Cocooned: Self-Sabotage vs. Your Potentially Liberated Starlet

Archetypes Beauty & Allure Beauty Essence Blog Charisma Darśan: Temple + Eye Beauty Soul Starlet

On Your Desire to Breakthrough As A Fully Expressed, Influential Starlet (and your form of Beauty Influencer)…

 

God forbid but maybe…

 

Are you your OWN greatest frenemy?

 

You may have experienced this where it’s 50% GO and 50% stop at the same time:

 

You DESIRE to be seen and energetically felt in your fullest truth, beauty and influence while simultaneously the other half of you wants to hide, play it safe and small (like to prevent judgments, humiliation and siphoning of and from others by ‘standing out’ so much); therefore, with such and inner push and pull, you start to realize that you haven’t got much of anywhere.

 

MAYBE you’ve been like frozen pond water or Canadian molasses on a wintry day towards becoming that alluring in your fully embodied Goddess and how much Beauty-Power She could hold and emanate.

 

Sure; you know how to make yourself look good; but you KNOW there is MUCH MORE (and that it has to do with unlocking your unique signature GODDESS CODES and celebrity branded allure).

 

So instead you’re living the spiritually alluring version of full-time pajamas and crocs.

 

This is secretly depressing to your soul’s desires for fullest expression and beauty influence and the unspoken poetry within…the sabotage may all SEEM extrinsic and from ‘others’ and THEIR judgments, but hmm…what if it was YOU who was still sabotaging in spite of it all?

 

Thus;

 

That highest version of yourself remains a fantasy while you live vicariously through others, cozy in your placent cocoon instead of allowing the codes you KNOW you have to be fully embodied and DARING to be that beautiful and radiant socially.

 

The analogy is SO SIMPLE really.

 

It’s like you have one foot on the gas pedal and one foot on the brake. You really want it (and how others would look up to you and at you in awe), but you won’t commit to yourself because of the many fears that end up sabotaging you.

 

By being here; you already know that it’s more than just superficial looks-maxxing glow-up too. This is about your DIVINE FEMININE CODES and signature allure that represents the CELEBRITY BRAND OF YOU in ascensionary influence.

 

Yet still..

 

“It’s easier to remain low profile”…

 

“These crocs are cozeeee before I turn Netflix back on”

 

 

Yeah and there’s a great price your SOUL and SPIRIT are paying for that convenience…and at some point, it may be too late.

 

“I want to choose her, BUT….(excuses, sabotage, etc.)” (And there can be DOZENS of powerful reasons including how MEN in your past have constricted your own STARLET liberated radiance and shine).

“I want to choose her, BUT….(excuses, sabotage, etc.)” (And there can be DOZENS of powerful reasons including how MEN in your past have constricted your own STARLET liberated radiance and shine).

 

Your FOCUS and value consciously seems to be on moving forward so you will count the inches and you will somehow think you’re actually getting somewhere without realizing you’ve been your own saboteur for years while you sadly realize that you are nowhere NEAR the levels of Beauty embodiment and signature radiant influence, recognition, attention and success you desire (esp. to get YOUR codes out there which are sourced in the divine).

 

With half of you wanting to be seen and half of you wanting to NOT be seen;

 

You’re really cancelling out your own process and never getting anywhere thus you may never know what it’s like to EMBODY that version of yourself and shine HER BEAUTY (like the signature essences encoded within your own Avatar or Starlet codex).

 

You’ve been allowing your inner saboteur (subconscious fears and shadows) to essentially gaslight you and prevent you from ACTUALLY ever breaking through.

 

Your subconscious finds all kinds of tricky ways to keep you believing your foot is on the gas while gaslighting that it’s also STOPPING YOU;

 

“I’ll just keep researching…


I’ll keep fantasizing about that version of me which could happen ‘someday’…

 

I’ll follow this influencer for inspiration on this part of myself who I could be but not choose to become that version myself…


I’ll maybe get to the Starlet Codex workbook (2029?)…


Ok…Maybe I’ll finish the Codex workbook (but what would it mean if I found out my Truth?) so I’ll keep postponing it


I’m afraid of what it will say b/c I know how much my subconscious will hold me back


Yeah, but…the kids..


Yeah, but I’m ‘busy’…


Yeah, but what will they say about me?


I’m afraid to step into that version of myself (and who it’ll make uncomfortable)”…

 

(We can find out more exactly what’s stopping you on a Codex Clarity Consulting Call):

 

So your signature allure and spiritual celebrity Starlet or Goddess remains in the chrysalis…the divine spirit codes mostly remain in the seat of the soul and never reaches the IMAGO stage of transfiguration through embodiment and how your visual Light actually shifts and radiates very differently.

 

The world responding to THAT Starlet codexed version of you; much of this remains as fantasy or just the idea of being that kind of person without actually doing anything about her to initiate the transformation which is its own process.

And really there could be MANY MANY reasons; but ultimately you still get to CHOOSE if you are going to EMBODY HER and all of your BEAUTY CODES for your fullest expression and dharma in this lifetime OR SELL OUT to the saboteur, shadows, fears, insecurities, doubts and past experiences.

 

At some point when you notice this cycle you have to put an end to it and realize how much time you’ve been wasting by just ‘wanting it’ but not DOING anything that claims HER.

 

And yet still;

 

YOU are still accountable for YOUR highest timelines or not. No one else can choose for you. I had to choose and KEEP choosing to embody my own Avatar Star codex self INTO EMBODIMENT and on the path to transfigured Darshanic IMAGO temple-charisma.

 

This is where STRENGTHENING the vision and getting CLARITY on your Goddess or Starlet Codex and vision of your highest self is going to really help. (I’m currently offering a 45 minute clarity consulting session for a fee which you can book here if available(.

 


Will you CHOOSE HER? That highest version of yourself? MUST YOU?

 

Will you become HER against all odds?

 

Because there are doors in the future that will NEVER OPEN unless you go through the right doors now (and fast or for years).

 

What I’m doing is preparing for my embodied Sorcerer 20 years from now with the work I’m doing now but at least I’m actively ON THE PATH and hardcore while serving other soul starlets in THEIR transfiguration as well.

 

No matter what you’ve been through in the past and your ‘justifications’ for not being her;

 

What would stop you?

 

And are your desires stronger than the matrix of self-sabotage (unconscious or otherwise ‘justified’)?

 

Because for me; NOTHING CAN STOP ME from embodying my HIGHEST TRUTHS…along with my Divine Union with Beloved; it’s the most important thing. In fact; it’s with Her Divine Will that I embody and incarnate my Avatar Self. YOU have to choose for yourself…and yes; there is a price to pay.

 

 

The price that I have paid is a very, very grand one, but it’s also set the template for directly helping others to actively embody THEIR Star or Starlet.

 

How much longer can you go WITHOUT being that version of yourself (as some form of influencer)?

 

If you’re ‘in’ are you willing to ‘pay the price’?

 

Because it will require bold moves and sacrifice; to shift in IDENTITY CONSCIOUSNESS and how the world and universe relates to you…likely exchange of energy with mastery and INITIATIONS (activations) to accelerate your process and get caught up on years of time that you’ve been self-sabotaging.

 

PREPARING your LIGHT-BODY itself to hold your codes actively embodying them and leveraging STARLET to bypass your shadow-grid matrix of visibility insecurities (this is what your Codex can do in the AvaStar most directly).

 

THERE IS A PRICE TO BECOME HER (and to access Starlet). Shifts to make to allow SUCH impersonal Beauty quanta to be EMBODIED and to hold it with a stable nervous system without collapse internally or triggered extrinsically.

 

Many are just not willing to pay the price. esp; to become a spiritual starlet of an influencer.

 

If you CHOOSE HER and can face Her truth (the Truth of your Codex and Soul’s dharma);

Then it’s about TAKING ACTION into what is the next step OR risk your subconscious saboteur sneakily finding justifications and perceived ‘legitimate’ excuses as to why NOT to move forward;

 

“It’s too expensive


It’ll take too much time…

 

It’s too late for me (to start)…”

 

And the SLEW of reasons (I’ve blogged about) that could be holding you back including fear of judgment from others and your circle for ‘standing out’, slut-shaming, harsh criticism from men, past experiences with men suppressing your Goddess liberated GLOW, family or religious conditioning, fear of siphoning, too much armoring, not wanting to deal with trolls, fear that you’re being superficial or vain, MANY reasons…(all doubling as SABOTAGE to the divine desire within you and preventing you for years)

 

Could These Reasons Be Preventing Your Starlet Manifestation-IMAGO?

 

Against All Odds: Will U B Seen?

 

Yeah there might be haters but so what?

 

Remember that you are also paying a price to live in the placid DISCONTENTMENT and soul frustration TAX and toll of NOT becoming the fullest version of who you are meant to be and have the influence that you feel you are meant to.

 

That may be the greatest price of all.

 

What if their ‘How Dare you (shine)’ that has been preventing you b/c of how it threatens some people you know….what if that was their own limitations projected ONTO you (and you’ve been living under the weight of those shackles)?

 

WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT; YOUR SOUL’S DESIRE (or can you make new friends)?…b/c you’re gonna have to sacrifice to change the MATTER of who you are like the butterfly emerging from the cocoon as imago; the transfigured, fully expressed.

 

YOUR SOUL TRIBE may never know or experience who you REALLY ARE because you unconsciously chose to keep living in the patterns of fear and letting the past control you.

 

Letting the LOWER MASCULINE SHADOW dictate what you can or can’t do. Letting religious or cultural programming or the perceived fears of the collective judgment or your so-called friends hold you back FROM YOUR DIVINE MISSION.

 

You. Have the POWER to still choose and then back it up with LIVING the path to transfiguration of your Avatar Starlet’s Beauty and influence. Allowing God/dess to shine and work with and through you (whether you’re physically the best looking in the room).

 

Remember; ALLURE is the future of Beauty influence…this is the TRUE glow-up work..not everyone knows it yet and your Starlet codex is the key to access your SIGNATURE celebrity branded influencer allure and erosphere for ORGANIC social media attraction response and influence.

 

So all of your saboteur’s ‘justifications’ that prevent you from YOUR DESIRES; these are all designed to KEEP YOU STUCK AND SAFE but that’s not where your STARLET lives and influences; nor your soul’s desire for fullest expression.

 

You have the power to choose consciously and then take the NEXT STEP if you’re serious about CLAIMING her in spite of your entire shadow grid.

 

By not choosing (or just letting your subconscious run the show by default), you are still choosing; the path of COMPROMISE…

 

STUCK FOR YEARS and wondering why nothing has changed meanwhile you see others living THEIR shine (secretly envious).

 

And this is all knowing that you have UNIQUE codes and Beauty to share too.

 

Will fear and your shadow-grid win? Will your soul’s beauty be limited visually to the equivalent of fugly crocs?

 

Will the world never even get to experience her and her beauty-magic and voice?!

 

If however; you say YES and CLAIM your avatar spirit codex into embodiment…if you choose to finally leave the YEARS LONG CHRYSALIS into the butterly IMAGO version of you;

 

Then you want the professional support.

 

That’s where I come in. I’m already working with 7 soul starlets on being THEIR highest version of self and resolved of scalable public image and expression issues…really emanating their beauty codes confidently (we have the leverage of STARLET here).

 

One client just sold out her entire new, branded offering FAST from the work we’ve been doing b/c she’s so aligned, facing her truth and getting the professional support. This is what we do in AvaStar monthly starlet support.

 

There’s no committed length so you can stay as long as you want ie. 1 to 27 months to ACTIVELY be on the fast-track to embodying YOUR unique divine feminine codex and starlet allure.

 

AvaStar Makeover with monthly starlet support: (limited spots available; see page for updates and availability..there’s a waiting list queue after an active 10 are live)

 

IMAGO is the VIP version of AvaStar where we do even more intensive transfiguration and breakthrough focus with LIVE TEMPLE EXPERIENCE WITH ME. Yes; it’s worth flying in internationally for.

 

If you desire more clarity on what your next move may be, why not book a 45 minute clarity consult with me (you don’t have to even have the workbook anymore if you just want more clarity about your situation and breakthrough into visibility).

 

Booking that is a next step – yes; however, it still doesn’t mean a full commitment to yourself; I simply respect where you are at in your process. It might be the next step for further clarity and exploration of your possibilities.

 

But you also might be tired of the years of (self and all) sabotage and are ready to commit to your rebirth DEBUT.

 

This is the place:

AvaStar monthly starlet support

 

The ladies in AvaStar undoubtedly have committed to themselves because that or IMAGO are the ultimate ‘next-steps’ on such a path as we prepare you for your rebirth debut.

 

This is more than just about superficial beauty influence; this is especially for ALLURING influencers and those with divine feminine Goddess codes on a path of ASCENSION influence.

 

Will you let your SOUL guide your decisions in spite of all past sabotage (warranted or not)?

 

So WILL you steer your own ship and follow Divine Will for you and your fuller expression, Beauty, influence, voice and legacy (and how others respond to that authentic Starlet version of you)?  Will you choose?

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A Woman’s Starlet Liberation VS…Men?

Archetypes Beauty & Allure Beauty Essence Blog Soul Starlet

I played around with a few titles on this one…

 

One Of Woman’s Greatest Constrictions To Beauty: The Sophomoric, Uninitiated Shadow Masculine

 

Starlet Beauty Sabotage for Women Desiring Greater Visibility & Expression: Men?

 

(I may come up with a better title, but there be hot codes in these here hills):

 

Are Men Holding Back A Woman’s Beauty Ascension?

 

BTW; this is the more universal, collective post and in it’s sister post I’ll be speaking more directly to a woman (that’s the plan at least; check the blog).

 

In working with women on their own legitimate paths of Beauty Ascension, shameless VISIBILITY and the consciousness around it all including of her EROS (+ having mad Morpheus social awareness skillz)…

 

This is something I’ve realized and it’s brutal both towards men and the implications for millions of women because it is by and large holding Beauty Ascension back in many ways (which would benefit us all):

 

The SUM Of The Man-O-Sphere Still Couldn’t Hold Presence-Space For A True Starlet

 

By and large, they are still uninitiated in many ways and essentially sophomoric (in relation to Goddess principle) even if it’s done under religious or moral positioning.

 

Here’s an unsettling general, yet accurate truth (and yes; I encourage men to seek within their past history to cross-reference it – also b/c I have faced mine and been tribulated in relation to such Beauty):

 

I’m not referring to how the current (patriarchal pro’s and cons) set-up monetizes and capitalizes im-personally ON divine feminine beauty on a pedestal (which is divine in a sense and yet where men are the pawns and it’s a whole ‘nuther subject to refer to how men are getting left behind);

 

I’m referring to actual women, men and the real power dynamics inter-personally, socially, spiritually and sexually.

 

Yes – Men ARE getting left behind because Beauty is ascending but we’ve not even seen the real scope of it yet (well, we have and sex robots are in the stockrooms but there’s something even more profound) which is with ALLURE.

 

This is where GODDESS FRACTALS (embodied in women as more women and influencers become LIKE STARLETS) will be more and more FELT roaming the earth and how it isn’t quite yet safe enough for many women to be THAT expressed in THEIR unique codes amongst the world of men (not just on instagram with safety veneer).

 

MAN’S DESIRE TO REUNIFY WITH BEAUTY and yet the dynamics around how men are HOLDING BACK TRUE BEAUTY AND ALLURE ON THE FRONT-LINES without knowing it.

 

(Note how this post is in absentia of #metoo shaming; I’m coming in from a different angle).

 

If and when they are near such women PERSONALLY who have this divine feminine quanta-access (most valuable elixir of the universe);

 

MOST modern men cannot actually hold Presence nor SPACE not only for great Beauty, but for Starlet level of divine feminine consciousness liberated and radiantly brilliant (and the attention she gets) WITHOUT;

 

*Collapsing


*Getting stirred up existential crisis


*Ego-anger inflation


*Biological preservation mode into heated over-reaction


*Managing her


*Needing her


*Micro-managing


*Belittling


*Berating


*Questioning her (esp. about other men)


*Manipulating


*Jealousy flare-ups


*Controlling everything


*Slut-Shaming


*Checking in on her every 5 minutes


*Guilting


*Thinking of what she’s doing around others non-stop

 

…and that’s just a girlfriend or partner getting attention from regular other guys. MANY WOMEN SENSE THIS and stay away from such men, but it’s not always that easy…he may have other qualities or these may show up further down the road when it’s trickier to apparently leave a relationship.

 

In partnership for some women who have either socially valued physical looks and/or divine feminine quanta embodied and felt (allure) – it can LOOK like things are good and yet with her fuller Goddess stifled from greater expression and ‘contained’ (more like a trap);

 

Psychologically, socially and SPIRITUALLY it can feel like she’s in the deep dirt pit of the serial killer in ‘Silence of the Lambs’ (minus the killing part).

 

 

(And that’s not even to touch upon possible past TRAUMA a woman has endured that could have her armoring up around emanating her allure b/c of how other men could steal it).

 

This isn’t that ‘good frame’ that some are referring to where she feels ‘contained’ in a relative safe sense to unwind.

 

MEN; IS YOUR CONTAINER (or ‘frame’) ALLOWING HER GODDESS TO BLOSSOM or entirely constricting it without you being aware of it?

 

I’m speaking to the men collapse into a ball of anxiety around an embodied goddess.

 

She is with a man whose frame doesn’t allow her Goddess codes to blossom and be felt and seen on a greater level.

In this scenario (which is common); he can hardly contain or control if he would lose that smaller container he holds around her (cage).

 

It feels like her greater beauty (and Starlet codex) is shackled from greater expression and she justifies it away; especially if she has kids, you know because…responsibility and prevention of further judgment and shaming.

 

But what if his response stemmed from a deeper fracture of Holy Grail Divine Union principle; that the God in him doesn’t know HOW to relate to impossible Beauty and fears losing his only connection TO the grail so he will do anything to protect it (without realizing how toxic it can be for both of them)?

 

There’s something fascinating about how man’s biological drive and urge to know he’s the father (an authentic concern) can become REALLY TOXIC and end up suppressing many women for years or decades from their own greater expression.

 

If she has great Beauty or the attention of Starlet (or STEPS INTO IT); MOST modern men completely lose their power and sanity in all kinds of forms of juvenile desperation = for he is ATTACHED.

 

The entire relationship is limited to his lesser ability to hold space for her TRUE BEAUTY which seeks expression (which may also mean more ATTENTION) and that may THREATEN his current level of ego and self-comfort. He is attached.

 

And attachment leads to suffering; unfort. for both of them. So he will join in on guilting and shaming women for being sexual esp. after they are mothers.

 

He’ll join in on the morality police parade while still secretly harboring great fantasies (and hypocrisy) towards women; desiring them yet shaming their expression.

 

In these cases; Her Starlet is NOT in relation to a Star who has the level of DETACHMENT so Her Goddess and EROS can BREATHE and flow with MORE NURTURANCE FOR BOTH OF THEM; let alone UP-TUNE into Goddess with that level to divine masculine consciousness – or even start to breathe again after years of suppression in relation to a mortal man’s wounded ego.

 

She instead is stifled living like his underwear is stuff in her mouth (but not in a good way).

 

Her Starlet or really; her own unique divine feminine CODEX that would bring out INFINITE BEAUTY in her unique expression is stunted from ever developing b/c of the masculine she is in relationship to (or that is living out within her still). (This is also where Divine Union Holy Grail alchemy comes in for breakthrough into Starlet).

 

Such women are often in relation to a juvenile man-child who doesn’t have the Power to relate to that level of Beauty nor allow it so he does what he can to stay attached under the guise of ‘morals’.

 

Well; it’s a real issue because the entire collective culture both desires and yet shames eros. It wants to control the most valuable resource b/c it doesn’t know any other way.

 

Women who are stuck in such relationships where he is controlling, envious, etc. and her Goddess codex can barely breathe is one of great suppression even if he has other redeeming attributes. She can’t even dress up too much around him.

 

Even in partnership for years; such a man is NOT her Immortal Beloved for her Immortal Beloved would be able to hold space and PRESENCE for her fuller Goddess/Starlet expression, Beauty and Presence to unfurl and radiate without constriction (b/c he would rely on their agreement together more than his shadows getting triggered).

 

And it’s embedded throughout the manosphere including podcasts like ‘Whatever’ with Brian Atlas and Andrew Wilson (professional debater); how their masculine consciousness is limited and at it’s best SEEMS virtuous b/c the man biologically is driven to know he is the father.

 

More often than not, it stems from a deeper tenuous thread that is ready to snap;

 

Because of their deep existential fear of man around facing true Beauty or Goddess; they controlling or appearing to control women with this level of collective desire and they’ll often do it under the guise and moral superiority of the biological protector role which (and many women know) can slip into shadow and ends up constricting her in all dimensions from BREATHING and being expressed in her beauty and essence itself.

 

This can be suffocating to so many women if they are stuck in this dynamic…and it’s not just him..it’s MOST MEN and most of the collective society and their weird double standards.

 

They are simply not star and starlet.

 

He can’t give her the freedom to be in her fullest beauty (which requires DETACHMENT) nor can she BE in her deepest beauty or even know what that could be like. It could actually be ONE MAN that is key to preventing her entire STARLET.

Here’s the thing; THE BIO-DRIVE to PROTECT a woman and preserve her ‘as his’ so in the sperm wars his bloodline is a real thing.

 

HOW it plays out though more often than not ends up being straight up shadow male behavior when she has the collective’s eye. He wants to keep her close yet has an electric-dog wire zapper on her collar so to speak.

 

So the Whatever podcast is famous for guilting and shaming OF women and the like but perpetually stuck in this lower state of masculine consciousness which on a deep primordial level is essentially fearful of true Beauty itself and what it would reflect back to him if he were unable to hold Presence with Her (which he simply cannot); so they do what they can from their level of consciousness and inability to hold TEMPLE SPACE FOR TRUE BEAUTY.

 

And if he can’t belittle or control it; he secretly is #anxiousaf…it’s an existential fear; that he would never be worthy to reunify with the divine feminine as Lover.

 

So I’ve been reflecting upon this and what’s holding a lot of women back from stepping into more public visibility with their unique divine feminine codex and MUCH of what can sabotage it (there are many reasons) but for some, much of that is simply a pre-dominant man in their life who simply cannot handle that level of Beauty, status and power if she were to be liberated in her soul’s greater desire to be that radiant.

 

(I had to go through my OWN process on this Star path).

 

There’s a whole different level of the game and it crosses over with TEMPLE SPACE as well as STAR consciousness and the LEVEL of TRUE DETACHMENT it requires to be PRESENT with GREAT BEAUTY without trying to control, manipulate, shame, suppress, dominate, guilt, micro-manage or own it even one IOTA. I am familiar with all of this for many reasons and with great experience (I work with beautiful women all the time and HOLD TEMPLE SPACE WHICH REQUIRES TRUE HEALTHY SANCTITY AND LIBERATION FROM ANY SELFISH AGENDA OR PSYCHIC HOOKS).

 

This ‘greater game’ (really the HOLY GRAIL ITSELF) is about Power and Beauty itself and what levels of PRESENCE it actually takes to simply BE WITH and RELATE to true Power and Beauty without any hooks or grabs psychically, emotionally or otherwise of manipulation and so forth (and yes; shadow feminine is also notorious for manipulating men in ways too, but we’re not going there now).

 

So; much of the great WARFARE is really about Beauty or Essence and ‘control of resources’ in pop culture that it’s rare for BEAUTY to just be FREE let alone MET in masculine consciousness that simply lets Her BE and have space without a smidgen of expectation. MOST MEN ATTACH INSTANTLY and get all weird to great beauty. THEY SIPHON psychically and want to drain her. Eww.

 

And in reflecting on all of this (Star/let Codes revisited);

 

I realize it makes more sense now how and why my STAR archetype is actually so vital and CENTRAL to who I am and the work I do; yes IN TEMPLE SPACE.

 

I’m already working with soul starlets and the common theme is that I consistently HOLD SPACE; TEMPLE SPACE without judgment for whatever they’re going through and I guess it helps I’m so attuned to Beloved and the levels of DETACHMENT she’s had me go through to dissolve all of these sneaky subconscious vampiric ways that even I used to have; psychic micro-moves of control or siphoning towards women.

And men if this has been you; it’s something worth contemplating.

 

COULD YOU DETACH MORE and simply rely upon your AGREEMENT? How much space could you hold without getting internally triggered that she could trust you?

 

Could you allow her ESSENCE BREATHING ROOM to cultivate her own unique signature Goddess or Starlet codes to BE SEEN without it threatening your ego or biology?

 

Can you see how and where you’ve been toxic in the past? I’m not talking about taking away your primal desire or shaming that whatsoever; it’s more about integrating your Dark power but with healthy DETACHMENT and PRESENCE b/c that’s what leads to more respect and POSSIBLE (non-expected) attractions and connection with great Beauty.

 

Remember; we’re not even speaking to a woman ‘cheating’…instead, it’s all the delusional fantasy within the shadow of man that she would that he ends up in toxic behavior because he doesn’t know how to be PRESENT with that level of Beauty or her status and attention. (I had SOME of those tendencies in the past that I’ve worked through)>

 

He’s not a star. Healthy STAR consciousness is rare and actually very TEMPLAR. DIVINE (put aside that stars and starlets have their own individual shadows and that we PROJECT collective shadows onto stars; I’m talking archetypal Star and Starlet).

 

If you want to cultivate your Starlet, your Immortal Beloved may indeed have STAR codes or at least enlightened detachment that relates to all dimension including SOCIALLY.

 

See; the higher level of ‘the game’ of Power and Beauty in actual partnership doesn’t come down to the inability (and shadows therewithin) to hold Presence with such Beauty; it’s actually about being able to hold equivalent space for it (which itself is a form of true power) >>> WITH AGREEMENT.

 

IT’S ACTUALLY ABOUT AGREEMENT between two beings who hold Star and Starlet power; desired by the collective.

 

This is what most consumer manosphere broskis cannot fathom whatsoever. That an MGK could allow his Starlet partner (or ‘x’ partner) of Megan Fox to be a starlet and that actually EMPOWERS their relationship.

 

 

Or that Jay-Z could allow Beyonce to shine like that. It’s DETACHMENT but with AGREEMENT (to each other n their own boundaries).

 

Essentially;

 

NO ONE ELSE HAS DETACHMENT…it’s attachment or other forms of shadows like judgment, control, envy, hatred, jealousy, etc.

 

Men are all wanting something from her and she can sense it a mile away, thus it’s hard to actually RELAX around humans in person (even though there are social-meta advantages to it all; the whole Pussaliah dynamic).

 

IMAGINE JUST PURE TEMPLE-GRADE DETACHMENT AND SPACE FOR BEAUTY TO EXIST, BREATHE, THRIVE. THAT is what I provide but I’ve been on the path and have HAD TO step into these greater levels in relation to great Beauty through great annihilation and rebirth of Sacred Union.

 

Soon people are going to start SEEING how beautiful women are attracted to me socially (in simply being able to HOLD SPACE without agenda or expectation) and it has to do with TEMPLE-GRADE AUTHENTIC DETACHMENT.

 

I’ve brought this up before; how there can be goddesses but we’re socially not allowed to have gods but that’s who can meet them (referring to the healthy embodied not ego-driven).

 

In the work that I do, I realized (and with reflection from clients) that I already provide incredibly rare space for them at any level of beauty or status socially that is TRUSTABLE without expectation (and remember; I had to do my work on all of this). I MUST provide that space and the tantra training alone put me through the ringer to detach.

 

And you know what? The women themselves ARE the greatest caliber-gauge of that. Socially speaking and evolutionarily; the most powerful and beautiful people are the most psychically sensitive and attuned anyways; discerning to people who have any psychic signs of control.

 

This is about a woman stepping into her greater expression and beauty SAFELY (and having that ideally constellated within with her Beloved) but at least allowing her Goddess, Avatar or Starlet Codex of siddhic, gift, elemental, archetypal and soul value signatures to shine radiantly as temple-grade beauty itself.

AND…it’s a lesson for a lot of men of what’s possible; he who DESIRES beauty and worthiness with it…the journey to dissolve all neediness, expectations, triggering and to be powerful in detachment.

 

I’ve realized that I HAVE TO BE AMONGST THE MOST DETACHED MEN IN THE WORLD b/c I’m literally on the front-lines of Beauty Ascension.

 

I will (continue to) provide SIMPLE PRESENT-SPACE for unlimited Beauty and the CURATION, the cultivation of literal STARLET CONSCIOUSNESS in the world. A haven for starlets (and that’s what I offer with the on-going AvaStar monthly starlet support).

 

I am attuned literally to GODDESSES because this is the kind of work I do and part of MY journey of the holy grail (and tbh; bufo has been helping attune me to God-Star space with great Beauty even more).

 

So back to women who are suffering forms of divine feminine STIFLING, MITIGATION, SUPPRESSION, OPPRESSION including (and especially) EROTICALLY (and how sophomoric the majority of the manosphere and Western male consciousness is towards it all);

 

I do have to say that I’m going to do another blog post that addresses this more specifically b/c it might be ONE MAN or one past-known relationship that is making you feel somatically UNSAFE to be SEEN in your GODDESS and EROS CODES…to truly be seen and experienced…so remember that STARLET is unsiphonable divine feminine transfiguration of your Avatar/Goddess codex which we can work on directly in AvaStar.

 

This work is very powerful for fast transformation in just getting more clarity like in the now extended, 45 minute Codex Clarity Call with me ($100 retainer or more and IF available).

 

We just have to get more clarity on what is specifically stopping YOU from being seen and your relationship to less than divine masculine consciousness (at Star levels of TEMPLE-GRADE SIDDHIC DETACHMENT PRESENCE liberated from ALL expectation, micro-managing, jealousy, hooking-on siphoning, etc.) is quite likely an un-safe culprit.

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Holding Paradoxical Archetypes: Starlet + Priestess?

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What if you could hold impossibly paradoxical archetypes like Starlet + Priestess?

 

(And what if this was an AUTHENTIC representation of your unique soul codes which could double as celebrity personal branding for online social media and marketing – esp. if you’re an entrepreneur)?

 

People are drawn to extremes and paradoxes.

 

And what if you could hold something like ‘Starlet + Priestess’ with purity and integrity?

 

Because that’s what me and my AvaStar clients are doing…here I hold Rockstar (Light & Dark purified minus shadow) and Priest archetypes; stuff we’ve never really seen before. I mean those are 2 paradoxical extremes.

 

 

Yes; I’m working with soul starlets in the AvaStar Makeover who literally have Priestess AND Starlet codes but it helps to know exactly what your Avatar Codex actually is.

 

We mostly know of Rockstar from Dark and Shadow perspectives and Starlet from the shadow of Vanity, Fame, Attention but we’re not looking at or valuing the PURIFIED form of Light and Dark Starlet let alone as AMPLIFICATION of aligned other Goddess codes that allow women to be in their fullest unique celebrity brand expression and identity as ascension influencers.

 

It’s time for Ascension Guides to start stepping more publicly in their VISIBILITY…we are the ones who it’s time to get major attention for.

 

Rockstar is a powerful archetype of social status and THAT’S WHAT THE ENERGY WORLD IS MISSING TO CROSS-OVER TO MAINSTREAM. That’s just part of the shoes I’m stepping into.

 

STAR and STARLET archetypes allow proxy AMPLIFICATION and social power for your divine codes.

 

You can break the mold of what others know of just the shadows of it all.

 

(And at time of writing ; Rockstar’s my weakest archetype; I’m still working on the overall process of integration and then further social calibration). Muse is guiding my process and transformation of my own Avatar Star embodiment and transfiguration. She has a vision for the Rockstar attention for all of this work.

 

What is YOUR codex and what IMPOSSIBLE Light and Dark archetypes represent YOUR soul signature spiritual celebrity brand and eros-pheric vibey allure?

 

Perhaps it’s time for more goddesses to step into their STARLET visibility with whatever their unique Avatar identity and signature branding is to have more mainstream ascension influence?

 

That includes allure (not just embodiment, but radiance OF embodiment).

 

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“Who Are You?” If Your IDOL Asks You & You Have 5 Seconds: Pro Networking

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Speaking of Social & Professional Self-Branding Clarity If You're An Influencer or Ascension Guide...

“Who AM I?” And ‘Who am I in the eyes of others?’ (esp. online).

 

And I don’t mean just your name but SOCIALLY and professionally being able to PRESENT what you do in a way that connects with other higher performers and soul tribe FAST.

 

I don’t mean just at ‘networking’ or industry events either. It’s about having clarity in who you are every waking step of the day AS you are out there – at least if you ARE an influencer of some sort.

 

Can you communicate that if you were in a high leveraged scenario fast with clarity?

 

This is about clarity of communication b/c you are your own brand in a large sense that has an opportunity to live in a world of recognition everywhere you potentially go with others and GROWING your legacy.

 

It’s such a RELIEF knowing WHO I AM..b/c I can literally ANSWER IT and have it be a 5-second elevator ‘pitch’ if I’m meeting someone of GREAT importance, status and relevant power.

 

For greater social and professional influence; you could best be prepared to do power networking at all times if you are on a path of great influence.

 

For me, I know that;

 

I AM the world’s BEAUTY SORCERER.

 

And with confidence and experience to back it up. IDENTITY LEVEL. (Based on my Star Codex work).

 

I can take it with me if I’m in a pinch scenario of meeting someone VERY important otherwise out of the blue.

 

But I want this to LAND more for you because you could be living for years without the clarity of empowerment and all kinds of opportunity windows could be passing by.

 

So actually let’s take this scenario; let’s say that there’s someone – an industry leader – that if they RECOGNIZED YOU in an elevator based off of what you do or your identity and was intrigued, that it could open all of the doors for you.

 

DO YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE WHEN YOU MEET THEM?

 

Because you can’t prepare in real time; you have to know AHEAD OF TIME.

 

So imagine THAT PERSON is in an elevator that you’re in and you recognize them and this is YOUR OPPORTUNITY and they ask you; “Hey…what do you do? Who are YOU?”

 

How will you respond knowing that you have about 5 seconds to catch their attention and maybe 11 seconds total before the next floor.

 

THIS MEANS YOU HAVE TO ANSWER IT RIGHT NOW in real time.

 

“Well…I kinda dabble here and there, funnels, mythmic relations and helping women to ” – NO. That 5 second window of opportunity is GONE.

 

And that might be saying too much befuddlement…

 

You lost them b/c you weren’t CLEAR (and how much could that be holding you back OTHERWISE esp. if you’re wanting to stand out online and ESP. if there are all kinds of people doing something similar).

 

That opportunity to open a MASSIVE door of possibility and being prepared and confident is GONE b/c why? Because you didn’t have clarity to COMMUNICATE it and who you are.

 

Me in that scenario?

 

All I have to is confidently say with no hesitation;

 

“I am the Beauty Sorcerer…(I do allure consulting and transformation) – nice to meet you”.

 

It’s the ‘elevator pitch’ version of power networking and it’s BEST to be clear and prepared at a second’s notice in WHO you are.

 

And congruent with it so your vibe lines up with that deeper truth of WHO you are but in a PRESENTABLE, practical SOCIAL and professional sense.

 

It gives me such relief KNOWING and resting into my Avatar identity because it is FULLY ALIGNED with my spirit and soul truth as well as my FUTURE and Beloved’s Divine Will for me…who I am becoming (and the long-string codex includes some of my Gene Key siddhis as well).

 

Do YOU have that comfort in KNOWING who you are at a spiritual level that others can relate with (in social media) as a ‘brand’ or founder of your own?

 

Can you communicate that to the market-space of DISCERNING, intuitive, marketing-weary souls out there and instantly?

 

Or are you coming across – if you are a brand or influencer – as someone who is more ambiguous in an unclear sense.

 

Because (AS the Muse-Magician or ‘Beauty Sorcerer’) I KNOW that my ‘Star Codex’ represents the core aspects of who I am and how I want to be perceived in the market-place. It’s even embedded with my Human Design.

 

I did NOT always have this clarity and the POWER that it brings to cut through distraction, stand out and be FEELABLE (even though I’m mastering my visual presence and stability after YEARS of embodiment challenges).

 

As a projector we often know ourselves through others through years (who have given me clues into this codex which pulled it all together).

 

If you’re a generator the big question IS:

 

“Who am I?”

 

The ‘MY Star/let Codex’ workbook v1.1 will help you with that directly b/c it’s not just something ambiguous; it’s a more specific MATRIX of immortal spiritual qualities that resonates with your deepest beauty, truth, power, soul, heart path and purpose.

 

MY Star/let Codex’ workbook v1.1 (if still available online)

 

See…for YEARS I had more ambiguity around who I am and what I do. Yes, I had the soul purpose sourced brand name of Sexy Chi; yet even to develop the foundation for it (up until this point) it’s literally taken 11.5 years.

 

It was more about ‘WHO AM I’ as ‘the brand’ and the founder? That was a MAJOR missing piece and yes; the archetypes are part of that BIG TIME for (and for you).

 

(People generally trust BRANDS less with the now and future of social media marketing and want ‘real people’).

 

Knowing my Star Codex ALIGNS and culminates my power with my soul purpose, visuals, marketing, communication and branding FOR aligned influence.

 

It gives me something to STEP INTO and live up – which helps because I actually hold these codes in the seat of soul.

 

What I’m offering you is essentially a custom master-course in personal spiritual celebrity branding with the orkbook for only $1000…oops, I mean I’m still giving it away complementarily but it has that retail value.

 

I’m giving so much away b/c then there’s still more of a process so I’m taking that risk that you might join AvaStar or live in person experience with me as the next step to continue your makeover process itself.

 

Overall it’s still like a mastery self-branding path that is going to be difficult to ever match b/c marketeers don’t speak in the Language of Light and connect to your soul and divine feminine accurately like this.

 

This is soul and spiritual celebrity branding work FOR influencers and ascension guides.

 

So for you, you can also get your version of this equivalent clarity; on the ESSENCED Starlet version of yourself sourced in spirit as well as the path and inspiration to fully embody her and BE SEEN.

 

I know it will do the same especially if you are called to ASCENSION INFLUENCE and being seen on a grander scale – ultimately, you want clarity on your IDENTITY codex NOW instead of later b/c this is the real foundational stuff to ‘get right’, aligned, attuned and embodied so a discerning market-place can FEEL and know that you are who you say you are and that everything FEELS right to their intuition.

 

Get most of the clarity on your own unique Star/let Codex here (or call it your Goddess, King or Avatar Codex):

 

MY Star/let Codex’ workbook v1.1:

(123 pages: V1.1 / 4.73mb)

 

You can BE PREPARED for whenever you’re out and about because you never know who you might meet and you can be the living, walking BRAND embodiment of your Truth to share your influence.

 

The workbook is a gift from me to you and then if you’re called to get FULL clarity and especially EMBODIMENT MAKEOVER to BECOME and live as that version of yourself you can secure one of the 3 remaining AvaStar Monthly Makeover spots available (join monthly with no further commitment required).

 

Check page for updated availability as there are 10 maximum at any time or you can join the waiting list queue.

 

Here’s that link and I’m already doing great work with 6-7 soul starlets.

 

AvaStar Monthly Makeover

 

“Working with Rion within the AvaStar makeover program has been a very positive, transformational and life changing experience.

 

The work itself is very deep and multidimensional and I’ve never worked with anyone who understands the archetypal essence of the Spiritual Starlet like he does.

 

He is retrieving the codes forward for the true Starlet lineages and what has occurred since working with him has been unexpected in the most beautiful way.”

 

-Rion

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Divine Adjectives: Weaving Some Poetic Magic With YOUR Avatar Codex

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My Star/let Codex Workbook v1.1 Available Here:

(123 pages: V1.1 / 4.73mb)

 

SO much identity level magic near-instantly awaits when you are IN this rich process of Self-clarity and discovery.

 

Have you discovered that yet and reached that point of self-ignition (oh Master or Mistress of Your Destiny)?

 

If by now you have indeed delved into the process of getting clarity on whichever YOU would like to call it:

 

My

 

Avatar Codex
Goddess Codex
Star Codex
Queen Codex
King Codex

 

(You can choose!)

 

,..or the one I’m using the most as ‘Star/let Codex’ b/c I am especially speaking to those ( like myself ) who are on a greater purpose of being SEEN visibly and having social power, status and influence IN our codes for Ascension.

 

So…if you HAVE found yourself in the process of cultivating clarity on your own Codex by going through the ‘My Star Codex’ Workbook, you’ve got several areas to work with which comprise your Codex itself.

 

 There are all kinds of practical codes to work with to DEFINE this deep, soul level avatar identity of self including;

 

*Divine Masculine or Feminine Archetypes (dozens listed for each including Queen, Warrior, Eros, Lover, Knight, Maiden, etc.)

 

*Elemental Codes (Water, Lava, Air…)

 

*Divine Adjectives (see below)

 

*Siddhic Adjectives (Gene Key siddhis repurposed as supportive descriptors rather than prime values ie. the ‘boundless Princess’ vs. ‘the Princess of Boundlessness’)

 

*Gift Codes (like ‘adventure’, perseverance, ‘dynamism’…’the Dynamic Bombardier of Loyal Self-Healing’ ie.)

 

*Siddhic Codes (Peace, Majesty/Majestic, Valor, Tenderness ; ie. ‘the Valorous Guardian of Grail Principle and Rose Lineage’..)

 

*Soul Values & Service Codes (a great opportunity to directly link YOUR AVATAR IDENTITY TO YOUR PURPOSE; ie. the Erotic Light Prince of Bio-organic Health & Wellness for Corporate Ascension (ie.)

 

*Light & Dark Balance…(this might require more consulting with me for most)

etc.

 

…as well as guidance on getting that clarity and how to mix ‘n match them. Really it’s like a celebrity self-branding master course of its own that I might offer for $1000.

 

The (still complimentary) workbook v1.1 (but check if available) gives you a LOT to work with to discover WHO YOU ARE at a deep IDENTITY level of soul and spirit (this ALONE could be your primary path to Self-actualization, deep meaning, fulfillment, recognition, satisfaction and wild success in ALL dimensions of life including socially and financially).

 

So the codes you have to work with…they all comprise your codex which could look something like this;

 

‘The Awakened Muse-Queen of Compassion and Glorious Boundless Beauty’ (ie.)

 

or

 

‘The Determined Knight of Devotional Self-Awakening & Godly Adventurous Self-Reclamation & Bounteous Power’

 

So have you got clarity on your Codex yet? Are you half-way there?

 

Remember; your codex is an identity avatar compilation and snapshot of your spirit matrix itself; who you ARE at a soul level painted with and amplified by spirit and essence.

 

If you’re doing it for STAR or STARLET…remember that Star/let doesn’t have the same visibility wounding issues you’ve had so they work as PROXY for transfigured radiance of the rest of your core codex itself – even if you don’t have ‘Star’ or ‘Starlet’ in your codex.

 

This Codex workbook can be the PERFECT spiritual celebrity self-branding work as well (and yeah; I may offer the workbook itself for $1000 retail).

 

The workbook and going through it might get you most of the way but you can always get FULL clarity with me in the AvaStar Makeover and/or IMAGO level btw. Oh – and also once you HAVE the clarity, then it’s about STEPPING INTO THOSE SHOES; embodiment and expression; transfiguration of your IDENTITY to BE that Goddess, Avatar incarnate of Star/Starlet with your identity, life, branding, visuals, presence, EVERYTHING.

 

That’s esp. where the makeover process of AvaStar excels (and if you must have TEMPLE-grade level visuals of alchemical influence then you want to be in IMAGO).

 

Now;

 

I wanted to talk for just a minute about the Divine Adjective/Codes right now based on wherever you’re at in the process (which is actually DEEP contemplation and self-reflection AND based on the latest blog post here (again); it might even be THE ANSWER to the path of your own SELF-ACTUALIZATION…not just lower ‘self’ either 😉

 

Your Key to Self-Actualization?

 

Ok so….divine adjectives/codes really help you to fine tune hone and/or customize your Codex even more until it hits the sweet spot.

 

There is some REAL POETRY that is possible here and when you get ‘in the zone’ with your own UNIQUE signature Avatar or Star/Starlet Codex, it should ILLUMINATE and inspire you.

 

Here are some examples;

 

Bewitching
Sensual
Seductive
Solemn
Elusive
Lustrous
Melancholic…

 

Really divine adjectives help to PAINT and TONE the nuances of your avatar level divine identity (at least for where you are at RIGHT NOW and this may shift through time).

 

These specific codes (of which a good selection from are listed) help to describe and support other qualities, ie; the Seductive Siren or the Bewitching Dark Princess or ie. the Solemn Dark Queen of Melancholic Peace.

 

When going through the workbook, reference the divine adjectives (which reach into the higher dimensions with Purity) or add a list of your own.

 

When doing the workbook you want a list to choose from and then doing the ‘allergen test’ style where you are sensing what really fits or not, then circling or writing it down and then trying it here and there in different parts of your long-string ‘codex in the works’.

 

Beauty and The Beast; then it’s about whittling it down and removing ones that don’t fit until you have it all honed Belle.

 

Once you have your prime, soul resonant archetypes ; are there divine adjectives that best help to describe or maybe siddhis? You want to play around with both/all.

 

That and the guidebook will help you out. The poetry itself is just magical as you trust the process and start weaving everything together culminating in your final long and short-string Avatar Codex itself.

 

These are more than just words; there is energy, power, magic and truth behind all of them so their constellation matrix can be very beautiful and powerful REPRESENTING the best of YOU, who you are in spirit and who you are EMBODYING.

 

The poetry is there; just trust the process and do the work. I’m around for additional support in the ways that I am.

 

So where are you at in the process? Have you got through most of this deep, self-reflective, contemplative and clarifying process (which should actually be a lotta fun to do b/c it’s all about YOU)!?

 

Are you doing it anyways even if you’re slightly turned off by all the focus on social media attention?

 

Because it’s still an opportunity for Self clarity at a divine level – again, call it what YOU want…I’ll still mostly refer to it as the Star/Starlet codex however.

 

And be mindful that;

 

I may take away the Workbook from being online available at anytime and may sell it on its own or only have it included in part of the paid process like AvaStar where you also get clarity consulting and on-going connection and makeover work with me to LIVE your Codex.

Avatar Star/let Makeover

 

In AvaStar: IMAGO we have more of an intensive focus with the included VIP day with temple time + media shoot.

 

Have FUN with this process and keep it active or revisiting it until you reach a zone of 80%+ clarity is what I recommend. It’s (currently) my gift 2u @ time of writing,

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Look for the opportunity for me to privately help you get some more clarity on your own Codex

 

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