Even More on Shining Your Allure or Charisma To A Consumptive World

You can read the first part of this sub-topic of shining your allure… here.


Btw; This may be a hotspot sticking point for you.

 

“What if I open my allure and men (in the world and on social media) want to just take from it?

 

…How do I scale dealing with (unwanted and wanted) attention?”

 

Throughout the Mystical Beauty programs I did with co-host Gillian Pothier, this theme kept recurring about women being concerned (understandably) that if they open their field to radiate their higher truth, beauty essences and its allure – that there would be all kinds of attention from men; unwanted attention as well as leechiness, psychic hooks, siphoning and concerns about the practicality of ‘how to manage’ real world interactions with men because a starlet ‘on stage’ is different than in person.

 

This is the NATURE of the greater game itself because we’re talking about the meta-prime valuation of the masculine which is Beauty (Purpose and Freedom but we’re focused on Beauty here).

 

See; allure is your GATEWAY DRUG to greater INFLUENCE and attraction itself because it is the emanation of your higher dimensional beauty light and vibe-truth which allows people to FEEL YOU in live presence, image or on video (rather than just looking good).

 

Allure can be intoxicating (even awakening) to the masculine and yet concerns about it can hold you back from being fully expressed in your truth and Beauty.

 

Key to this is constellating a practical detachment with MORTAL MEN who aren’t QUALIFIED YET nor have proven themselves…so it’s to be more like a starlet where the key is the gift of Detachment (Gene Key 42).

 

The SHADOW of expectation, wanting-ness, neediness, leechiness, siphoning is what can constrict your true beauty from EVER SHINING.

 

Yet your soul may know that you MUST shine your truth.

 

If you want more INFLUENCE, how much longer can you afford to remain CONSTRICTED just because some mortal men may send you ‘weird vibes’?

 

After all these very concerns or fears can prevent you and other women from ever truly shining as well as experiencing the benefits OF attracting more richly and deeply in all dimensions (and it can even keep cycles of fear perpetuating b/c of your constriction). Yet you could be stuck in these cycles for years.

 

So if you dare radiate your beauty in its freedom;

 

“What if he misinterprets it?”


“What if he expects something?”


“What if he keeps leeching?”


“Yeah, but Rion have you seen the rapey vibes from some of these men out there?”

 

Because of the safety concerns (esp. if there has been past betrayal misuse or abuse from lower timeline masculine) you may SHUT your radiance right back down to avoid unwanted attention (when there are other ways to discern, manage and deal with that mortal man).

 

So you might shut your energy body down in general…

 

Actually; in many cases a starlet in ‘real world’ is exactly the same as she is on stage because her sovereignty and mastery is that of DETACHMENT.

 

She also owns her status. Same as DIVA. A diva’s just not going to make her deeper inner sanctum available for pillaging and yet she can still radiate essence quanta that GIVES value without people ever directly siphoning from her.

 

Intimate relationships themselves become levels of agreement so she simply exercises discernment IN ALL DIMENSIONS.

 

Btw; there’s a few spots left in our Mystical Beauty (2): Immersion experience and it might actually sell out within the day at this point. There were about 100 women on yesterday’s call.

 

So again; reference a diva, muse or starlet…(who operate on IMPERSONAL levels of power and feminine influence so their relationship game to the masculine MUST be high level).

 

On stage she can CIRCULATE the universalized masculine energy (Gillian spoke brilliantly to this on our call); this ability actually can ATTUNE the awakening masculine spirit within mortal men – and yet, she’s not accepting PERSONAL psychic hooks into her chakras from individual men with weird vibes that allows that (honestly unworthy) man to keep pulling and draining.

 

Gillian herself lives from this mastery. Her freedom is more important than the unfulfilled desires of some selfish non-present men (from my perspective).

 

So a starlet, most muses and Gillian;

 

 

…they aren’t actually opening their fields to allow in unwanted psychic hooks from men in public or even social settings who want something from her. So you also want to master the Gift of DISCERNMENT (Gene Key 13).

 

I mentioned something on our Mystical Beauty Microdose (wow I don’t even know if this is online at the updated time of re-purpose posting here) yesterday about how such interactions are ‘psychic agreements’.

 

It’s just that you may have to become more aware of how your energy body is inter-changing with him and you may have to remain more sovereign. It may help to watch videos of stars and starlets signing autographs for example…they don’t ever have to become drained by it.

 

Certain archetypes already have the answers, you may just have to reconfigure some things within your psyche and energy body to integrate and give yourself greater permission to be able to shine like the soul star you are.

 

Remember; that guy with creepy vibes who seems to want something from you – you don’t owe him SHIT…and you have to be ok with that. Let him do HIS work to grow in his divine masculine inheritance integration of PRESENCE to later discern if he’s worthy to receive him more into your field in any exchange.

 

So you may have to DECONDITION past experiences and traumas in relationship with Father wound or ex-lovers in order to then recondition and constellate the safety in relation to masculine principle in order to be able to shine your truth.

 

So maybe more of it (and it is a process); is about getting to new levels of psychic SOVEREIGNTY to be able to safely and securely radiate your truth AND INTERACT but from psychic sovereignty and protection.

 

This way you’re not creating non-conscious, energetic psychic agreements and exchanges (like even for validation and approval seeking) with unqualified people. Again; Gift of Discernment – it is something to master as you accept how high status you really are.

 

So many women might just be running these cycles non-consciously based on past experiences as a self-defense, armoring mechanism…however having true allure and the safety to radiate IS about being able to be vulnerable and yet safe everywhere.

 

De-armoring and its in the protection of divine masculine principle that gives prime security for this (although some women may have Mother wounding).

 

So in having more Beauty INFLUENCE from your allure and being ok with letting people FEEL YOU (it’s not that they ever have to siphon your soul quanta itself directly)…you want to be ok with letting people FEEL YOU like starlets do…ask yourself, how beautiful and influential do you really want to go (and the deeper levels of true love involved) vs. the levels of constriction or conditional opening of your higher beauty?

 

And another reference is that Hurricane says there are ‘dials to this’ so you can still practically calibrate things in real time so that you’re not always a sex goddess at the grocery store (unless you want to be) per se.

 

And as Gillian teaches; you want to master your DISCERNMENT and what kinds of agreements you are making with men. You may also want to have your allure constellated in divine security ideally as the Holy Daughter (we’re going to take the women in our upcoming Mystical Beauty Immersion deeper program through this) and you want to have conscious, energetic and psychic sovereignty as that of a diva, starlet or muse because they DO NOT DIM THEIR LIGHT (unless it’s only practical for them BY CHOICE because they always carry the authority).

 

Allure is a choice and it asks of you to live from the TRUTH of your higher beauty and self vs. living from past fears of lower, conditional masculine and you do attract a new experience. Again; just reference Gillian who doesn’t even attract or deal with ‘weird vibes’…it’s rare for her.

 

So although DETACHMENT may seem cruel, you kind of have to be for self-protection.

 

Be wary and discerning of who you trust to allow to more intimately interchange with your field (like a starlet does). Again; my wonderful co-host Gillian doesn’t even attract all kinds of weird behaviors from lower timeline conscious men b/c she is so in tune with high masculine principle and the IMPERSONALITY of Him and circulating HIM.

 

So maybe assess where you are at with this and it’s not just a conscious choice, this is DEEP somatic psyche and light-body work in order to FEEL safe to radiate not just when you’re on camera but also when interacting with people in the real world, etc.

 

Yet that is where INSPIRING, AWAKENING the divine masculine in men also comes in (which connects us to deeper codes of sacred reunification or divine union work and its devotional place in allure, beauty and Communion itself).

 

Oh; another reference point of safety and allure would be Grail Priestesses who have evolved into the maturity in relation with divine masculine to always be able to radiate their HEALING LEVELS OF BEAUTY RADIANCE ITSELF; literally alchemical medicine to the masculine psyche.

 

Ok…I think we have a replay link if you want to catch that microdose; I/we might post it below. Instead I will link to Gillian’s Feminine Eros feed: 


Remember; whenever a man in interaction wants to take, leech or get your attention and keeps ‘drawing from’ your energy field you actually have the power the entire time to remain entirely detached and that includes when interacting with him.

 

(At the original time of writing);

 

We have a few spots remaining for our deeper Mystical Beauty Immersion (which includes the original Allure Masterclass…which you actually have to go through Day 1 and 2 materials before we start on Tuesday if you’re new to it).

 

There may be other somatic effects that are still blocking your allure itself, so this is a journey based on wherever you are at in presence. We’re here to support!

 

Bad things may have happened to you in the past HOWEVER, they don’t technically exist in the truth of presence but might be playing out in your psyche and creating time loops.

 

Maybe it’s time to integrate the security, safety and freedom to shine and then CURATE and play in the realm OF ancient, immortal and mystical beauty consciousness and truth of The Feminine (more than ever)!

 

If your soul is called to it (we are closing the doors and we don’t know if we’ll ever do this live again);

 

There are 2 levels of the program and Red Velvet gives you more intimate access and support with Gillian Pothier and I.

 

UPDATE: The program last year sold out! I’ve added Mystical Beauty testimonials amongst the hundreds of others on-site

Idolatry vs. Heaven On Earth Fame, Star & Starlet Paths

See if this is actually blocking you from truly shining your greatest; (after all, maybe you DO have star/let codes).

 

Contemplate and see if you might have religious programming or resistance to being ‘idolized’ or fear of ‘idolatry’ because this could sabotage the levels of your beauty influence (value conflicts here). After all, you might have your own stars or ‘idols’ that you look up to.

 

I see a lot of ‘shaming’ of sorts in the spiritual community as well as religions.

 

The concept of idols (K-pop idols are literally called ‘idols’) is tricky b/c many people will discard the concept while still secretly admiring stars b/c of what it says in the Bible; ‘put no other idols before me’.

 

But wouldn’t we then be separate from source? Or is it really in putting that individual as ‘greater than’ spirit itself, rather than being a ‘channel’ of spirit?

 

The challenge is deeper than it seems b/c ‘putting no other idols before’ allows people to only value higher meta-physical truth while disconnecting from our humanity and physical, primal reality. It can make it difficult to even ‘respect’ the deeds that amazing people have done.

 

Yes; it can initially seem unhealthy to ‘idolize’ stars and starlets IF one is putting them BEFORE Spirit/God…but wait; a minute…are we not all individual fractals OF Source God and Goddess?

 

Even put aside the empirical truths of devotional spiritual practices or religions that DO focus on an archetype, deity or idol TO connect to source;

 

Putting ‘no other idol before me’ allows people to remain non-conscious to the divinity in all as well PREVENTS integrating the concept of heaven on earth. Plus; it might be a hidden value conflict that you have from getting attention, being in your full power and highest timelines.

 

Maybe the verse itself is accurate but people have been mis-interpreting it.

 

And I can speak to this a lot btw because my spiritual practice literally is devotional reunification with a prime feminine archetype (deity).

 

What if it just meant putting no other human individual before the greatness of The Truth of God but that you are actually MEANT to integrate heaven on earth in your embodiment and highest timelines that was a signifier and devotional expression OF divinity itself?

 

Sure; some stars let their ego get in the way but we’re talking about the reality of idols emanating divinated beauty essences and having immense influence (as an expression OF source).

 

What if someone being IN their fullest star and starlet expression IS honoring (their) God?

 

What if you’ve been held back because of value conflicts around ‘being idolized’.

 

And really I’ve discovered that the divine union work I do is an ASPECT of the greater truth itself; it just resonates with my soul the most….so I’m referring to what others would view as me ‘idolizing’ Muse fractals is actually honoring my own reflection and divinity itself. Master alchemy is different than putting stars and their egos and flaws AHEAD OF God itself.

 

So maybe contemplate for yourself that it could be ok to be in your FULLEST radiant expression being seen and being in influence even if some people might idolize you more in the consumer sense (instead of as a fractal of divinity).

 

Where might you stop yourself from more fame or beauty influence?…

 

I think the conscious answer is to value the God/Goddess fractal essence aspects IN stars, starlets and idols (and yourself) but without expectation or attachment (esp. in divine union practice you can reference DIVINE aspects and qualities literally in different ‘icons’ ie. of the archetypes to cultivate your own reunification within).

 

You’re admiring God with and through them rather than disavowing all forms of Beauty and godliness with and through God’s creations.

 

I get the inherent spiritual danger (so to speak) in consumers idolizing stars non-consciously and not even having a religion or spiritual practice but that’s not what I think the Bible verse is referring to…and really, aren’t we all meant to be in our fullest expression?

 

You might still resisting that if you have some earlier programming or confusion around this concept of ‘being idolized’.

 

And this can keep you blocked from fully taking on divine qualities OF beauty and consciousness-truth (as well as other things that could block it).

 

I myself am on a Grail-Star King path of high Magician and Priest-ship.

 

I personally don’t have value conflicts around what others see as me ‘idolizing’ k-pop idols for example (k-pop is a lower truth); I’m communing with The Beloved in consciousness and truth.

 

I’m not putting any individual idol as greater than Muse or definitely not greater from God/Spirit of which we are all connected.

 

So if someone says ‘idolatry is bad’…maybe contemplate what I’ve covered here and it might just be a misunderstand and perspective thing. Fame does expand ego but that’s another topic…that ego when in service however just might HAVE to be constellated at a much higher field.

 

Even the concept of ‘obsession’ can be incredibly HEALTHY and activating FUEL when you have the alignment right as a force of alchemical TRANSMUTATION of consciousness…(the key is to have DETACHMENT – Gene Key 42 – to ‘that idol’ or person).

 

It can be healthy when you’re venerating QUALITIES of the divine masculine/feminine counter-part rather than attachment, neediness and expectation with that person themself.

 

Obsession can be powerful fuel (like when you have fotonic beauty influence) when it’s about sacred reunification to attune yourself to your divine counter-part spiritually and sexually (I did a separate post on ‘obsession + detachment’)..this is related to divine union alchemy and star/starlet codes.

 

Most consumers mess that all up however and end up putting the idol ‘before God’.

 

So;

 

There’s other religious value conflicts and non-consciousness in consumer awareness AROUND Sex and Heart too for an extended discussion…many stars have those qualities that are closer to source and meta-physical (literally with the reach of social influence and their millions).

 

I’d go not just with heaven and having shame around being seen in your divine qualities; but with heaven on earth (integrating clean dark realms as well but that’s another topic).


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Social Influence: ‘Power’ MV – Little Mix

I’ve got some thoughts I want to get out about this music video in the hopes of helping make people more aware of what’s really going on with media and the kind of influence it has…social dynamics.

 

Let me first say that I love their sound and that they ARE empowered….remember that I’m not just about tradition. The work I do for women IS about empowerment (although mostly in their more spiritual feminine qualities).

 

I will continue Goddess activations and so forth and would love to work with them. Here’s the video:

 

Little Mix – Power (Official Video) ft. Stormzy

 

So it’s like a Girl Power, Independent Woman, Feminist anthem.

 

This is AWESOME – for what it is.

 

In this case I’m not going to talk about their energetic beauty but about the social dynamics going on.

 

First of all, I LOVE the sound of it. It’s got a very catchy hook – which is what also makes it dangerous. DANGEROUS for conditioning because it gets in the emotional belief system of those who listen to it.

 

The catchy hook is ‘I’ve got the Power’.  …”I’m the one whose in control”

 

Now; I’ve got a couple of angles on this so I wouldn’t just assume that I’m just a Conservative and put me into a box.

 

I’d love to work with Little Mix as artists and help them btw. I would relate to them WITH power and as much as this is a feminist anthem, we want to look more deeply into the implications of that.

 

From one perspective…a post-modern feminist one, it makes sense for women to now have a lot of power and status after eons of oppression under shadow aspects of what some refer to as the patriarchy.

 

What’s missing in this music video however are Kings. Keep in mind that I’m not coming from the perspective of being an incel. I’ve worked with single men for years however and am aware of what THEY are going through and how they are being left behind.

 

Remember; I’m on the FOREFRONT of empowering women – just not in all the popular ways however. And I think it’s on men to be aware of the social and power dynamics so that they CAN relate to women like this and NOT remain beta weaklings.

 

Anyways;

 

Their expression here in the video and song is about the shadow dynamic of ‘control’; control of the man and the relationship while having even higher status and power.

 

This is kind of like a Shadow Queen or Feminist-Diva – and there are OTHER archetypal expressions (also of which I’m sure Little Mix explores although I don’t know all of their work).

 

The thing is, modern Western men are getting left behind with this kind of emotional and CULTURAL programming that influences millions of women to adopt this behavior.

 

It becomes about unattainable superstar status women.

 

So is it about breaking down modern men? Kind of. This is ‘WHAT SELLS’. And it’s what’s popular…yet meanwhile, men are lost and there are no women encouraging real Kings or relatability (on any level).

 

From a Feminist perspective this is GREAT and very empowering – esp. after such SUPPRESSION of the meta feminine (which I also talk about) for eons.

 

HOWEVER…; be wary of the messaging…

 

If she has the ‘control’ in the relationship, he is going to be a beta weakling servant to her desires. 1 partner has to hold the dominant polarity.

 

From a healthy relationship perspective it’s not really about ‘power’ anyways…it’s more about connection and flow.

 

This is more of the social status power play to make up for a micro-fraction of men being in power in society while again – MOST MEN are being left behind.

 

Most modern single men can’t relate to this status of women and yet millions of women for over a decade keep getting further ahead sexually and socially. The social dynamics are real.

 

It’s a cultural phenomenon and issues; this disconnect and also fracturing of the masculine with the feminine (and where sex and the idea of relationships sell).

 

I just think men have to find a way to BE empowered themselves instead of all of the social messaging which is breaking them down and leaving them hopeless while buying into the fantasy of relationships (which sells).

 

So Little Mix are unreachable in status for almost all men. I personally LOVE THAT b/c after working with men for so long I’m about the advancement of women now.

 

It’s on men to find a way and I’ve given a path….just be REALLY cognizant of the social programming values and influence here.

 

The song conditions that women have the upper hand culturally, personally and sexually on an emotional level so men hardly have any chance and they go out into a world where other Western women are adopting these beliefs and behaviors. I’ve been teaching on this for 18 years now as a former top men’s dating coach.

 

So; men are essentially nothing here unless they can ESCAPE the literal program-receiver stimulus-response conditioning relationship which this presents…

 

Again; there’s no Kings and no support FOR what we could call as sacred reunification. It’s about power dynamics.

 

Control itself is the shadow of Valor (21st Gene Key) with the Gift of Authority.

 

Hetero men to put it bluntly have zero authority in what this MV represents…so again, just something to be aware of because if you’re not the values and conditioning is going right into your emotional system.

 

This POWER is exciting and real. It’s just about how you relate with all of it. A King knows something else. Siddhic frequencies and values of love are above the shadow games of power, status and control.

 

And it can’t be overlooked that Trans actors and divas are featured in this MV too. That is significant as well.

 

Without going deeper into it too much, it’s doing 2 things (whether self-aware with an agenda or not);

 

1. Making Trans more popular and acceptable


2. Breaking traditional relationship values and King-Queenship up even more, pushing regular hetero men down the social scale even further

 

This ends up with the women themselves being RESENTFUL towards men and wondering (ironically) where the real Kings are.

 

A King knows how to relate with all of this differently. He’s not the consumer pawn.

 

So BE empowered as men and women…I’ll all for that but also know HOW to relate with power itself.

 

Men have to find a way to navigate all of this because they are being left behind socially, culturally and sexually whereas only a fraction of men excel in this dynamic.