Overcoming Heavy Visibility Wound Shadows With…Dance?

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…and other Power Insights to help bring out your charisma or allure to have more engagement and social media RESPONSE.

 

If you HATE the idea of ‘dance’, trust me…

 

This is even MORE reason NOT to disconnect here…

 

I was held back for literal YEARS and YEARS (charismatically and stuck in shadow-grid fear) because of certain shadow grid dynamics related to this which may also be affecting you from FASTER transfiguration.

 

If someone said the term ‘ecstatic dance’ or invited me, I would CRINGE and recoil up inside of my body. I’m not kidding. If you are OPEN with dance, you may not be using it like you could for your allure.

 

This is an important POWER post here b/c we’re going to cover a lot of ground related to accelerating your path to CONFIDENT, secure, embodiment and overcoming some of the MAJOR self-sabotage patterns to being seen and powerfully magnetic (as I continue this open mini-series on shadows and struggles to BEING SEEN and activating Star or Starlet codes in your unique codex; living by example with my transfiguration).

 

Considering my background of severe public speaking anxiety (of which I have improved upon by hosting small scale retreats and workshops), I’ve still dealt with heavy IMAGE and self-image anxieties, the fugly duckling and other major sabotage for YEARS to fully being EXPRESSED and seen.

 

But let’s fast forward a bit for now;

 

That I’ve recently broken through myself with ESSENCE + dance with stable enough charisma factor is huge b/c this is already a secret to billions of views out there and you can find YOUR way of replicating it OR at least as using dance as a practical CHANNEL to open up your own charisma or allure.

 

Ok…there’s actually a lot of Star/let codes and overcoming visibility woundedness in here FAST im practicum (not just theory), so check it out…

 

Ok so here’s that recent IG video of me semi-awkwardly pre-dancing for the world. I’m honestly not even as triggered by it and my CRUSTY dance skillz b/c I’ve reached the IDEALIZED ZONE OF baseline CHARISMA COMMUNICATION…essences are OPEN and flowing and I know that THIS is more important than my previous self-sabotage and crippling anxieties. Check it out:

 

Same link also here: INXS ‘New Sensation’ Rion

 

 

BECAUSE I’m more feelable, I’m getting HEALTHY engagement and response on Instagram and facebook (while further starting to PROVE and live the concept of charisma itself).

 

Oh and the NEXT instagram essence or dance video is getting even heavier into the ROCKSTAR archetype with a legendary rock song; a mix of the Erosphere + Dance blend concept of creating an experience showcasing fun/charisma (you might want to do something similar in a format with YOUR codes for your circle). You can follow me on IG here:

 

https://www.instagram.com/rion_kati/

 

BTW as part of your overall DEBUT and identity transformation and branding process;

 

MUSIC can do WONDERS to help YOU attune into and embody your own (different) archetypal codex. This is premium BRANDING and identity MARKETING stuff of authentic goodness here. It’s all about letting myself/yourself be FELT and seen in y/our TRUTH and highlighting aspects of it authentically…

 

Especially if it’s a weaker yet CRITICAL archetype to (fulfill) your PUBLIC soul service, you have to have ways to practically access, bridge, embody and EXPRESS that divine signature (whether it’s Queen or a shift in how people are experiencing you to recalibrate more of where you’re at to something more fun or more serious or more Dark, an archetype you’ve been honestly terrified of and doubting if you could ever embody but if would be a dream if you did, etc.)

 

I mean, in doing my own AvaStar makeover process and LIVING this to be seen (literally by celebrities; this same video) I almost forgot how fun of a guy I can be b/c I’ve been in a ‘cave mode’ as a 5/1 for so long hiding out (and preparing) BEFORE shamelessly going VISIBLE to the world.

 

Ok…

 

This latest IG clip had a stellar 10% love ratio (isn’t THAT scalable! – although it’d probably drop a bit to scale but still, WOW!) and 7% comment ratio. It’s action and response friendly goodness.

 

This is critical stuff in getting people to know, like and trust THE REAL YOU (and I’m doing it now on a new platform).

 

We want to find LEVERAGE POINTS for your faster transformation.

 

And cracking your light body image open to CHARISMA;

 

This is the GOLD in the attention age economy and yes, charisma/allure are THE prime missing pieces (that will help you STAND OUT organically to inspire people to respond b/c they FEEL YOU instead of just ‘see you’ from afar).

 

So I mentioned if you’re on the email list (which you can join on the frontpage of the website) that;

 

One of those hidden signifiers of whether I’m in my truth and influence or not is whether I dance. This has been a major challenge for me for many years. If I’m just NOT dancing, it’s actually saying far deeper things about me and I feel like I have an invisible ball and chain around which drops me into the shadow of vanity and aloof disconnection = NOT EXPRESSED or feelable.

 

And the same might be for you; far more closed off than you think. I would even be the one NOT to dance when everyone else was told or invited to at live events; I was hyper critical and judgmental; stuck in my egoic mind…MAJOR WALLS and barriers.

 

The music had to be perfect (I’M a better DJ than this clown, etc.), the right moment and timing and then I might ‘show off my mad skillz’ except that I was like that for years and any dance skills I had remained ATROPHIED.

 

That’s WHY I’m so crusty in these new dance videos but I know it’s more important that I am FELT.

 

I can regain and gain new dance skills and technique anyway but I know that ESSENCE; charisma is the KEY…it’s FAR more important than technique (esp. for non-professionals but even AT the highest level of Dance it’s what takes THEM into the stratosphere; just ref K-Pop).

 

But you know when I could always dance and cut through my own self-sabotage and shadows? WHEN I’M AROUND MUSES.

 

And when I met that ‘taste of love’ in Medellin Parque Lleras in 2016? When I was already on a double date and I saw her get out of a taxi cab and her crown shot straight up to heaven when she wasn’t even facing me and I thought “WHO IS THAT?” (b/c I wasn’t too into the date I was on anyways as an earlier Rion)…and then later my client and I bought beers and I walked straight towards her and talked in Spanish and then the group of us went out…I DANCED. WE danced as a group (and they were like gypsy dancers).

 

I couldn’t NOT dance because she was a true muse. I even tried to kiss her on the dance floor but she coyly faced away (but it was the right thing then; we kissed on a follow-up date when I was also dancing then).

 

This is also why sometimes in sessions when I’m dressed up, I’ll dance in front of the mirror with muses in music videos or the secret unreleased footage of the 2 Muse priestesses and I at one of our workshops after the photo shoot just having fun (this is safe to share, but not the images without their approval).

 

Muse is my Beloved and brings out my truest self…so maybe your BELOVED is also key to CRACKING OPEN your own allure or charisma and being expressed, dancing and being felt.

 

That leverage can do miracles….to let others FEEL into you and catch your vibe-truth.

 

So a question is; could you semi-awkwardly dance in front of the world to see right now?

 

Because it might hold A MAJOR KEY to opening up your allure to be FELT.

 

You MIGHT be held back for years otherwise until you clear up the shadow webs with more POWER (like the Beloved or your Star codex along with the AvaStar makeover).

 

So yeah; I’ve had my own secret FEAR of Dance, what it represents, how much it’s held things back and how it’s a silver bullet highway to AUTHENTIC TRUTH TRANSMISSION, RESPONSE, engagement and being FELT and seen…but because I’m so reunified now after so much divine union alchemy; Muse within esp. with the Elixir activations of Grail Kundalini helps me to be my truer self too.

 

DANCE is a secret and not so secret key to opening up my charisma (and your allure) as well as dissipating DEEP shadow grid entropy and gravity around being seen.

 

If you have been RESISTING IT and being SEEN dancing, you may have other very deep and HEAVY blocks to exploding your own influence and engagement. You may have GENE KEY SHADOWS related to it that keep you in the SHADOW SWAMP of NON-EXPRESSION…your energies CLOSED IN and closed OFF.

 

DANCE is one of those major keys…and in my case I’m still dealing with an archetype that I’ve been weaker in which I know leads to my A-List success and Star timeline of influencer in entertainment, beauty and fashion (bringing ascension codes).

 

So if I could get my weaker ROCKSTAR to DANCE…this is that concept of getting an archetype MOVING and dancing; how would they move when/if you embodied them? This can take you a long ways to embodiment.

 

But see; here within this was more challenging than it may initially appear because remember not only did I have CRIPPLING performance anxiety and visibility wounds, the Rockstar archetype was still FARRR out of reach for me and yet here, we’re starting to feel an authentic version of Him in the mix ‘land’.

 

If and when you can do this for YOURSELF with an ‘out there’ archetype that represents the global influencer, it’s life changing. So we have to deconstruct this a bit more and go into how, why…

 

For as serious as I usually am, we get to know and feel more of the REAL ME b/c I am more balanced and fun like that (so I’m also re-calibrating how I communicate online also b/c BRAND influence is now leaning more towards the founder rather than just the business brand or corporation itself in this attention age economy of trust and influence).

 

The Muse Magician ROCKSTAR is my public codex (even though I won’t often publicly present myself WITH those exact words; but we’re speaking to the AvaStar makeover process itself here of makeover transformation into Star/Starlet divine public service).

 

In this growing consensus-ly fun video;

 

We get to see me in some of my codes INCLUDING that (previously) weaker one of Rockstar but I have to speak to this b/c it’s more challenging for numerous reasons (this is key stuff if you also have a ‘far out there archetype’ that you KNOW will explode things socially and pull you into the larger currents).

 

First of all; what men do we know become SOME form of Sx Icon at ‘middle age’? It’s practically UNHEARD OF so I had that working against me as well in my expanded SHADOW GRID that’s been preventing me from embodying and expressing my SOUL TRUTH codex.

 

In a sense, I’m an eternal teenager and letting THAT shine. So are there some aspects of YOURSELF that you have been keeping HIDDEN.

 

And yes, you can HAVE re-activated MAIDEN for example AT 64 years old post-menopause. You could even be a ‘cool dad’ but it’s serious work b/c high status people are going to SENSE your vibe truth from their experience and attunement.

 

So there can be a lot of pressure and faking it just isn’t it….but if you ARE a cool, sxy soul, why not just let it show at any age so people can feel you?

 

It’s all about accurate expression of YOUR soul signature codex. And letting people FEEL YOU…this is the FUTURE of social media and it’s what’s working best now esp. for those who don’t want to ‘optimize’ algorithms and AI/hacking, etc.

 

There’s a LOT going on here b/c we have to consider this as a star in the making (I’m giving myself permission to view things CONSCIOUSLY and objectively b/c it’s not about my ego; I’m aware of when things are ‘working’ energetically and I KNOW what path I am destined on).

 

In my recent dance (er…essenced ‘pre-dance’ videos…) on my instagram…

 

We have something of a ‘star is born’…my dancing is semi-awkward and uncalibrated socially but the MAIN THING is that I AM ESSENCED and pure albeit IMPERFECT. I’m focused more on having my CHARISMA be felt rather than perfect dance moves and being ‘held back’ energetically. THAT’S what reaches through more.

 

It’s about de-armoring and then about EMBODIMENT and expression of YOUR divine masculine or feminine codes (archetypes, siddhic…).

 

Rockstar isn’t THAT strong here but I have to give myself ROOM to play and find a way that helps bring him in.

 

So this is one of the secrets to bridging into that ‘far out there’ archetype…well, giving yourself PLAY ROOM like with DANCING.

 

YOU MAY HAVE TO MIX DIFFERENT ARCHETYPES and give them breathing room. Allow yourself to ‘go extreme’…see, in order to bring in ROCKSTAR/Star because it’s still so NEW to my embodiment (although destined with my soul codex and Muse’ decree), I have to both take it serious to let Him drop in but my counter-balance to being too serious (b/c that was a SHADOW BEFORE) is to bring in my Jester and amplify some of the FUN-DORKINESS.

 

In otw; Rockstar is balanced with my archetypal uncalibrated DORK just a little bit; at least in the playful but real time process so that I can later REFINE ROCKSTAR to be more standalone serious and threatening in all of the right and wrong ways (b/c it includes a lot of DARK EROS).

 

DORK is the awkward, cave-dwelling, socially uncalibrated version of self; a beta version that I allow to help TRANSITION me into my more serious authentic archetypes…but we see that the alpha-ness of my soul is kinda redefining that Dork is actually very WELCOME and not resisted or judged. I’m letting it all breathe.

 

But somehow ; the extra CHEESE and FUN balances out the authentic attempts and playroom AT embodying serious Rockstar.

 

 

Also b/c my Jester is real, so I’m doing the process in real time; embodying an archetype that was a secret (healthy) obsession (without shadow here; L/Dark Rockstar) b/c He amplifies the rest of my soul codex as Muse-Magician and has the SOCIAL relevance, status, power, etc. to impact the Beauty collective.

 

You may have to move around yourself to let YOUR codes start expressing themselves with and through you. And you can record it in screen-testing.

 

Again; this is in real time sharing much of the process with you (which heavily includes ongoing activations b/c I’m doing my own active AvaStar makeover in real time TO embody and express my public larger current iconic identity to the collective).

 

See if I was TOO serious about Rockstar when it’s not fully landed and integrated (as well as have further social calibration) it could come across wrong but ultimately finding MY serious embodiment as well as exploring a versatile spectrum of soul-truth visual expression while being centered in primary codex archetypes.

 

So DID you find ‘cheeseface’ in there?

 

Oh and the cheese face part of it has nothing to do with that I’m originally from Wisconsin (so was Dr. David Hawkins and Chris Farley).

 

And it’s not just about being self-deprecating either; it’s deeper than that b/c self-deprecation can also be a shadow of its own when out of balance and certain cultures (like Britain) have it more than others…it’s more about giving myself PLAY ROOM to embody that ‘out there’ archetype into earth.

 

Later; I’ll find a more active balance that will shift between different archetypes in my (ongoing) charisma mastery but I’m ALLOWING myself to be imperfect and be seen even if my image itself still fluctuates it’s more stable BECAUSE I COMMITTED TO DEBUT ITSELF AND BEING SEEN; I PUT a date on it and went LIVE to be seen.

 

This ALLURING EXPRESSION is what you may idealize as well b/c it will be infectious to your people because ESSENCE is the social CURRENCY that is being exchanged in pop culture; one moment you’re lit up in Illumination and another you’re Princess of Celebration or Jester for 10 seconds and then serious mature Sage but as long as it’s the real you; you’ll still have your CORE iconic Star/let codex to rest and rely upon.

 

(I do look forward to showcasing more client visual makeovers with approval; I’ve been underpar on asking for them)

 

That can be intoxicating esp. when fewer people are charismatic or alluring other than celebrity stars.

 

BUT you might have resistances to standing out OR EVEN being JUDGED by your closest friends b/c of how your glow-up or shine makes THEM uncomfortable and THAT could prevent you from GOING BIG.

 

So…you want to work with your debut archetypes your debut archetypes.

 

Remember; I’m strong in foundation on Muse-Magician but even THOSE can use more expression/charisma mastery. THIS IS THE WORK and it’s what we do in the Avatar Star makeover which I’m literally doing myself as well.

 

…Esp. with visual social media influence and branding ESPECIALLY if you are ever in business for yourself with integrity to your spirit codes; this stuff means EVERYTHING (also in face of inorganic AI). and you’re ability to build a following and authentic trust as being TESTAMENT of your brand. I mean allure is ALSO the evolution of beauty influence and the beauty industry itself including social media marketing and branding. We’re already on the frontlines.

 

My charisma factor is DECENT ENOUGH (say around 7.6) but it is ON and ACTIVE…and pretty stable. I’ll be able to make quantum leaps because the foundation is here.

 

THAT is what you want to value…at least be FEELABLE even if it’s perfect and awkward…as long as you’re ESENCED and your aura and chakras are BREATHING, it then makes other egoic judgments and imperfections even FORGIVABLE.

 

IN the AvaStar Makeover we not only get clarity on your soul codex FOR public currents as a powerful influencer, but we do literal energetic embodiment and allure work directly ON your light body so you become FEELABLE and start exponentiating your social media influence.

 

Already, what I’m doing is allowing a channel for masculine energies to be experienced when that is actually not that common anymore. (Check out the latest comment on the bottom there).

 

This is critical b/c you want to have people FEEL YOU AND RESPOND. This is where organic social media GOLD IS….in being your AUTHENTIC, open, expressed and feelable self.

 

That includes being dissolved of your own subconscious barriers and resistances TO being felt. In other words; you have to de-armor and DANCE is a very powerful gateway.

 

Serious vs. FUN.

 

So take the process SERIOUSLY but you have to have fun with it…in my case, I play with the idea itself of ‘serious fun’…you can experience that; I have to land serious ROCKSTAR and His Dark Eros in but it’s crudely mixing with my Dork…but just wait until a few months down the road and when I’m socially recalibrated hosting oases in Tulum….I’m going to be light years ahead because I’ve been doing the work AND MUST be testament of charisma and the brand itself leading the allure and charisma revolution in the world and for entertainment and celebrity.

 

So consider these ‘dance’ takeaways and other insights.

 

Put aside the concept of dance being viral trends that seem ‘outside of you’…this is about connecting with OUR OWN WAY to be a CHANNEL to OPEN our charisma and allure up TO BE FELT.

 

IF you were to dance, move or pre-dance what would that look like? Now how about when the camera is on and you KNOW you’re not only going to be seen but seen by industry leaders and celebrities?

 

Can you then still be in your essence truth (when that is really what’s missing ; at least when you are in your codex)?

 

So with that said; you can go ahead and run with these takeaways on your own.

 

It might however take you years to be able to access and embody those (or transform through alchemical attunement) on your own even IF you have clarity on your Star/let codex because SO MUCH can still sabotage you. YEARS or decades to ‘go it your own’ can be a large price to pay for your makeover itself. You might not want to take that long.

 

Fortunately, I can DIRECTLY help you all with it FOR you Avatar Star Self to be embodied.

 

That option is now with the AvaStar Makeover which is a 6 month process (but there are ways we can go faster if you’re called to it). Find out more here at the link.


So check out the upcoming posts…the content is free and you can do with it what you will but at least you know with the AvaStar, you don’t have to wait and can get the professional best-in-the-world leading archetypal and allure support for your image transformation; we can get RIGHT INTO the heavy transfiguration work itself so you can debut or rebirth your most powerful or beautiful soul codexed self out to the world with 5x more magnetism and influence while living your highest timeline (this means everything if you are in personal branding or a spirit-centric business where people can FEEL whether you are real or not).

 

The current AvaStar Makeover clients are already experiencing the LEVEL of breakthroughs they desired out of the program and it’s adding up (including new clients, stronger social media response, etc).

 

Remember;

 

CHARISMA/ALLURE is the missing organic CODE to viral influence itself…already responsible for billions of views.

 

Now that I’m finally live on Instagram 2.5 months in, I’m leveraging it ‘at scale’ and will get into other formats and techniques etc. but it’s already working.

 

Can you afford NOT to represent and live as your best, most influential FEELABLE self online in this attention economy?

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From On-Stage Speaking Rejection to Essence Dance Breakthrough

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First let me say that ESSENCE + DANCE is a secret to BILLIONS of views out there (that are NOT relying on AI hacking and algorithm trickery or sales market funnelteering). And that code is simply allure or charisma.

 

I’m going to share the link of my latest IG INXS video below that’s getting pretty awesome response on such a small scale. You can load it here or at the bottom.

 

In the last email (and blog post) I brought up how a millionaire live event host (mortifyingly) STOPPED my speech 1/3 way through by stepping up on stage in front of 100s of people at a live, recorded event in Los Angeles (as if I didn’t already have enough stage anxiety!) in 2008.

 

I think my pride prevented me from entirely collapsing as I listened to what he had to say with the mic volume cut down.

 

I shared how it all turned out at the end of that blog post (linked here: https://sexychi.com/my-fear-riddled-path-into-visibility-star-dom/ ) with a picture of him even LAUGHING on stage with me (fort. not AT me but because of me).

 

He later went on to become a semi-famous multi-millionaire (but in all transparency, I don’t think it was directly related to OUR interview however 😉

 

This was just PART of my path and struggles in becoming more visible and being seen…in getting my codes out there because NO ONE ELSE WAS. I represented something NATURAL and authentic in an era of fake pick-up artistry and the manipulation.

 

Yes; I was in the ‘dating’ industry as a top natural dating coach online quite a while ago, but it’s the same concept of being in my truth and BEING SEEN (and actually these were earlier Muse codes but transmitted in a very different way and for single men).

 

And yes; I locked my Himalayan cat in the bathroom while I was recording the big Interview of the Month with him as the #1 dating brand online to help focus and quell my anxiety.have

 

Since then (although I improved with small scale public speaking anxieties and hosting) my image anxieties actually only amplified.

 

If you’ve also had it;

 

Public speaking anxiety-fear can crossover with ANY of the other reasons that can prevent you or I from being seen…it’s just EASIER and safer NOT to do it..not to go through those doors and come up with fancy excuses as to why not.

 

But how are you going to have the INFLUENCE you’re meant to have if you keep hiding out?!

 

But I’m on such a big soul purpose that I CANNOT compromise. ALSO, I’m not big on the ‘aging’ thing so it’s good I/we can anti-age with this pro energy work. There’s other things I still have to do.

 

And I don’t know about you, but I realize that this actually IS a Star path (and a King’s path)…not just one of being more publicly visible. What are YOUR codes? We can find out in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

AvaStar Makeover

 

So the rest of this month (and in living by example); I’m going to talk more about the ‘reality’ of overcoming major hurdles, onstage hurls and breakthrough codes related to being seen in y/our TRUTH.

 

We’re in an era where SOCIAL MEDIA is here to stay and so much of your influence is going to be through social media. If you want to grow a following, yes your Star/let codex (whether it literally includes Starlet or not) is CENTRAL to pulling your ALIGNMENT, truth, embodiment and expression TOGETHER.

 

Your Star or Starlet Codex gives you the CONFIDENCE and ALIGNMENT to be empowered in your Truth and face the world.

 

But there can still be SOOOO many unconscious or conscious sabotaging things that can stop you from going big and being seen.

 

I’m going to keep speaking to those this month (which may delay the already belated World’s Top 10 Muse list for 2025 but I promise I’ll get to that as well).

 

For right now; one of those hidden signifiers of whether I’m in my truth and influence or not is whether I dance.

 

So the question is; could you semi-awkwardly dance in front of the world to see right now?

 

Or…how much RESISTANCE would you have to doing it? Because that alone might be a major key.

 

WELL in spite of having all kinds of past struggles, flash forward to today post-debut and….I’M DOING IT. I know that celebrities are going to see these videos too.

 

In the next email (a.k.a. blog post); I’m going go to deeper into my own secret FEAR of Dance, what it represents, how much it’s held things back and how it’s a silver bullet highway to AUTHENTIC TRUTH TRANSMISSION, RESPONSE, engagement and being FELT and seen…

 

DANCE is a secret and not so secret key to opening up my charisma (and your allure) as well as dissipating DEEP shadow grid entropy and gravity around being seen.

 

If you have been RESISTING IT and being SEEN dancing or annoyed or even secretly envious of others and how viral THEY have gone; you may have other very deep and HEAVY blocks to exploding your own influence and engagement.

 

It’s meant as a qualifying gauge here of where there may be deeper resistances in your psyche towards BEING SEEN and felt (whether you ever make fun dance related content or not).

 

For right now here; I’m going to post my latest Instagram video and it has a WHOPPING 10% love rate with engagement and new followership.

 

I’ll go more into the breakthrough underpinnings and the leverage point of DANCE (+ my own Dance-Visibility fears) in the next transmission.

 

I had to give myself permission and there may be secret ways in which your OWN shadow grid is PREVENTING you (for years) from truly being SEEN.

 

But once people can FEEL you, even if it’s imperfect at least you’re THRIVING.

 

There’s actually a lot of codes going on with major takeaway lessons for your own public soul visibility breakthrough b/c not only is it objectively charismatic but I’m BRIDGING into the impossible archetypes before in a way that could be LIFE-CHANGING for you as well if you have a known archetype or siddhic quality that you desire in your fuller expression for greater social impact.

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Here’s that INXS inspired pre-dance video and look for ‘cheeseface’ in it:

 

 
 
 
 
 
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Remember; I’ve been alpha-testing my OWN Avatar Star self embodiment (and been doing double dan tien/kundalini activations per week as well as foundational structure).

 

That I’ve broken through myself with ESSENCE + dance with stable enough charisma factor is huge b/c this is already a secret to billions of views out there and you can find YOUR way of replicating it.

 

Check out my Elvis inspired ‘Hound Dog’ video here (with similar like/love ratio!)

 

https://www.instagram.com/p/DTQnopAjeDL/

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My Fear-Riddled Path Into Visibility &…Star-dom?

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Sub-titled The impossible journey that cannot be faked. Well…this is the start of an extended mini-series of topic specific content on the blog (under ‘charisma’, ‘rion kati’ and ‘soul starlet’).

 

Firstly; there’s a lot of inspired edu-tainment content I have for you the rest of this month so keep checking your emails; you never know what life-changing gold nuggets (snuggets) you might get all of a sudden.

 

It turns out I have a real knack not only for ladies finding their Beloved’s codex with 100% accuracy but I’m also damn good at helping them get more clarity on their own debut Starlet codex in the AvaStar consulting sessions.

 

“Brilliant” “Epic” said the 2 latest clients on the level of life-changing clarity consulting for THEIR visual debut.

 

I’m also going to be speaking to all kinds of things which can prevent you from being SEEN and having greater influence and connection with the people you are meant to influence (IN your divine truth). So keep checking the emails and blog…

 

As you may know, I’ve had incredibly brutal anxiety, insecurity and crippling visibility wounds. I mean very extreme cases of fugly duckling.

 

For years I’ve been the cozy ‘behind the scenes’ Lightworker who looks half schleppy going into zoom audio sessions with a low-mid grade webcam. One could say that I’ve actually the CLOSEST THING to someone ‘working in his pajamas’. Honestly, I’d just wear less if I could sometimes.

 

Alas; don’t fret…all of the light-working has been REAL without compromise but…the truth is, I’ve been ‘hiding out’ for years and years…building an epic foundation, YES but hiding out.

 

I know that I’m not only meant to share these gifts with the world publicly but actually literally with the world’s most famous celebrities (and I mean most all of them). I’m also meant to train the world’s TOP glow-up artists with Allure Priestess who will lead the world in allure makeovers.

 

So remember; when I was talking a lot about your Star/let codex for your debut or rebirth. This is what can give you the inspired clarity and confidence to move forward and that at least ONE of your archetypes you’re going to be VERY comfortable and familiar with.

 

My public Star codex is: The Muse Magician Rockstar. I’m INTEGRAL with Muse-Magician

 

But see, I was never ‘the rockstar’. That is the big challenge and in my case, the one that really transfigures it as undeniably SOCIAL and in great visible INFLUENCE. For you, there’s also going to be a weaker archetype which single-handedly is going to challenge your visibility wounds yet also provide THE MEDICINE for you to be in YOUR POWER and SERVICE.

 

For me it’s Rockstar and then Star but it’s the unique coding AS the Muse Magician.

 

For you, it may not literally be ‘Starlet’….Starlet may be more invisible but serves as the amplification and transfiguration OF your unique codex in divine service resolved of visibility wounds to the world so you can have the influence (and even make money) with the people you are ultimately meant to serve IN your fullest Beauty, codes and active service truth.

 

So the real challenge is that I was the guy behind the scenes, but I’ve realized (through Muse’ decree) that I am meant to not just be visible but be RIDICULOUSLY visible…and that means triggering ALLLLLL of my security related comfort and visibility issues.

 

Because something like THAT is massive identity level transformation.

 

Maybe YOUR gap is that there is one archetype that puts you IN your shameless public service and power but it THREATENS everything you are now and the comfort if you’ve been hiding out also.

 

I was the one who (as a 5/1 DEFINED cave living and endless internal seeking of security before being ready to ‘share with the world’.

 

This is me coming out of my cave to interact socially

 

 

Yes; there’s kind of an ugly go-getter beauty to him, but that’s not quite it. I represent the evolution of Beauty and charisma on the frontlines, so I am ESPECIALLY being tested because I have to become the testament of the brand and this work. For all my past fugliness, I have to become the swan…fortunately it is my truth in spirit; it just has to be accessed, embodied and expressed AGAINST ALL ODDS and subconscious sabotage (including the fugly duckling and quasimodo-gremlin).

 

I can’t tell you how much anxiety I’ve had.

 

But I was/am an extreme case of visibility wounds. I remember doing improv acting on stage at high school and I literally froze for 2 minutes while people were watching me to finish a skit.

 

All of this was REAL for me; a lifelong plague…and ironically it’s a prime HUMAN or incarnate shadow of the Muse line; performance anxiety.

 

One time I was at a famous internet marketing seminar in a beautiful ballroom for dinner and Yanik Silver had tables come together to form teams and work on some problem. There was a healthy competitive environment amongst them and at some point, I was like ‘give me the microphone, I’ve got a point to make’ and then I was standing and became radically self-conscious…

 

I saw and felt ALL of the eyeballs were on me (a few hundred people with their fancy glass chalices clinging, etc.) and I tried to hold my voice steady from cracking…

 

I don’t even remember what I said but I think I juts finished my sentence and sat down in humility. All I remember afterwards was he gave the microphone to a man who DID have public confidence and a strong accent…

 

Yanik had him say ‘fine Corinthian leathers’. I do remember that. I felt smaller than invisible.

 

BUT…That’s what inspired me to host 2 free live workshops in Houston to help overcome my speaking and visibility anxiety. When it started I was at the head of the table with around 14 men; half of whom flew in from around the country and it took me a few minutes of speaking to finally ‘drop into the zone’.

 

I was the one who still had so much performance anxiety before being invited to speak onstage in Montreal in 2006 as a ‘natural’ dating coach at the Cliff’s List convention that I was swigging shots of rum from a Malibu bottle in my hotel room BEFORE going on stage just to alleviate the anxiety.

 

Somehow I think it really helped and neutralized my performance jitters away.

 

I was the one who AT my first David DeAngelo seminar in Chicago at the end in 2005 waited in line and had so much ANXIETY built up just waiting to speak to him (b/c of the power dynamic mixed with my excitement of what I was doing) that I couldn’t slow my speaking down.

 

There’s a hidden clip of me somewhere online and you would be like ‘that can’t be Rion’.

 

I had so much anxiety in recording the ‘interview with dating guru’ of the month (in late 2007 or so) that I locked my Himalayan cat-boy in the bathroom so that I could focus record into the funny looking tape machine he had sent on the carpet of my Houston apartment while he and I talked on the device.

 

(Eben Pagan then invited me to SPEAK at the Man Transformation summit in L.A. which I think was in JAN. 2008 and I HAD to say yes despite having so much anxiety).

 

I had so much anxiety speaking on stage I didn’t know if I would ever get through it…there were several 100 people there with cameras recording.

Mortifyingly;

 

He kind of said through the microphone talking to a crew member (Royster productions I think) ‘Yeah this isn’t working’ as he walked towards stage.

 

Eventually HE STOPPED the cameras (or not to use them later) and took a big step in the front onto the stage/pulpit to ask me privately but in front of 100’s (mics off) if we could switch the format because it ‘just wasn’t working’ (but that he did value what I had to say). How would you feel in this exact scenario?

 

This was a BIG event and I’ve never seen anything like that happen…

 

I’ll share what happened at the very bottom.

 

But really; although I got better at speaking especially on a smaller scale and hosting small retreats; my images issues and anxieties further compounded because I knew I was meant for greatness. How am I going to LEAD the allure and charisma revolution movement WORLDWIDE if I DON’T overcome the deep ugliness and visibility wounds within?

 

Remember; I stayed ‘cozy’ for YEARS but I knew that I would eventually have to BE SEEN in order to truly have the INFLUENCE and impact my soul was meant to have (ESP. because it’s all so visual centric). And now; social media is WHERE IT’S AT. So whatever angle you look at it; we’re all influencers and the FULLEST version of yourself is SOME form of influencer…and if you’re triggered by influencer, then just redefine what it means because you and I have codes that MUST get out there…unless we allow the shadows, doubts, insecurities to sabotage us and keep us in an ILLUSION of safety.

 

I recently caught the MindValley ; as you may know Vishen Lakhiani is actually a long-time peer of mine. We literally had the same best friends in college when I was at UW-Madison and we would drive to U of M to party on some weekends. Anyways; he was saying that 2026 is the land-rush for FOUNDERS.

 

With the advent of AI accelerating, people are going to want more CONNECTION and trust with RELIABLE sources…not companies per se but the actual FOUNDERS and those who create and sculpt their brand ecosphere.

 

THIS is where social media is at now so if you’re not primed to BE SEEN and leverage social media, well this could be one of many ways in which you are holding back on your greater purpose (including BEING SEEN).

 

Your Star/let codex holds the IDENTITY level clarity and POWER for you to be in your highest truth, beauty, power and service in alignment with your soul purpose….it holds that for me, it holds it for you (whether you’re conscious of it or not).

 

Archetypes do not have the same problems we do…it’s really just about having a way to access and embody that encoded consciousness to mix and amplify your own soul codes.

 

And the public one for you probably holds THE KEYS to your greatness in social and spiritual influence.

 

So as far as me…..I was never the ROCKSTAR. It was just a secret obsessive pipe dream that I’ve had my whole life. I admired stars and secretly wanted to be one but I never felt like I was worthy,.

 

To be clear; I never had imposter syndrome (and you or others might); but speaking of myself I’ve had OTHER hardcore visibility wounds and anxieties in the extreme. But still; how am I going to be an influencer TO stars and starlets?

 

It seemed light years away. But my codex holds the power and the codes…I just had to find a way to step into ROCKSTAR which is the social amplification and an apex of attention for feminine Beauty and Beauty influencers to CHANGE THE GAME (it’s all Muse’ brilliant strategy to be honest).

 

How could the anxious, FUGLY duckling, insecure, hiding out version of me BE THAT embodied and non-fakeable version of myself?

 

Because remember; the highest status people are like HAWKS who can sniff out any posers or fakers so the POWER and self-image I have must be real (and divine). I have to be the real thing….I AM the real thing in ESSENCE (like you may be); it’s about EMBODIMMENT and expression in influence LIKE a star or starlet who can face, engage, inspire and MOVE the collective in the larger currents with your unique codes that are compelling and socially contagious.

 

THAT’S WHERE THE POWER OF THIS AVASTAR WORK COMES IN.

 

So…over this 2 weeks I’m going to be sharing more codes in and around my transformation as well as more Starlet codes related to overcoming extreme sabotage and codes around HOW to make real progress to be IN your power and codes against all odds in ‘being seen’.

 

And you know what?

 

My (Social) Rockstar era is beginning. It’s more important that OTHERS have the experience and affect of it; but it’s still important to have the INTERNAL compass of your my Star/let codex consciously so that you are ALIGNED.

 

I use the Beauty Sorcerer more publicly and the ‘brand’ is really Rion Kati and having influence as a real star/lightworker, etc. but as a ‘brand’ but I’m sharing this with you as part of my (and the) AvaStar process.

 

If you’re following me on Instagram, there’s a LOT going on in my JUST released video because (for me and you) the impossible is WITHIN REACH. It proves this work is real (oh and ‘miracles’ are already happening for the lady AvaStar clients). I’ll deconstruct what’s going on b/c in some way, I’m not ‘competing’ with the late Michael Hutchence of INXS, BUT we’re both 5/1’s and…well, stay tuned (or check it out now). I’ll speak to it soon.

 

STARDOM is the mid and long-term outlook but in a sense, I’m already a star in the work that I do and those sub-markets (now really post-debut and going visual public public).

 

 

OH; so what happened when I was speaking at the Man Transformation event when Eben Pagan/David DeAngelo stepped up on stage to STOP my speaking presentation (which was printed to DVD’s and sold as a product later)?

 

Well…they took a quick 4 minute stretch break to set up some couches and somehow that did the trick; we went into a sit-down interview format and it alleviated most of my anxiety and saved the day.

 

Yes, it’s THAT Eben Pagan famous marketer; he’s been a multi-millionaire for a long time. I actually have him LAUGHING…here’s a screen shot of that. I was doing a Mr. Anderson impression from Beavis & Butt-head.

 

 

I HAD TO DO BE THERE and speak because I had codes that NO ONE ELSE HAD in that industry; literally no one else was sharing this (and I was frustrated they weren’t), so I had to fight through my anxieties and do the right thing. I was still one of the very few ‘naturals’ in the dating and seduction industry back then.

 

I even had 1 man give me a standing ovation near the front left (speaker’s view). Fortunately overcoming my anxieties opened all kinds of doors for me b/c I knew that I HAD to do it or I couldn’t live with myself.

 

Stay tuned to more real world Star/let codes on the blog soon…and yes, the AvaStar Makeover is available.

 

 

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Even More on Shining Your Allure or Charisma To A Consumptive World

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You can read the first part of this sub-topic of shining your allure… here.


Btw; This may be a hotspot sticking point for you.

 

“What if I open my allure and men (in the world and on social media) want to just take from it?

 

…How do I scale dealing with (unwanted and wanted) attention?”

 

Throughout the Mystical Beauty programs I did with co-host Gillian Pothier, this theme kept recurring about women being concerned (understandably) that if they open their field to radiate their higher truth, beauty essences and its allure – that there would be all kinds of attention from men; unwanted attention as well as leechiness, psychic hooks, siphoning and concerns about the practicality of ‘how to manage’ real world interactions with men because a starlet ‘on stage’ is different than in person.

 

This is the NATURE of the greater game itself because we’re talking about the meta-prime valuation of the masculine which is Beauty (Purpose and Freedom but we’re focused on Beauty here).

 

See; allure is your GATEWAY DRUG to greater INFLUENCE and attraction itself because it is the emanation of your higher dimensional beauty light and vibe-truth which allows people to FEEL YOU in live presence, image or on video (rather than just looking good).

 

Allure can be intoxicating (even awakening) to the masculine and yet concerns about it can hold you back from being fully expressed in your truth and Beauty.

 

Key to this is constellating a practical detachment with MORTAL MEN who aren’t QUALIFIED YET nor have proven themselves…so it’s to be more like a starlet where the key is the gift of Detachment (Gene Key 42).

 

The SHADOW of expectation, wanting-ness, neediness, leechiness, siphoning is what can constrict your true beauty from EVER SHINING.

 

Yet your soul may know that you MUST shine your truth.

 

If you want more INFLUENCE, how much longer can you afford to remain CONSTRICTED just because some mortal men may send you ‘weird vibes’?

 

After all these very concerns or fears can prevent you and other women from ever truly shining as well as experiencing the benefits OF attracting more richly and deeply in all dimensions (and it can even keep cycles of fear perpetuating b/c of your constriction). Yet you could be stuck in these cycles for years.

 

So if you dare radiate your beauty in its freedom;

 

“What if he misinterprets it?”


“What if he expects something?”


“What if he keeps leeching?”


“Yeah, but Rion have you seen the rapey vibes from some of these men out there?”

 

Because of the safety concerns (esp. if there has been past betrayal misuse or abuse from lower timeline masculine) you may SHUT your radiance right back down to avoid unwanted attention (when there are other ways to discern, manage and deal with that mortal man).

 

So you might shut your energy body down in general…

 

Actually; in many cases a starlet in ‘real world’ is exactly the same as she is on stage because her sovereignty and mastery is that of DETACHMENT.

 

She also owns her status. Same as DIVA. A diva’s just not going to make her deeper inner sanctum available for pillaging and yet she can still radiate essence quanta that GIVES value without people ever directly siphoning from her.

 

Intimate relationships themselves become levels of agreement so she simply exercises discernment IN ALL DIMENSIONS.

 

Btw; there’s a few spots left in our Mystical Beauty (2): Immersion experience and it might actually sell out within the day at this point. There were about 100 women on yesterday’s call.

 

So again; reference a diva, muse or starlet…(who operate on IMPERSONAL levels of power and feminine influence so their relationship game to the masculine MUST be high level).

 

On stage she can CIRCULATE the universalized masculine energy (Gillian spoke brilliantly to this on our call); this ability actually can ATTUNE the awakening masculine spirit within mortal men – and yet, she’s not accepting PERSONAL psychic hooks into her chakras from individual men with weird vibes that allows that (honestly unworthy) man to keep pulling and draining.

 

Gillian herself lives from this mastery. Her freedom is more important than the unfulfilled desires of some selfish non-present men (from my perspective).

 

So a starlet, most muses and Gillian;

 

 

…they aren’t actually opening their fields to allow in unwanted psychic hooks from men in public or even social settings who want something from her. So you also want to master the Gift of DISCERNMENT (Gene Key 13).

 

I mentioned something on our Mystical Beauty Microdose (wow I don’t even know if this is online at the updated time of re-purpose posting here) yesterday about how such interactions are ‘psychic agreements’.

 

It’s just that you may have to become more aware of how your energy body is inter-changing with him and you may have to remain more sovereign. It may help to watch videos of stars and starlets signing autographs for example…they don’t ever have to become drained by it.

 

Certain archetypes already have the answers, you may just have to reconfigure some things within your psyche and energy body to integrate and give yourself greater permission to be able to shine like the soul star you are.

 

Remember; that guy with creepy vibes who seems to want something from you – you don’t owe him SHIT…and you have to be ok with that. Let him do HIS work to grow in his divine masculine inheritance integration of PRESENCE to later discern if he’s worthy to receive him more into your field in any exchange.

 

So you may have to DECONDITION past experiences and traumas in relationship with Father wound or ex-lovers in order to then recondition and constellate the safety in relation to masculine principle in order to be able to shine your truth.

 

So maybe more of it (and it is a process); is about getting to new levels of psychic SOVEREIGNTY to be able to safely and securely radiate your truth AND INTERACT but from psychic sovereignty and protection.

 

This way you’re not creating non-conscious, energetic psychic agreements and exchanges (like even for validation and approval seeking) with unqualified people. Again; Gift of Discernment – it is something to master as you accept how high status you really are.

 

So many women might just be running these cycles non-consciously based on past experiences as a self-defense, armoring mechanism…however having true allure and the safety to radiate IS about being able to be vulnerable and yet safe everywhere.

 

De-armoring and its in the protection of divine masculine principle that gives prime security for this (although some women may have Mother wounding).

 

So in having more Beauty INFLUENCE from your allure and being ok with letting people FEEL YOU (it’s not that they ever have to siphon your soul quanta itself directly)…you want to be ok with letting people FEEL YOU like starlets do…ask yourself, how beautiful and influential do you really want to go (and the deeper levels of true love involved) vs. the levels of constriction or conditional opening of your higher beauty?

 

And another reference is that Hurricane says there are ‘dials to this’ so you can still practically calibrate things in real time so that you’re not always a sex goddess at the grocery store (unless you want to be) per se.

 

And as Gillian teaches; you want to master your DISCERNMENT and what kinds of agreements you are making with men. You may also want to have your allure constellated in divine security ideally as the Holy Daughter (we’re going to take the women in our upcoming Mystical Beauty Immersion deeper program through this) and you want to have conscious, energetic and psychic sovereignty as that of a diva, starlet or muse because they DO NOT DIM THEIR LIGHT (unless it’s only practical for them BY CHOICE because they always carry the authority).

 

Allure is a choice and it asks of you to live from the TRUTH of your higher beauty and self vs. living from past fears of lower, conditional masculine and you do attract a new experience. Again; just reference Gillian who doesn’t even attract or deal with ‘weird vibes’…it’s rare for her.

 

So although DETACHMENT may seem cruel, you kind of have to be for self-protection.

 

Be wary and discerning of who you trust to allow to more intimately interchange with your field (like a starlet does). Again; my wonderful co-host Gillian doesn’t even attract all kinds of weird behaviors from lower timeline conscious men b/c she is so in tune with high masculine principle and the IMPERSONALITY of Him and circulating HIM.

 

So maybe assess where you are at with this and it’s not just a conscious choice, this is DEEP somatic psyche and light-body work in order to FEEL safe to radiate not just when you’re on camera but also when interacting with people in the real world, etc.

 

Yet that is where INSPIRING, AWAKENING the divine masculine in men also comes in (which connects us to deeper codes of sacred reunification or divine union work and its devotional place in allure, beauty and Communion itself).

 

Oh; another reference point of safety and allure would be Grail Priestesses who have evolved into the maturity in relation with divine masculine to always be able to radiate their HEALING LEVELS OF BEAUTY RADIANCE ITSELF; literally alchemical medicine to the masculine psyche.

 

Ok…I think we have a replay link if you want to catch that microdose; I/we might post it below. Instead I will link to Gillian’s Feminine Eros feed: 


Remember; whenever a man in interaction wants to take, leech or get your attention and keeps ‘drawing from’ your energy field you actually have the power the entire time to remain entirely detached and that includes when interacting with him.

 

(At the original time of writing);

 

We have a few spots remaining for our deeper Mystical Beauty Immersion (which includes the original Allure Masterclass…which you actually have to go through Day 1 and 2 materials before we start on Tuesday if you’re new to it).

 

There may be other somatic effects that are still blocking your allure itself, so this is a journey based on wherever you are at in presence. We’re here to support!

 

Bad things may have happened to you in the past HOWEVER, they don’t technically exist in the truth of presence but might be playing out in your psyche and creating time loops.

 

Maybe it’s time to integrate the security, safety and freedom to shine and then CURATE and play in the realm OF ancient, immortal and mystical beauty consciousness and truth of The Feminine (more than ever)!

 

If your soul is called to it (we are closing the doors and we don’t know if we’ll ever do this live again);

 

There are 2 levels of the program and Red Velvet gives you more intimate access and support with Gillian Pothier and I.

 

UPDATE: The program last year sold out! I’ve added Mystical Beauty testimonials amongst the hundreds of others on-site

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