For SOUL Level Branding: A Glow-Up, Looks Maxxing Makeover Just Wouldn’t Cut It

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After dealing with intense self-image anxieties and visibility wounding even being called to a larger purpose and really being seen on social media;

 

I found that superficial looks maxxing and glow-up just didn’t hold the actual answers for the DEEPER avatar self level visual transformation necessary for people to FEEL the representation of my codes and magic visually without having to ‘talk’ to them to convey everything.

 

Posture techniques, body language modeling, skin care and style support HELPED to a minimal extent didn’t actually hold the sweet spot to me being AUTHENTIC in the multi-dimensional ‘brand’ of me and what I represent. It just wasn’t connected to spirit, soul and CODEX.

 

The superficial makeovers couldn’t actually quell the deeper insecurities I had around being seen.

 

In some ways it only created more of a mask in which I was concerned people would realize my public performance and image anxiety and I would still crumple into a wrecking ball of anxiety where I wanted to crawl into a corner. With where I was then; I couldn’t ‘risk’ being called out like that so I played it safer in not being seen.

 

I realized that the superficial makeover stuff everyone else was focusing on could only take things so far. The inner transformation at an identity level was far more important.

 

Besides; MY customers are incredibly intuitive and discerning anyways so they could see through any posing and posturing if it wasn’t real and THAT was what mattered far more.

 

It wasn’t about covering things up; it was about de-armoring and letting my TRUE LIGHT through.

 

Not only that; traditional business-entrepreneurial ‘branding’ wasn’t it either because they were focused more on ‘matching the market’ but with this spiritually sensitive work, everything had to be authentic and organic; SOURCED properly with INTEGRITY, not marketeering.

 

I wasn’t like a marketing manipulateer ‘controlling’ the market with ‘tactics’; I couldn’t just communicate ‘made to order’ like marketeers thinking to spin something that already existed to just hear what people wanted to hear while selling out my own integrity and values.

 

Organic marketing matters in the era of AI and marketeering wanting to sell you something; people value the REAL thing and people they can TRUST. When they can FEEL your vibe, they’re more likely to CARE and respond.

 

I had to be in integrity to MY game-changing codes and have a way to transmit them authentically. I realized that I had to become the living testament OF the brand and that this was really the only and fastest way to have the LEVEL of influence necessary to change the game.

 

I realized I couldn’t hide anymore and that I had to/have to step into the spotlight and became MY version of star.

 

SIMPLE MAKEOVER before and after glow-up or looks maxing work simply could NOT hit the sweet spot and barely even touched upon the REAL work of the level of makeover required; but the CHARISMA work could because it was authentic to MY avatar codes and codex.

 

I had to have SOME WAY to take the LIGHT of the codes that I had ALREADY found, cultivated and accessed on my intensive spiritual path and bring it into ACCURATE EMBODIMENT and expression VISUALLY; so that I could be the living testament of my truth instead of hiding out behind the scenes held back by all of these visibility wounds, intense doubt, abusive self-control and fears of rejection and worthiness.

 

I knew I couldn’t hide and play it safe behind the scenes anymore but that I had to step into my POWER in EMBODIMENT and visual truth so others could KNOW that I’m the real thing vs. just relying on behind the scenes testimonials.

 

I could no longer remain DIS-embodied with my truth; esp. in this era of the attention age economy…..well AND it was kinda important for me since the work I do IS visual.

 

So; how could I take the GENIUS I have and translate it visually?

 

I HAD TO BECOME THE BRAND and represent the divine codes (of Muse Magician) that I truly am instead of having people guess or rely on testimonials alone.

 

Especially with first impressions; if I’m not so obviously IT, new clients or celebrities may not have time to go any further and I’m creating years of additional entropy on fully living out my dharma.

 

I can’t afford that anymore after how many years I put in to becoming the real thing. Now it’s time for it to be one and the same as SHOWN.

 

And regular makeovers, glow-up or looks-maxing were so obviously superficial and non-conscious in the level of depth necessary to have my deeper Truth come across to compel people to be in awe of what I ‘am’ in spirit.

 

SO….The Star Codex was incepted and a modification of the work I was already do as a way to ACCESS, embody and EXPRESS the Light codes of my SIGNATURE avatar self into VISUAL TRUTH so that others could FEEL the vibe and light truth of who I am.

 

This was the work. Style, physique transformation, skin care, hair care?

 

ALL SECONDARY. AT VERY BEST. To the REAL work.

 

To the REAL identity level CONSCIOUSNESS transformation.

 

To BECOMING A STAR…but not just any star; MY version of authentic avatar self on earth with the power support to hold my Light codes (which includes kundalini and dan tien activations to alchemize and amplify my essences).

 

To becoming the ICONIC BRAND that could fluidly transmit the level I was actually at in spirit but so that others could FEEL the power, vibe-truth, integrity and mastery MORE THAN WORDS.

 

 

 

..So that my image could do most of the selling and that everything lined up congruently in prospects EXPERIENCE of me rather than questioning if I’m the real thing or not b/c I wasn’t fully aligned in expression.

 

Ironically it was around 11 years ago that I did the Soul Purpose Branding experience with Sabine Messner that we came up with my PERFECT soul purpose brand name for my mainstream impact of ‘Sexy Chi’ (and it’s still perfect)…but the JOURNEY was a long one SINCE then for me to step into those shoes to become the worthy testament instead of being the unseen behind the scenes guy.

 

What accelerated this was the AvaStar Makeover work itself that took me into debut by accessing my codes and doing the same activations I now offer for the AvaStar clients on THEIR public image, soul aligned transfiguration process.

 

It’s such a peace of mind hearing from them that they know they’re in the right place and THIS is the work they’re meant to be doing…and for me, it’s such a weight off my shoulders to finally overcome those fears of being SEEN (celebrities will see my earlier IG posts/now coming up). It feels great being IN my truth visually and showing up fully so that things are accelerating FASTER including for upcoming live retreats, etc.

 

It’s this specific process I couldn’t find anywhere else though;

 

A Makeover that gets to the core truth of who they are at a spiritual identity level in archetypal and siddhic soul service TO the world that resolves deep image anxieties, visibility wounds and hiding out to embody and express their soul truth visually in confidently being an iconic brand TO the world.

 

The AvaStar Makeover did things that no superficial looks-maxxing makeover could do. It was the sweet spot medicine for SOUL level identity icon branding that I was looking for (and is for the current clients).

 

So if you’ve also developed a LOT of Light in your spiritual path but it’s been blocked by a shadow-web of anxieties, doubts, unworthiness, fear of siphoning, fear of rejection, ugly duckling…know that if you’re really committed to your greater dharma and realize you’re meant to be YOUR version of star or starlet, your Star Codex holds the keys…

 

And then it’s about removing the energy blocks at an identity level and embodying the codes you ALREADY HAVE into a clear temple vessel body with a more activated foundation to amplify and hold your level of Power/Beauty and Eros…that this CAN be done so that others experience, feel, sense and KNOW you are the real thing with your own Star/let charisma or allure…and that this CAN be done.

 

You have advantages if you’ve been on such a path of connection to Source; real LIGHT to work with for a fast transformation into the swan from fugly duckling literally with your temple body of image/light so that your parasocial media has ongoing influence 24/7 because WHO you are in accurately conveying your codes VISUALLY is more than words (and sells on its own without selling).

 

We just work with it DIRECTLY in the AvaStar Makeover process with on-going monthly star/starlet support (you can leave at anytime).

 

We take YOUR unique avatar identity level codes and bring them into EMBODIMENT and accurate expression while simultaneously removing identity level psyche blocks that have been preventing the transmission of your Light and Vibe truth signature presence and visuals.

 

Because this is the ADVANCED tier of makeover work, yes…the price will continue to rise. I’m already working with (at the time of this writing) the first 6 Avatar starlets in their makeover process (actually 5 b/c the 6th is on her own start-up timing) and it’s going amazing. I won’t reveal more b/c I don’t have their permission but, wow.

 

For myself, I realized that THIS MUST BE DONE…I just couldn’t ever get to the real core of things with superficial glow-ups.

 

If that’s you and you already know that ESSENCE is where it’s at and you value YOUR codes being VISUALLY transmitted AS the iconic brand of you where people KNOW you are who you are and can get medicine from your visuals alone IN this distractive, attention age economy…knowing that for myself with all of the remaining and re-activated;

 

*Fugly duckling

 

*Doubts

 

*Insecurities

 

*Quasimodo and self-punishment

 

*Desire to ‘control’ every detail when that actually creates more shadow amplification and I can’t control it when paparazzi around anyways

 

I realized that I had to overcome these image related fears, resistances and strong shadow web of sabotage.

 

With the Avatar work for myself; I was able to overcome the limitations from being held back…something that extrinsic, looks oriented makeovers couldn’t accurately reach.

 

This is soul avatar identity level branding and transformation work. We bypass your limited ‘mindset’ and ‘fake it til you make it’ to work on the energetic level.

 

And for me I knew that it had to be a literal makeover process though with a definitive debut date (10.31.2025).

 

Knowing that it’s possible now and faster than ever; if you KNOW that it’s your time to go ‘full visual’, what’s holding you back?

 

You already ARE someone (at least in the seat of soul).

 

Are you going to let those insecurities win out and play the smaller, ‘safer’ path with years more entropy and gravity?

 

Results will show up in your visuals; both if you DON’T complete a makeover as well as if you do b/c people can READ and sense energy!

 

You’ve seen it in my before and afters. And now; I’m getting all kinds of response, engagement and scalability on the social media scale I’m at.

 

More prospects are reaching out to me, I’m growing a deeper relationship and connection with my tribe and beauty tribe by BEING SEEN (in my encoded truth) vs. hiding out.

 

Isn’t it time for you to also be more fully expressed? To convert the LIGHT, gifts and codes you have into authentic, un-fakeable VISUAL TRUTH to embody and express the iconic brand of you visually as well?

 

Discover the AvaStar Makeover here.

 

It’s simply the MOST direct way because we literally work with your energy body dynamics (and identity consciousness) FOR your visuals without delay at the soul level; something that other personal branding doesn’t do.

 

Without working at the identity level and with archetypal and Eros power…without working on directly removing blocks, you may struggle remaining cloaked or hidden in ways; glossing or masking it up instead of just letting your truth be so obviously PRESENT and sourced properly in your radiance that people may never really know otherwise.

 

Looking good and looking LIKE your debut archetypes is not the same as them FEELING the medicinal power and THAT is the PREMIUM market branding.

 

Why not have your visual social media and live presence be ONE AND THE SAME with the level you’re already at in soul and spirit? And then; style, hair and skin-care does have its place as part of your overall brand aesthetic too but if that’s the limit, you may never get to the point where people can FEEL your avatar star/starlet FELT INFLUENCE.

 

Can you afford for them NOT to ever ‘know’ that about you?

 

For myself, I realized that I MUST visually represent my truth and no longer be hiding out from secretive fears and the time entropy that it creates while slowing down the scale of my dharmic success.

 

If you KNOW that a glow up just isn’t the deeper answer to take the Light of your consciousness, codes and beauty accurately into FELT PRESENCE, I strongly recommend the AvaStar Makeover where we work with YOUR codes and save years of time to your powerful rebirth or debut itself as an iconic visual brand in service to your soul tribe and the collective.

 

Discover more details and booking here:

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Remember, if you’re seriously interested you can schedule an obligation free 10 minute quick connect with me or DM me on IG or FB. 

 

Having a MAKEOVER ensures a legitimate before and after within a limited set of time. Ready to rebirth or debut?!

 

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If a more general Charisma or Allure Makeover is more for you, these are ALSO available on-site btw!

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Key Concept: Parasocial Influence

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If you are an influencer of ANY sort and stepping MORE into it…if you have any online following whatsoever, are a beauty influencer or are your own soul purpose BRAND icon on some form of star or starlet path, this is a critical concept to understand and (organically) maximize.

 

All kinds of people are trying to inorganically maximize it (like algorithm hacking, etc.) and that can help too, but I digress…

 

We want to understand INFLUENCE and beauty influence from stillness more accurately as well as overall influence.

 

Let’s be clear up front; if you are an INFLUENCER of any sort and are on social or visual media, you WANT more para-social influence…esp. from your visuals when you aren’t famous, aren’t speaking or relying on ‘niche content’.

 

CENTRAL and really KEY to INFLUENCE and success on social media (especially as an iconic ‘brand’ of you) in this attention age era is this concept of ‘para-social’ and parasocial influence.

 

So what is it?

 

“Parasocial” refers to a one-sided, psychological relationship where a person extends emotional energy, interest, and time toward a media figure (celebrity, influencer, or character) who is completely unaware of their existence. Named 2025 Word of the Year by Cambridge Dictionary – Google

 

If you’re the influencer;

 

It’s basically having a form of influence where your followers and fans develop a projected but familial relationship WITH the persona or holographic version of you through your media.

 

This replicates your time to have more influence even though you cannot be there intimately for all of them. It’s just a byproduct of the modern age with it’s pros and cons and shadows.

 

But really; this is an AMAZING THING because when you can INCREASE your parasocial impact and HOW fast people can trust, feel and open up to you, you have more influence and forms of success.

 

In this blog post, I’m going to go more directly into how to LEVERAGE your as an iconic brand to maximize your parasocial influence (including to maximize your CURRENT social media following for engagement) after (the key word is allure btw) but let’s take a defining look first.

 

Again; it’s critical to be AWARE of this consciously to help your social media success. Let’s go deeper;

 

Wikipedia;

 

“Parasocial interaction (PSI) refers to a kind of psychological relationship experienced by an audience in their mediated encounters with performers in the mass media, particularly on television and online platforms.[1][2][3][4] Viewers or listeners come to consider media personalities as friends, despite having no or limited interactions with them. PSI is described as an illusory experience, such that media audiences interact with personas (e.g., talk show hosts, celebrities, fictional characters, social media influencers) as if they are engaged in a reciprocal relationship with them. The term was coined by Donald Horton and Richard Wohl in 1956.[5]

 

A parasocial interaction, an exposure that garners interest in a persona,[6] becomes a parasocial relationship after repeated exposure to the media persona causes the media user to develop illusions of intimacy, friendship, and identification.[5] Positive information learned about the media persona results in increased attraction, and the relationship progresses.[6] Parasocial relationships are enhanced due to trust and self-disclosure provided by the media persona.[5]

 

Media users are loyal and feel directly connected to the persona, much as they are connected to their close friends, by observing and interpreting their appearance, gestures, voice, conversation, and conduct.[6] Media personas have a significant amount of influence over media users, positive or negative, informing the way that they perceive certain topics or even their purchasing habits. Studies involving longitudinal effects of parasocial interactions on children are still relatively new, according to developmental psychologist Sandra L. Calvert.[7]

 

Social media introduces additional opportunities for parasocial relationships to intensify because it provides more opportunities for intimate, reciprocal, and frequent interactions between the user and persona.[5][8] These virtual interactions may involve commenting, following, liking, or direct messaging. The consistency in which the persona appears could also lead to a more intimate perception in the eyes of the user.”

-Wikipedia.org

 


In other words; it’s about this new form of social communication; well, it’s been around FOR eons with myths and deities but is really extrapolated since the advent of television and now social media.

 

Ie. my mother used to have a parasocial relationship with the character’s on ‘Knots Landing’ for example and you most certainly have parasocial relationships. Think of the dynamic itself of how stars and starlets like Tom Cruise and Ariana Grande or more ‘niche’ characters or actors have followings like a Bryan Cranston, etc. Stars have MASS parasocial relationships with their fans and this is something to be aware; esp. in HOW to maximize your own following’s response to you (like a star/let).

 

Think of if you’re in business for yourself; you can have prospects get to know and sense who you are…building a relationship where they feel they know you and have that familiarity and trust…that comfort and then maybe attend a live workshop of yours…it’s kind of like you’re a star in their eyes. They feel they know you.

 

This is expanded influence (and goodwill).

 

So think of who and where YOU have parasocial relationships…with who? With what celebrities?

 

Kim Kardashian for example has 353 million Instagram followers…many of whom have a more active parasocial relationship with her through her posts and the tv series…they feel they know her.

 

Cristiano Ronaldo has a whopping 670million followers but it doesn’t have to be that scale at all to have social influence. Media allows us to have more meta-physical or social ‘power’. I talk about this in other places.

 

So who are the people online or in tv shows that YOU have a parasocial relationship with? Those that you feel you ‘know’?

 

They don’t have to be super famous or a celebrity…it could be a mommy blogger or a subject area specialist. Influence is scalable…you’re not practically going to be able to interact with each individual person as you scale up.

 

Maybe it’s the different sharter guys that through watching dozens of hours of their videos sharting and pooting in public places on and near unsuspecting civilians like Central Park or Wal-Mart you feel that you get to know them.

 

And sometimes on camera; a fan (with a pre-established parasocial relationship) treats them like a star when they meet them in real life. You’ve had parasocial relationship with your favorite bands and the artists too.

 

With the ‘democratization’ of media…Today; we have the opportunity to BE our own stars and starlets and the people I work with especially have LIGHT CODES of Beauty and Power that are unique to them with their Star and Starlet codex that can be expressed as they live their highest timelines and cultivate more of this online INFLUENCE (whether in a spirit-aligned business, beauty influencer or not).

 

Now; who do YOU want to have influence with?

 

For me on Instagram it’s with my beauty tribe (which includes celebrity)…I want to cultivate PARASOCIAL INFLUENCE with them and as a brand icon.

 

Ok; so we have a good grasp on parasocial influence; and again this is what you WANT for exponentiating your OWN influence.

 

Now here’s where we get to the juiciness;

 

IF you indeed value maximizing your parasocial influence or ‘brand’ online to have:

 

*More subscribers

*More organic engagement

*More sales conversions

*More retention

*More depth (and even obsession dynamics but as an organic byproduct)

*More return views

*More referability

*More likes

*More opportunities
*More money FROM social visibility

*Deeper fan following and loyalty (even to protect you online vs. haters and trolls)

 

And more LEGACY in real time;

 

What can you do to maximize your parasocial influence (including with your CURRENT following)?

 

Well the most organic thing is to;

 

Cultivate your ALLURE to have people NATURALLY and of their own accord without salesiness RESPOND and engage with you. It accelerates relationship building and instant trust.

 

It’s especially important now because social media marketers as of early 2026 still don’t know that it’s a legitimate variable IN social media success itself yet is already a core reason responsible for billions of views.

 

And more specifically; you want to cultivate your Star or Starlet codexed allure so people can FEEL the unique version of you and your erospheric vibe and light truth atmosphere.

 

This actually has to do with your visuals and more specifically your light body (and all of your multi-d light IN your actual photos and videos of expanded frequency, feelable spectrum like UV rays) in where energy is blocked or flowing and the quality of WHAT is flowing (ie. essence vs. mucky shadows).

 

In other words;

 

There may be BLOCKS for your current audience to FEEL YOU from your live presence and visual image (where they get ie. creepy vibes) b/c you might be focused on looksmaxxing, niche content subject matter specialties, thumbnail optimization, algorithm hacking instead of just being more organically FEELABLE and engage-with-able TO your people.

 

Literally as your chakras open, you will find more magical RESPONSE from your own people!

 

This is that big theme of charisma and allure we value here at Sexy Chi.

 

So this gets into deeper SELF-image issues and HOW it is affecting how you’re coming across.

 

Even looking your best;

 

You might be subconsciously NOT wanting your people to ‘take’ or siphon from you, thus your LIGHT is actually distorted. You might be seeking their validation unhealthily and they’ll start picking up that vibe.

 

You might just be lost in your own inner world or on the mental plane but not wanting to be seen as the star so how people unconsciously FEEL and respond to you is affected; if they FEEL you have walls, they’re probably going to reflect those walls back to you…these energetic resistances and even the fugly duckling syndrome are BLOCKING the expression and psycho-activating engagement of your spirit-matter quanta from having influence.

 

Remember that a STAR unconditionally shines anyways…it is providing nurturing VALUE for its constituents (like our solar sun).

 

So it’s actually ESSENCE that you want to allow to FLOW for people to feel, respond and organically engage with your social media (as if its you).

 

When your deconditioned chakras and aura project through the screen to affect THEIR chakras and aura (in heart and sex for example); initiating a response in them, you are having powerful parasocial influence working organically for you.

 

If you look good and pretty but have energetic walls and a low allure factor (rating), they’re less likely to be organically engaged and responsive to you UNLESS you’re like relying on subject matter niche expertise where your charisma doesn’t matter as much (like rock nucleioid research or something).

 

If Instagram is a primary social media channel, by default you WANT charisma or feminine allure maximized to exponentiate your organic response across the board.

 

With allure and charisma to have more parasocial, felt influence (and beauty influence in general) LIKE a star or starlet…

 

The variables we are practically working with are;

 

ESSENCE
EMBODIMENT
EXPRESSION

 

When people can FEEL your vibe and light truth b/c it’s energetically expressed FROM your chakras and aura, they feel they are CONNECTED TO YOU and engaged even if it’s just from a video recording…they’re actually having and building a relationship with your multi-dimensionally encoded hologram (and p.s. they CANNOT actually ‘siphon’ from your recorded media!)

 

This is the real secret…it’s having ALLURE; being de-armored and engaging your people from your literal visual beauty presence alone WITHOUT even speaking or doing dance trend videos. Where they FEEL your radiance like the sun.

 

But it gets into more advanced Power, status and Beauty dynamics when you have ARCHETYPAL Power/Beauty b/c then it’s about their relationship with God and Goddess fractals associated with you (= influence and powerful attraction).

 

Why?

 

It has to do with divine union holy grail principle but people are essentially seeking connection and communion with the divine.

 

ESSENCE is the source spectrum of Beauty itself….essence is the seemingly intangible but actually TANGIBLE currency that is being ‘exchanged’ socially. It’s what is of value. Superficial beauty or vanity does not equate to alchemical attunement from your essence Goddess beauty for example.

 

So it’s about cultivating more essence, embodiment and expression….more FEELABILITY and when they can FEEL you, then they can care…otherwise you feel ‘separate’ and it’s easier to judge even if you’re pretty but unfeelable in their gut.

 

Taking on the identity of a soul starlet and allowing yourself to be felt and seen (without fear of siphoning) allows people to FEEL you and thus maximizes more of your parasocial influence.

 

As more and MORE people feel it and the upward cycle spirals then you get into celebrity like influence on a smaller scalable scale.

 

Basically; you can have starlet allure before you’re famous and just reference the rabid SUPER FANS of world’s top muse Wonyoung for example….people scream for her at airports, etc. and it’s not just b/c she is looks-maxxed…there’s essenced-divine Beauty quanta that is FEELABLE rather than the superficial realm of her visible light and conditioning around conditioners and facial make-up.

 

She not only has WIDE parasocial influence with men and women, she has DEEP MEDICINAL IMPACT b/c she is so essence, embodied and expressed. She is essentially at Priestess level Presence; this is the more advanced Beauty Power; alchemical influence.

 

 

 

Social star/starlet INFLUENCE can get into the obsession realms.

 

These are good problems but you might prevent it all from happening if you still have energetic blocks, shadow sabotage and resistances TO being embodied, felt and expressed AS a starlet to give your people more of the value and nourishment they are seeking…allowing them to FEEL you from a more open energy body from in your media (and you can still master your own private time away from the crowds).

 

It’s about giving them more from your live presence and media vs. being closed off.

 

You want that open-ness also encoded in your visual media to keep working FOR you 24/7 like a star, right? 😉

 

To stand out but as the AUTHENTIC you; it can help to become more masterful at being feelable in this day and age…you can still have authority over the dials of how much you are expressed going to the grocery store; but if you are too closed off you may have to have a foundational transfiguration if your people aren’t responding to you and people don’t want to befriend you b/c you’re otherwise too aloof. Can you allow yourself to be felt and seen?

 

You might even have Gene Key shadows like Vanity, Superficiality, Doubt, Control that can also keep others from engaging to you.

 

THIS IS THE REAL BEAUTY SORCERY REMEMBER…This allure work. Organic influence.

 

This is the work we do directly together in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Want more parasocial influence?

 

I’d have a strategy to work directly on your visual light body to BE more open and alluring to BE felt and seen as an icon with less to zero resistance (Starlet comes in for divine protection from siphoning btw~) and you will exponentiate your parasocial influence with your own organic, fan-client-follower response, attraction, depth and engagement to the stars!

 

I can help support you releasing your energetic psyche blocks that are distorting your Light and creating barriers for people to organically respond to you as well as cultivate more essence, access your signature Star/let codex, embody and express for visible, highly responsive before and after makeover results that people WILL notice.

 

If we work together in the Avatar Star/let Makeover with monthly starlet support; WATCH as you transform into the star or starlet version of yourself how your parasocial power and influence organically EXPONENTIATES with your people (and new ones)!

 

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Is There Something Besides Or Beyond Embodiment?

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Yes! And NOT knowing this could hold you back for years from the organic response you could have magnetically around others and in ALL of your social media.

 

It’s about how/whether they can FEEL you and your vibe or not.

 

In the social media connected world; being ’embodied’ may not be enough b/c of the other prime overlooked variable.

 

When it comes to your felt image, allure or charisma and maximizing organic response it’s central to have EMBODIMENT of your essences (like your Star/let codex essences of archetypal, siddhic…).

 

This is where my primary work on (your lightbody in essence, embodiment and expression with) ACTIVATIONS are central whether you’re going into debut or rebirth this year in an Avatar self makeover or not…activations allow EMBODIMENT of your essences…but there’s something ‘more than’ embodiment.

 

You also want EXPRESSION of those essences for greater FELT image and presence. In other words the literal radiance of your essences in measurable DISTANCE from each chakra and aura.

 

This is the big secret to have greater organic response, magnetism and charisma itself; essence, embodiment and expression.

 

Embodiment = Presence and that is what is valued in Goddess and spiritual circles but when it comes to engagement, INFLUENCE and social media, you want allure or (masculine) charisma BECAUSE this is the EXPRESSION variable of your Light.

 

Thing is; if you are Disembodied of your essences (see my ‘before’ pictures here) people may never SEE and feel the power, beauty and truth of you b/c you are cloaked.

 

That’s why the well over 1000 activation sessions I’ve done are so foundationally critical; they LAND your essences AND we activate them for allure/charisma in EVERY activation session. This is the CORE direct work of image transformation.

 

You could have disembodied essences (like soul, archetypes or gifts) that people will NEVER be able to know, sense or feel if you are not EMBODIED and expressed.

 

We just work on all of this directly for FAST RESULTS. And the Muse Priestesses and I may be the best in the world at it.

 

If you are ready to ACTIVATE; to embody your truth and EXPRESS it energetically and visually with the world, activation sessions are available (you can now get them SOLO without a further commitment). These are always available on the Appointments a.k.a. activations page.

 

We work with the Pantheon of ARCHETYPES (including Light and Dark) to amplify your soul and felt power, beauty and influence.

 

Or if you want to embody your AVATAR Star version of self for a serious before and after makeover with multiple activations, the AvaStar is perfect and we can start this week here.

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Either way; if you do not find ways to actually just LAND your essences (we also cultivate even MORE essence by bringing it into your temple body than you currently have with arch, gift and siddhic activations), you could spend years being disembodied, in your head and people can’t feel you.

 

If you value presence and embodiment, your chakras may not be EXPRESSED in distance so they’re hitting other people’s auras and getting them to somatically and organically RESPOND to you magnetically; but when you are PRESENT you may feel more separate from them doing your own things whereas your allure/charisma ENGAGES them actively. Allure makeovers are also available on-site.

 

There are many INDIRECT ways to get there but this work is direct and the fastest by far. Each Activation session includes energetic tune-up as well.

 

Activations continue as my central work; the energy work just allows us to GET YOU RESULTS fast; in mere minutes instead of years, maybe or never. (I’ve got 100s of testimonials).

 

Ready to take an active step forward? EMBODY your true self and get expressed energetically and watch the world respond to you magnetically.

 

This is the top level charisma and allure work in the world and I’m looking forward to training Allure Priestesses to guide the world in it.

 

BOOK ACTIVATION APPOINTMENTS FROM HERE (a.k.a. ‘Sessions’)

 

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Overcoming Heavy Visibility Wound Shadows With…Dance?

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…and other Power Insights to help bring out your charisma or allure to have more engagement and social media RESPONSE.

 

If you HATE the idea of ‘dance’, trust me…

 

This is even MORE reason NOT to disconnect here…

 

I was held back for literal YEARS and YEARS (charismatically and stuck in shadow-grid fear) because of certain shadow grid dynamics related to this which may also be affecting you from FASTER transfiguration.

 

If someone said the term ‘ecstatic dance’ or invited me, I would CRINGE and recoil up inside of my body. I’m not kidding. If you are OPEN with dance, you may not be using it like you could for your allure.

 

This is an important POWER post here b/c we’re going to cover a lot of ground related to accelerating your path to CONFIDENT, secure, embodiment and overcoming some of the MAJOR self-sabotage patterns to being seen and powerfully magnetic (as I continue this open mini-series on shadows and struggles to BEING SEEN and activating Star or Starlet codes in your unique codex; living by example with my transfiguration).

 

Considering my background of severe public speaking anxiety (of which I have improved upon by hosting small scale retreats and workshops), I’ve still dealt with heavy IMAGE and self-image anxieties, the fugly duckling and other major sabotage for YEARS to fully being EXPRESSED and seen.

 

But let’s fast forward a bit for now;

 

That I’ve recently broken through myself with ESSENCE + dance with stable enough charisma factor is huge b/c this is already a secret to billions of views out there and you can find YOUR way of replicating it OR at least as using dance as a practical CHANNEL to open up your own charisma or allure.

 

Ok…there’s actually a lot of Star/let codes and overcoming visibility woundedness in here FAST im practicum (not just theory), so check it out…

 

Ok so here’s that recent IG video of me semi-awkwardly pre-dancing for the world. I’m honestly not even as triggered by it and my CRUSTY dance skillz b/c I’ve reached the IDEALIZED ZONE OF baseline CHARISMA COMMUNICATION…essences are OPEN and flowing and I know that THIS is more important than my previous self-sabotage and crippling anxieties. Check it out:

 

Same link also here: INXS ‘New Sensation’ Rion

 

 

BECAUSE I’m more feelable, I’m getting HEALTHY engagement and response on Instagram and facebook (while further starting to PROVE and live the concept of charisma itself).

 

Oh and the NEXT instagram essence or dance video is getting even heavier into the ROCKSTAR archetype with a legendary rock song; a mix of the Erosphere + Dance blend concept of creating an experience showcasing fun/charisma (you might want to do something similar in a format with YOUR codes for your circle). You can follow me on IG here:

 

https://www.instagram.com/rion_kati/

 

BTW as part of your overall DEBUT and identity transformation and branding process;

 

MUSIC can do WONDERS to help YOU attune into and embody your own (different) archetypal codex. This is premium BRANDING and identity MARKETING stuff of authentic goodness here. It’s all about letting myself/yourself be FELT and seen in y/our TRUTH and highlighting aspects of it authentically…

 

Especially if it’s a weaker yet CRITICAL archetype to (fulfill) your PUBLIC soul service, you have to have ways to practically access, bridge, embody and EXPRESS that divine signature (whether it’s Queen or a shift in how people are experiencing you to recalibrate more of where you’re at to something more fun or more serious or more Dark, an archetype you’ve been honestly terrified of and doubting if you could ever embody but if would be a dream if you did, etc.)

 

I mean, in doing my own AvaStar makeover process and LIVING this to be seen (literally by celebrities; this same video) I almost forgot how fun of a guy I can be b/c I’ve been in a ‘cave mode’ as a 5/1 for so long hiding out (and preparing) BEFORE shamelessly going VISIBLE to the world.

 

Ok…

 

This latest IG clip had a stellar 10% love ratio (isn’t THAT scalable! – although it’d probably drop a bit to scale but still, WOW!) and 7% comment ratio. It’s action and response friendly goodness.

 

This is critical stuff in getting people to know, like and trust THE REAL YOU (and I’m doing it now on a new platform).

 

We want to find LEVERAGE POINTS for your faster transformation.

 

And cracking your light body image open to CHARISMA;

 

This is the GOLD in the attention age economy and yes, charisma/allure are THE prime missing pieces (that will help you STAND OUT organically to inspire people to respond b/c they FEEL YOU instead of just ‘see you’ from afar).

 

So I mentioned if you’re on the email list (which you can join on the frontpage of the website) that;

 

One of those hidden signifiers of whether I’m in my truth and influence or not is whether I dance. This has been a major challenge for me for many years. If I’m just NOT dancing, it’s actually saying far deeper things about me and I feel like I have an invisible ball and chain around which drops me into the shadow of vanity and aloof disconnection = NOT EXPRESSED or feelable.

 

And the same might be for you; far more closed off than you think. I would even be the one NOT to dance when everyone else was told or invited to at live events; I was hyper critical and judgmental; stuck in my egoic mind…MAJOR WALLS and barriers.

 

The music had to be perfect (I’M a better DJ than this clown, etc.), the right moment and timing and then I might ‘show off my mad skillz’ except that I was like that for years and any dance skills I had remained ATROPHIED.

 

That’s WHY I’m so crusty in these new dance videos but I know it’s more important that I am FELT.

 

I can regain and gain new dance skills and technique anyway but I know that ESSENCE; charisma is the KEY…it’s FAR more important than technique (esp. for non-professionals but even AT the highest level of Dance it’s what takes THEM into the stratosphere; just ref K-Pop).

 

But you know when I could always dance and cut through my own self-sabotage and shadows? WHEN I’M AROUND MUSES.

 

And when I met that ‘taste of love’ in Medellin Parque Lleras in 2016? When I was already on a double date and I saw her get out of a taxi cab and her crown shot straight up to heaven when she wasn’t even facing me and I thought “WHO IS THAT?” (b/c I wasn’t too into the date I was on anyways as an earlier Rion)…and then later my client and I bought beers and I walked straight towards her and talked in Spanish and then the group of us went out…I DANCED. WE danced as a group (and they were like gypsy dancers).

 

I couldn’t NOT dance because she was a true muse. I even tried to kiss her on the dance floor but she coyly faced away (but it was the right thing then; we kissed on a follow-up date when I was also dancing then).

 

This is also why sometimes in sessions when I’m dressed up, I’ll dance in front of the mirror with muses in music videos or the secret unreleased footage of the 2 Muse priestesses and I at one of our workshops after the photo shoot just having fun (this is safe to share, but not the images without their approval).

 

Muse is my Beloved and brings out my truest self…so maybe your BELOVED is also key to CRACKING OPEN your own allure or charisma and being expressed, dancing and being felt.

 

That leverage can do miracles….to let others FEEL into you and catch your vibe-truth.

 

So a question is; could you semi-awkwardly dance in front of the world to see right now?

 

Because it might hold A MAJOR KEY to opening up your allure to be FELT.

 

You MIGHT be held back for years otherwise until you clear up the shadow webs with more POWER (like the Beloved or your Star codex along with the AvaStar makeover).

 

So yeah; I’ve had my own secret FEAR of Dance, what it represents, how much it’s held things back and how it’s a silver bullet highway to AUTHENTIC TRUTH TRANSMISSION, RESPONSE, engagement and being FELT and seen…but because I’m so reunified now after so much divine union alchemy; Muse within esp. with the Elixir activations of Grail Kundalini helps me to be my truer self too.

 

DANCE is a secret and not so secret key to opening up my charisma (and your allure) as well as dissipating DEEP shadow grid entropy and gravity around being seen.

 

If you have been RESISTING IT and being SEEN dancing, you may have other very deep and HEAVY blocks to exploding your own influence and engagement. You may have GENE KEY SHADOWS related to it that keep you in the SHADOW SWAMP of NON-EXPRESSION…your energies CLOSED IN and closed OFF.

 

DANCE is one of those major keys…and in my case I’m still dealing with an archetype that I’ve been weaker in which I know leads to my A-List success and Star timeline of influencer in entertainment, beauty and fashion (bringing ascension codes).

 

So if I could get my weaker ROCKSTAR to DANCE…this is that concept of getting an archetype MOVING and dancing; how would they move when/if you embodied them? This can take you a long ways to embodiment.

 

But see; here within this was more challenging than it may initially appear because remember not only did I have CRIPPLING performance anxiety and visibility wounds, the Rockstar archetype was still FARRR out of reach for me and yet here, we’re starting to feel an authentic version of Him in the mix ‘land’.

 

If and when you can do this for YOURSELF with an ‘out there’ archetype that represents the global influencer, it’s life changing. So we have to deconstruct this a bit more and go into how, why…

 

For as serious as I usually am, we get to know and feel more of the REAL ME b/c I am more balanced and fun like that (so I’m also re-calibrating how I communicate online also b/c BRAND influence is now leaning more towards the founder rather than just the business brand or corporation itself in this attention age economy of trust and influence).

 

The Muse Magician ROCKSTAR is my public codex (even though I won’t often publicly present myself WITH those exact words; but we’re speaking to the AvaStar makeover process itself here of makeover transformation into Star/Starlet divine public service).

 

In this growing consensus-ly fun video;

 

We get to see me in some of my codes INCLUDING that (previously) weaker one of Rockstar but I have to speak to this b/c it’s more challenging for numerous reasons (this is key stuff if you also have a ‘far out there archetype’ that you KNOW will explode things socially and pull you into the larger currents).

 

First of all; what men do we know become SOME form of Sx Icon at ‘middle age’? It’s practically UNHEARD OF so I had that working against me as well in my expanded SHADOW GRID that’s been preventing me from embodying and expressing my SOUL TRUTH codex.

 

In a sense, I’m an eternal teenager and letting THAT shine. So are there some aspects of YOURSELF that you have been keeping HIDDEN.

 

And yes, you can HAVE re-activated MAIDEN for example AT 64 years old post-menopause. You could even be a ‘cool dad’ but it’s serious work b/c high status people are going to SENSE your vibe truth from their experience and attunement.

 

So there can be a lot of pressure and faking it just isn’t it….but if you ARE a cool, sxy soul, why not just let it show at any age so people can feel you?

 

It’s all about accurate expression of YOUR soul signature codex. And letting people FEEL YOU…this is the FUTURE of social media and it’s what’s working best now esp. for those who don’t want to ‘optimize’ algorithms and AI/hacking, etc.

 

There’s a LOT going on here b/c we have to consider this as a star in the making (I’m giving myself permission to view things CONSCIOUSLY and objectively b/c it’s not about my ego; I’m aware of when things are ‘working’ energetically and I KNOW what path I am destined on).

 

In my recent dance (er…essenced ‘pre-dance’ videos…) on my instagram…

 

We have something of a ‘star is born’…my dancing is semi-awkward and uncalibrated socially but the MAIN THING is that I AM ESSENCED and pure albeit IMPERFECT. I’m focused more on having my CHARISMA be felt rather than perfect dance moves and being ‘held back’ energetically. THAT’S what reaches through more.

 

It’s about de-armoring and then about EMBODIMENT and expression of YOUR divine masculine or feminine codes (archetypes, siddhic…).

 

Rockstar isn’t THAT strong here but I have to give myself ROOM to play and find a way that helps bring him in.

 

So this is one of the secrets to bridging into that ‘far out there’ archetype…well, giving yourself PLAY ROOM like with DANCING.

 

YOU MAY HAVE TO MIX DIFFERENT ARCHETYPES and give them breathing room. Allow yourself to ‘go extreme’…see, in order to bring in ROCKSTAR/Star because it’s still so NEW to my embodiment (although destined with my soul codex and Muse’ decree), I have to both take it serious to let Him drop in but my counter-balance to being too serious (b/c that was a SHADOW BEFORE) is to bring in my Jester and amplify some of the FUN-DORKINESS.

 

In otw; Rockstar is balanced with my archetypal uncalibrated DORK just a little bit; at least in the playful but real time process so that I can later REFINE ROCKSTAR to be more standalone serious and threatening in all of the right and wrong ways (b/c it includes a lot of DARK EROS).

 

DORK is the awkward, cave-dwelling, socially uncalibrated version of self; a beta version that I allow to help TRANSITION me into my more serious authentic archetypes…but we see that the alpha-ness of my soul is kinda redefining that Dork is actually very WELCOME and not resisted or judged. I’m letting it all breathe.

 

But somehow ; the extra CHEESE and FUN balances out the authentic attempts and playroom AT embodying serious Rockstar.

 

 

Also b/c my Jester is real, so I’m doing the process in real time; embodying an archetype that was a secret (healthy) obsession (without shadow here; L/Dark Rockstar) b/c He amplifies the rest of my soul codex as Muse-Magician and has the SOCIAL relevance, status, power, etc. to impact the Beauty collective.

 

You may have to move around yourself to let YOUR codes start expressing themselves with and through you. And you can record it in screen-testing.

 

Again; this is in real time sharing much of the process with you (which heavily includes ongoing activations b/c I’m doing my own active AvaStar makeover in real time TO embody and express my public larger current iconic identity to the collective).

 

See if I was TOO serious about Rockstar when it’s not fully landed and integrated (as well as have further social calibration) it could come across wrong but ultimately finding MY serious embodiment as well as exploring a versatile spectrum of soul-truth visual expression while being centered in primary codex archetypes.

 

So DID you find ‘cheeseface’ in there?

 

Oh and the cheese face part of it has nothing to do with that I’m originally from Wisconsin (so was Dr. David Hawkins and Chris Farley).

 

And it’s not just about being self-deprecating either; it’s deeper than that b/c self-deprecation can also be a shadow of its own when out of balance and certain cultures (like Britain) have it more than others…it’s more about giving myself PLAY ROOM to embody that ‘out there’ archetype into earth.

 

Later; I’ll find a more active balance that will shift between different archetypes in my (ongoing) charisma mastery but I’m ALLOWING myself to be imperfect and be seen even if my image itself still fluctuates it’s more stable BECAUSE I COMMITTED TO DEBUT ITSELF AND BEING SEEN; I PUT a date on it and went LIVE to be seen.

 

This ALLURING EXPRESSION is what you may idealize as well b/c it will be infectious to your people because ESSENCE is the social CURRENCY that is being exchanged in pop culture; one moment you’re lit up in Illumination and another you’re Princess of Celebration or Jester for 10 seconds and then serious mature Sage but as long as it’s the real you; you’ll still have your CORE iconic Star/let codex to rest and rely upon.

 

(I do look forward to showcasing more client visual makeovers with approval; I’ve been underpar on asking for them)

 

That can be intoxicating esp. when fewer people are charismatic or alluring other than celebrity stars.

 

BUT you might have resistances to standing out OR EVEN being JUDGED by your closest friends b/c of how your glow-up or shine makes THEM uncomfortable and THAT could prevent you from GOING BIG.

 

So…you want to work with your debut archetypes your debut archetypes.

 

Remember; I’m strong in foundation on Muse-Magician but even THOSE can use more expression/charisma mastery. THIS IS THE WORK and it’s what we do in the Avatar Star makeover which I’m literally doing myself as well.

 

…Esp. with visual social media influence and branding ESPECIALLY if you are ever in business for yourself with integrity to your spirit codes; this stuff means EVERYTHING (also in face of inorganic AI). and you’re ability to build a following and authentic trust as being TESTAMENT of your brand. I mean allure is ALSO the evolution of beauty influence and the beauty industry itself including social media marketing and branding. We’re already on the frontlines.

 

My charisma factor is DECENT ENOUGH (say around 7.6) but it is ON and ACTIVE…and pretty stable. I’ll be able to make quantum leaps because the foundation is here.

 

THAT is what you want to value…at least be FEELABLE even if it’s perfect and awkward…as long as you’re ESENCED and your aura and chakras are BREATHING, it then makes other egoic judgments and imperfections even FORGIVABLE.

 

IN the AvaStar Makeover we not only get clarity on your soul codex FOR public currents as a powerful influencer, but we do literal energetic embodiment and allure work directly ON your light body so you become FEELABLE and start exponentiating your social media influence.

 

Already, what I’m doing is allowing a channel for masculine energies to be experienced when that is actually not that common anymore. (Check out the latest comment on the bottom there).

 

This is critical b/c you want to have people FEEL YOU AND RESPOND. This is where organic social media GOLD IS….in being your AUTHENTIC, open, expressed and feelable self.

 

That includes being dissolved of your own subconscious barriers and resistances TO being felt. In other words; you have to de-armor and DANCE is a very powerful gateway.

 

Serious vs. FUN.

 

So take the process SERIOUSLY but you have to have fun with it…in my case, I play with the idea itself of ‘serious fun’…you can experience that; I have to land serious ROCKSTAR and His Dark Eros in but it’s crudely mixing with my Dork…but just wait until a few months down the road and when I’m socially recalibrated hosting oases in Tulum….I’m going to be light years ahead because I’ve been doing the work AND MUST be testament of charisma and the brand itself leading the allure and charisma revolution in the world and for entertainment and celebrity.

 

So consider these ‘dance’ takeaways and other insights.

 

Put aside the concept of dance being viral trends that seem ‘outside of you’…this is about connecting with OUR OWN WAY to be a CHANNEL to OPEN our charisma and allure up TO BE FELT.

 

IF you were to dance, move or pre-dance what would that look like? Now how about when the camera is on and you KNOW you’re not only going to be seen but seen by industry leaders and celebrities?

 

Can you then still be in your essence truth (when that is really what’s missing ; at least when you are in your codex)?

 

So with that said; you can go ahead and run with these takeaways on your own.

 

It might however take you years to be able to access and embody those (or transform through alchemical attunement) on your own even IF you have clarity on your Star/let codex because SO MUCH can still sabotage you. YEARS or decades to ‘go it your own’ can be a large price to pay for your makeover itself. You might not want to take that long.

 

Fortunately, I can DIRECTLY help you all with it FOR you Avatar Star Self to be embodied.

 

That option is now with the AvaStar Makeover which is a 6 month process (but there are ways we can go faster if you’re called to it). Find out more here at the link.


So check out the upcoming posts…the content is free and you can do with it what you will but at least you know with the AvaStar, you don’t have to wait and can get the professional best-in-the-world leading archetypal and allure support for your image transformation; we can get RIGHT INTO the heavy transfiguration work itself so you can debut or rebirth your most powerful or beautiful soul codexed self out to the world with 5x more magnetism and influence while living your highest timeline (this means everything if you are in personal branding or a spirit-centric business where people can FEEL whether you are real or not).

 

The current AvaStar Makeover clients are already experiencing the LEVEL of breakthroughs they desired out of the program and it’s adding up (including new clients, stronger social media response, etc).

 

Remember;

 

CHARISMA/ALLURE is the missing organic CODE to viral influence itself…already responsible for billions of views.

 

Now that I’m finally live on Instagram 2.5 months in, I’m leveraging it ‘at scale’ and will get into other formats and techniques etc. but it’s already working.

 

Can you afford NOT to represent and live as your best, most influential FEELABLE self online in this attention economy?

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My Fear-Riddled Path Into Visibility &…Star-dom?

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Sub-titled The impossible journey that cannot be faked. Well…this is the start of an extended mini-series of topic specific content on the blog (under ‘charisma’, ‘rion kati’ and ‘soul starlet’).

 

Firstly; there’s a lot of inspired edu-tainment content I have for you the rest of this month so keep checking your emails; you never know what life-changing gold nuggets (snuggets) you might get all of a sudden.

 

It turns out I have a real knack not only for ladies finding their Beloved’s codex with 100% accuracy but I’m also damn good at helping them get more clarity on their own debut Starlet codex in the AvaStar consulting sessions.

 

“Brilliant” “Epic” said the 2 latest clients on the level of life-changing clarity consulting for THEIR visual debut.

 

I’m also going to be speaking to all kinds of things which can prevent you from being SEEN and having greater influence and connection with the people you are meant to influence (IN your divine truth). So keep checking the emails and blog…

 

As you may know, I’ve had incredibly brutal anxiety, insecurity and crippling visibility wounds. I mean very extreme cases of fugly duckling.

 

For years I’ve been the cozy ‘behind the scenes’ Lightworker who looks half schleppy going into zoom audio sessions with a low-mid grade webcam. One could say that I’ve actually the CLOSEST THING to someone ‘working in his pajamas’. Honestly, I’d just wear less if I could sometimes.

 

Alas; don’t fret…all of the light-working has been REAL without compromise but…the truth is, I’ve been ‘hiding out’ for years and years…building an epic foundation, YES but hiding out.

 

I know that I’m not only meant to share these gifts with the world publicly but actually literally with the world’s most famous celebrities (and I mean most all of them). I’m also meant to train the world’s TOP glow-up artists with Allure Priestess who will lead the world in allure makeovers.

 

So remember; when I was talking a lot about your Star/let codex for your debut or rebirth. This is what can give you the inspired clarity and confidence to move forward and that at least ONE of your archetypes you’re going to be VERY comfortable and familiar with.

 

My public Star codex is: The Muse Magician Rockstar. I’m INTEGRAL with Muse-Magician

 

But see, I was never ‘the rockstar’. That is the big challenge and in my case, the one that really transfigures it as undeniably SOCIAL and in great visible INFLUENCE. For you, there’s also going to be a weaker archetype which single-handedly is going to challenge your visibility wounds yet also provide THE MEDICINE for you to be in YOUR POWER and SERVICE.

 

For me it’s Rockstar and then Star but it’s the unique coding AS the Muse Magician.

 

For you, it may not literally be ‘Starlet’….Starlet may be more invisible but serves as the amplification and transfiguration OF your unique codex in divine service resolved of visibility wounds to the world so you can have the influence (and even make money) with the people you are ultimately meant to serve IN your fullest Beauty, codes and active service truth.

 

So the real challenge is that I was the guy behind the scenes, but I’ve realized (through Muse’ decree) that I am meant to not just be visible but be RIDICULOUSLY visible…and that means triggering ALLLLLL of my security related comfort and visibility issues.

 

Because something like THAT is massive identity level transformation.

 

Maybe YOUR gap is that there is one archetype that puts you IN your shameless public service and power but it THREATENS everything you are now and the comfort if you’ve been hiding out also.

 

I was the one who (as a 5/1 DEFINED cave living and endless internal seeking of security before being ready to ‘share with the world’.

 

This is me coming out of my cave to interact socially

 

 

Yes; there’s kind of an ugly go-getter beauty to him, but that’s not quite it. I represent the evolution of Beauty and charisma on the frontlines, so I am ESPECIALLY being tested because I have to become the testament of the brand and this work. For all my past fugliness, I have to become the swan…fortunately it is my truth in spirit; it just has to be accessed, embodied and expressed AGAINST ALL ODDS and subconscious sabotage (including the fugly duckling and quasimodo-gremlin).

 

I can’t tell you how much anxiety I’ve had.

 

But I was/am an extreme case of visibility wounds. I remember doing improv acting on stage at high school and I literally froze for 2 minutes while people were watching me to finish a skit.

 

All of this was REAL for me; a lifelong plague…and ironically it’s a prime HUMAN or incarnate shadow of the Muse line; performance anxiety.

 

One time I was at a famous internet marketing seminar in a beautiful ballroom for dinner and Yanik Silver had tables come together to form teams and work on some problem. There was a healthy competitive environment amongst them and at some point, I was like ‘give me the microphone, I’ve got a point to make’ and then I was standing and became radically self-conscious…

 

I saw and felt ALL of the eyeballs were on me (a few hundred people with their fancy glass chalices clinging, etc.) and I tried to hold my voice steady from cracking…

 

I don’t even remember what I said but I think I juts finished my sentence and sat down in humility. All I remember afterwards was he gave the microphone to a man who DID have public confidence and a strong accent…

 

Yanik had him say ‘fine Corinthian leathers’. I do remember that. I felt smaller than invisible.

 

BUT…That’s what inspired me to host 2 free live workshops in Houston to help overcome my speaking and visibility anxiety. When it started I was at the head of the table with around 14 men; half of whom flew in from around the country and it took me a few minutes of speaking to finally ‘drop into the zone’.

 

I was the one who still had so much performance anxiety before being invited to speak onstage in Montreal in 2006 as a ‘natural’ dating coach at the Cliff’s List convention that I was swigging shots of rum from a Malibu bottle in my hotel room BEFORE going on stage just to alleviate the anxiety.

 

Somehow I think it really helped and neutralized my performance jitters away.

 

I was the one who AT my first David DeAngelo seminar in Chicago at the end in 2005 waited in line and had so much ANXIETY built up just waiting to speak to him (b/c of the power dynamic mixed with my excitement of what I was doing) that I couldn’t slow my speaking down.

 

There’s a hidden clip of me somewhere online and you would be like ‘that can’t be Rion’.

 

I had so much anxiety in recording the ‘interview with dating guru’ of the month (in late 2007 or so) that I locked my Himalayan cat-boy in the bathroom so that I could focus record into the funny looking tape machine he had sent on the carpet of my Houston apartment while he and I talked on the device.

 

(Eben Pagan then invited me to SPEAK at the Man Transformation summit in L.A. which I think was in JAN. 2008 and I HAD to say yes despite having so much anxiety).

 

I had so much anxiety speaking on stage I didn’t know if I would ever get through it…there were several 100 people there with cameras recording.

Mortifyingly;

 

He kind of said through the microphone talking to a crew member (Royster productions I think) ‘Yeah this isn’t working’ as he walked towards stage.

 

Eventually HE STOPPED the cameras (or not to use them later) and took a big step in the front onto the stage/pulpit to ask me privately but in front of 100’s (mics off) if we could switch the format because it ‘just wasn’t working’ (but that he did value what I had to say). How would you feel in this exact scenario?

 

This was a BIG event and I’ve never seen anything like that happen…

 

I’ll share what happened at the very bottom.

 

But really; although I got better at speaking especially on a smaller scale and hosting small retreats; my images issues and anxieties further compounded because I knew I was meant for greatness. How am I going to LEAD the allure and charisma revolution movement WORLDWIDE if I DON’T overcome the deep ugliness and visibility wounds within?

 

Remember; I stayed ‘cozy’ for YEARS but I knew that I would eventually have to BE SEEN in order to truly have the INFLUENCE and impact my soul was meant to have (ESP. because it’s all so visual centric). And now; social media is WHERE IT’S AT. So whatever angle you look at it; we’re all influencers and the FULLEST version of yourself is SOME form of influencer…and if you’re triggered by influencer, then just redefine what it means because you and I have codes that MUST get out there…unless we allow the shadows, doubts, insecurities to sabotage us and keep us in an ILLUSION of safety.

 

I recently caught the MindValley ; as you may know Vishen Lakhiani is actually a long-time peer of mine. We literally had the same best friends in college when I was at UW-Madison and we would drive to U of M to party on some weekends. Anyways; he was saying that 2026 is the land-rush for FOUNDERS.

 

With the advent of AI accelerating, people are going to want more CONNECTION and trust with RELIABLE sources…not companies per se but the actual FOUNDERS and those who create and sculpt their brand ecosphere.

 

THIS is where social media is at now so if you’re not primed to BE SEEN and leverage social media, well this could be one of many ways in which you are holding back on your greater purpose (including BEING SEEN).

 

Your Star/let codex holds the IDENTITY level clarity and POWER for you to be in your highest truth, beauty, power and service in alignment with your soul purpose….it holds that for me, it holds it for you (whether you’re conscious of it or not).

 

Archetypes do not have the same problems we do…it’s really just about having a way to access and embody that encoded consciousness to mix and amplify your own soul codes.

 

And the public one for you probably holds THE KEYS to your greatness in social and spiritual influence.

 

So as far as me…..I was never the ROCKSTAR. It was just a secret obsessive pipe dream that I’ve had my whole life. I admired stars and secretly wanted to be one but I never felt like I was worthy,.

 

To be clear; I never had imposter syndrome (and you or others might); but speaking of myself I’ve had OTHER hardcore visibility wounds and anxieties in the extreme. But still; how am I going to be an influencer TO stars and starlets?

 

It seemed light years away. But my codex holds the power and the codes…I just had to find a way to step into ROCKSTAR which is the social amplification and an apex of attention for feminine Beauty and Beauty influencers to CHANGE THE GAME (it’s all Muse’ brilliant strategy to be honest).

 

How could the anxious, FUGLY duckling, insecure, hiding out version of me BE THAT embodied and non-fakeable version of myself?

 

Because remember; the highest status people are like HAWKS who can sniff out any posers or fakers so the POWER and self-image I have must be real (and divine). I have to be the real thing….I AM the real thing in ESSENCE (like you may be); it’s about EMBODIMMENT and expression in influence LIKE a star or starlet who can face, engage, inspire and MOVE the collective in the larger currents with your unique codes that are compelling and socially contagious.

 

THAT’S WHERE THE POWER OF THIS AVASTAR WORK COMES IN.

 

So…over this 2 weeks I’m going to be sharing more codes in and around my transformation as well as more Starlet codes related to overcoming extreme sabotage and codes around HOW to make real progress to be IN your power and codes against all odds in ‘being seen’.

 

And you know what?

 

My (Social) Rockstar era is beginning. It’s more important that OTHERS have the experience and affect of it; but it’s still important to have the INTERNAL compass of your my Star/let codex consciously so that you are ALIGNED.

 

I use the Beauty Sorcerer more publicly and the ‘brand’ is really Rion Kati and having influence as a real star/lightworker, etc. but as a ‘brand’ but I’m sharing this with you as part of my (and the) AvaStar process.

 

If you’re following me on Instagram, there’s a LOT going on in my JUST released video because (for me and you) the impossible is WITHIN REACH. It proves this work is real (oh and ‘miracles’ are already happening for the lady AvaStar clients). I’ll deconstruct what’s going on b/c in some way, I’m not ‘competing’ with the late Michael Hutchence of INXS, BUT we’re both 5/1’s and…well, stay tuned (or check it out now). I’ll speak to it soon.

 

STARDOM is the mid and long-term outlook but in a sense, I’m already a star in the work that I do and those sub-markets (now really post-debut and going visual public public).

 

 

OH; so what happened when I was speaking at the Man Transformation event when Eben Pagan/David DeAngelo stepped up on stage to STOP my speaking presentation (which was printed to DVD’s and sold as a product later)?

 

Well…they took a quick 4 minute stretch break to set up some couches and somehow that did the trick; we went into a sit-down interview format and it alleviated most of my anxiety and saved the day.

 

Yes, it’s THAT Eben Pagan famous marketer; he’s been a multi-millionaire for a long time. I actually have him LAUGHING…here’s a screen shot of that. I was doing a Mr. Anderson impression from Beavis & Butt-head.

 

 

I HAD TO DO BE THERE and speak because I had codes that NO ONE ELSE HAD in that industry; literally no one else was sharing this (and I was frustrated they weren’t), so I had to fight through my anxieties and do the right thing. I was still one of the very few ‘naturals’ in the dating and seduction industry back then.

 

I even had 1 man give me a standing ovation near the front left (speaker’s view). Fortunately overcoming my anxieties opened all kinds of doors for me b/c I knew that I HAD to do it or I couldn’t live with myself.

 

Stay tuned to more real world Star/let codes on the blog soon…and yes, the AvaStar Makeover is available.

 

 

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