Most Alluring MET Gala 2026

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Ok! Welcome back to the Most Alluring MET Gala Top 10 mini-series for our 2026 red carpet coverage with your host Rion Kati. Brought to you by Sexy Chi.

 

Again the carpet isn’t ‘red’ but it’s the concept that counts.

 

I appreciate your patience with the timing here, I’ve been SO busy I can’t just drop everything to do all of the work, but I finally got around to it so here we go!

 

(BTW; the entire blog and web-site to date is 100% non-AI;all human-made and organically written).

 

Before we go further, firstly…

 

If you would like more of a primer on ‘What is Allure’? You can check out this MET Gala related post from 2024.

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2024’s Top 10 Most Alluring MET Gala 2024 is here

And last years:

 

Most Alluring MET Gala 2025 is here

 

You can explore other ‘Top 10’ posts in the blog category.

 

Now;

 

It’s important to note that ALLURE isn’t about who is the ‘most beautiful’, most styled, most overstated, best make-up, best physique or who has the best themed dress, this is specifically focusing on who is most ALLURING.

 

That’s also why so many POPULAR celebrities didn’t even make this list and yet some ‘newcomers’ did!

 

ALLURE LETS YOU STAND OUT AND BE FELT by people organically (even if they’re not conscious of it; however ‘psychics’ are more aware of it).

 

ALLURE (as FELT Beauty influence) is actually its own variable in professional image independent of a person’s extrinsic, skin-deep Beauty.

 

With all the focus on designers, make-up and styling on the red carpet with celebrity Beauty; allure…this is the ‘OTHER HALF’ of image/Light itself where someone can (like a star) radiate FELT INFLUENCE in their vibe and light-truth presence.

 

Allure dynamics are ALWAYS part of ALL human visual image (charisma for the masculine) and deal with essence, embodiment and expression variables of Light beyond the skin-deep, denser physical beauty…all of which (both) are part of someone’s professional image. That includes auras and chakras which are like the ‘atmosphere’ to the ‘physical body’…with photos of the earth, we are also seeing the ‘atmosphere’, ‘weather’, storms, clouds and ‘light-show’, not just the body.

 

Atmosphere (aura) INFLUENCES…it’s how we can FEEL someone who has charisma and allure as well as their vibe and light-truth…and we can gauge all of this professionally with proper allure consulting which is energy work meets beauty.

 

With these celebrity psychic readings; generally what I’m going for is who we are able to ‘feel’ the most from their vibe and light radiation beyond just their physical looks.

 

I can gauge this general allure from the ‘Allure Factor’ which generally measures the expression of essence from someone’s chakras and aura (I may not use the Allure Factor in all readings). I may or may not say much at all about different qualities and characteristics of each starlet – my main concern is just getting the placements accurate.

 

Readings will feature SOME energetic notes here and there; these are not at all in-depth psychic readings whatsoever; but set up so that you can take some snuggets away (to help hone your own energy reading skills and psychic awareness with energy reading, ‘cold reading’, archetypes and allure).

 

My readings are meritocratic and valuing of ALLURE (not who is best dressed ie.); so whatever background someone is from ethnically, they earned their placement.

 

So with that said; let’s dive in! Ready?!

Here are the top 10 most alluring MET Gala attendees 2026...

10. Kim Kardashian

 

 

A welcome new edition to the Top 10; previously Kim’s never made the top 10 MET Gala most alluring!

 

(Ya know; in a sense we’re re-templatizing what is ALSO with professional beauty; it’s just going to take more recognition including from celebrities to realize it’s been here all along – I mean imagine if-when celebs start competing to be on Rion Sexy Chi’s Top 10 Most Alluring MET Gala – that could shift pop culture b/c it’s not *just* about who is wearing what designer, etc.).

 

Anyways; Kim here actually really does have allure (though usually daily more in the inter-personal social range rather than stage level auric distancing).

 

 

Of course there’s the traditional PHYSICAL, skin-deep aesthetic of which she has mastered and excels, yet allure is something else; the higher dimensional Light-truth as part of overall communication; essence signatures and vibes (which includes archetypes).

 

Kim has long held and embodied a lot of Goddess codes. Goddess Starlet-Mother Lover here is very evident of divine feminine essence.

 

If we tune into her (pretty and prettified) face, there is authentic allure which is that essence communicating which allows influence and enchantment beyond just the 3rd dimension of ‘judgment’ or observation.

 

 

There is spirit quanta (chi) around her eyes as well as good Heart connection warmth internally that can draw someone in…water worlds within for a Goddess carries oceans of water in essence embodiment.

 

Can you sense her face actually has some feelable allure and Goddess-Lover radiant, vexing warmth and enchantment?

 

Her world centers around HER (her affairs and kids) so she doesn’t always have care or importance to always be broad-casting to others from her energy body (but why not be able to ‘turn it on’ more like a Starlet on-demand)?

 

And yes; I assure you that even she can have more facial allure and essence (reference other alluring ladies).

 

Allure Factor: 7.1

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9. Anna Weyant &
Coco Jones

 

Anna Weyant (who won’t be the first celebrity newcomer I’d never heard of on this list!) has both the facial Beauty 1.0 ‘brightening’ glow-up PLUS (the real magic) actual facial allure itself which then alchemizes with the denser energy-Light of her physical face to come across as nice, bright and illumed.

 

Note how she is ‘shining’ in stillness…this is real beauty influence b/c it’s not just the facial moisturizing and brightening, but actual feelable radiance (of chi light quanta which is affecting her Light).

 

 

Upper dan tien cultivation-activations (which are new and now available) help to directly brighten up facial allure (the real glow-up work) available @ Dan Tien Cultivation Activations

 

Allure Factor (a.k.a. ‘AF’): 7.2

 

+Facial allure factor as 7.6 (average)

Coco Jones

  

Coco Jones has an instant energetic warmth, open-ness and feminine center, yet is energetically engaged to be able to interact with her environment vs. being entirely walled in order closed off.

 

She is energetically social in a healthy way; ready to mingle…it’s what her ‘non-verbal’s’ communicate (but see with energy and essence reading – allure – we go beyond ‘non-verbal’ body language and into the truth of vibe and Light-Truth communication).

 

 

Being so energetically approachable and easy-going yet centered and detached (as well as not too willing to please); I’m certain she’s made an impression and did a lot of networking with celebrities b/c of how activated and engaged she is vs. being walled off or pre-tensious.

 

Model her allure and you’re going to be a networking Queen.

 

 

Very good Light and Dark Goddess embodiment with Warm Eros and yes some Queen with healthy, balanced chakras.

 

Allure Factor here (average): 7.3

8. Miranda Kerr & Chase Sui Wonders

Firstly; Miranda Kerr

NEW YORK, NEW YORK – MAY 04: Miranda Kerr attends the 2026 Met Gala celebrating “Costume Art” at the Metropolitan Museum of Art on May 04, 2026 in New York City. (Photo by Theo Wargo/FilmMagic)

 

Aha…She made a previous Top 10 MET Gala most alluring list as well.

 

Note how her feeling state is just lighting up and being expressive even in front of the cameras…her chakras are alive and enjoying the moment, feelable (+ unpretentious) vs. being stifled or dead.

 

Bright facial allure that is actually coming from somewhere – authentic. A true ‘inner smile’ as Mantak Chia refers to.

 

I do understand that many are POSING in front of the cameras and aren’t always smiling on the ‘red carpet’…I get that; however I’m still reading the red carpet photos…and besides; real allure is going to sneak through anyways. 

 

Even past contendees (new word?) haven’t made this list b/c some are just more subdued expressively instead of vibrant in their Light or even Dark essence-codes expression (reference Tyla 2026; and I’m professionally critical b/c she’s placed better before).

 

Anyways; congrats to Miranda Kerr…still very stable in showcasing her allure and feelability.

Chase Sui Wonders

 

 

..she has very healthy overall chi and connection with chakras in her front channel.

 

 

She is able to access bodily intuition and wisdom. We can also see in her eyes…

 

She has bright facial allure as well as make-up that nicely complements her tones (and not overdone).

 

ALLURE FACTOR (avg.): 7.7

 

She has such a healthy, open, honest smile – not really ‘hiding’ much behind masks or veils.

 

Her facial allure and open aura, healthy soft chakras allows us to energetically feel and respond to her (as vs. someone who is more closed off). Very good vibes from her.

7. Sabrina Carpenter & Jisoo

Instantly noticeable as Starlet Pre-Muse Vixen with a healthy allure factor; Sabrina has the confidence of being an ‘it girl’ and values ‘being seen’.

 

 

 

Actually I kept dropping Sabrina down from where she was in re-jiggering the list b/c she’s almost too performative here in different photos – and actually I LIKE THAT; however, our key focus-value is allure itself in silent stillness without performance or masking; how is the energy coming across?

 

 

And still; she has it to place here.

Jisoo has an understated soft alluring charm and true GLOW here; but it’s active and bright enough for you ( and other psychic sensitives ) to notice.

 

 

I’m actually pleasantly pleased with Jisoo because she’s just more relaxed here…

 

…whereas in previous episodes, she’s been under a little more environmental stress and closed off/veiled but there’s a peaceful alluring comfort about her now – also very feminine and elegant.

 

Average A/F (of each): 8.3

6. Ayo Edibiri

 

 

Ayo Edibiri has a very open, deeeep feminine heart connected pathway through her eyes making it quite easy to ‘feel her’…great earth and water warmth and inviting open-ness to be felt. 

 

Honestly; it’s like Medicine Woman shamanic level of Heart and yin…also her middle dan tien has a lot of SPACE which allows for even more Heart sorcery and influence. There’s maturity and yet also youthfulness (Goddess-Mother and Maiden).

 

Note how we don’t get the same open-ness of heart channel with Anna Weyant for example (not that it’s not there; it’s just not AS warmly yin and open). Archetypal Maiden more visible here…

 

 

If you’re wanting more of this open-hearted warmth for yourself; it actually takes willingness to become more vulnerable to be felt and yes; we work with the middle dan tien and heart chakra to do releasing and opening the pathway to the eyes in the middle dan tien and Enchantize sessions (eye allure makeovers).

 

A/F: 8.4

5. Alysa Liu

Alysa (Olympic skater) has a different demeanor than most of the guests.

 

 

She’s your down-home friendly good-girl next door…not as mature or refined with Queen or Goddess energies at this phase of her life and ‘happy to be here’ (but who wouldn’t be? well; nevermind)…but my point is that she DOES have allure; open energetic breathing-ness of her chakras and aura that renders her feelable.

 

When we compare her to other celebrities who are more closed off energetically and walled (almost all of them on the red carpet outside of the top 15), she becomes an obvious example of starting to ‘see’ the world of essence, energy or allure.

 

 

Such warmth with her smile above (smile itself; isn’t TOO common at the MET Gala).

 

ALLURE FACTOR: 8.5

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4. SZA

 

Actually, when you put aside the bright costuming shock value….and look further into her face you can see an understated, real yin and receptive allure; face allure and mature, sexy-heart that pulls you inwards.

 

 

She has a warm glow as well; very heart connected as well as with her Eros and Enchantress;

 

….and quite obviously seems connected with the siddhi of Celebration! It’s when you can FEEL the vibe ‘n Light truth ; THAT’S where the real power and influence is (encoded in visual charisma and allure).

 

She’s weaving some magic as an Erotic-Heart Enchantress…actually I’m more impressed than I initially thought, the more I read her field.

 

 

SZA has a lot of ‘inner realms’…not at all simply superficial or vacuous.

 

A/F: 8.6

3. Laufey

 

Mononym ‘Laufey’ has a simple understated look but it works b/c it’s combo’ed with authentic allure (which is plasmic sentient-quanta that radiates from the aura and chakras).

 

She feels very vulnerably ‘exposed’ (in a good way)….energetically naked in a higher dimensional sense that allows us to sense her sheer, unveiled Purity, Gracefulness, Tenderness and Quintessence (yes; Gene Key siddhic essences are plasmic-light chi beauty essences of radiance from the spectrum of consciousness as signatures of Light-comprising allure.

 

 

(Yes; I’ve been doing Gene Key associated gift and siddhic DNA activations for years; these are available on site as part of overall allure cultivation and beauty mastery).

 

This is different than a lot of women who ‘armor up’ or put on masques (even make-up itself can be a ‘masque’ that can split the identity and amplify insecurities).

 

Laufey has an authentic auric ‘glow’ that isn’t possible to replicate just from make-up or fashion alone; the chakras and aura actually have to be clean and be transmitting.

 

She has healthy facial allure and a clarity of blockages between her soulstar, upper dan tien and the eye pathway.

 

She has a lingering allure that would make you think of her later; understated yet quite impressionable.

 

 

Those who have allure are role models for those of us who are blocked..it’s what allows the archetypes and other siddhic beauty essences of Light to radiate with and through live presence and image.

 

With a focus on ‘talent’, ego or ‘personality’ this can often block universal, divine feminine immortal beauty ‘essences’ from simply shining through as painted by your soul.

 

Her Allure Factor could be higher but you would definitely feel her allure as you get closer in-range too.

 

A/F: 8.7

 

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2. Lisa

 

Lalisa Manoban of BLACKPINK (K-Pop) and Thailand’s most famous influencer / celebrity.

 

Lisa….ok let me not entirely gaslight that there INDEED are some extra arms around here and on some other costumes; yes, I’m focused on allure and archetypes (rather than designers and Beauty 1.0 much) but I notice them too.

 

Remember that in doing these readings, I have to put aside personal favorites and stay true to the theme itself which is qualifying the top 10 most alluring that goes with what I’m seeing on the green/red carpet and how the attendee’s image is at these moments (or the average of the images I’m seeing).

 

Lisa IMHO wasn’t that impressive a previous year on the ‘red’ carpet, but these year I’m officially pleased and impressed b/c her Allure Factor is finally back up again!

 

Here she is stable with Muse embodiment also!

 

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Archetypally speaking she is centered in Muse-Goddess Starlet with healthy amounts of divine feminine Eros embodiment…you can sense that Lava (an overlooked feminine element) is in her field b/c of the amount of yin quanta, her entire field could activate as a massive spiritually Erotic slow-burn charge (which is different than ie. Light-fire).

 

Not all muses really INTEGRATE into planet earth but Lisa is embodied with Muse although she’s not as bright as she used to be in the upper aura nor as connected to the divine masculine and Spirit vs. a more embodied Goddess-self experience (actually we could re-activate and work on this in 2 minutes of session time with me).

 

Anyways; I’m so glad she’s not only in her element here but she’s showing up energetically on the (world/NYC) stage like this whereas to me some other celebs are underpar energetically (like I mentioned with Tyla, it FEELS like she’s not ‘it girl’ anymore (see outside of Top 10).

 

Energetically Lisa is sustaining and living success; you can just tell even if you didn’t know ‘who is that!?’ (It’s how it ALL pulls together including what you FEEL in vibe-truth and self-acceptance about her).

 

 

Yes; there’s the wondrous make-up also which is a key element of pro beauty, but again; it’s allure we’re focusing on here b/c it’s all LIGHT (both physical and energetic or higher frequency essenced beauty).

 

Ok; so I’m doing something a little bit different here…Allure Factors are read not as being comparable directly to others but for individual ‘POSSIBLE’ best allure factor unique to each field.

 

In other words; she has literally had more of her own allure activated. It’s BECAUSE she has so much Muse that is embodied that in a different way makes her more alluring with an otherwise LOWER A/F than the spots around her (I think that should make sense to you).

 

Her Comparative-Relative Allure Factor Placement Wise @ MET GALA 2026 = 9.0

 

B/c there is so much Muse quanta in Presence so she is still more felt; HOWEVER her personal A/F based on her previous ‘best of’ would be more around 8.4 here

And Finally...Our #1 Most Alluring MET Gala 2025...

1. Léna Mahfouf

  

To be clear; NOT the same ‘Lena’ as Lena Dunham who also attended, ahem

 

Léna (a French influencer and thus beauty influencer with allure) is such an obvious example of someone who is in her feminine embodiment AND expression.

 

 

(My first time ever hearing of her but she’s making such an IMPRESSION on the ‘red’ carpet not just with physical beauty!)

 

Hold her beauty in the moment.

 

On a corresponding note for 2 minutes (before I promise to come back to Léna); the spiritual Goddess ‘niche’ tends to overlook and under-value energetic expression which is what allure is and they tend to value EMBODIMENT or PRESENCE.

 

Beauty influence has more INFLUENCE when people can FEEL you rather than just being ’embodied’ because we’re talking about the literally feelable expression in distance (which can be measured) of how far your ‘rays’ emanate to hit other people’s chakras or the camera.

 

That’s what allure is; this expression of chi (sentient high frequency spirit matter plasma).

 

Essentially blind people could ‘feel’ the presence of someone with allure and from different distances (this is related to the Star and Starlet concept as well as the entire analogy of the sun radiating photonic wavelengths outside of the ‘visible’ spectrum of Light itself).

 

Ironically; not all stars and starlets have ‘feelable’ allure; some might even feel energetically repulsive when we put aside conscious awareness of their fame.

 

They’re often instead focused on skin-deep visual mastery, ‘personality’, ‘character’ and ‘talent’ instead of essence mastery and their own feelable influence (like the suns photonic rays don’t exist only in the VISIBLE .0035% of light but we can FEEL the Ultra-Violet and ie. cosmic rays that are in the rest of the spectrum of radiation. We have so much conditioning around Beauty 1.0 visibly; but what if Beauty included the other 99.9965% of radiance?).

 

I go into this more on my Instagram

 

(ALMOST back to Léna btw)…

 

A smile btw can indirectly and directly HELP to brighten someone’s allure itself but the real mastery work is to have allure in stillness without smiling. Smiling itself is focused on a physical act and here we’re reading energy and influence.

 

That’s also why I’m doing this and celebrity readings; to highlight and educate beauty influencers b/c allure IS the evolution of Beauty and Beauty influence (and there’s something beyond that I talk about on the blog as well which is a spiritual concept that is practiced and known by millions in the world right now).

 

Phwew…

 

Ok; hometown bookstore lover – back to Léna…

 

 

…yes; she has OBVIOUSLY great skin-care and make-up and that handsy, 1-of-a-kind dress but it’s her essenced beauty that we value here as part of the overall visual communication.

 

While still being strong in elemental water, she has a light and bright aura (and the skin-care helps to further highlight healthy life force chi).

 

 

Her intuition is holistic as she has access to womb-Eros and Heart wisdom although that channel could be even more cleared up and activated but she already has quite healthy chi.

 

She does have elemental water in her solar plexus which allows her (now) to ‘go with the flow’ vs. a more divine light-fire (this may change environmentally and for other reasons).

 

 

She doesn’t necessarily (here) have the (style of) Spirit connection that a muse has (nor the intensity that often goes with it in the upper aura); however, she is embodying Lover, Eros-Aphrodite, Mermaid and definitely some Enchantress with purified frequencies.

 

The Dark that she does have is purified and wholesome with minimal shadow. She’s quite sovereign and in her own Aphroditic expression (but more open than the classic archetypal Aphrodite).

 

IN the context of Mermaid, it could be said that she does have some watery pre-Muse associated as Mermaid pre-Muse I’d say.

 

Oh; and she’s French. There’s something culturally about it all where aspects of feminine elegance and Eros have been a LONG-STAY as compared to a lot of American women who can come off more like bro-skis (or something closer to it).

 

Congratulations for making the MET Gala most alluring! 

Léna Mahfouf Allure Factor?

9.1...We can simply sense her aura and radiance from a larger distance! She radiates in the space.

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So Why not round it out with the top 15 most alluring!?

…for this year’s Most Alluring MET Gala presented by Sexy Chi!

 

I won’t say much about these; however I would round the top 15 out to include them in this order.

 

11. Grace Murdoch

 

She’s a great example of facial allure and almost making the top 10…can you sense the additional light quanta (chi) around her face and eyes?

 

That really makes her more compelling and interesting out of the blue vs. just being ‘styled’ or ‘known or not known’.

 

12. Cara Delevigne

 

 

Her style works here and there’s just something intense and focused about her eyes; like she is omniscient to all swag in all dimensions.

 

 

13. Bee Carrozzini

 

 

Another newcomer to me. Note that she has energetic light quanta intensity around her eyes ; some real magic there with eye allure.

 

(We work on this now in the new Enchantize activations!).

 

Although her chakric body is more energetically closed off and personalized (albeit with some nice watery Eros in her sacral); her eyes are very activated.

 

14. Chase Infiniti

 

 

I do have to say that I’m kinda underwhelmed by Chase Infiniti here; I know she could be far more alluring (professional outlook here)…from when I’ve seen her before, she’s wavered from pre-Muse to Muse to non-Muse.

 

This really ends up affecting her style of radiance whether she is aware of it or not…more ‘drab’ or relaxed but this is an opportunity to really be felt and make an impression. When Muse is less, we usually feel her less.

 

Sometimes I’ll look at sideline photos and fortunately she’s what I call pre-Muse in one of them ;

 

…but barely scratches what I call pre-Muse on the red carpet plus her allure is pretty flat.

 

She’s more influential and enchanting when she is more embodied with Muse codes and radiant. This would take some identity work as well as direct energy work like with Sexy Chi appointments (which can be done remotely).

 

All of this is something that can be worked on professionally; however in her case – it’s best for her to value it consciously; otherwise it’s going to continue to waver and she could still have more mastery over her image while focusing on other things (not necessarily the wrong things, but other things like hair, styling).

 

Remember; the big secret of K-Pop and why they’re so far ahead with visual and pop beauty influence is BECAUSE of allure.

 

Often at the MET Gala however, the artists themselves are more tampered down in their radiance on the red carpet here.

 

15. Janelle Monae & Tyla

 

 

With understated and yet authentic facial allure (her costume is not at all understated however?!). Janelle has sometimes embodied pre-Muse.

 

As far as Tyla;

 

 

Tyla before has fluctuated from Muse to pre-Muse to not really at all Muse.

 

Now that I zoomed in to her face she does have some (non-Musey) allure going on more than I thought but the main thing is that her field is more personalized.

 

It’s the archetypal activated codes she can have…and some starlets might be ‘tired’ sure…but it IS the MET Gala and another chance to be your brand and have beauty influence rather than just style influence from an obscure, hot designer.

 

Special Mention:

Anok Yai

Can we just acknowledge how she’s in her own universe here?

 

Understated allure wise but just WOW…such impressive artistry as Black Madonna

 

Ok and another bonus…1 part-time muse (Chase) and Lisa (full-time muse) attracted to each other!

 

 

(yet to even have Muse codes at all is still pretty rare in the West so don’t think I’m being too critical of Chase)

Outro

So that wraps it up for this year’s Most Alluring MET Gala presented by Rion Kati of Sexy Chi!

 

World’s foremost allure and charisma consultant (along with Allure & Muse Priestess; which certification programs I lead).

 

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Feel free to share this with people (or celebrities themselves!).

 

Now…Imagine what can shift when celebrities start realizing that ALLURE is where it’s at and we have a practical, working science to it.

 

It’s where professional energy work (and beauty activations) meets professional Beauty, Performance Arts & Entertainment!

 

Imagine when more celebrities start cultivating their allure consciously! I’m meant to serve the beauty influencers who themselves will then impact Beauty ascension.

 

Fortunately, my past clients are already in on the wave of the future and have helped me found it! (100’s of testimonials on-site)

 

Yes; we can work directly on YOUR allure (instead of indirectly at best with traditional beauty and hit and miss general wellness tips that may not come across on camera)…

 

Why wait until it becomes the ‘IT’ thing to do (esp. if you’re a beauty influencer who wants to stand out and be in your authentic signature allure)?!

 

You may already recognize the value in allure work as part of pro image and beauty BEFORE it’s mainstream so you can thrive in YOUR social media world of influence.

 

Why wait when there’s so much to explore (not to mention you may have energetic health issues that are right now BLOCKING your greater beauty influence with allure).

 

(Summer btw is a great time to keep cultivating!)

 

Transformational Beauty Sessions are available as appointments (most women choose archetype activations in the Allure Makeover or 3 session package); I’d go ahead and browse the menu b/c there are new service offerings in the past year (Enchantize, Kundalini and Dan Tiens).

 

Safe to say that ALLURE work is the future of pro beauty and beauty influence (and it’s tied in with spirituality and beauty consciousness itself).

 

Energy doesn’t lie. You cannot fake essence or essenced beauty…that’s why timeless, immortal divine feminine beauty has such INFLUENCE.

 

Now we can FINALLY work with it directly. I’ve been doing it for years with clients from around the world.

 

FEELING the real deal is priceless because it can’t be ‘manufactured’ or faked when someone’s responding organically to you without knowing whether you’re famous or not.

 

It’s nice to enjoy celebrity beauty but what about YOU?

 

Are you on the path to express your soul’s true beauty and how you desire to express divine feminine beauty?

 

To be more FELT by your own audience, stans, clients, following and superfans (for when you’re on the red carpet or not)?

 

I’m in service. Anyways;

 

Thanks again for reading the Top 10 Most Alluring MET Gala 2026!

 

BTW; There’s an unlimited number of non-stop psychic energy readings I could be doing daily b/c of celebrity culture alone but I don’t have that kind of time. I want to train Allure Priestess to be able to handle more of that bulk workload.

 

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Ok…there we go!

 

-Rion Kati

 

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General Disclaimer

 

General Disclaimer:

 

My ‘Top 10’ readings are always meritocratic and focused on a similar theme regardless of politics.

 

This means there may be no ethnic diversity at all or there might be a lot.

 

Obviously there is beauty throughout the human race (both mortal and divine).

 

Allure is universal. Individuals have different variables of essence, embodiment and expression that can change.

 

With allure we are reading more the divine, meta-physical beauty and essence qualities including the allure factor (which mixes with the light reflection of her physical body).

 

Whether there ends up being ethnic diversity or not is secondary.

 

In this case there is a nice and beautiful mix of backgrounds again; but they are being chosen on who is most alluring (without skewed agenda, corruption or socio-political interference).

 

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Although I strive for psychic perfection and universalization, readings are subject to imperfections and are of the experienced author.

 

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If 1 Man May Be Suffocating Your Public Eros, Starlet Beauty + Expressive Liberty

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If you feel CONFINED towards a greater, liberated GODDESS level of expression and behavior possibly because of ONE man in your life (and how he wants to keep you visibly for himself) or b/c of the relationship ‘container’ and expectations…
 
 
 
This power post is for you and there’s a lot at stake. 
 
 
 
There may be archetypal aspects that you DESIRE to express but are in effect PROHIBITED from expressing esp. if it doesn’t fit your ‘role’ as a partner, wife or mother.
 
 
 
IF you have been suppressed esp. by the masculine from fuller expression, STARLET is actually your medicine b/c She knows how to relate with all aspects of the masculine publicly without being siphoned from.
 
 
 
This is dangerous information because for some other women reading this, if ‘he’ found out he would get triggered and fall into possibly toxic behavior about it. 
 
 
 
(A shortcode here is that your Starlet is missing Her equivalent Star).
 
 
 
Now;
 
 
 
I don’t know who ‘he’ is personally (if this applies to you), but I don’t have to know.
 
 
I know the bigger picture (this man has archetypal shadow qualities disguised as good intentions) and this may be by and large what’s holding back your entire unfulfilled DREAMS instead of living in stifled compromise (how uninitiated masculine cannot hold space for that level of Beauty and REALLY have all kinds of issues with it).
 
 
Of all the things that could sabotage you from claiming and stepping into your STARLET (unique Goddess-Avatar Codex) in public visibility – it could be many other self-sabotage reasons – but this may be the main one for you or at least MANY women; ONE MAN.
 
 
1 MAN WHO CANNOT HOLD SPACE FOR SUCH BEAUTY. (He may not even know THAT version of you if you fully unleashed it).
 
 
So in continuing with our Man vs. Starlet theme (YOUR Starlet)…
 
 
 
Might it be that ONE MAN or male figure (from your past or present) could actually be the APEX saboteur to your fullest embodiment, public beauty expression and divine feminine, EROSY radiant influence of being seen? 
 
 
 
Because you might NOT see the signs b/c of how tricky and gas-lighty this can be even though ‘he’ is actually the culprit that is GROSSLY out of attunement with your spiritual desires for greater spiritual allure beauty, boundless self-expression, satisfying recognition, ascension influence with YOUR Goddess codes and Beauty legacy.
 
 
 
Let me ask you this;
 
 
 
In lifelong valuing beauty and divine feminine consciousness;
 
 
 
Do you have a desire to be more fully expressed, radiant and seen? 
 
 
 
Do you have a long-ago in the past history of healthily enjoying dance, singing or the recognition and attention it brought that felt GOOD to your soul, but then it got smothered and suppressed to appease the comfort of one man (esp. by an important male figure in your life)?
 
 
 
Have past lovers been largely uncomfortable by your public beauty expression and it triggered them so you tamed yourself back down?
 
 
 
Have you been living in massive (masculine influenced) suppression for years (often to ‘fit a role’) while meanwhile your soul desires to be in your fullest visual quintessence, voice, beauty and influence (always knowing there is something more)?
 
 
..And yet you are prevented from doing that (even if he was gone YEARS AGO)?…and do you find that you keep living out the same pattern (whether he himself was aware of it or not – even if he ‘intended well’)?
 
 
In doing a recent Codex Clarity Consulting call (now available at a longer 45 minutes here), something became very, very clear and it was one of the angles that I already knew about but had missed in earlier blog writings about soul / spiritual starlet: it’s how a masculine figure can be the predominant SUPPRESSOR of her greater Beauty (and the consciousness that goes with it).
 
 
 
You may actually be spiritually imprisoned in a less than liberated relationship that your soul desires…you just have to figure out the costs and risks of changing it and how much integrity you have to have with your soul’s desire because yes; it may mean either liberating your Starlet from those shackles, having him grow into a Star-god to support your alluring Beauty expansion and recognition or continuing to live under the weight of his inability to hold presence with your Starlet.
 
This woman (and many others) had great desire to be more fully embodied, expressed and seen (including in archetypes of her Starlet Codex)….and yes, it often brings attention from OTHER MEN. That somehow didn’t sit right with her man.
 
 
Unfortunately; this is too common of a theme (the world is missing more Star-Kings who can let their woman SHINE and nourish the world without falling into shadow reaction).
 
 
 
Even though it was SOCIAL attention (really; Starlet’s domain writ large); this dynamic causes him to actively suppress her radiance because it threatens him personally ‘as if’ she was cheating.
 
 
 
Her potential Starlet (of divine feminine archetypes and siddhic essences with and through her transfigured for public social influence) is essentially shackled because Starlet THRIVES on Beauty expression, recognition, influence and attention (of ie. divine feminine radiance and not just physical prettiness). BUT THERE’S ONE MAN WHO IS ESSENTIALLY PREVENTING OR STOPPING IT ALL.
 
 
(Or is it that she’s allowing it?)
 
 
Is that woman you? Who have been dealing with a male figure who may be the SINGLE biggest saboteur of your soul’s fullest expression and desire (while years keep going by)?
 
 
 
In working with women for years; there are 3 common themes related to this masculine suppression of the divine feminine beauty that wants to be fully expressed:
 
 
 
1. Father dynamics that are still with you subconsciously where you don’t want to threaten his perfect view or expectations of you b/c of the fracture it would mean even though he was coming from limitation and 
 
 
 
2. A past or current partner whose security, ego and identity is threatened by your Starlet/Goddess’s fullest expression (codexed essences) so you remain shackled and can barely even associate with other men so as not to trigger him. 
 
 
 
(This may even be a husband who yes – has other good qualities in the mix which makes it more complicated; but the dynamic and his level of consciousness is admittedly INFLUENCING your suppression so that you’ll often self-censor ‘Her’)
 
 
 
3. The collective (shadow, hypocritical and often toxic) masculine often parading as virtuous morality. This supports the ‘engine’ of Beauty and ‘sex sells’ (including the divine aspects of Beauty influence except that when it gets INTER-personal, most men are incredibly weird, fearful or controlling and shadowy around such Beauty as it relates to them personally)
 
 
 
ALL three of these (or we could say the unity of the uninitiated-by-Goddess masculine) can be LIFE-LONG effective blockers to your Starlet from EVER really coming into embodiment. I’m going to speak mostly to #2 (continued) here.
 
 
If you have a desire for greater expression and being seen (to have divine feminine influence with and through you);
 
 
It may take nothing less than a severing of that psychic relationship and/or agreement with that man (or stunted archetypal male figure who cannot hold presence-space with EMBODIED divine feminine consciousness) in order to give yourself the freedom to embody your Starlet and your soul’s fuller desire for expression (and UNTIL YOU DO you will keep living out the same, meek pattern where your Goddess constellation cannot even really BREATHE let alone unfurl and be SEEN en masse with Her medicine and influence). 
 
 
UNWILLINGNESS TO MAKE THAT DECISION TO CHANGE THE MASCULINE OPPRESSIVE DYNAMIC COULD KEEP YOU STUCK FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE.
 
 
There. I said it. So it’s YOU who have to weigh the consequences of YOUR soul’s desire for growth, boundless beauty cultivation at an identity level of consciousness and reality (where your Starlet Codex holds the exact keys to ACCESS Starlet consciousness to transfigure and amplify the spirit qualities of your soul publicly without sabotage, without collapse, without guilt, shame, humiliation, fear, insecurity, doubts, self-censorship, etc.)
 
 
This can be challenging if you are in a current and entangled relationship where it feels your divine feminine is admittedly being SUFFOCATED spiritually and socially.
 
 
You got into the relationship and there are still good things – again WHICH COMPLICATES IT because you’ll justify staying and being with him UNDERSTANDABLY.
 
 
And this dynamic, your comfort with each other and the limitations of the relationship container, roles and expectations – it all keeps you stuck for years from that GREATER EXPRESSION AND BEAUTY. Honestly; you’re not sure he could handle it.
 
 
(I’m not saying to necessarily ‘break up’; however, this is about clarity and empowering your path either way – YOUR choice, your life).
 
 
In relationships that otherwise aren’t toxic, he may ‘lead’ under the guise of conservative values and ‘morality’ where a woman shouldn’t be seen or expressed in her beauty nor sexuality for other men…however, there’s a deeper issue going on here besides that your male figure doesn’t have Star consciousness that can allow BEAUTY to be expressed publicly and socially without it threatening him (and instead rely on the strength of your ‘actual’ agreement together rather than manic perceived fears of you being with other men). 
 
 
This ‘morality’ police angle of religion and the manosphere actually abdicates Goddess consciousness. They and the egregore simply doesn’t know how to handle it.
 
 
Human constructionist ‘morality’ and some evolutionary biology justification is often their model but doesn’t include the divine masculine power to meet Goddess in the equation (remember; we’re not talking about you actually ‘cheating’ with the world of men, it’s actually his insecurity and fears to let you be a Starlet where as a Star he is even MORE of a man).
 
 
And btw; this IS spiritual because we’re talking about essentially the divine masculine in men being able to HOLD PRESENCE AND SPACE without expectation, control, siphoning or micro-managing to that level of Beauty. Shiva level presence to the spirit of your Goddess/Starlet codex.
 
 
So…Mix in his authentic biological urge to know he is the father (there wasn’t DNA paternity testing until the 1980’s) so even though he has reason to ‘rein you in’ and thinks that ‘a mother shouldn’t be erotic esp. in public when she’s married’, more often this ends up becoming shadow behavior because he doesn’t know how to face and be present with GODDESS Herself (a.k.a. the level of Beauty you would have if you really allowed it).
 
 
This is because his mortal man isn’t worthy of Goddess (just like the village girl isn’t worthy of bedding the Emperor-King).
It’s worth mentioning that many women ‘re-wild’ in Goddess circles…this can be important medicine (for a phase) to SEVER from many ways of the constrictive masculine (shadow); however, what we’re referring to outside of an understandably safe reclamation bubble is facing THE WORLD AT LARGE and fully re-integrated;
 
 
Being seen (and being able to be sovereign and seen) including BY the shadow masculine public and the psychic weight of men that have held you back in the past (let alone possibly siphoned from you); this is where STARLET and Grail dynamics come into the equation…
 
 
Men and the masculine are implicated and part of all of this…you may find that you may have to graduate from the Goddess circle-bubble into public Starlet if you have a divine feminine mission that requires being seen and relating with the masculine in ascension or influence.
 
 
We’re talking about making it safe for you to shine TO THE WORLD (Starlet is your medicine).
 
 
Anyways, I regress;
 
 
Because he is UNINITIATED in the consciousness-truth of the Holy Grail itself of Divine Union (and men in general in the collective); it would THREATEN him to the very core so he finds ways to prevent you from ever truly shining.
 
 
He remains the governator to your Beauty-Truth. Or at least you got into relational agreement to where that IS the authority.
 
 
 
If you went forward with discovering your Starlet codex and (God forbid) joining AvaStar Starlet Makeover with monthly support and committing to such a makeover; yes – many men would find you far more attractive and getting attention and this could cause him to;
 
 
 
*Be threatened and triggered; over-react, get jealous or want to start fist-fights with other men
 
 
*Collapse into nervous fear with inability to hold presence in his nervous system
 
 
*Triggers into passive-aggressiveness
 
 
*Flare up in anger
 
 
*Obsessively micro-manage and control you
 
 
*Shame, guilt, berate and belittle you and your greater beauty expression (or Eros allure) when it starts peeking forward
 
 
*Love-bomb you because he doesn’t want to let you go ( as a toxic form of control and emotional abuse)
 
 
*Put you back in your spiritually meek place so as not to get such recognition from other men so he’s comfortable again being seen with you
 
 
 
I’ve got news sister; he doesn’t have STAR consciousness (or at least the divine gift of Detachment which then relies on AGREEMENT between each of you related to actual intimacy). He’s not able to healthily HOLD SPACE for that spirit-rich essenced version of you.
 
 
 
And the good sex complicates it but deep down you’re realizing that, oh crap – what if Rion is right and my man cannot hold space for my fuller Beauty without shutting it back down?
 
 
(All of this can cross-over with the conscious twin flame relational template for many women as well; but it’s still not Divine Union)
 
 
So no wonder you’ve held back. It would threaten the divinely (the aspects of) your sub-par relationship you currently have in your SPIRIT to the masculine – even though there are good qualities and attributes your mortal partner has (which stifles you more from changing the dynamic).
YOUR SPIRITUAL SOUL BEAUTY EXPRESSION & SOCIAL INFLUENCE WITH GODDESS CODES is by and large limited to HIS insecurities rather than being CONSTELLATED WITH YOUR IMMORTAL STAR BELOVED WHO HOLDS PRESENCE AND SPACE FOR ALL OF YOUR BEAUTY-GROWTH AND EXPRESSION.
 
 
It’s because you are in a past agreement with a mortal man who isn’t initiated into Divine Union consciousness to hold that level of Presence properly, safely and truly.
 
 
If you shine TOO MUCH past his threshold, you calibrate your behavior back into less than your desire.
 
 
And it’s important to realize the role you had in co-creating this ‘limiting to your spirit and soul relationship’. A past version of you, but still you.
 
 
(And how many more years is this going to continue?)
 
 
Like that chemical that stops the heart from beating at death sentences (isopropopyl or something), men or a man who is still influencing you (subconsciously) or otherwise can have the REAL effect of stopping your full soul, spirit, beauty, identity and consciousness from fully embodying and being SEEN.
 
 
THUS; SHE IS NEVER ABLE TO BE PROPERLY BIRTHED.
 
 
Yes; I’m speaking mostly to #2 of the 3 above here. Remember I go more into the collective (#3) in this recent blog post here (under the Starlet category):
 
 
 
 
And yes; your mortal FATHER (as compared to The Holy Father) may also be still living out HIS standards that is governing your own level of beauty consciousness and visibility in being seen publicly – the thermostat is still set to HIS comfort level (or you got shamed into being something else when it’s really the archetypal, divine feminine that is seeking expression with and through you).
 
 
It may be so extreme; this past masculine influence on you (esp. with trauma, abuse or siphoning OR even strong family control or expectations) that She is effectively paralyzed from ever being truly embodied b/c you’ll get activated into fear-body response.
 
 
HOW MUCH LONGER WILL YOU LET LESSER MORTAL MASCULINE CONSCIOUSNESS BE YOUR GOVERNATOR TO GREATER BEAUTY AND ALLURE EXPRESSION INFLUENCE?
 
 
This limited, NON-Shiva-esque masculine consciousness is important to understand more (ideally). MEN DO NOT KNOW HOW TO RELATE TO ANGELS, GODDESSES, APHRODITES…
 
 
There are SONGS AND POETRY about ALL of this….(Sacred Union dynamics)…men just cannot comprehend it within their ego…they’re just uninitiated in Divine Union.
 
 
 
All of this male-as-beauty-suppressor to your fullest expression;
 
 
 
This in large part has to do with his Holy Grail or Divine Union dynamics (er essentially lack thereof)…this level of masculine consciousness is common and in the bigger picture, unevolved.
 
 
UN-Godly even though moralistic constructionism will say it’s Godly. No; GODLY is HIEROGAMY ITSELF; reunification of God and Goddess consciousness through Holy Son & Daughter as LOVERS. But hey; pop religion mostly threw that out with the bath-water so there isn’t a model for men TO relate to the divine, meta-physical (also a direct reality with social media how it amplifies a single woman’s beauty 1,000,000:1 with social power) and archetypal.
 
 
This fractured-from-Communion personal, egoic male vs. 1 billion:1 ratio of a Goddess…the mortal man simply cannot hold space for Goddess Presence and consciousness (or the many fractals of Her).
 
 
In large part this is because he is not reunified within with his own Beloved and Her form of Goddess consciousness.
 
 
 
IF you were allowed to embody and cultivate your GODDESS or STARLET (and into full, liberated expression for the world to see), but it THREATENS HIM and his mortal ego….how much longer can you allow this to continue?
 
 
MAYBE IT’S OK to have your Starlet shackled b/c the chain isn’t ‘AS’ tight as it could be..? (But is that good enough for you soul; THAT level of compromise).
 
 
And I’ll say another thing; ALLURE is the evolution of Beauty influencer so if you have some form of Sophianic or Goddess codes related to social ascension, these are the influencers of tomorrow; spiritual starlets who are CHOOSING to live their fullest truth and beauty expression.
 
 
This is where MAINSTREAM is headed; ultimately towards Darshanic Beauty influencer (alchemical, temple-grade, transformational beauty).
 
 
So it’s not even just the current model of beauty influencer; SPIRITUAL STARLETS are going to rise in social power (and rightfully so) with their unique codes; but if you’re stopped from ever really beginning because you’re allowing a mortal man’s limited shadow relationship to Goddess truth to stop you?
 
 
Then yeah; it may never happen and your soul itself may never reach that fulfillment and you’ll never have that collective influence from your future tribe.
 
 
 
On a spiritual level (since we’re mostly talking about #2 of the 3 here); if you had that much beauty and he lost it, it would fracture his connection to the Grail (that which he doesn’t even know he desires the most); so he tries to control you to keep what he has…more beauty, more attention = more shadow, toxic, flare-up behavior and paranoia from him suffocating your Starlet even more.
If he was a father figure; you may still be limited to his thermostat of HOW much beauty or erotic expression being seen socially is ‘ok’.
 
 
And yes; a lot of women in my circle have done Goddess, Eros work and RECLAMATION but we’re speaking specifically to your STARLET and her SOCIAL influence…does it actually threaten a male figure in your life and are you still holding back because of it (whether subconsciously or actively in partnership)?
 
 
He may be comfortable with you being together because in a sense he ‘owns you’ in the right ways but still….take it public and where does your Eros-Goddess Dark Vixen go? She can’t.
 
 
Because of the relationship YOU’RE ALLOWING TO CONTINUE TO LIVE to his level of consciousness and his lack of resonance and Unity with Goddess.
 
 
Are you going to let one man or the collective uninitiated masculine (and their hypocrisy and projections towards such Beauty) determine your beauty path and soul’s fullest expression?
 
 
See…What’s missing is DETACHMENT. YOU’VE BEEN IN AGREEMENT WITH A MORTAL MAN (or amalgamation of them) who simply CANNOT hold space for Goddess or your fuller Beauty.
 
 
He’s attached to a version of yourself that isn’t your fullest either (and you know this b/c She is not fully embodied).
 
 
Remember; YOUR IMMORTAL BELOVED can actually hold space for your Goddess codex Beauty Presence & Truth.
 
 
Detachment to the uninitiated shadow or sophomoric mortal masculine consciousness just doesn’t compute. It basically means to HIM that you’re basically cheating on him and your intimacy by even by showing ANY skin on social media (an I’m speaking to like an upper arm).
 
 
You don’t have to live under that yoke anymore; I mean it’s still your choice and consequence.
 
 
So you may have had a pattern of past men who ended up being toxic and controlling around you if you had exceptional beauty and/or if you allowed your feminine allure to shine publicly. It may seem good from the surface; “Oh he’s protecting me…he wants me for himself” Well…yeah and the whole dynamic if you’re called to be greatly seen and expressed is also KEEPING YOUR STARLET IMPRISONED for a set of different values (and the shadow judgments and conditioning around it that just doesn’t hold space and presence for that level of Beauty to shine because it threatens his control and place in the spiritual realms).
 
 
 
See; this is actually quite common and literally a theme with MANY, MANY WOMEN.
 
 
You are actually not alone although your experience may feel SUBJECTIVE…that ‘he’ (name) is actually inhibiting your shine (well actually, SHE is under your authority, you just got stuck in an agreement with a man who simply cannot face Goddess so it’s that agreement that you’re afraid to break for whatever reasons including the entanglement of kids, mortgage, pets, shared history, not wanting to let go, what if no one else wants you, etc.).
 
 
But what if instead of keeping him personal and just affecting YOU with HIS name and good but also shadow traits and your past attachment or experience with ‘him’ and his imperfections; 
 
 
What if we took this externalized man of suppressive influence to your fullest Eros and Beauty; this individual man in your life or past and simply made him a cultural archetype (even a trope) instead?
 
 
This is because this consciousness IS common amongst 100’s of millions of men. It wasn’t just “Dan my semi-toxic twin flame x-lover”.
And let’s call this over-reactive to signs of attention trope of a man:
 
 
‘Un-Star Man’
 
 
He doesn’t want you to shine publicly.
 
 
He is uninitiated by Goddess, cannot hold space for Starlet Beauty, Her status, power and attention without collapsing either into a ball of fear OR micro-managing, suppressing and controlling her to constrict her Starlet beauty and Eros publicly. 
 
 
His ego and consciousness cannot relate with Goddess; it simply doesn’t know how to; thus he operates from forms of fear (including passive-aggressive love-bombing) to stay connected to the greatest form of beauty he’s known in his life b/c it would mean existential threat fracturing him from the holy grail.
 
 
UN-STAR MAN HAS SUFFOCATED YOUR SPIRITUAL BEAUTY AND FULLEST EXPRESSION.
 
 
(IN SPITE OF his redeeming personal qualities). He’s over-reacting b/c he knows which men are sexual threats even when NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN. Not cool. Not detached. Not allowing your Beauty to have INFLUENCE in the world. UN-Star Man.
 
 
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIVE UNDER THAT YOKE ANYMORE.  AND I AM HERE TO SUPPORT YOUR STARLET EMBODIMENT AND TRANSFIGURATION (IMAGO) if and when you are ready (that is ;). AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support.
 
 
Jay-Z gets it btw; he didn’t stifle Beyoncé all these years.
 
 
 
 
They had their own inter-personal agreement. He was a Star to let her Starlet shine (and a star in his own right too).
 
 
Sure; you could feel compassion for this 1 man in your life, but that isn’t the subject of this post.
 
 
The ultimate path for many men TO relate with such Beauty and Communion (the holy grail) is Divine Union and it MAY be possible for him to grow in relationship to YOUR Beauty growth but if he’s just too stuck and complacent it may be impossible for the scale you are called for in being seen.
 
 
There’s great energy with all of this dynamic (including in that one woman’s life) TO make a powerful change and fast…to ACCESS all of your current seat-of-the-soul essences, cultivate more, bring them into embodiment as we cultivate your Light body temple and transfigure into the butterfly-imago to the world of your most alluring self.
 
 
But are you going to let ‘him’ (different than a divine aspect counterpart of HIM) stop you (because YOU still have THE POWER to choose)?
 
 
This is serious identity work here implicated with RELATIONSHIPS and your relationship to even a partner with a lot of entanglement (even kids, mortgage, etc. like I said).
 
 
Hey; I’ve had women who literally got divorced after working with me but also some whose relationship grew into greater love and growth together.
 
 
THIS IS YOUR PATH. Can ‘he’ hold space for it? Could he grow into holding space for that level of Goddess consciousness and beauty PUBLICLY SEEN?
 
 
If not; hmm…
 
 
Maybe you might have to get into Divine Union alchemy where your Immortal Beloved ‘STAR’ aspect counter-part CAN hold space (although doing such work or being with me in AvaStar Makeover monthly starlet support is likely going to trigger your current masculine dynamic; which is also why this work is so powerful to change on an identity level).
 
 
Your current model of the unsupportive-to-your-fullest-expression masculine has to ideally be REPLACED with a model that is (this can be ME by proxy in temple space or work directly in Sacred Union alchemy with your Immortal Beloved).
 
 
Currently; I’m actively working with 6-7 starlets who have CHOSEN themselves and a different relationship to the masculine that can support their greater Beauty presence and influence in AvaStar Makeover monthly
 
 
And btw this isn’t even about being the ‘independent woman’ archetype either; this is about more nurturing, loving, Eros and beauty that would benefit the masculine collective AND YOUR MAN if he could handle it.
 
 
 
So assuming that you’ve been in this dynamic of a man or male figure (or cultural archetype/trope) holding you back (which may include father vs. Father dynamics);
(Btw; if you HAVE a partner who IS supportive of your Starlet…would he give space for far, far more Beauty embodiment and social attention for you then? Or where is that thresh-hold? Remember, I’m speaking to qualifying ladies on this subject otherwise but you may be reading for insights anyways). So back to the pre-qualifying woman who has dealt with this or IS dealing with it…
 
 
He’s been suppressing your fullest truth and society has with their hypocrisy in many ways but YOU have to choose your Avatar/Starlet codexed divine feminine truth of beauty expression for ascension – your spiritual starlet – OVER all that would inhibit it (because essentially on past agreements which may now have run their course ; you have been co-creating and ALLOWING IT). 
 
 
Men in your life and future are implicated.
 
 
These aren’t easy decisions, but they’re powerful decisions and they are YOUR highly leveraged decisions if you’ve been held back by a man who simply CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty and consciousness that you know you have in your spirit.
 
 
There IS leverage for ridiculously fast transformation into embodying that which you’ve not been able to but you have to have the space and proper support with it (this is also where my Temple-Grade Star consciousness comes in with AvaStar and especially in IMAGO where we have live temple space presence together to ativate your Starlet into supreme safety and SPACE for such Beauty if you’ve not had that before in relation to the masculine).
 
 
 
 
And yes; there may be consequences based on past agreements…agreements that your soul is dying to break free from to fully be liberated. And/but even if you have kids, could you keep living a life that doesn’t let them see the model of your fullest truth and what is possible – or rather a lifetime of suppression to fit into his mortal limitations b/c he’s the ‘head of the household’. 
 
 
BIG DECISIONS. A lot to ruminate; however, know that we can MOVE FAST if you are ready to make big identity moves and deal with the consequences; this is just part of the sacrifice and price you have to pay to live as your spiritual starlet or signature alluring goddess (whatever you want to call Her but it’s THAT version of you and how the world respond to HER).
 
 
I would recommend IMAGO though if you’ve been under the yoke of a man or men in your life who CANNOT hold space for that level of Beauty…after YEARS AND YEARS of not being able to BREATHE….
 
 
Your somatic body should best get the EXPERIENCE of attunement and knowing that it’s profoundly ok to be that liberated without corruption, shadow, expectation or ANY shadow in relation to the masculine. To somatically experience and LAND what that liberty is really like after being shackled for years around the masculine.
 
 
That temple experience alone is worth the $5000 VIP day (but at current pricing subject to change/rise; you can get AvaStar along with that VIP day for half off essentially by booking one of the first 3 spots for AvaStar IMAGO with Immersive Temple Space for your Starlet LIVE with Rion details
 
 
Check page for details and availability b/c there are LTD. spots.
 
 
Ok, I hope there was a lot in here for you to get more clarity on what might be holding you back – related to this specific subject of being constrained BY a model of the masculine in your past (that you’re still carrying the psychic weight with you) or actively right now. You no longer have to be suffocated from your great Goddess cultivation and visibility; you just have to make some different decisions with consequences…
 
 
I am here for the professional support if and when you are ready (and yes; there is a price to pay to sacrifice WHO YOU WERE to CLAIM, embody and BECOME the transfigured butterfly out of the cocoon of suffocation and trepidation around your true Beauty and Her expression publicly).
 
 
Discover AvaStar Starlet Makeover as monthly support
 
 
 
 
Or…if you simply want more clarity on YOUR specific situation as a next step; you can book the 45 minute Codex Clarity Session with me (we may not focus on your codex as much based on what you want to uncover and where the consultation flows)
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Cocooned: Self-Sabotage vs. Your Potentially Liberated Starlet

Archetypes Beauty & Allure Beauty Essence Blog Charisma Darśan: Temple + Eye Beauty Soul Starlet

Not all will make it out of their own 'cocoon' towards Star/let levels of self-expression, being seen and influence...Fears will sabotage and stop them in their tracks so they never become the transfigured butterfly or 'imago'...

On Your Desire to Breakthrough As A Fully Expressed, Influential Starlet (and your form of Beauty Influencer)…

 

God forbid but maybe…

 

Are you your OWN greatest frenemy?

 

You may have experienced this where it’s 50% GO and 50% stop at the same time:

 

You DESIRE to be seen and energetically felt in your fullest truth, beauty and influence while simultaneously the other half of you wants to hide, play it safe and small (like to prevent judgments, humiliation and siphoning of and from others by ‘standing out’ so much); therefore, with such and inner push and pull, you start to realize that you haven’t got much of anywhere.

 

MAYBE you’ve been like frozen pond water or Canadian molasses on a wintry day towards becoming that alluring in your fully embodied Goddess and how much Beauty-Power She could hold and emanate.

 

Sure; you know how to make yourself look good; but you KNOW there is MUCH MORE (and that it has to do with unlocking your unique signature GODDESS CODES and celebrity branded allure).

 

So instead you’re living the spiritually alluring version of full-time pajamas and crocs.

 

This is secretly depressing to your soul’s desires for fullest expression and beauty influence and the unspoken poetry within…the sabotage may all SEEM extrinsic and from ‘others’ and THEIR judgments, but hmm…what if it was YOU who was still sabotaging in spite of it all?

 

Thus;

 

That highest version of yourself remains a fantasy while you live vicariously through others, cozy in your placent cocoon instead of allowing the codes you KNOW you have to be fully embodied and DARING to be that beautiful and radiant socially.

 

The analogy is SO SIMPLE really.

 

It’s like you have one foot on the gas pedal and one foot on the brake. You really want it (and how others would look up to you and at you in awe), but you won’t commit to yourself because of the many fears that end up sabotaging you.

 

By being here; you already know that it’s more than just superficial looks-maxxing glow-up too. This is about your DIVINE FEMININE CODES and signature allure that represents the CELEBRITY BRAND OF YOU in ascensionary influence.

 

Yet still..

 

“It’s easier to remain low profile”…

 

“These crocs are cozeeee before I turn Netflix back on”

 

 

Yeah and there’s a great price your SOUL and SPIRIT are paying for that convenience…and at some point, it may be too late.

 

“I want to choose her, BUT….(excuses, sabotage, etc.)” (And there can be DOZENS of powerful reasons including how MEN in your past have constricted your own STARLET liberated radiance and shine).

And you remain stuck in your cocoon so the world keeps responding to you AS such vs. being the fully expressed butterfly

“I want to choose her, BUT….(excuses, sabotage, etc.)” (And there can be DOZENS of powerful reasons including how MEN in your past have constricted your own STARLET liberated radiance and shine).

 

Your FOCUS and value consciously seems to be on moving forward so you will count the inches and you will somehow think you’re actually getting somewhere without realizing you’ve been your own saboteur for years while you sadly realize that you are nowhere NEAR the levels of Beauty embodiment and signature radiant influence, recognition, attention and success you desire (esp. to get YOUR codes out there which are sourced in the divine).

 

With half of you wanting to be seen and half of you wanting to NOT be seen;

 

You’re really cancelling out your own process and never getting anywhere thus you may never know what it’s like to EMBODY that version of yourself and shine HER BEAUTY (like the signature essences encoded within your own Avatar or Starlet codex).

 

You’ve been allowing your inner saboteur (subconscious fears and shadows) to essentially gaslight you and prevent you from ACTUALLY ever breaking through.

 

Your subconscious finds all kinds of tricky ways to keep you believing your foot is on the gas while gaslighting that it’s also STOPPING YOU;

 

“I’ll just keep researching…


I’ll keep fantasizing about that version of me which could happen ‘someday’…

 

I’ll follow this influencer for inspiration on this part of myself who I could be but not choose to become that version myself…


I’ll maybe get to the Starlet Codex workbook (2029?)…


Ok…Maybe I’ll finish the Codex workbook (but what would it mean if I found out my Truth?) so I’ll keep postponing it


I’m afraid of what it will say b/c I know how much my subconscious will hold me back


Yeah, but…the kids..


Yeah, but I’m ‘busy’…


Yeah, but what will they say about me?


I’m afraid to step into that version of myself (and who it’ll make uncomfortable)”…

 

(We can find out more exactly what’s stopping you on a Codex Clarity Consulting Call):

 

So your signature allure and spiritual celebrity Starlet or Goddess remains in the chrysalis…the divine spirit codes mostly remain in the seat of the soul and never reaches the IMAGO stage of transfiguration through embodiment and how your visual Light actually shifts and radiates very differently.

 

The world responding to THAT Starlet codexed version of you; much of this remains as fantasy or just the idea of being that kind of person without actually doing anything about her to initiate the transformation which is its own process.

And really there could be MANY MANY reasons; but ultimately you still get to CHOOSE if you are going to EMBODY HER and all of your BEAUTY CODES for your fullest expression and dharma in this lifetime OR SELL OUT to the saboteur, shadows, fears, insecurities, doubts and past experiences.

 

At some point when you notice this cycle you have to put an end to it and realize how much time you’ve been wasting by just ‘wanting it’ but not DOING anything that claims HER.

 

And yet still;

 

YOU are still accountable for YOUR highest timelines or not. No one else can choose for you. I had to choose and KEEP choosing to embody my own Avatar Star codex self INTO EMBODIMENT and on the path to transfigured Darshanic IMAGO temple-charisma.

 

This is where STRENGTHENING the vision and getting CLARITY on your Goddess or Starlet Codex and vision of your highest self is going to really help. (I’m currently offering a 45 minute clarity consulting session for a fee which you can book here if available(.

 


Will you CHOOSE HER? That highest version of yourself? MUST YOU?

 

Will you become HER against all odds?

 

Because there are doors in the future that will NEVER OPEN unless you go through the right doors now (and fast or for years).

 

What I’m doing is preparing for my embodied Sorcerer 20 years from now with the work I’m doing now but at least I’m actively ON THE PATH and hardcore while serving other soul starlets in THEIR transfiguration as well.

 

No matter what you’ve been through in the past and your ‘justifications’ for not being her;

 

What would stop you?

 

And are your desires stronger than the matrix of self-sabotage (unconscious or otherwise ‘justified’)?

 

Because for me; NOTHING CAN STOP ME from embodying my HIGHEST TRUTHS…along with my Divine Union with Beloved; it’s the most important thing. In fact; it’s with Her Divine Will that I embody and incarnate my Avatar Self. YOU have to choose for yourself…and yes; there is a price to pay.

 

 

The price that I have paid is a very, very grand one, but it’s also set the template for directly helping others to actively embody THEIR Star or Starlet.

 

How much longer can you go WITHOUT being that version of yourself (as some form of influencer)?

 

If you’re ‘in’ are you willing to ‘pay the price’?

 

Because it will require bold moves and sacrifice; to shift in IDENTITY CONSCIOUSNESS and how the world and universe relates to you…likely exchange of energy with mastery and INITIATIONS (activations) to accelerate your process and get caught up on years of time that you’ve been self-sabotaging.

 

PREPARING your LIGHT-BODY itself to hold your codes actively embodying them and leveraging STARLET to bypass your shadow-grid matrix of visibility insecurities (this is what your Codex can do in the AvaStar most directly).

 

THERE IS A PRICE TO BECOME HER (and to access Starlet). Shifts to make to allow SUCH impersonal Beauty quanta to be EMBODIED and to hold it with a stable nervous system without collapse internally or triggered extrinsically.

 

Many are just not willing to pay the price. esp; to become a spiritual starlet of an influencer.

 

If you CHOOSE HER and can face Her truth (the Truth of your Codex and Soul’s dharma);

Will you see YOUR butterfly through to transfiguration?

Then it’s about TAKING ACTION into what is the next step OR risk your subconscious saboteur sneakily finding justifications and perceived ‘legitimate’ excuses as to why NOT to move forward;

 

“It’s too expensive


It’ll take too much time…

 

It’s too late for me (to start)…”

 

And the SLEW of reasons (I’ve blogged about) that could be holding you back including fear of judgment from others and your circle for ‘standing out’, slut-shaming, harsh criticism from men, past experiences with men suppressing your Goddess liberated GLOW, family or religious conditioning, fear of siphoning, too much armoring, not wanting to deal with trolls, fear that you’re being superficial or vain, MANY reasons…(all doubling as SABOTAGE to the divine desire within you and preventing you for years)

 

Could These Reasons Be Preventing Your Starlet Manifestation-IMAGO?

 

Against All Odds: Will U B Seen?

 

Yeah there might be haters but so what?

 

Remember that you are also paying a price to live in the placid DISCONTENTMENT and soul frustration TAX and toll of NOT becoming the fullest version of who you are meant to be and have the influence that you feel you are meant to.

 

That may be the greatest price of all.

 

What if their ‘How Dare you (shine)’ that has been preventing you b/c of how it threatens some people you know….what if that was their own limitations projected ONTO you (and you’ve been living under the weight of those shackles)?

 

WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT; YOUR SOUL’S DESIRE (or can you make new friends)?…b/c you’re gonna have to sacrifice to change the MATTER of who you are like the butterfly emerging from the cocoon as imago; the transfigured, fully expressed.

 

YOUR SOUL TRIBE may never know or experience who you REALLY ARE because you unconsciously chose to keep living in the patterns of fear and letting the past control you.

 

Letting the LOWER MASCULINE SHADOW dictate what you can or can’t do. Letting religious or cultural programming or the perceived fears of the collective judgment or your so-called friends hold you back FROM YOUR DIVINE MISSION.

 

You. Have the POWER to still choose and then back it up with LIVING the path to transfiguration of your Avatar Starlet’s Beauty and influence. Allowing God/dess to shine and work with and through you (whether you’re physically the best looking in the room).

 

Remember; ALLURE is the future of Beauty influence…this is the TRUE glow-up work..not everyone knows it yet and your Starlet codex is the key to access your SIGNATURE celebrity branded influencer allure and erosphere for ORGANIC social media attraction response and influence.

 

So all of your saboteur’s ‘justifications’ that prevent you from YOUR DESIRES; these are all designed to KEEP YOU STUCK AND SAFE but that’s not where your STARLET lives and influences; nor your soul’s desire for fullest expression.

 

You have the power to choose consciously and then take the NEXT STEP if you’re serious about CLAIMING her in spite of your entire shadow grid.

 

By not choosing (or just letting your subconscious run the show by default), you are still choosing; the path of COMPROMISE…

 

STUCK FOR YEARS and wondering why nothing has changed meanwhile you see others living THEIR shine (secretly envious).

 

And this is all knowing that you have UNIQUE codes and Beauty to share too.

 

Will fear and your shadow-grid win? Will your soul’s beauty be limited visually to the equivalent of fugly crocs?

 

Will the world never even get to experience her and her beauty-magic and voice?!

 

If however; you say YES and CLAIM your avatar spirit codex into embodiment…if you choose to finally leave the YEARS LONG CHRYSALIS into the butterly IMAGO version of you;

 

Then you want the professional support.

 

That’s where I come in. I’m already working with 7 soul starlets on being THEIR highest version of self and resolved of scalable public image and expression issues…really emanating their beauty codes confidently (we have the leverage of STARLET here).

 

One client just sold out her entire new, branded offering FAST from the work we’ve been doing b/c she’s so aligned, facing her truth and getting the professional support. This is what we do in AvaStar monthly starlet support.

 

There’s no committed length so you can stay as long as you want ie. 1 to 27 months to ACTIVELY be on the fast-track to embodying YOUR unique divine feminine codex and starlet allure.

 

AvaStar Makeover with monthly starlet support: (limited spots available; see page for updates and availability..there’s a waiting list queue after an active 10 are live)

 

IMAGO is the VIP version of AvaStar where we do even more intensive transfiguration and breakthrough focus with LIVE TEMPLE EXPERIENCE WITH ME. Yes; it’s worth flying in internationally for.

 

If you desire more clarity on what your next move may be, why not book a 45 minute clarity consult with me (you don’t have to even have the workbook anymore if you just want more clarity about your situation and breakthrough into visibility).

 

Booking that is a next step – yes; however, it still doesn’t mean a full commitment to yourself; I simply respect where you are at in your process. It might be the next step for further clarity and exploration of your possibilities.

 

But you also might be tired of the years of (self and all) sabotage and are ready to commit to your rebirth DEBUT.

 

This is the place:

AvaStar monthly starlet support

 

The ladies in AvaStar undoubtedly have committed to themselves because that or IMAGO are the ultimate ‘next-steps’ on such a path as we prepare you for your rebirth debut.

 

This is more than just about superficial beauty influence; this is especially for ALLURING influencers and those with divine feminine Goddess codes on a path of ASCENSION influence.

 

Will you let your SOUL guide your decisions in spite of all past sabotage (warranted or not)?

 

So WILL you steer your own ship and follow Divine Will for you and your fuller expression, Beauty, influence, voice and legacy (and how others respond to that authentic Starlet version of you)?  Will you choose?

If you're still festering for additional years in the SAFETY or alleged 'process' of the cocoon...will you finally commit to follow your soul's desire to break out of it and complete the transfiguration itself?

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A Woman’s Starlet Liberation VS…Men?

Archetypes Beauty & Allure Beauty Essence Blog Soul Starlet

I played around with a few titles on this one…

 

One Of Woman’s Greatest Constrictions To Beauty: The Sophomoric, Uninitiated Shadow Masculine

 

Starlet Beauty Sabotage for Women Desiring Greater Visibility & Expression: Men?

 

(I may come up with a better title, but there be hot codes in these here hills):

 

Are Men Holding Back A Woman’s Beauty Ascension?

 

BTW; this is the more universal, collective post and in it’s sister post I’ll be speaking more directly to a woman (that’s the plan at least; check the blog).

 

In working with women on their own legitimate paths of Beauty Ascension, shameless VISIBILITY and the consciousness around it all including of her EROS (+ having mad Morpheus social awareness skillz)…

 

This is something I’ve realized and it’s brutal both towards men and the implications for millions of women because it is by and large holding Beauty Ascension back in many ways (which would benefit us all):

 

The SUM Of The Man-O-Sphere Still Couldn’t Hold Presence-Space For A True Starlet

 

By and large, they are still uninitiated in many ways and essentially sophomoric (in relation to Goddess principle) even if it’s done under religious or moral positioning.

 

Here’s an unsettling general, yet accurate truth (and yes; I encourage men to seek within their past history to cross-reference it – also b/c I have faced mine and been tribulated in relation to such Beauty):

 

I’m not referring to how the current (patriarchal pro’s and cons) set-up monetizes and capitalizes im-personally ON divine feminine beauty on a pedestal (which is divine in a sense and yet where men are the pawns and it’s a whole ‘nuther subject to refer to how men are getting left behind);

 

I’m referring to actual women, men and the real power dynamics inter-personally, socially, spiritually and sexually.

 

Yes – Men ARE getting left behind because Beauty is ascending but we’ve not even seen the real scope of it yet (well, we have and sex robots are in the stockrooms but there’s something even more profound) which is with ALLURE.

 

This is where GODDESS FRACTALS (embodied in women as more women and influencers become LIKE STARLETS) will be more and more FELT roaming the earth and how it isn’t quite yet safe enough for many women to be THAT expressed in THEIR unique codes amongst the world of men (not just on instagram with safety veneer).

 

MAN’S DESIRE TO REUNIFY WITH BEAUTY and yet the dynamics around how men are HOLDING BACK TRUE BEAUTY AND ALLURE ON THE FRONT-LINES without knowing it.

 

(Note how this post is in absentia of #metoo shaming; I’m coming in from a different angle).

 

If and when they are near such women PERSONALLY who have this divine feminine quanta-access (most valuable elixir of the universe);

 

MOST modern men cannot actually hold Presence nor SPACE not only for great Beauty, but for Starlet level of divine feminine consciousness liberated and radiantly brilliant (and the attention she gets) WITHOUT;

 

*Collapsing


*Getting stirred up existential crisis


*Ego-anger inflation


*Biological preservation mode into heated over-reaction


*Managing her


*Needing her


*Micro-managing


*Belittling


*Berating


*Questioning her (esp. about other men)


*Manipulating


*Jealousy flare-ups


*Controlling everything


*Slut-Shaming


*Checking in on her every 5 minutes


*Guilting


*Thinking of what she’s doing around others non-stop

 

…and that’s just a girlfriend or partner getting attention from regular other guys. MANY WOMEN SENSE THIS and stay away from such men, but it’s not always that easy…he may have other qualities or these may show up further down the road when it’s trickier to apparently leave a relationship.

 

In partnership for some women who have either socially valued physical looks and/or divine feminine quanta embodied and felt (allure) – it can LOOK like things are good and yet with her fuller Goddess stifled from greater expression and ‘contained’ (more like a trap);

 

Psychologically, socially and SPIRITUALLY it can feel like she’s in the deep dirt pit of the serial killer in ‘Silence of the Lambs’ (minus the killing part).

 

 

(And that’s not even to touch upon possible past TRAUMA a woman has endured that could have her armoring up around emanating her allure b/c of how other men could steal it).

 

This isn’t that ‘good frame’ that some are referring to where she feels ‘contained’ in a relative safe sense to unwind.

 

MEN; IS YOUR CONTAINER (or ‘frame’) ALLOWING HER GODDESS TO BLOSSOM or entirely constricting it without you being aware of it?

 

I’m speaking to the men collapse into a ball of anxiety around an embodied goddess.

 

She is with a man whose frame doesn’t allow her Goddess codes to blossom and be felt and seen on a greater level.

In this scenario (which is common); he can hardly contain or control if he would lose that smaller container he holds around her (cage).

 

It feels like her greater beauty (and Starlet codex) is shackled from greater expression and she justifies it away; especially if she has kids, you know because…responsibility and prevention of further judgment and shaming.

 

But what if his response stemmed from a deeper fracture of Holy Grail Divine Union principle; that the God in him doesn’t know HOW to relate to impossible Beauty and fears losing his only connection TO the grail so he will do anything to protect it (without realizing how toxic it can be for both of them)?

 

There’s something fascinating about how man’s biological drive and urge to know he’s the father (an authentic concern) can become REALLY TOXIC and end up suppressing many women for years or decades from their own greater expression.

 

If she has great Beauty or the attention of Starlet (or STEPS INTO IT); MOST modern men completely lose their power and sanity in all kinds of forms of juvenile desperation = for he is ATTACHED.

 

The entire relationship is limited to his lesser ability to hold space for her TRUE BEAUTY which seeks expression (which may also mean more ATTENTION) and that may THREATEN his current level of ego and self-comfort. He is attached.

 

And attachment leads to suffering; unfort. for both of them. So he will join in on guilting and shaming women for being sexual esp. after they are mothers.

 

He’ll join in on the morality police parade while still secretly harboring great fantasies (and hypocrisy) towards women; desiring them yet shaming their expression.

 

In these cases; Her Starlet is NOT in relation to a Star who has the level of DETACHMENT so Her Goddess and EROS can BREATHE and flow with MORE NURTURANCE FOR BOTH OF THEM; let alone UP-TUNE into Goddess with that level to divine masculine consciousness – or even start to breathe again after years of suppression in relation to a mortal man’s wounded ego.

 

She instead is stifled living like his underwear is stuff in her mouth (but not in a good way).

 

Her Starlet or really; her own unique divine feminine CODEX that would bring out INFINITE BEAUTY in her unique expression is stunted from ever developing b/c of the masculine she is in relationship to (or that is living out within her still). (This is also where Divine Union Holy Grail alchemy comes in for breakthrough into Starlet).

 

Such women are often in relation to a juvenile man-child who doesn’t have the Power to relate to that level of Beauty nor allow it so he does what he can to stay attached under the guise of ‘morals’.

 

Well; it’s a real issue because the entire collective culture both desires and yet shames eros. It wants to control the most valuable resource b/c it doesn’t know any other way.

 

Women who are stuck in such relationships where he is controlling, envious, etc. and her Goddess codex can barely breathe is one of great suppression even if he has other redeeming attributes. She can’t even dress up too much around him.

 

Even in partnership for years; such a man is NOT her Immortal Beloved for her Immortal Beloved would be able to hold space and PRESENCE for her fuller Goddess/Starlet expression, Beauty and Presence to unfurl and radiate without constriction (b/c he would rely on their agreement together more than his shadows getting triggered).

 

And it’s embedded throughout the manosphere including podcasts like ‘Whatever’ with Brian Atlas and Andrew Wilson (professional debater); how their masculine consciousness is limited and at it’s best SEEMS virtuous b/c the man biologically is driven to know he is the father.

 

More often than not, it stems from a deeper tenuous thread that is ready to snap;

 

Because of their deep existential fear of man around facing true Beauty or Goddess; they controlling or appearing to control women with this level of collective desire and they’ll often do it under the guise and moral superiority of the biological protector role which (and many women know) can slip into shadow and ends up constricting her in all dimensions from BREATHING and being expressed in her beauty and essence itself.

 

This can be suffocating to so many women if they are stuck in this dynamic…and it’s not just him..it’s MOST MEN and most of the collective society and their weird double standards.

 

They are simply not star and starlet.

 

He can’t give her the freedom to be in her fullest beauty (which requires DETACHMENT) nor can she BE in her deepest beauty or even know what that could be like. It could actually be ONE MAN that is key to preventing her entire STARLET.

Here’s the thing; THE BIO-DRIVE to PROTECT a woman and preserve her ‘as his’ so in the sperm wars his bloodline is a real thing.

 

HOW it plays out though more often than not ends up being straight up shadow male behavior when she has the collective’s eye. He wants to keep her close yet has an electric-dog wire zapper on her collar so to speak.

 

So the Whatever podcast is famous for guilting and shaming OF women and the like but perpetually stuck in this lower state of masculine consciousness which on a deep primordial level is essentially fearful of true Beauty itself and what it would reflect back to him if he were unable to hold Presence with Her (which he simply cannot); so they do what they can from their level of consciousness and inability to hold TEMPLE SPACE FOR TRUE BEAUTY.

 

And if he can’t belittle or control it; he secretly is #anxiousaf…it’s an existential fear; that he would never be worthy to reunify with the divine feminine as Lover.

 

So I’ve been reflecting upon this and what’s holding a lot of women back from stepping into more public visibility with their unique divine feminine codex and MUCH of what can sabotage it (there are many reasons) but for some, much of that is simply a pre-dominant man in their life who simply cannot handle that level of Beauty, status and power if she were to be liberated in her soul’s greater desire to be that radiant.

 

(I had to go through my OWN process on this Star path).

 

There’s a whole different level of the game and it crosses over with TEMPLE SPACE as well as STAR consciousness and the LEVEL of TRUE DETACHMENT it requires to be PRESENT with GREAT BEAUTY without trying to control, manipulate, shame, suppress, dominate, guilt, micro-manage or own it even one IOTA. I am familiar with all of this for many reasons and with great experience (I work with beautiful women all the time and HOLD TEMPLE SPACE WHICH REQUIRES TRUE HEALTHY SANCTITY AND LIBERATION FROM ANY SELFISH AGENDA OR PSYCHIC HOOKS).

 

This ‘greater game’ (really the HOLY GRAIL ITSELF) is about Power and Beauty itself and what levels of PRESENCE it actually takes to simply BE WITH and RELATE to true Power and Beauty without any hooks or grabs psychically, emotionally or otherwise of manipulation and so forth (and yes; shadow feminine is also notorious for manipulating men in ways too, but we’re not going there now).

 

So; much of the great WARFARE is really about Beauty or Essence and ‘control of resources’ in pop culture that it’s rare for BEAUTY to just be FREE let alone MET in masculine consciousness that simply lets Her BE and have space without a smidgen of expectation. MOST MEN ATTACH INSTANTLY and get all weird to great beauty. THEY SIPHON psychically and want to drain her. Eww.

 

And in reflecting on all of this (Star/let Codes revisited);

 

I realize it makes more sense now how and why my STAR archetype is actually so vital and CENTRAL to who I am and the work I do; yes IN TEMPLE SPACE.

 

I’m already working with soul starlets and the common theme is that I consistently HOLD SPACE; TEMPLE SPACE without judgment for whatever they’re going through and I guess it helps I’m so attuned to Beloved and the levels of DETACHMENT she’s had me go through to dissolve all of these sneaky subconscious vampiric ways that even I used to have; psychic micro-moves of control or siphoning towards women.

And men if this has been you; it’s something worth contemplating.

 

COULD YOU DETACH MORE and simply rely upon your AGREEMENT? How much space could you hold without getting internally triggered that she could trust you?

 

Could you allow her ESSENCE BREATHING ROOM to cultivate her own unique signature Goddess or Starlet codes to BE SEEN without it threatening your ego or biology?

 

Can you see how and where you’ve been toxic in the past? I’m not talking about taking away your primal desire or shaming that whatsoever; it’s more about integrating your Dark power but with healthy DETACHMENT and PRESENCE b/c that’s what leads to more respect and POSSIBLE (non-expected) attractions and connection with great Beauty.

 

Remember; we’re not even speaking to a woman ‘cheating’…instead, it’s all the delusional fantasy within the shadow of man that she would that he ends up in toxic behavior because he doesn’t know how to be PRESENT with that level of Beauty or her status and attention. (I had SOME of those tendencies in the past that I’ve worked through)>

 

He’s not a star. Healthy STAR consciousness is rare and actually very TEMPLAR. DIVINE (put aside that stars and starlets have their own individual shadows and that we PROJECT collective shadows onto stars; I’m talking archetypal Star and Starlet).

 

If you want to cultivate your Starlet, your Immortal Beloved may indeed have STAR codes or at least enlightened detachment that relates to all dimension including SOCIALLY.

 

See; the higher level of ‘the game’ of Power and Beauty in actual partnership doesn’t come down to the inability (and shadows therewithin) to hold Presence with such Beauty; it’s actually about being able to hold equivalent space for it (which itself is a form of true power) >>> WITH AGREEMENT.

 

IT’S ACTUALLY ABOUT AGREEMENT between two beings who hold Star and Starlet power; desired by the collective.

 

This is what most consumer manosphere broskis cannot fathom whatsoever. That an MGK could allow his Starlet partner (or ‘x’ partner) of Megan Fox to be a starlet and that actually EMPOWERS their relationship.

 

 

Or that Jay-Z could allow Beyonce to shine like that. It’s DETACHMENT but with AGREEMENT (to each other n their own boundaries).

 

Essentially;

 

NO ONE ELSE HAS DETACHMENT…it’s attachment or other forms of shadows like judgment, control, envy, hatred, jealousy, etc.

 

Men are all wanting something from her and she can sense it a mile away, thus it’s hard to actually RELAX around humans in person (even though there are social-meta advantages to it all; the whole Pussaliah dynamic).

 

IMAGINE JUST PURE TEMPLE-GRADE DETACHMENT AND SPACE FOR BEAUTY TO EXIST, BREATHE, THRIVE. THAT is what I provide but I’ve been on the path and have HAD TO step into these greater levels in relation to great Beauty through great annihilation and rebirth of Sacred Union.

 

Soon people are going to start SEEING how beautiful women are attracted to me socially (in simply being able to HOLD SPACE without agenda or expectation) and it has to do with TEMPLE-GRADE AUTHENTIC DETACHMENT.

 

I’ve brought this up before; how there can be goddesses but we’re socially not allowed to have gods but that’s who can meet them (referring to the healthy embodied not ego-driven).

 

In the work that I do, I realized (and with reflection from clients) that I already provide incredibly rare space for them at any level of beauty or status socially that is TRUSTABLE without expectation (and remember; I had to do my work on all of this). I MUST provide that space and the tantra training alone put me through the ringer to detach.

 

And you know what? The women themselves ARE the greatest caliber-gauge of that. Socially speaking and evolutionarily; the most powerful and beautiful people are the most psychically sensitive and attuned anyways; discerning to people who have any psychic signs of control.

 

This is about a woman stepping into her greater expression and beauty SAFELY (and having that ideally constellated within with her Beloved) but at least allowing her Goddess, Avatar or Starlet Codex of siddhic, gift, elemental, archetypal and soul value signatures to shine radiantly as temple-grade beauty itself.

AND…it’s a lesson for a lot of men of what’s possible; he who DESIRES beauty and worthiness with it…the journey to dissolve all neediness, expectations, triggering and to be powerful in detachment.

 

I’ve realized that I HAVE TO BE AMONGST THE MOST DETACHED MEN IN THE WORLD b/c I’m literally on the front-lines of Beauty Ascension.

 

I will (continue to) provide SIMPLE PRESENT-SPACE for unlimited Beauty and the CURATION, the cultivation of literal STARLET CONSCIOUSNESS in the world. A haven for starlets (and that’s what I offer with the on-going AvaStar monthly starlet support).

 

I am attuned literally to GODDESSES because this is the kind of work I do and part of MY journey of the holy grail (and tbh; bufo has been helping attune me to God-Star space with great Beauty even more).

 

So back to women who are suffering forms of divine feminine STIFLING, MITIGATION, SUPPRESSION, OPPRESSION including (and especially) EROTICALLY (and how sophomoric the majority of the manosphere and Western male consciousness is towards it all);

 

I do have to say that I’m going to do another blog post that addresses this more specifically b/c it might be ONE MAN or one past-known relationship that is making you feel somatically UNSAFE to be SEEN in your GODDESS and EROS CODES…to truly be seen and experienced…so remember that STARLET is unsiphonable divine feminine transfiguration of your Avatar/Goddess codex which we can work on directly in AvaStar.

 

This work is very powerful for fast transformation in just getting more clarity like in the now extended, 45 minute Codex Clarity Call with me ($100 retainer or more and IF available).

 

We just have to get more clarity on what is specifically stopping YOU from being seen and your relationship to less than divine masculine consciousness (at Star levels of TEMPLE-GRADE SIDDHIC DETACHMENT PRESENCE liberated from ALL expectation, micro-managing, jealousy, hooking-on siphoning, etc.) is quite likely an un-safe culprit.

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Your Key to Divine Self-Actualization: Your Goddess or Avatar Codex?

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Imagine…a Master Key From (lower) self-Actualization to Self-Actualization for the Western Woman

 


If you are seeking deeper, rich satisfaction and fulfillment from life (esp. if you’re a Western woman); imagine if you had the ultimate compass that would centralize and pull everything together?

 

I mean; there’s something to be said about how many Westerners are ‘searching’ and seeking to find what really resonates.

 

But let’s focus on the big picture of self-actualization itself.

 

What I’m referring to is Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and how ‘self-actualization’ is at the top of the pyramid.

 

 


Once you have lower needs fulfilled, there’s more ability, value and capability to focus on the ultimate of self-actualization. This is what a lot of our lives have become about; and seeking deeper meaning.

 

It could be said that ‘personal growth’ and ‘spirituality’ is about this.

 

For some it’s raising a family alone that (at least for a while fulfills their greater purpose or meaning).

 

It could also be said that your greater purpose or dharma is a key to self-actualization and that may be accurate.

 

But let’s look at the ‘self’ vs. the greater concept of ‘Self’. The lower, egoic persona or conditioned ‘self’ may not actually be best suited to make the greater decisions that lead to actualization of your fuller potential.

 

WHAT IF…your greater ‘Self’ was your soul (and Spirit-matrix) instead of persona? What if that was your true identity and more specifically what if you could include SPIRIT ITSELF as part of your grander definition of ‘Self’ and ‘Self’ consciousness?

 

See how different that already is?

 

Because what I’m referring to is the possibility of the MASTER KEY to your ULTIMATE ‘Self-actualization’ now being more Goddess consciousness related.

 

If you’ve been keeping up with the plethora of Starlet and Codex related posts, I think you have an idea where this is headed.

 

What if your Self-actualization was how God/Goddess in Spirit wanted to work with and through you at an identity level of consciousness (and in ALL dimensions including socially and financially in the modern world)?

 

What if you could find the DEEPEST fulfillment in this?

 

This is what I’m proposing…where your ultimate master key or COMPASS to ‘Self’ actualization (which includes your Heart, Spirit, Sex and Soul and not merely egoic identity) could be your CODEX.

 

Now; a lot of people (or let’s say Western women) end up finding their Codex non-consciously without being aware of what it is but they find ‘the zone’ they live in that brings THEM fulfillment in all levels like say Lady Gaga or Mei-lan Maurits or Jessica Alba.

 

In other words, I’m proposing a conscious awareness of your Goddess Codex.

 

You could also call it your Avatar Codex but I’ve been referring to it MOST often as the Star/let Codex with a focus on those who are meant to be in divine PUBLIC service and visibility with their codes. YOU can choose what you want to call your Avatar Codex.

 

Your Goddess or Starlet Codex is the unique constellation of divine feminine qualities of SPIRIT, elemental, siddhic, soul value and Light and Dark qualities which comprise the core SPIRITUAL landscape of your soul most accurately and it can consciously include your spiritual purpose as well if you know it.

 

So what if your PATH to ultimate ‘Self-actualization’ (the divine making itself aware and realizing itself within you) was with your Goddess or Starlet Codex?

 

Because these are already the qualities of Love, Beauty, Spirit, Archetypes and Reunified, siddhic consciousness that your soul already resonates with the most. You just get CLARITY on them by going through the ‘My Star Codex’ workbook v1.1 with me as your guide.

 


Then it’s about accessing, accepting and INTEGRATING those qualities ; that special constellation of spirit and essence truth INTO your embodiment and identity itself.

 

Where you shift from the current name based egoic lower self identity with your subconscious shadows, programs and conditioning into a grander template of ‘Self’ (Divine Self) consciousness into embodiment.

 

Where you soul is painted and amplified by these qualities of immortal divine feminine mystical beauty and consciousness itself LIKE Empress, Maiden, Vixen, etc. (whatever YOUR most resonant archetypes are).

 

If you already know that you’re not on a path of Divine Union (some are); I think EMBODYING your Starlet or ‘Goddess’ Codex is a very, very powerful path of Self-actualization (and thus emotional, sexual, psychic, spiritual recognition, satisfaction, growth and fulfillment with it) because the amplification of your ‘ego’ itself usually only leads to problems as well as often disconnection or non-consciousness in the areas OF Heart, Sex, Psyche, Spirit and Soul.

 

Through other paths that don’t reach the core of your TRUE beauty and identity; you simply may wander down less meaningful roads and take years of times but working with your soul identity; you’re CENTERED on what you value the most.

 

Your Avatar Codex represents those divine qualities that your soul resonates with the most.

 

It paints the ultimate version of you and yes – includes your Gene Key spectrum of consciousness beauty essences of siddhic qualities. This can include becoming WORTHY to heal and integrate Holy Daughter if you’ve had trauma in the past or taking on that STARLET worthiness if you’ve had visibility wounding.

 

It’s all with this work and the archetypal feminine (with your expanded soul-based definition of ‘Self’ and ‘self’).

 

So if you are living in burnout or just a lot of LACK of recognition and frustration, bitterness even depression…what could lead to the ultimate Self-actualization could simply be a path of transformation with your Goddess or Starlet Codex (esp. if you’ve had a lot of shadows and wounding that the divine archetypal feminine doesn’t have).

 

To help with this process of clarity as a prime path of Self-actualization (of Goddess realizing Herself with and through your soul identity uniquely to YOUR most multi-dimensionally fulfilling experience), I would get clarity on your Starlet Codex itself.

 

Again; YOU can call it something else but it’s still the exact same concept. Marketing-wise I’m speaking more to those who know they must be seen as an influencer on a larger scale with their codes so I mostly speak to the Starlet angle.

 

The workbook guides you through it.

 

And once you have clarity on YOUR exact Codex; then it’s about BECOMING HER and preparing your temple body and doing the work to embody and express Her; your soul’s path of unique Divine Actualization. And to help with THAT, we have the Avatar Star/let Makeover monthly starlet support (also for those with an Avatar or Goddess Codex).

 

You may find that the answers don’t really lie within personal growth and passive spirituality; it may be with your soul’s unique desires and the archetypal and siddhic consciousness spectrum across the board; that which is most divinely uniquely resonant with your Heart, Sex and Soul. Your Avatar/Starlet Codex covers and represents it all.

 

Get clarity on YOUR Codex here if you don’t have the workbook yet (and if even available): My Goddess / Starlet Codex Workbook v1.1


-Rion

 

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