Concerns & Fears About Being Judged If You DARE Be Such a Starlet
Ok; you’ve probably been following along with all of these soul starlet / spiritual starlet celebrity personal branding related blog posts with STARLET and visibility codes for the divine feminine to be SEEN more and have more influence with social media in alignment with your highest truth, beauty, voice and purpose;
But there may be concerns or subconscious fears and anxieties around ‘sticking out like a sore thumb’.
What if everyone judges you for ‘standing out’ so boldly if you dare to be a starlet or in your greatest beauty, voice and service (instead of just being ‘modest’)?
(And if could you hold all of that projection, tension and resistance ‘against’ you without collapsing)
What if you’re TOO MUCH at a spiritual level that it may cause instability?
Honestly; this is just one of those things that could hold you (or at least some of the other women reading this on the blog or my email list) back.
This theme of concerns of being ‘judged’; does often tend to be related more with the feminine (b/c of things including that it’s so socially related and men are more often ‘lone wolves’).
And for simplicity sake; let’s just put all FAMILY (like your parents, etc.) dynamics aside entirely to keep it simple.
What if your CURRENT CIRCLE of friends judges you if you step that far out of we daresay ‘above’ your current resonance field and their expectations of you?
Because really; you becoming a form of starlet could THREATEN their comfort of how they know you.
“How dare she? (Be that bold, beautiful, SEEN).
They may think you’re just wanting the SHADOW of vain attention instead of the healthiness of being in divine service (not that there’s anything necessarily wrong with the former; however it may not be as deep as your dharma).
These are concerns could keep you ‘stuck’ from your greater desires for YEARS and years…from ever really CLAIMING and stepping into your full beauty, power and voice of divine feminine codes (ie. Starlet or Goddess Codex) to have greater influence.
You might be concerned about becoming too masculinized in a shell;….well actually that’s what we’re DISSOLVING with this professional allure work so you can be seen and FELT in your divine essences and soul-spirit embodied beauty and radiance.
When; maybe you ARE supposed to rock the boat, let go and receive new friends by living more in alignment with your desires.
See; this can be especially challenging as a woman if you have certain dynamics like if you’ve already built up a following who ‘know you’ for something else or that stepping into your FULL starlet power.
YOUR CURRENT TRIBE could judge you or feel like you’ve ‘betrayed them’.
DO YOU DROP HOW EVERYONE KNOWS YOU AND RISK LOSING THAT FOLLOWING WHEN YOU ARE CALLED TO A RE-BIRTH SOMEWHERE ELSE?
Or BE SHACKLED with where things are?
Or could they keep up with the direction you are REALLY meant to go in?
These are important decisions which is also why CLARITY around your avatar self IDENTITY is so important; so that you’re living for your highest truth, soul, evolution and spiritual purpose rather than the expectations and conditioning of others.
You can get clarity on your Star/let Codex here (if available):
There’s also Human Design dynamics like if you’re a ‘4’ line Opportunist, a ‘3’ line Martyr or ‘5’ line Heretic…there are ways that could work against you with each of these as far as how others TREAT you socially if you step into more of your spiritual celebrity starlet off of YOUR unique divine feminine Avatar/Goddess Codex in greater social visibility and service.
So; you have to ideally ask yourself if you are holding back from being seen because of this secret fear of judgment or discomfort-pressure from others based on how they already KNOW you and if your change would be too uncomfortable for them.
WHAT’S MOST IMPORTANT?
You have to decide if following your deeper desires and spiritual calling to be in full expression is more important than how your current family, circle and friends views and values you.
Knowing; deeply knowing WHO you are and consciously being aware of your own divine feminine CODEX constellation can help you bring so much more CLARITY and cut out years of just living other people’s expectations or the illusion of ‘safety’ with it all.
There’s a lot of potential self-sabotage areas which I go further into on the blog here;
Your avatar media starlet influence vs. resistance to being seen
(these open in new windows)
Could these be exactly what is preventing your soul starlet or spiritual celebrity success?
Fear of being ‘consumed’ vs. truly being visible
That’ll help you contemplate self-image and visibility wounding related also to past conditioning of trauma or being siphoned from.
Remember; although your egoic persona and past conditioned self HAS such concerns, doubts, insecurities and/as shadows;
STARLET DOES NOT HAVE THESE ISSUES…you just have to have a way to ACCESS STARLET ARCHETYPAL CONSCIOUSNESS and then integrate Her into your temple body and identity to live from.
This is what the Star/let Codex does and then we directly accelerate the embodiment and makeover (+ celebrity branding) process with the AvaStar + IMAGO makeover.
AvaStar Makeover
And really; a MAIN issue (esp. for women) is this deeper fear of ‘being judged’.
Not only that – but guilted, shamed, humiliated publicly (but also FROM your closer circle and friends).
They might not WANT you to be in the spotlight; but really are you living for THEIR comfort from a past version of yourself? Is that more important than your sacred DUTY?
Are they going to be secretly envious and back-stabby OR are they soul level friends that would SUPPORT your growth?
If you stand out in SUCH power and beauty; you might be thinking; how will other women sl*t shame you, judge, criticize and belittle you publicly and behind your back?
(How much of that are you going to attract anyways when you’re DIVINELY CODED? But yeah; ‘all’ of mainstream may not be all ready for it but you’re growing YOUR TRIBE)
And that could hold you back b/c it’s ‘safer’ to be what seems like ‘protected’ (while really the embodiment expression and transmission of your codes are withering thus leading to more soul misalignment, frustration and depression).
This is also why being STABLE WITHIN in your identity is CENTRAL b/c your circle can have so much influence.
You may be concerned of how will you deal with trolls and ‘thirsty’ men, unwanted DM’s, even dick pics, etc. that you just might NOT want to take on the other things that go along with a more PUBLIC image and profile. Fear of paparazzi or high level maintenance might even stop you.
Remember; spiritual starlet IS A TEMPLATE OF THE DREAM LEVEL OF ATTENTION that’s already pre-templated FOR you visibility, recognition, codes and getting your spirit-centric entrepreneurship or transmissions OUT THERE to HAVE INFLUENCE. Will you step into YOUR CODEX to live more fully b/c it’s WHY YOU ARE HERE? To have greater ascension influence in fullest expression of how the divine feminine and universe is working through you?
Do you think maybe you could deal with the ‘good problems’ of success and being seen?
Just how important IS your greater purpose and fullest expression and service?
Again; This is all where re-centering on your STARLET CODEX is so foundationally IMPORTANT (and we cultivate ALL of it with your temple-body and unique codes directly in the AvaStar Makeover
YOUR STARLET Codex (and for men; Star or King Codex);
This IS the direct master key of sorts (or at least ‘A’ master key) to your ultimate SPIRITUAL AND FINANCIAL SUCCESS LIFESTYLE OF YOUR DREAMS LIVING IN FULLEST ALIGNMENT, recognition and satisfaction in all dimensions.
(It already is for named spiritual celebrities who just aren’t consciously aware of what their Codex would be but it’s still there with their celebrity branding as I’ve covered in the 21 examples post).
So I wouldn’t get thrown off by the perceived ‘cons’ and entropy I’m bringing up here; no your spirit codex is FAR FAR greater than that (remember; STARLET DOESN’T HAVE THESE ISSUES OR ANXIETIES and the things She does deal with are good-problem management scenarios)…
I’m pointing them out b/c they (including fear of being judged) might just be what’s holding you back – but at some point you may ACCEPT that there are going to be haters the more powerful in social influence you become – and it’s ok.
It’s about having your divine feminine alignment MATCHED and attuned with your greater spiritual service; ABSOLVED of anything that would hold you back and prevent you from the TEMPLATING of ATTENTION and righteous attention that you desire.
Your codes. That are ALREADY in the seat of your soul and higher dimensional Heart (and more to be cultivated AS YOU LIVE INTO YOUR TIMELINE in the 3D).
Uniquely YOURS and Starlet amplifies that for you to be safe being seen but you still have to TAKE RISKS. Your Starlet Codex is also SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCER key to your ultimate allure…well, then there’s Darshanic allure beyond that, but yeah.
You want to get to a point where the archetypes and siddhic qualities; and your greater EROS are SO comfortable and confident in THAT VERSION OF YOU authentically – even if it’s scary to make bolder moves – that this version and STARLET leads and guides you; living from your highest truth.
SO do you have this deeper fear of being judged and criticized and in honest self-assessment; is that stopping you from REALLY embodying SUCH power and beauty and being seen and in greater service?
IMPORTANT QUESTIONS – (b/c in your self-assessment you could realize that) Years could be going by; so we’re just making it more aware now.
CAN YOU AFFORD THAT ENTROPY AND INERTIA towards LIVING your fullest dreams?
Are you going to keep coming from the identity of self that is RIDDLED with anxiety, fear, concern, trepidation, doubt, insecurity or allow your STARLET CODEX divine feminine codes to BECOME EMBODIED AND GUIDE YOU?
Remember; STARLET DOESN’T HAVE THESE ISSUES; SHE SHINES and WANTS to be consumed (more insight on the blog).
Your Star/let Codex is how to start accessing and integrating Starlet consciousness WITHIN and without.
It might be helpful – as a separate note here – to pre-process through ‘worst case scenarios’…so you’ll get more trolling, haters, secretly envious women and so forth? COULD YOU PRE-ACCEPT THAT THIS IS PART OF THE TERRITORY with having exponentially greater visibility and being SOMATICALLY OK with stepping more fully INTO your codes, power, voice and beauty?
You could also have terror barrier or ‘reset points’ where you think you will COLLAPSE (and have in the past) if you grow so much.
That’s why this IDENTITY TRANSFORMATIONAL WORK is so foundational so you can HOLD THE SCALE OF YOUR DHARMA, BEAUTY, MAGIC AND CODES IN CONSCIOUSNESS AND IN SOMATIC BODY.
HOW MUCH CAN YOU HOLD WITHIN YOUR TEMPLE BODY WITHOUT COLLAPSING?
Because the divine feminine can hold a lot; it’s just about INTEGRATING YOUR CODEX. She can hold that level of attention, wealth, beauty with stability and radiance.
The work. To shift from where you are now into who you are meant to be (esp. with the codes you already have and how FAST the differential can be to fully embody them with the right architecture, templating and process).
That’s what we do. AND further cultivation.
That’s what I’m living also; where my CODEX has reigning authority (the seat of my soul spirit-mix of unique divine qualities of Self) rather than letting my previous personae with massive limiting conditioning and sabotage run the show or this scale of spiritual-professional dharma.
YOU BECOME YOUR AVATAR STARLET SELF EMBODIED. That’s the ultimate solution.
So IS your greater purpose and divine feminine identity at a soul-spirit level MORE important than the fears and judgments of others?
You might be concerned that being more visible online with events, social media, online, facebook, Instagram with a real celebrity brand that other people will even SEE the haters comments and so forth (God forbid) – or even family members.
BUT THAT’S PART OF THE GAME. YES THERE WILL ALWAYS BE IDIOTS; however, you’ll also have YOUR PEOPLE STAND UP TO DEFEND YOU AS WELL as you build your own loyal soul tribe following of fans or clients.
So will you CLAIM your fullness and cultivate the clarity and temple body to LIVE HOW YOU’RE MEANT TO?
Could you give yourself such permission to dare to BE her anyways?
Remember; with the AvaStar + IMAGO work we do directly; STARLET Herself is your PROXY for divine feminine radiance of YOUR unique Codex and mission TO BE SEEN PUBLICLY.
She alone will alleviate a lot of the issues and concerns of being SIPHONED from, etc.
Avatar Starlet Makeover + IMAGO
This is important food for thought; but at some point, you simply have to ‘take action’. What is the NEXT action step you can do if you are CALLED to be in greater visibility in your TRUE spirit-centered Beauty, voice and service?
If you’ve done the workbook enough to get around 50% clarity on your avatar or spiritual celebrity self-branding Star/let Codex, then see if a 25 minute clarity call with me is available.
There will be a retainer fee for that ($100 or more).
Of course you could also just commit to the AvaStar Makeover + monthly starlet support if you KNOW you must go through this makeover process and debut or re-debut…it’s GOING to take months, so why not start the process?
(And even then; this program is designed as on-going monthly starlet support after the prime makeover so you can stay as long as you want ‘grand-fathered’ at whatever our current agreement is; however limited spots are available and then we go to a first-come, first-served waiting list queue).
More details on AvaStar + IMAGO (IMAGO; which includes VIP day immersion and temple time with me) here. IMAGO includes all of AvaStar and also has its OWN separate page on-site here: