If 1 Man May Be Suffocating Your Public Eros, Starlet Beauty + Expressive Liberty

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If you feel CONFINED towards a greater, liberated GODDESS level of expression and behavior possibly because of ONE man in your life (and how he wants to keep you visibly for himself) or b/c of the relationship ‘container’ and expectations…
 
 
 
This power post is for you and there’s a lot at stake. 
 
 
 
There may be archetypal aspects that you DESIRE to express but are in effect PROHIBITED from expressing esp. if it doesn’t fit your ‘role’ as a partner, wife or mother.
 
 
 
IF you have been suppressed esp. by the masculine from fuller expression, STARLET is actually your medicine b/c She knows how to relate with all aspects of the masculine publicly without being siphoned from.
 
 
 
This is dangerous information because for some other women reading this, if ‘he’ found out he would get triggered and fall into possibly toxic behavior about it. 
 
 
 
(A shortcode here is that your Starlet is missing Her equivalent Star).
 
 
 
Now;
 
 
 
I don’t know who ‘he’ is personally (if this applies to you), but I don’t have to know.
 
 
I know the bigger picture (this man has archetypal shadow qualities disguised as good intentions) and this may be by and large what’s holding back your entire unfulfilled DREAMS instead of living in stifled compromise (how uninitiated masculine cannot hold space for that level of Beauty and REALLY have all kinds of issues with it).
 
 
Of all the things that could sabotage you from claiming and stepping into your STARLET (unique Goddess-Avatar Codex) in public visibility – it could be many other self-sabotage reasons – but this may be the main one for you or at least MANY women; ONE MAN.
 
 
1 MAN WHO CANNOT HOLD SPACE FOR SUCH BEAUTY. (He may not even know THAT version of you if you fully unleashed it).
 
 
So in continuing with our Man vs. Starlet theme (YOUR Starlet)…
 
 
 
Might it be that ONE MAN or male figure (from your past or present) could actually be the APEX saboteur to your fullest embodiment, public beauty expression and divine feminine, EROSY radiant influence of being seen? 
 
 
 
Because you might NOT see the signs b/c of how tricky and gas-lighty this can be even though ‘he’ is actually the culprit that is GROSSLY out of attunement with your spiritual desires for greater spiritual allure beauty, boundless self-expression, satisfying recognition, ascension influence with YOUR Goddess codes and Beauty legacy.
 
 
 
Let me ask you this;
 
 
 
In lifelong valuing beauty and divine feminine consciousness;
 
 
 
Do you have a desire to be more fully expressed, radiant and seen? 
 
 
 
Do you have a long-ago in the past history of healthily enjoying dance, singing or the recognition and attention it brought that felt GOOD to your soul, but then it got smothered and suppressed to appease the comfort of one man (esp. by an important male figure in your life)?
 
 
 
Have past lovers been largely uncomfortable by your public beauty expression and it triggered them so you tamed yourself back down?
 
 
 
Have you been living in massive (masculine influenced) suppression for years (often to ‘fit a role’) while meanwhile your soul desires to be in your fullest visual quintessence, voice, beauty and influence (always knowing there is something more)?
 
 
..And yet you are prevented from doing that (even if he was gone YEARS AGO)?…and do you find that you keep living out the same pattern (whether he himself was aware of it or not – even if he ‘intended well’)?
 
 
In doing a recent Codex Clarity Consulting call (now available at a longer 45 minutes here), something became very, very clear and it was one of the angles that I already knew about but had missed in earlier blog writings about soul / spiritual starlet: it’s how a masculine figure can be the predominant SUPPRESSOR of her greater Beauty (and the consciousness that goes with it).
 
 
 
You may actually be spiritually imprisoned in a less than liberated relationship that your soul desires…you just have to figure out the costs and risks of changing it and how much integrity you have to have with your soul’s desire because yes; it may mean either liberating your Starlet from those shackles, having him grow into a Star-god to support your alluring Beauty expansion and recognition or continuing to live under the weight of his inability to hold presence with your Starlet.
 
This woman (and many others) had great desire to be more fully embodied, expressed and seen (including in archetypes of her Starlet Codex)….and yes, it often brings attention from OTHER MEN. That somehow didn’t sit right with her man.
 
 
Unfortunately; this is too common of a theme (the world is missing more Star-Kings who can let their woman SHINE and nourish the world without falling into shadow reaction).
 
 
 
Even though it was SOCIAL attention (really; Starlet’s domain writ large); this dynamic causes him to actively suppress her radiance because it threatens him personally ‘as if’ she was cheating.
 
 
 
Her potential Starlet (of divine feminine archetypes and siddhic essences with and through her transfigured for public social influence) is essentially shackled because Starlet THRIVES on Beauty expression, recognition, influence and attention (of ie. divine feminine radiance and not just physical prettiness). BUT THERE’S ONE MAN WHO IS ESSENTIALLY PREVENTING OR STOPPING IT ALL.
 
 
(Or is it that she’s allowing it?)
 
 
Is that woman you? Who have been dealing with a male figure who may be the SINGLE biggest saboteur of your soul’s fullest expression and desire (while years keep going by)?
 
 
 
In working with women for years; there are 3 common themes related to this masculine suppression of the divine feminine beauty that wants to be fully expressed:
 
 
 
1. Father dynamics that are still with you subconsciously where you don’t want to threaten his perfect view or expectations of you b/c of the fracture it would mean even though he was coming from limitation and 
 
 
 
2. A past or current partner whose security, ego and identity is threatened by your Starlet/Goddess’s fullest expression (codexed essences) so you remain shackled and can barely even associate with other men so as not to trigger him. 
 
 
 
(This may even be a husband who yes – has other good qualities in the mix which makes it more complicated; but the dynamic and his level of consciousness is admittedly INFLUENCING your suppression so that you’ll often self-censor ‘Her’)
 
 
 
3. The collective (shadow, hypocritical and often toxic) masculine often parading as virtuous morality. This supports the ‘engine’ of Beauty and ‘sex sells’ (including the divine aspects of Beauty influence except that when it gets INTER-personal, most men are incredibly weird, fearful or controlling and shadowy around such Beauty as it relates to them personally)
 
 
 
ALL three of these (or we could say the unity of the uninitiated-by-Goddess masculine) can be LIFE-LONG effective blockers to your Starlet from EVER really coming into embodiment. I’m going to speak mostly to #2 (continued) here.
 
 
If you have a desire for greater expression and being seen (to have divine feminine influence with and through you);
 
 
It may take nothing less than a severing of that psychic relationship and/or agreement with that man (or stunted archetypal male figure who cannot hold presence-space with EMBODIED divine feminine consciousness) in order to give yourself the freedom to embody your Starlet and your soul’s fuller desire for expression (and UNTIL YOU DO you will keep living out the same, meek pattern where your Goddess constellation cannot even really BREATHE let alone unfurl and be SEEN en masse with Her medicine and influence). 
 
 
UNWILLINGNESS TO MAKE THAT DECISION TO CHANGE THE MASCULINE OPPRESSIVE DYNAMIC COULD KEEP YOU STUCK FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.
 
 
There. I said it. So it’s YOU who have to weigh the consequences of YOUR soul’s desire for growth, boundless beauty cultivation at an identity level of consciousness and reality (where your Starlet Codex holds the exact keys to ACCESS Starlet consciousness to transfigure and amplify the spirit qualities of your soul publicly without sabotage, without collapse, without guilt, shame, humiliation, fear, insecurity, doubts, self-censorship, etc.)
 
 
This can be challenging if you are in a current and entangled relationship where it feels your divine feminine is admittedly being SUFFOCATED spiritually and socially.
 
 
You got into the relationship and there are still good things – again WHICH COMPLICATES IT because you’ll justify staying and being with him UNDERSTANDABLY.
 
 
And this dynamic, your comfort with each other and the limitations of the relationship container, roles and expectations – it all keeps you stuck for years from that GREATER EXPRESSION AND BEAUTY. Honestly; you’re not sure he could handle it.
 
 
(I’m not saying to necessarily ‘break up’; however, this is about clarity and empowering your path either way – YOUR choice, your life).
 
 
In relationships that otherwise aren’t toxic, he may ‘lead’ under the guise of conservative values and ‘morality’ where a woman shouldn’t be seen or expressed in her beauty nor sexuality for other men…however, there’s a deeper issue going on here besides that your male figure doesn’t have Star consciousness that can allow BEAUTY to be expressed publicly and socially without it threatening him (and instead rely on the strength of your ‘actual’ agreement together rather than manic perceived fears of you being with other men). 
 
 
This ‘morality’ police angle of religion and the manosphere actually abdicates Goddess consciousness. They and the egregore simply doesn’t know how to handle it.
 
 
Human constructionist ‘morality’ and some evolutionary biology justification is often their model but doesn’t include the divine masculine power to meet Goddess in the equation (remember; we’re not talking about you actually ‘cheating’ with the world of men, it’s actually his insecurity and fears to let you be a Starlet where as a Star he is even MORE of a man).
 
 
And btw; this IS spiritual because we’re talking about essentially the divine masculine in men being able to HOLD PRESENCE AND SPACE without expectation, control, siphoning or micro-managing to that level of Beauty. Shiva level presence to the spirit of your Goddess/Starlet codex.
 
 
So…Mix in his authentic biological urge to know he is the father (there wasn’t DNA paternity testing until the 1980’s) so even though he has reason to ‘rein you in’ and thinks that ‘a mother shouldn’t be erotic esp. in public when she’s married’, more often this ends up becoming shadow behavior because he doesn’t know how to face and be present with GODDESS Herself (a.k.a. the level of Beauty you would have if you really allowed it).
 
 
This is because his mortal man isn’t worthy of Goddess (just like the village girl isn’t worthy of bedding the Emperor-King).
It’s worth mentioning that many women ‘re-wild’ in Goddess circles…this can be important medicine (for a phase) to SEVER from many ways of the constrictive masculine (shadow); however, what we’re referring to outside of an understandably safe reclamation bubble is facing THE WORLD AT LARGE and fully re-integrated;
 
 
Being seen (and being able to be sovereign and seen) including BY the shadow masculine public and the psychic weight of men that have held you back in the past (let alone possibly siphoned from you); this is where STARLET and Grail dynamics come into the equation…
 
 
Men and the masculine are implicated and part of all of this…you may find that you may have to graduate from the Goddess circle-bubble into public Starlet if you have a divine feminine mission that requires being seen and relating with the masculine in ascension or influence.
 
 
We’re talking about making it safe for you to shine TO THE WORLD (Starlet is your medicine).
 
 
Anyways, I regress;
 
 
Because he is UNINITIATED in the consciousness-truth of the Holy Grail itself of Divine Union (and men in general in the collective); it would THREATEN him to the very core so he finds ways to prevent you from ever truly shining.
 
 
He remains the governator to your Beauty-Truth. Or at least you got into relational agreement to where that IS the authority.
 
 
 
If you went forward with discovering your Starlet codex and (God forbid) joining AvaStar Starlet Makeover with monthly support and committing to such a makeover; yes – many men would find you far more attractive and getting attention and this could cause him to;
 
 
 
*Be threatened and triggered; over-react, get jealous or want to start fist-fights with other men
 
 
*Collapse into nervous fear with inability to hold presence in his nervous system
 
 
*Triggers into passive-aggressiveness
 
 
*Flare up in anger
 
 
*Obsessively micro-manage and control you
 
 
*Shame, guilt, berate and belittle you and your greater beauty expression (or Eros allure) when it starts peeking forward
 
 
*Love-bomb you because he doesn’t want to let you go ( as a toxic form of control and emotional abuse)
 
 
*Put you back in your spiritually meek place so as not to get such recognition from other men so he’s comfortable again being seen with you
 
 
 
I’ve got news sister; he doesn’t have STAR consciousness (or at least the divine gift of Detachment which then relies on AGREEMENT between each of you related to actual intimacy). He’s not able to healthily HOLD SPACE for that spirit-rich essenced version of you.
 
 
 
And the good sex complicates it but deep down you’re realizing that, oh crap – what if Rion is right and my man cannot hold space for my fuller Beauty without shutting it back down?
 
 
(All of this can cross-over with the conscious twin flame relational template for many women as well; but it’s still not Divine Union)
 
 
So no wonder you’ve held back. It would threaten the divinely (the aspects of) your sub-par relationship you currently have in your SPIRIT to the masculine – even though there are good qualities and attributes your mortal partner has (which stifles you more from changing the dynamic).
YOUR SPIRITUAL SOUL BEAUTY EXPRESSION & SOCIAL INFLUENCE WITH GODDESS CODES is by and large limited to HIS insecurities rather than being CONSTELLATED WITH YOUR IMMORTAL STAR BELOVED WHO HOLDS PRESENCE AND SPACE FOR ALL OF YOUR BEAUTY-GROWTH AND EXPRESSION.
 
 
It’s because you are in a past agreement with a mortal man who isn’t initiated into Divine Union consciousness to hold that level of Presence properly, safely and truly.
 
 
If you shine TOO MUCH past his threshold, you calibrate your behavior back into less than your desire.
 
 
And it’s important to realize the role you had in co-creating this ‘limiting to your spirit and soul relationship’. A past version of you, but still you.
 
 
(And how many more years is this going to continue?)
 
 
Like that chemical that stops the heart from beating at death sentences (isopropopyl or something), men or a man who is still influencing you (subconsciously) or otherwise can have the REAL effect of stopping your full soul, spirit, beauty, identity and consciousness from fully embodying and being SEEN.
 
 
THUS; SHE IS NEVER ABLE TO BE PROPERLY BIRTHED.
 
 
Yes; I’m speaking mostly to #2 of the 3 above here. Remember I go more into the collective (#3) in this recent blog post here (under the Starlet category):
 
 
 
 
And yes; your mortal FATHER (as compared to The Holy Father) may also be still living out HIS standards that is governing your own level of beauty consciousness and visibility in being seen publicly – the thermostat is still set to HIS comfort level (or you got shamed into being something else when it’s really the archetypal, divine feminine that is seeking expression with and through you).
 
 
It may be so extreme; this past masculine influence on you (esp. with trauma, abuse or siphoning OR even strong family control or expectations) that She is effectively paralyzed from ever being truly embodied b/c you’ll get activated into fear-body response.
 
 
HOW MUCH LONGER WILL YOU LET LESSER MORTAL MASCULINE CONSCIOUSNESS BE YOUR GOVERNATOR TO GREATER BEAUTY AND ALLURE EXPRESSION INFLUENCE?
 
 
This limited, NON-Shiva-esque masculine consciousness is important to understand more (ideally). MEN DO NOT KNOW HOW TO RELATE TO ANGELS, GODDESSES, APHRODITES…
 
 
There are SONGS AND POETRY about ALL of this….(Sacred Union dynamics)…men just cannot comprehend it within their ego…they’re just uninitiated in Divine Union.
 
 
 
All of this male-as-beauty-suppressor to your fullest expression;
 
 
 
This in large part has to do with his Holy Grail or Divine Union dynamics (er essentially lack thereof)…this level of masculine consciousness is common and in the bigger picture, unevolved.
 
 
UN-Godly even though moralistic constructionism will say it’s Godly. No; GODLY is HIEROGAMY ITSELF; reunification of God and Goddess consciousness through Holy Son & Daughter as LOVERS. But hey; pop religion mostly threw that out with the bath-water so there isn’t a model for men TO relate to the divine, meta-physical (also a direct reality with social media how it amplifies a single woman’s beauty 1,000,000:1 with social power) and archetypal.
 
 
This fractured-from-Communion personal, egoic male vs. 1 billion:1 ratio of a Goddess…the mortal man simply cannot hold space for Goddess Presence and consciousness (or the many fractals of Her).
 
 
In large part this is because he is not reunified within with his own Beloved and Her form of Goddess consciousness.
 
 
 
IF you were allowed to embody and cultivate your GODDESS or STARLET (and into full, liberated expression for the world to see), but it THREATENS HIM and his mortal ego….how much longer can you allow this to continue?
 
 
MAYBE IT’S OK to have your Starlet shackled b/c the chain isn’t ‘AS’ tight as it could be..? (But is that good enough for you soul; THAT level of compromise).
 
 
And I’ll say another thing; ALLURE is the evolution of Beauty influencer so if you have some form of Sophianic or Goddess codes related to social ascension, these are the influencers of tomorrow; spiritual starlets who are CHOOSING to live their fullest truth and beauty expression.
 
 
This is where MAINSTREAM is headed; ultimately towards Darshanic Beauty influencer (alchemical, temple-grade, transformational beauty).
 
 
So it’s not even just the current model of beauty influencer; SPIRITUAL STARLETS are going to rise in social power (and rightfully so) with their unique codes; but if you’re stopped from ever really beginning because you’re allowing a mortal man’s limited shadow relationship to Goddess truth to stop you?
 
 
Then yeah; it may never happen and your soul itself may never reach that fulfillment and you’ll never have that collective influence from your future tribe.
 
 
 
On a spiritual level (since we’re mostly talking about #2 of the 3 here); if you had that much beauty and he lost it, it would fracture his connection to the Grail (that which he doesn’t even know he desires the most); so he tries to control you to keep what he has…more beauty, more attention = more shadow, toxic, flare-up behavior and paranoia from him suffocating your Starlet even more.
If he was a father figure; you may still be limited to his thermostat of HOW much beauty or erotic expression being seen socially is ‘ok’.
 
 
And yes; a lot of women in my circle have done Goddess, Eros work and RECLAMATION but we’re speaking specifically to your STARLET and her SOCIAL influence…does it actually threaten a male figure in your life and are you still holding back because of it (whether subconsciously or actively in partnership)?
 
 
He may be comfortable with you being together because in a sense he ‘owns you’ in the right ways but still….take it public and where does your Eros-Goddess Dark Vixen go? She can’t.
 
 
Because of the relationship YOU’RE ALLOWING TO CONTINUE TO LIVE to his level of consciousness and his lack of resonance and Unity with Goddess.
 
 
Are you going to let one man or the collective uninitiated masculine (and their hypocrisy and projections towards such Beauty) determine your beauty path and soul’s fullest expression?
 
 
See…What’s missing is DETACHMENT. YOU’VE BEEN IN AGREEMENT WITH A MORTAL MAN (or amalgamation of them) who simply CANNOT hold space for Goddess or your fuller Beauty.
 
 
He’s attached to a version of yourself that isn’t your fullest either (and you know this b/c She is not fully embodied).
 
 
Remember; YOUR IMMORTAL BELOVED can actually hold space for your Goddess codex Beauty Presence & Truth.
 
 
Detachment to the uninitiated shadow or sophomoric mortal masculine consciousness just doesn’t compute. It basically means to HIM that you’re basically cheating on him and your intimacy by even by showing ANY skin on social media (an I’m speaking to like an upper arm).
 
 
You don’t have to live under that yoke anymore; I mean it’s still your choice and consequence.
 
 
So you may have had a pattern of past men who ended up being toxic and controlling around you if you had exceptional beauty and/or if you allowed your feminine allure to shine publicly. It may seem good from the surface; “Oh he’s protecting me…he wants me for himself” Well…yeah and the whole dynamic if you’re called to be greatly seen and expressed is also KEEPING YOUR STARLET IMPRISONED for a set of different values (and the shadow judgments and conditioning around it that just doesn’t hold space and presence for that level of Beauty to shine because it threatens his control and place in the spiritual realms).
 
 
 
See; this is actually quite common and literally a theme with MANY, MANY WOMEN.
 
 
You are actually not alone although your experience may feel SUBJECTIVE…that ‘he’ (name) is actually inhibiting your shine (well actually, SHE is under your authority, you just got stuck in an agreement with a man who simply cannot face Goddess so it’s that agreement that you’re afraid to break for whatever reasons including the entanglement of kids, mortgage, pets, shared history, not wanting to let go, what if no one else wants you, etc.).
 
 
But what if instead of keeping him personal and just affecting YOU with HIS name and good but also shadow traits and your past attachment or experience with ‘him’ and his imperfections; 
 
 
What if we took this externalized man of suppressive influence to your fullest Eros and Beauty; this individual man in your life or past and simply made him a cultural archetype (even a trope) instead?
 
 
This is because this consciousness IS common amongst 100’s of millions of men. It wasn’t just “Dan my semi-toxic twin flame x-lover”.
And let’s call this over-reactive to signs of attention trope of a man:
 
 
‘Un-Star Man’
 
 
He doesn’t want you to shine publicly.
 
 
He is uninitiated by Goddess, cannot hold space for Starlet Beauty, Her status, power and attention without collapsing either into a ball of fear OR micro-managing, suppressing and controlling her to constrict her Starlet beauty and Eros publicly. 
 
 
His ego and consciousness cannot relate with Goddess; it simply doesn’t know how to; thus he operates from forms of fear (including passive-aggressive love-bombing) to stay connected to the greatest form of beauty he’s known in his life b/c it would mean existential threat fracturing him from the holy grail.
 
 
UN-STAR MAN HAS SUFFOCATED YOUR SPIRITUAL BEAUTY AND FULLEST EXPRESSION.
 
 
(IN SPITE OF his redeeming personal qualities). He’s over-reacting b/c he knows which men are sexual threats even when NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN. Not cool. Not detached. Not allowing your Beauty to have INFLUENCE in the world. UN-Star Man.
 
 
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE UNDER THAT YOKE ANYMORE.  AND I AM HERE TO SUPPORT YOUR STARLET EMBODIMENT AND TRANSFIGURATION (IMAGO) if and when you are ready (that is ;). AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support.
 
 
Jay-Z gets it btw; he didn’t stifle Beyoncé all these years.
 
 
 
 
They had their own inter-personal agreement. He was a Star to let her Starlet shine (and a star in his own right too).
 
 
Sure; you could feel compassion for this 1 man in your life, but that isn’t the subject of this post.
 
 
The ultimate path for many men TO relate with such Beauty and Communion (the holy grail) is Divine Union and it MAY be possible for him to grow in relationship to YOUR Beauty growth but if he’s just too stuck and complacent it may be impossible for the scale you are called for in being seen.
 
 
There’s great energy with all of this dynamic (including in that one woman’s life) TO make a powerful change and fast…to ACCESS all of your current seat-of-the-soul essences, cultivate more, bring them into embodiment as we cultivate your Light body temple and transfigure into the butterfly-imago to the world of your most alluring self.
 
 
But are you going to let ‘him’ (different than a divine aspect counterpart of HIM) stop you (because YOU still have THE POWER to choose)?
 
 
This is serious identity work here implicated with RELATIONSHIPS and your relationship to even a partner with a lot of entanglement (even kids, mortgage, etc. like I said).
 
 
Hey; I’ve had women who literally got divorced after working with me but also some whose relationship grew into greater love and growth together.
 
 
THIS IS YOUR PATH. Can ‘he’ hold space for it? Could he grow into holding space for that level of Goddess consciousness and beauty PUBLICLY SEEN?
 
 
If not; hmm…
 
 
Maybe you might have to get into Divine Union alchemy where your Immortal Beloved ‘STAR’ aspect counter-part CAN hold space (although doing such work or being with me in AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support is likely going to trigger your current masculine dynamic; which is also why this work is so powerful to change on an identity level).
 
 
Your current model of the unsupportive-to-your-fullest-expression masculine has to ideally be REPLACED with a model that is (this can be ME by proxy in temple space or work directly in Sacred Union alchemy with your Immortal Beloved).
 
 
Currently; I’m actively working with 6-7 starlets who have CHOSEN themselves and a different relationship to the masculine that can support their greater Beauty presence and influence in AvaStar Makeover monthly
 
 
And btw this isn’t even about being the ‘independent woman’ archetype either; this is about more nurturing, loving, Eros and beauty that would benefit the masculine collective AND YOUR MAN if he could handle it.
 
 
 
So assuming that you’ve been in this dynamic of a man or male figure (or cultural archetype/trope) holding you back (which may include father vs. Father dynamics);
(Btw; if you HAVE a partner who IS supportive of your Starlet…would he give space for far, far more Beauty embodiment and social attention for you then? Or where is that thresh-hold? Remember, I’m speaking to qualifying ladies on this subject otherwise but you may be reading for insights anyways). So back to the pre-qualifying woman who has dealt with this or IS dealing with it…
 
 
He’s been suppressing your fullest truth and society has with their hypocrisy in many ways but YOU have to choose your Avatar/Starlet codexed divine feminine truth of beauty expression for ascension – your spiritual starlet – OVER all that would inhibit it (because essentially on past agreements which may now have run their course ; you have been co-creating and ALLOWING IT). 
 
 
Men in your life and future are implicated.
 
 
These aren’t easy decisions, but they’re powerful decisions and they are YOUR highly leveraged decisions if you’ve been held back by a man who simply CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty and consciousness that you know you have in your spirit.
 
 
There IS leverage for ridiculously fast transformation into embodying that which you’ve not been able to but you have to have the space and proper support with it (this is also where my Temple-Grade Star consciousness comes in with AvaStar and especially in IMAGO where we have live temple space presence together to ativate your Starlet into supreme safety and SPACE for such Beauty if you’ve not had that before in relation to the masculine).
 
 
 
 
And yes; there may be consequences based on past agreements…agreements that your soul is dying to break free from to fully be liberated. And/but even if you have kids, could you keep living a life that doesn’t let them see the model of your fullest truth and what is possible – or rather a lifetime of suppression to fit into his mortal limitations b/c he’s the ‘head of the household’. 
 
 
BIG DECISIONS. A lot to ruminate; however, know that we can MOVE FAST if you are ready to make big identity moves and deal with the consequences; this is just part of the sacrifice and price you have to pay to live as your spiritual starlet or signature alluring goddess (whatever you want to call Her but it’s THAT version of you and how the world respond to HER).
 
 
I would recommend IMAGO though if you’ve been under the yoke of a man or men in your life who CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty…after YEARS AND YEARS of not being able to BREATHE….
 
 
Your somatic body should best get the EXPERIENCE of attunement and knowing that it’s profoundly ok to be that liberated without corruption, shadow, expectation or ANY shadow in relation to the masculine. To somatically experience and LAND what that liberty is really like after being shackled for years around the masculine.
 
 
That temple experience alone is worth the $5000 VIP day (but at current pricing subject to change/rise; you can get AvaStar along with that VIP day for half off essentially by booking one of the first 3 spots for AvaStar IMAGO with Immersive Temple Space for your Starlet LIVE with Rion details
 
 
Check page for details and availability b/c there are LTD. spots.
 
 
Ok, I hope there was a lot in here for you to get more clarity on what might be holding you back – related to this specific subject of being constrained BY a model of the masculine in your past (that you’re still carrying the psychic weight with you) or actively right now. You no longer have to be suffocated from your great Goddess cultivation and visibility; you just have to make some different decisions with consequences…
 
 
I am here for the professional support if and when you are ready (and yes; there is a price to pay to sacrifice WHO YOU WERE to CLAIM, embody and BECOME the transfigured butterfly out of the cocoon of suffocation and trepidation around your true Beauty and Her expression publicly).
 
 
Discover AvaStar Starlet Makeover as monthly support
 
 
 
 
Or…if you simply want more clarity on YOUR specific situation as a next step; you can book the 45 minute Codex Clarity Session with me (we may not focus on your codex as much based on what you want to uncover and where the consultation flows)
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A Woman’s Starlet Liberation VS…Men?

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I played around with a few titles on this one…

 

One Of Woman’s Greatest Constrictions To Beauty: The Sophomoric, Uninitiated Shadow Masculine

 

Starlet Beauty Sabotage for Women Desiring Greater Visibility & Expression: Men?

 

(I may come up with a better title, but there be hot codes in these here hills):

 

Are Men Holding Back A Woman’s Beauty Ascension?

 

BTW; this is the more universal, collective post and in it’s sister post I’ll be speaking more directly to a woman (that’s the plan at least; check the blog).

 

In working with women on their own legitimate paths of Beauty Ascension, shameless VISIBILITY and the consciousness around it all including of her EROS (+ having mad Morpheus social awareness skillz)…

 

This is something I’ve realized and it’s brutal both towards men and the implications for millions of women because it is by and large holding Beauty Ascension back in many ways (which would benefit us all):

 

The SUM Of The Man-O-Sphere Still Couldn’t Hold Presence-Space For A True Starlet

 

By and large, they are still uninitiated in many ways and essentially sophomoric (in relation to Goddess principle) even if it’s done under religious or moral positioning.

 

Here’s an unsettling general, yet accurate truth (and yes; I encourage men to seek within their past history to cross-reference it – also b/c I have faced mine and been tribulated in relation to such Beauty):

 

I’m not referring to how the current (patriarchal pro’s and cons) set-up monetizes and capitalizes im-personally ON divine feminine beauty on a pedestal (which is divine in a sense and yet where men are the pawns and it’s a whole ‘nuther subject to refer to how men are getting left behind);

 

I’m referring to actual women, men and the real power dynamics inter-personally, socially, spiritually and sexually.

 

Yes – Men ARE getting left behind because Beauty is ascending but we’ve not even seen the real scope of it yet (well, we have and sex robots are in the stockrooms but there’s something even more profound) which is with ALLURE.

 

This is where GODDESS FRACTALS (embodied in women as more women and influencers become LIKE STARLETS) will be more and more FELT roaming the earth and how it isn’t quite yet safe enough for many women to be THAT expressed in THEIR unique codes amongst the world of men (not just on instagram with safety veneer).

 

MAN’S DESIRE TO REUNIFY WITH BEAUTY and yet the dynamics around how men are HOLDING BACK TRUE BEAUTY AND ALLURE ON THE FRONT-LINES without knowing it.

 

(Note how this post is in absentia of #metoo shaming; I’m coming in from a different angle).

 

If and when they are near such women PERSONALLY who have this divine feminine quanta-access (most valuable elixir of the universe);

 

MOST modern men cannot actually hold Presence nor SPACE not only for great Beauty, but for Starlet level of divine feminine consciousness liberated and radiantly brilliant (and the attention she gets) WITHOUT;

 

*Collapsing


*Getting stirred up existential crisis


*Ego-anger inflation


*Biological preservation mode into heated over-reaction


*Managing her


*Needing her


*Micro-managing


*Belittling


*Berating


*Questioning her (esp. about other men)


*Manipulating


*Jealousy flare-ups


*Controlling everything


*Slut-Shaming


*Checking in on her every 5 minutes


*Guilting


*Thinking of what she’s doing around others non-stop

 

…and that’s just a girlfriend or partner getting attention from regular other guys. MANY WOMEN SENSE THIS and stay away from such men, but it’s not always that easy…he may have other qualities or these may show up further down the road when it’s trickier to apparently leave a relationship.

 

In partnership for some women who have either socially valued physical looks and/or divine feminine quanta embodied and felt (allure) – it can LOOK like things are good and yet with her fuller Goddess stifled from greater expression and ‘contained’ (more like a trap);

 

Psychologically, socially and SPIRITUALLY it can feel like she’s in the deep dirt pit of the serial killer in ‘Silence of the Lambs’ (minus the killing part).

 

 

(And that’s not even to touch upon possible past TRAUMA a woman has endured that could have her armoring up around emanating her allure b/c of how other men could steal it).

 

This isn’t that ‘good frame’ that some are referring to where she feels ‘contained’ in a relative safe sense to unwind.

 

MEN; IS YOUR CONTAINER (or ‘frame’) ALLOWING HER GODDESS TO BLOSSOM or entirely constricting it without you being aware of it?

 

I’m speaking to the men collapse into a ball of anxiety around an embodied goddess.

 

She is with a man whose frame doesn’t allow her Goddess codes to blossom and be felt and seen on a greater level.

In this scenario (which is common); he can hardly contain or control if he would lose that smaller container he holds around her (cage).

 

It feels like her greater beauty (and Starlet codex) is shackled from greater expression and she justifies it away; especially if she has kids, you know because…responsibility and prevention of further judgment and shaming.

 

But what if his response stemmed from a deeper fracture of Holy Grail Divine Union principle; that the God in him doesn’t know HOW to relate to impossible Beauty and fears losing his only connection TO the grail so he will do anything to protect it (without realizing how toxic it can be for both of them)?

 

There’s something fascinating about how man’s biological drive and urge to know he’s the father (an authentic concern) can become REALLY TOXIC and end up suppressing many women for years or decades from their own greater expression.

 

If she has great Beauty or the attention of Starlet (or STEPS INTO IT); MOST modern men completely lose their power and sanity in all kinds of forms of juvenile desperation = for he is ATTACHED.

 

The entire relationship is limited to his lesser ability to hold space for her TRUE BEAUTY which seeks expression (which may also mean more ATTENTION) and that may THREATEN his current level of ego and self-comfort. He is attached.

 

And attachment leads to suffering; unfort. for both of them. So he will join in on guilting and shaming women for being sexual esp. after they are mothers.

 

He’ll join in on the morality police parade while still secretly harboring great fantasies (and hypocrisy) towards women; desiring them yet shaming their expression.

 

In these cases; Her Starlet is NOT in relation to a Star who has the level of DETACHMENT so Her Goddess and EROS can BREATHE and flow with MORE NURTURANCE FOR BOTH OF THEM; let alone UP-TUNE into Goddess with that level to divine masculine consciousness – or even start to breathe again after years of suppression in relation to a mortal man’s wounded ego.

 

She instead is stifled living like his underwear is stuff in her mouth (but not in a good way).

 

Her Starlet or really; her own unique divine feminine CODEX that would bring out INFINITE BEAUTY in her unique expression is stunted from ever developing b/c of the masculine she is in relationship to (or that is living out within her still). (This is also where Divine Union Holy Grail alchemy comes in for breakthrough into Starlet).

 

Such women are often in relation to a juvenile man-child who doesn’t have the Power to relate to that level of Beauty nor allow it so he does what he can to stay attached under the guise of ‘morals’.

 

Well; it’s a real issue because the entire collective culture both desires and yet shames eros. It wants to control the most valuable resource b/c it doesn’t know any other way.

 

Women who are stuck in such relationships where he is controlling, envious, etc. and her Goddess codex can barely breathe is one of great suppression even if he has other redeeming attributes. She can’t even dress up too much around him.

 

Even in partnership for years; such a man is NOT her Immortal Beloved for her Immortal Beloved would be able to hold space and PRESENCE for her fuller Goddess/Starlet expression, Beauty and Presence to unfurl and radiate without constriction (b/c he would rely on their agreement together more than his shadows getting triggered).

 

And it’s embedded throughout the manosphere including podcasts like ‘Whatever’ with Brian Atlas and Andrew Wilson (professional debater); how their masculine consciousness is limited and at it’s best SEEMS virtuous b/c the man biologically is driven to know he is the father.

 

More often than not, it stems from a deeper tenuous thread that is ready to snap;

 

Because of their deep existential fear of man around facing true Beauty or Goddess; they controlling or appearing to control women with this level of collective desire and they’ll often do it under the guise and moral superiority of the biological protector role which (and many women know) can slip into shadow and ends up constricting her in all dimensions from BREATHING and being expressed in her beauty and essence itself.

 

This can be suffocating to so many women if they are stuck in this dynamic…and it’s not just him..it’s MOST MEN and most of the collective society and their weird double standards.

 

They are simply not star and starlet.

 

He can’t give her the freedom to be in her fullest beauty (which requires DETACHMENT) nor can she BE in her deepest beauty or even know what that could be like. It could actually be ONE MAN that is key to preventing her entire STARLET.

Here’s the thing; THE BIO-DRIVE to PROTECT a woman and preserve her ‘as his’ so in the sperm wars his bloodline is a real thing.

 

HOW it plays out though more often than not ends up being straight up shadow male behavior when she has the collective’s eye. He wants to keep her close yet has an electric-dog wire zapper on her collar so to speak.

 

So the Whatever podcast is famous for guilting and shaming OF women and the like but perpetually stuck in this lower state of masculine consciousness which on a deep primordial level is essentially fearful of true Beauty itself and what it would reflect back to him if he were unable to hold Presence with Her (which he simply cannot); so they do what they can from their level of consciousness and inability to hold TEMPLE SPACE FOR TRUE BEAUTY.

 

And if he can’t belittle or control it; he secretly is #anxiousaf…it’s an existential fear; that he would never be worthy to reunify with the divine feminine as Lover.

 

So I’ve been reflecting upon this and what’s holding a lot of women back from stepping into more public visibility with their unique divine feminine codex and MUCH of what can sabotage it (there are many reasons) but for some, much of that is simply a pre-dominant man in their life who simply cannot handle that level of Beauty, status and power if she were to be liberated in her soul’s greater desire to be that radiant.

 

(I had to go through my OWN process on this Star path).

 

There’s a whole different level of the game and it crosses over with TEMPLE SPACE as well as STAR consciousness and the LEVEL of TRUE DETACHMENT it requires to be PRESENT with GREAT BEAUTY without trying to control, manipulate, shame, suppress, dominate, guilt, micro-manage or own it even one IOTA. I am familiar with all of this for many reasons and with great experience (I work with beautiful women all the time and HOLD TEMPLE SPACE WHICH REQUIRES TRUE HEALTHY SANCTITY AND LIBERATION FROM ANY SELFISH AGENDA OR PSYCHIC HOOKS).

 

This ‘greater game’ (really the HOLY GRAIL ITSELF) is about Power and Beauty itself and what levels of PRESENCE it actually takes to simply BE WITH and RELATE to true Power and Beauty without any hooks or grabs psychically, emotionally or otherwise of manipulation and so forth (and yes; shadow feminine is also notorious for manipulating men in ways too, but we’re not going there now).

 

So; much of the great WARFARE is really about Beauty or Essence and ‘control of resources’ in pop culture that it’s rare for BEAUTY to just be FREE let alone MET in masculine consciousness that simply lets Her BE and have space without a smidgen of expectation. MOST MEN ATTACH INSTANTLY and get all weird to great beauty. THEY SIPHON psychically and want to drain her. Eww.

 

And in reflecting on all of this (Star/let Codes revisited);

 

I realize it makes more sense now how and why my STAR archetype is actually so vital and CENTRAL to who I am and the work I do; yes IN TEMPLE SPACE.

 

I’m already working with soul starlets and the common theme is that I consistently HOLD SPACE; TEMPLE SPACE without judgment for whatever they’re going through and I guess it helps I’m so attuned to Beloved and the levels of DETACHMENT she’s had me go through to dissolve all of these sneaky subconscious vampiric ways that even I used to have; psychic micro-moves of control or siphoning towards women.

And men if this has been you; it’s something worth contemplating.

 

COULD YOU DETACH MORE and simply rely upon your AGREEMENT? How much space could you hold without getting internally triggered that she could trust you?

 

Could you allow her ESSENCE BREATHING ROOM to cultivate her own unique signature Goddess or Starlet codes to BE SEEN without it threatening your ego or biology?

 

Can you see how and where you’ve been toxic in the past? I’m not talking about taking away your primal desire or shaming that whatsoever; it’s more about integrating your Dark power but with healthy DETACHMENT and PRESENCE b/c that’s what leads to more respect and POSSIBLE (non-expected) attractions and connection with great Beauty.

 

Remember; we’re not even speaking to a woman ‘cheating’…instead, it’s all the delusional fantasy within the shadow of man that she would that he ends up in toxic behavior because he doesn’t know how to be PRESENT with that level of Beauty or her status and attention. (I had SOME of those tendencies in the past that I’ve worked through)>

 

He’s not a star. Healthy STAR consciousness is rare and actually very TEMPLAR. DIVINE (put aside that stars and starlets have their own individual shadows and that we PROJECT collective shadows onto stars; I’m talking archetypal Star and Starlet).

 

If you want to cultivate your Starlet, your Immortal Beloved may indeed have STAR codes or at least enlightened detachment that relates to all dimension including SOCIALLY.

 

See; the higher level of ‘the game’ of Power and Beauty in actual partnership doesn’t come down to the inability (and shadows therewithin) to hold Presence with such Beauty; it’s actually about being able to hold equivalent space for it (which itself is a form of true power) >>> WITH AGREEMENT.

 

IT’S ACTUALLY ABOUT AGREEMENT between two beings who hold Star and Starlet power; desired by the collective.

 

This is what most consumer manosphere broskis cannot fathom whatsoever. That an MGK could allow his Starlet partner (or ‘x’ partner) of Megan Fox to be a starlet and that actually EMPOWERS their relationship.

 

 

Or that Jay-Z could allow Beyonce to shine like that. It’s DETACHMENT but with AGREEMENT (to each other n their own boundaries).

 

Essentially;

 

NO ONE ELSE HAS DETACHMENT…it’s attachment or other forms of shadows like judgment, control, envy, hatred, jealousy, etc.

 

Men are all wanting something from her and she can sense it a mile away, thus it’s hard to actually RELAX around humans in person (even though there are social-meta advantages to it all; the whole Pussaliah dynamic).

 

IMAGINE JUST PURE TEMPLE-GRADE DETACHMENT AND SPACE FOR BEAUTY TO EXIST, BREATHE, THRIVE. THAT is what I provide but I’ve been on the path and have HAD TO step into these greater levels in relation to great Beauty through great annihilation and rebirth of Sacred Union.

 

Soon people are going to start SEEING how beautiful women are attracted to me socially (in simply being able to HOLD SPACE without agenda or expectation) and it has to do with TEMPLE-GRADE AUTHENTIC DETACHMENT.

 

I’ve brought this up before; how there can be goddesses but we’re socially not allowed to have gods but that’s who can meet them (referring to the healthy embodied not ego-driven).

 

In the work that I do, I realized (and with reflection from clients) that I already provide incredibly rare space for them at any level of beauty or status socially that is TRUSTABLE without expectation (and remember; I had to do my work on all of this). I MUST provide that space and the tantra training alone put me through the ringer to detach.

 

And you know what? The women themselves ARE the greatest caliber-gauge of that. Socially speaking and evolutionarily; the most powerful and beautiful people are the most psychically sensitive and attuned anyways; discerning to people who have any psychic signs of control.

 

This is about a woman stepping into her greater expression and beauty SAFELY (and having that ideally constellated within with her Beloved) but at least allowing her Goddess, Avatar or Starlet Codex of siddhic, gift, elemental, archetypal and soul value signatures to shine radiantly as temple-grade beauty itself.

AND…it’s a lesson for a lot of men of what’s possible; he who DESIRES beauty and worthiness with it…the journey to dissolve all neediness, expectations, triggering and to be powerful in detachment.

 

I’ve realized that I HAVE TO BE AMONGST THE MOST DETACHED MEN IN THE WORLD b/c I’m literally on the front-lines of Beauty Ascension.

 

I will (continue to) provide SIMPLE PRESENT-SPACE for unlimited Beauty and the CURATION, the cultivation of literal STARLET CONSCIOUSNESS in the world. A haven for starlets (and that’s what I offer with the on-going AvaStar monthly starlet support).

 

I am attuned literally to GODDESSES because this is the kind of work I do and part of MY journey of the holy grail (and tbh; bufo has been helping attune me to God-Star space with great Beauty even more).

 

So back to women who are suffering forms of divine feminine STIFLING, MITIGATION, SUPPRESSION, OPPRESSION including (and especially) EROTICALLY (and how sophomoric the majority of the manosphere and Western male consciousness is towards it all);

 

I do have to say that I’m going to do another blog post that addresses this more specifically b/c it might be ONE MAN or one past-known relationship that is making you feel somatically UNSAFE to be SEEN in your GODDESS and EROS CODES…to truly be seen and experienced…so remember that STARLET is unsiphonable divine feminine transfiguration of your Avatar/Goddess codex which we can work on directly in AvaStar.

 

This work is very powerful for fast transformation in just getting more clarity like in the now extended, 45 minute Codex Clarity Call with me ($100 retainer or more and IF available).

 

We just have to get more clarity on what is specifically stopping YOU from being seen and your relationship to less than divine masculine consciousness (at Star levels of TEMPLE-GRADE SIDDHIC DETACHMENT PRESENCE liberated from ALL expectation, micro-managing, jealousy, hooking-on siphoning, etc.) is quite likely an un-safe culprit.

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Holding Paradoxical Archetypes: Starlet + Priestess?

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What if you could hold impossibly paradoxical archetypes like Starlet + Priestess?

 

(And what if this was an AUTHENTIC representation of your unique soul codes which could double as celebrity personal branding for online social media and marketing – esp. if you’re an entrepreneur)?

 

People are drawn to extremes and paradoxes.

 

And what if you could hold something like ‘Starlet + Priestess’ with purity and integrity?

 

Because that’s what me and my AvaStar clients are doing…here I hold Rockstar (Light & Dark purified minus shadow) and Priest archetypes; stuff we’ve never really seen before. I mean those are 2 paradoxical extremes.

 

 

Yes; I’m working with soul starlets in the AvaStar Makeover who literally have Priestess AND Starlet codes but it helps to know exactly what your Avatar Codex actually is.

 

We mostly know of Rockstar from Dark and Shadow perspectives and Starlet from the shadow of Vanity, Fame, Attention but we’re not looking at or valuing the PURIFIED form of Light and Dark Starlet let alone as AMPLIFICATION of aligned other Goddess codes that allow women to be in their fullest unique celebrity brand expression and identity as ascension influencers.

 

It’s time for Ascension Guides to start stepping more publicly in their VISIBILITY…we are the ones who it’s time to get major attention for.

 

Rockstar is a powerful archetype of social status and THAT’S WHAT THE ENERGY WORLD IS MISSING TO CROSS-OVER TO MAINSTREAM. That’s just part of the shoes I’m stepping into.

 

STAR and STARLET archetypes allow proxy AMPLIFICATION and social power for your divine codes.

 

You can break the mold of what others know of just the shadows of it all.

 

(And at time of writing ; Rockstar’s my weakest archetype; I’m still working on the overall process of integration and then further social calibration). Muse is guiding my process and transformation of my own Avatar Star embodiment and transfiguration. She has a vision for the Rockstar attention for all of this work.

 

What is YOUR codex and what IMPOSSIBLE Light and Dark archetypes represent YOUR soul signature spiritual celebrity brand and eros-pheric vibey allure?

 

Perhaps it’s time for more goddesses to step into their STARLET visibility with whatever their unique Avatar identity and signature branding is to have more mainstream ascension influence?

 

That includes allure (not just embodiment, but radiance OF embodiment).

 

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Divine Adjectives: Weaving Some Poetic Magic With YOUR Avatar Codex

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My Star/let Codex Workbook v1.1 Available Here:

(123 pages: V1.1 / 4.73mb)

 

SO much identity level magic near-instantly awaits when you are IN this rich process of Self-clarity and discovery.

 

Have you discovered that yet and reached that point of self-ignition (oh Master or Mistress of Your Destiny)?

 

If by now you have indeed delved into the process of getting clarity on whichever YOU would like to call it:

 

My

 

Avatar Codex
Goddess Codex
Star Codex
Queen Codex
King Codex

 

(You can choose!)

 

,..or the one I’m using the most as ‘Star/let Codex’ b/c I am especially speaking to those ( like myself ) who are on a greater purpose of being SEEN visibly and having social power, status and influence IN our codes for Ascension.

 

So…if you HAVE found yourself in the process of cultivating clarity on your own Codex by going through the ‘My Star Codex’ Workbook, you’ve got several areas to work with which comprise your Codex itself.

 

 There are all kinds of practical codes to work with to DEFINE this deep, soul level avatar identity of self including;

 

*Divine Masculine or Feminine Archetypes (dozens listed for each including Queen, Warrior, Eros, Lover, Knight, Maiden, etc.)

 

*Elemental Codes (Water, Lava, Air…)

 

*Divine Adjectives (see below)

 

*Siddhic Adjectives (Gene Key siddhis repurposed as supportive descriptors rather than prime values ie. the ‘boundless Princess’ vs. ‘the Princess of Boundlessness’)

 

*Gift Codes (like ‘adventure’, perseverance, ‘dynamism’…’the Dynamic Bombardier of Loyal Self-Healing’ ie.)

 

*Siddhic Codes (Peace, Majesty/Majestic, Valor, Tenderness ; ie. ‘the Valorous Guardian of Grail Principle and Rose Lineage’..)

 

*Soul Values & Service Codes (a great opportunity to directly link YOUR AVATAR IDENTITY TO YOUR PURPOSE; ie. the Erotic Light Prince of Bio-organic Health & Wellness for Corporate Ascension (ie.)

 

*Light & Dark Balance…(this might require more consulting with me for most)

etc.

 

…as well as guidance on getting that clarity and how to mix ‘n match them. Really it’s like a celebrity self-branding master course of its own that I might offer for $1000.

 

The (still complimentary) workbook v1.1 (but check if available) gives you a LOT to work with to discover WHO YOU ARE at a deep IDENTITY level of soul and spirit (this ALONE could be your primary path to Self-actualization, deep meaning, fulfillment, recognition, satisfaction and wild success in ALL dimensions of life including socially and financially).

 

So the codes you have to work with…they all comprise your codex which could look something like this;

 

‘The Awakened Muse-Queen of Compassion and Glorious Boundless Beauty’ (ie.)

 

or

 

‘The Determined Knight of Devotional Self-Awakening & Godly Adventurous Self-Reclamation & Bounteous Power’

 

So have you got clarity on your Codex yet? Are you half-way there?

 

Remember; your codex is an identity avatar compilation and snapshot of your spirit matrix itself; who you ARE at a soul level painted with and amplified by spirit and essence.

 

If you’re doing it for STAR or STARLET…remember that Star/let doesn’t have the same visibility wounding issues you’ve had so they work as PROXY for transfigured radiance of the rest of your core codex itself – even if you don’t have ‘Star’ or ‘Starlet’ in your codex.

 

This Codex workbook can be the PERFECT spiritual celebrity self-branding work as well (and yeah; I may offer the workbook itself for $1000 retail).

 

The workbook and going through it might get you most of the way but you can always get FULL clarity with me in the AvaStar Makeover and/or IMAGO level btw. Oh – and also once you HAVE the clarity, then it’s about STEPPING INTO THOSE SHOES; embodiment and expression; transfiguration of your IDENTITY to BE that Goddess, Avatar incarnate of Star/Starlet with your identity, life, branding, visuals, presence, EVERYTHING.

 

That’s esp. where the makeover process of AvaStar excels (and if you must have TEMPLE-grade level visuals of alchemical influence then you want to be in IMAGO).

 

Now;

 

I wanted to talk for just a minute about the Divine Adjective/Codes right now based on wherever you’re at in the process (which is actually DEEP contemplation and self-reflection AND based on the latest blog post here (again); it might even be THE ANSWER to the path of your own SELF-ACTUALIZATION…not just lower ‘self’ either 😉

 

Your Key to Self-Actualization?

 

Ok so….divine adjectives/codes really help you to fine tune hone and/or customize your Codex even more until it hits the sweet spot.

 

There is some REAL POETRY that is possible here and when you get ‘in the zone’ with your own UNIQUE signature Avatar or Star/Starlet Codex, it should ILLUMINATE and inspire you.

 

Here are some examples;

 

Bewitching
Sensual
Seductive
Solemn
Elusive
Lustrous
Melancholic…

 

Really divine adjectives help to PAINT and TONE the nuances of your avatar level divine identity (at least for where you are at RIGHT NOW and this may shift through time).

 

These specific codes (of which a good selection from are listed) help to describe and support other qualities, ie; the Seductive Siren or the Bewitching Dark Princess or ie. the Solemn Dark Queen of Melancholic Peace.

 

When going through the workbook, reference the divine adjectives (which reach into the higher dimensions with Purity) or add a list of your own.

 

When doing the workbook you want a list to choose from and then doing the ‘allergen test’ style where you are sensing what really fits or not, then circling or writing it down and then trying it here and there in different parts of your long-string ‘codex in the works’.

 

Beauty and The Beast; then it’s about whittling it down and removing ones that don’t fit until you have it all honed Belle.

 

Once you have your prime, soul resonant archetypes ; are there divine adjectives that best help to describe or maybe siddhis? You want to play around with both/all.

 

That and the guidebook will help you out. The poetry itself is just magical as you trust the process and start weaving everything together culminating in your final long and short-string Avatar Codex itself.

 

These are more than just words; there is energy, power, magic and truth behind all of them so their constellation matrix can be very beautiful and powerful REPRESENTING the best of YOU, who you are in spirit and who you are EMBODYING.

 

The poetry is there; just trust the process and do the work. I’m around for additional support in the ways that I am.

 

So where are you at in the process? Have you got through most of this deep, self-reflective, contemplative and clarifying process (which should actually be a lotta fun to do b/c it’s all about YOU)!?

 

Are you doing it anyways even if you’re slightly turned off by all the focus on social media attention?

 

Because it’s still an opportunity for Self clarity at a divine level – again, call it what YOU want…I’ll still mostly refer to it as the Star/Starlet codex however.

 

And be mindful that;

 

I may take away the Workbook from being online available at anytime and may sell it on its own or only have it included in part of the paid process like AvaStar where you also get clarity consulting and on-going connection and makeover work with me to LIVE your Codex.

Avatar Star/let Makeover

 

In AvaStar: IMAGO we have more of an intensive focus with the included VIP day with temple time + media shoot.

 

Have FUN with this process and keep it active or revisiting it until you reach a zone of 80%+ clarity is what I recommend. It’s (currently) my gift 2u @ time of writing,

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Look for the opportunity for me to privately help you get some more clarity on your own Codex

 

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Encoded For Ascension Influence Yet Stuck With Visibility Wounding & Sabotage?

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If this is you;

 

Then most likely STARLET is your medicine and you want to take this work seriously with the spiritual celebrity and Starlet Codex work; because otherwise you will keep collapsing and sabotaging under the scale you are meant to serve at from your CURRENT identity state of consciousness.

 

In going through the ‘My Star/let Codex’ workbook (if still available for free online);

 

One of the power tips and realizations in working with your Codex is that you will have known strengths that should be pretty obvious highlights like a few archetypes, BUT THEN A WEAKER ONE.

 

And it’s actually the weaker one that is most likely key to your public breakthrough and being ‘seen’ on a larger scale (and being OK with that social power and visibility).

 

For me; Rockstar was the weaker version. I’m doing on-going AvaStar work including heavy Darshan Codex work in temple space with Beloved and other techniques with it all to activate and embody purified Light and Dark Rockstar (and then I’ll be integrating it while hosting workshops and Allure Oasis as well in Tulum, etc.).

 

Remember;

 

THE ARCHETYPES DO NOT HAVE THE ANXIETIES, ISSUES AND SABOTAGE THAT YOU DO.

 

So it’s really about being able to ACCESS their truth, mix it with your identity and then embody their literal spiritual quanta INTO your light body – then this simply takes over more of who you are vs. your former, unworthier self and consciousness.

 

Most of what the collective knows of ‘Rockstar’ isn’t that clean. But this is also where these codes come in.

 

If you have visibility wounding and are terrified of public humiliation and siphoning on a subconscious leve; it’s quite likely that STARLET is your Goddess-send and your social celebrity branding MEDICINE.

 

In my case;

 

Muse/Beloved wants me (decrees me) to have such SOCIAL POWER and status which is part of the overall ‘celebrity branding’ TO have collective influence.

 

So much of that/our process is about accessing and allowing the archetypes (already powerful) to mix with my soul essence and expanded consciousness of identity rather than forcing it through my ego (which can be an inflated ego).

 

For me; We’re talking an amplification of my other purified codes ie. Muse-Magician as Rockstar but without shadow; simply purified.

 

 

YEAH; THE WORLD’S NEVER REALLY SEEN THAT YET.

 

Just imagine what YOUR soul and spirit identity can do when aligned, embodied and amplified with the social power, status and recognition you’re supposed to have without value conflicts, distortion or self-sabotage. Because you are MEANT to get your codes out there.

 

PLUS; by you being fully expressed it indirectly gives others permission to express as well.

 

STARLET IS HERE FOR THAT. Even though the spiritual and Star-seed community’s hardly know anything about her (and/or are actively ignorant).

 

So you can throw out the Star-seed community’s own toxic perspective towards the shadow of Starlet (in carnate humans); we’re talking PURIFIED STAR and STARLET codes as amplification of your DIVINE CODEX and qualities.

 

We’re talkin’;

 

YOUR CODES…your higher self INCARNATE – with more of the temple body space to hold such power and beauty.

 

And it’s important to recognize the clarity around Starlet; that Starlet is for you even if Starlet herself isn’t part of your codex.

 

Rather that; Starlet is for you if you have divine feminine codes and are meant to have influence EVEN IF YOU HAVEN’T VIEWED or valued yourself as a ‘starlet’.

 

It’s not about starlet being ‘someone out there’ or a ‘toxic Hollywood celebrity’ anymore.

 

No….pure Archetypal Light and Dark Starlet is the unsiphonable transfiguration of Divine Feminine RADIANCE.

 

YOUR Goddess or Sophianic or Avatar or Starlet codex is the configuration of Divine Feminine qualities (essences) that constellate the deepest, highest and fullest expression of your soul and soul’s beauty at an avatar identity level.

 

Much of this entire transformational process to LIVE as your avatar self incarnate and BE the spiritual celebrity brand of you; highly activated and alluring with your SIGNATURE beauty and charisma codes has to do with the differential of who you are encoded as in the seat of the soul and your literal EMBODIMENT itself.

 

In the AvaStar Makeover (which is an obvious investment-expense in exchange for my time and mastery);

 

For this we work with the light-body directly because your former, egoic, small mind ISN’T actually worthy to embody God/Goddess codes; it might only amplify ego or shadow.

 

So we respect this as the process it is; working directly with essence, embodiment and expression off of YOUR codes in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Good news is that if you’ve already cultivated so much spiritual beauty and experience in the seat of your soul…then it’s about EMBODIMENT and embodying more to all (and then MORE) of those codes into a more expanded temple body that can hold such power and beauty literally.

 

And the more you can hold the more STAR-like you are where people literally feel your radiance and then Darśan is what’s beyond that (alchemical grade DNA bending visuals). This is all the future of beauty influence AND celebrity branding.

 

In the AvaStar, we do all kinds of different work; dan tien cultivation, detoxification and releasing, kundalini activating, archetype embodiment activations and bringing in more life force into an expanded, more spacious chakric psyche. By working directly you simply get the fastest possible results.

 

Again; to literally BECOME that ‘heaven on earth’ avatar version of self from who and where you are now; there is a price to pay.

 

It’s a process that does NOT have to take a long-time but just like professional actors ‘become’ the new role they’re committed to playing, it’s going to also take some work to embody YOUR unique Star or Starlet codex to live from that authentic place (of IDENTITY and identity consciousness).

 

AvaStar and IMAGO are the perfect place to go through YOUR spiritual celebrity branding makeover. LIMITED spots are available (b/c of how much of my time it takes up).

 

So to reconnect with our theme; there are a LOT of things that could continue to SABOTAGE you from REALLY being seen – and why wouldn’t you want to be a STARLET b/c she has the ATTENTION that you dream of; it’s more about getting CLEAR and aligned with this process of your Starlet Codex.

 

Here’s are 2 blog posts on all kinds of things that could stop you:

 

https://sexychi.com/your-soul-starlet-influence-vs-resistance-to-being-seen-from-past-siphoning/


https://sexychi.com/could-these-be-exactly-what-is-preventing-your-soul-starlet-success/

 


Remember; I’m not the best looking guy at all but charisma/allure fools us in the right way because it bends light to our truth.

 

 

Your image IS Light after all (and not constricted to the visible light spectrum that people have beauty conditioning around); it’s really about all of this FELT influence which is charisma and allure but off of YOUR codes now with the Star/Starlet Avatar makeover work.

 

And then beyond that is DARSHANIC temple-grade beauty.

 

That is more of the valuation with the IMAGO VIP level which gets you live immersion and temple time with me. Details available here>

 

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