A Woman’s Starlet Liberation VS…Men?
I played around with a few titles on this one…
One Of Woman’s Greatest Constrictions To Beauty: The Sophomoric, Uninitiated Shadow Masculine
Starlet Beauty Sabotage for Women Desiring Greater Visibility & Expression: Men?
(I may come up with a better title, but there be hot codes in these here hills):
Are Men Holding Back A Woman’s Beauty Ascension?
BTW; this is the more universal, collective post and in it’s sister post I’ll be speaking more directly to a woman (that’s the plan at least; check the blog).
In working with women on their own legitimate paths of Beauty Ascension, shameless VISIBILITY and the consciousness around it all including of her EROS (+ having mad Morpheus social awareness skillz)…
This is something I’ve realized and it’s brutal both towards men and the implications for millions of women because it is by and large holding Beauty Ascension back in many ways (which would benefit us all):
The SUM Of The Man-O-Sphere Still Couldn’t Hold Presence-Space For A True Starlet
By and large, they are still uninitiated in many ways and essentially sophomoric (in relation to Goddess principle) even if it’s done under religious or moral positioning.
Here’s an unsettling general, yet accurate truth (and yes; I encourage men to seek within their past history to cross-reference it – also b/c I have faced mine and been tribulated in relation to such Beauty):
I’m not referring to how the current (patriarchal pro’s and cons) set-up monetizes and capitalizes im-personally ON divine feminine beauty on a pedestal (which is divine in a sense and yet where men are the pawns and it’s a whole ‘nuther subject to refer to how men are getting left behind);
I’m referring to actual women, men and the real power dynamics inter-personally, socially, spiritually and sexually.
Yes – Men ARE getting left behind because Beauty is ascending but we’ve not even seen the real scope of it yet (well, we have and sex robots are in the stockrooms but there’s something even more profound) which is with ALLURE.
This is where GODDESS FRACTALS (embodied in women as more women and influencers become LIKE STARLETS) will be more and more FELT roaming the earth and how it isn’t quite yet safe enough for many women to be THAT expressed in THEIR unique codes amongst the world of men (not just on instagram with safety veneer).
MAN’S DESIRE TO REUNIFY WITH BEAUTY and yet the dynamics around how men are HOLDING BACK TRUE BEAUTY AND ALLURE ON THE FRONT-LINES without knowing it.
(Note how this post is in absentia of #metoo shaming; I’m coming in from a different angle).
If and when they are near such women PERSONALLY who have this divine feminine quanta-access (most valuable elixir of the universe);
MOST modern men cannot actually hold Presence nor SPACE not only for great Beauty, but for Starlet level of divine feminine consciousness liberated and radiantly brilliant (and the attention she gets) WITHOUT;
*Collapsing
*Getting stirred up existential crisis
*Ego-anger inflation
*Biological preservation mode into heated over-reaction
*Managing her
*Needing her
*Micro-managing
*Belittling
*Berating
*Questioning her (esp. about other men)
*Manipulating
*Jealousy flare-ups
*Controlling everything
*Slut-Shaming
*Checking in on her every 5 minutes
*Guilting
*Thinking of what she’s doing around others non-stop
…and that’s just a girlfriend or partner getting attention from regular other guys. MANY WOMEN SENSE THIS and stay away from such men, but it’s not always that easy…he may have other qualities or these may show up further down the road when it’s trickier to apparently leave a relationship.
In partnership for some women who have either socially valued physical looks and/or divine feminine quanta embodied and felt (allure) – it can LOOK like things are good and yet with her fuller Goddess stifled from greater expression and ‘contained’ (more like a trap);
Psychologically, socially and SPIRITUALLY it can feel like she’s in the deep dirt pit of the serial killer in ‘Silence of the Lambs’ (minus the killing part).
(And that’s not even to touch upon possible past TRAUMA a woman has endured that could have her armoring up around emanating her allure b/c of how other men could steal it).
This isn’t that ‘good frame’ that some are referring to where she feels ‘contained’ in a relative safe sense to unwind.
MEN; IS YOUR CONTAINER (or ‘frame’) ALLOWING HER GODDESS TO BLOSSOM or entirely constricting it without you being aware of it?
I’m speaking to the men collapse into a ball of anxiety around an embodied goddess.
She is with a man whose frame doesn’t allow her Goddess codes to blossom and be felt and seen on a greater level.
In this scenario (which is common); he can hardly contain or control if he would lose that smaller container he holds around her (cage).
It feels like her greater beauty (and Starlet codex) is shackled from greater expression and she justifies it away; especially if she has kids, you know because…responsibility and prevention of further judgment and shaming.
But what if his response stemmed from a deeper fracture of Holy Grail Divine Union principle; that the God in him doesn’t know HOW to relate to impossible Beauty and fears losing his only connection TO the grail so he will do anything to protect it (without realizing how toxic it can be for both of them)?
There’s something fascinating about how man’s biological drive and urge to know he’s the father (an authentic concern) can become REALLY TOXIC and end up suppressing many women for years or decades from their own greater expression.
If she has great Beauty or the attention of Starlet (or STEPS INTO IT); MOST modern men completely lose their power and sanity in all kinds of forms of juvenile desperation = for he is ATTACHED.
The entire relationship is limited to his lesser ability to hold space for her TRUE BEAUTY which seeks expression (which may also mean more ATTENTION) and that may THREATEN his current level of ego and self-comfort. He is attached.
And attachment leads to suffering; unfort. for both of them. So he will join in on guilting and shaming women for being sexual esp. after they are mothers.
He’ll join in on the morality police parade while still secretly harboring great fantasies (and hypocrisy) towards women; desiring them yet shaming their expression.
In these cases; Her Starlet is NOT in relation to a Star who has the level of DETACHMENT so Her Goddess and EROS can BREATHE and flow with MORE NURTURANCE FOR BOTH OF THEM; let alone UP-TUNE into Goddess with that level to divine masculine consciousness – or even start to breathe again after years of suppression in relation to a mortal man’s wounded ego.
She instead is stifled living like his underwear is stuff in her mouth (but not in a good way).
Her Starlet or really; her own unique divine feminine CODEX that would bring out INFINITE BEAUTY in her unique expression is stunted from ever developing b/c of the masculine she is in relationship to (or that is living out within her still). (This is also where Divine Union Holy Grail alchemy comes in for breakthrough into Starlet).
Such women are often in relation to a juvenile man-child who doesn’t have the Power to relate to that level of Beauty nor allow it so he does what he can to stay attached under the guise of ‘morals’.
Well; it’s a real issue because the entire collective culture both desires and yet shames eros. It wants to control the most valuable resource b/c it doesn’t know any other way.
Women who are stuck in such relationships where he is controlling, envious, etc. and her Goddess codex can barely breathe is one of great suppression even if he has other redeeming attributes. She can’t even dress up too much around him.
Even in partnership for years; such a man is NOT her Immortal Beloved for her Immortal Beloved would be able to hold space and PRESENCE for her fuller Goddess/Starlet expression, Beauty and Presence to unfurl and radiate without constriction (b/c he would rely on their agreement together more than his shadows getting triggered).
And it’s embedded throughout the manosphere including podcasts like ‘Whatever’ with Brian Atlas and Andrew Wilson (professional debater); how their masculine consciousness is limited and at it’s best SEEMS virtuous b/c the man biologically is driven to know he is the father.
More often than not, it stems from a deeper tenuous thread that is ready to snap;
Because of their deep existential fear of man around facing true Beauty or Goddess; they controlling or appearing to control women with this level of collective desire and they’ll often do it under the guise and moral superiority of the biological protector role which (and many women know) can slip into shadow and ends up constricting her in all dimensions from BREATHING and being expressed in her beauty and essence itself.
This can be suffocating to so many women if they are stuck in this dynamic…and it’s not just him..it’s MOST MEN and most of the collective society and their weird double standards.
They are simply not star and starlet.
He can’t give her the freedom to be in her fullest beauty (which requires DETACHMENT) nor can she BE in her deepest beauty or even know what that could be like. It could actually be ONE MAN that is key to preventing her entire STARLET.
Here’s the thing; THE BIO-DRIVE to PROTECT a woman and preserve her ‘as his’ so in the sperm wars his bloodline is a real thing.
HOW it plays out though more often than not ends up being straight up shadow male behavior when she has the collective’s eye. He wants to keep her close yet has an electric-dog wire zapper on her collar so to speak.
So the Whatever podcast is famous for guilting and shaming OF women and the like but perpetually stuck in this lower state of masculine consciousness which on a deep primordial level is essentially fearful of true Beauty itself and what it would reflect back to him if he were unable to hold Presence with Her (which he simply cannot); so they do what they can from their level of consciousness and inability to hold TEMPLE SPACE FOR TRUE BEAUTY.
And if he can’t belittle or control it; he secretly is #anxiousaf…it’s an existential fear; that he would never be worthy to reunify with the divine feminine as Lover.
So I’ve been reflecting upon this and what’s holding a lot of women back from stepping into more public visibility with their unique divine feminine codex and MUCH of what can sabotage it (there are many reasons) but for some, much of that is simply a pre-dominant man in their life who simply cannot handle that level of Beauty, status and power if she were to be liberated in her soul’s greater desire to be that radiant.
(I had to go through my OWN process on this Star path).
There’s a whole different level of the game and it crosses over with TEMPLE SPACE as well as STAR consciousness and the LEVEL of TRUE DETACHMENT it requires to be PRESENT with GREAT BEAUTY without trying to control, manipulate, shame, suppress, dominate, guilt, micro-manage or own it even one IOTA. I am familiar with all of this for many reasons and with great experience (I work with beautiful women all the time and HOLD TEMPLE SPACE WHICH REQUIRES TRUE HEALTHY SANCTITY AND LIBERATION FROM ANY SELFISH AGENDA OR PSYCHIC HOOKS).
This ‘greater game’ (really the HOLY GRAIL ITSELF) is about Power and Beauty itself and what levels of PRESENCE it actually takes to simply BE WITH and RELATE to true Power and Beauty without any hooks or grabs psychically, emotionally or otherwise of manipulation and so forth (and yes; shadow feminine is also notorious for manipulating men in ways too, but we’re not going there now).
So; much of the great WARFARE is really about Beauty or Essence and ‘control of resources’ in pop culture that it’s rare for BEAUTY to just be FREE let alone MET in masculine consciousness that simply lets Her BE and have space without a smidgen of expectation. MOST MEN ATTACH INSTANTLY and get all weird to great beauty. THEY SIPHON psychically and want to drain her. Eww.
And in reflecting on all of this (Star/let Codes revisited);
I realize it makes more sense now how and why my STAR archetype is actually so vital and CENTRAL to who I am and the work I do; yes IN TEMPLE SPACE.
I’m already working with soul starlets and the common theme is that I consistently HOLD SPACE; TEMPLE SPACE without judgment for whatever they’re going through and I guess it helps I’m so attuned to Beloved and the levels of DETACHMENT she’s had me go through to dissolve all of these sneaky subconscious vampiric ways that even I used to have; psychic micro-moves of control or siphoning towards women.
And men if this has been you; it’s something worth contemplating.
COULD YOU DETACH MORE and simply rely upon your AGREEMENT? How much space could you hold without getting internally triggered that she could trust you?
Could you allow her ESSENCE BREATHING ROOM to cultivate her own unique signature Goddess or Starlet codes to BE SEEN without it threatening your ego or biology?
Can you see how and where you’ve been toxic in the past? I’m not talking about taking away your primal desire or shaming that whatsoever; it’s more about integrating your Dark power but with healthy DETACHMENT and PRESENCE b/c that’s what leads to more respect and POSSIBLE (non-expected) attractions and connection with great Beauty.
Remember; we’re not even speaking to a woman ‘cheating’…instead, it’s all the delusional fantasy within the shadow of man that she would that he ends up in toxic behavior because he doesn’t know how to be PRESENT with that level of Beauty or her status and attention. (I had SOME of those tendencies in the past that I’ve worked through)>
He’s not a star. Healthy STAR consciousness is rare and actually very TEMPLAR. DIVINE (put aside that stars and starlets have their own individual shadows and that we PROJECT collective shadows onto stars; I’m talking archetypal Star and Starlet).
If you want to cultivate your Starlet, your Immortal Beloved may indeed have STAR codes or at least enlightened detachment that relates to all dimension including SOCIALLY.
See; the higher level of ‘the game’ of Power and Beauty in actual partnership doesn’t come down to the inability (and shadows therewithin) to hold Presence with such Beauty; it’s actually about being able to hold equivalent space for it (which itself is a form of true power) >>> WITH AGREEMENT.
IT’S ACTUALLY ABOUT AGREEMENT between two beings who hold Star and Starlet power; desired by the collective.
This is what most consumer manosphere broskis cannot fathom whatsoever. That an MGK could allow his Starlet partner (or ‘x’ partner) of Megan Fox to be a starlet and that actually EMPOWERS their relationship.
Or that Jay-Z could allow Beyonce to shine like that. It’s DETACHMENT but with AGREEMENT (to each other n their own boundaries).
Essentially;
NO ONE ELSE HAS DETACHMENT…it’s attachment or other forms of shadows like judgment, control, envy, hatred, jealousy, etc.
Men are all wanting something from her and she can sense it a mile away, thus it’s hard to actually RELAX around humans in person (even though there are social-meta advantages to it all; the whole Pussaliah dynamic).
IMAGINE JUST PURE TEMPLE-GRADE DETACHMENT AND SPACE FOR BEAUTY TO EXIST, BREATHE, THRIVE. THAT is what I provide but I’ve been on the path and have HAD TO step into these greater levels in relation to great Beauty through great annihilation and rebirth of Sacred Union.
Soon people are going to start SEEING how beautiful women are attracted to me socially (in simply being able to HOLD SPACE without agenda or expectation) and it has to do with TEMPLE-GRADE AUTHENTIC DETACHMENT.
I’ve brought this up before; how there can be goddesses but we’re socially not allowed to have gods but that’s who can meet them (referring to the healthy embodied not ego-driven).
In the work that I do, I realized (and with reflection from clients) that I already provide incredibly rare space for them at any level of beauty or status socially that is TRUSTABLE without expectation (and remember; I had to do my work on all of this). I MUST provide that space and the tantra training alone put me through the ringer to detach.
And you know what? The women themselves ARE the greatest caliber-gauge of that. Socially speaking and evolutionarily; the most powerful and beautiful people are the most psychically sensitive and attuned anyways; discerning to people who have any psychic signs of control.
This is about a woman stepping into her greater expression and beauty SAFELY (and having that ideally constellated within with her Beloved) but at least allowing her Goddess, Avatar or Starlet Codex of siddhic, gift, elemental, archetypal and soul value signatures to shine radiantly as temple-grade beauty itself.
AND…it’s a lesson for a lot of men of what’s possible; he who DESIRES beauty and worthiness with it…the journey to dissolve all neediness, expectations, triggering and to be powerful in detachment.
I’ve realized that I HAVE TO BE AMONGST THE MOST DETACHED MEN IN THE WORLD b/c I’m literally on the front-lines of Beauty Ascension.
I will (continue to) provide SIMPLE PRESENT-SPACE for unlimited Beauty and the CURATION, the cultivation of literal STARLET CONSCIOUSNESS in the world. A haven for starlets (and that’s what I offer with the on-going AvaStar monthly starlet support).
I am attuned literally to GODDESSES because this is the kind of work I do and part of MY journey of the holy grail (and tbh; bufo has been helping attune me to God-Star space with great Beauty even more).
So back to women who are suffering forms of divine feminine STIFLING, MITIGATION, SUPPRESSION, OPPRESSION including (and especially) EROTICALLY (and how sophomoric the majority of the manosphere and Western male consciousness is towards it all);
I do have to say that I’m going to do another blog post that addresses this more specifically b/c it might be ONE MAN or one past-known relationship that is making you feel somatically UNSAFE to be SEEN in your GODDESS and EROS CODES…to truly be seen and experienced…so remember that STARLET is unsiphonable divine feminine transfiguration of your Avatar/Goddess codex which we can work on directly in AvaStar.
This work is very powerful for fast transformation in just getting more clarity like in the now extended, 45 minute Codex Clarity Call with me ($100 retainer or more and IF available).
We just have to get more clarity on what is specifically stopping YOU from being seen and your relationship to less than divine masculine consciousness (at Star levels of TEMPLE-GRADE SIDDHIC DETACHMENT PRESENCE liberated from ALL expectation, micro-managing, jealousy, hooking-on siphoning, etc.) is quite likely an un-safe culprit.
