…this can be important medicine (for a phase) to SEVER from many ways of the constrictive masculine (shadow); however, what we’re referring to outside of an understandably safe reclamation bubble is facing THE WORLD AT LARGE and fully re-integrated;
Being seen (and being able to be sovereign and seen) including BY the shadow masculine public and the psychic weight of men that have held you back in the past (let alone possibly siphoned from you); this is where STARLET and Grail dynamics come into the equation…
Men and the masculine are implicated and part of all of this…you may find that you may have to graduate from the Goddess circle-bubble into public Starlet if you have a divine feminine mission that requires being seen and relating with the masculine in ascension or influence.
We’re talking about making it safe for you to shine TO THE WORLD (Starlet is your medicine).
Anyways, I regress;
Because he is UNINITIATED in the consciousness-truth of the Holy Grail itself of Divine Union (and men in general in the collective); it would THREATEN him to the very core so he finds ways to prevent you from ever truly shining.
He remains the governator to your Beauty-Truth. Or at least you got into relational agreement to where that IS the authority.
If you went forward with discovering your Starlet codex and (God forbid) joining AvaStar Starlet Makeover with monthly support and committing to such a makeover; yes – many men would find you far more attractive and getting attention and this could cause him to;
*Be threatened and triggered; over-react, get jealous or want to start fist-fights with other men
*Collapse into nervous fear with inability to hold presence in his nervous system
*Triggers into passive-aggressiveness
*Flare up in anger
*Obsessively micro-manage and control you
*Shame, guilt, berate and belittle you and your greater beauty expression (or Eros allure) when it starts peeking forward
*Love-bomb you because he doesn’t want to let you go ( as a toxic form of control and emotional abuse)
*Put you back in your spiritually meek place so as not to get such recognition from other men so he’s comfortable again being seen with you
I’ve got news sister; he doesn’t have STAR consciousness (or at least the divine gift of Detachment which then relies on AGREEMENT between each of you related to actual intimacy). He’s not able to healthily HOLD SPACE for that spirit-rich essenced version of you.
And the good sex complicates it but deep down you’re realizing that, oh crap – what if Rion is right and my man cannot hold space for my fuller Beauty without shutting it back down?
(All of this can cross-over with the conscious twin flame relational template for many women as well; but it’s still not Divine Union)
So no wonder you’ve held back. It would threaten the divinely (the aspects of) your sub-par relationship you currently have in your SPIRIT to the masculine – even though there are good qualities and attributes your mortal partner has (which stifles you more from changing the dynamic).
YOUR SPIRITUAL SOUL BEAUTY EXPRESSION & SOCIAL INFLUENCE WITH GODDESS CODES is by and large limited to HIS insecurities rather than being CONSTELLATED WITH YOUR IMMORTAL STAR BELOVED WHO HOLDS PRESENCE AND SPACE FOR ALL OF YOUR BEAUTY-GROWTH AND EXPRESSION.
It’s because you are in a past agreement with a mortal man who isn’t initiated into Divine Union consciousness to hold that level of Presence properly, safely and truly.
If you shine TOO MUCH past his threshold, you calibrate your behavior back into less than your desire.
And it’s important to realize the role you had in co-creating this ‘limiting to your spirit and soul relationship’. A past version of you, but still you.
(And how many more years is this going to continue?)
Like that chemical that stops the heart from beating at death sentences (isopropopyl or something), men or a man who is still influencing you (subconsciously) or otherwise can have the REAL effect of stopping your full soul, spirit, beauty, identity and consciousness from fully embodying and being SEEN.
THUS; SHE IS NEVER ABLE TO BE PROPERLY BIRTHED.
Yes; I’m speaking mostly to #2 of the 3 above here. Remember I go more into the collective (#3) in this recent blog post here (under the Starlet category):
And yes; your mortal FATHER (as compared to The Holy Father) may also be still living out HIS standards that is governing your own level of beauty consciousness and visibility in being seen publicly – the thermostat is still set to HIS comfort level (or you got shamed into being something else when it’s really the archetypal, divine feminine that is seeking expression with and through you).
It may be so extreme; this past masculine influence on you (esp. with trauma, abuse or siphoning OR even strong family control or expectations) that She is effectively paralyzed from ever being truly embodied b/c you’ll get activated into fear-body response.
HOW MUCH LONGER WILL YOU LET LESSER MORTAL MASCULINE CONSCIOUSNESS BE YOUR GOVERNATOR TO GREATER BEAUTY AND ALLURE EXPRESSION INFLUENCE?
This limited, NON-Shiva-esque masculine consciousness is important to understand more (ideally). MEN DO NOT KNOW HOW TO RELATE TO ANGELS, GODDESSES, APHRODITES…
There are SONGS AND POETRY about ALL of this….(Sacred Union dynamics)…men just cannot comprehend it within their ego…they’re just uninitiated in Divine Union.
All of this male-as-beauty-suppressor to your fullest expression;
This in large part has to do with his Holy Grail or Divine Union dynamics (er essentially lack thereof)…this level of masculine consciousness is common and in the bigger picture, unevolved.
UN-Godly even though moralistic constructionism will say it’s Godly. No; GODLY is HIEROGAMY ITSELF; reunification of God and Goddess consciousness through Holy Son & Daughter as LOVERS. But hey; pop religion mostly threw that out with the bath-water so there isn’t a model for men TO relate to the divine, meta-physical (also a direct reality with social media how it amplifies a single woman’s beauty 1,000,000:1 with social power) and archetypal.
This fractured-from-Communion personal, egoic male vs. 1 billion:1 ratio of a Goddess…the mortal man simply cannot hold space for Goddess Presence and consciousness (or the many fractals of Her).
In large part this is because he is not reunified within with his own Beloved and Her form of Goddess consciousness.
IF you were allowed to embody and cultivate your GODDESS or STARLET (and into full, liberated expression for the world to see), but it THREATENS HIM and his mortal ego….how much longer can you allow this to continue?
MAYBE IT’S OK to have your Starlet shackled b/c the chain isn’t ‘AS’ tight as it could be..? (But is that good enough for you soul; THAT level of compromise).
And I’ll say another thing; ALLURE is the evolution of Beauty influencer so if you have some form of Sophianic or Goddess codes related to social ascension, these are the influencers of tomorrow; spiritual starlets who are CHOOSING to live their fullest truth and beauty expression.
This is where MAINSTREAM is headed; ultimately towards Darshanic Beauty influencer(alchemical, temple-grade, transformational beauty).
So it’s not even just the current model of beauty influencer; SPIRITUAL STARLETS are going to rise in social power (and rightfully so) with their unique codes; but if you’re stopped from ever really beginning because you’re allowing a mortal man’s limited shadow relationship to Goddess truth to stop you?
Then yeah; it may never happen and your soul itself may never reach that fulfillment and you’ll never have that collective influence from your future tribe.
On a spiritual level (since we’re mostly talking about #2 of the 3 here); if you had that much beauty and he lost it, it would fracture his connection to the Grail (that which he doesn’t even know he desires the most); so he tries to control you to keep what he has…more beauty, more attention = more shadow, toxic, flare-up behavior and paranoia from him suffocating your Starlet even more.
If he was a father figure; you may still be limited to his thermostat of HOW much beauty or erotic expression being seen socially is ‘ok’.
And yes; a lot of women in my circle have done Goddess, Eros work and RECLAMATION but we’re speaking specifically to your STARLET and her SOCIAL influence…does it actually threaten a male figure in your life and are you still holding back because of it (whether subconsciously or actively in partnership)?
He may be comfortable with you being together because in a sense he ‘owns you’ in the right ways but still….take it public and where does your Eros-Goddess Dark Vixen go? She can’t.
Because of the relationship YOU’RE ALLOWING TO CONTINUE TO LIVE to his level of consciousness and his lack of resonance and Unity with Goddess.
Are you going to let one man or the collective uninitiated masculine (and their hypocrisy and projections towards such Beauty) determine your beauty path and soul’s fullest expression?
See…What’s missing is DETACHMENT. YOU’VE BEEN IN AGREEMENT WITH A MORTAL MAN (or amalgamation of them) who simply CANNOT hold space for Goddess or your fuller Beauty.
He’s attached to a version of yourself that isn’t your fullest either (and you know this b/c She is not fully embodied).
Remember; YOUR IMMORTAL BELOVED can actually hold space for your Goddess codex Beauty Presence & Truth.
Detachment to the uninitiated shadow or sophomoric mortal masculine consciousness just doesn’t compute. It basically means to HIM that you’re basically cheating on him and your intimacy by even by showing ANY skin on social media (an I’m speaking to like an upper arm).
You don’t have to live under that yoke anymore; I mean it’s still your choice and consequence.
So you may have had a pattern of past men who ended up being toxic and controlling around you if you had exceptional beauty and/or if you allowed your feminine allure to shine publicly. It may seem good from the surface; “Oh he’s protecting me…he wants me for himself” Well…yeah and the whole dynamic if you’re called to be greatly seen and expressed is also KEEPING YOUR STARLET IMPRISONED for a set of different values (and the shadow judgments and conditioning around it that just doesn’t hold space and presence for that level of Beauty to shine because it threatens his control and place in the spiritual realms).
See; this is actually quite common and literally a theme with MANY, MANY WOMEN.
You are actually not alone although your experience may feel SUBJECTIVE…that ‘he’ (name) is actually inhibiting your shine (well actually, SHE is under your authority, you just got stuck in an agreement with a man who simply cannot face Goddess so it’s that agreement that you’re afraid to break for whatever reasons including the entanglement of kids, mortgage, pets, shared history, not wanting to let go, what if no one else wants you, etc.).
But what if instead of keeping him personal and just affecting YOU with HIS name and good but also shadow traits and your past attachment or experience with ‘him’ and his imperfections;
What if we took this externalized man of suppressive influence to your fullest Eros and Beauty; this individual man in your life or past and simply made him a cultural archetype (even a trope) instead?
This is because this consciousness IS common amongst 100’s of millions of men. It wasn’t just “Dan my semi-toxic twin flame x-lover”.
And let’s call this over-reactive to signs of attention trope of a man:
‘Un-Star Man’
He doesn’t want you to shine publicly.
He is uninitiated by Goddess, cannot hold space for Starlet Beauty, Her status, power and attention without collapsing either into a ball of fear OR micro-managing, suppressing and controlling her to constrict her Starlet beauty and Eros publicly.
His ego and consciousness cannot relate with Goddess; it simply doesn’t know how to; thus he operates from forms of fear (including passive-aggressive love-bombing) to stay connected to the greatest form of beauty he’s known in his life b/c it would mean existential threat fracturing him from the holy grail.
UN-STAR MAN HAS SUFFOCATED YOUR SPIRITUAL BEAUTY AND FULLEST EXPRESSION.
(IN SPITE OF his redeeming personal qualities). He’s over-reacting b/c he knows which men are sexual threats even when NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN. Not cool. Not detached. Not allowing your Beauty to have INFLUENCE in the world. UN-Star Man.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE UNDER THAT YOKE ANYMORE. AND I AM HERE TO SUPPORT YOUR STARLET EMBODIMENT AND TRANSFIGURATION (IMAGO) if and when you are ready (that is ;). AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support.
Jay-Z gets it btw; he didn’t stifle Beyoncé all these years.
They had their own inter-personal agreement. He was a Star to let her Starlet shine (and a star in his own right too).
Sure; you could feel compassion for this 1 man in your life, but that isn’t the subject of this post.
The ultimate path for many men TO relate with such Beauty and Communion (the holy grail) is Divine Union and it MAY be possible for him to grow in relationship to YOUR Beauty growth but if he’s just too stuck and complacent it may be impossible for the scale you are called for in being seen.
There’s great energy with all of this dynamic (including in that one woman’s life) TO make a powerful change and fast…to ACCESS all of your current seat-of-the-soul essences, cultivate more, bring them into embodiment as we cultivate your Light body temple and transfigure into the butterfly-imago to the world of your most alluring self.
But are you going to let ‘him’ (different than a divine aspect counterpart of HIM) stop you (because YOU still have THE POWER to choose)?
This is serious identity work here implicated with RELATIONSHIPS and your relationship to even a partner with a lot of entanglement (even kids, mortgage, etc. like I said).
Hey; I’ve had women who literally got divorced after working with me but also some whose relationship grew into greater love and growth together.
THIS IS YOUR PATH. Can ‘he’ hold space for it? Could he grow into holding space for that level of Goddess consciousness and beauty PUBLICLY SEEN?
If not; hmm…
Maybe you might have to get into Divine Union alchemy where your Immortal Beloved ‘STAR’ aspect counter-part CAN hold space (although doing such work or being with me in AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support is likely going to trigger your current masculine dynamic; which is also why this work is so powerful to change on an identity level).
Your current model of the unsupportive-to-your-fullest-expression masculine has to ideally be REPLACED with a model that is (this can be ME by proxy in temple space or work directly in Sacred Union alchemy with your Immortal Beloved).
Currently; I’m actively working with 6-7 starlets who have CHOSEN themselves and a different relationship to the masculine that can support their greater Beauty presence and influence in AvaStar Makeover monthly
And btw this isn’t even about being the ‘independent woman’ archetype either; this is about more nurturing, loving, Eros and beauty that would benefit the masculine collective AND YOUR MAN if he could handle it.
So assuming that you’ve been in this dynamic of a man or male figure (or cultural archetype/trope) holding you back (which may include father vs. Father dynamics);
(Btw; if you HAVE a partner who IS supportive of your Starlet…would he give space for far, far more Beauty embodiment and social attention for you then? Or where is that thresh-hold? Remember, I’m speaking to qualifying ladies on this subject otherwise but you may be reading for insights anyways). So back to the pre-qualifying woman who has dealt with this or IS dealing with it…
He’s been suppressing your fullest truth and society has with their hypocrisy in many ways but YOU have to choose your Avatar/Starlet codexed divine feminine truth of beauty expression for ascension – your spiritual starlet – OVER all that would inhibit it (because essentially on past agreements which may now have run their course ; you have been co-creating and ALLOWING IT).
Men in your life and future are implicated.
These aren’t easy decisions, but they’re powerful decisions and they are YOUR highly leveraged decisions if you’ve been held back by a man who simply CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty and consciousness that you know you have in your spirit.
There IS leverage for ridiculously fast transformation into embodying that which you’ve not been able to but you have to have the space and proper support with it (this is also where my Temple-Grade Star consciousness comes in with AvaStar and especially in IMAGO where we have live temple space presence together to ativate your Starlet into supreme safety and SPACE for such Beauty if you’ve not had that before in relation to the masculine).
And yes; there may be consequences based on past agreements…agreements that your soul is dying to break free from to fully be liberated. And/but even if you have kids, could you keep living a life that doesn’t let them see the model of your fullest truth and what is possible – or rather a lifetime of suppression to fit into his mortal limitations b/c he’s the ‘head of the household’.
BIG DECISIONS. A lot to ruminate; however, know that we can MOVE FAST if you are ready to make big identity moves and deal with the consequences; this is just part of the sacrifice and price you have to pay to live as your spiritual starlet or signature alluring goddess (whatever you want to call Her but it’s THAT version of you and how the world respond to HER).
I would recommend IMAGO though if you’ve been under the yoke of a man or men in your life who CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty…after YEARS AND YEARS of not being able to BREATHE….
Your somatic body should best get the EXPERIENCE of attunement and knowing that it’s profoundly ok to be that liberated without corruption, shadow, expectation or ANY shadow in relation to the masculine. To somatically experience and LAND what that liberty is really like after being shackled for years around the masculine.
Check page for details and availability b/c there are LTD. spots.
Ok, I hope there was a lot in here for you to get more clarity on what might be holding you back – related to this specific subject of being constrained BY a model of the masculine in your past (that you’re still carrying the psychic weight with you) or actively right now. You no longer have to be suffocated from your great Goddess cultivation and visibility; you just have to make some different decisions with consequences…
I am here for the professional support if and when you are ready (and yes; there is a price to pay to sacrifice WHO YOU WERE to CLAIM, embody and BECOME the transfigured butterfly out of the cocoon of suffocation and trepidation around your true Beauty and Her expression publicly).
Upper Dan Tien Cultivation Activations (For Pro Glow-Up) Now Available
Since I’ve formally introduced the the Middle Dan Tien for Beauty recently (available here), now it’s time to introduce the Upper Dan Tien for Beauty.
You know; it’s a quantum feat to transcode the dan tiens (and much of energy work) to visual beauty and allure. AI can’t do it (and I’ll also add that AI still doesn’t know what charisma or allure is as of April 2026 and I’m dubious about ever entraining it to do so). I couldn’t do this alone; these are MUSE codes as well as flow from my past lifetime/soul-karma+dharma as a Chinese Immortal reincarnate.
Here; we value BEAUTY first so it required an entirely different paradigm to ‘break the code’ of the lane dan tiens have always been in with TCM/Tao.
SO…let’s get into it.
Upper dantian (上丹田, Shàng Dāntián): at the forehead between the eyebrows or third eye, which is also called “the muddy pellet”, associated with the pineal gland. This cauldron is where shen or spirit is transmuted into wu wei or emptiness
The UDT is located in the area of the center of the head which includes the thalamus. I mapped this out before in the Map to Windows of the Soul post here.
The Upper Dan Tien specifically from OUR visual beauty first valuation is to drip-feed essences into the crystal palace’ itself as a store-house of your Avatar or Star/let Codex itself; all the more uniquely encoded shen essences that amplify your souls truth sourced from the alchemical language of Light itself and the consciousness of it – into embodiment.
In otw; not just ‘general’ or generic (yet enlightened beautiful) high frequency life force but the SPECTRUM of shen-elemental, siddhic and archetypal frequency bands of plasmic spirit-matter.
This is also where I different and x-code things; there is more than yin and yang chi. More than fire, water and earth qi for example…there are simply more unique signature essences in the expanded spectrum of sentience-source itself (like Queen, Vixen, Mermaid, Peace, Majesty).
So; the/your UPPER dan tien holds a very special place for your lifetimes long cultivation.
This is real serious Goddess work essentially b/c we’re bypassing the ego and when you just have enough of HER embodied in your UDT, your soul has dominion and authority instead of your ego so you have HER Beauty and it lights up your facial allure ie;
ALL of this work directly correlates over to RESULTS with your facial beauty and allure.
There are different ways to CULTIVATE your upper dan tien indirect-directly but mostly with Tao practices b/c it is so sourced in Tao and Traditional Chinese Medicine lineage.
Because you’re sharp enough to be on Sexy Chi and into allure;
You just have to begin to accept that it’s not JUST about superficial skin-deep looks-maxxing beautification with skin creams, make-up and eye make-up. And the dan tiens hold a SPECIAL place for miracle makeover work.
ONCE you can accept that (to at least try some sessions); we can GO FAR VERY VERY FAST for your facial allure (which is a MAJOR component of your LITERAL Light and visual communication as face beauty).
And really; your face make-UP synergizes with your facial ALLURE (the 4D & 5D vibe and light-truth which people FEEL as expanded radiance – again the true glow-up work – like cosmic gamma rays instead of just visible light).
This dan tien work in the greater context of allure codex work including archetype essence-embodiment activations offered on-site; help to really cultivate what others call your ‘inner beauty’ and ‘inner glow’ except that it’s actually REAL LIGHT power and beauty influence that people respond to that matters and means everything for on-camera and live in person influence (not merely some generic woo-say or wellness dieting tip that doesn’t translate on-camera).
So….
In the transcoding of the 3 dan tiens for visual beauty and since we value visual beauty FIRST and foremost here at Sexy Chi (with all spiritual and vitality benefits secondary);
Your Upper Dan Tien specifically is valued and known as a practical reservoir to receive, store, and allow open access to your divine spirit codex and soul essences (those which you have cultivated in the seat of your soul).
These ARE the immortal beauty essences themselves as archetypal, elemental, gift, siddhic and soul-karmic in the higher frequency, pure, refined shen spectrum.
Remember that ESSENCE; esp. the divine feminine spirit-matter is the most valuable resource in the universe to us and for beauty influencers is like GOLD b/c you cannot fake the real thing. ESSENCE is the tangible CURRENCY of social media power, status and exchange dynamics (I delve into this elsewhere on-site).
Spiritual warfare is fought over it and it has to do with holy grail Reunification principle; everyone values either reunifying with the greatest beauty possible or wants to BE her (to experience the divine); and those who embody aspects of the Light-Truth of Goddess and corresponding Goddess-fractal consciousness (ie. Siren, Princess, etc.).
So if you value living in your FULLEST possible soul and spirit-codex beauty to boundless limits in alignment with your deepest truth, the upper dan tien has everything to do with it (to be a crystal palace CAULDRON for HER; your Goddess/Avatar or Starlet codex).
The spiritual beauty you cultivate is in the seat of your soul which can then be embodied (potentially) from there; thus the more cultivated and developed your UDT is, literally the more beauty codes (your soul’s mix-choice of divine feminine archetypes, siddhic qualities) you’ll be able to hold in your upper aura/head/consciousness, facial allure and siddhic alchemical mystical eye beauty.
This is because the UDT is directly connected as the main chamber in the eyes as window to the spirit and soul circuit literally (as covered in the Map to Windows of the Soul post)
With your light body being a temple for your higher frequencies to express your spirit codex and soul truth;
Your soulstar through the crown is the direct (and consciousness) pathway into (upper) embodiment; where your MIND and consciousness is embodied and attuned to divine feminine Beauty to allow the amplified expression of your soul and to be large enough (with a cultivated UDT) to store in consciousness your Beauty codes.
In the bigger picture we can speak professionally to embodiment in the chakras of the essences, but esp. as it relates to CONSCIOUSNESS and the mental layer, thinking and decisions, identity itself + eye beauty; the upper dan tien reigns.
Also keep in mind that the ajna center is more of central psychic processor (from the Indian-yogic as well as Human Design lens) rather than a ‘storehouse’ of palace for your essences. This doesn’t take away from ANY of the importance of the ajna or 3rd eye chakra.
In fact, I swear my psychic powers have DOUBLED as well as energy work powers in general at a BASELINE by doing the last two direct UDT self-activations. It’s VERY powerful work b/c we’re actually CULTIVATING the space itself instead of neglecting it and letting it entropize.
A recent client slept for 14 hours afterwards and I’ve been extra sleepy since 1/2 week ago when I did that (recovering).
From our lens and practically speaking;
Your UDT is what STORES the beauty essences from your soul in your CONSCIOUSNESS and with & through the beauty of your eyes as well as general soul identity consciousness which includes the codex of your Goddess-Avatar (ie. combination of Queen, Sorceress, Maiden, etc.) which amplifies your soul with divine feminine consciousness and felt-presence Light-Truth radiance.
So; much of the challenge can be UNWORTHINESS at an identity level of INTEGRATION;
“How can I be an Empress?”
However when we do Empress archetype activations (available on-site) for example – we are bringing post-natal Empress essence into the seat of your soul.
Yes, in regular (archetype) or siddhic activation sessions we also filter them down into the chakras, but it’s actually the dan tien where we can now do work to download MORE of them into your psyche to affect your thoughts…
The egoic personal self may never be worthy however when we create SPACE in your psyche FOR Empress to reside b/c your SOUL rather than EGO values Her, then HER THOUGHTS can take up more of your space as you THINK from your Empress imbued SOUL consciousness.
So the larger, more cultivated and purified your upper dan tien; the more Immortal Empress consciousness for example can RESIDE as ‘spirit-soul’ Truth embodied at an identity level that then affects your visual beauty and lit facial allure but also HOW you think.
When there’s just more DIVINE Goddess fractal consciousness and spirit-matter EMBODIED and emanating, the balance minimizing with the egoic control-self…
Well there you go…the scales of identity are seated properly in SOUL and there’s just more divine consciousness rather than b/c when SHE and aspects of Her are just EMBODIED in your upper and middle dan tien for example; you don’t have to try and fight, resist or change things.
You just ARE. And you FEEL it and others feel it – then it’s about how MUCH Soul and Spirit codex and Love can you embody?
That’s where the dan tiens hold infinite potential (central for Starlet and Beauty Priestesses and ALSO BECAUSE you relate to the POWERFUL divine masculine within powerful men which has everything to do with Communion Hieros Gamos Holy Grail dynamics and deeper Love; there’s just more divine feminine presence EMBODIED for HIM to Commune or reunify with ; b/c He seeketh the Holy grail OF Communion).
This is important also if you have a DEFINED crown chakra in your Human Design chart;
(and not white/open or undefined)…it’s less able to receive the good kind of conditioning (environmental but from SPIRIT rather than just ie. tv programming); however the DANTIEN HAS SPACE that is just waiting with cobwebs at the entrance for fractals of Goddess that your soul resonates with to RESIDE in your Crystal Palace.
So if your UDT NOT cultivated or large enough to hold the embodiment of your codes, your own beauty is literally being dis-embodied and constricted…less is simply able to BE embodied.
In otw; you want to (lifelong) cultivate a vast, multi-dimensional purified, integral, rich crystal palace of an upper dan tien to be able to hold, store and (with high-bandwidth flowing river-like) circulate shen essence plasmic chi data (as beauty code essences) with and through to not only paint your facial aura dynamically with your divine feminine signatures (including Gene Key siddhic light-truth qualities) but have them come with and through your eyes (as the most advanced communication); ok Chunkette from Goonies?
We just do it DIRECTLY in the upper dan tien activation (which are really cultivation sessions including activation) sessions. Yes; available for booking at the dan tien activation HQ on site.
This is foundational work now for Darshan level beauty; transfigured TEMPLE-GRADE alchemical Beauty and ‘divine sight’ (Beauty that connects others practically TO the divine).
Ultimately; you would value a long-term path of continuing dan tien cultivation to be able to hold greater and greater amounts of Beauty codes (subtle yet powerful chi-plasmic essences).
The upper dan tien work; this is powerful direct Goddess work FOR visual, alchemical influence and Beauty mastery that’s in full alignment with Spirit and the depth of your soul’s desires for fullest Beauty self-expression.
And there’s so many other benefits as well. I can ZEN MEDITATE after decades of having a NON-STOP EGO MONKEY MIND (even my Human Design has this variable).
Well, I have that b/c a LOT of intensive spiritual work centered in Sacred Union alchemy, but the UDT work is making it EVEN EASIER to go longer and longer with pure, spacious, zen master thoughtlessness which is beneficial for many reasons (even though most zen masters seem to disembody or neglect the Heart and Sex value-wise angle but that’s another subject).
More clarity and SPACE allows your DIVINE SELF to be PRESENT and EMANANT rather than just the monkey mind running the show. UDT directly helps with all of that as well.
So when it comes to facial allure looks-maxxing, the UDT is absolutely central for premium beauty mastery (including advanced siddhic eye allure and alchemical communication radiance).
Again; these are all new (yet ancient) updated codes in our awareness that I’m already doing powerful lightwork on myself and clients in remote sessions with.
The larger and more pristine your upper dan tien is cultivated as (whether you do Tao alchemy or get sessions with me);, the more beauty in consciousness it can literally hold as well as radiate in your facial aura and eye beauty as advanced, divine status allure.
And because true un-fakeable allure is sourced in high-frequency spirit-matter and is essence rich (this is the future of beauty influencer-ship); this ‘ESSENCE’ is what others are ultimately vying for as well beyond superficial prettiness; it’s who IS the closest to heaven on earth.
The kundalini activations are the only sessions we work with your current internal energy; otherwise each session (of the different formats available) with me cultivates MORE essence into the seat of your soul and temple body.
Now with the direct UDT work, we have even more power and possibility for instant results and true glow-up makeovers.
Eventually spirituality had to reunify with the soul and Beauty itself (beyond the skin-deep constriction of looks-maxxing) for the true revolution and beauty ascension with VISUAL and felt influence beauty RESULTS. ALL of it affects your visual and felt beauty whether people can consciously ‘read’ your energy (consumers are waking up); they’re still feeling and RESPONDING to it as you cultivate and embody MORE divine feminine and siddhic Beauty essence in your temple body.
