From Safe, Semi-Dorky ‘Good Guy’ Lightworker…To Starter Rockstar?

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…This has been with MY journey. LOADS of self-image issues and sabotage. B/c dork and safe, good guy is light years from rockstar.

 

(I might start sharing images in the next blog posts)…I’m still debating.

 

Think of the gap of where you are now to your idealized self avatar self ‘debuted’ and in public service with organic felt response from people you WANT to influence.

 

There may be an archetype that scares the crap out of you b/c you might not believe it’s even possible for you esp. at your age and maybe with so much visibility wounding like I had.

 

But this extreme transformation; that’s what’s happening now…I’m actually embodying and expressing the codes charismatically…yes I’m going to improve but they’re here now.

 

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(NEW rock ‘n roll pre-dance m-video Guns ‘n Roses out now)

 

 

Why not become who you’ve ALWAYS WANTED TO BECOME? The movie star version of yourself!

 

For me; the gap was pretty massive though because I was hiding behind the scenes and in visibility shadows for years. (The fitness transformation is only part of it).

 

But if the Dork or the ‘incognito’ Crocs-wearing, jammy-hooded you isn’t your fullest truth, you have some work to do in EMBODYING your AVATAR codex.

 

How are you going to be taken seriously by those you are meant to influence when you go on that larger scale?

 

As an influencer and founder I have to BE the brand (as testament) esp. in this age of social media.

 

I’m on the literal FRONT-END of the evolution of Beauty and Goddess work with charisma/allure and people must know and FEEL that I am who I say I am.

 

NO MORE HIDING as the ‘safe’ but half schleppy guy (at least visually, publicly as I through time upgrade my zoom quality client sessions).

 

So; but how do you go from all of your own hidden and known BARRIERS to not only being seen but being seen, embodied and expressed in your higher truth and desires ESP. if an idealized part of you (like Starlet or Queen) is entirely disembodied, scary or seems too ‘out there’?

 

Consider that I’ve been conditioned and known of for YEARS as the ‘good guy’ lightworker behind the scenes for female clients.

 

WHERE WAS MY EROS?! You could even tell I was cave-mode BTS (still hesitating to share these images..)

 

But how could I ever be the social rockstar for being the brand? (Although Rockstar seems paradoxical with healer, this is MUSE lineage and purified which fits into my codex of Muse-Magician primarily).

 

How are celebrities going to look up to me besides JUST relying on behind the scenes referrals while remaining OUT of embodiment and expression with my truth. I couldn’t hide BTS anymore.

 

Sure I have the WORKING lightworker ‘good guy’ foundation but I had to go through an entire serious makeover.

 

My Dark Eros was nowhere around, nor was my charisma or my ‘style’ on camera (again; still debating IF I’m going to share these b/c if shared out of context or by AI they could destroy my credibility)….so for MY makeover I had some VERY serious professional work to do including RECLAIMING and embodying my Dark Eros from the ethers.

 

I’m more of a extreme example of makeover, so whatever YOUR codex is, it can also be done. We all have potential access TO the divine and archetypes with no limit for embodiment.

 

You might think “I could never be ‘this’ or that”…but it might be connected to your deeper lifelong desire ie. to be seen and experience life as a Starlet (but with YOUR codex).

 

The serious self-transformation is what I’ve been doing with the AvaStar Makeover on myself including 2 dan tien and kundalini activations per week.

 

I just helped a brand new AvaStar client last night; we signed up and we went RIGHT into her 55 minute intake consultation and ALREADY found out there Starlet codex with such clarity with time to spare AND I just finished a powerful activation for her right before this tonight (a PREMIUM one that is lower priced b/c it’s in this makeover format).

 

She’s aware of where she has fear around stepping into that larger version of herself even though she’s already successful and we’re going through this process in the makeover to embody and express HER codes.

 

Knowing your codes and idea of your visualized avatar self is GREAT but it may not be enough.

 

That’s why I can support you with and for you as we go through the makeover process itself to YOUR debut or rebirth. We don’t have to wait.

 

This includes working on aspects of you that were previously SO disembodied and even NON-believable about yourself. I also had another AvaStar client who said our intake was BRILLIANT and we got HER initial life-change clarity (on the world stage at that) and will be doing dan tien and kundalini activations as part of the makeover to support a stronger, stable light body to hold her codes and essences to be felt.

 

Again; I’m also leading by example…middle-aged men (I don’t identity as that category) just don’t become SEX ICONS anymore…maybe 6 a year that we know of TOTAL?! Do YOU have any remaining excuses?

 

So I’m really doing the kimpossible for myself. Check out my Guns ‘n Roses Instagram video listed above for further validation that ROCKSTAR is starting to land!

 

It’s more than just air-jamming…we’re on the forefront of REVOLUTION with charisma and allure mastery here for star influence!

 

You can’t put a price on the REAL thing (essence); b/c it’s the social currency that is being exchanged and valued anyways. Ready to bridge YOUR impossible gap into embodiment and still starting 2026 off VERY strong and empowered in alignment?

 

-Rion

 

p.s. I’ve got room for 4 more AvaStar clients before a permanent offer/price increase (double).

 

(It’s worth mentioning that the price double is planned to include a live VIP day and essenced production video shoot for your social media debut visuals(!).

 

Might you be 1 of them? I’m supporting the rise of stars and starlets directly. Clients at the inaugural rate will also have the option to upgrade to the version with the VIP/media shoot day with me as well.

 

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The Rockstar Archetype: Intro

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   I’m going to go into Power in Relation to BEAUTY; some pop dynamics.

 

This MAY NOT be something you might anticipate from me or anything in a ‘conscious’ circle, but isn’t it better to be informed of things going on especially when it’s time for power to be in the hands of the righteous instead of tyrants?

 

As the Primordial Princess teaches ‘POWER TRIGGERS’.

 

Power is the primordial counter-balance to feminine Beauty and this is the type of conversation that will trigger all kinds of women. It may even seem to go against grail codes but not necessarily at all.

 

ALL THOSE WHO ARE GRAILED are already essentially sex gods and goddesses anyways (esp. compared to the mainstream). Many rockstars are IN COMMITTED PARTNERSHIPS with their wife….

 

This post is more about SOCIAL POWER and the heresy that; what IF there could be a ‘Grail rockstar’ who had the social relevance and POWER to evolve culture and take it out of forms of tyranny in ways? Hmmm…

 

Ok, so…

 

The ‘Rockstar’ archetype is fascinating and applies culturally to men who have a certain kind of power whether they are literally a musician, in a band or not. A clear and very triggering example is Dan Bilzerian.

 

 

Such ‘power’ is specifically sexual and SOCIAL b/c of the dynamic. He literally doesn’t even have to be the ‘greatest lover’.

 

It is sexual-social with intensive social magnification with the feminine largely validating who is a rockstar (and who isn’t).

 

It’s not even that he is necessarily the ‘MOST’ eros-y man either.

 

Rather, it’s the SOCIAL amplification that makes rockstar what he is. archetypally speaking but in a very real and MAGNETIC sense. His ‘power’ is magnified b/c of the attention of OTHER women.

 

If 1000s of women are attracted to a Dan Bilzerian or a Jason Mraz cerca 2005; the truth of that dynamic is happening whether conscious women or moral religious people are approving of it or not.

 

It’s fascinating b/c it highlights the primordial forces of Power and Beauty and SEX is what propagates life itself.

Aside from archetypal cultural conditioning (like how being a boy band trainee in K-Pop gives one archetypal and cultural leverage)…

 

Yes; it’s primarily women who are determining this type of and level of social status or worthiness of a man in the sexual marketplace. If he is the ‘real deal’, then he may be in even more demand (like Lenny Kravitz).

 

 

I mean; how on else could you explain the Pete Davidson phenomenon?!

 

 

WE MUST HAVE DIFFERENT ARCHETYPES in the pantheon of consciousness and human experience…PLUS, I would daresay that it’s in the fantasies of women that these more UN-politically acceptable archetypes roam free; Pirate, Vampire, Dark Knight do-gooder, Billionaire Dungeon owner, rockstar, etc.

 

This entire mythos and triggering biological and social concept of hypergamy is embedded throughout pop culture.

Ever heard of the movie “Can’t Buy Me Love?”

 

 

The ‘average kid’ makes a deal with the highest status girl in the school to like him via association and it changes EVERYONE’S perception of him (except his closest friends who think he is a god but later a sellout).

 

Then all the other girls in the school are lining up for him or thinking he is out of their league; he became the ‘rockstar’ of the high school. Same with the B-movie ‘The New Guy’…

 

 

Where the protagonist reinvents himself after being the ultimate loser and becomes the coolest guy in his new school.

 

There are DEEPER primordial dynamics going on here. These are deep themes b/c it’s related to an existential threat of not pro-creating.

 

And, rockstars (which have a lot of Dark Eros) are also ‘cool’ because why? B/c they are DETACHED from needing sex. Many women cannot trust the ‘nice guy’ b/c he has a secret agenda.

 

It means that beautiful women can TRUST the rockstars in presence b/c beautiful women are used to psychic neediness and siphoning from most all of the OTHER men in the world.

 

The highest status people and literally ‘stars’ are generally the COOLEST people b/c they are the most DETACHED from needing or expecting anything from anyone whereas; the everyday horny yokel WANTS something from that high status, beautiful woman and she can’t psychically, sexually, interpersonally or socially trust him.

 

We tend to relegate ‘rockstar’ to certain ‘obvious’ men like lead singers or drummers like Travis Barker;

 

 

…but if a non celebrity has that kind of power, it’s more likely to trigger people. It never means any rockstar is sleeping with any or every woman either; this is about the POWER dynamic and it is an incredibly SOCIAL phenomenon.

 

Think of how G-Eazy cozily avoided the entire post feminist and #metoo movement everything of projections.

 

 

Why? In general b/c he’s a rockstar and rockstars are ‘afforded liberties’ but this is also because the FEMININE is attracted to what?

 

To power….in large part, the women that partake are INVITING THEMSELVES and wanting to be with him to the next level so things should be more consensual (or always) but every individual rockstar is different.

 

Of course they shouldn’t abuse or misuse their power but what I’m referring to are win-win relationships (whether ‘moral’ or not) when they do partake and most importantly here; the power dynamic itself.

POWER. Sure, not all women are attracted to forms of masculine power, but speaking in general.

 

The rockstar phenomenon is a conflux of Beauty primordially attracted to male power and the thing about it is really that it’s sexual-SOCIAL POWER. 1Direction were Prince-Rockstars in their prime with AMPLIFIED energy and attention from the feminine.

 

 

Ya know what? Didn’t they EARN that power and were in service to THEIR highest timelines?

 

Wasn’t it value for women and teens to fantasize about them for their own subjective feminine experience?

 

Mostly rockstars are high status in how they serve people like a famous DJ or rockstar like Andy Black from Black Veil Brides. Sure; most have charisma but it’s the social dynamic that fascinates.

 

 

It’s the social dynamic which is what pours gasoline on the fire and why some men (embodying rockstar archetype with its social dynamics) are 1 million times more wanted than other men; they get the hypergamic BULK of attention and attraction. Think of the feminine response to the Beatles at Shea stadium.

 

 

Hypergamy is this innate drive (arguably to some) that women are seeking out the top percentage of men for numerous reasons.

 

THE POWER IS REAL and validated by 1000s of OTHER screaming women essentially energetically and practically competing for his individual time and attention.

 

Even someone like Post Malone who may not be physically the desire of most can get over-looked b/c he has that real POWER (that many women are essentially competing for if they’re in the/that game).

 

 

B/c other women are competing they have less of a chance of communing with that power.

Any man who is like ‘rockstar’ (Post Malone famously raps about it);

 

 

But for non-celebrities; again…it doesn’t mean he’s sleeping with all or any of the women although it gives him ACCESS; it’s about the what? The POWER dynamic.

 

POWER AND BEAUTY.

 

Many rockstars are actually committed husbands like James Hetfield, John Legend, Snoop Dogg (rapstar), etc. Lenny Kravitz is a great rockstar icon and he’s been celibate for apparently 11 years!? (He’s a study of its own btw with different archetypes…)

 

 

 

But even deeper into the discussion is how men will (rightfully) view rockstars as ‘sex gods’ b/c in the eyes of the male psyche (which feels and thinks different than the feminine), simply ASSOCIATING with beauty and having options is incredibly difficult for the more than 80% of single men (there’s stats on all of this)…

 

There’s an EXISTENTIAL primordial and spiritual threat with men as well as with the holy grail itself so they/we secretly LOATHES, ADMIRE and respect men that have ORGANIC attention from high status women.

 

There was a general saying when I was interviewed by ‘Man Transformation L.A.’ and ‘Double Your Dating’ host where he talked about “men want a woman ‘like that’ and women want THAT man”.

 

The ‘whatever’ podcast, connected to the pulse of mainstream men goes into this stuff a lot. It’s EASY for a socially popular beautiful woman to get endless dates; men would be lining up; whereas, it’s far more difficult for men to ‘succeed’ in dating and attraction. The top 1% of men status-wise are what almost all of the marketplace of women are vying for.

 

Although I don’t think women I serve archetype and allure activations to should compromise either;

 

It’s really kind of a phenomenon that they’re not even matching up with their counter-parts (and this gets into b/c they had a fling with a top 1% man who wouldn’t commit to them…anyways, that podcast brings it up numerous times so the dating marketplace is imbalanced).

 

US MEN are aware of OTHER MEN that are a sexual threat.

 

A man by default wants to protect his girlfriend from men who seem like a sexual threat and especially those that seem like or are a rockstar. That podcast goes into this often.

 

This is hard-wired into most men (at least those who don’t have star codes) b/c they fear on a primordial level being an illegitimate father and raising someone else’s kids.

 

Anyways, just some trigger-friendly thoughts on the Divine Masculine (meta) Rockstar archetype; rich in recognition, Eros, attention and social power. Some individual rockstars THEMSELVES may have shadows that they are playing out and some could say siphoning from women (hmmm…but if both parties are consensual; what role is she playing? And..it just may not be the highest form at all of intimacy).

 

When we talk about POWER getting more in the hands of the ASCENSIONARY instead of the tyrants (misuse or abuse of power as actually ‘Force’);


SHOULDN’T there actually start being some Grail Rockstars who are responsible with POWER who can have the SOCIAL relevance and influence FOR ascension?

 

Shouldn’t we be wanting more aligned STARS and rockstar icons FOR ascension (when we consider how important ATTENTION is in the social media age)?…

 

We can also talk about the STARLET or Grail Starlet archetype and yes; ATTENTION from men is CENTRAL (+relevant social influence evolving from superficiality) and why?….

 

B/C Mankind seeketh the Holy Grail (but THAT’S a different post 😉

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