Concerns & Fears About Being Judged If You DARE Be Such a Starlet

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Ok; you’ve probably been following along with all of these soul starlet / spiritual starlet celebrity personal branding related blog posts with STARLET and visibility codes for the divine feminine to be SEEN more and have more influence with social media in alignment with your highest truth, beauty, voice and purpose;

 

But there may be concerns or subconscious fears and anxieties around ‘sticking out like a sore thumb’.

 

What if everyone judges you for ‘standing out’ so boldly if you dare to be a starlet or in your greatest beauty, voice and service (instead of just being ‘modest’)?

 

(And if could you hold all of that projection, tension and resistance ‘against’ you without collapsing)

 

What if you’re TOO MUCH at a spiritual level that it may cause instability?

 

Honestly; this is just one of those things that could hold you (or at least some of the other women reading this on the blog or my email list) back.

 

This theme of concerns of being ‘judged’; does often tend to be related more with the feminine (b/c of things including that it’s so socially related and men are more often ‘lone wolves’).

 

And for simplicity sake; let’s just put all FAMILY (like your parents, etc.) dynamics aside entirely to keep it simple.

 

What if your CURRENT CIRCLE of friends judges you if you step that far out of we daresay ‘above’ your current resonance field and their expectations of you?

 

Because really; you becoming a form of starlet could THREATEN their comfort of how they know you.

 

“How dare she? (Be that bold, beautiful, SEEN).

 

They may think you’re just wanting the SHADOW of vain attention instead of the healthiness of being in divine service (not that there’s anything necessarily wrong with the former; however it may not be as deep as your dharma).

 

These are concerns could keep you ‘stuck’ from your greater desires for YEARS and years…from ever really CLAIMING and stepping into your full beauty, power and voice of divine feminine codes (ie. Starlet or Goddess Codex) to have greater influence.

 

You might be concerned about becoming too masculinized in a shell;….well actually that’s what we’re DISSOLVING with this professional allure work so you can be seen and FELT in your divine essences and soul-spirit embodied beauty and radiance.

 

When; maybe you ARE supposed to rock the boat, let go and receive new friends by living more in alignment with your desires.

 

See; this can be especially challenging as a woman if you have certain dynamics like if you’ve already built up a following who ‘know you’ for something else or that stepping into your FULL starlet power.

 

YOUR CURRENT TRIBE could judge you or feel like you’ve ‘betrayed them’.

 

DO YOU DROP HOW EVERYONE KNOWS YOU AND RISK LOSING THAT FOLLOWING WHEN YOU ARE CALLED TO A RE-BIRTH SOMEWHERE ELSE?

 

Or BE SHACKLED with where things are?

 

Or could they keep up with the direction you are REALLY meant to go in?

 

These are important decisions which is also why CLARITY around your avatar self IDENTITY is so important; so that you’re living for your highest truth, soul, evolution and spiritual purpose rather than the expectations and conditioning of others.

 

You can get clarity on your Star/let Codex here (if available):

 

There’s also Human Design dynamics like if you’re a ‘4’ line Opportunist, a ‘3’ line Martyr or ‘5’ line Heretic…there are ways that could work against you with each of these as far as how others TREAT you socially if you step into more of your spiritual celebrity starlet off of YOUR unique divine feminine Avatar/Goddess Codex in greater social visibility and service.

 

So; you have to ideally ask yourself if you are holding back from being seen because of this secret fear of judgment or discomfort-pressure from others based on how they already KNOW you and if your change would be too uncomfortable for them.

 

WHAT’S MOST IMPORTANT?

 

You have to decide if following your deeper desires and spiritual calling to be in full expression is more important than how your current family, circle and friends views and values you.

 

Knowing; deeply knowing WHO you are and consciously being aware of your own divine feminine CODEX constellation can help you bring so much more CLARITY and cut out years of just living other people’s expectations or the illusion of ‘safety’ with it all.

 

There’s a lot of potential self-sabotage areas which I go further into on the blog here;

 

Your avatar media starlet influence vs. resistance to being seen

 

(these open in new windows)

 

Could these be exactly what is preventing your soul starlet or spiritual celebrity success?

 

 

Fear of being ‘consumed’ vs. truly being visible

 


That’ll help you contemplate self-image and visibility wounding related also to past conditioning of trauma or being siphoned from.

Remember; although your egoic persona and past conditioned self HAS such concerns, doubts, insecurities and/as shadows;

 

STARLET DOES NOT HAVE THESE ISSUES…you just have to have a way to ACCESS STARLET ARCHETYPAL CONSCIOUSNESS and then integrate Her into your temple body and identity to live from.

 

This is what the Star/let Codex does and then we directly accelerate the embodiment and makeover (+ celebrity branding) process with the AvaStar + IMAGO makeover.

 

AvaStar Makeover

 

And really; a MAIN issue (esp. for women) is this deeper fear of ‘being judged’.

 

Not only that – but guilted, shamed, humiliated publicly (but also FROM your closer circle and friends).

 

They might not WANT you to be in the spotlight; but really are you living for THEIR comfort from a past version of yourself? Is that more important than your sacred DUTY?

 

Are they going to be secretly envious and back-stabby OR are they soul level friends that would SUPPORT your growth?

 

If you stand out in SUCH power and beauty; you might be thinking; how will other women sl*t shame you, judge, criticize and belittle you publicly and behind your back?

 

(How much of that are you going to attract anyways when you’re DIVINELY CODED? But yeah; ‘all’ of mainstream may not be all ready for it but you’re growing YOUR TRIBE)

 

And that could hold you back b/c it’s ‘safer’ to be what seems like ‘protected’ (while really the embodiment expression and transmission of your codes are withering thus leading to more soul misalignment, frustration and depression).

 

This is also why being STABLE WITHIN in your identity is CENTRAL b/c your circle can have so much influence.

 

You may be concerned of how will you deal with trolls and ‘thirsty’ men, unwanted DM’s, even dick pics, etc. that you just might NOT want to take on the other things that go along with a more PUBLIC image and profile. Fear of paparazzi or high level maintenance might even stop you.

 

Remember; spiritual starlet IS A TEMPLATE OF THE DREAM LEVEL OF ATTENTION that’s already pre-templated FOR you visibility, recognition, codes and getting your spirit-centric entrepreneurship or transmissions OUT THERE to HAVE INFLUENCE. Will you step into YOUR CODEX to live more fully b/c it’s WHY YOU ARE HERE? To have greater ascension influence in fullest expression of how the divine feminine and universe is working through you?

 

Do you think maybe you could deal with the ‘good problems’ of success and being seen?

 

Just how important IS your greater purpose and fullest expression and service?

 

Again; This is all where re-centering on your STARLET CODEX is so foundationally IMPORTANT (and we cultivate ALL of it with your temple-body and unique codes directly in the AvaStar Makeover

 

YOUR STARLET Codex (and for men; Star or King Codex);

 

This IS the direct master key of sorts (or at least ‘A’ master key) to your ultimate SPIRITUAL AND FINANCIAL SUCCESS LIFESTYLE OF YOUR DREAMS LIVING IN FULLEST ALIGNMENT, recognition and satisfaction in all dimensions.

 


(It already is for named spiritual celebrities who just aren’t consciously aware of what their Codex would be but it’s still there with their celebrity branding as I’ve covered in the 21 examples post).

 

So I wouldn’t get thrown off by the perceived ‘cons’ and entropy I’m bringing up here; no your spirit codex is FAR FAR greater than that (remember; STARLET DOESN’T HAVE THESE ISSUES OR ANXIETIES and the things She does deal with are good-problem management scenarios)…

 

I’m pointing them out b/c they (including fear of being judged) might just be what’s holding you back – but at some point you may ACCEPT that there are going to be haters the more powerful in social influence you become – and it’s ok.

 

It’s about having your divine feminine alignment MATCHED and attuned with your greater spiritual service; ABSOLVED of anything that would hold you back and prevent you from the TEMPLATING of ATTENTION and righteous attention that you desire.

 

Your codes. That are ALREADY in the seat of your soul and higher dimensional Heart (and more to be cultivated AS YOU LIVE INTO YOUR TIMELINE in the 3D).

 

Uniquely YOURS and Starlet amplifies that for you to be safe being seen but you still have to TAKE RISKS. Your Starlet Codex is also SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCER key to your ultimate allure…well, then there’s Darshanic allure beyond that, but yeah.

 

You want to get to a point where the archetypes and siddhic qualities; and your greater EROS are SO comfortable and confident in THAT VERSION OF YOU authentically – even if it’s scary to make bolder moves – that this version and STARLET leads and guides you; living from your highest truth.

 

SO do you have this deeper fear of being judged and criticized and in honest self-assessment; is that stopping you from REALLY embodying SUCH power and beauty and being seen and in greater service?

 

IMPORTANT QUESTIONS – (b/c in your self-assessment you could realize that) Years could be going by; so we’re just making it more aware now.

 

CAN YOU AFFORD THAT ENTROPY AND INERTIA towards LIVING your fullest dreams?

 

Are you going to keep coming from the identity of self that is RIDDLED with anxiety, fear, concern, trepidation, doubt, insecurity or allow your STARLET CODEX divine feminine codes to BECOME EMBODIED AND GUIDE YOU?

 

Remember; STARLET DOESN’T HAVE THESE ISSUES; SHE SHINES and WANTS to be consumed (more insight on the blog).

 

Your Star/let Codex is how to start accessing and integrating Starlet consciousness WITHIN and without.

 

It might be helpful – as a separate note here – to pre-process through ‘worst case scenarios’…so you’ll get more trolling, haters, secretly envious women and so forth? COULD YOU PRE-ACCEPT THAT THIS IS PART OF THE TERRITORY with having exponentially greater visibility and being SOMATICALLY OK with stepping more fully INTO your codes, power, voice and beauty?

 

You could also have terror barrier or ‘reset points’ where you think you will COLLAPSE (and have in the past) if you grow so much.

 

That’s why this IDENTITY TRANSFORMATIONAL WORK is so foundational so you can HOLD THE SCALE OF YOUR DHARMA, BEAUTY, MAGIC AND CODES IN CONSCIOUSNESS AND IN SOMATIC BODY.

 

HOW MUCH CAN YOU HOLD WITHIN YOUR TEMPLE BODY WITHOUT COLLAPSING?

 

Because the divine feminine can hold a lot; it’s just about INTEGRATING YOUR CODEX. She can hold that level of attention, wealth, beauty with stability and radiance.

 

The work. To shift from where you are now into who you are meant to be (esp. with the codes you already have and how FAST the differential can be to fully embody them with the right architecture, templating and process).

 

That’s what we do. AND further cultivation.

 

That’s what I’m living also; where my CODEX has reigning authority (the seat of my soul spirit-mix of unique divine qualities of Self) rather than letting my previous personae with massive limiting conditioning and sabotage run the show or this scale of spiritual-professional dharma.

 

YOU BECOME YOUR AVATAR STARLET SELF EMBODIED. That’s the ultimate solution.

 

So IS your greater purpose and divine feminine identity at a soul-spirit level MORE important than the fears and judgments of others?

 

You might be concerned that being more visible online with events, social media, online, facebook, Instagram with a real celebrity brand that other people will even SEE the haters comments and so forth (God forbid) – or even family members.

 

BUT THAT’S PART OF THE GAME. YES THERE WILL ALWAYS BE IDIOTS; however, you’ll also have YOUR PEOPLE STAND UP TO DEFEND YOU AS WELL as you build your own loyal soul tribe following of fans or clients.

 

So will you CLAIM your fullness and cultivate the clarity and temple body to LIVE HOW YOU’RE MEANT TO?

 

Could you give yourself such permission to dare to BE her anyways?

 

Remember; with the AvaStar + IMAGO work we do directly; STARLET Herself is your PROXY for divine feminine radiance of YOUR unique Codex and mission TO BE SEEN PUBLICLY.

 

She alone will alleviate a lot of the issues and concerns of being SIPHONED from, etc.

 

Avatar Starlet Makeover + IMAGO

 

This is important food for thought; but at some point, you simply have to ‘take action’. What is the NEXT action step you can do if you are CALLED to be in greater visibility in your TRUE spirit-centered Beauty, voice and service?

 

If you’ve done the workbook enough to get around 50% clarity on your avatar or spiritual celebrity self-branding Star/let Codex, then see if a 25 minute clarity call with me is available.

 

There will be a retainer fee for that ($100 or more).

 

Of course you could also just commit to the AvaStar Makeover + monthly starlet support if you KNOW you must go through this makeover process and debut or re-debut…it’s GOING to take months, so why not start the process?

 

(And even then; this program is designed as on-going monthly starlet support after the prime makeover so you can stay as long as you want ‘grand-fathered’ at whatever our current agreement is; however limited spots are available and then we go to a first-come, first-served waiting list queue).

 

More details on AvaStar + IMAGO (IMAGO; which includes VIP day immersion and temple time with me) here. IMAGO includes all of AvaStar and also has its OWN separate page on-site here:

 

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From On-Stage Speaking Rejection to Essence Dance Breakthrough

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First let me say that ESSENCE + DANCE is a secret to BILLIONS of views out there (that are NOT relying on AI hacking and algorithm trickery or sales market funnelteering). And that code is simply allure or charisma.

 

I’m going to share the link of my latest IG INXS video below that’s getting pretty awesome response on such a small scale. You can load it here or at the bottom.

 

In the last email (and blog post) I brought up how a millionaire live event host (mortifyingly) STOPPED my speech 1/3 way through by stepping up on stage in front of 100s of people at a live, recorded event in Los Angeles (as if I didn’t already have enough stage anxiety!) in 2008.

 

I think my pride prevented me from entirely collapsing as I listened to what he had to say with the mic volume cut down.

 

I shared how it all turned out at the end of that blog post (linked here: https://sexychi.com/my-fear-riddled-path-into-visibility-star-dom/ ) with a picture of him even LAUGHING on stage with me (fort. not AT me but because of me).

 

He later went on to become a semi-famous multi-millionaire (but in all transparency, I don’t think it was directly related to OUR interview however 😉

 

This was just PART of my path and struggles in becoming more visible and being seen…in getting my codes out there because NO ONE ELSE WAS. I represented something NATURAL and authentic in an era of fake pick-up artistry and the manipulation.

 

Yes; I was in the ‘dating’ industry as a top natural dating coach online quite a while ago, but it’s the same concept of being in my truth and BEING SEEN (and actually these were earlier Muse codes but transmitted in a very different way and for single men).

 

And yes; I locked my Himalayan cat in the bathroom while I was recording the big Interview of the Month with him as the #1 dating brand online to help focus and quell my anxiety.have

 

Since then (although I improved with small scale public speaking anxieties and hosting) my image anxieties actually only amplified.

 

If you’ve also had it;

 

Public speaking anxiety-fear can crossover with ANY of the other reasons that can prevent you or I from being seen…it’s just EASIER and safer NOT to do it..not to go through those doors and come up with fancy excuses as to why not.

 

But how are you going to have the INFLUENCE you’re meant to have if you keep hiding out?!

 

But I’m on such a big soul purpose that I CANNOT compromise. ALSO, I’m not big on the ‘aging’ thing so it’s good I/we can anti-age with this pro energy work. There’s other things I still have to do.

 

And I don’t know about you, but I realize that this actually IS a Star path (and a King’s path)…not just one of being more publicly visible. What are YOUR codes? We can find out in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

AvaStar Makeover

 

So the rest of this month (and in living by example); I’m going to talk more about the ‘reality’ of overcoming major hurdles, onstage hurls and breakthrough codes related to being seen in y/our TRUTH.

 

We’re in an era where SOCIAL MEDIA is here to stay and so much of your influence is going to be through social media. If you want to grow a following, yes your Star/let codex (whether it literally includes Starlet or not) is CENTRAL to pulling your ALIGNMENT, truth, embodiment and expression TOGETHER.

 

Your Star or Starlet Codex gives you the CONFIDENCE and ALIGNMENT to be empowered in your Truth and face the world.

 

But there can still be SOOOO many unconscious or conscious sabotaging things that can stop you from going big and being seen.

 

I’m going to keep speaking to those this month (which may delay the already belated World’s Top 10 Muse list for 2025 but I promise I’ll get to that as well).

 

For right now; one of those hidden signifiers of whether I’m in my truth and influence or not is whether I dance.

 

So the question is; could you semi-awkwardly dance in front of the world to see right now?

 

Or…how much RESISTANCE would you have to doing it? Because that alone might be a major key.

 

WELL in spite of having all kinds of past struggles, flash forward to today post-debut and….I’M DOING IT. I know that celebrities are going to see these videos too.

 

In the next email (a.k.a. blog post); I’m going go to deeper into my own secret FEAR of Dance, what it represents, how much it’s held things back and how it’s a silver bullet highway to AUTHENTIC TRUTH TRANSMISSION, RESPONSE, engagement and being FELT and seen…

 

DANCE is a secret and not so secret key to opening up my charisma (and your allure) as well as dissipating DEEP shadow grid entropy and gravity around being seen.

 

If you have been RESISTING IT and being SEEN dancing or annoyed or even secretly envious of others and how viral THEY have gone; you may have other very deep and HEAVY blocks to exploding your own influence and engagement.

 

It’s meant as a qualifying gauge here of where there may be deeper resistances in your psyche towards BEING SEEN and felt (whether you ever make fun dance related content or not).

 

For right now here; I’m going to post my latest Instagram video and it has a WHOPPING 10% love rate with engagement and new followership.

 

I’ll go more into the breakthrough underpinnings and the leverage point of DANCE (+ my own Dance-Visibility fears) in the next transmission.

 

I had to give myself permission and there may be secret ways in which your OWN shadow grid is PREVENTING you (for years) from truly being SEEN.

 

But once people can FEEL you, even if it’s imperfect at least you’re THRIVING.

 

There’s actually a lot of codes going on with major takeaway lessons for your own public soul visibility breakthrough b/c not only is it objectively charismatic but I’m BRIDGING into the impossible archetypes before in a way that could be LIFE-CHANGING for you as well if you have a known archetype or siddhic quality that you desire in your fuller expression for greater social impact.

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Here’s that INXS inspired pre-dance video and look for ‘cheeseface’ in it:

 

 
 
 
 
 
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Remember; I’ve been alpha-testing my OWN Avatar Star self embodiment (and been doing double dan tien/kundalini activations per week as well as foundational structure).

 

That I’ve broken through myself with ESSENCE + dance with stable enough charisma factor is huge b/c this is already a secret to billions of views out there and you can find YOUR way of replicating it.

 

Check out my Elvis inspired ‘Hound Dog’ video here (with similar like/love ratio!)

 

https://www.instagram.com/p/DTQnopAjeDL/

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My Fear-Riddled Path Into Visibility &…Star-dom?

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Sub-titled The impossible journey that cannot be faked. Well…this is the start of an extended mini-series of topic specific content on the blog (under ‘charisma’, ‘rion kati’ and ‘soul starlet’).

 

Firstly; there’s a lot of inspired edu-tainment content I have for you the rest of this month so keep checking your emails; you never know what life-changing gold nuggets (snuggets) you might get all of a sudden.

 

It turns out I have a real knack not only for ladies finding their Beloved’s codex with 100% accuracy but I’m also damn good at helping them get more clarity on their own debut Starlet codex in the AvaStar consulting sessions.

 

“Brilliant” “Epic” said the 2 latest clients on the level of life-changing clarity consulting for THEIR visual debut.

 

I’m also going to be speaking to all kinds of things which can prevent you from being SEEN and having greater influence and connection with the people you are meant to influence (IN your divine truth). So keep checking the emails and blog…

 

As you may know, I’ve had incredibly brutal anxiety, insecurity and crippling visibility wounds. I mean very extreme cases of fugly duckling.

 

For years I’ve been the cozy ‘behind the scenes’ Lightworker who looks half schleppy going into zoom audio sessions with a low-mid grade webcam. One could say that I’ve actually the CLOSEST THING to someone ‘working in his pajamas’. Honestly, I’d just wear less if I could sometimes.

 

Alas; don’t fret…all of the light-working has been REAL without compromise but…the truth is, I’ve been ‘hiding out’ for years and years…building an epic foundation, YES but hiding out.

 

I know that I’m not only meant to share these gifts with the world publicly but actually literally with the world’s most famous celebrities (and I mean most all of them). I’m also meant to train the world’s TOP glow-up artists with Allure Priestess who will lead the world in allure makeovers.

 

So remember; when I was talking a lot about your Star/let codex for your debut or rebirth. This is what can give you the inspired clarity and confidence to move forward and that at least ONE of your archetypes you’re going to be VERY comfortable and familiar with.

 

My public Star codex is: The Muse Magician Rockstar. I’m INTEGRAL with Muse-Magician

 

But see, I was never ‘the rockstar’. That is the big challenge and in my case, the one that really transfigures it as undeniably SOCIAL and in great visible INFLUENCE. For you, there’s also going to be a weaker archetype which single-handedly is going to challenge your visibility wounds yet also provide THE MEDICINE for you to be in YOUR POWER and SERVICE.

 

For me it’s Rockstar and then Star but it’s the unique coding AS the Muse Magician.

 

For you, it may not literally be ‘Starlet’….Starlet may be more invisible but serves as the amplification and transfiguration OF your unique codex in divine service resolved of visibility wounds to the world so you can have the influence (and even make money) with the people you are ultimately meant to serve IN your fullest Beauty, codes and active service truth.

 

So the real challenge is that I was the guy behind the scenes, but I’ve realized (through Muse’ decree) that I am meant to not just be visible but be RIDICULOUSLY visible…and that means triggering ALLLLLL of my security related comfort and visibility issues.

 

Because something like THAT is massive identity level transformation.

 

Maybe YOUR gap is that there is one archetype that puts you IN your shameless public service and power but it THREATENS everything you are now and the comfort if you’ve been hiding out also.

 

I was the one who (as a 5/1 DEFINED cave living and endless internal seeking of security before being ready to ‘share with the world’.

 

This is me coming out of my cave to interact socially

 

 

Yes; there’s kind of an ugly go-getter beauty to him, but that’s not quite it. I represent the evolution of Beauty and charisma on the frontlines, so I am ESPECIALLY being tested because I have to become the testament of the brand and this work. For all my past fugliness, I have to become the swan…fortunately it is my truth in spirit; it just has to be accessed, embodied and expressed AGAINST ALL ODDS and subconscious sabotage (including the fugly duckling and quasimodo-gremlin).

 

I can’t tell you how much anxiety I’ve had.

 

But I was/am an extreme case of visibility wounds. I remember doing improv acting on stage at high school and I literally froze for 2 minutes while people were watching me to finish a skit.

 

All of this was REAL for me; a lifelong plague…and ironically it’s a prime HUMAN or incarnate shadow of the Muse line; performance anxiety.

 

One time I was at a famous internet marketing seminar in a beautiful ballroom for dinner and Yanik Silver had tables come together to form teams and work on some problem. There was a healthy competitive environment amongst them and at some point, I was like ‘give me the microphone, I’ve got a point to make’ and then I was standing and became radically self-conscious…

 

I saw and felt ALL of the eyeballs were on me (a few hundred people with their fancy glass chalices clinging, etc.) and I tried to hold my voice steady from cracking…

 

I don’t even remember what I said but I think I juts finished my sentence and sat down in humility. All I remember afterwards was he gave the microphone to a man who DID have public confidence and a strong accent…

 

Yanik had him say ‘fine Corinthian leathers’. I do remember that. I felt smaller than invisible.

 

BUT…That’s what inspired me to host 2 free live workshops in Houston to help overcome my speaking and visibility anxiety. When it started I was at the head of the table with around 14 men; half of whom flew in from around the country and it took me a few minutes of speaking to finally ‘drop into the zone’.

 

I was the one who still had so much performance anxiety before being invited to speak onstage in Montreal in 2006 as a ‘natural’ dating coach at the Cliff’s List convention that I was swigging shots of rum from a Malibu bottle in my hotel room BEFORE going on stage just to alleviate the anxiety.

 

Somehow I think it really helped and neutralized my performance jitters away.

 

I was the one who AT my first David DeAngelo seminar in Chicago at the end in 2005 waited in line and had so much ANXIETY built up just waiting to speak to him (b/c of the power dynamic mixed with my excitement of what I was doing) that I couldn’t slow my speaking down.

 

There’s a hidden clip of me somewhere online and you would be like ‘that can’t be Rion’.

 

I had so much anxiety in recording the ‘interview with dating guru’ of the month (in late 2007 or so) that I locked my Himalayan cat-boy in the bathroom so that I could focus record into the funny looking tape machine he had sent on the carpet of my Houston apartment while he and I talked on the device.

 

(Eben Pagan then invited me to SPEAK at the Man Transformation summit in L.A. which I think was in JAN. 2008 and I HAD to say yes despite having so much anxiety).

 

I had so much anxiety speaking on stage I didn’t know if I would ever get through it…there were several 100 people there with cameras recording.

Mortifyingly;

 

He kind of said through the microphone talking to a crew member (Royster productions I think) ‘Yeah this isn’t working’ as he walked towards stage.

 

Eventually HE STOPPED the cameras (or not to use them later) and took a big step in the front onto the stage/pulpit to ask me privately but in front of 100’s (mics off) if we could switch the format because it ‘just wasn’t working’ (but that he did value what I had to say). How would you feel in this exact scenario?

 

This was a BIG event and I’ve never seen anything like that happen…

 

I’ll share what happened at the very bottom.

 

But really; although I got better at speaking especially on a smaller scale and hosting small retreats; my images issues and anxieties further compounded because I knew I was meant for greatness. How am I going to LEAD the allure and charisma revolution movement WORLDWIDE if I DON’T overcome the deep ugliness and visibility wounds within?

 

Remember; I stayed ‘cozy’ for YEARS but I knew that I would eventually have to BE SEEN in order to truly have the INFLUENCE and impact my soul was meant to have (ESP. because it’s all so visual centric). And now; social media is WHERE IT’S AT. So whatever angle you look at it; we’re all influencers and the FULLEST version of yourself is SOME form of influencer…and if you’re triggered by influencer, then just redefine what it means because you and I have codes that MUST get out there…unless we allow the shadows, doubts, insecurities to sabotage us and keep us in an ILLUSION of safety.

 

I recently caught the MindValley ; as you may know Vishen Lakhiani is actually a long-time peer of mine. We literally had the same best friends in college when I was at UW-Madison and we would drive to U of M to party on some weekends. Anyways; he was saying that 2026 is the land-rush for FOUNDERS.

 

With the advent of AI accelerating, people are going to want more CONNECTION and trust with RELIABLE sources…not companies per se but the actual FOUNDERS and those who create and sculpt their brand ecosphere.

 

THIS is where social media is at now so if you’re not primed to BE SEEN and leverage social media, well this could be one of many ways in which you are holding back on your greater purpose (including BEING SEEN).

 

Your Star/let codex holds the IDENTITY level clarity and POWER for you to be in your highest truth, beauty, power and service in alignment with your soul purpose….it holds that for me, it holds it for you (whether you’re conscious of it or not).

 

Archetypes do not have the same problems we do…it’s really just about having a way to access and embody that encoded consciousness to mix and amplify your own soul codes.

 

And the public one for you probably holds THE KEYS to your greatness in social and spiritual influence.

 

So as far as me…..I was never the ROCKSTAR. It was just a secret obsessive pipe dream that I’ve had my whole life. I admired stars and secretly wanted to be one but I never felt like I was worthy,.

 

To be clear; I never had imposter syndrome (and you or others might); but speaking of myself I’ve had OTHER hardcore visibility wounds and anxieties in the extreme. But still; how am I going to be an influencer TO stars and starlets?

 

It seemed light years away. But my codex holds the power and the codes…I just had to find a way to step into ROCKSTAR which is the social amplification and an apex of attention for feminine Beauty and Beauty influencers to CHANGE THE GAME (it’s all Muse’ brilliant strategy to be honest).

 

How could the anxious, FUGLY duckling, insecure, hiding out version of me BE THAT embodied and non-fakeable version of myself?

 

Because remember; the highest status people are like HAWKS who can sniff out any posers or fakers so the POWER and self-image I have must be real (and divine). I have to be the real thing….I AM the real thing in ESSENCE (like you may be); it’s about EMBODIMMENT and expression in influence LIKE a star or starlet who can face, engage, inspire and MOVE the collective in the larger currents with your unique codes that are compelling and socially contagious.

 

THAT’S WHERE THE POWER OF THIS AVASTAR WORK COMES IN.

 

So…over this 2 weeks I’m going to be sharing more codes in and around my transformation as well as more Starlet codes related to overcoming extreme sabotage and codes around HOW to make real progress to be IN your power and codes against all odds in ‘being seen’.

 

And you know what?

 

My (Social) Rockstar era is beginning. It’s more important that OTHERS have the experience and affect of it; but it’s still important to have the INTERNAL compass of your my Star/let codex consciously so that you are ALIGNED.

 

I use the Beauty Sorcerer more publicly and the ‘brand’ is really Rion Kati and having influence as a real star/lightworker, etc. but as a ‘brand’ but I’m sharing this with you as part of my (and the) AvaStar process.

 

If you’re following me on Instagram, there’s a LOT going on in my JUST released video because (for me and you) the impossible is WITHIN REACH. It proves this work is real (oh and ‘miracles’ are already happening for the lady AvaStar clients). I’ll deconstruct what’s going on b/c in some way, I’m not ‘competing’ with the late Michael Hutchence of INXS, BUT we’re both 5/1’s and…well, stay tuned (or check it out now). I’ll speak to it soon.

 

STARDOM is the mid and long-term outlook but in a sense, I’m already a star in the work that I do and those sub-markets (now really post-debut and going visual public public).

 

 

OH; so what happened when I was speaking at the Man Transformation event when Eben Pagan/David DeAngelo stepped up on stage to STOP my speaking presentation (which was printed to DVD’s and sold as a product later)?

 

Well…they took a quick 4 minute stretch break to set up some couches and somehow that did the trick; we went into a sit-down interview format and it alleviated most of my anxiety and saved the day.

 

Yes, it’s THAT Eben Pagan famous marketer; he’s been a multi-millionaire for a long time. I actually have him LAUGHING…here’s a screen shot of that. I was doing a Mr. Anderson impression from Beavis & Butt-head.

 

 

I HAD TO DO BE THERE and speak because I had codes that NO ONE ELSE HAD in that industry; literally no one else was sharing this (and I was frustrated they weren’t), so I had to fight through my anxieties and do the right thing. I was still one of the very few ‘naturals’ in the dating and seduction industry back then.

 

I even had 1 man give me a standing ovation near the front left (speaker’s view). Fortunately overcoming my anxieties opened all kinds of doors for me b/c I knew that I HAD to do it or I couldn’t live with myself.

 

Stay tuned to more real world Star/let codes on the blog soon…and yes, the AvaStar Makeover is available.

 

 

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