Key Concept: Parasocial Influence

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If you are an influencer of ANY sort and stepping MORE into it…if you have any online following whatsoever, are a beauty influencer or are your own soul purpose BRAND icon on some form of star or starlet path, this is a critical concept to understand and (organically) maximize.

 

All kinds of people are trying to inorganically maximize it (like algorithm hacking, etc.) and that can help too, but I digress…

 

We want to understand INFLUENCE and beauty influence from stillness more accurately as well as overall influence.

 

Let’s be clear up front; if you are an INFLUENCER of any sort and are on social or visual media, you WANT more para-social influence…esp. from your visuals when you aren’t famous, aren’t speaking or relying on ‘niche content’.

 

CENTRAL and really KEY to INFLUENCE and success on social media (especially as an iconic ‘brand’ of you) in this attention age era is this concept of ‘para-social’ and parasocial influence.

 

So what is it?

 

“Parasocial” refers to a one-sided, psychological relationship where a person extends emotional energy, interest, and time toward a media figure (celebrity, influencer, or character) who is completely unaware of their existence. Named 2025 Word of the Year by Cambridge Dictionary – Google

 

If you’re the influencer;

 

It’s basically having a form of influence where your followers and fans develop a projected but familial relationship WITH the persona or holographic version of you through your media.

 

This replicates your time to have more influence even though you cannot be there intimately for all of them. It’s just a byproduct of the modern age with it’s pros and cons and shadows.

 

But really; this is an AMAZING THING because when you can INCREASE your parasocial impact and HOW fast people can trust, feel and open up to you, you have more influence and forms of success.

 

In this blog post, I’m going to go more directly into how to LEVERAGE your as an iconic brand to maximize your parasocial influence (including to maximize your CURRENT social media following for engagement) after (the key word is allure btw) but let’s take a defining look first.

 

Again; it’s critical to be AWARE of this consciously to help your social media success. Let’s go deeper;

 

Wikipedia;

 

“Parasocial interaction (PSI) refers to a kind of psychological relationship experienced by an audience in their mediated encounters with performers in the mass media, particularly on television and online platforms.[1][2][3][4] Viewers or listeners come to consider media personalities as friends, despite having no or limited interactions with them. PSI is described as an illusory experience, such that media audiences interact with personas (e.g., talk show hosts, celebrities, fictional characters, social media influencers) as if they are engaged in a reciprocal relationship with them. The term was coined by Donald Horton and Richard Wohl in 1956.[5]

 

A parasocial interaction, an exposure that garners interest in a persona,[6] becomes a parasocial relationship after repeated exposure to the media persona causes the media user to develop illusions of intimacy, friendship, and identification.[5] Positive information learned about the media persona results in increased attraction, and the relationship progresses.[6] Parasocial relationships are enhanced due to trust and self-disclosure provided by the media persona.[5]

 

Media users are loyal and feel directly connected to the persona, much as they are connected to their close friends, by observing and interpreting their appearance, gestures, voice, conversation, and conduct.[6] Media personas have a significant amount of influence over media users, positive or negative, informing the way that they perceive certain topics or even their purchasing habits. Studies involving longitudinal effects of parasocial interactions on children are still relatively new, according to developmental psychologist Sandra L. Calvert.[7]

 

Social media introduces additional opportunities for parasocial relationships to intensify because it provides more opportunities for intimate, reciprocal, and frequent interactions between the user and persona.[5][8] These virtual interactions may involve commenting, following, liking, or direct messaging. The consistency in which the persona appears could also lead to a more intimate perception in the eyes of the user.”

-Wikipedia.org

 


In other words; it’s about this new form of social communication; well, it’s been around FOR eons with myths and deities but is really extrapolated since the advent of television and now social media.

 

Ie. my mother used to have a parasocial relationship with the character’s on ‘Knots Landing’ for example and you most certainly have parasocial relationships. Think of the dynamic itself of how stars and starlets like Tom Cruise and Ariana Grande or more ‘niche’ characters or actors have followings like a Bryan Cranston, etc. Stars have MASS parasocial relationships with their fans and this is something to be aware; esp. in HOW to maximize your own following’s response to you (like a star/let).

 

Think of if you’re in business for yourself; you can have prospects get to know and sense who you are…building a relationship where they feel they know you and have that familiarity and trust…that comfort and then maybe attend a live workshop of yours…it’s kind of like you’re a star in their eyes. They feel they know you.

 

This is expanded influence (and goodwill).

 

So think of who and where YOU have parasocial relationships…with who? With what celebrities?

 

Kim Kardashian for example has 353 million Instagram followers…many of whom have a more active parasocial relationship with her through her posts and the tv series…they feel they know her.

 

Cristiano Ronaldo has a whopping 670million followers but it doesn’t have to be that scale at all to have social influence. Media allows us to have more meta-physical or social ‘power’. I talk about this in other places.

 

So who are the people online or in tv shows that YOU have a parasocial relationship with? Those that you feel you ‘know’?

 

They don’t have to be super famous or a celebrity…it could be a mommy blogger or a subject area specialist. Influence is scalable…you’re not practically going to be able to interact with each individual person as you scale up.

 

Maybe it’s the different sharter guys that through watching dozens of hours of their videos sharting and pooting in public places on and near unsuspecting civilians like Central Park or Wal-Mart you feel that you get to know them.

 

And sometimes on camera; a fan (with a pre-established parasocial relationship) treats them like a star when they meet them in real life. You’ve had parasocial relationship with your favorite bands and the artists too.

 

With the ‘democratization’ of media…Today; we have the opportunity to BE our own stars and starlets and the people I work with especially have LIGHT CODES of Beauty and Power that are unique to them with their Star and Starlet codex that can be expressed as they live their highest timelines and cultivate more of this online INFLUENCE (whether in a spirit-aligned business, beauty influencer or not).

 

Now; who do YOU want to have influence with?

 

For me on Instagram it’s with my beauty tribe (which includes celebrity)…I want to cultivate PARASOCIAL INFLUENCE with them and as a brand icon.

 

Ok; so we have a good grasp on parasocial influence; and again this is what you WANT for exponentiating your OWN influence.

 

Now here’s where we get to the juiciness;

 

IF you indeed value maximizing your parasocial influence or ‘brand’ online to have:

 

*More subscribers

*More organic engagement

*More sales conversions

*More retention

*More depth (and even obsession dynamics but as an organic byproduct)

*More return views

*More referability

*More likes

*More opportunities
*More money FROM social visibility

*Deeper fan following and loyalty (even to protect you online vs. haters and trolls)

 

And more LEGACY in real time;

 

What can you do to maximize your parasocial influence (including with your CURRENT following)?

 

Well the most organic thing is to;

 

Cultivate your ALLURE to have people NATURALLY and of their own accord without salesiness RESPOND and engage with you. It accelerates relationship building and instant trust.

 

It’s especially important now because social media marketers as of early 2026 still don’t know that it’s a legitimate variable IN social media success itself yet is already a core reason responsible for billions of views.

 

And more specifically; you want to cultivate your Star or Starlet codexed allure so people can FEEL the unique version of you and your erospheric vibe and light truth atmosphere.

 

This actually has to do with your visuals and more specifically your light body (and all of your multi-d light IN your actual photos and videos of expanded frequency, feelable spectrum like UV rays) in where energy is blocked or flowing and the quality of WHAT is flowing (ie. essence vs. mucky shadows).

 

In other words;

 

There may be BLOCKS for your current audience to FEEL YOU from your live presence and visual image (where they get ie. creepy vibes) b/c you might be focused on looksmaxxing, niche content subject matter specialties, thumbnail optimization, algorithm hacking instead of just being more organically FEELABLE and engage-with-able TO your people.

 

Literally as your chakras open, you will find more magical RESPONSE from your own people!

 

This is that big theme of charisma and allure we value here at Sexy Chi.

 

So this gets into deeper SELF-image issues and HOW it is affecting how you’re coming across.

 

Even looking your best;

 

You might be subconsciously NOT wanting your people to ‘take’ or siphon from you, thus your LIGHT is actually distorted. You might be seeking their validation unhealthily and they’ll start picking up that vibe.

 

You might just be lost in your own inner world or on the mental plane but not wanting to be seen as the star so how people unconsciously FEEL and respond to you is affected; if they FEEL you have walls, they’re probably going to reflect those walls back to you…these energetic resistances and even the fugly duckling syndrome are BLOCKING the expression and psycho-activating engagement of your spirit-matter quanta from having influence.

 

Remember that a STAR unconditionally shines anyways…it is providing nurturing VALUE for its constituents (like our solar sun).

 

So it’s actually ESSENCE that you want to allow to FLOW for people to feel, respond and organically engage with your social media (as if its you).

 

When your deconditioned chakras and aura project through the screen to affect THEIR chakras and aura (in heart and sex for example); initiating a response in them, you are having powerful parasocial influence working organically for you.

 

If you look good and pretty but have energetic walls and a low allure factor (rating), they’re less likely to be organically engaged and responsive to you UNLESS you’re like relying on subject matter niche expertise where your charisma doesn’t matter as much (like rock nucleioid research or something).

 

If Instagram is a primary social media channel, by default you WANT charisma or feminine allure maximized to exponentiate your organic response across the board.

 

With allure and charisma to have more parasocial, felt influence (and beauty influence in general) LIKE a star or starlet…

 

The variables we are practically working with are;

 

ESSENCE
EMBODIMENT
EXPRESSION

 

When people can FEEL your vibe and light truth b/c it’s energetically expressed FROM your chakras and aura, they feel they are CONNECTED TO YOU and engaged even if it’s just from a video recording…they’re actually having and building a relationship with your multi-dimensionally encoded hologram (and p.s. they CANNOT actually ‘siphon’ from your recorded media!)

 

This is the real secret…it’s having ALLURE; being de-armored and engaging your people from your literal visual beauty presence alone WITHOUT even speaking or doing dance trend videos. Where they FEEL your radiance like the sun.

 

But it gets into more advanced Power, status and Beauty dynamics when you have ARCHETYPAL Power/Beauty b/c then it’s about their relationship with God and Goddess fractals associated with you (= influence and powerful attraction).

 

Why?

 

It has to do with divine union holy grail principle but people are essentially seeking connection and communion with the divine.

 

ESSENCE is the source spectrum of Beauty itself….essence is the seemingly intangible but actually TANGIBLE currency that is being ‘exchanged’ socially. It’s what is of value. Superficial beauty or vanity does not equate to alchemical attunement from your essence Goddess beauty for example.

 

So it’s about cultivating more essence, embodiment and expression….more FEELABILITY and when they can FEEL you, then they can care…otherwise you feel ‘separate’ and it’s easier to judge even if you’re pretty but unfeelable in their gut.

 

Taking on the identity of a soul starlet and allowing yourself to be felt and seen (without fear of siphoning) allows people to FEEL you and thus maximizes more of your parasocial influence.

 

As more and MORE people feel it and the upward cycle spirals then you get into celebrity like influence on a smaller scalable scale.

 

Basically; you can have starlet allure before you’re famous and just reference the rabid SUPER FANS of world’s top muse Wonyoung for example….people scream for her at airports, etc. and it’s not just b/c she is looks-maxxed…there’s essenced-divine Beauty quanta that is FEELABLE rather than the superficial realm of her visible light and conditioning around conditioners and facial make-up.

 

She not only has WIDE parasocial influence with men and women, she has DEEP MEDICINAL IMPACT b/c she is so essence, embodied and expressed. She is essentially at Priestess level Presence; this is the more advanced Beauty Power; alchemical influence.

 

 

 

Social star/starlet INFLUENCE can get into the obsession realms.

 

These are good problems but you might prevent it all from happening if you still have energetic blocks, shadow sabotage and resistances TO being embodied, felt and expressed AS a starlet to give your people more of the value and nourishment they are seeking…allowing them to FEEL you from a more open energy body from in your media (and you can still master your own private time away from the crowds).

 

It’s about giving them more from your live presence and media vs. being closed off.

 

You want that open-ness also encoded in your visual media to keep working FOR you 24/7 like a star, right? 😉

 

To stand out but as the AUTHENTIC you; it can help to become more masterful at being feelable in this day and age…you can still have authority over the dials of how much you are expressed going to the grocery store; but if you are too closed off you may have to have a foundational transfiguration if your people aren’t responding to you and people don’t want to befriend you b/c you’re otherwise too aloof. Can you allow yourself to be felt and seen?

 

You might even have Gene Key shadows like Vanity, Superficiality, Doubt, Control that can also keep others from engaging to you.

 

THIS IS THE REAL BEAUTY SORCERY REMEMBER…This allure work. Organic influence.

 

This is the work we do directly together in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Want more parasocial influence?

 

I’d have a strategy to work directly on your visual light body to BE more open and alluring to BE felt and seen as an icon with less to zero resistance (Starlet comes in for divine protection from siphoning btw~) and you will exponentiate your parasocial influence with your own organic, fan-client-follower response, attraction, depth and engagement to the stars!

 

I can help support you releasing your energetic psyche blocks that are distorting your Light and creating barriers for people to organically respond to you as well as cultivate more essence, access your signature Star/let codex, embody and express for visible, highly responsive before and after makeover results that people WILL notice.

 

If we work together in the Avatar Star/let Makeover with monthly starlet support; WATCH as you transform into the star or starlet version of yourself how your parasocial power and influence organically EXPONENTIATES with your people (and new ones)!

 

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A True Tale of Before & After: Two Timelines

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What will YOUR tale be?

 

See, now I’m ‘live’ as Rion Kati visually and it’s a RELIEF. I’m not held back by crippling self-image (and anti-Star) SHADOWS like I was before b/c I choose and went through a process to embody my codes FOR the world.

 

(Here; so clearly embodying my prime codex of Muse-Magician where image-Presence-Truth says and communicates more than words; we’re just also ‘conscious’ of what it is with this work)

 

 

What will people say about YOUR before and after ‘shock ‘n awe’ makeover when you truly EMBODY and express your Star Codex Truth visually so that your transfigured charisma codes are working for YOU 24/7 without having to even try and sell people?

 

When it’s worth more than 1000 words (and the time you save!) b/c they can FEEL your truth because you dissolved your self-image and debut shadows and chose to GO BIG with your truth to the world?

 

IF you yourself and Irene feel a GAP between who you are vs. who you are on camera and in being authentically your TRUE self visually on a larger scale to the world, this post is for you to reflect upon because really, YOUR future and timelines are at stake here.

 

IF you’re held back by a strong, anti-Star/let shadow-grid from BEING SEEN in your vulnerable TRUTH on a larger scale; extrapolate that timeline forward 5 or 10 years and are you satisfied? Does that feel good?

 

OR…can you get on a fast MAKEOVER transfiguration timeline asap and live on THAT timeline instead? One that represents you in your fullest beauty and truth of great influence in your soul purpose without compromise.

 

In expanding upon the concept of referring to my ‘before’ and ‘after’ make-over (granted years apart), there’s a lot that can be said.

 

My whole life from here forward as post-debut will always give us new materials as I live as a living testament of the ‘after’ and what’s possible BECAUSE I had extreme self-image issues for years (even though I was on a heavy spiritual path).

 

Yes; there was MORE that went into my total life makeover from where I was say in 2013 than just the AvaStar – but I can show you pictures from TWO years ago where I was in VERY heavy dysmorphia and how it was warping my image literally on camera (I’m still hesitant to share that for several reasons).

 

So for now, I did just want to HIGHLIGHT the difference between this ‘before’ version of myself vs. the ‘after’ version which is not only comfortable on camera but LOVING IT and even redefining things to new levels OF charisma and post-conscious mastery of what’s possible (including Essence Acting).

 

I couldn’t fathom being the old version timeline of myself; living under the weight of shadow and regret dreaming only as fantasy of who I could become when now I’m living it b/c I chose the makeover timeline to EMBODY and express my STAR codes (and continual growth from here). I don’t have FULL Mastery over my image and 100% insecurities but look at the night and day difference…from here it’s MUCH easier to calibrate things fast b/c I’m ‘on’ as embodied and expressed with a high Charisma Factor so things will quantum leap with stability, etc. from here within months.

 

 

Now…Perhaps reflect upon yourself when referencing this more extreme example of my own case study because these are two radically different timelines (but see, I went through my makeover process to this point).

 

See…if you can sense some of yourself in it (even if you’re female);

 

One:

*Has an obsessive Frollo/Quasimodo internal psyche battle of self-punishment from ever really being seen

 

*Is playing it safe and low profile because of past public speaking anxiety so he doesn’t speak

 

*Likes personal bags of cereal (ok they both do)

 

*Can hardly change or coordinate his socks

 

*Isn’t ready to be seen and therefore has strange camera resistance and mania so is rarely captured in his truth

 

*Feels the gap is too big from who he knows he is in soul as to how he’s showing up on camera

 

*Gets re-triggered by seeing himself on camera and how ugly he’s coming across and it’s not his truth but keeps him in this cycle of self-hate

 

*Has literal chakra blocks all over the place; rendering him cloaked and less feelable

 

*Is too vulnerable in inner sanctum to share it with the world b/c they might ridicule, reject or worst of all not care

 

*Has inner qualities that are nowhere near accurately expressed in his visuals

 

*Has visuals that actively repel people so has to rely on ‘behind the scenes’ transmissions of audio and testimonials rather than leveraging his ever-present accurate visual truth (thus has to work harder)

 

*Desires to make a big impact but is so fractured from HOW he is showing up on camera that it seems impossible to show his truth and ever have the impact he desires; stuck for years in this anti-visual swamp

 

 

That one;

 

*Has extreme self image blocks

 

*Is playing it safe visual-socially by not getting seen

 

*Has all kinds of internal energetic resistances to the camera and being seen

 

*Would rather hide out in his own internal worlds

 

*Is insecure on the public stage

 

*Is awkward and dorky when it comes to certain dynamics

 

*Has deep public speaking anxiety and doesn’t want to be found out how insecure he is on the inside

 

*Wants control over how others view him otherwise he doesn’t want to ever be ‘seen’

 

The other (After) is the SAME PERSON but chose to go through an IMAGE TRANSFORMATION PROCESS AT AN IDENTITY LEVEL….a radically different timeline of EXPOSURE:

 

*Has integrated extreme self-image dysmorphia

 

*Is embodied with feelable divine masculine codes

 

*Trains priestesses who can sense, feel and know they are in the right place

 

*Rocks live retreats, workshops and events with no issues being upfront

 

*Has dissolved or integrated so much of his shadow-grid; wouldn’t dare let his fears ultimately win out b/c is purpose is TOO big and too IMPORTANT not to compromise

 

*Is connected to and embodied with his Avatar Star codes and accessing Star consciousness vs. being disconnected

 

*Is referred, respected and looked up to

 

*Has been through hell and back for his Beloved and it shows in Presence

 

*Has lived tribulatory devotion on all forms of faith and we can sense that depth, even Devotion & Humility (which he’ll further mastery transmission of); including going through self-image dysmorphia

 

*Already works with 100s of amazing clients on THEIR archetypes and allure (b/c he was still a behind the scenes master lightworker for their results while building an embodiment foundation for himself that wasn’t as expressed on camera until the AvaStar Makeover for himself – b/c it’s essence, embodiment AND expression/charisma)

 

*Leads the market in archetype work, charisma and allure but now SHOWCASES it in living as a visual testament

 

*Is still mastering his e3 dynamics of charisma but is actually changing the game itself professionally in leading the world and industry in TOP allure and charisma consulting

 

*Has his image working FOR him 24/7 b/c it’s accurately expressing his codes

 

*Is magnetizing and attracting more powerfully FASTER instead of hiding out ‘behind the scenes’

 

*Looks, smells (essence oils as cologne) and feels like who he says he is instead of only relying on client testimonials and web copy

 

*Is uniphied on all fronts of his personal brand and communication in all media

 

*Feels like someone who is actually at the level he’s at instead of people instantly not knowing, being confused and the client blocking entropy that otherwise ensues

 

*Has fun storming the castles of tyranny

 

I think you can determine which was which.

 

One was FEAR BASED with image and being seen. (CAn you relate with that?)

 

Another is actively SHINING in his unique truth FROM the years of spiritual work he’s done; sharing with the world.

 

And if you don’t believe me that there can be such a difference with timelines as time goes by; reference your high school classmates and the timelines they’ve been on to realize how real all of this is. The choices you make NOW determine (actively) your future.

 

Let’s talk about you; I’m simply a reference point testament (and guide here);

 

ARE you undoubtedly and actively on the timeline of your GREATEST avatar self influence?

 

Or are you stuck in a shadow grid version of self that really won’t lead much of anywhere socially for years to come?

 

Were any of the above reflected in YOUR experiences? Can you relate with some of the ‘before’ time version’s concerns and brutal challenges?

 

Which one can you ‘feel’ more (and without triggers)?

 

Which version would you rather work with (with me) and which would you rather be (in YOUR version)?

 

Does the Star/let in you relate? Do you value YOUR signature codes being embodied and expressed also? (This is THE premium self-branding and icon work btw for social media marketing)

 

Yeah; this is big stuff b/c YOU are the BRAND itself…

 

It’s not just about that I did all kinds of spiritual work in the past decade; that’s part of it…you’ve done a lot too..it’s more specifically the IMAGE related transformation and how smoothly WHO I am is now coming across and working FOR ME instead of AGAINST me and being PARALYZED in fear (including fear of public speaking and humiliation).

 

What if the world never hears your message b/c you were still held back from being in your TRUTH, visual and voice?

 

This is the work we do in the Avatar Star – Starlet Makeover.

 

Your Star or Starlet codex (that unique placement of your gift, siddhic, elemental, archetypal, soul value and Light/Dark balance that describes your Avatar Self); is what allows us to access and then work on embodying YOUR codes for PUBLIC image transfiguration for living on your highest timelines integrated WITHOUT the shadows and fears of what’s been holding you back for years.

 

If you want to represent YOUR truth because you are called to greater influence and are sick and tired of being held back from the scale you’re meant to be seen and serve on; then let’s get started in the AvaStar Makeover and on-going Star/Starlet support which is custom to YOU.

 

More details and registration are at Avatar Star – Starlet Makeover

 

Part of it is that you have to be READY for a real makeover even if it threatens those closest to you if they are part of what is holding you back. Which version of self; which timeline do YOU choose?

 

Ready? There’s a lot of work to do and your heaven on earth future is at stake in this ATTENTION AGE economy with social media and influence.

AvaStar Makeover

 

-Rion Kati

 

p.s. Remember; you can reach out to me with questions on FB or IG DM or schedule a 10 minute quick connect if you’re seriously interested in the Avatar Star – Starlet Makeover (no obligation for reaching out). Those links are on the page itself

 

“Brilliant!”….”Epic!” Consulting sessions of some inaugural AvaStar clients and THEIR Starlet codex

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Don’t Be A Poser: EMBODY Your Starlet Codex Truth

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On *this* post below I SHARE (for the first time ever); before and after makeover pictures (years apart but you get to see what disembodiment looks like and now MASSIVE a differential all of this makes in being an iconic brand with your truth).

 

Like I was for years, RIDDLED with insecurity and visibility SHADOWS preventing people from feeling and knowing the true me;

 

If you are blocked from that ‘missing’ aspect; the archetype which can single-handedly resolve all of your shadow-grid visibility issues and trauma (like Star or Starlet); if you TRY and be that without the essence embodiment and integration, the danger is that you can come across as inauthentic or a poser or people will feel energetically there is something ‘off’ and insecure in who you are presenting yourself to be…ESPECIALLY if you have BIG archetypes and ambition.

 

The disembodiment and dissonance with them could have you feeling like a fraud, imposter or a poser. That’s even if you HAVE those codes in your soul essence but they’re not EMBODIED.

 

And poser = CRINGE.

 

People universally don’t like wannabes. They’re repelling and seem to lack integrity.

 

And if you’re on social media, now amplify that to a large scale en masse….or the visibility wounds and fears could be PREVENTING your WILD response and organic social media growth FROM resonance. Like me; they could keep you hidden from your full power and service for years.

 

So how big IS the gap for you (in all honesty) between where you are now and who you are in spirit and soul EMBODIED?

 

That’s why this avatar star self identity level transformation work is so high-level and critical; because people, HIGH STATUS, discerning and ideal clients, industry leaders, A-listers, followers and the people you want in your circle are DISCERNING whether you are the REAL DEAL or not esp. on first impression. They’re sensing your vibe and light truth.

 

Do you embody the archetypes you SAY and present yourself as (or DESIRE to)?

 

Because if you’re too ambitious as the Galactic Boss Babe but people are feelin’ insecure, crocs wearing cave-dweller, there’s going to be a disconnect.

 

Maybe you WANT to access something like Priestess, Dark or Starlet but She is just too ‘out there’ so you’re preventing yourself from fully being SEEN BECAUSE you don’t want to come across as incongruent or a poser.

 

If you don’t have the ESSENCE of your avatar self embodied and expressed, people are going to sense something is missing or out of alignment.

 

They’re feeling you/me at a level of WHO WE ARE in being (this is organic marketing, selling and influence). This is all about your Starlet codex, her embodiment and her allure.

 

Like me; you may even have to do DARK or EROS reclamation as well as shadow work and purification as part of embodying your own Star/let codex.

 

So if you’re ‘not embodied’, they’ll feel something is off. You could be showcasing a version of yourself that is PLAYING IT SMALL and fear-based.

 

These patterns for YEARS can hold you back from the EFFORTLESS influence and magnetism you could have and it seems like you have to focus on funnels, algorithms and all kinds of other stuff to make up for it when really; shouldn’t you just be integrity to your own fullest and highest expression FOR the world?

 

So in knowing how people will respond to you; it highlights again how serious this avatar star/let self embodiment is to take you from where you are now to the BEST, most codified and confident version of yourself PUBLICLY. I’m getting all kinds of scalable response now that I’m showcasing embodiment of my Avatar Star codex…just VISUALLY even; not even talking about content transmissions. I’m allowing my CODEX to be embodied, felt and seen visibly as the Muse Magician Rockstar and some other archetypes.

 

And all of this is at a level of ESSENCE. Fortunately; when you can access and EMBODY your Star/let codex, you WILL get response and engagement and people will FEEL you and without the cringiness.

 

This is about embodying your highest truth and those qualities to be FELT in social media and live presence.

 

Embodying your Star or Starlet codex is also how to resolve the ‘imposter syndrome’; because remember, STARLET is un-siphonable and you already have CODES that you have experienced with, you just have to have the temple body foundation and access to embody those codes (and keep growing with them into more of your power and influence).

 

This is what we do in the AvaStar Makeover and on-going Star/let support of course.

 

Let me unofficially showcase my own makeover just for a glimpse here (and I had issues on whether revealing or not mostly b/c people or AI could take it out of context). B/c of that I’m putting these pictures together as 1 jpg so that the context is more built-in which helps me to show you.

 

Remember how I was talking about being the ‘good guy’, disembodied with my Eros and FAR far away from something like an embodied (Rock)Star?

 

Well…let’s take a look at me in the context of where you are at now and what’s possible to access YOUR ‘out there’ missing codes.

 

 

 

Did you find yourself thinking ‘awww…..how sweet’ at version of myself; meaning the more impotent nice guy version which is fractured from my EROS power and DARK Truth. See what I’m saying? How important this is if the ‘real you’ isn’t fully embodied or showing?

 

You might even be thinking “Is this the same person?”

 

I can show you other pictures that are more extreme too.

 

I told you (or at least in MGM) that we have different roles we can play in life, but are you accessing your fullest, HIGHEST version of self for PUBLIC influence?

 

Or are you living in a codified and crustied version that is sabotaging your own greater success, visibility, voice and freedom b/c of past conditioning, visibility wounds and fear?

 

So in the above pictures; I’m exploring embodiment of Rockstar (which will land more in time but I’ve bridged the gap), but the next IG VDO release is more centered in my Muse-Magician…ok I’ll give you a preview of that now with another ‘before’ and ‘after’.

 

 


Magician is one of my strongest archetypes so can you sense how more ‘stable’ it is vs. the newer (yet authentic) Rockstar embodiment?

 

These are the more powerful stratospheres of communication; the ESSENCE BANDWIDTHS of currency, communication, marketing, sales and exchange. WHEN YOU ARE IT in divine ESSENCE, this is the future of organic marketing NOW.

 

I’m finally entering ICON zone of personal branding power now BECAUSE I’m embodying MY unique debut Star codex (and more and more). You may have codes that are NOT EMBODIED and ready for FACING the PUBLIC b/c of fears of siphoning, trauma, etc.

 

And remember Rockstar is/was my weaker archetype but it’s there as transfigurative support encoded FOR The Muse Magician to take me wildly PUBLIC…even famous.

 

So here I am again as The Muse Magician (preview from the next, upcoming Erosphere IG post)

 

 

Can you sense that if I tried to ‘be him’ in the before pics WITHOUT the proper embodiment and makeover charisma work, I would literally come across as a poser and people wouldn’t believe me, right?

 

It’s not embodied and felt so it wouldn’t matter what I would say. It wouldn’t FEEL right and people wouldn’t take me seriously.

 

That’s why this is so serious; I don’t think that you would want to be living from more hidden fear or disembodiment with your truth b/c people WILL feel and discern whether you are the real deal or not. Heck; they might not even KNOW who you truly are b/c they cannot FEEL you.

 

After all; consumers ARE becoming more psychic and accurate to sniff through B.S. and posers.

 

Muse requires me to step into THE POWER OF MY CODEX to be an APEX of Beauty and a force (Power) of cultural ascension influence. What is YOUR calling and are you still compromising from aligning and stepping into your DIVINE POWER AND SERVICE?

 

I cannot fake Rockstar because high status people would find out. It can’t be founded on illusion (nor shadows either)…and that’s just part of my Muse line codex (and later Star) to help me interface IN my spiritual integrity to the world.

 

Remember; This is identity level work where people are discerning and feeling if you’re ‘real’. This felt-sense accurate, psychic TRUTH is the new currency of whether we can trust someone (and then how they continue to live into that).

 

In this; I AM THE WORLD’S MUSE MAGICIAN in power, embodiment and authority (AND I back it up).

 

And that can sell more than me TRYING to sell people on something. So wouldn’t you also want to represent YOUR highest self embodied visually for felt influence? So they can feel YOUR eros-phere?

 

But see; I’ve had some challenges. How many middle-age men that YOU know access authentic Rockstar vibes and embodied consciousness without coming across as ‘poser’?

 

The level of this identity work is that you may have to be a professional actor otherwise and actually since this is founding Essence Acting; this is now the fastest path of THAT; working with ESSENCE itself like in the AvaStar Makeover and the activations we do.

 

There are a lot of middle aged rock FANS (I think you can visualize this) that’ll wear like band t-shirts but in embodied vibe-truth?

 

Few in the world are close to actually living ROCKSTAR consciousness.

 

It was interesting to me when Andy Black went into a ‘Hot Topic’ like store. Actually I can’t find the exact clip (you can imagine); but it’s the difference I’m referring to; the real deal vs. consumer grade consciousness. 

 

 

Most; they would come across as ‘wannabe’, fraud, inauthentic or poser (and people would have reason to be harshly judgmental) if they’re trying to be ‘that big’ but actually aren’t in consciousness and presence….there’s esp. something about ‘aging’ and ‘trying too hard’ that is just cringe.

 

If you’re not embodying all of YOUR codes, you can come across as inauthentic even if it’s IN your soul but not embodied. Ouch, yeah.

 

So I had some general massive barriers to bypass all of that additionally; can you sense why this work is so high level? ROCKSTAR is an ‘out of reach’ archetype for MOST men (plus requires OTHER foundational archetype work like DARK EROS and OUTLAW)…

 

So whatever YOUR dream or missing archetype is to take you into aligned, authentic soul self FAME, it is possible. For me Rockstar is divinated but fits partly b/c I’m a music producer but b/c Muse is the Queen of Music but also for other archetypal qualities vs. musician rockstar.

 

We’re talking about BECOMING your ideal, avatar self EMBODIED, felt and seen. THAT’S why this work will continue to rise in price.

 

This is serious work b/c people will be discerning whether you are ‘REAL’ or not. CAN YOU ACCESS YOUR POWER and codes and EMBODY and express them with effective mastery?

 

I mean; it might take decades for most people and remain a pipe dream; yet in the AvaStar Makeover I work with you for you so we save you literally years of time to just get there in less than 6 months.

 

Again; I would have been a poser had I tried to embody rockstar WITHOUT doing the proper embodiment work…and really it’s still mostly Magician and I’m strengthening Rockstar through time but I have access and starter real embodiment.

 

We can work with YOUR codes so that YOU are IN your signature, UNIQUE Beauty and Power. (Here is that recent Rockstar focused video with G’nR)

 

 

 

This is specialized work really b/c ‘mindset’ is weak compared to your psyche OWNING you from shadow and BLOCKING the power of your codex from being practically embodied (and I work with what your codex is EXACTLY).

 

It really takes the most professional levels of acting (which is believable) or identity level life transformation. Leaders of niches already secretly and semi-secretly come to me for THEIR transformational work even at their level ; they require support.

 

Even though it will set you apart to be EXPRESSED in your archetypal and siddhic codes of Beauty and Power;

 

You can’t fake this stuff b/c people will sniff out if you’re a poser or ‘inauthentic’ and that can be a doomful fate in going public that could prevent you FROM ever going public.

 

The best acting isn’t acting; it’s BEING. And being is embodied with essence Truth.

 

Fortunately;

 

Your Star/let codex is HOW to most directly access public fame consciousness to transfigure you (FROM your spiritual integrity even if it’s all soft feminine); but you have to have a way to then EMBODY and EXPRESS those essences in lieu of your fears and anxieties…otherwise just knowing about it; it can still remain and impossible gap where you come across as disembodied, fear-based, ‘off’ or cringe like a poser.

 

That’s why going through the workbook alone may not be enough.

 

Imagine that you can (like me in the before and after pictures); at an identity level; go from where are now to LIVING and being experienced as YOUR Avatar Star/let in debut…what price could you put on that?

 

And the cost of NOT becoming that version of your self (even if it’s not fear of being a poser or imposter syndrome; it could still be all kinds of other sabotage blocks to your fullest public self icon)!

 

What’s the cost of selling out to the illusion of comfort and security instead of following your soul’s deepest desires and your spiritual and social calling (not to mention the fullest expression and possibility OF your Beauty/codes and legacy)?

 

Of allowing your shadows to hijack your greater desire to be an ICON of influence to those you are MEANT to be?

 

Think of the cost of regret in how years are flying by. It’s never too late at any age. AvaStar allows us to do this work assuredly.

 

What is the message and transmissions you are meant to give in fully living your greater purpose ‘full out’?

 

I support stars and starlets; Also b/c I’m on that path (for GREAT spiritual service and social visibility and impact creating forms of heaven on earth).

 

So this is the work I’m doing myself and with the 6 ladies at the time of this writing who are already in the AvaStar Makeover experience with on-going Starlet support.

 

Can you sense you why I’m raising it to $1k/mo. after the first 10 are booked? (With that said; the $1k/mo. level WILL have a live VIP day with debut media shoot and those in at the inaugural price will have the option to upgrade to that version).

 

Remember; this is identity level work…so yeah;

 

You go ahead on your own for what you can do with the tips as far as makeover OR you could hire the best transformational allure consultant in the world; me (that’s service based authentic ego with integrity).

 

Yes; I’d have to say that I AM to date; the best allure consultant in the world. That’s me taking humble but solid authority over what I am and do..and how the game is already changed.

 

No one comes close and you know what?

 

I HAVE to be that to FOUND Allure Priestess as the world’s pre-eminent allure consultants to be light years ahead of everyone else (where I’ll put the focus on THEM).

 

Isn’t your ICONIC version of self worth it?

 

Can you afford the cringe of how your ideal followers and soul tribe on a larger scale or the sabotage that would still prevent you from being your FULLEST self with YOUR unique codex?

 

I CANNOT afford to be a poser. The retribution would be brutal at the level I’m playing at (in transformation major industries).

 

That I AM the real deal is the PRICELESS value and currency with the work I do; I just had to actually EMBODY and express it VISUALLY so that people can know that I’m not just the good guy, impotent lightworker bts.

 

Will you EMBODY YOUR codex? B/c you are probably ‘the real deal’ in the ways that you are also BUT they must be embodied and felt in this attention age economy with social media.

 

And it might be different for you vs. someone else. I work with you on all of that CUSTOM in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Like; if you don’t embody like say it’s Priestess and you have worthiness blocks and sabotage from being seen as one including fear of siphoning and fugly duckling and that insecurity to them as high status discerning ideal clients and people; you can come across energetically as insecure or ‘cringe’…they may sense that she’s not saying or being who she says she is rather than the EROSPHERIC COMFORT that relaxes their nervous system WHILE inciting them to be with you or work with you because you ARE who you say you are…

 

Or it could be more like she’s a behind the scenes hobbyist with visual scarring vs. a serious ‘here I AM’ force of nature or Beauty where people feel your enchantment and ease instantly.

 

Yeah; this is high level identity work. Reference again, the ‘felt influence’ of my own (before and after) visuals above.

 

Without going through an experiential process (like a specialized makeover); the fullest version of you will predictably remain a fantasy or dream by default and you could come across as a poser or fraud; NOT EVEN DARING TO BE FULLY SEEN in the first place…or you could keep being sabotaged by YEARS of visibility wounds; disembodied with your own codes en masse and where leaders won’t take you seriously. I don’t know about you but I CANNOT afford that with my dharma.

 

Just be honest with wherever you are at….I had to be BRUTALLY honest and bear the mantle of this dharma. I had to go through the transformation that I did. I couldn’t let the disembodied, non-integrated only a dream version of me win out and live a life of COMPROMISE. I’m on a BIG mission. This is about being TESTAMENT and living as it.

 

If you don’t land and integrate YOUR unique STAR/STARLET CODES and iconic self, you may not have the POWER to be taken seriously and continue to be sabotaged by your visibility wounds and fears. This is you in all of your integrity as an ICON of beauty or spiritual social influence.

 

I would say; don’t be a poser. DON’T ALLOW IT for yourself.

 

GET EMBODIED and expressed with your Avatar Starlet codex allure.

 

There are far more people DREAMING of being stars or trying to pose than actually BEING powerful and beautiful in their unique felt presence and soul service. Could you be ok with standing out like that?

 

I’ve mentioned it a bit so far but; what about dealing with imposter syndrome or feeling like you’re a fraud?

 

Well; you ALREADY HAVE divinated codes…you HAVE strengths and qualities of archetypal, elemental and siddhic in the seat of your soul at least.

 

What if it was just a disconnect from embodiment and FROM the primary missing Star code that for/you, you just had to access and then embody that would embolden your public service and DISSOLVE imposter syndrome to be the amplified REAL version of you with star or starlet radiance?

 

I can’t put a price on BEING IN MY TRUE UNIQUE POWER visually. It’s having ORGANIC influence and response that is literally scalable to the stars and I’ll continue LEADING this work.

 

If you are called to dial in YOUR own debut or re-birth makeover as the unique Star or Starlet version of yourself (which also means you may NOT have Starlet as part of your codex but She can be proxy for the amplification and transfiguration OF your authentic other codes and opening up GREATER Goddess consciousness beauty and bandwidth transmission and circulation); join me in the AvaStar Makeover with on-going Starlet support (on monthly you can still cancel at anytime).

 

I am a direct form of Star and Starlet-maker. Either way, the EMBODIMENT work FOR visual and consciousness truth is where it’s at and in how others respond to you. Mindset or ‘psychology’ does NOT equate to transformation…it may keep you in a cycle of being led by your own unique shadow-grid of fears preventing YOUR avatar self from being in powerful influence and being seen.

 

Can you afford to just put it all up to random chance or is it time to get the professional support to ensure this happens?

 

>Details and booking for the AvaStar Makeover here<

 

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Allure Consulting: The Next Mega-Trend?

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We are at a VERY exciting time because the future is being (co) created RIGHT NOW.

 

The Beauty industry has been under a glass ceiling shadow of constriction for decades. It’s time that we see the future of where things are headed and you know what? You could be IN on it because I predict that

 

ALLURE and Charisma consulting is going to become a MEGA-TREND. Kinda like how streaming media (Netflix), crypto and AI became MEGA trends (that are really ‘here to stay’).

 

As a certified and trained Allure Priestess (lightworker to the stars) you can literally be one of the world’s top allure and charisma consultants and one of the true FIRST; however, the time to prepare for that is NOW before the big wave hits. Catch more in this recent visionary Rion Kati Instagram post of mine predicting the future.

 

(Follow me on Instagram there)

Allure Consulting Mega-Trend

 

 

 
 
 
 
 
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New millionaires will be made! And don’t say you didn’t see it coming…you know too much now ;)!

 

This is the TRUE aura maxxing werk.

 

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The Soul Starlet Micro-Powerliminal

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Want to cultivate your own Starlet embodiment & Beauty to be seen in your Truth as an influencer?

This Powerliminal encoded in Starlet values can help you start getting clarity and codes along your journey to fullest embodiment and expression of your dreams.

You can discover your unique Starlet Codex as the exact sequence of your elemental, gift, siddhic, archetypal, Light & Dark balance of your avatar self with the AvaStar Makeover.

This Powerliminal (micro) presented by the AvaStar Makeover.

 

 
 
 
 
 
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