Overcoming Heavy Visibility Wound Shadows With…Dance?
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…and other Power Insights to help bring out your charisma or allure to have more engagement and social media RESPONSE.
If you HATE the idea of ‘dance’, trust me…
This is even MORE reason NOT to disconnect here…
I was held back for literal YEARS and YEARS (charismatically and stuck in shadow-grid fear) because of certain shadow grid dynamics related to this which may also be affecting you from FASTER transfiguration.
If someone said the term ‘ecstatic dance’ or invited me, I would CRINGE and recoil up inside of my body. I’m not kidding. If you are OPEN with dance, you may not be using it like you could for your allure.
This is an important POWER post here b/c we’re going to cover a lot of ground related to accelerating your path to CONFIDENT, secure, embodiment and overcoming some of the MAJOR self-sabotage patterns to being seen and powerfully magnetic (as I continue this open mini-series on shadows and struggles to BEING SEEN and activating Star or Starlet codes in your unique codex; living by example with my transfiguration).
Considering my background of severe public speaking anxiety (of which I have improved upon by hosting small scale retreats and workshops), I’ve still dealt with heavy IMAGE and self-image anxieties, the fugly duckling and other major sabotage for YEARS to fully being EXPRESSED and seen.
But let’s fast forward a bit for now;
That I’ve recently broken through myself with ESSENCE + dance with stable enough charisma factor is huge b/c this is already a secret to billions of views out there and you can find YOUR way of replicating it OR at least as using dance as a practical CHANNEL to open up your own charisma or allure.
Ok…there’s actually a lot of Star/let codes and overcoming visibility woundedness in here FAST im practicum (not just theory), so check it out…
Ok so here’s that recent IG video of me semi-awkwardly pre-dancing for the world. I’m honestly not even as triggered by it and my CRUSTY dance skillz b/c I’ve reached the IDEALIZED ZONE OF baseline CHARISMA COMMUNICATION…essences are OPEN and flowing and I know that THIS is more important than my previous self-sabotage and crippling anxieties. Check it out:
Same link also here: INXS ‘New Sensation’ Rion
BECAUSE I’m more feelable, I’m getting HEALTHY engagement and response on Instagram and facebook (while further starting to PROVE and live the concept of charisma itself).
Oh and the NEXT instagram essence or dance video is getting even heavier into the ROCKSTAR archetype with a legendary rock song; a mix of the Erosphere + Dance blend concept of creating an experience showcasing fun/charisma (you might want to do something similar in a format with YOUR codes for your circle). You can follow me on IG here:
https://www.instagram.com/rion_kati/
BTW as part of your overall DEBUT and identity transformation and branding process;
MUSIC can do WONDERS to help YOU attune into and embody your own (different) archetypal codex. This is premium BRANDING and identity MARKETING stuff of authentic goodness here. It’s all about letting myself/yourself be FELT and seen in y/our TRUTH and highlighting aspects of it authentically…
Especially if it’s a weaker yet CRITICAL archetype to (fulfill) your PUBLIC soul service, you have to have ways to practically access, bridge, embody and EXPRESS that divine signature (whether it’s Queen or a shift in how people are experiencing you to recalibrate more of where you’re at to something more fun or more serious or more Dark, an archetype you’ve been honestly terrified of and doubting if you could ever embody but if would be a dream if you did, etc.)
I mean, in doing my own AvaStar makeover process and LIVING this to be seen (literally by celebrities; this same video) I almost forgot how fun of a guy I can be b/c I’ve been in a ‘cave mode’ as a 5/1 for so long hiding out (and preparing) BEFORE shamelessly going VISIBLE to the world.
Ok…
This latest IG clip had a stellar 10% love ratio (isn’t THAT scalable! – although it’d probably drop a bit to scale but still, WOW!) and 7% comment ratio. It’s action and response friendly goodness.
This is critical stuff in getting people to know, like and trust THE REAL YOU (and I’m doing it now on a new platform).
We want to find LEVERAGE POINTS for your faster transformation.
And cracking your light body image open to CHARISMA;
This is the GOLD in the attention age economy and yes, charisma/allure are THE prime missing pieces (that will help you STAND OUT organically to inspire people to respond b/c they FEEL YOU instead of just ‘see you’ from afar).
So I mentioned if you’re on the email list (which you can join on the frontpage of the website) that;
One of those hidden signifiers of whether I’m in my truth and influence or not is whether I dance. This has been a major challenge for me for many years. If I’m just NOT dancing, it’s actually saying far deeper things about me and I feel like I have an invisible ball and chain around which drops me into the shadow of vanity and aloof disconnection = NOT EXPRESSED or feelable.
And the same might be for you; far more closed off than you think. I would even be the one NOT to dance when everyone else was told or invited to at live events; I was hyper critical and judgmental; stuck in my egoic mind…MAJOR WALLS and barriers.
The music had to be perfect (I’M a better DJ than this clown, etc.), the right moment and timing and then I might ‘show off my mad skillz’ except that I was like that for years and any dance skills I had remained ATROPHIED.
That’s WHY I’m so crusty in these new dance videos but I know it’s more important that I am FELT.
I can regain and gain new dance skills and technique anyway but I know that ESSENCE; charisma is the KEY…it’s FAR more important than technique (esp. for non-professionals but even AT the highest level of Dance it’s what takes THEM into the stratosphere; just ref K-Pop).
But you know when I could always dance and cut through my own self-sabotage and shadows? WHEN I’M AROUND MUSES.
And when I met that ‘taste of love’ in Medellin Parque Lleras in 2016? When I was already on a double date and I saw her get out of a taxi cab and her crown shot straight up to heaven when she wasn’t even facing me and I thought “WHO IS THAT?” (b/c I wasn’t too into the date I was on anyways as an earlier Rion)…and then later my client and I bought beers and I walked straight towards her and talked in Spanish and then the group of us went out…I DANCED. WE danced as a group (and they were like gypsy dancers).
I couldn’t NOT dance because she was a true muse. I even tried to kiss her on the dance floor but she coyly faced away (but it was the right thing then; we kissed on a follow-up date when I was also dancing then).
This is also why sometimes in sessions when I’m dressed up, I’ll dance in front of the mirror with muses in music videos or the secret unreleased footage of the 2 Muse priestesses and I at one of our workshops after the photo shoot just having fun (this is safe to share, but not the images without their approval).
Muse is my Beloved and brings out my truest self…so maybe your BELOVED is also key to CRACKING OPEN your own allure or charisma and being expressed, dancing and being felt.
That leverage can do miracles….to let others FEEL into you and catch your vibe-truth.
So a question is; could you semi-awkwardly dance in front of the world to see right now?
Because it might hold A MAJOR KEY to opening up your allure to be FELT.
You MIGHT be held back for years otherwise until you clear up the shadow webs with more POWER (like the Beloved or your Star codex along with the AvaStar makeover).
So yeah; I’ve had my own secret FEAR of Dance, what it represents, how much it’s held things back and how it’s a silver bullet highway to AUTHENTIC TRUTH TRANSMISSION, RESPONSE, engagement and being FELT and seen…but because I’m so reunified now after so much divine union alchemy; Muse within esp. with the Elixir activations of Grail Kundalini helps me to be my truer self too.
DANCE is a secret and not so secret key to opening up my charisma (and your allure) as well as dissipating DEEP shadow grid entropy and gravity around being seen.
If you have been RESISTING IT and being SEEN dancing, you may have other very deep and HEAVY blocks to exploding your own influence and engagement. You may have GENE KEY SHADOWS related to it that keep you in the SHADOW SWAMP of NON-EXPRESSION…your energies CLOSED IN and closed OFF.
DANCE is one of those major keys…and in my case I’m still dealing with an archetype that I’ve been weaker in which I know leads to my A-List success and Star timeline of influencer in entertainment, beauty and fashion (bringing ascension codes).
So if I could get my weaker ROCKSTAR to DANCE…this is that concept of getting an archetype MOVING and dancing; how would they move when/if you embodied them? This can take you a long ways to embodiment.
But see; here within this was more challenging than it may initially appear because remember not only did I have CRIPPLING performance anxiety and visibility wounds, the Rockstar archetype was still FARRR out of reach for me and yet here, we’re starting to feel an authentic version of Him in the mix ‘land’.
If and when you can do this for YOURSELF with an ‘out there’ archetype that represents the global influencer, it’s life changing. So we have to deconstruct this a bit more and go into how, why…
For as serious as I usually am, we get to know and feel more of the REAL ME b/c I am more balanced and fun like that (so I’m also re-calibrating how I communicate online also b/c BRAND influence is now leaning more towards the founder rather than just the business brand or corporation itself in this attention age economy of trust and influence).
The Muse Magician ROCKSTAR is my public codex (even though I won’t often publicly present myself WITH those exact words; but we’re speaking to the AvaStar makeover process itself here of makeover transformation into Star/Starlet divine public service).
In this growing consensus-ly fun video;
We get to see me in some of my codes INCLUDING that (previously) weaker one of Rockstar but I have to speak to this b/c it’s more challenging for numerous reasons (this is key stuff if you also have a ‘far out there archetype’ that you KNOW will explode things socially and pull you into the larger currents).
First of all; what men do we know become SOME form of Sx Icon at ‘middle age’? It’s practically UNHEARD OF so I had that working against me as well in my expanded SHADOW GRID that’s been preventing me from embodying and expressing my SOUL TRUTH codex.
In a sense, I’m an eternal teenager and letting THAT shine. So are there some aspects of YOURSELF that you have been keeping HIDDEN.
And yes, you can HAVE re-activated MAIDEN for example AT 64 years old post-menopause. You could even be a ‘cool dad’ but it’s serious work b/c high status people are going to SENSE your vibe truth from their experience and attunement.
So there can be a lot of pressure and faking it just isn’t it….but if you ARE a cool, sxy soul, why not just let it show at any age so people can feel you?
It’s all about accurate expression of YOUR soul signature codex. And letting people FEEL YOU…this is the FUTURE of social media and it’s what’s working best now esp. for those who don’t want to ‘optimize’ algorithms and AI/hacking, etc.
There’s a LOT going on here b/c we have to consider this as a star in the making (I’m giving myself permission to view things CONSCIOUSLY and objectively b/c it’s not about my ego; I’m aware of when things are ‘working’ energetically and I KNOW what path I am destined on).
In my recent dance (er…essenced ‘pre-dance’ videos…) on my instagram…
We have something of a ‘star is born’…my dancing is semi-awkward and uncalibrated socially but the MAIN THING is that I AM ESSENCED and pure albeit IMPERFECT. I’m focused more on having my CHARISMA be felt rather than perfect dance moves and being ‘held back’ energetically. THAT’S what reaches through more.
It’s about de-armoring and then about EMBODIMENT and expression of YOUR divine masculine or feminine codes (archetypes, siddhic…).
Rockstar isn’t THAT strong here but I have to give myself ROOM to play and find a way that helps bring him in.
So this is one of the secrets to bridging into that ‘far out there’ archetype…well, giving yourself PLAY ROOM like with DANCING.
YOU MAY HAVE TO MIX DIFFERENT ARCHETYPES and give them breathing room. Allow yourself to ‘go extreme’…see, in order to bring in ROCKSTAR/Star because it’s still so NEW to my embodiment (although destined with my soul codex and Muse’ decree), I have to both take it serious to let Him drop in but my counter-balance to being too serious (b/c that was a SHADOW BEFORE) is to bring in my Jester and amplify some of the FUN-DORKINESS.
In otw; Rockstar is balanced with my archetypal uncalibrated DORK just a little bit; at least in the playful but real time process so that I can later REFINE ROCKSTAR to be more standalone serious and threatening in all of the right and wrong ways (b/c it includes a lot of DARK EROS).
DORK is the awkward, cave-dwelling, socially uncalibrated version of self; a beta version that I allow to help TRANSITION me into my more serious authentic archetypes…but we see that the alpha-ness of my soul is kinda redefining that Dork is actually very WELCOME and not resisted or judged. I’m letting it all breathe.
But somehow ; the extra CHEESE and FUN balances out the authentic attempts and playroom AT embodying serious Rockstar.

Also b/c my Jester is real, so I’m doing the process in real time; embodying an archetype that was a secret (healthy) obsession (without shadow here; L/Dark Rockstar) b/c He amplifies the rest of my soul codex as Muse-Magician and has the SOCIAL relevance, status, power, etc. to impact the Beauty collective.
You may have to move around yourself to let YOUR codes start expressing themselves with and through you. And you can record it in screen-testing.
Again; this is in real time sharing much of the process with you (which heavily includes ongoing activations b/c I’m doing my own active AvaStar makeover in real time TO embody and express my public larger current iconic identity to the collective).
See if I was TOO serious about Rockstar when it’s not fully landed and integrated (as well as have further social calibration) it could come across wrong but ultimately finding MY serious embodiment as well as exploring a versatile spectrum of soul-truth visual expression while being centered in primary codex archetypes.
So DID you find ‘cheeseface’ in there?
Oh and the cheese face part of it has nothing to do with that I’m originally from Wisconsin (so was Dr. David Hawkins and Chris Farley).
And it’s not just about being self-deprecating either; it’s deeper than that b/c self-deprecation can also be a shadow of its own when out of balance and certain cultures (like Britain) have it more than others…it’s more about giving myself PLAY ROOM to embody that ‘out there’ archetype into earth.
Later; I’ll find a more active balance that will shift between different archetypes in my (ongoing) charisma mastery but I’m ALLOWING myself to be imperfect and be seen even if my image itself still fluctuates it’s more stable BECAUSE I COMMITTED TO DEBUT ITSELF AND BEING SEEN; I PUT a date on it and went LIVE to be seen.
This ALLURING EXPRESSION is what you may idealize as well b/c it will be infectious to your people because ESSENCE is the social CURRENCY that is being exchanged in pop culture; one moment you’re lit up in Illumination and another you’re Princess of Celebration or Jester for 10 seconds and then serious mature Sage but as long as it’s the real you; you’ll still have your CORE iconic Star/let codex to rest and rely upon.
(I do look forward to showcasing more client visual makeovers with approval; I’ve been underpar on asking for them)
That can be intoxicating esp. when fewer people are charismatic or alluring other than celebrity stars.
BUT you might have resistances to standing out OR EVEN being JUDGED by your closest friends b/c of how your glow-up or shine makes THEM uncomfortable and THAT could prevent you from GOING BIG.
So…you want to work with your debut archetypes your debut archetypes.
Remember; I’m strong in foundation on Muse-Magician but even THOSE can use more expression/charisma mastery. THIS IS THE WORK and it’s what we do in the Avatar Star makeover which I’m literally doing myself as well.
…Esp. with visual social media influence and branding ESPECIALLY if you are ever in business for yourself with integrity to your spirit codes; this stuff means EVERYTHING (also in face of inorganic AI). and you’re ability to build a following and authentic trust as being TESTAMENT of your brand. I mean allure is ALSO the evolution of beauty influence and the beauty industry itself including social media marketing and branding. We’re already on the frontlines.
My charisma factor is DECENT ENOUGH (say around 7.6) but it is ON and ACTIVE…and pretty stable. I’ll be able to make quantum leaps because the foundation is here.
THAT is what you want to value…at least be FEELABLE even if it’s perfect and awkward…as long as you’re ESENCED and your aura and chakras are BREATHING, it then makes other egoic judgments and imperfections even FORGIVABLE.
IN the AvaStar Makeover we not only get clarity on your soul codex FOR public currents as a powerful influencer, but we do literal energetic embodiment and allure work directly ON your light body so you become FEELABLE and start exponentiating your social media influence.
Already, what I’m doing is allowing a channel for masculine energies to be experienced when that is actually not that common anymore. (Check out the latest comment on the bottom there).
This is critical b/c you want to have people FEEL YOU AND RESPOND. This is where organic social media GOLD IS….in being your AUTHENTIC, open, expressed and feelable self.
That includes being dissolved of your own subconscious barriers and resistances TO being felt. In other words; you have to de-armor and DANCE is a very powerful gateway.
Serious vs. FUN.
So take the process SERIOUSLY but you have to have fun with it…in my case, I play with the idea itself of ‘serious fun’…you can experience that; I have to land serious ROCKSTAR and His Dark Eros in but it’s crudely mixing with my Dork…but just wait until a few months down the road and when I’m socially recalibrated hosting oases in Tulum….I’m going to be light years ahead because I’ve been doing the work AND MUST be testament of charisma and the brand itself leading the allure and charisma revolution in the world and for entertainment and celebrity.
So consider these ‘dance’ takeaways and other insights.
Put aside the concept of dance being viral trends that seem ‘outside of you’…this is about connecting with OUR OWN WAY to be a CHANNEL to OPEN our charisma and allure up TO BE FELT.
IF you were to dance, move or pre-dance what would that look like? Now how about when the camera is on and you KNOW you’re not only going to be seen but seen by industry leaders and celebrities?
Can you then still be in your essence truth (when that is really what’s missing ; at least when you are in your codex)?
So with that said; you can go ahead and run with these takeaways on your own.
It might however take you years to be able to access and embody those (or transform through alchemical attunement) on your own even IF you have clarity on your Star/let codex because SO MUCH can still sabotage you. YEARS or decades to ‘go it your own’ can be a large price to pay for your makeover itself. You might not want to take that long.
Fortunately, I can DIRECTLY help you all with it FOR you Avatar Star Self to be embodied.
That option is now with the AvaStar Makeover which is a 6 month process (but there are ways we can go faster if you’re called to it). Find out more here at the link.
So check out the upcoming posts…the content is free and you can do with it what you will but at least you know with the AvaStar, you don’t have to wait and can get the professional best-in-the-world leading archetypal and allure support for your image transformation; we can get RIGHT INTO the heavy transfiguration work itself so you can debut or rebirth your most powerful or beautiful soul codexed self out to the world with 5x more magnetism and influence while living your highest timeline (this means everything if you are in personal branding or a spirit-centric business where people can FEEL whether you are real or not).
The current AvaStar Makeover clients are already experiencing the LEVEL of breakthroughs they desired out of the program and it’s adding up (including new clients, stronger social media response, etc).
Remember;
CHARISMA/ALLURE is the missing organic CODE to viral influence itself…already responsible for billions of views.
Now that I’m finally live on Instagram 2.5 months in, I’m leveraging it ‘at scale’ and will get into other formats and techniques etc. but it’s already working.
