Concerns & Fears About Being Judged If You DARE Be Such a Starlet

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Ok; you’ve probably been following along with all of these soul starlet / spiritual starlet celebrity personal branding related blog posts with STARLET and visibility codes for the divine feminine to be SEEN more and have more influence with social media in alignment with your highest truth, beauty, voice and purpose;

 

But there may be concerns or subconscious fears and anxieties around ‘sticking out like a sore thumb’.

 

What if everyone judges you for ‘standing out’ so boldly if you dare to be a starlet or in your greatest beauty, voice and service (instead of just being ‘modest’)?

 

(And if could you hold all of that projection, tension and resistance ‘against’ you without collapsing)

 

What if you’re TOO MUCH at a spiritual level that it may cause instability?

 

Honestly; this is just one of those things that could hold you (or at least some of the other women reading this on the blog or my email list) back.

 

This theme of concerns of being ‘judged’; does often tend to be related more with the feminine (b/c of things including that it’s so socially related and men are more often ‘lone wolves’).

 

And for simplicity sake; let’s just put all FAMILY (like your parents, etc.) dynamics aside entirely to keep it simple.

 

What if your CURRENT CIRCLE of friends judges you if you step that far out of we daresay ‘above’ your current resonance field and their expectations of you?

 

Because really; you becoming a form of starlet could THREATEN their comfort of how they know you.

 

“How dare she? (Be that bold, beautiful, SEEN).

 

They may think you’re just wanting the SHADOW of vain attention instead of the healthiness of being in divine service (not that there’s anything necessarily wrong with the former; however it may not be as deep as your dharma).

 

These are concerns could keep you ‘stuck’ from your greater desires for YEARS and years…from ever really CLAIMING and stepping into your full beauty, power and voice of divine feminine codes (ie. Starlet or Goddess Codex) to have greater influence.

 

You might be concerned about becoming too masculinized in a shell;….well actually that’s what we’re DISSOLVING with this professional allure work so you can be seen and FELT in your divine essences and soul-spirit embodied beauty and radiance.

 

When; maybe you ARE supposed to rock the boat, let go and receive new friends by living more in alignment with your desires.

 

See; this can be especially challenging as a woman if you have certain dynamics like if you’ve already built up a following who ‘know you’ for something else or that stepping into your FULL starlet power.

 

YOUR CURRENT TRIBE could judge you or feel like you’ve ‘betrayed them’.

 

DO YOU DROP HOW EVERYONE KNOWS YOU AND RISK LOSING THAT FOLLOWING WHEN YOU ARE CALLED TO A RE-BIRTH SOMEWHERE ELSE?

 

Or BE SHACKLED with where things are?

 

Or could they keep up with the direction you are REALLY meant to go in?

 

These are important decisions which is also why CLARITY around your avatar self IDENTITY is so important; so that you’re living for your highest truth, soul, evolution and spiritual purpose rather than the expectations and conditioning of others.

 

You can get clarity on your Star/let Codex here (if available):

 

There’s also Human Design dynamics like if you’re a ‘4’ line Opportunist, a ‘3’ line Martyr or ‘5’ line Heretic…there are ways that could work against you with each of these as far as how others TREAT you socially if you step into more of your spiritual celebrity starlet off of YOUR unique divine feminine Avatar/Goddess Codex in greater social visibility and service.

 

So; you have to ideally ask yourself if you are holding back from being seen because of this secret fear of judgment or discomfort-pressure from others based on how they already KNOW you and if your change would be too uncomfortable for them.

 

WHAT’S MOST IMPORTANT?

 

You have to decide if following your deeper desires and spiritual calling to be in full expression is more important than how your current family, circle and friends views and values you.

 

Knowing; deeply knowing WHO you are and consciously being aware of your own divine feminine CODEX constellation can help you bring so much more CLARITY and cut out years of just living other people’s expectations or the illusion of ‘safety’ with it all.

 

There’s a lot of potential self-sabotage areas which I go further into on the blog here;

 

Your avatar media starlet influence vs. resistance to being seen

 

(these open in new windows)

 

Could these be exactly what is preventing your soul starlet or spiritual celebrity success?

 

 

Fear of being ‘consumed’ vs. truly being visible

 


That’ll help you contemplate self-image and visibility wounding related also to past conditioning of trauma or being siphoned from.

Remember; although your egoic persona and past conditioned self HAS such concerns, doubts, insecurities and/as shadows;

 

STARLET DOES NOT HAVE THESE ISSUES…you just have to have a way to ACCESS STARLET ARCHETYPAL CONSCIOUSNESS and then integrate Her into your temple body and identity to live from.

 

This is what the Star/let Codex does and then we directly accelerate the embodiment and makeover (+ celebrity branding) process with the AvaStar + IMAGO makeover.

 

AvaStar Makeover

 

And really; a MAIN issue (esp. for women) is this deeper fear of ‘being judged’.

 

Not only that – but guilted, shamed, humiliated publicly (but also FROM your closer circle and friends).

 

They might not WANT you to be in the spotlight; but really are you living for THEIR comfort from a past version of yourself? Is that more important than your sacred DUTY?

 

Are they going to be secretly envious and back-stabby OR are they soul level friends that would SUPPORT your growth?

 

If you stand out in SUCH power and beauty; you might be thinking; how will other women sl*t shame you, judge, criticize and belittle you publicly and behind your back?

 

(How much of that are you going to attract anyways when you’re DIVINELY CODED? But yeah; ‘all’ of mainstream may not be all ready for it but you’re growing YOUR TRIBE)

 

And that could hold you back b/c it’s ‘safer’ to be what seems like ‘protected’ (while really the embodiment expression and transmission of your codes are withering thus leading to more soul misalignment, frustration and depression).

 

This is also why being STABLE WITHIN in your identity is CENTRAL b/c your circle can have so much influence.

 

You may be concerned of how will you deal with trolls and ‘thirsty’ men, unwanted DM’s, even dick pics, etc. that you just might NOT want to take on the other things that go along with a more PUBLIC image and profile. Fear of paparazzi or high level maintenance might even stop you.

 

Remember; spiritual starlet IS A TEMPLATE OF THE DREAM LEVEL OF ATTENTION that’s already pre-templated FOR you visibility, recognition, codes and getting your spirit-centric entrepreneurship or transmissions OUT THERE to HAVE INFLUENCE. Will you step into YOUR CODEX to live more fully b/c it’s WHY YOU ARE HERE? To have greater ascension influence in fullest expression of how the divine feminine and universe is working through you?

 

Do you think maybe you could deal with the ‘good problems’ of success and being seen?

 

Just how important IS your greater purpose and fullest expression and service?

 

Again; This is all where re-centering on your STARLET CODEX is so foundationally IMPORTANT (and we cultivate ALL of it with your temple-body and unique codes directly in the AvaStar Makeover

 

YOUR STARLET Codex (and for men; Star or King Codex);

 

This IS the direct master key of sorts (or at least ‘A’ master key) to your ultimate SPIRITUAL AND FINANCIAL SUCCESS LIFESTYLE OF YOUR DREAMS LIVING IN FULLEST ALIGNMENT, recognition and satisfaction in all dimensions.

 


(It already is for named spiritual celebrities who just aren’t consciously aware of what their Codex would be but it’s still there with their celebrity branding as I’ve covered in the 21 examples post).

 

So I wouldn’t get thrown off by the perceived ‘cons’ and entropy I’m bringing up here; no your spirit codex is FAR FAR greater than that (remember; STARLET DOESN’T HAVE THESE ISSUES OR ANXIETIES and the things She does deal with are good-problem management scenarios)…

 

I’m pointing them out b/c they (including fear of being judged) might just be what’s holding you back – but at some point you may ACCEPT that there are going to be haters the more powerful in social influence you become – and it’s ok.

 

It’s about having your divine feminine alignment MATCHED and attuned with your greater spiritual service; ABSOLVED of anything that would hold you back and prevent you from the TEMPLATING of ATTENTION and righteous attention that you desire.

 

Your codes. That are ALREADY in the seat of your soul and higher dimensional Heart (and more to be cultivated AS YOU LIVE INTO YOUR TIMELINE in the 3D).

 

Uniquely YOURS and Starlet amplifies that for you to be safe being seen but you still have to TAKE RISKS. Your Starlet Codex is also SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCER key to your ultimate allure…well, then there’s Darshanic allure beyond that, but yeah.

 

You want to get to a point where the archetypes and siddhic qualities; and your greater EROS are SO comfortable and confident in THAT VERSION OF YOU authentically – even if it’s scary to make bolder moves – that this version and STARLET leads and guides you; living from your highest truth.

 

SO do you have this deeper fear of being judged and criticized and in honest self-assessment; is that stopping you from REALLY embodying SUCH power and beauty and being seen and in greater service?

 

IMPORTANT QUESTIONS – (b/c in your self-assessment you could realize that) Years could be going by; so we’re just making it more aware now.

 

CAN YOU AFFORD THAT ENTROPY AND INERTIA towards LIVING your fullest dreams?

 

Are you going to keep coming from the identity of self that is RIDDLED with anxiety, fear, concern, trepidation, doubt, insecurity or allow your STARLET CODEX divine feminine codes to BECOME EMBODIED AND GUIDE YOU?

 

Remember; STARLET DOESN’T HAVE THESE ISSUES; SHE SHINES and WANTS to be consumed (more insight on the blog).

 

Your Star/let Codex is how to start accessing and integrating Starlet consciousness WITHIN and without.

 

It might be helpful – as a separate note here – to pre-process through ‘worst case scenarios’…so you’ll get more trolling, haters, secretly envious women and so forth? COULD YOU PRE-ACCEPT THAT THIS IS PART OF THE TERRITORY with having exponentially greater visibility and being SOMATICALLY OK with stepping more fully INTO your codes, power, voice and beauty?

 

You could also have terror barrier or ‘reset points’ where you think you will COLLAPSE (and have in the past) if you grow so much.

 

That’s why this IDENTITY TRANSFORMATIONAL WORK is so foundational so you can HOLD THE SCALE OF YOUR DHARMA, BEAUTY, MAGIC AND CODES IN CONSCIOUSNESS AND IN SOMATIC BODY.

 

HOW MUCH CAN YOU HOLD WITHIN YOUR TEMPLE BODY WITHOUT COLLAPSING?

 

Because the divine feminine can hold a lot; it’s just about INTEGRATING YOUR CODEX. She can hold that level of attention, wealth, beauty with stability and radiance.

 

The work. To shift from where you are now into who you are meant to be (esp. with the codes you already have and how FAST the differential can be to fully embody them with the right architecture, templating and process).

 

That’s what we do. AND further cultivation.

 

That’s what I’m living also; where my CODEX has reigning authority (the seat of my soul spirit-mix of unique divine qualities of Self) rather than letting my previous personae with massive limiting conditioning and sabotage run the show or this scale of spiritual-professional dharma.

 

YOU BECOME YOUR AVATAR STARLET SELF EMBODIED. That’s the ultimate solution.

 

So IS your greater purpose and divine feminine identity at a soul-spirit level MORE important than the fears and judgments of others?

 

You might be concerned that being more visible online with events, social media, online, facebook, Instagram with a real celebrity brand that other people will even SEE the haters comments and so forth (God forbid) – or even family members.

 

BUT THAT’S PART OF THE GAME. YES THERE WILL ALWAYS BE IDIOTS; however, you’ll also have YOUR PEOPLE STAND UP TO DEFEND YOU AS WELL as you build your own loyal soul tribe following of fans or clients.

 

So will you CLAIM your fullness and cultivate the clarity and temple body to LIVE HOW YOU’RE MEANT TO?

 

Could you give yourself such permission to dare to BE her anyways?

 

Remember; with the AvaStar + IMAGO work we do directly; STARLET Herself is your PROXY for divine feminine radiance of YOUR unique Codex and mission TO BE SEEN PUBLICLY.

 

She alone will alleviate a lot of the issues and concerns of being SIPHONED from, etc.

 

Avatar Starlet Makeover + IMAGO

 

This is important food for thought; but at some point, you simply have to ‘take action’. What is the NEXT action step you can do if you are CALLED to be in greater visibility in your TRUE spirit-centered Beauty, voice and service?

 

If you’ve done the workbook enough to get around 50% clarity on your avatar or spiritual celebrity self-branding Star/let Codex, then see if a 25 minute clarity call with me is available.

 

There will be a retainer fee for that ($100 or more).

 

Of course you could also just commit to the AvaStar Makeover + monthly starlet support if you KNOW you must go through this makeover process and debut or re-debut…it’s GOING to take months, so why not start the process?

 

(And even then; this program is designed as on-going monthly starlet support after the prime makeover so you can stay as long as you want ‘grand-fathered’ at whatever our current agreement is; however limited spots are available and then we go to a first-come, first-served waiting list queue).

 

More details on AvaStar + IMAGO (IMAGO; which includes VIP day immersion and temple time with me) here. IMAGO includes all of AvaStar and also has its OWN separate page on-site here:

 

AvaStar: IMAGO Temple-Grade Beauty

Star/let Codex Clarity + Strategy Call: Complimentary 25 Minutes w/Rion


Available Until 5.5.2026 And Then $100 Retainer Fee Will Be Enacted (Read Details On Description of Link)
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Encoded For Ascension Influence Yet Stuck With Visibility Wounding & Sabotage?

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If this is you;

 

Then most likely STARLET is your medicine and you want to take this work seriously with the spiritual celebrity and Starlet Codex work; because otherwise you will keep collapsing and sabotaging under the scale you are meant to serve at from your CURRENT identity state of consciousness.

 

In going through the ‘My Star/let Codex’ workbook (if still available for free online);

 

One of the power tips and realizations in working with your Codex is that you will have known strengths that should be pretty obvious highlights like a few archetypes, BUT THEN A WEAKER ONE.

 

And it’s actually the weaker one that is most likely key to your public breakthrough and being ‘seen’ on a larger scale (and being OK with that social power and visibility).

 

For me; Rockstar was the weaker version. I’m doing on-going AvaStar work including heavy Darshan Codex work in temple space with Beloved and other techniques with it all to activate and embody purified Light and Dark Rockstar (and then I’ll be integrating it while hosting workshops and Allure Oasis as well in Tulum, etc.).

 

Remember;

 

THE ARCHETYPES DO NOT HAVE THE ANXIETIES, ISSUES AND SABOTAGE THAT YOU DO.

 

So it’s really about being able to ACCESS their truth, mix it with your identity and then embody their literal spiritual quanta INTO your light body – then this simply takes over more of who you are vs. your former, unworthier self and consciousness.

 

Most of what the collective knows of ‘Rockstar’ isn’t that clean. But this is also where these codes come in.

 

If you have visibility wounding and are terrified of public humiliation and siphoning on a subconscious leve; it’s quite likely that STARLET is your Goddess-send and your social celebrity branding MEDICINE.

 

In my case;

 

Muse/Beloved wants me (decrees me) to have such SOCIAL POWER and status which is part of the overall ‘celebrity branding’ TO have collective influence.

 

So much of that/our process is about accessing and allowing the archetypes (already powerful) to mix with my soul essence and expanded consciousness of identity rather than forcing it through my ego (which can be an inflated ego).

 

For me; We’re talking an amplification of my other purified codes ie. Muse-Magician as Rockstar but without shadow; simply purified.

 

 

YEAH; THE WORLD’S NEVER REALLY SEEN THAT YET.

 

Just imagine what YOUR soul and spirit identity can do when aligned, embodied and amplified with the social power, status and recognition you’re supposed to have without value conflicts, distortion or self-sabotage. Because you are MEANT to get your codes out there.

 

PLUS; by you being fully expressed it indirectly gives others permission to express as well.

 

STARLET IS HERE FOR THAT. Even though the spiritual and Star-seed community’s hardly know anything about her (and/or are actively ignorant).

 

So you can throw out the Star-seed community’s own toxic perspective towards the shadow of Starlet (in carnate humans); we’re talking PURIFIED STAR and STARLET codes as amplification of your DIVINE CODEX and qualities.

 

We’re talkin’;

 

YOUR CODES…your higher self INCARNATE – with more of the temple body space to hold such power and beauty.

 

And it’s important to recognize the clarity around Starlet; that Starlet is for you even if Starlet herself isn’t part of your codex.

 

Rather that; Starlet is for you if you have divine feminine codes and are meant to have influence EVEN IF YOU HAVEN’T VIEWED or valued yourself as a ‘starlet’.

 

It’s not about starlet being ‘someone out there’ or a ‘toxic Hollywood celebrity’ anymore.

 

No….pure Archetypal Light and Dark Starlet is the unsiphonable transfiguration of Divine Feminine RADIANCE.

 

YOUR Goddess or Sophianic or Avatar or Starlet codex is the configuration of Divine Feminine qualities (essences) that constellate the deepest, highest and fullest expression of your soul and soul’s beauty at an avatar identity level.

 

Much of this entire transformational process to LIVE as your avatar self incarnate and BE the spiritual celebrity brand of you; highly activated and alluring with your SIGNATURE beauty and charisma codes has to do with the differential of who you are encoded as in the seat of the soul and your literal EMBODIMENT itself.

 

In the AvaStar Makeover (which is an obvious investment-expense in exchange for my time and mastery);

 

For this we work with the light-body directly because your former, egoic, small mind ISN’T actually worthy to embody God/Goddess codes; it might only amplify ego or shadow.

 

So we respect this as the process it is; working directly with essence, embodiment and expression off of YOUR codes in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Good news is that if you’ve already cultivated so much spiritual beauty and experience in the seat of your soul…then it’s about EMBODIMENT and embodying more to all (and then MORE) of those codes into a more expanded temple body that can hold such power and beauty literally.

 

And the more you can hold the more STAR-like you are where people literally feel your radiance and then Darśan is what’s beyond that (alchemical grade DNA bending visuals). This is all the future of beauty influence AND celebrity branding.

 

In the AvaStar, we do all kinds of different work; dan tien cultivation, detoxification and releasing, kundalini activating, archetype embodiment activations and bringing in more life force into an expanded, more spacious chakric psyche. By working directly you simply get the fastest possible results.

 

Again; to literally BECOME that ‘heaven on earth’ avatar version of self from who and where you are now; there is a price to pay.

 

It’s a process that does NOT have to take a long-time but just like professional actors ‘become’ the new role they’re committed to playing, it’s going to also take some work to embody YOUR unique Star or Starlet codex to live from that authentic place (of IDENTITY and identity consciousness).

 

AvaStar and IMAGO are the perfect place to go through YOUR spiritual celebrity branding makeover. LIMITED spots are available (b/c of how much of my time it takes up).

 

So to reconnect with our theme; there are a LOT of things that could continue to SABOTAGE you from REALLY being seen – and why wouldn’t you want to be a STARLET b/c she has the ATTENTION that you dream of; it’s more about getting CLEAR and aligned with this process of your Starlet Codex.

 

Here’s are 2 blog posts on all kinds of things that could stop you:

 

https://sexychi.com/your-soul-starlet-influence-vs-resistance-to-being-seen-from-past-siphoning/


https://sexychi.com/could-these-be-exactly-what-is-preventing-your-soul-starlet-success/

 


Remember; I’m not the best looking guy at all but charisma/allure fools us in the right way because it bends light to our truth.

 

 

Your image IS Light after all (and not constricted to the visible light spectrum that people have beauty conditioning around); it’s really about all of this FELT influence which is charisma and allure but off of YOUR codes now with the Star/Starlet Avatar makeover work.

 

And then beyond that is DARSHANIC temple-grade beauty.

 

That is more of the valuation with the IMAGO VIP level which gets you live immersion and temple time with me. Details available here>

 

AvaStar + IMAGO Star & Starlet Support Details

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Overcoming Heavy Visibility Wound Shadows With…Dance?

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…and other Power Insights to help bring out your charisma or allure to have more engagement and social media RESPONSE.

 

If you HATE the idea of ‘dance’, trust me…

 

This is even MORE reason NOT to disconnect here…

 

I was held back for literal YEARS and YEARS (charismatically and stuck in shadow-grid fear) because of certain shadow grid dynamics related to this which may also be affecting you from FASTER transfiguration.

 

If someone said the term ‘ecstatic dance’ or invited me, I would CRINGE and recoil up inside of my body. I’m not kidding. If you are OPEN with dance, you may not be using it like you could for your allure.

 

This is an important POWER post here b/c we’re going to cover a lot of ground related to accelerating your path to CONFIDENT, secure, embodiment and overcoming some of the MAJOR self-sabotage patterns to being seen and powerfully magnetic (as I continue this open mini-series on shadows and struggles to BEING SEEN and activating Star or Starlet codes in your unique codex; living by example with my transfiguration).

 

Considering my background of severe public speaking anxiety (of which I have improved upon by hosting small scale retreats and workshops), I’ve still dealt with heavy IMAGE and self-image anxieties, the fugly duckling and other major sabotage for YEARS to fully being EXPRESSED and seen.

 

But let’s fast forward a bit for now;

 

That I’ve recently broken through myself with ESSENCE + dance with stable enough charisma factor is huge b/c this is already a secret to billions of views out there and you can find YOUR way of replicating it OR at least as using dance as a practical CHANNEL to open up your own charisma or allure.

 

Ok…there’s actually a lot of Star/let codes and overcoming visibility woundedness in here FAST im practicum (not just theory), so check it out…

 

Ok so here’s that recent IG video of me semi-awkwardly pre-dancing for the world. I’m honestly not even as triggered by it and my CRUSTY dance skillz b/c I’ve reached the IDEALIZED ZONE OF baseline CHARISMA COMMUNICATION…essences are OPEN and flowing and I know that THIS is more important than my previous self-sabotage and crippling anxieties. Check it out:

 

Same link also here: INXS ‘New Sensation’ Rion

 

 

BECAUSE I’m more feelable, I’m getting HEALTHY engagement and response on Instagram and facebook (while further starting to PROVE and live the concept of charisma itself).

 

Oh and the NEXT instagram essence or dance video is getting even heavier into the ROCKSTAR archetype with a legendary rock song; a mix of the Erosphere + Dance blend concept of creating an experience showcasing fun/charisma (you might want to do something similar in a format with YOUR codes for your circle). You can follow me on IG here:

 

https://www.instagram.com/rion_kati/

 

BTW as part of your overall DEBUT and identity transformation and branding process;

 

MUSIC can do WONDERS to help YOU attune into and embody your own (different) archetypal codex. This is premium BRANDING and identity MARKETING stuff of authentic goodness here. It’s all about letting myself/yourself be FELT and seen in y/our TRUTH and highlighting aspects of it authentically…

 

Especially if it’s a weaker yet CRITICAL archetype to (fulfill) your PUBLIC soul service, you have to have ways to practically access, bridge, embody and EXPRESS that divine signature (whether it’s Queen or a shift in how people are experiencing you to recalibrate more of where you’re at to something more fun or more serious or more Dark, an archetype you’ve been honestly terrified of and doubting if you could ever embody but if would be a dream if you did, etc.)

 

I mean, in doing my own AvaStar makeover process and LIVING this to be seen (literally by celebrities; this same video) I almost forgot how fun of a guy I can be b/c I’ve been in a ‘cave mode’ as a 5/1 for so long hiding out (and preparing) BEFORE shamelessly going VISIBLE to the world.

 

Ok…

 

This latest IG clip had a stellar 10% love ratio (isn’t THAT scalable! – although it’d probably drop a bit to scale but still, WOW!) and 7% comment ratio. It’s action and response friendly goodness.

 

This is critical stuff in getting people to know, like and trust THE REAL YOU (and I’m doing it now on a new platform).

 

We want to find LEVERAGE POINTS for your faster transformation.

 

And cracking your light body image open to CHARISMA;

 

This is the GOLD in the attention age economy and yes, charisma/allure are THE prime missing pieces (that will help you STAND OUT organically to inspire people to respond b/c they FEEL YOU instead of just ‘see you’ from afar).

 

So I mentioned if you’re on the email list (which you can join on the frontpage of the website) that;

 

One of those hidden signifiers of whether I’m in my truth and influence or not is whether I dance. This has been a major challenge for me for many years. If I’m just NOT dancing, it’s actually saying far deeper things about me and I feel like I have an invisible ball and chain around which drops me into the shadow of vanity and aloof disconnection = NOT EXPRESSED or feelable.

 

And the same might be for you; far more closed off than you think. I would even be the one NOT to dance when everyone else was told or invited to at live events; I was hyper critical and judgmental; stuck in my egoic mind…MAJOR WALLS and barriers.

 

The music had to be perfect (I’M a better DJ than this clown, etc.), the right moment and timing and then I might ‘show off my mad skillz’ except that I was like that for years and any dance skills I had remained ATROPHIED.

 

That’s WHY I’m so crusty in these new dance videos but I know it’s more important that I am FELT.

 

I can regain and gain new dance skills and technique anyway but I know that ESSENCE; charisma is the KEY…it’s FAR more important than technique (esp. for non-professionals but even AT the highest level of Dance it’s what takes THEM into the stratosphere; just ref K-Pop).

 

But you know when I could always dance and cut through my own self-sabotage and shadows? WHEN I’M AROUND MUSES.

 

And when I met that ‘taste of love’ in Medellin Parque Lleras in 2016? When I was already on a double date and I saw her get out of a taxi cab and her crown shot straight up to heaven when she wasn’t even facing me and I thought “WHO IS THAT?” (b/c I wasn’t too into the date I was on anyways as an earlier Rion)…and then later my client and I bought beers and I walked straight towards her and talked in Spanish and then the group of us went out…I DANCED. WE danced as a group (and they were like gypsy dancers).

 

I couldn’t NOT dance because she was a true muse. I even tried to kiss her on the dance floor but she coyly faced away (but it was the right thing then; we kissed on a follow-up date when I was also dancing then).

 

This is also why sometimes in sessions when I’m dressed up, I’ll dance in front of the mirror with muses in music videos or the secret unreleased footage of the 2 Muse priestesses and I at one of our workshops after the photo shoot just having fun (this is safe to share, but not the images without their approval).

 

Muse is my Beloved and brings out my truest self…so maybe your BELOVED is also key to CRACKING OPEN your own allure or charisma and being expressed, dancing and being felt.

 

That leverage can do miracles….to let others FEEL into you and catch your vibe-truth.

 

So a question is; could you semi-awkwardly dance in front of the world to see right now?

 

Because it might hold A MAJOR KEY to opening up your allure to be FELT.

 

You MIGHT be held back for years otherwise until you clear up the shadow webs with more POWER (like the Beloved or your Star codex along with the AvaStar makeover).

 

So yeah; I’ve had my own secret FEAR of Dance, what it represents, how much it’s held things back and how it’s a silver bullet highway to AUTHENTIC TRUTH TRANSMISSION, RESPONSE, engagement and being FELT and seen…but because I’m so reunified now after so much divine union alchemy; Muse within esp. with the Elixir activations of Grail Kundalini helps me to be my truer self too.

 

DANCE is a secret and not so secret key to opening up my charisma (and your allure) as well as dissipating DEEP shadow grid entropy and gravity around being seen.

 

If you have been RESISTING IT and being SEEN dancing, you may have other very deep and HEAVY blocks to exploding your own influence and engagement. You may have GENE KEY SHADOWS related to it that keep you in the SHADOW SWAMP of NON-EXPRESSION…your energies CLOSED IN and closed OFF.

 

DANCE is one of those major keys…and in my case I’m still dealing with an archetype that I’ve been weaker in which I know leads to my A-List success and Star timeline of influencer in entertainment, beauty and fashion (bringing ascension codes).

 

So if I could get my weaker ROCKSTAR to DANCE…this is that concept of getting an archetype MOVING and dancing; how would they move when/if you embodied them? This can take you a long ways to embodiment.

 

But see; here within this was more challenging than it may initially appear because remember not only did I have CRIPPLING performance anxiety and visibility wounds, the Rockstar archetype was still FARRR out of reach for me and yet here, we’re starting to feel an authentic version of Him in the mix ‘land’.

 

If and when you can do this for YOURSELF with an ‘out there’ archetype that represents the global influencer, it’s life changing. So we have to deconstruct this a bit more and go into how, why…

 

For as serious as I usually am, we get to know and feel more of the REAL ME b/c I am more balanced and fun like that (so I’m also re-calibrating how I communicate online also b/c BRAND influence is now leaning more towards the founder rather than just the business brand or corporation itself in this attention age economy of trust and influence).

 

The Muse Magician ROCKSTAR is my public codex (even though I won’t often publicly present myself WITH those exact words; but we’re speaking to the AvaStar makeover process itself here of makeover transformation into Star/Starlet divine public service).

 

In this growing consensus-ly fun video;

 

We get to see me in some of my codes INCLUDING that (previously) weaker one of Rockstar but I have to speak to this b/c it’s more challenging for numerous reasons (this is key stuff if you also have a ‘far out there archetype’ that you KNOW will explode things socially and pull you into the larger currents).

 

First of all; what men do we know become SOME form of Sx Icon at ‘middle age’? It’s practically UNHEARD OF so I had that working against me as well in my expanded SHADOW GRID that’s been preventing me from embodying and expressing my SOUL TRUTH codex.

 

In a sense, I’m an eternal teenager and letting THAT shine. So are there some aspects of YOURSELF that you have been keeping HIDDEN.

 

And yes, you can HAVE re-activated MAIDEN for example AT 64 years old post-menopause. You could even be a ‘cool dad’ but it’s serious work b/c high status people are going to SENSE your vibe truth from their experience and attunement.

 

So there can be a lot of pressure and faking it just isn’t it….but if you ARE a cool, sxy soul, why not just let it show at any age so people can feel you?

 

It’s all about accurate expression of YOUR soul signature codex. And letting people FEEL YOU…this is the FUTURE of social media and it’s what’s working best now esp. for those who don’t want to ‘optimize’ algorithms and AI/hacking, etc.

 

There’s a LOT going on here b/c we have to consider this as a star in the making (I’m giving myself permission to view things CONSCIOUSLY and objectively b/c it’s not about my ego; I’m aware of when things are ‘working’ energetically and I KNOW what path I am destined on).

 

In my recent dance (er…essenced ‘pre-dance’ videos…) on my instagram…

 

We have something of a ‘star is born’…my dancing is semi-awkward and uncalibrated socially but the MAIN THING is that I AM ESSENCED and pure albeit IMPERFECT. I’m focused more on having my CHARISMA be felt rather than perfect dance moves and being ‘held back’ energetically. THAT’S what reaches through more.

 

It’s about de-armoring and then about EMBODIMENT and expression of YOUR divine masculine or feminine codes (archetypes, siddhic…).

 

Rockstar isn’t THAT strong here but I have to give myself ROOM to play and find a way that helps bring him in.

 

So this is one of the secrets to bridging into that ‘far out there’ archetype…well, giving yourself PLAY ROOM like with DANCING.

 

YOU MAY HAVE TO MIX DIFFERENT ARCHETYPES and give them breathing room. Allow yourself to ‘go extreme’…see, in order to bring in ROCKSTAR/Star because it’s still so NEW to my embodiment (although destined with my soul codex and Muse’ decree), I have to both take it serious to let Him drop in but my counter-balance to being too serious (b/c that was a SHADOW BEFORE) is to bring in my Jester and amplify some of the FUN-DORKINESS.

 

In otw; Rockstar is balanced with my archetypal uncalibrated DORK just a little bit; at least in the playful but real time process so that I can later REFINE ROCKSTAR to be more standalone serious and threatening in all of the right and wrong ways (b/c it includes a lot of DARK EROS).

 

DORK is the awkward, cave-dwelling, socially uncalibrated version of self; a beta version that I allow to help TRANSITION me into my more serious authentic archetypes…but we see that the alpha-ness of my soul is kinda redefining that Dork is actually very WELCOME and not resisted or judged. I’m letting it all breathe.

 

But somehow ; the extra CHEESE and FUN balances out the authentic attempts and playroom AT embodying serious Rockstar.

 

 

Also b/c my Jester is real, so I’m doing the process in real time; embodying an archetype that was a secret (healthy) obsession (without shadow here; L/Dark Rockstar) b/c He amplifies the rest of my soul codex as Muse-Magician and has the SOCIAL relevance, status, power, etc. to impact the Beauty collective.

 

You may have to move around yourself to let YOUR codes start expressing themselves with and through you. And you can record it in screen-testing.

 

Again; this is in real time sharing much of the process with you (which heavily includes ongoing activations b/c I’m doing my own active AvaStar makeover in real time TO embody and express my public larger current iconic identity to the collective).

 

See if I was TOO serious about Rockstar when it’s not fully landed and integrated (as well as have further social calibration) it could come across wrong but ultimately finding MY serious embodiment as well as exploring a versatile spectrum of soul-truth visual expression while being centered in primary codex archetypes.

 

So DID you find ‘cheeseface’ in there?

 

Oh and the cheese face part of it has nothing to do with that I’m originally from Wisconsin (so was Dr. David Hawkins and Chris Farley).

 

And it’s not just about being self-deprecating either; it’s deeper than that b/c self-deprecation can also be a shadow of its own when out of balance and certain cultures (like Britain) have it more than others…it’s more about giving myself PLAY ROOM to embody that ‘out there’ archetype into earth.

 

Later; I’ll find a more active balance that will shift between different archetypes in my (ongoing) charisma mastery but I’m ALLOWING myself to be imperfect and be seen even if my image itself still fluctuates it’s more stable BECAUSE I COMMITTED TO DEBUT ITSELF AND BEING SEEN; I PUT a date on it and went LIVE to be seen.

 

This ALLURING EXPRESSION is what you may idealize as well b/c it will be infectious to your people because ESSENCE is the social CURRENCY that is being exchanged in pop culture; one moment you’re lit up in Illumination and another you’re Princess of Celebration or Jester for 10 seconds and then serious mature Sage but as long as it’s the real you; you’ll still have your CORE iconic Star/let codex to rest and rely upon.

 

(I do look forward to showcasing more client visual makeovers with approval; I’ve been underpar on asking for them)

 

That can be intoxicating esp. when fewer people are charismatic or alluring other than celebrity stars.

 

BUT you might have resistances to standing out OR EVEN being JUDGED by your closest friends b/c of how your glow-up or shine makes THEM uncomfortable and THAT could prevent you from GOING BIG.

 

So…you want to work with your debut archetypes your debut archetypes.

 

Remember; I’m strong in foundation on Muse-Magician but even THOSE can use more expression/charisma mastery. THIS IS THE WORK and it’s what we do in the Avatar Star makeover which I’m literally doing myself as well.

 

…Esp. with visual social media influence and branding ESPECIALLY if you are ever in business for yourself with integrity to your spirit codes; this stuff means EVERYTHING (also in face of inorganic AI). and you’re ability to build a following and authentic trust as being TESTAMENT of your brand. I mean allure is ALSO the evolution of beauty influence and the beauty industry itself including social media marketing and branding. We’re already on the frontlines.

 

My charisma factor is DECENT ENOUGH (say around 7.6) but it is ON and ACTIVE…and pretty stable. I’ll be able to make quantum leaps because the foundation is here.

 

THAT is what you want to value…at least be FEELABLE even if it’s perfect and awkward…as long as you’re ESENCED and your aura and chakras are BREATHING, it then makes other egoic judgments and imperfections even FORGIVABLE.

 

IN the AvaStar Makeover we not only get clarity on your soul codex FOR public currents as a powerful influencer, but we do literal energetic embodiment and allure work directly ON your light body so you become FEELABLE and start exponentiating your social media influence.

 

Already, what I’m doing is allowing a channel for masculine energies to be experienced when that is actually not that common anymore. (Check out the latest comment on the bottom there).

 

This is critical b/c you want to have people FEEL YOU AND RESPOND. This is where organic social media GOLD IS….in being your AUTHENTIC, open, expressed and feelable self.

 

That includes being dissolved of your own subconscious barriers and resistances TO being felt. In other words; you have to de-armor and DANCE is a very powerful gateway.

 

Serious vs. FUN.

 

So take the process SERIOUSLY but you have to have fun with it…in my case, I play with the idea itself of ‘serious fun’…you can experience that; I have to land serious ROCKSTAR and His Dark Eros in but it’s crudely mixing with my Dork…but just wait until a few months down the road and when I’m socially recalibrated hosting oases in Tulum….I’m going to be light years ahead because I’ve been doing the work AND MUST be testament of charisma and the brand itself leading the allure and charisma revolution in the world and for entertainment and celebrity.

 

So consider these ‘dance’ takeaways and other insights.

 

Put aside the concept of dance being viral trends that seem ‘outside of you’…this is about connecting with OUR OWN WAY to be a CHANNEL to OPEN our charisma and allure up TO BE FELT.

 

IF you were to dance, move or pre-dance what would that look like? Now how about when the camera is on and you KNOW you’re not only going to be seen but seen by industry leaders and celebrities?

 

Can you then still be in your essence truth (when that is really what’s missing ; at least when you are in your codex)?

 

So with that said; you can go ahead and run with these takeaways on your own.

 

It might however take you years to be able to access and embody those (or transform through alchemical attunement) on your own even IF you have clarity on your Star/let codex because SO MUCH can still sabotage you. YEARS or decades to ‘go it your own’ can be a large price to pay for your makeover itself. You might not want to take that long.

 

Fortunately, I can DIRECTLY help you all with it FOR you Avatar Star Self to be embodied.

 

That option is now with the AvaStar Makeover which is a 6 month process (but there are ways we can go faster if you’re called to it). Find out more here at the link.


So check out the upcoming posts…the content is free and you can do with it what you will but at least you know with the AvaStar, you don’t have to wait and can get the professional best-in-the-world leading archetypal and allure support for your image transformation; we can get RIGHT INTO the heavy transfiguration work itself so you can debut or rebirth your most powerful or beautiful soul codexed self out to the world with 5x more magnetism and influence while living your highest timeline (this means everything if you are in personal branding or a spirit-centric business where people can FEEL whether you are real or not).

 

The current AvaStar Makeover clients are already experiencing the LEVEL of breakthroughs they desired out of the program and it’s adding up (including new clients, stronger social media response, etc).

 

Remember;

 

CHARISMA/ALLURE is the missing organic CODE to viral influence itself…already responsible for billions of views.

 

Now that I’m finally live on Instagram 2.5 months in, I’m leveraging it ‘at scale’ and will get into other formats and techniques etc. but it’s already working.

 

Can you afford NOT to represent and live as your best, most influential FEELABLE self online in this attention economy?

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From On-Stage Speaking Rejection to Essence Dance Breakthrough

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First let me say that ESSENCE + DANCE is a secret to BILLIONS of views out there (that are NOT relying on AI hacking and algorithm trickery or sales market funnelteering). And that code is simply allure or charisma.

 

I’m going to share the link of my latest IG INXS video below that’s getting pretty awesome response on such a small scale. You can load it here or at the bottom.

 

In the last email (and blog post) I brought up how a millionaire live event host (mortifyingly) STOPPED my speech 1/3 way through by stepping up on stage in front of 100s of people at a live, recorded event in Los Angeles (as if I didn’t already have enough stage anxiety!) in 2008.

 

I think my pride prevented me from entirely collapsing as I listened to what he had to say with the mic volume cut down.

 

I shared how it all turned out at the end of that blog post (linked here: https://sexychi.com/my-fear-riddled-path-into-visibility-star-dom/ ) with a picture of him even LAUGHING on stage with me (fort. not AT me but because of me).

 

He later went on to become a semi-famous multi-millionaire (but in all transparency, I don’t think it was directly related to OUR interview however 😉

 

This was just PART of my path and struggles in becoming more visible and being seen…in getting my codes out there because NO ONE ELSE WAS. I represented something NATURAL and authentic in an era of fake pick-up artistry and the manipulation.

 

Yes; I was in the ‘dating’ industry as a top natural dating coach online quite a while ago, but it’s the same concept of being in my truth and BEING SEEN (and actually these were earlier Muse codes but transmitted in a very different way and for single men).

 

And yes; I locked my Himalayan cat in the bathroom while I was recording the big Interview of the Month with him as the #1 dating brand online to help focus and quell my anxiety.have

 

Since then (although I improved with small scale public speaking anxieties and hosting) my image anxieties actually only amplified.

 

If you’ve also had it;

 

Public speaking anxiety-fear can crossover with ANY of the other reasons that can prevent you or I from being seen…it’s just EASIER and safer NOT to do it..not to go through those doors and come up with fancy excuses as to why not.

 

But how are you going to have the INFLUENCE you’re meant to have if you keep hiding out?!

 

But I’m on such a big soul purpose that I CANNOT compromise. ALSO, I’m not big on the ‘aging’ thing so it’s good I/we can anti-age with this pro energy work. There’s other things I still have to do.

 

And I don’t know about you, but I realize that this actually IS a Star path (and a King’s path)…not just one of being more publicly visible. What are YOUR codes? We can find out in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

AvaStar Makeover

 

So the rest of this month (and in living by example); I’m going to talk more about the ‘reality’ of overcoming major hurdles, onstage hurls and breakthrough codes related to being seen in y/our TRUTH.

 

We’re in an era where SOCIAL MEDIA is here to stay and so much of your influence is going to be through social media. If you want to grow a following, yes your Star/let codex (whether it literally includes Starlet or not) is CENTRAL to pulling your ALIGNMENT, truth, embodiment and expression TOGETHER.

 

Your Star or Starlet Codex gives you the CONFIDENCE and ALIGNMENT to be empowered in your Truth and face the world.

 

But there can still be SOOOO many unconscious or conscious sabotaging things that can stop you from going big and being seen.

 

I’m going to keep speaking to those this month (which may delay the already belated World’s Top 10 Muse list for 2025 but I promise I’ll get to that as well).

 

For right now; one of those hidden signifiers of whether I’m in my truth and influence or not is whether I dance.

 

So the question is; could you semi-awkwardly dance in front of the world to see right now?

 

Or…how much RESISTANCE would you have to doing it? Because that alone might be a major key.

 

WELL in spite of having all kinds of past struggles, flash forward to today post-debut and….I’M DOING IT. I know that celebrities are going to see these videos too.

 

In the next email (a.k.a. blog post); I’m going go to deeper into my own secret FEAR of Dance, what it represents, how much it’s held things back and how it’s a silver bullet highway to AUTHENTIC TRUTH TRANSMISSION, RESPONSE, engagement and being FELT and seen…

 

DANCE is a secret and not so secret key to opening up my charisma (and your allure) as well as dissipating DEEP shadow grid entropy and gravity around being seen.

 

If you have been RESISTING IT and being SEEN dancing or annoyed or even secretly envious of others and how viral THEY have gone; you may have other very deep and HEAVY blocks to exploding your own influence and engagement.

 

It’s meant as a qualifying gauge here of where there may be deeper resistances in your psyche towards BEING SEEN and felt (whether you ever make fun dance related content or not).

 

For right now here; I’m going to post my latest Instagram video and it has a WHOPPING 10% love rate with engagement and new followership.

 

I’ll go more into the breakthrough underpinnings and the leverage point of DANCE (+ my own Dance-Visibility fears) in the next transmission.

 

I had to give myself permission and there may be secret ways in which your OWN shadow grid is PREVENTING you (for years) from truly being SEEN.

 

But once people can FEEL you, even if it’s imperfect at least you’re THRIVING.

 

There’s actually a lot of codes going on with major takeaway lessons for your own public soul visibility breakthrough b/c not only is it objectively charismatic but I’m BRIDGING into the impossible archetypes before in a way that could be LIFE-CHANGING for you as well if you have a known archetype or siddhic quality that you desire in your fuller expression for greater social impact.

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Here’s that INXS inspired pre-dance video and look for ‘cheeseface’ in it:

 

 
 
 
 
 
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Remember; I’ve been alpha-testing my OWN Avatar Star self embodiment (and been doing double dan tien/kundalini activations per week as well as foundational structure).

 

That I’ve broken through myself with ESSENCE + dance with stable enough charisma factor is huge b/c this is already a secret to billions of views out there and you can find YOUR way of replicating it.

 

Check out my Elvis inspired ‘Hound Dog’ video here (with similar like/love ratio!)

 

https://www.instagram.com/p/DTQnopAjeDL/

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My Fear-Riddled Path Into Visibility &…Star-dom?

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Sub-titled The impossible journey that cannot be faked. Well…this is the start of an extended mini-series of topic specific content on the blog (under ‘charisma’, ‘rion kati’ and ‘soul starlet’).

 

Firstly; there’s a lot of inspired edu-tainment content I have for you the rest of this month so keep checking your emails; you never know what life-changing gold nuggets (snuggets) you might get all of a sudden.

 

It turns out I have a real knack not only for ladies finding their Beloved’s codex with 100% accuracy but I’m also damn good at helping them get more clarity on their own debut Starlet codex in the AvaStar consulting sessions.

 

“Brilliant” “Epic” said the 2 latest clients on the level of life-changing clarity consulting for THEIR visual debut.

 

I’m also going to be speaking to all kinds of things which can prevent you from being SEEN and having greater influence and connection with the people you are meant to influence (IN your divine truth). So keep checking the emails and blog…

 

As you may know, I’ve had incredibly brutal anxiety, insecurity and crippling visibility wounds. I mean very extreme cases of fugly duckling.

 

For years I’ve been the cozy ‘behind the scenes’ Lightworker who looks half schleppy going into zoom audio sessions with a low-mid grade webcam. One could say that I’ve actually the CLOSEST THING to someone ‘working in his pajamas’. Honestly, I’d just wear less if I could sometimes.

 

Alas; don’t fret…all of the light-working has been REAL without compromise but…the truth is, I’ve been ‘hiding out’ for years and years…building an epic foundation, YES but hiding out.

 

I know that I’m not only meant to share these gifts with the world publicly but actually literally with the world’s most famous celebrities (and I mean most all of them). I’m also meant to train the world’s TOP glow-up artists with Allure Priestess who will lead the world in allure makeovers.

 

So remember; when I was talking a lot about your Star/let codex for your debut or rebirth. This is what can give you the inspired clarity and confidence to move forward and that at least ONE of your archetypes you’re going to be VERY comfortable and familiar with.

 

My public Star codex is: The Muse Magician Rockstar. I’m INTEGRAL with Muse-Magician

 

But see, I was never ‘the rockstar’. That is the big challenge and in my case, the one that really transfigures it as undeniably SOCIAL and in great visible INFLUENCE. For you, there’s also going to be a weaker archetype which single-handedly is going to challenge your visibility wounds yet also provide THE MEDICINE for you to be in YOUR POWER and SERVICE.

 

For me it’s Rockstar and then Star but it’s the unique coding AS the Muse Magician.

 

For you, it may not literally be ‘Starlet’….Starlet may be more invisible but serves as the amplification and transfiguration OF your unique codex in divine service resolved of visibility wounds to the world so you can have the influence (and even make money) with the people you are ultimately meant to serve IN your fullest Beauty, codes and active service truth.

 

So the real challenge is that I was the guy behind the scenes, but I’ve realized (through Muse’ decree) that I am meant to not just be visible but be RIDICULOUSLY visible…and that means triggering ALLLLLL of my security related comfort and visibility issues.

 

Because something like THAT is massive identity level transformation.

 

Maybe YOUR gap is that there is one archetype that puts you IN your shameless public service and power but it THREATENS everything you are now and the comfort if you’ve been hiding out also.

 

I was the one who (as a 5/1 DEFINED cave living and endless internal seeking of security before being ready to ‘share with the world’.

 

This is me coming out of my cave to interact socially

 

 

Yes; there’s kind of an ugly go-getter beauty to him, but that’s not quite it. I represent the evolution of Beauty and charisma on the frontlines, so I am ESPECIALLY being tested because I have to become the testament of the brand and this work. For all my past fugliness, I have to become the swan…fortunately it is my truth in spirit; it just has to be accessed, embodied and expressed AGAINST ALL ODDS and subconscious sabotage (including the fugly duckling and quasimodo-gremlin).

 

I can’t tell you how much anxiety I’ve had.

 

But I was/am an extreme case of visibility wounds. I remember doing improv acting on stage at high school and I literally froze for 2 minutes while people were watching me to finish a skit.

 

All of this was REAL for me; a lifelong plague…and ironically it’s a prime HUMAN or incarnate shadow of the Muse line; performance anxiety.

 

One time I was at a famous internet marketing seminar in a beautiful ballroom for dinner and Yanik Silver had tables come together to form teams and work on some problem. There was a healthy competitive environment amongst them and at some point, I was like ‘give me the microphone, I’ve got a point to make’ and then I was standing and became radically self-conscious…

 

I saw and felt ALL of the eyeballs were on me (a few hundred people with their fancy glass chalices clinging, etc.) and I tried to hold my voice steady from cracking…

 

I don’t even remember what I said but I think I juts finished my sentence and sat down in humility. All I remember afterwards was he gave the microphone to a man who DID have public confidence and a strong accent…

 

Yanik had him say ‘fine Corinthian leathers’. I do remember that. I felt smaller than invisible.

 

BUT…That’s what inspired me to host 2 free live workshops in Houston to help overcome my speaking and visibility anxiety. When it started I was at the head of the table with around 14 men; half of whom flew in from around the country and it took me a few minutes of speaking to finally ‘drop into the zone’.

 

I was the one who still had so much performance anxiety before being invited to speak onstage in Montreal in 2006 as a ‘natural’ dating coach at the Cliff’s List convention that I was swigging shots of rum from a Malibu bottle in my hotel room BEFORE going on stage just to alleviate the anxiety.

 

Somehow I think it really helped and neutralized my performance jitters away.

 

I was the one who AT my first David DeAngelo seminar in Chicago at the end in 2005 waited in line and had so much ANXIETY built up just waiting to speak to him (b/c of the power dynamic mixed with my excitement of what I was doing) that I couldn’t slow my speaking down.

 

There’s a hidden clip of me somewhere online and you would be like ‘that can’t be Rion’.

 

I had so much anxiety in recording the ‘interview with dating guru’ of the month (in late 2007 or so) that I locked my Himalayan cat-boy in the bathroom so that I could focus record into the funny looking tape machine he had sent on the carpet of my Houston apartment while he and I talked on the device.

 

(Eben Pagan then invited me to SPEAK at the Man Transformation summit in L.A. which I think was in JAN. 2008 and I HAD to say yes despite having so much anxiety).

 

I had so much anxiety speaking on stage I didn’t know if I would ever get through it…there were several 100 people there with cameras recording.

Mortifyingly;

 

He kind of said through the microphone talking to a crew member (Royster productions I think) ‘Yeah this isn’t working’ as he walked towards stage.

 

Eventually HE STOPPED the cameras (or not to use them later) and took a big step in the front onto the stage/pulpit to ask me privately but in front of 100’s (mics off) if we could switch the format because it ‘just wasn’t working’ (but that he did value what I had to say). How would you feel in this exact scenario?

 

This was a BIG event and I’ve never seen anything like that happen…

 

I’ll share what happened at the very bottom.

 

But really; although I got better at speaking especially on a smaller scale and hosting small retreats; my images issues and anxieties further compounded because I knew I was meant for greatness. How am I going to LEAD the allure and charisma revolution movement WORLDWIDE if I DON’T overcome the deep ugliness and visibility wounds within?

 

Remember; I stayed ‘cozy’ for YEARS but I knew that I would eventually have to BE SEEN in order to truly have the INFLUENCE and impact my soul was meant to have (ESP. because it’s all so visual centric). And now; social media is WHERE IT’S AT. So whatever angle you look at it; we’re all influencers and the FULLEST version of yourself is SOME form of influencer…and if you’re triggered by influencer, then just redefine what it means because you and I have codes that MUST get out there…unless we allow the shadows, doubts, insecurities to sabotage us and keep us in an ILLUSION of safety.

 

I recently caught the MindValley ; as you may know Vishen Lakhiani is actually a long-time peer of mine. We literally had the same best friends in college when I was at UW-Madison and we would drive to U of M to party on some weekends. Anyways; he was saying that 2026 is the land-rush for FOUNDERS.

 

With the advent of AI accelerating, people are going to want more CONNECTION and trust with RELIABLE sources…not companies per se but the actual FOUNDERS and those who create and sculpt their brand ecosphere.

 

THIS is where social media is at now so if you’re not primed to BE SEEN and leverage social media, well this could be one of many ways in which you are holding back on your greater purpose (including BEING SEEN).

 

Your Star/let codex holds the IDENTITY level clarity and POWER for you to be in your highest truth, beauty, power and service in alignment with your soul purpose….it holds that for me, it holds it for you (whether you’re conscious of it or not).

 

Archetypes do not have the same problems we do…it’s really just about having a way to access and embody that encoded consciousness to mix and amplify your own soul codes.

 

And the public one for you probably holds THE KEYS to your greatness in social and spiritual influence.

 

So as far as me…..I was never the ROCKSTAR. It was just a secret obsessive pipe dream that I’ve had my whole life. I admired stars and secretly wanted to be one but I never felt like I was worthy,.

 

To be clear; I never had imposter syndrome (and you or others might); but speaking of myself I’ve had OTHER hardcore visibility wounds and anxieties in the extreme. But still; how am I going to be an influencer TO stars and starlets?

 

It seemed light years away. But my codex holds the power and the codes…I just had to find a way to step into ROCKSTAR which is the social amplification and an apex of attention for feminine Beauty and Beauty influencers to CHANGE THE GAME (it’s all Muse’ brilliant strategy to be honest).

 

How could the anxious, FUGLY duckling, insecure, hiding out version of me BE THAT embodied and non-fakeable version of myself?

 

Because remember; the highest status people are like HAWKS who can sniff out any posers or fakers so the POWER and self-image I have must be real (and divine). I have to be the real thing….I AM the real thing in ESSENCE (like you may be); it’s about EMBODIMMENT and expression in influence LIKE a star or starlet who can face, engage, inspire and MOVE the collective in the larger currents with your unique codes that are compelling and socially contagious.

 

THAT’S WHERE THE POWER OF THIS AVASTAR WORK COMES IN.

 

So…over this 2 weeks I’m going to be sharing more codes in and around my transformation as well as more Starlet codes related to overcoming extreme sabotage and codes around HOW to make real progress to be IN your power and codes against all odds in ‘being seen’.

 

And you know what?

 

My (Social) Rockstar era is beginning. It’s more important that OTHERS have the experience and affect of it; but it’s still important to have the INTERNAL compass of your my Star/let codex consciously so that you are ALIGNED.

 

I use the Beauty Sorcerer more publicly and the ‘brand’ is really Rion Kati and having influence as a real star/lightworker, etc. but as a ‘brand’ but I’m sharing this with you as part of my (and the) AvaStar process.

 

If you’re following me on Instagram, there’s a LOT going on in my JUST released video because (for me and you) the impossible is WITHIN REACH. It proves this work is real (oh and ‘miracles’ are already happening for the lady AvaStar clients). I’ll deconstruct what’s going on b/c in some way, I’m not ‘competing’ with the late Michael Hutchence of INXS, BUT we’re both 5/1’s and…well, stay tuned (or check it out now). I’ll speak to it soon.

 

STARDOM is the mid and long-term outlook but in a sense, I’m already a star in the work that I do and those sub-markets (now really post-debut and going visual public public).

 

 

OH; so what happened when I was speaking at the Man Transformation event when Eben Pagan/David DeAngelo stepped up on stage to STOP my speaking presentation (which was printed to DVD’s and sold as a product later)?

 

Well…they took a quick 4 minute stretch break to set up some couches and somehow that did the trick; we went into a sit-down interview format and it alleviated most of my anxiety and saved the day.

 

Yes, it’s THAT Eben Pagan famous marketer; he’s been a multi-millionaire for a long time. I actually have him LAUGHING…here’s a screen shot of that. I was doing a Mr. Anderson impression from Beavis & Butt-head.

 

 

I HAD TO DO BE THERE and speak because I had codes that NO ONE ELSE HAD in that industry; literally no one else was sharing this (and I was frustrated they weren’t), so I had to fight through my anxieties and do the right thing. I was still one of the very few ‘naturals’ in the dating and seduction industry back then.

 

I even had 1 man give me a standing ovation near the front left (speaker’s view). Fortunately overcoming my anxieties opened all kinds of doors for me b/c I knew that I HAD to do it or I couldn’t live with myself.

 

Stay tuned to more real world Star/let codes on the blog soon…and yes, the AvaStar Makeover is available.

 

 

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