Are Your Friends, Circle Or Family Sabotaging Your Own Starlet Visibility or Fame?
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The Hidden Saboteur For Many Women’s STARLET: Psychic Agreements With Her Current Friends, Circle Even Partnership
Continuing our exploration (in this Starlet Miracle Ascension Portal) of AVATAR identity transformation to live as your SOVEREIGN, Light & Dark Truth self to the greater collective as a Light-worker Starlet with YOUR codes and overcoming ALL THAT WOULD STOP you; derail you, sabotage you…really overcoming the spiritual warfare of anxiety and oppression from being in your greatest Beauty-Truth, codes, magic, voice and medicine like a celebrity brand;
This may come as a shock but could your own FRIENDS, family and circle be a psychic BURDEN that is one of your greatest saboteurs when it comes to getting your TRUTH and CODES out to the world?
Ok; tbh your birth family seems like an OBVIOUS one b/c after all you’re the black sheep in the family, so let’s just assume that and instead look at your current CIRCLE and relational web of friends, even a sister-hood or those who think alike.
Later down I’ll also address if you’re a mother and THAT family dynamic and if you’re with a partner who may not want you to THRIVE publicly b/c it threatens him and your past agreement of the relationship (really; that’s A BIGGIE that HAS held MILLIONS of women back from OUR perspectiving here; and I don’t just mean ‘boss babe’ either but in sharing her/your value, codes, medicine and essence to the world on a larger scale b/c of how it would threaten him – remember STARLET has different codes and may require STAR of an immortal Beloved who has that level of DETACHMENT to allow you to SHINE and be sensual and vulnerable in essence to the world).
So on this RELATIONAL subject (b/c the whole partner dynamic is a major doozy which I’ve written about before and may again), I’m going to mostly focus on your current circle of friends when it comes to holding back and actually SABOTAGING or PREVENTING your own overnight LIGHTWORKING STARLET success and visibility.
COULD THIS DYNAMIC BE SECRETLY HOLDING YOU BACK FROM BREAKING THROUGH WITH VISIBILITY & Vulnerable Essence-Truth Expression?
SO…it may or may NOT be…I don’t know unless if we were on a call so you have to self-qualify and assess your situation in this format.
But really; your relationships NOW formed on past agreements (even non-consciously) could end up being a psychic burden that is preventing your own breakthrough success b/c you have a fear of losing that connection and relationship so your body may want to ‘remain safe’ and not ‘rock the boats’ (without realizing that SACRIFICES MUST BE MADE to become THAT STARLET VERSION OF YOURSELF – and that you can make new friends and attract people who powerfully support your STAR evolution and expression).
‘EXPOSING’ your image, your true voice and the sanctity of your codes openly IN your feminine eros and essences requires a different constellation of identity…to really remain DE-ARMORED when facing EVEN MORE PEOPLE and their projections which may be screaming to your body to stay hidden and preserve who you are.
So we’ll be exploring that more from some other angles as well (Goddess vs. Starlet Awakening as well as more the ‘unsafe world’ theme, etc..).
But on the good side with your friends; you can feel yourself around them….BUT CAN YOUR STARLET BE IN HER FULLEST LIGHT, MAGIC AND BEAUTY AROUND THEM? And how would they feel if you became FAMOUS all of a sudden?
So YOUR path (open for self-assessment here); may include liberating yourself from past psychic agreements and attachments with people who may hold you back from your true STARLET ERA and greater place in the world as an ascension influencer to the masses.
Or it may include dissociating with them or changing your relationship. You might not be willing to have that conversation and continue spending a lot of TIME with them when you sense it’s actually kinda draining you and holding you back (and maybe even that it’s more about THEM than actually listening to YOUR deeper, unsettling, unexpressed desires); much of it b/c of habit.
Because for you to let’s just put it all out there and say BECOME FAMOUS in your HIGHEST MAGIC AND TRUTH…That Avatar version of yourself in Soul+Spirit Truth identity…
It requires a special form of sovereignty b/c you may NOT HAVE the same circle at THAT level. Your influence is going to become more META-PHYSICAL to the larger collective (not that you couldn’t have more intimate friends); but if you’re being held back by the psychic weight you may not only never breakthrough but you may end up secretly resenting your friends AND yourself for it all.
HAVING THAT MASSIVE INFLUENCE WITH YOUR ASCENSION CODES and becoming that spiritual celebrity (in authentic SELF version of you living it);
Is all about SOVEREIGNTY…that form of sovereignty (and a higher level of social sophistication)…the female intelligence is generally very social and implicated with the web of her RELATIONAL reality.
FAME MAY THREATEN WHAT YOU KNOW of your current connections and comfort…the safety you feel with them (whether fully expressed or not; it may still trigger THEM).
Can you sense into how individual friends (or family members) would respond?
This can make it more ‘sticky’ to disentangle herself/yourself from her current social settings and standings.
So; COULD YOU BE FREE AND SUPPORTED (by them or your circle) without hidden resentment and grudges? Would it be a new episode of SabotageRageous Housewives but all under the surface of what wasn’t spoken?
We’re talking the actual psychic and understated reality here (not explicitly verbal). Would they support the AVATAR version of you or could they actually be holding it back and you’re taking part in that agreement (psychically) formed YEARS ago?
Because tbh; the Starlet version of you is likely going to be around celebrities and that can trigger all kinds of feelings in other people who know/knew you.
So contemplate if you current circle is holding you back; in a sense / in essence as its own hidden SHADOW DYNAMIC – where you are entangled even if it appears supportive and healthy ; but where you’re ultimately still constricted and living with the inertia of those past agreements.
THIS COULD BE A MAIN THING SABOTAGING YOUR OWN OVERNIGHT SUCCESS and visibility. You don’t want to hurt or leave them.
And Human Design comes into this as far as your in-self and success dynamics too..
I’d say that 5/1’s have something of an advantage as compared for 4 line profiles with Human Design b/c 5’s are meant to connect with strangers and the public b/c of the universalized field of the ‘5’ line itself; the completion of the hexagram.. FOUR lines who have already built a social circle and following may not want to ‘rebirth’ or ‘reinvent’ themselves b/c it may threaten their current standing and the projections and expectations of people who already know you.
You may have to shift the VALUES of your soul tribe to match your updated identity and be willing to let some go (or most-all) who no longer resonate..
In this case; you have to decide what is ultimately MORE IMPORTANT b/c you may actually have to CUT TIES and liberate yourself from the psychic burden of those who are weighing you down if your timeline, path and values have shifted (that means literal individual people).
HOW IMPORTANT IS YOUR DHARMA TO THE WORLD? And is that being SUPPORTED by your relational webs?
THEY know you as a certain way and your sub-conscious may not want to experience social ostracization.
It may be part of your sacrifice in becoming more SOVEREIGN to have a relationship with the collective and to open up to NEW FRIENDS that may be more RESONANT with the AVATAR STARLET version of yourself in fullest expression. (Again; this is for you to contemplate and discern).
SO…in my recent book/power report release of ‘How to Shop at Flea Markets for Bargain Bin Pricing’…oops, no that’s the wrong site here…MY LATEST report of ‘Crouching Shadow, Hidden Starlet’….
..for the harder core SPIRITUAL WARFARE dynamic of sS/elf sabotage; it has to do with the inner JEZEBEL ‘STARKILLER’; however there are some other dynamics which could sabotage you INCLUDING being entangled in the social and psychic web of RELATIONSHIPS you currently have (including with family).
That may be less of the direct spiritual warfare and sabotagery in THAT sense (let alone the collective Shadow/Dark Mother attacks that you may YET have to face and deal with), but it could still be preventing your own breakthrough.
B/c you could HAVE something of a social media; instagram, fb, tiktok following right now but be nowhere near the INFLUENCE (and actively growing scale of what’s possible) until these INNER issues are resolved b/c people will be sensing and feeling the hesitancy, lack of full radiance, etc. even if/when you are actively doing things that keep you active on social media or with your brand.
So..
Even if you’re in relationship with a man or partner (and really that’s its OWN BLOG POST which I dunno if I’ll get to); your concern for him (and even the KIDS – another blog post) and keeping the relationship ‘stable’ and secure could hold you back THE REST OF YOUR LIFE from ever stepping into your STARLET. BECAUSE IT THREATENS HIM or the security of the relationship too much.
This means an even cobwebbier web of entropy.
And/or it could also be your current circle. This is for you to self-assess in this written format here.
For women esp. (as vs. ‘lone wolf’ or ‘outlaw men’) this RELATIONAL-PSYCHIC dynamic (as well as remaining attached in a past agreement/commitment with a partner or parental dynamic) can be its own ‘hidden’ and oppressive BURDEN that actually prevents you from ever really shining; those who are in your circle and their expectations of you and THEIR comfort (even if you have a lot of history and affinity with each other).
THESE ARE BIG DECISIONS….relational attachments and agreements and if YOU would ever choose to shift them…you have to go deep and realize how important your fullest dharma and expression is to serve in the world (and what may have to change; what new agreements may have to be made and broken).
So whether it’s your own current circle, a marriage or partnership, a parental ‘safety for the kids’ dynamic;
YOU MAY NOT WANT TO EVOLVE B/C OF THAT CONNECTION AND ATTACHMENT (and its apparent threat).
THIS MAY BE PART OF YOUR SACRIFICE TO REALLY BREAK THROUGH. And there may or may not be ways to have the best of both worlds but a lot of men have their own shadow masculine connection, are stubborn and don’t want things to change and may not support your fullest STARLET expression; they can get triggered esp. if your EROS is out in the world and THAT could hold you back; just the thought and fear of it – I’ve worked with and talked with women of whom THAT is one of their main dynamics so it’s more likely that many of these women will stay in the relationship while her soul and spirit remain suppressed for years.
So whether it is a partnership, friends, family, kids and your environmental dynamic formed on past agreements; these could be an entire ENTANGLED WEB preventing the obvious LIBERATION of your STARLET.
BUT THERE’S ENERGY WITH ALL OF THIS. You have to go deep with your own values and assess. (I’ve literally had women who divorced after working with me btw; but that’s not always necessarily the answer).
CAN YOU PARTNERSHIP, FRIENDS PSYCHICALLY AND FULLY SUPPORT YOUR FAME VERSION of Goddess?
MAYBE YOURS CAN AND DO. But life isn’t perfect. It may require sacrifice to become who you feel you are if your spirit is inhibited.
B/c this analogy it’s kinda like the analogy of crabs in the bucket who pull the one who is trying to escape or transcend RIGHT BACK DOWN. Except that this is social and psychic. They may have their psychic burden and cords attached to you and you may be allowing yourself to live up to their expectations and projections; when it’s NOT who you really are anymore esp. if it’s time to FULLY EXPRESS YOURSELF to the larger world.
SO….it’s just for you now to soak in and contemplate. Maybe your circle and relationship CAN support your ascension rise (we’re not limited to ‘Boss Babe’ here b/c the archetypal spectrum includes full-on feminine eros dynamics whose medicine the world yearneth for; but even making it ‘on your own’ in partnership can bring up all kinds of triggers so you may want to PREVENT IT from destabilizing the relationship ; Gillian Pothier is excellent on THIS subject matter btw).
SO…ARE YOU HELD BACK WITH THESE ‘RELATIONAL’ psychic (or explicit) relational agreements? It may seem invisible but could be very much ‘there’. We’re bringing more into the light of awareness.
From a shamelessly detached and Starlet Ascension guide/Starlet-maker perspective the FRUIT NINJA KATANA version of what I’d say is that;
ANYTHING that is holding back your Avatar Starlet from fulfilling Her highest purpose, medicine, beauty and expression to the world is a FORM OF SHADOW.
But this isn’t for everyone; not all are called to a more public path and many ARE more valuing of intimate family with cozy past relationships but without greater visibility (and I get that; you just have to determine where YOU are at and it may be possible to have the best of both worlds; Hearthen Starlet ie. 😉
Only YOU know how valuable your inner soul and spirit’s desire it.
But hear me clearly; that doesn’t mean ‘Rion said to break up my family or relationships’ whatsoever…these are YOUR decisions and not EVERYONE is on a STARLET Path…shifting them is on YOUR dynamic, authority and consequence; however, I know for myself I cannot absolutely be in a serious relationship that doesn’t support my dharma (and yes; I have a daughter btw and the mother and I aren’t on the same wavelengths or paths thus I’m single).
A lot to contemplate. So what can you do from here?
Well…if you are INDEED realizing that you CANNOT COMPROMISE and that getting YOUR CODES, MAGIC, LIGHT-WORK and exposure out to a far larger audience and social media/professional following (whether getting paid for it or not) is CENTRAL to your highest TRUTH; then you should fill out the intake form for Avatar Starlet (AvaStar) b/c the questions alone can help you further with your own clarity, feeling and thought process and LOGOS about your purpose and weighing these balances…
See…you HAVE LEVERAGE if you’re willing to make adjustments in your relational web for the value of embodying your STARLET; however there are SO MANY OTHER THINGS which could then stop you…you may not have even uncovered the deeper spiritual warfare that awaits, let alone the ‘masculine gaze’/siphoning DYNAMIC from the larger currents and ocean itself…you might have just
So it’s a process; to detach, recalibrate current relationships and then ACCESS and embody your AVATAR/STARLET codes and then FACE THE WORLD…it’s more than just detaching from your current circle b/c this requires a form of SOVEREIGNTY to be secure enough in your identity and somatic body to FACE THE WORLD…you may not have had that before so other shadows can pop up…
So if you are SERIOUS about how important your fullest expression and dharma is as some form of (ascension or lightworker) influencer, there’s a LOT we can do for you to come out of your cocoon or chrysalis into that sovereign avatar embodied and expressed facing the world version of self. IF you’re at a point of readiness on YOUR side of commitment to your path, then…
I’d consider the AvaStar makeover intake form next and then we could have a complimentary no-pressure 40 minute zoom call to get more insight and clarity around your dynamics and path (if still available; check for update).
Really; I’m here to serve those who are READY for Ascension Starletry on the front edge; those who ARE ready…I can serve most directly.
However; with the blog (and getting these Starlet Portal codes out there in this format), since this is a more open format of edu-codification ‘n such…you or others may process these codes for months or years before being ready.
It’s a lot to take in so I’d reflect upon HOW CENTRAL your unexpressed desires are to fulfilling your greater soul purpose (and if your current relationships actually support it).
When you’re ready, I’m ready and you may never be ready. Many who HAVE codes still won’t make that new agreement with themselves to follow it.
The price may be too great and they’re not ready to cut those past agreements or reframe them but may suffer a life of compromise and weary spirit decay.
YOU can gauge where you’re at. I do serve (literally) actively right now – ascension starlets.
I hope this really helps.
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