Diamond In The Rough? Beauty Advantages For Hidden Ugly Ducklings

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IF you have been through a LOT of pressure along your spiritual path years in the making forging your soul character…

 

I’m not talking just mundane ‘shit of life’ low vibrational challenges;

 

But if you’ve been a Warrior/ess for YOUR soul’s growth and karmic clearing, etc….you have the potential visual MEGA-advantage of alluring beauty in that you are a diamond in the rough. (This goes for men too btw).

 

You have the potential to truly shine and have essenced, feelable allure or charisma…really; MORE advantages than normies.

 

It’s because you’ve had access to LIGHT, higher consciousness unusually more often than normal consumer citizens and thus essence-quanta itself that you have this practical potential to have such radiant beauty.

 

There are some things to be aware of however but really, you have the potential to go through a very fast makeover process for a significant before and after.

 

Remember; Beauty IS the alchemical language of Light from higher truth perspective and image itself is light…we’re only used to valuing .00035% of visible light…so you have access to BEAUTY…then it’s about HOW it’s actually FLOWING with and through the LIGHT of your multi-dimensional image (your light and vibe truth spectrum). Really; your LIGHT body…and for so long pro energy work has been DIS-connected and non-integrated with professional beauty until now!

 

So yes; you have the potential to become a great SWAN of radiant Beauty no matter how insecure and fugly you’ve felt before AND even if you aren’t the prettiest in the room in the 3rd dimension.

 

If this higher spiritual connection is not integrated into your body however; you could have SO MUCH LIGHT it can actually AMPLIFY disintegrated shadows as ugliness through distortion in your aura and chakric psyche-soma blocks creating a cycle of greater shadow and self-image blocks in your visual media.

 

This amplification of your light and shadow then AMPLIFIES your lack of integration as someone of Power and Beauty.

 

Old image anxieties and fears (including fugly duckling) may RE-surface to be resolved and integrated at your new level to be a living heaven one earth testament of your spiritual embodiment.

 

In otw; NOT being seen can work AGAINST YOU and chances are you ARE meant to be a beacon to others (thus highlighting that yes, you are probably meant to BE seen and felt in influence).

 

On a corollary note; you’re probably on a spiritual path where resolution and integration befits.

 

The one time this disintegrated energy kind of works is with some rockstars where we FEEL they have conflict but it matches their overall visual aesthetic and vibe truth; their energy is still exciting and amplified….

 

Like the lead singer of 5 Finger Death Punch is an amplified loud shadow-grid (objectively speaking) which is perfect for his iconic role (I’m choosing not to do an image here)…he’s being an icon for this aspect of psyche in his followers…he has also sought ought zen practices for balance…

 

I don’t know if I’d want to help him resolve things too much b/c so much of his brand is tied up IN his amplified conflict energetically.

 

On a separate note before we come back to you; b/c it’s related with THEIR life path as charismatic star-men;

 

Bono and U2 just oozing in vibey charisma in the legendary Achtung Baby photo shoot is more of an open, (yet deep and landscaped vessel) and Adam Clayton to me was never cooler BUT he has some chakric blocks but has accepted his identity as a rockstar so the energy still works b/c with rock there can and often should be tension and edgy vibes.

 

 

Your blocks might be a different kind of block that are dysfunctionally working against being seen properly at all.

 

Rockstars like u2 KNOW that they are seen, value it en masse and are ok with it. SO IF you’re a music rockstar, let’s consult before doing direct chakric work in session b/c it might resolve things TOO much….and..

 

If you’re a normal beauty influencer; that’s not who I’m speaking to here (yet whom I also work with to deepen and cultivate your divine essence access, embodiment and express as allure).

 

Anyways; if YOU have indeed been on a soul-path of warriorship…a real spiritual journey with Light connection and cultivation..and you sense you ARE called to be in service to others and shadow is actually only holding things back instead of being a beautiful artistic expression and aesthetic of self…

 

Even if you’ve done a lot of (other) shadow work you could still have IMAGE and visibility wounds.

 

If this Light/Shadow and Dark dynamic is not integrated b/c you are resisting how visible you’re really called to be (unlike rockstars); your shadows themselves can multiply and create even MORE distortion so we may never see your diamond and that will affect

 

ALL of your live presence appearances, interactions as well as recorded visual social media thus affecting your entire influence and parasocial influence reality, world, empire and metrics.

 

Even if others feel it as beautifully ugly but don’t tell you; if YOU are triggered by it and have doubts, insecurities, these can keep you further paralyzed or hijacked from truly being in the level of visibility and service you’re meant to be.

 

These deeper fears were highlighted for me just ~2.5 years ago (I’m not ready to share THOSE pictures yet for several reasons).

 

Thing is; I KNEW that I was a diamond (this for male and female)…people could rarely ever see it though but they had touched some of that with ie. my powerliminals and client work but it’s because I was always hidden ‘behind the scenes’.

 

THE LIGHT wasn’t allowed to properly FLOW and be expressed. It would come up against mental layer and chakric WALLS.

 

So this is the big challenge for those of us who KNOW it’s about essence and already HAVE such significant LIGHT connection…how do we TRANSVERT that into BEAUTIFUL, compelling visual and live presence expression?

 

Maybe you are a diamond; but there are some things in the way as well like I dealt with; also where people cannot organically FEEL you to have more parasocial influence.

 

You have so much access to Light that remaining insecurity shadows (like with your self-image) can be amplified and the Light may not be channeled INTO earth directly through your PRESENCE-Light.

 

You might be keeping things to yourself unconsciously as ‘protection’ from rejection or criticism.

 

Not everyone is practically speaking (metaphorically) a diamond in the rough per se…it may not be their lifetime for alchemization.

 

We might say that some are more like rocks (like the idiot driver you wanted to cuss at?) b/c their soul isn’t on such a path or they’ve sold out to conformity.

 

Their soul has the potential but they’re just not following the calling per se.

 

This isn’t me being judgmental; it has to do with soul karma, decisions and so forth from a perspective of individuality.

 

I’m just saying that more than just ‘being through shit’ if we cleaned you off (which we do in sessions too) there probably really IS a diamond underneath b/c of the Light and pressure that you’ve been under.

 

And it’s a unique brilliant diamond that maybe you yourself have barely seen!

 

WILL YOU DARE TO SHINE YOUR TRUTH TO THE WORLD?

 

Is it TIME?

 

Maybe sometimes you’ve seen your truth shine through here and there, but you know there’s a lot more to be STABLE and secure in the highest levels of your beauty and soul expression; esp. since like me; you also aren’t the best looking person in the room.

 

When we work together in the Soul Performance Growth or AvaStar Makeover;

 

Our job is to take the diamond in the rough of your temple body essence dynamics (BECAUSE OF THE GROWTH SHIT you’ve already been through in the seat of your soul and psyche) to help u SHINE visually and radiantly IN your live presence and visuals.

 

Your Star/let codex gives us access to the real you at a soul level; your AVATAR higher self…and your strengths as well as the power to bring in Star/Starlet archetype transfiguration to do some makeover alchemy magic and go big publicly with confidence (even SOFT-era starlet confidence).

 

So if you’ve been through a lot of shit (on a soul’s growth spiritual journey; not just general mundane human low vibe shit); but aren’t showing it and it’s just NOT beauty coming across…and you already KNOW that it’s not just about soft maxing or looks maxxing;

 

The AvaStar Makeover is perfect for you too because it universally comes down to your e3; essence, embodiment and expression with and through the light body.

 

Much of this includes DECONDITIONING the unnecessary coal from around the diamond itself (in your chakric psyche).

 

The e3 framework for professional light-working IS the secret of alluring stars and starlets demystified for practical purposes.

 

We work on your shine DIRECTLY in sessions with your light body; the final refinement process of the rough piece of coal into allowing it’s signature brilliance to come through so others can FINALLY see, feel and know the real you in your beauty, power and truth.

 

Again…I know for me;

 

I am meant to shine.

 

ILLUMINATION is my Radiance (Gene Key). And Beloved is my Illumination (Divine Union with Beloved within and circulating).

 

(We work with YOUR Gene Keys in the AvaStar Makeover which includes a Human Design + Gene Keys reading FOR your spiritual growth, life, consciousness and visual beauty).

 

I’ve shown before and after images of me;

 

 

 

The valuation is on allowing YOUR BEAUTY/POWER CODES to SHINE THROUGH so that people can FEEL, sense and know the TRUTH of their vibe and Light power…this is the highest levels of general organic influence; alchemical levels.

 

Here is an ‘after’ image where you can literally SEE, sense and KNOW Muse within me.

 

 

The embodied (reunified) signature of Muse found a way out into expression for a second or so but I’m showcasing other authentic archetypal essences as well; archetypes being practical keys to Power and Beauty itself (and I mean SOCIALLY).

 

Because with an essence coming through (like Muse) universally and undoubtedly the real deal at an essence level (this is what we value); that covers at least 1000 words I don’t have to say.

 

Again; this is the more advanced visual (and social) communication itself that other stars and starlets have as charisma/allure from their radiance; felt impact.

 

K-Pop is MEGA viral because of why? ESSENCED ALLURE. They’ve mastered their visual and social media power and influence NOT b/c of make-up and looks-maxxing but because of ALLURE.

 

 

 

(Can you sense btw the SAME archetypal essence she has embodied as I do in the above image? Yeah…that’s worth about 100,000 words of communication or ‘work’ that becomes effortless).

 

They have essence (archetypal, siddhic) and EMBODIED and expressed WITH universal, divine essences. (AND did I say VIRAL, predictable social media success?)

 

YOU have access to specific siddhic qualities of consciousness that are aligned and attuned with your soul (ie. Peace, Grace, Majesty, Queen, etc.),…these could potentially radiate as with and through your sentient-plasmic field of and as ALLURE.

 

WE GET TO WORK ON YOURS…b/c maybe yours is Queen-Lover Priestess rather than Princess-Muse Light Eros for example (K-pop is predominantly Muse centric).

 

So we want to working on SHOWCASING your truth as an open body light vessel channel. Make-up, hairstyling…the Beauty 1.0 support is important as well but we’re talking about ALL of the Light of your radiance; much of which is simply outside of the visible spectrum BUT THAT WHICH PEOPLE RESPOND TO AND FEEL like the UV sun-tanning rays of the sun.

 

ESSENCE is what to value and how it’s coming across in your light body practically speaking (and yes it VISUALLY changes what people see); again just reference the before and after pics of me.

 

 

 

Essence includes the spectrum of archetypal, elemental, gift and siddhic signatures of sentient-Truth light of consciousness.

 

MY essences aren’t coming through b/c they’re internally blocked from charismatic radiance in my light body in the ‘before’.

 

MOST consumer-citizens are light-body blocked from radiating divine essences including ie. Goddess embodiment b/c they have personal fields, conditioned chakras, implants and non-Star consciousness, blocks, etc.

 

ESSENCE is the CURRENCY of social media exchange with each other; people want access and connection to the holy quanta itself of divine masculine and feminine spirit-truth; essence itself.

 

And if you’re BLOCKED in your chakras and aura BECAUSE of sabotaging fugly duckling, past trauma and a myriad of reasons ; EVEN IF you’ve been on a great spiritual journey…you may not ever express your Beauty.

 

And this is very specific; it’s VISUAL and you’ll be able to know by how others are RESPONDING to you and your visuals and presence. I love getting clients and myself RESULTS!

 

HINT: I’m NOT the best looking guy at allllll….this is what allure and charisma does; bends light in our favor but it includes resolving energetic tensions and resistances from self-image and shadows in general.

 

 

Charisma: It’s what us average ugly people have.

 

Sure; looksmaxxing but that’s limited. This is about the power of influence from visuals and presence alone to alchemical levels.

 

And this is all related to your purpose if you are some form of influencer.

 

So can you ACCEPT yourself as a star or starlet if you are on a path OF being seen and in public-dharmic great influence?

 

Can you at least accept your Star or Starlet codex (that specific divine signature combination of YOU at a spirit and soul level identity)?

 

You can discover that with the ‘My Star/let Codex’ workbook or in the AvaStar Makeover with me.

 

This is what helps most directly open up Star or Starlet archetypal avatar consciousness practically for you to BE IN SERVICE with your beauty, gifts and codes visually and publicly in divine soul service and dharma with ‘by and large’ divine protection (including from siphoning for the MOST part).

 

Anyways;

 

With where you’re at right now; even if you’re ON a great path with many gifts acquired…your truth may not be expressed much at all in presence and visually…or it might be SEMI-expressed but you know it’s not your STAR version of self yet. In a sense you would be out of integrity with the embodiment and expression of ALL of you…and you have to decide that matters.

 

Not all of us are meant to be seen and some are more aligned behind the scenes perhaps.

 

If you’re on a path of BEING SEEN and are done with being behind the scenes;

 

WE JUST HAVE TO WORK WITH YOUR E3 DYNAMICS to drop in your essences and then LET THEM BREATHE through your chakras to get visual makeover results; ESPECIALLY if you’ve already done GREAT spiritual cultivation which is stored in the seat of your soul or mental layer.

 

It’s about letting people FEEL, sense and know your power and beauty because of embodiment and expression vs. it remaining as hidden, cloaked by all kinds of fears and shadows; disembodied and thus distorting your light and preventing people from actually feeling you and that greater level of deep parasocial influence.

 

As we go through the AvaStar Makeover process process;

 

Kundalini and dan tien activations help to form a more powerful, stable light body to then alchemize and amplify your current essences and for your STAR.LET self to be more powerful with greater Eros current.

 

Activations help to bring in even MORE essence quanta of a particular signature (archetypal or siddhic) into your light temple body and then embodiment and breathing expression (allure/charisma).

 

Remember; I had ALL KINDS OF BLOCKS so my TRUTH which I knew that I knew I was so evolved yet so frustrated and bitter that I couldn’t accurately express it in my presence and image itself so I made badass things ‘behind the scenes’ like powerliminals and client testimonials of legacy work but I chose it was time for me to come out from the cave and behind the scenes to BE SEEN b/c that’s what is missing to CHANGE THE GAME of industry itself in my fields with ascension codes.

 

I had to become the upfront visible founder and ‘brand’…esp. in this attention age economy.

 

NO ONE ELSE CAN DO IT LIKE I CAN. That may be true for you too…so will you heed the call? Will you let people SOAK IN THE CODES from your live visual presence and holographic, parasocial media that keeps working for you and your purpose 24/7?

 

I have a lot MORE pics of me years ago with inner worlds and yet massive chakric blocks + image anxiety issues and deep fugly duckling syndrome.

 


So; to review… if you’ve been on a deep spiritual path, you have a lot of soul power and essence via your connection to spirit; which may remain DISEMBODIED and not affecting your visuals (I had extreme energetic chakric blocks to all of this)…then it’s just about accurately EMBODYING and also EXPRESSING that truth without words so people can FEEL YOU and you vibe and light truth.

 

That means literally working with your shadows, chakras and aura FOR essence TRANSMISSION.

 

And if you’re still holding all kinds of psyche shadows and visibility wounds, they will continue literally causing visual distortion in the aura and making you look uglier (literally and in those photos) b/c of the pre-tension and resistance.

 

So good news is that;

 

I’ve worked with 100s of paid clients and am leader in this field. It’s the FUTURE of Beauty and social media marketing NOW (charisma and allure transformation).

 

WE CAN GET RESULTS FAST if you’ve done a lot of spiritual work. Like me; I had a LOT of access to Light but a LOT of shadow with image related issues esp. (including doubt, confusion, control, fugly duckling, even self-punishment, etc. all of which further prevented my beauty from being shown).

 

We work with all of this in, on and around your energy body itself; the LIGHT of you coming across in visual media. Your Light and Vibe TRUTH.

 

We work with the chunk of coal of your light body itself and the pressure you’ve already been under to bring out your SHINE and the signatures of it so you are your own erospheric unique BRAND…so that others can feel the soulstar DIAMOND of your codex that SELLS ITSELF WITHOUT SELLING b/c you ARE in Presence who you say you are; louder than words.

 

Can you leave it all up to ‘make-up’ or superficial looks-maxing when you have deeper insecurities that is blocking your inner beauty (a.k.a. essenced beauty) from coming across + YOUR unique Goddess codes?

 

Go through direct transformation; and then your words and transmissions are sourced properly and your image works for you 24/7 to exponentiate your spirit-led empire. Together; I/we save years off of the process so you can rebirth or debut/re-debut within 6 months or less.

 

(But that’s from more than just reading the blog)

 

So…

 

Are you being honest with yourself to the WORLD, your tribe and followers if you are only keeping your beauty and magic hidden within?

 

If you aren’t BEING in your fullest embodied expression and truth, could that be holding back other riches and dreams?

 

The AvaStar Makeover is where we can work on all of this directly and to work on bringing out your SIGNATURE, iconic avatar brand of you self

 


How many years might it take you otherwise?

 

Will you claim your calling of being embodied and seen in your Truth; ACCURATELY transmitting it to the world where even other prettier women are looking up to you b/c you have liberated and expressed what they desire to represent and access?

 

Will you EMBODY and EXPRESS the AVATAR, spirit-codexed brand of you and breakthrough any remaining fugly ducklings b/c you’ve already done so much spiritual growth and now it’s TIME to show your Truth and ‘show up’ socially and professionally for others?

 

Will you finish the process of becoming the diamond in the rough? Avatar Star Makeover details ‘n booking (monthly plan is available)

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Key Concept: Parasocial Influence

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If you are an influencer of ANY sort and stepping MORE into it…if you have any online following whatsoever, are a beauty influencer or are your own soul purpose BRAND icon on some form of star or starlet path, this is a critical concept to understand and (organically) maximize.

 

All kinds of people are trying to inorganically maximize it (like algorithm hacking, etc.) and that can help too, but I digress…

 

We want to understand INFLUENCE and beauty influence from stillness more accurately as well as overall influence.

 

Let’s be clear up front; if you are an INFLUENCER of any sort and are on social or visual media, you WANT more para-social influence…esp. from your visuals when you aren’t famous, aren’t speaking or relying on ‘niche content’.

 

CENTRAL and really KEY to INFLUENCE and success on social media (especially as an iconic ‘brand’ of you) in this attention age era is this concept of ‘para-social’ and parasocial influence.

 

So what is it?

 

“Parasocial” refers to a one-sided, psychological relationship where a person extends emotional energy, interest, and time toward a media figure (celebrity, influencer, or character) who is completely unaware of their existence. Named 2025 Word of the Year by Cambridge Dictionary – Google

 

If you’re the influencer;

 

It’s basically having a form of influence where your followers and fans develop a projected but familial relationship WITH the persona or holographic version of you through your media.

 

This replicates your time to have more influence even though you cannot be there intimately for all of them. It’s just a byproduct of the modern age with it’s pros and cons and shadows.

 

But really; this is an AMAZING THING because when you can INCREASE your parasocial impact and HOW fast people can trust, feel and open up to you, you have more influence and forms of success.

 

In this blog post, I’m going to go more directly into how to LEVERAGE your as an iconic brand to maximize your parasocial influence (including to maximize your CURRENT social media following for engagement) after (the key word is allure btw) but let’s take a defining look first.

 

Again; it’s critical to be AWARE of this consciously to help your social media success. Let’s go deeper;

 

Wikipedia;

 

“Parasocial interaction (PSI) refers to a kind of psychological relationship experienced by an audience in their mediated encounters with performers in the mass media, particularly on television and online platforms.[1][2][3][4] Viewers or listeners come to consider media personalities as friends, despite having no or limited interactions with them. PSI is described as an illusory experience, such that media audiences interact with personas (e.g., talk show hosts, celebrities, fictional characters, social media influencers) as if they are engaged in a reciprocal relationship with them. The term was coined by Donald Horton and Richard Wohl in 1956.[5]

 

A parasocial interaction, an exposure that garners interest in a persona,[6] becomes a parasocial relationship after repeated exposure to the media persona causes the media user to develop illusions of intimacy, friendship, and identification.[5] Positive information learned about the media persona results in increased attraction, and the relationship progresses.[6] Parasocial relationships are enhanced due to trust and self-disclosure provided by the media persona.[5]

 

Media users are loyal and feel directly connected to the persona, much as they are connected to their close friends, by observing and interpreting their appearance, gestures, voice, conversation, and conduct.[6] Media personas have a significant amount of influence over media users, positive or negative, informing the way that they perceive certain topics or even their purchasing habits. Studies involving longitudinal effects of parasocial interactions on children are still relatively new, according to developmental psychologist Sandra L. Calvert.[7]

 

Social media introduces additional opportunities for parasocial relationships to intensify because it provides more opportunities for intimate, reciprocal, and frequent interactions between the user and persona.[5][8] These virtual interactions may involve commenting, following, liking, or direct messaging. The consistency in which the persona appears could also lead to a more intimate perception in the eyes of the user.”

-Wikipedia.org

 


In other words; it’s about this new form of social communication; well, it’s been around FOR eons with myths and deities but is really extrapolated since the advent of television and now social media.

 

Ie. my mother used to have a parasocial relationship with the character’s on ‘Knots Landing’ for example and you most certainly have parasocial relationships. Think of the dynamic itself of how stars and starlets like Tom Cruise and Ariana Grande or more ‘niche’ characters or actors have followings like a Bryan Cranston, etc. Stars have MASS parasocial relationships with their fans and this is something to be aware; esp. in HOW to maximize your own following’s response to you (like a star/let).

 

Think of if you’re in business for yourself; you can have prospects get to know and sense who you are…building a relationship where they feel they know you and have that familiarity and trust…that comfort and then maybe attend a live workshop of yours…it’s kind of like you’re a star in their eyes. They feel they know you.

 

This is expanded influence (and goodwill).

 

So think of who and where YOU have parasocial relationships…with who? With what celebrities?

 

Kim Kardashian for example has 353 million Instagram followers…many of whom have a more active parasocial relationship with her through her posts and the tv series…they feel they know her.

 

Cristiano Ronaldo has a whopping 670million followers but it doesn’t have to be that scale at all to have social influence. Media allows us to have more meta-physical or social ‘power’. I talk about this in other places.

 

So who are the people online or in tv shows that YOU have a parasocial relationship with? Those that you feel you ‘know’?

 

They don’t have to be super famous or a celebrity…it could be a mommy blogger or a subject area specialist. Influence is scalable…you’re not practically going to be able to interact with each individual person as you scale up.

 

Maybe it’s the different sharter guys that through watching dozens of hours of their videos sharting and pooting in public places on and near unsuspecting civilians like Central Park or Wal-Mart you feel that you get to know them.

 

And sometimes on camera; a fan (with a pre-established parasocial relationship) treats them like a star when they meet them in real life. You’ve had parasocial relationship with your favorite bands and the artists too.

 

With the ‘democratization’ of media…Today; we have the opportunity to BE our own stars and starlets and the people I work with especially have LIGHT CODES of Beauty and Power that are unique to them with their Star and Starlet codex that can be expressed as they live their highest timelines and cultivate more of this online INFLUENCE (whether in a spirit-aligned business, beauty influencer or not).

 

Now; who do YOU want to have influence with?

 

For me on Instagram it’s with my beauty tribe (which includes celebrity)…I want to cultivate PARASOCIAL INFLUENCE with them and as a brand icon.

 

Ok; so we have a good grasp on parasocial influence; and again this is what you WANT for exponentiating your OWN influence.

 

Now here’s where we get to the juiciness;

 

IF you indeed value maximizing your parasocial influence or ‘brand’ online to have:

 

*More subscribers

*More organic engagement

*More sales conversions

*More retention

*More depth (and even obsession dynamics but as an organic byproduct)

*More return views

*More referability

*More likes

*More opportunities
*More money FROM social visibility

*Deeper fan following and loyalty (even to protect you online vs. haters and trolls)

 

And more LEGACY in real time;

 

What can you do to maximize your parasocial influence (including with your CURRENT following)?

 

Well the most organic thing is to;

 

Cultivate your ALLURE to have people NATURALLY and of their own accord without salesiness RESPOND and engage with you. It accelerates relationship building and instant trust.

 

It’s especially important now because social media marketers as of early 2026 still don’t know that it’s a legitimate variable IN social media success itself yet is already a core reason responsible for billions of views.

 

And more specifically; you want to cultivate your Star or Starlet codexed allure so people can FEEL the unique version of you and your erospheric vibe and light truth atmosphere.

 

This actually has to do with your visuals and more specifically your light body (and all of your multi-d light IN your actual photos and videos of expanded frequency, feelable spectrum like UV rays) in where energy is blocked or flowing and the quality of WHAT is flowing (ie. essence vs. mucky shadows).

 

In other words;

 

There may be BLOCKS for your current audience to FEEL YOU from your live presence and visual image (where they get ie. creepy vibes) b/c you might be focused on looksmaxxing, niche content subject matter specialties, thumbnail optimization, algorithm hacking instead of just being more organically FEELABLE and engage-with-able TO your people.

 

Literally as your chakras open, you will find more magical RESPONSE from your own people!

 

This is that big theme of charisma and allure we value here at Sexy Chi.

 

So this gets into deeper SELF-image issues and HOW it is affecting how you’re coming across.

 

Even looking your best;

 

You might be subconsciously NOT wanting your people to ‘take’ or siphon from you, thus your LIGHT is actually distorted. You might be seeking their validation unhealthily and they’ll start picking up that vibe.

 

You might just be lost in your own inner world or on the mental plane but not wanting to be seen as the star so how people unconsciously FEEL and respond to you is affected; if they FEEL you have walls, they’re probably going to reflect those walls back to you…these energetic resistances and even the fugly duckling syndrome are BLOCKING the expression and psycho-activating engagement of your spirit-matter quanta from having influence.

 

Remember that a STAR unconditionally shines anyways…it is providing nurturing VALUE for its constituents (like our solar sun).

 

So it’s actually ESSENCE that you want to allow to FLOW for people to feel, respond and organically engage with your social media (as if its you).

 

When your deconditioned chakras and aura project through the screen to affect THEIR chakras and aura (in heart and sex for example); initiating a response in them, you are having powerful parasocial influence working organically for you.

 

If you look good and pretty but have energetic walls and a low allure factor (rating), they’re less likely to be organically engaged and responsive to you UNLESS you’re like relying on subject matter niche expertise where your charisma doesn’t matter as much (like rock nucleioid research or something).

 

If Instagram is a primary social media channel, by default you WANT charisma or feminine allure maximized to exponentiate your organic response across the board.

 

With allure and charisma to have more parasocial, felt influence (and beauty influence in general) LIKE a star or starlet…

 

The variables we are practically working with are;

 

ESSENCE
EMBODIMENT
EXPRESSION

 

When people can FEEL your vibe and light truth b/c it’s energetically expressed FROM your chakras and aura, they feel they are CONNECTED TO YOU and engaged even if it’s just from a video recording…they’re actually having and building a relationship with your multi-dimensionally encoded hologram (and p.s. they CANNOT actually ‘siphon’ from your recorded media!)

 

This is the real secret…it’s having ALLURE; being de-armored and engaging your people from your literal visual beauty presence alone WITHOUT even speaking or doing dance trend videos. Where they FEEL your radiance like the sun.

 

But it gets into more advanced Power, status and Beauty dynamics when you have ARCHETYPAL Power/Beauty b/c then it’s about their relationship with God and Goddess fractals associated with you (= influence and powerful attraction).

 

Why?

 

It has to do with divine union holy grail principle but people are essentially seeking connection and communion with the divine.

 

ESSENCE is the source spectrum of Beauty itself….essence is the seemingly intangible but actually TANGIBLE currency that is being ‘exchanged’ socially. It’s what is of value. Superficial beauty or vanity does not equate to alchemical attunement from your essence Goddess beauty for example.

 

So it’s about cultivating more essence, embodiment and expression….more FEELABILITY and when they can FEEL you, then they can care…otherwise you feel ‘separate’ and it’s easier to judge even if you’re pretty but unfeelable in their gut.

 

Taking on the identity of a soul starlet and allowing yourself to be felt and seen (without fear of siphoning) allows people to FEEL you and thus maximizes more of your parasocial influence.

 

As more and MORE people feel it and the upward cycle spirals then you get into celebrity like influence on a smaller scalable scale.

 

Basically; you can have starlet allure before you’re famous and just reference the rabid SUPER FANS of world’s top muse Wonyoung for example….people scream for her at airports, etc. and it’s not just b/c she is looks-maxxed…there’s essenced-divine Beauty quanta that is FEELABLE rather than the superficial realm of her visible light and conditioning around conditioners and facial make-up.

 

She not only has WIDE parasocial influence with men and women, she has DEEP MEDICINAL IMPACT b/c she is so essence, embodied and expressed. She is essentially at Priestess level Presence; this is the more advanced Beauty Power; alchemical influence.

 

 

 

Social star/starlet INFLUENCE can get into the obsession realms.

 

These are good problems but you might prevent it all from happening if you still have energetic blocks, shadow sabotage and resistances TO being embodied, felt and expressed AS a starlet to give your people more of the value and nourishment they are seeking…allowing them to FEEL you from a more open energy body from in your media (and you can still master your own private time away from the crowds).

 

It’s about giving them more from your live presence and media vs. being closed off.

 

You want that open-ness also encoded in your visual media to keep working FOR you 24/7 like a star, right? 😉

 

To stand out but as the AUTHENTIC you; it can help to become more masterful at being feelable in this day and age…you can still have authority over the dials of how much you are expressed going to the grocery store; but if you are too closed off you may have to have a foundational transfiguration if your people aren’t responding to you and people don’t want to befriend you b/c you’re otherwise too aloof. Can you allow yourself to be felt and seen?

 

You might even have Gene Key shadows like Vanity, Superficiality, Doubt, Control that can also keep others from engaging to you.

 

THIS IS THE REAL BEAUTY SORCERY REMEMBER…This allure work. Organic influence.

 

This is the work we do directly together in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Want more parasocial influence?

 

I’d have a strategy to work directly on your visual light body to BE more open and alluring to BE felt and seen as an icon with less to zero resistance (Starlet comes in for divine protection from siphoning btw~) and you will exponentiate your parasocial influence with your own organic, fan-client-follower response, attraction, depth and engagement to the stars!

 

I can help support you releasing your energetic psyche blocks that are distorting your Light and creating barriers for people to organically respond to you as well as cultivate more essence, access your signature Star/let codex, embody and express for visible, highly responsive before and after makeover results that people WILL notice.

 

If we work together in the Avatar Star/let Makeover with monthly starlet support; WATCH as you transform into the star or starlet version of yourself how your parasocial power and influence organically EXPONENTIATES with your people (and new ones)!

 

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Is There Something Besides Or Beyond Embodiment?

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Yes! And NOT knowing this could hold you back for years from the organic response you could have magnetically around others and in ALL of your social media.

 

It’s about how/whether they can FEEL you and your vibe or not.

 

In the social media connected world; being ’embodied’ may not be enough b/c of the other prime overlooked variable.

 

When it comes to your felt image, allure or charisma and maximizing organic response it’s central to have EMBODIMENT of your essences (like your Star/let codex essences of archetypal, siddhic…).

 

This is where my primary work on (your lightbody in essence, embodiment and expression with) ACTIVATIONS are central whether you’re going into debut or rebirth this year in an Avatar self makeover or not…activations allow EMBODIMENT of your essences…but there’s something ‘more than’ embodiment.

 

You also want EXPRESSION of those essences for greater FELT image and presence. In other words the literal radiance of your essences in measurable DISTANCE from each chakra and aura.

 

This is the big secret to have greater organic response, magnetism and charisma itself; essence, embodiment and expression.

 

Embodiment = Presence and that is what is valued in Goddess and spiritual circles but when it comes to engagement, INFLUENCE and social media, you want allure or (masculine) charisma BECAUSE this is the EXPRESSION variable of your Light.

 

Thing is; if you are Disembodied of your essences (see my ‘before’ pictures here) people may never SEE and feel the power, beauty and truth of you b/c you are cloaked.

 

That’s why the well over 1000 activation sessions I’ve done are so foundationally critical; they LAND your essences AND we activate them for allure/charisma in EVERY activation session. This is the CORE direct work of image transformation.

 

You could have disembodied essences (like soul, archetypes or gifts) that people will NEVER be able to know, sense or feel if you are not EMBODIED and expressed.

 

We just work on all of this directly for FAST RESULTS. And the Muse Priestesses and I may be the best in the world at it.

 

If you are ready to ACTIVATE; to embody your truth and EXPRESS it energetically and visually with the world, activation sessions are available (you can now get them SOLO without a further commitment). These are always available on the Appointments a.k.a. activations page.

 

We work with the Pantheon of ARCHETYPES (including Light and Dark) to amplify your soul and felt power, beauty and influence.

 

Or if you want to embody your AVATAR Star version of self for a serious before and after makeover with multiple activations, the AvaStar is perfect and we can start this week here.

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Either way; if you do not find ways to actually just LAND your essences (we also cultivate even MORE essence by bringing it into your temple body than you currently have with arch, gift and siddhic activations), you could spend years being disembodied, in your head and people can’t feel you.

 

If you value presence and embodiment, your chakras may not be EXPRESSED in distance so they’re hitting other people’s auras and getting them to somatically and organically RESPOND to you magnetically; but when you are PRESENT you may feel more separate from them doing your own things whereas your allure/charisma ENGAGES them actively. Allure makeovers are also available on-site.

 

There are many INDIRECT ways to get there but this work is direct and the fastest by far. Each Activation session includes energetic tune-up as well.

 

Activations continue as my central work; the energy work just allows us to GET YOU RESULTS fast; in mere minutes instead of years, maybe or never. (I’ve got 100s of testimonials).

 

Ready to take an active step forward? EMBODY your true self and get expressed energetically and watch the world respond to you magnetically.

 

This is the top level charisma and allure work in the world and I’m looking forward to training Allure Priestesses to guide the world in it.

 

BOOK ACTIVATION APPOINTMENTS FROM HERE (a.k.a. ‘Sessions’)

 

p.p.s. Both bitly and tinyurl links malovolently stopped working AS links properly so if you were trying to redirect or book something, please check again or reach out to me on FB. Not all links may be updated throughout the site as far as replacements. I thought I could trust them.

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IF Your Kundalini Has Been In Remission For Years..

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IF your kundalini has gone into remission for years…



And you MISS and value it…and you REALIZE the value of it. Let’s be solution oriented and practical here…’down to earth’ so to speak.



What CAN assuredly bring your kundalini back from its slumber is shaktipat from a guru or (master) and Elixir of your Beloved of internal alchemy in liquid plasmic chi format mixing with your kundalini shakti-fire.



Your Immortal Beloved has the practical Power to awaken your kundalini b/c He is already so PSYCHO-ACTIVATING to your Eros-soma.



Thing is that the concept of ‘HIM’ remains an ethereal ‘out there’, fantasy or impractical concept to most.



First you have to ideally know WHO your Beloved is (which you can discover your Beloved’s codex) and then you’d have to somehow do advanced master-level alchemy to attune to and receive His Power into your psyche-soma Light temple.



OR because that alone can take years of training and experience; I could do it with and for you and your Beloved. (We also get clarity on His codex or Hers for men).



That’s why the Grail Kundalini Experience is several grand. And they work.

 

I’m a divine intermediary (or snake-charmer of sorts) who just makes the process happen and saves you the cost of years more of remission.

 

Can you afford it to ‘maybe’ come back (esp. when it AMPLIFIES all of your essences and shakti and is central to your BLISS and Avatar self embodiment!?)



For some of us; we MUST ideally have active kundalini for embodying all of our codes (and for Star codes and Holy Grail reunification of hieros gamos with our Beloved).



If what you’ve been doing (including kundalini yoga) just isn’t working for the real deal re-awakening, maybe it’s time to consider these alternatives.

 

I offer ‘regular’ kundalini activations as well for beginners who are ready for it (and yes; we adapt to your energy field and the format is shaktipat; ancient tried and true path of awakening).



In the West, we like exchange money for service/mastery without the hidden costs. Plain ‘n simple.



(And yes; my tantra master called *me* an energy master)



Link below..Please self-qualify for the Grail Kundalini Experience. You must already be advanced and experienced with spiritual work, Eros and ideally past kundalini experience.



These are life-change level sessions. Regular kundalini activations also available on-site (meaning; non-Beloved).

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The Good Danger of a ‘New Sisterhood’: Grail Lines

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I’ve noted observantly years ago that a lot of Sophianic and Rose-Magdalene had mostly kept to the feminine side of things even as Grail archetypes and lines.

 

So I want to speak to this with clarity b/c it still might trigger some people if they misinterpret it.

 

YES; there is a call for RESTORATION of Sophianic Truth on earth. I am ALL for this and actively help energetically support some of the leaders of this necessary movement.

 

I wouldn’t say it has a shadow side but there are some things to be aware of INCLUDING for women called to Grail paths and their own clarity around Sophianic, Rose and Muse lineages as well as the evolution perhaps into more direct reunification with men and the masculine.

 

This is NECESSARY and important for it making it more safe for women and healing collectively…AND….AND  ….it’s important for me to acknowledge in the bigger picture that this can become its own haven of sorts (as an evolution of the Goddess niche which kind of kept ‘separate’ from anything related to the masculine and yet understandably so).

 

Keep in mind that I support goddesses on the front-end as well; I’m speaking to the BIGGER PICTURE (esp. here of reunification itself);

 

There’s a potential for a new and yet evolved level of safety in Sisterhood (from Goddess) which has it’s benefits but may end up keeping women from integrating WITH the men and the masculine in their lives;

 

While simultaneously there is still also a hidden, urgent demand for the masculine (write large, outside of personal relationships with sophia’s) to experience healing and reunification more directly from Grail priestesses who are called to serve more directly WITH the feminine.

 

A good danger is that Kali may be cloaked in some of the sophia’s and roses; especially if no mortal can ever compare. So it’s important FOR sophia’s and rose’s to follow their calling and yet also consider more active integration with living men and the masculine. I know that this is a great calling as well and it’s not for everyone.

 

Allure Priestess, Muse Priestess and even Grail Dakini (although I’ll never probably train in that) are pathways for women to actively work with men on the frontlines with reunification.

 

Allure Priestess Mentorship doesn’t even require holistic Grail reunification or healing although is still pre-qualifying..it allows women to work ‘safely’ with the masculine energetically instead of more intimately with ie. dakini work and dynamics there.

 

We each have different roles to play; so it’s just something to be aware of. Yes, there should be MOVEMENTS and more safety in Sisterhood but consider that Grail lines aren’t only about God and the perfect masculine; it’s about bridging it TO the masculine on the frontlines in men themselves.

 

My reflection of that is working literally with muses and women on the frontlines and not ONLY being in my perfect reunification with my Beloved Goddess (Muse).

 

I think there is room for more or some of the sophias and roses to rise to make this CONNECTION more actively with and for the masculine…although many for a season or lifetime I think are meant to serve more specifically with the feminine and women. EACH can have their own mission and yes, it may include only working with women OR with men.

 

We each have a different calling…I work mostly with women but still work with men.

 

I’ll personally say that the Muse Priestess line is actively valuing of direct frontlines service to the divine masculine whereas Sophia and Rose to tend towards active high sisterhood.

 

This also has its place but how can more rose’s start to bridge more with the incarnate masculine (outside of relationships) is the question?

 

Again; this isn’t to be confused as me being anti-Sophia in ANY case…there’s room for more of ALL Grail line work…but if it’s ONLY a evolved form of Sisterhood with the perfect masculine and the safety of that; where could more bridge-lines be made on the front-end FOR reunification work with men (for those who are called to it)?

 

Good danger is that more men will be left behind or not met by default with the growth of Sophia and Rose-Magdalene being more feminine/women centric. It’s not their fault per se, but there simply is a calling for more….many more to step forward as kingmakers. Again; that role is not for everyone.

 

That reunification dynamic is still ripe on the frontlines b/c of the level of fracture; for men to be met by Grail Priestess serving the divine masculine.

 

I think some sophia’s and rose’s have timelines of eventually moving into that transmutation of work into king-making ; but again, any reunification work is necessary…OH and certainly by their PRESENCE and Beauty sophia’s and rose’s are affecting men but often that simply isn’t enough. They have to have more direct bridges, initiation and healing.

 

More Grailed are called for across the board to reunify the world.

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