From Geek to Chic: Avatar Self Personal Branding Makeover Power
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In living as a testament of the brand (of Sexy Chi) and showcasing what is possible for you in coming into your own as an ICON; this is some important stuff!
YES, you can go from geek to chic authentically (or YOUR version of it).
Or in my case; Beta-Alpha, Unexpressed Genius, Semi-Dork to Eros-Magician with open chakras and transmission of archetypal codes, magic and a solid charisma factor.
MAKEOVER is possible…and really to become the embodied and expressed, iconic version of YOU; your avatar self.
It just helps that if ‘who you are’ already IS that on the mental, soulful and spiritual plane…then it’s just about bringing that into EMBODIMENT.
If YOU have dealt with years of resistance to stepping into the spotlight and being the face of your brand on a larger scale as some form of influencer, you’re in the right place.
To go from ‘geek to chic’ it’s going to take a transformational process; a makeover.
USUALLY people value this as a looks-maxxing makeover or ‘glow-up’ but really that should always be SECONDARY to the actual internal transformational (which is really the energetic or essence) charisma transformation itself.
B/c if you can’t ‘back that up’ you’ll end up just being a poser until you start believing your own superficial illusion.
THIS true glow-up work handles the EMBODIMENT of the power you already have AND cultivates new to be more accurately expressed in your visuals….and yeah, I might give some style looks max tips (or referral/ideas) otherwise; but we focus here on the MAIN thing which is your CHARISMA transformation itself and how other people feel you as REAL.
The version of you and the differential between who you are in soul can be quite a grand one…you might be DIS-embodied with your own codes and have all kinds of internal resistances, blockages and shadows to really letting your LIGHT through (esp. if you’ve been on a spiritual path with a lot of access TO Light).
How is this even the same person?

See…I went from that before to…now/after.

By the way; this is a recent, more Dark centric Rion that represents so much of my truth visually and erospherically like a planet’s atmosphere (it’s part of my reclamation to focus more on Dark Eros now b/c years of it being DIS-embodied and out of balance).
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And I have many other extreme before and after photos as well, but these are good for representing now. (Can you wait to show YOURS?)
I’m still power kaizening on the path post-debut now; but this is a significant ‘before’ and after. It may even help us to clearly remember that image DOES matter and that is more is coming across even when we think it isn’t.
For me; fitness and general ‘looks-maxxing’ stuff was only and ever SECONDARY. The real work is with essence, embodiment and expression (charisma/allure) and that’s what I became a world authority on but I still had my own unique challenges in taking center stage and stepping more into the spotlight (while still being in divine service).
If you have ANXIETIES, no amount of make-up and looks-maxing may ever resolve them on a deep level; they may only mask it up more and AMPLIFY your insecurities.
As I’ve mentioned before; I’ve dealt with YEARS of severe self-image anxiety and fugly duckling.
How’s that saying; put make-up on the pig and it’s still just a pig? But put make-up on the swan realizing it’s the swan….that’s a better anal-alogy.
Even my DARK EROS was disembodied and disconnected as safe ‘lightworker’ (always with temple space purity in sessions; sanctity) so that was part of my own makeover and integration. Despite all of this working AGAINST me;
I realized that I just CANNOT compromise on my vision I had to face these extreme challenges of being felt and seen visually instead of hidden behind the scenes, disembodied and unintegrated…safer but not where the world could KNOW and feel these codes directly.
I had to become the brand testament. This connects with my own lifelong secret desires of WANTING to become a star but I never gave myself permission before….now it’s BECAUSE OF my greater purpose and service (and not merely ego or self-service).
I had hid myself for too long ‘behind the scenes’ in my cave.
Clearly you can see that I had some major blockages in the before pictures.
I DID have advantages b/c of years of intense spiritual work so I had a lot of Light; but it also AMPLIFIED remaining shadows and re-triggered massive insecurity that came up. I was still so blocked, little of my Light was coming across in presence. It may it even more challenging.
Eventually I realized that ‘I’ alone had to become the embodiment of the brand and testament…
I had to become the central STAR so to speak instead of hiding out ‘behind the scenes’ as Lightworker. It’s the only way for the FULLNESS of my dharma…I had to transform to step into the spotlight so people could feel, sense and KNOW (also b/c this work IS very visual).
I couldn’t rely on bts testimonials and powerliminals alone.
Maybe your path is similar and you have a dream version of yourself that you are called to truly being and living AS; a desire to really have the larger INFLUENCE with your unique codes that YOU are meant to have and anything less just cannot satisfy your soul.
As I talked about recently here with diamond in the rough;
…Maybe you’ve been on a DEEP spiritual journey but had all kinds of resistances to being seen and letting your soul codes come across visually and SHINE.
You may have had hidden fears of;
*Being siphoned from
*Being rejected (so you prevent it all in the first place by playing it more hidden)
*Triggering those closest to you b/c that version of you threatens their comfort
*What your family would think
*That you don’t want to seem too selfish
*What if they discover you’re some form of fraud or you’re ‘faking it’?
*Being unworthy
*That it’s just too far of a gap and is a ‘fantasy’ that you could be that fully expressed like a star/let
*That the masculine would
Dealing with haters and trolls if you step out more
..Or that you’ll come across as a poser and that people will ‘find out’ and you’ll collapse into a wreck of anxiety.
You might even believe it’s not possible at your age to have such a major transfiguration. And if you’re a man, the charisma bros just aren’t hitting all the sweet spots with body language techniques if you can’t back it up with POWER underneath or if the archetypes remain a ‘concept’ instead of something that’s EMBODIED amplifying YOU.
So you remain more protective and defensive; armored and hidden….’safe’ in your aura playing it smaller so as to prevent hurt.
However, it’s actually your own visibility, success, legacy and INFLUENCE that you end up holding back b/c you’re living FROM fear and this is still coming across at least as blockages visually to others and how they feel you in your visual media.
In the Soul Starlet category I talk a lot about how the archetypal Star and Starlet do not have image related issues publicly; they BASK and relish in it. They (like solar stars) are UNSIPHONABLE).
For my own mega transformation (and ongoing from here); what gave me the POWER and leverage is
1. The commitment to my greatest purpose and service; becoming the best version of myself (following Beloved’s Divine Will in reunification)
2. KNOWING what my Star codex is
KNOWING that I am the world’s Muse Magician gives me so much ACCESS and confidence to EMBODY and express….to really step into those shoes and step into the spotlight….b/c otherwise I’m going against the gravitron entropy of a powerful shadow grid and ego which included mega self image issues and severe anxiety that was literally making me uglier.
These are ENERGETIC ISSUES and these don’t lie; high status people will KNOW and you WILL be criticized and judged for going wider scale so you MUST become OK with it; ideally energetically and now.
I’ve been going through my own literal AVATAR Star transformation; I’m doing the same activations I serve others with.
See; star or starlet no longer has to be a handful of celebrities ‘out there’ with their own superficial shadows that are easy to judge; rather your STAR/LET codex is YOUR divine codes at an IDENTITY avatar level that opens up STAR/STARLET consciousness to INTEGRATE into embodiment and expression energetically in truth of presence (your allure or charisma!)
Yes; I had to overcome a lot and it’s serious transformational work because you CANNOT FAKE IT. People will know.
But you already have soul and spiritual experience values that just have to be embodied and expressed in the temple of your light body (and deconditioning to make room for it); to have a faster makeover. BECAUSE YOU DEF. HAVE LIGHT if you’ve been on the path. It just may not be expressed and feelable in your live presence and visuals.
As I mentioned; especially with other high status people who are DISCERNING and can tell if you’re the real deal or not.
Again; looks maxxing or ‘glow-up’ superficially is admittedly part of the makeover equation but this is the real work; to be energetically stable and beautiful in the face of the world to shine your spiritual beauty essence (without fears or anxieties but probably with some more psychic mastery over agreements and boundaries like a starlet, sure).
Would you rather LOOK and be styled like a goddess or BE felt and experienced as one?
Would you rather LOOK like a Magician or come across as BEING one b/c you already are in spirit; it’s just not embodied and expressed yet?

Because I’ve gone through this energetic process and am already helping other women go through it with the AvaStar, if YOU are wanting to have a serious rebirth or debut within 1/2 year, this is a perfect solution for you.
AvaStar Makeover
Do you have an idea of that version and vision of yourself?
Your Star/let codex helps get you EXACT clarity on the multi-dimensional movie star version of self. I can help you directly.
We work on that in the Avatar Star Makeover experience so you can start living as the star or starlet version of YOU.
The signature, branded public-ready authentic, fully expressed version of you. ORGANIC branding and marketing with YOUR truth that inspires engagement and response without algorithm hacking and all that.
Imagine being taken seriously as a visual iconic brand of you FACING THE WORLD CONFIDENTLY (absent of anxieties); ready to serve and living from your TRUTH…that people can FEEL, sense and organically respond to.
You can looks max all you want, but social influence values ENGAGEMENT, not just prettiness…we’re talking people reacting, responding and feeling you; increasing that organic metric, deeper intimacy and successful parasocial influence.
If they can’t feel you and you feel ‘out there’ or separate but pretty, they have less reason to care and are more likely to judge; but when they can FEEL you like someone charismatic or alluring who walks in the room, well THAT is the priceless social currency and value of influence.
In the AvaStar (which includes the foundational STAPLE of my work which are activations); we’re working with ESSENCE, embodiment and expression with your light body itself but it’s YOUR avatar codex essences (archetypal and siddhic, etc.) that represent YOU so people can feel you stand out as UNIQUELY your own erospheric brand with your own vibe and they feel inspired to engage with you and your own social media – being INFLUENCED by the visually potent avatar truth of you.
This is the premium visual branding work so it’s put in both a monthly and makeover format for ongoing star/starlet support (as you keep growing).
So actually I’m shortly introducing (at the time of the writing) the $1000/month level for star/starlet support (including makeover) which will have some additional features.
If you’re in at inaugural pricing as an AvaStar client (first 10 only) you’ll be able to have the option to upgrade to the live event + social media shoot bonus.
Sign up now to get started and this option will be available for you as we move forward.
$1k monthly pricing (still subject to rise inevitably for new clients and celebrities) includes a live VIP Day in Tulum, MX with an essenced media shoot as well as some personal branding images in post-production design that caters to YOUR essences.
Here’s the AvaStar HQ with more details….let’s work on YOUR soul codes embodied, amplified and transfigured for massive visual and social impact because IF you are the blocked and geekier, dorkier, clumsier version of yourself when you SHOULDN’T BE and don’t want to be, why not just save years to directly access and EMBODY your current codes into alluring transfiguration to represent your avatar icon self (and ‘chic’)?
Then we can FURTHER cultivate your star or starlet allure and the level of power/beauty of it to further exponentiate your visual and social media impact.
All in the AvaStar Experience with monthly star/starlet support.
AvaStar Makeover
p.s. you could go to a fancy ‘marketing branding expert’ but if they can’t access the unique DEPTH OF YOUR SOUL and spirit codes, all of the branding might be ‘off’ and not represent you and that could be a big investment and even years of time; to commit to a brand that’s not deeply aligned with your soul truth and codes.
YES; the AvaStar price will keep rising for new clients (however once you’re in at YOUR rate, you’re grand-fathered at same pricing until you unsubscribe from the monthly).
Don’t Be A Poser: EMBODY Your Starlet Codex Truth
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On *this* post below I SHARE (for the first time ever); before and after makeover pictures (years apart but you get to see what disembodiment looks like and now MASSIVE a differential all of this makes in being an iconic brand with your truth).
Like I was for years, RIDDLED with insecurity and visibility SHADOWS preventing people from feeling and knowing the true me;
If you are blocked from that ‘missing’ aspect; the archetype which can single-handedly resolve all of your shadow-grid visibility issues and trauma (like Star or Starlet); if you TRY and be that without the essence embodiment and integration, the danger is that you can come across as inauthentic or a poser or people will feel energetically there is something ‘off’ and insecure in who you are presenting yourself to be…ESPECIALLY if you have BIG archetypes and ambition.
The disembodiment and dissonance with them could have you feeling like a fraud, imposter or a poser. That’s even if you HAVE those codes in your soul essence but they’re not EMBODIED.
And poser = CRINGE.
People universally don’t like wannabes. They’re repelling and seem to lack integrity.
And if you’re on social media, now amplify that to a large scale en masse….or the visibility wounds and fears could be PREVENTING your WILD response and organic social media growth FROM resonance. Like me; they could keep you hidden from your full power and service for years.
So how big IS the gap for you (in all honesty) between where you are now and who you are in spirit and soul EMBODIED?
That’s why this avatar star self identity level transformation work is so high-level and critical; because people, HIGH STATUS, discerning and ideal clients, industry leaders, A-listers, followers and the people you want in your circle are DISCERNING whether you are the REAL DEAL or not esp. on first impression. They’re sensing your vibe and light truth.
Do you embody the archetypes you SAY and present yourself as (or DESIRE to)?
Because if you’re too ambitious as the Galactic Boss Babe but people are feelin’ insecure, crocs wearing cave-dweller, there’s going to be a disconnect.
Maybe you WANT to access something like Priestess, Dark or Starlet but She is just too ‘out there’ so you’re preventing yourself from fully being SEEN BECAUSE you don’t want to come across as incongruent or a poser.
If you don’t have the ESSENCE of your avatar self embodied and expressed, people are going to sense something is missing or out of alignment.
They’re feeling you/me at a level of WHO WE ARE in being (this is organic marketing, selling and influence). This is all about your Starlet codex, her embodiment and her allure.
Like me; you may even have to do DARK or EROS reclamation as well as shadow work and purification as part of embodying your own Star/let codex.
So if you’re ‘not embodied’, they’ll feel something is off. You could be showcasing a version of yourself that is PLAYING IT SMALL and fear-based.
These patterns for YEARS can hold you back from the EFFORTLESS influence and magnetism you could have and it seems like you have to focus on funnels, algorithms and all kinds of other stuff to make up for it when really; shouldn’t you just be integrity to your own fullest and highest expression FOR the world?
So in knowing how people will respond to you; it highlights again how serious this avatar star/let self embodiment is to take you from where you are now to the BEST, most codified and confident version of yourself PUBLICLY. I’m getting all kinds of scalable response now that I’m showcasing embodiment of my Avatar Star codex…just VISUALLY even; not even talking about content transmissions. I’m allowing my CODEX to be embodied, felt and seen visibly as the Muse Magician Rockstar and some other archetypes.
And all of this is at a level of ESSENCE. Fortunately; when you can access and EMBODY your Star/let codex, you WILL get response and engagement and people will FEEL you and without the cringiness.
This is about embodying your highest truth and those qualities to be FELT in social media and live presence.
Embodying your Star or Starlet codex is also how to resolve the ‘imposter syndrome’; because remember, STARLET is un-siphonable and you already have CODES that you have experienced with, you just have to have the temple body foundation and access to embody those codes (and keep growing with them into more of your power and influence).
This is what we do in the AvaStar Makeover and on-going Star/let support of course.
Let me unofficially showcase my own makeover just for a glimpse here (and I had issues on whether revealing or not mostly b/c people or AI could take it out of context). B/c of that I’m putting these pictures together as 1 jpg so that the context is more built-in which helps me to show you.
Remember how I was talking about being the ‘good guy’, disembodied with my Eros and FAR far away from something like an embodied (Rock)Star?
Well…let’s take a look at me in the context of where you are at now and what’s possible to access YOUR ‘out there’ missing codes.
Did you find yourself thinking ‘awww…..how sweet’ at version of myself; meaning the more impotent nice guy version which is fractured from my EROS power and DARK Truth. See what I’m saying? How important this is if the ‘real you’ isn’t fully embodied or showing?
You might even be thinking “Is this the same person?”
I can show you other pictures that are more extreme too.
I told you (or at least in MGM) that we have different roles we can play in life, but are you accessing your fullest, HIGHEST version of self for PUBLIC influence?
Or are you living in a codified and crustied version that is sabotaging your own greater success, visibility, voice and freedom b/c of past conditioning, visibility wounds and fear?
So in the above pictures; I’m exploring embodiment of Rockstar (which will land more in time but I’ve bridged the gap), but the next IG VDO release is more centered in my Muse-Magician…ok I’ll give you a preview of that now with another ‘before’ and ‘after’.

Magician is one of my strongest archetypes so can you sense how more ‘stable’ it is vs. the newer (yet authentic) Rockstar embodiment?
These are the more powerful stratospheres of communication; the ESSENCE BANDWIDTHS of currency, communication, marketing, sales and exchange. WHEN YOU ARE IT in divine ESSENCE, this is the future of organic marketing NOW.
I’m finally entering ICON zone of personal branding power now BECAUSE I’m embodying MY unique debut Star codex (and more and more). You may have codes that are NOT EMBODIED and ready for FACING the PUBLIC b/c of fears of siphoning, trauma, etc.
And remember Rockstar is/was my weaker archetype but it’s there as transfigurative support encoded FOR The Muse Magician to take me wildly PUBLIC…even famous.
So here I am again as The Muse Magician (preview from the next, upcoming Erosphere IG post)

Can you sense that if I tried to ‘be him’ in the before pics WITHOUT the proper embodiment and makeover charisma work, I would literally come across as a poser and people wouldn’t believe me, right?
It’s not embodied and felt so it wouldn’t matter what I would say. It wouldn’t FEEL right and people wouldn’t take me seriously.
That’s why this is so serious; I don’t think that you would want to be living from more hidden fear or disembodiment with your truth b/c people WILL feel and discern whether you are the real deal or not. Heck; they might not even KNOW who you truly are b/c they cannot FEEL you.
After all; consumers ARE becoming more psychic and accurate to sniff through B.S. and posers.
Muse requires me to step into THE POWER OF MY CODEX to be an APEX of Beauty and a force (Power) of cultural ascension influence. What is YOUR calling and are you still compromising from aligning and stepping into your DIVINE POWER AND SERVICE?
I cannot fake Rockstar because high status people would find out. It can’t be founded on illusion (nor shadows either)…and that’s just part of my Muse line codex (and later Star) to help me interface IN my spiritual integrity to the world.
Remember; This is identity level work where people are discerning and feeling if you’re ‘real’. This felt-sense accurate, psychic TRUTH is the new currency of whether we can trust someone (and then how they continue to live into that).
In this; I AM THE WORLD’S MUSE MAGICIAN in power, embodiment and authority (AND I back it up).
And that can sell more than me TRYING to sell people on something. So wouldn’t you also want to represent YOUR highest self embodied visually for felt influence? So they can feel YOUR eros-phere?
But see; I’ve had some challenges. How many middle-age men that YOU know access authentic Rockstar vibes and embodied consciousness without coming across as ‘poser’?
The level of this identity work is that you may have to be a professional actor otherwise and actually since this is founding Essence Acting; this is now the fastest path of THAT; working with ESSENCE itself like in the AvaStar Makeover and the activations we do.
There are a lot of middle aged rock FANS (I think you can visualize this) that’ll wear like band t-shirts but in embodied vibe-truth?
Few in the world are close to actually living ROCKSTAR consciousness.
It was interesting to me when Andy Black went into a ‘Hot Topic’ like store. Actually I can’t find the exact clip (you can imagine); but it’s the difference I’m referring to; the real deal vs. consumer grade consciousness.
Most; they would come across as ‘wannabe’, fraud, inauthentic or poser (and people would have reason to be harshly judgmental) if they’re trying to be ‘that big’ but actually aren’t in consciousness and presence….there’s esp. something about ‘aging’ and ‘trying too hard’ that is just cringe.
If you’re not embodying all of YOUR codes, you can come across as inauthentic even if it’s IN your soul but not embodied. Ouch, yeah.
So I had some general massive barriers to bypass all of that additionally; can you sense why this work is so high level? ROCKSTAR is an ‘out of reach’ archetype for MOST men (plus requires OTHER foundational archetype work like DARK EROS and OUTLAW)…
So whatever YOUR dream or missing archetype is to take you into aligned, authentic soul self FAME, it is possible. For me Rockstar is divinated but fits partly b/c I’m a music producer but b/c Muse is the Queen of Music but also for other archetypal qualities vs. musician rockstar.
We’re talking about BECOMING your ideal, avatar self EMBODIED, felt and seen. THAT’S why this work will continue to rise in price.
This is serious work b/c people will be discerning whether you are ‘REAL’ or not. CAN YOU ACCESS YOUR POWER and codes and EMBODY and express them with effective mastery?
I mean; it might take decades for most people and remain a pipe dream; yet in the AvaStar Makeover I work with you for you so we save you literally years of time to just get there in less than 6 months.
Again; I would have been a poser had I tried to embody rockstar WITHOUT doing the proper embodiment work…and really it’s still mostly Magician and I’m strengthening Rockstar through time but I have access and starter real embodiment.
We can work with YOUR codes so that YOU are IN your signature, UNIQUE Beauty and Power. (Here is that recent Rockstar focused video with G’nR)
This is specialized work really b/c ‘mindset’ is weak compared to your psyche OWNING you from shadow and BLOCKING the power of your codex from being practically embodied (and I work with what your codex is EXACTLY).
It really takes the most professional levels of acting (which is believable) or identity level life transformation. Leaders of niches already secretly and semi-secretly come to me for THEIR transformational work even at their level ; they require support.
Even though it will set you apart to be EXPRESSED in your archetypal and siddhic codes of Beauty and Power;
You can’t fake this stuff b/c people will sniff out if you’re a poser or ‘inauthentic’ and that can be a doomful fate in going public that could prevent you FROM ever going public.
The best acting isn’t acting; it’s BEING. And being is embodied with essence Truth.
Fortunately;
Your Star/let codex is HOW to most directly access public fame consciousness to transfigure you (FROM your spiritual integrity even if it’s all soft feminine); but you have to have a way to then EMBODY and EXPRESS those essences in lieu of your fears and anxieties…otherwise just knowing about it; it can still remain and impossible gap where you come across as disembodied, fear-based, ‘off’ or cringe like a poser.
That’s why going through the workbook alone may not be enough.
Imagine that you can (like me in the before and after pictures); at an identity level; go from where are now to LIVING and being experienced as YOUR Avatar Star/let in debut…what price could you put on that?
And the cost of NOT becoming that version of your self (even if it’s not fear of being a poser or imposter syndrome; it could still be all kinds of other sabotage blocks to your fullest public self icon)!
What’s the cost of selling out to the illusion of comfort and security instead of following your soul’s deepest desires and your spiritual and social calling (not to mention the fullest expression and possibility OF your Beauty/codes and legacy)?
Of allowing your shadows to hijack your greater desire to be an ICON of influence to those you are MEANT to be?
Think of the cost of regret in how years are flying by. It’s never too late at any age. AvaStar allows us to do this work assuredly.
What is the message and transmissions you are meant to give in fully living your greater purpose ‘full out’?
I support stars and starlets; Also b/c I’m on that path (for GREAT spiritual service and social visibility and impact creating forms of heaven on earth).
So this is the work I’m doing myself and with the 6 ladies at the time of this writing who are already in the AvaStar Makeover experience with on-going Starlet support.
Can you sense you why I’m raising it to $1k/mo. after the first 10 are booked? (With that said; the $1k/mo. level WILL have a live VIP day with debut media shoot and those in at the inaugural price will have the option to upgrade to that version).
Remember; this is identity level work…so yeah;
You go ahead on your own for what you can do with the tips as far as makeover OR you could hire the best transformational allure consultant in the world; me (that’s service based authentic ego with integrity).
Yes; I’d have to say that I AM to date; the best allure consultant in the world. That’s me taking humble but solid authority over what I am and do..and how the game is already changed.
No one comes close and you know what?
I HAVE to be that to FOUND Allure Priestess as the world’s pre-eminent allure consultants to be light years ahead of everyone else (where I’ll put the focus on THEM).
Isn’t your ICONIC version of self worth it?
Can you afford the cringe of how your ideal followers and soul tribe on a larger scale or the sabotage that would still prevent you from being your FULLEST self with YOUR unique codex?
I CANNOT afford to be a poser. The retribution would be brutal at the level I’m playing at (in transformation major industries).
That I AM the real deal is the PRICELESS value and currency with the work I do; I just had to actually EMBODY and express it VISUALLY so that people can know that I’m not just the good guy, impotent lightworker bts.
Will you EMBODY YOUR codex? B/c you are probably ‘the real deal’ in the ways that you are also BUT they must be embodied and felt in this attention age economy with social media.
And it might be different for you vs. someone else. I work with you on all of that CUSTOM in the AvaStar Makeover.
Like; if you don’t embody like say it’s Priestess and you have worthiness blocks and sabotage from being seen as one including fear of siphoning and fugly duckling and that insecurity to them as high status discerning ideal clients and people; you can come across energetically as insecure or ‘cringe’…they may sense that she’s not saying or being who she says she is rather than the EROSPHERIC COMFORT that relaxes their nervous system WHILE inciting them to be with you or work with you because you ARE who you say you are…
Or it could be more like she’s a behind the scenes hobbyist with visual scarring vs. a serious ‘here I AM’ force of nature or Beauty where people feel your enchantment and ease instantly.
Yeah; this is high level identity work. Reference again, the ‘felt influence’ of my own (before and after) visuals above.
Without going through an experiential process (like a specialized makeover); the fullest version of you will predictably remain a fantasy or dream by default and you could come across as a poser or fraud; NOT EVEN DARING TO BE FULLY SEEN in the first place…or you could keep being sabotaged by YEARS of visibility wounds; disembodied with your own codes en masse and where leaders won’t take you seriously. I don’t know about you but I CANNOT afford that with my dharma.
Just be honest with wherever you are at….I had to be BRUTALLY honest and bear the mantle of this dharma. I had to go through the transformation that I did. I couldn’t let the disembodied, non-integrated only a dream version of me win out and live a life of COMPROMISE. I’m on a BIG mission. This is about being TESTAMENT and living as it.
If you don’t land and integrate YOUR unique STAR/STARLET CODES and iconic self, you may not have the POWER to be taken seriously and continue to be sabotaged by your visibility wounds and fears. This is you in all of your integrity as an ICON of beauty or spiritual social influence.
I would say; don’t be a poser. DON’T ALLOW IT for yourself.
GET EMBODIED and expressed with your Avatar Starlet codex allure.
There are far more people DREAMING of being stars or trying to pose than actually BEING powerful and beautiful in their unique felt presence and soul service. Could you be ok with standing out like that?
I’ve mentioned it a bit so far but; what about dealing with imposter syndrome or feeling like you’re a fraud?
Well; you ALREADY HAVE divinated codes…you HAVE strengths and qualities of archetypal, elemental and siddhic in the seat of your soul at least.
What if it was just a disconnect from embodiment and FROM the primary missing Star code that for/you, you just had to access and then embody that would embolden your public service and DISSOLVE imposter syndrome to be the amplified REAL version of you with star or starlet radiance?
I can’t put a price on BEING IN MY TRUE UNIQUE POWER visually. It’s having ORGANIC influence and response that is literally scalable to the stars and I’ll continue LEADING this work.
If you are called to dial in YOUR own debut or re-birth makeover as the unique Star or Starlet version of yourself (which also means you may NOT have Starlet as part of your codex but She can be proxy for the amplification and transfiguration OF your authentic other codes and opening up GREATER Goddess consciousness beauty and bandwidth transmission and circulation); join me in the AvaStar Makeover with on-going Starlet support (on monthly you can still cancel at anytime).
I am a direct form of Star and Starlet-maker. Either way, the EMBODIMENT work FOR visual and consciousness truth is where it’s at and in how others respond to you. Mindset or ‘psychology’ does NOT equate to transformation…it may keep you in a cycle of being led by your own unique shadow-grid of fears preventing YOUR avatar self from being in powerful influence and being seen.
Can you afford to just put it all up to random chance or is it time to get the professional support to ensure this happens?
>Details and booking for the AvaStar Makeover here<
From Safe, Semi-Dorky ‘Good Guy’ Lightworker…To Starter Rockstar?
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…This has been with MY journey. LOADS of self-image issues and sabotage. B/c dork and safe, good guy is light years from rockstar.
(I might start sharing images in the next blog posts)…I’m still debating.
Think of the gap of where you are now to your idealized self avatar self ‘debuted’ and in public service with organic felt response from people you WANT to influence.
There may be an archetype that scares the crap out of you b/c you might not believe it’s even possible for you esp. at your age and maybe with so much visibility wounding like I had.
But this extreme transformation; that’s what’s happening now…I’m actually embodying and expressing the codes charismatically…yes I’m going to improve but they’re here now.
(NEW rock ‘n roll pre-dance m-video Guns ‘n Roses out now)
Why not become who you’ve ALWAYS WANTED TO BECOME? The movie star version of yourself!
For me; the gap was pretty massive though because I was hiding behind the scenes and in visibility shadows for years. (The fitness transformation is only part of it).
But if the Dork or the ‘incognito’ Crocs-wearing, jammy-hooded you isn’t your fullest truth, you have some work to do in EMBODYING your AVATAR codex.
How are you going to be taken seriously by those you are meant to influence when you go on that larger scale?
As an influencer and founder I have to BE the brand (as testament) esp. in this age of social media.
I’m on the literal FRONT-END of the evolution of Beauty and Goddess work with charisma/allure and people must know and FEEL that I am who I say I am.
NO MORE HIDING as the ‘safe’ but half schleppy guy (at least visually, publicly as I through time upgrade my zoom quality client sessions).
So; but how do you go from all of your own hidden and known BARRIERS to not only being seen but being seen, embodied and expressed in your higher truth and desires ESP. if an idealized part of you (like Starlet or Queen) is entirely disembodied, scary or seems too ‘out there’?
Consider that I’ve been conditioned and known of for YEARS as the ‘good guy’ lightworker behind the scenes for female clients.
WHERE WAS MY EROS?! You could even tell I was cave-mode BTS (still hesitating to share these images..)
But how could I ever be the social rockstar for being the brand? (Although Rockstar seems paradoxical with healer, this is MUSE lineage and purified which fits into my codex of Muse-Magician primarily).
How are celebrities going to look up to me besides JUST relying on behind the scenes referrals while remaining OUT of embodiment and expression with my truth. I couldn’t hide BTS anymore.
Sure I have the WORKING lightworker ‘good guy’ foundation but I had to go through an entire serious makeover.
My Dark Eros was nowhere around, nor was my charisma or my ‘style’ on camera (again; still debating IF I’m going to share these b/c if shared out of context or by AI they could destroy my credibility)….so for MY makeover I had some VERY serious professional work to do including RECLAIMING and embodying my Dark Eros from the ethers.
I’m more of a extreme example of makeover, so whatever YOUR codex is, it can also be done. We all have potential access TO the divine and archetypes with no limit for embodiment.
You might think “I could never be ‘this’ or that”…but it might be connected to your deeper lifelong desire ie. to be seen and experience life as a Starlet (but with YOUR codex).
The serious self-transformation is what I’ve been doing with the AvaStar Makeover on myself including 2 dan tien and kundalini activations per week.
I just helped a brand new AvaStar client last night; we signed up and we went RIGHT into her 55 minute intake consultation and ALREADY found out there Starlet codex with such clarity with time to spare AND I just finished a powerful activation for her right before this tonight (a PREMIUM one that is lower priced b/c it’s in this makeover format).
She’s aware of where she has fear around stepping into that larger version of herself even though she’s already successful and we’re going through this process in the makeover to embody and express HER codes.
Knowing your codes and idea of your visualized avatar self is GREAT but it may not be enough.
That’s why I can support you with and for you as we go through the makeover process itself to YOUR debut or rebirth. We don’t have to wait.
This includes working on aspects of you that were previously SO disembodied and even NON-believable about yourself. I also had another AvaStar client who said our intake was BRILLIANT and we got HER initial life-change clarity (on the world stage at that) and will be doing dan tien and kundalini activations as part of the makeover to support a stronger, stable light body to hold her codes and essences to be felt.
Again; I’m also leading by example…middle-aged men (I don’t identity as that category) just don’t become SEX ICONS anymore…maybe 6 a year that we know of TOTAL?! Do YOU have any remaining excuses?
So I’m really doing the kimpossible for myself. Check out my Guns ‘n Roses Instagram video listed above for further validation that ROCKSTAR is starting to land!
It’s more than just air-jamming…we’re on the forefront of REVOLUTION with charisma and allure mastery here for star influence!
You can’t put a price on the REAL thing (essence); b/c it’s the social currency that is being exchanged and valued anyways. Ready to bridge YOUR impossible gap into embodiment and still starting 2026 off VERY strong and empowered in alignment?
-Rion
p.s. I’ve got room for 4 more AvaStar clients before a permanent offer/price increase (double).
(It’s worth mentioning that the price double is planned to include a live VIP day and essenced production video shoot for your social media debut visuals(!).
Might you be 1 of them? I’m supporting the rise of stars and starlets directly. Clients at the inaugural rate will also have the option to upgrade to the version with the VIP/media shoot day with me as well.
My Fear-Riddled Path Into Visibility &…Star-dom?
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Sub-titled The impossible journey that cannot be faked. Well…this is the start of an extended mini-series of topic specific content on the blog (under ‘charisma’, ‘rion kati’ and ‘soul starlet’).
Firstly; there’s a lot of inspired edu-tainment content I have for you the rest of this month so keep checking your emails; you never know what life-changing gold nuggets (snuggets) you might get all of a sudden.
It turns out I have a real knack not only for ladies finding their Beloved’s codex with 100% accuracy but I’m also damn good at helping them get more clarity on their own debut Starlet codex in the AvaStar consulting sessions.
“Brilliant” “Epic” said the 2 latest clients on the level of life-changing clarity consulting for THEIR visual debut.
I’m also going to be speaking to all kinds of things which can prevent you from being SEEN and having greater influence and connection with the people you are meant to influence (IN your divine truth). So keep checking the emails and blog…
As you may know, I’ve had incredibly brutal anxiety, insecurity and crippling visibility wounds. I mean very extreme cases of fugly duckling.
For years I’ve been the cozy ‘behind the scenes’ Lightworker who looks half schleppy going into zoom audio sessions with a low-mid grade webcam. One could say that I’ve actually the CLOSEST THING to someone ‘working in his pajamas’. Honestly, I’d just wear less if I could sometimes.
Alas; don’t fret…all of the light-working has been REAL without compromise but…the truth is, I’ve been ‘hiding out’ for years and years…building an epic foundation, YES but hiding out.
I know that I’m not only meant to share these gifts with the world publicly but actually literally with the world’s most famous celebrities (and I mean most all of them). I’m also meant to train the world’s TOP glow-up artists with Allure Priestess who will lead the world in allure makeovers.
So remember; when I was talking a lot about your Star/let codex for your debut or rebirth. This is what can give you the inspired clarity and confidence to move forward and that at least ONE of your archetypes you’re going to be VERY comfortable and familiar with.
My public Star codex is: The Muse Magician Rockstar. I’m INTEGRAL with Muse-Magician
But see, I was never ‘the rockstar’. That is the big challenge and in my case, the one that really transfigures it as undeniably SOCIAL and in great visible INFLUENCE. For you, there’s also going to be a weaker archetype which single-handedly is going to challenge your visibility wounds yet also provide THE MEDICINE for you to be in YOUR POWER and SERVICE.
For me it’s Rockstar and then Star but it’s the unique coding AS the Muse Magician.
For you, it may not literally be ‘Starlet’….Starlet may be more invisible but serves as the amplification and transfiguration OF your unique codex in divine service resolved of visibility wounds to the world so you can have the influence (and even make money) with the people you are ultimately meant to serve IN your fullest Beauty, codes and active service truth.
So the real challenge is that I was the guy behind the scenes, but I’ve realized (through Muse’ decree) that I am meant to not just be visible but be RIDICULOUSLY visible…and that means triggering ALLLLLL of my security related comfort and visibility issues.
Because something like THAT is massive identity level transformation.
Maybe YOUR gap is that there is one archetype that puts you IN your shameless public service and power but it THREATENS everything you are now and the comfort if you’ve been hiding out also.
I was the one who (as a 5/1 DEFINED cave living and endless internal seeking of security before being ready to ‘share with the world’.
This is me coming out of my cave to interact socially

Yes; there’s kind of an ugly go-getter beauty to him, but that’s not quite it. I represent the evolution of Beauty and charisma on the frontlines, so I am ESPECIALLY being tested because I have to become the testament of the brand and this work. For all my past fugliness, I have to become the swan…fortunately it is my truth in spirit; it just has to be accessed, embodied and expressed AGAINST ALL ODDS and subconscious sabotage (including the fugly duckling and quasimodo-gremlin).
I can’t tell you how much anxiety I’ve had.
But I was/am an extreme case of visibility wounds. I remember doing improv acting on stage at high school and I literally froze for 2 minutes while people were watching me to finish a skit.
All of this was REAL for me; a lifelong plague…and ironically it’s a prime HUMAN or incarnate shadow of the Muse line; performance anxiety.
One time I was at a famous internet marketing seminar in a beautiful ballroom for dinner and Yanik Silver had tables come together to form teams and work on some problem. There was a healthy competitive environment amongst them and at some point, I was like ‘give me the microphone, I’ve got a point to make’ and then I was standing and became radically self-conscious…
I saw and felt ALL of the eyeballs were on me (a few hundred people with their fancy glass chalices clinging, etc.) and I tried to hold my voice steady from cracking…
I don’t even remember what I said but I think I juts finished my sentence and sat down in humility. All I remember afterwards was he gave the microphone to a man who DID have public confidence and a strong accent…
Yanik had him say ‘fine Corinthian leathers’. I do remember that. I felt smaller than invisible.
BUT…That’s what inspired me to host 2 free live workshops in Houston to help overcome my speaking and visibility anxiety. When it started I was at the head of the table with around 14 men; half of whom flew in from around the country and it took me a few minutes of speaking to finally ‘drop into the zone’.
I was the one who still had so much performance anxiety before being invited to speak onstage in Montreal in 2006 as a ‘natural’ dating coach at the Cliff’s List convention that I was swigging shots of rum from a Malibu bottle in my hotel room BEFORE going on stage just to alleviate the anxiety.
Somehow I think it really helped and neutralized my performance jitters away.
I was the one who AT my first David DeAngelo seminar in Chicago at the end in 2005 waited in line and had so much ANXIETY built up just waiting to speak to him (b/c of the power dynamic mixed with my excitement of what I was doing) that I couldn’t slow my speaking down.
There’s a hidden clip of me somewhere online and you would be like ‘that can’t be Rion’.
I had so much anxiety in recording the ‘interview with dating guru’ of the month (in late 2007 or so) that I locked my Himalayan cat-boy in the bathroom so that I could focus record into the funny looking tape machine he had sent on the carpet of my Houston apartment while he and I talked on the device.
(Eben Pagan then invited me to SPEAK at the Man Transformation summit in L.A. which I think was in JAN. 2008 and I HAD to say yes despite having so much anxiety).
I had so much anxiety speaking on stage I didn’t know if I would ever get through it…there were several 100 people there with cameras recording.
Mortifyingly;
He kind of said through the microphone talking to a crew member (Royster productions I think) ‘Yeah this isn’t working’ as he walked towards stage.
Eventually HE STOPPED the cameras (or not to use them later) and took a big step in the front onto the stage/pulpit to ask me privately but in front of 100’s (mics off) if we could switch the format because it ‘just wasn’t working’ (but that he did value what I had to say). How would you feel in this exact scenario?
This was a BIG event and I’ve never seen anything like that happen…
I’ll share what happened at the very bottom.
But really; although I got better at speaking especially on a smaller scale and hosting small retreats; my images issues and anxieties further compounded because I knew I was meant for greatness. How am I going to LEAD the allure and charisma revolution movement WORLDWIDE if I DON’T overcome the deep ugliness and visibility wounds within?
Remember; I stayed ‘cozy’ for YEARS but I knew that I would eventually have to BE SEEN in order to truly have the INFLUENCE and impact my soul was meant to have (ESP. because it’s all so visual centric). And now; social media is WHERE IT’S AT. So whatever angle you look at it; we’re all influencers and the FULLEST version of yourself is SOME form of influencer…and if you’re triggered by influencer, then just redefine what it means because you and I have codes that MUST get out there…unless we allow the shadows, doubts, insecurities to sabotage us and keep us in an ILLUSION of safety.
I recently caught the MindValley ; as you may know Vishen Lakhiani is actually a long-time peer of mine. We literally had the same best friends in college when I was at UW-Madison and we would drive to U of M to party on some weekends. Anyways; he was saying that 2026 is the land-rush for FOUNDERS.
With the advent of AI accelerating, people are going to want more CONNECTION and trust with RELIABLE sources…not companies per se but the actual FOUNDERS and those who create and sculpt their brand ecosphere.
THIS is where social media is at now so if you’re not primed to BE SEEN and leverage social media, well this could be one of many ways in which you are holding back on your greater purpose (including BEING SEEN).
Your Star/let codex holds the IDENTITY level clarity and POWER for you to be in your highest truth, beauty, power and service in alignment with your soul purpose….it holds that for me, it holds it for you (whether you’re conscious of it or not).
Archetypes do not have the same problems we do…it’s really just about having a way to access and embody that encoded consciousness to mix and amplify your own soul codes.
And the public one for you probably holds THE KEYS to your greatness in social and spiritual influence.
So as far as me…..I was never the ROCKSTAR. It was just a secret obsessive pipe dream that I’ve had my whole life. I admired stars and secretly wanted to be one but I never felt like I was worthy,.
To be clear; I never had imposter syndrome (and you or others might); but speaking of myself I’ve had OTHER hardcore visibility wounds and anxieties in the extreme. But still; how am I going to be an influencer TO stars and starlets?
It seemed light years away. But my codex holds the power and the codes…I just had to find a way to step into ROCKSTAR which is the social amplification and an apex of attention for feminine Beauty and Beauty influencers to CHANGE THE GAME (it’s all Muse’ brilliant strategy to be honest).
How could the anxious, FUGLY duckling, insecure, hiding out version of me BE THAT embodied and non-fakeable version of myself?
Because remember; the highest status people are like HAWKS who can sniff out any posers or fakers so the POWER and self-image I have must be real (and divine). I have to be the real thing….I AM the real thing in ESSENCE (like you may be); it’s about EMBODIMMENT and expression in influence LIKE a star or starlet who can face, engage, inspire and MOVE the collective in the larger currents with your unique codes that are compelling and socially contagious.
THAT’S WHERE THE POWER OF THIS AVASTAR WORK COMES IN.
So…over this 2 weeks I’m going to be sharing more codes in and around my transformation as well as more Starlet codes related to overcoming extreme sabotage and codes around HOW to make real progress to be IN your power and codes against all odds in ‘being seen’.
And you know what?
My (Social) Rockstar era is beginning. It’s more important that OTHERS have the experience and affect of it; but it’s still important to have the INTERNAL compass of your my Star/let codex consciously so that you are ALIGNED.
I use the Beauty Sorcerer more publicly and the ‘brand’ is really Rion Kati and having influence as a real star/lightworker, etc. but as a ‘brand’ but I’m sharing this with you as part of my (and the) AvaStar process.
If you’re following me on Instagram, there’s a LOT going on in my JUST released video because (for me and you) the impossible is WITHIN REACH. It proves this work is real (oh and ‘miracles’ are already happening for the lady AvaStar clients). I’ll deconstruct what’s going on b/c in some way, I’m not ‘competing’ with the late Michael Hutchence of INXS, BUT we’re both 5/1’s and…well, stay tuned (or check it out now). I’ll speak to it soon.
STARDOM is the mid and long-term outlook but in a sense, I’m already a star in the work that I do and those sub-markets (now really post-debut and going visual public public).
OH; so what happened when I was speaking at the Man Transformation event when Eben Pagan/David DeAngelo stepped up on stage to STOP my speaking presentation (which was printed to DVD’s and sold as a product later)?
Well…they took a quick 4 minute stretch break to set up some couches and somehow that did the trick; we went into a sit-down interview format and it alleviated most of my anxiety and saved the day.
Yes, it’s THAT Eben Pagan famous marketer; he’s been a multi-millionaire for a long time. I actually have him LAUGHING…here’s a screen shot of that. I was doing a Mr. Anderson impression from Beavis & Butt-head.

I HAD TO DO BE THERE and speak because I had codes that NO ONE ELSE HAD in that industry; literally no one else was sharing this (and I was frustrated they weren’t), so I had to fight through my anxieties and do the right thing. I was still one of the very few ‘naturals’ in the dating and seduction industry back then.
I even had 1 man give me a standing ovation near the front left (speaker’s view). Fortunately overcoming my anxieties opened all kinds of doors for me b/c I knew that I HAD to do it or I couldn’t live with myself.
Stay tuned to more real world Star/let codes on the blog soon…and yes, the AvaStar Makeover is available.



