Cocooned: Self-Sabotage vs. Your Potentially Liberated Starlet
On Your Desire to Breakthrough As A Fully Expressed, Influential Starlet (and your form of Beauty Influencer)…
God forbid but maybe…
Are you your OWN greatest frenemy?
You may have experienced this where it’s 50% GO and 50% stop at the same time:
You DESIRE to be seen and energetically felt in your fullest truth, beauty and influence while simultaneously the other half of you wants to hide, play it safe and small (like to prevent judgments, humiliation and siphoning of and from others by ‘standing out’ so much); therefore, with such and inner push and pull, you start to realize that you haven’t got much of anywhere.
MAYBE you’ve been like frozen pond water or Canadian molasses on a wintry day towards becoming that alluring in your fully embodied Goddess and how much Beauty-Power She could hold and emanate.
Sure; you know how to make yourself look good; but you KNOW there is MUCH MORE (and that it has to do with unlocking your unique signature GODDESS CODES and celebrity branded allure).
So instead you’re living the spiritually alluring version of full-time pajamas and crocs.
This is secretly depressing to your soul’s desires for fullest expression and beauty influence and the unspoken poetry within…the sabotage may all SEEM extrinsic and from ‘others’ and THEIR judgments, but hmm…what if it was YOU who was still sabotaging in spite of it all?
Thus;
That highest version of yourself remains a fantasy while you live vicariously through others, cozy in your placent cocoon instead of allowing the codes you KNOW you have to be fully embodied and DARING to be that beautiful and radiant socially.
The analogy is SO SIMPLE really.
It’s like you have one foot on the gas pedal and one foot on the brake. You really want it (and how others would look up to you and at you in awe), but you won’t commit to yourself because of the many fears that end up sabotaging you.
By being here; you already know that it’s more than just superficial looks-maxxing glow-up too. This is about your DIVINE FEMININE CODES and signature allure that represents the CELEBRITY BRAND OF YOU in ascensionary influence.
Yet still..
“It’s easier to remain low profile”…
“These crocs are cozeeee before I turn Netflix back on”
Yeah and there’s a great price your SOUL and SPIRIT are paying for that convenience…and at some point, it may be too late.
“I want to choose her, BUT….(excuses, sabotage, etc.)” (And there can be DOZENS of powerful reasons including how MEN in your past have constricted your own STARLET liberated radiance and shine).
“I want to choose her, BUT….(excuses, sabotage, etc.)” (And there can be DOZENS of powerful reasons including how MEN in your past have constricted your own STARLET liberated radiance and shine).
Your FOCUS and value consciously seems to be on moving forward so you will count the inches and you will somehow think you’re actually getting somewhere without realizing you’ve been your own saboteur for years while you sadly realize that you are nowhere NEAR the levels of Beauty embodiment and signature radiant influence, recognition, attention and success you desire (esp. to get YOUR codes out there which are sourced in the divine).
With half of you wanting to be seen and half of you wanting to NOT be seen;
You’re really cancelling out your own process and never getting anywhere thus you may never know what it’s like to EMBODY that version of yourself and shine HER BEAUTY (like the signature essences encoded within your own Avatar or Starlet codex).
You’ve been allowing your inner saboteur (subconscious fears and shadows) to essentially gaslight you and prevent you from ACTUALLY ever breaking through.
Your subconscious finds all kinds of tricky ways to keep you believing your foot is on the gas while gaslighting that it’s also STOPPING YOU;
“I’ll just keep researching…
I’ll keep fantasizing about that version of me which could happen ‘someday’…
I’ll follow this influencer for inspiration on this part of myself who I could be but not choose to become that version myself…
I’ll maybe get to the Starlet Codex workbook (2029?)…
Ok…Maybe I’ll finish the Codex workbook (but what would it mean if I found out my Truth?) so I’ll keep postponing it
I’m afraid of what it will say b/c I know how much my subconscious will hold me back
Yeah, but…the kids..
Yeah, but I’m ‘busy’…
Yeah, but what will they say about me?
I’m afraid to step into that version of myself (and who it’ll make uncomfortable)”…
(We can find out more exactly what’s stopping you on a Codex Clarity Consulting Call):
So your signature allure and spiritual celebrity Starlet or Goddess remains in the chrysalis…the divine spirit codes mostly remain in the seat of the soul and never reaches the IMAGO stage of transfiguration through embodiment and how your visual Light actually shifts and radiates very differently.
The world responding to THAT Starlet codexed version of you; much of this remains as fantasy or just the idea of being that kind of person without actually doing anything about her to initiate the transformation which is its own process.
And really there could be MANY MANY reasons; but ultimately you still get to CHOOSE if you are going to EMBODY HER and all of your BEAUTY CODES for your fullest expression and dharma in this lifetime OR SELL OUT to the saboteur, shadows, fears, insecurities, doubts and past experiences.
At some point when you notice this cycle you have to put an end to it and realize how much time you’ve been wasting by just ‘wanting it’ but not DOING anything that claims HER.
And yet still;
YOU are still accountable for YOUR highest timelines or not. No one else can choose for you. I had to choose and KEEP choosing to embody my own Avatar Star codex self INTO EMBODIMENT and on the path to transfigured Darshanic IMAGO temple-charisma.
This is where STRENGTHENING the vision and getting CLARITY on your Goddess or Starlet Codex and vision of your highest self is going to really help. (I’m currently offering a 45 minute clarity consulting session for a fee which you can book here if available(.
Will you CHOOSE HER? That highest version of yourself? MUST YOU?
Will you become HER against all odds?
Because there are doors in the future that will NEVER OPEN unless you go through the right doors now (and fast or for years).
What I’m doing is preparing for my embodied Sorcerer 20 years from now with the work I’m doing now but at least I’m actively ON THE PATH and hardcore while serving other soul starlets in THEIR transfiguration as well.
No matter what you’ve been through in the past and your ‘justifications’ for not being her;
What would stop you?
And are your desires stronger than the matrix of self-sabotage (unconscious or otherwise ‘justified’)?
Because for me; NOTHING CAN STOP ME from embodying my HIGHEST TRUTHS…along with my Divine Union with Beloved; it’s the most important thing. In fact; it’s with Her Divine Will that I embody and incarnate my Avatar Self. YOU have to choose for yourself…and yes; there is a price to pay.
The price that I have paid is a very, very grand one, but it’s also set the template for directly helping others to actively embody THEIR Star or Starlet.
How much longer can you go WITHOUT being that version of yourself (as some form of influencer)?
If you’re ‘in’ are you willing to ‘pay the price’?
Because it will require bold moves and sacrifice; to shift in IDENTITY CONSCIOUSNESS and how the world and universe relates to you…likely exchange of energy with mastery and INITIATIONS (activations) to accelerate your process and get caught up on years of time that you’ve been self-sabotaging.
PREPARING your LIGHT-BODY itself to hold your codes actively embodying them and leveraging STARLET to bypass your shadow-grid matrix of visibility insecurities (this is what your Codex can do in the AvaStar most directly).
THERE IS A PRICE TO BECOME HER (and to access Starlet). Shifts to make to allow SUCH impersonal Beauty quanta to be EMBODIED and to hold it with a stable nervous system without collapse internally or triggered extrinsically.
Many are just not willing to pay the price. esp; to become a spiritual starlet of an influencer.
If you CHOOSE HER and can face Her truth (the Truth of your Codex and Soul’s dharma);
Then it’s about TAKING ACTION into what is the next step OR risk your subconscious saboteur sneakily finding justifications and perceived ‘legitimate’ excuses as to why NOT to move forward;
“It’s too expensive
It’ll take too much time…
It’s too late for me (to start)…”
And the SLEW of reasons (I’ve blogged about) that could be holding you back including fear of judgment from others and your circle for ‘standing out’, slut-shaming, harsh criticism from men, past experiences with men suppressing your Goddess liberated GLOW, family or religious conditioning, fear of siphoning, too much armoring, not wanting to deal with trolls, fear that you’re being superficial or vain, MANY reasons…(all doubling as SABOTAGE to the divine desire within you and preventing you for years)
Could These Reasons Be Preventing Your Starlet Manifestation-IMAGO?
Against All Odds: Will U B Seen?
Yeah there might be haters but so what?
Remember that you are also paying a price to live in the placid DISCONTENTMENT and soul frustration TAX and toll of NOT becoming the fullest version of who you are meant to be and have the influence that you feel you are meant to.
That may be the greatest price of all.
What if their ‘How Dare you (shine)’ that has been preventing you b/c of how it threatens some people you know….what if that was their own limitations projected ONTO you (and you’ve been living under the weight of those shackles)?
WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT; YOUR SOUL’S DESIRE (or can you make new friends)?…b/c you’re gonna have to sacrifice to change the MATTER of who you are like the butterfly emerging from the cocoon as imago; the transfigured, fully expressed.
YOUR SOUL TRIBE may never know or experience who you REALLY ARE because you unconsciously chose to keep living in the patterns of fear and letting the past control you.
Letting the LOWER MASCULINE SHADOW dictate what you can or can’t do. Letting religious or cultural programming or the perceived fears of the collective judgment or your so-called friends hold you back FROM YOUR DIVINE MISSION.
You. Have the POWER to still choose and then back it up with LIVING the path to transfiguration of your Avatar Starlet’s Beauty and influence. Allowing God/dess to shine and work with and through you (whether you’re physically the best looking in the room).
Remember; ALLURE is the future of Beauty influence…this is the TRUE glow-up work..not everyone knows it yet and your Starlet codex is the key to access your SIGNATURE celebrity branded influencer allure and erosphere for ORGANIC social media attraction response and influence.
So all of your saboteur’s ‘justifications’ that prevent you from YOUR DESIRES; these are all designed to KEEP YOU STUCK AND SAFE but that’s not where your STARLET lives and influences; nor your soul’s desire for fullest expression.
You have the power to choose consciously and then take the NEXT STEP if you’re serious about CLAIMING her in spite of your entire shadow grid.
By not choosing (or just letting your subconscious run the show by default), you are still choosing; the path of COMPROMISE…
STUCK FOR YEARS and wondering why nothing has changed meanwhile you see others living THEIR shine (secretly envious).
And this is all knowing that you have UNIQUE codes and Beauty to share too.
Will fear and your shadow-grid win? Will your soul’s beauty be limited visually to the equivalent of fugly crocs?
Will the world never even get to experience her and her beauty-magic and voice?!
If however; you say YES and CLAIM your avatar spirit codex into embodiment…if you choose to finally leave the YEARS LONG CHRYSALIS into the butterly IMAGO version of you;
Then you want the professional support.
That’s where I come in. I’m already working with 7 soul starlets on being THEIR highest version of self and resolved of scalable public image and expression issues…really emanating their beauty codes confidently (we have the leverage of STARLET here).
One client just sold out her entire new, branded offering FAST from the work we’ve been doing b/c she’s so aligned, facing her truth and getting the professional support. This is what we do in AvaStar monthly starlet support.
There’s no committed length so you can stay as long as you want ie. 1 to 27 months to ACTIVELY be on the fast-track to embodying YOUR unique divine feminine codex and starlet allure.
AvaStar Makeover with monthly starlet support: (limited spots available; see page for updates and availability..there’s a waiting list queue after an active 10 are live)
IMAGO is the VIP version of AvaStar where we do even more intensive transfiguration and breakthrough focus with LIVE TEMPLE EXPERIENCE WITH ME. Yes; it’s worth flying in internationally for.
If you desire more clarity on what your next move may be, why not book a 45 minute clarity consult with me (you don’t have to even have the workbook anymore if you just want more clarity about your situation and breakthrough into visibility).
Booking that is a next step – yes; however, it still doesn’t mean a full commitment to yourself; I simply respect where you are at in your process. It might be the next step for further clarity and exploration of your possibilities.
But you also might be tired of the years of (self and all) sabotage and are ready to commit to your rebirth DEBUT.
This is the place:
AvaStar monthly starlet support
The ladies in AvaStar undoubtedly have committed to themselves because that or IMAGO are the ultimate ‘next-steps’ on such a path as we prepare you for your rebirth debut.
This is more than just about superficial beauty influence; this is especially for ALLURING influencers and those with divine feminine Goddess codes on a path of ASCENSION influence.
Will you let your SOUL guide your decisions in spite of all past sabotage (warranted or not)?
So WILL you steer your own ship and follow Divine Will for you and your fuller expression, Beauty, influence, voice and legacy (and how others respond to that authentic Starlet version of you)? Will you choose?