Diamond In The Rough? Beauty Advantages For Hidden Ugly Ducklings

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IF you have been through a LOT of pressure along your spiritual path years in the making forging your soul character…

 

I’m not talking just mundane ‘shit of life’ low vibrational challenges;

 

But if you’ve been a Warrior/ess for YOUR soul’s growth and karmic clearing, etc….you have the potential visual MEGA-advantage of alluring beauty in that you are a diamond in the rough. (This goes for men too btw).

 

You have the potential to truly shine and have essenced, feelable allure or charisma…really; MORE advantages than normies.

 

It’s because you’ve had access to LIGHT, higher consciousness unusually more often than normal consumer citizens and thus essence-quanta itself that you have this practical potential to have such radiant beauty.

 

There are some things to be aware of however but really, you have the potential to go through a very fast makeover process for a significant before and after.

 

Remember; Beauty IS the alchemical language of Light from higher truth perspective and image itself is light…we’re only used to valuing .00035% of visible light…so you have access to BEAUTY…then it’s about HOW it’s actually FLOWING with and through the LIGHT of your multi-dimensional image (your light and vibe truth spectrum). Really; your LIGHT body…and for so long pro energy work has been DIS-connected and non-integrated with professional beauty until now!

 

So yes; you have the potential to become a great SWAN of radiant Beauty no matter how insecure and fugly you’ve felt before AND even if you aren’t the prettiest in the room in the 3rd dimension.

 

If this higher spiritual connection is not integrated into your body however; you could have SO MUCH LIGHT it can actually AMPLIFY disintegrated shadows as ugliness through distortion in your aura and chakric psyche-soma blocks creating a cycle of greater shadow and self-image blocks in your visual media.

 

This amplification of your light and shadow then AMPLIFIES your lack of integration as someone of Power and Beauty.

 

Old image anxieties and fears (including fugly duckling) may RE-surface to be resolved and integrated at your new level to be a living heaven one earth testament of your spiritual embodiment.

 

In otw; NOT being seen can work AGAINST YOU and chances are you ARE meant to be a beacon to others (thus highlighting that yes, you are probably meant to BE seen and felt in influence).

 

On a corollary note; you’re probably on a spiritual path where resolution and integration befits.

 

The one time this disintegrated energy kind of works is with some rockstars where we FEEL they have conflict but it matches their overall visual aesthetic and vibe truth; their energy is still exciting and amplified….

 

Like the lead singer of 5 Finger Death Punch is an amplified loud shadow-grid (objectively speaking) which is perfect for his iconic role (I’m choosing not to do an image here)…he’s being an icon for this aspect of psyche in his followers…he has also sought ought zen practices for balance…

 

I don’t know if I’d want to help him resolve things too much b/c so much of his brand is tied up IN his amplified conflict energetically.

 

On a separate note before we come back to you; b/c it’s related with THEIR life path as charismatic star-men;

 

Bono and U2 just oozing in vibey charisma in the legendary Achtung Baby photo shoot is more of an open, (yet deep and landscaped vessel) and Adam Clayton to me was never cooler BUT he has some chakric blocks but has accepted his identity as a rockstar so the energy still works b/c with rock there can and often should be tension and edgy vibes.

 

 

Your blocks might be a different kind of block that are dysfunctionally working against being seen properly at all.

 

Rockstars like u2 KNOW that they are seen, value it en masse and are ok with it. SO IF you’re a music rockstar, let’s consult before doing direct chakric work in session b/c it might resolve things TOO much….and..

 

If you’re a normal beauty influencer; that’s not who I’m speaking to here (yet whom I also work with to deepen and cultivate your divine essence access, embodiment and express as allure).

 

Anyways; if YOU have indeed been on a soul-path of warriorship…a real spiritual journey with Light connection and cultivation..and you sense you ARE called to be in service to others and shadow is actually only holding things back instead of being a beautiful artistic expression and aesthetic of self…

 

Even if you’ve done a lot of (other) shadow work you could still have IMAGE and visibility wounds.

 

If this Light/Shadow and Dark dynamic is not integrated b/c you are resisting how visible you’re really called to be (unlike rockstars); your shadows themselves can multiply and create even MORE distortion so we may never see your diamond and that will affect

 

ALL of your live presence appearances, interactions as well as recorded visual social media thus affecting your entire influence and parasocial influence reality, world, empire and metrics.

 

Even if others feel it as beautifully ugly but don’t tell you; if YOU are triggered by it and have doubts, insecurities, these can keep you further paralyzed or hijacked from truly being in the level of visibility and service you’re meant to be.

 

These deeper fears were highlighted for me just ~2.5 years ago (I’m not ready to share THOSE pictures yet for several reasons).

 

Thing is; I KNEW that I was a diamond (this for male and female)…people could rarely ever see it though but they had touched some of that with ie. my powerliminals and client work but it’s because I was always hidden ‘behind the scenes’.

 

THE LIGHT wasn’t allowed to properly FLOW and be expressed. It would come up against mental layer and chakric WALLS.

 

So this is the big challenge for those of us who KNOW it’s about essence and already HAVE such significant LIGHT connection…how do we TRANSVERT that into BEAUTIFUL, compelling visual and live presence expression?

 

Maybe you are a diamond; but there are some things in the way as well like I dealt with; also where people cannot organically FEEL you to have more parasocial influence.

 

You have so much access to Light that remaining insecurity shadows (like with your self-image) can be amplified and the Light may not be channeled INTO earth directly through your PRESENCE-Light.

 

You might be keeping things to yourself unconsciously as ‘protection’ from rejection or criticism.

 

Not everyone is practically speaking (metaphorically) a diamond in the rough per se…it may not be their lifetime for alchemization.

 

We might say that some are more like rocks (like the idiot driver you wanted to cuss at?) b/c their soul isn’t on such a path or they’ve sold out to conformity.

 

Their soul has the potential but they’re just not following the calling per se.

 

This isn’t me being judgmental; it has to do with soul karma, decisions and so forth from a perspective of individuality.

 

I’m just saying that more than just ‘being through shit’ if we cleaned you off (which we do in sessions too) there probably really IS a diamond underneath b/c of the Light and pressure that you’ve been under.

 

And it’s a unique brilliant diamond that maybe you yourself have barely seen!

 

WILL YOU DARE TO SHINE YOUR TRUTH TO THE WORLD?

 

Is it TIME?

 

Maybe sometimes you’ve seen your truth shine through here and there, but you know there’s a lot more to be STABLE and secure in the highest levels of your beauty and soul expression; esp. since like me; you also aren’t the best looking person in the room.

 

When we work together in the Soul Performance Growth or AvaStar Makeover;

 

Our job is to take the diamond in the rough of your temple body essence dynamics (BECAUSE OF THE GROWTH SHIT you’ve already been through in the seat of your soul and psyche) to help u SHINE visually and radiantly IN your live presence and visuals.

 

Your Star/let codex gives us access to the real you at a soul level; your AVATAR higher self…and your strengths as well as the power to bring in Star/Starlet archetype transfiguration to do some makeover alchemy magic and go big publicly with confidence (even SOFT-era starlet confidence).

 

So if you’ve been through a lot of shit (on a soul’s growth spiritual journey; not just general mundane human low vibe shit); but aren’t showing it and it’s just NOT beauty coming across…and you already KNOW that it’s not just about soft maxing or looks maxxing;

 

The AvaStar Makeover is perfect for you too because it universally comes down to your e3; essence, embodiment and expression with and through the light body.

 

Much of this includes DECONDITIONING the unnecessary coal from around the diamond itself (in your chakric psyche).

 

The e3 framework for professional light-working IS the secret of alluring stars and starlets demystified for practical purposes.

 

We work on your shine DIRECTLY in sessions with your light body; the final refinement process of the rough piece of coal into allowing it’s signature brilliance to come through so others can FINALLY see, feel and know the real you in your beauty, power and truth.

 

Again…I know for me;

 

I am meant to shine.

 

ILLUMINATION is my Radiance (Gene Key). And Beloved is my Illumination (Divine Union with Beloved within and circulating).

 

(We work with YOUR Gene Keys in the AvaStar Makeover which includes a Human Design + Gene Keys reading FOR your spiritual growth, life, consciousness and visual beauty).

 

I’ve shown before and after images of me;

 

 

 

The valuation is on allowing YOUR BEAUTY/POWER CODES to SHINE THROUGH so that people can FEEL, sense and know the TRUTH of their vibe and Light power…this is the highest levels of general organic influence; alchemical levels.

 

Here is an ‘after’ image where you can literally SEE, sense and KNOW Muse within me.

 

 

The embodied (reunified) signature of Muse found a way out into expression for a second or so but I’m showcasing other authentic archetypal essences as well; archetypes being practical keys to Power and Beauty itself (and I mean SOCIALLY).

 

Because with an essence coming through (like Muse) universally and undoubtedly the real deal at an essence level (this is what we value); that covers at least 1000 words I don’t have to say.

 

Again; this is the more advanced visual (and social) communication itself that other stars and starlets have as charisma/allure from their radiance; felt impact.

 

K-Pop is MEGA viral because of why? ESSENCED ALLURE. They’ve mastered their visual and social media power and influence NOT b/c of make-up and looks-maxxing but because of ALLURE.

 

 

 

(Can you sense btw the SAME archetypal essence she has embodied as I do in the above image? Yeah…that’s worth about 100,000 words of communication or ‘work’ that becomes effortless).

 

They have essence (archetypal, siddhic) and EMBODIED and expressed WITH universal, divine essences. (AND did I say VIRAL, predictable social media success?)

 

YOU have access to specific siddhic qualities of consciousness that are aligned and attuned with your soul (ie. Peace, Grace, Majesty, Queen, etc.),…these could potentially radiate as with and through your sentient-plasmic field of and as ALLURE.

 

WE GET TO WORK ON YOURS…b/c maybe yours is Queen-Lover Priestess rather than Princess-Muse Light Eros for example (K-pop is predominantly Muse centric).

 

So we want to working on SHOWCASING your truth as an open body light vessel channel. Make-up, hairstyling…the Beauty 1.0 support is important as well but we’re talking about ALL of the Light of your radiance; much of which is simply outside of the visible spectrum BUT THAT WHICH PEOPLE RESPOND TO AND FEEL like the UV sun-tanning rays of the sun.

 

ESSENCE is what to value and how it’s coming across in your light body practically speaking (and yes it VISUALLY changes what people see); again just reference the before and after pics of me.

 

 

 

Essence includes the spectrum of archetypal, elemental, gift and siddhic signatures of sentient-Truth light of consciousness.

 

MY essences aren’t coming through b/c they’re internally blocked from charismatic radiance in my light body in the ‘before’.

 

MOST consumer-citizens are light-body blocked from radiating divine essences including ie. Goddess embodiment b/c they have personal fields, conditioned chakras, implants and non-Star consciousness, blocks, etc.

 

ESSENCE is the CURRENCY of social media exchange with each other; people want access and connection to the holy quanta itself of divine masculine and feminine spirit-truth; essence itself.

 

And if you’re BLOCKED in your chakras and aura BECAUSE of sabotaging fugly duckling, past trauma and a myriad of reasons ; EVEN IF you’ve been on a great spiritual journey…you may not ever express your Beauty.

 

And this is very specific; it’s VISUAL and you’ll be able to know by how others are RESPONDING to you and your visuals and presence. I love getting clients and myself RESULTS!

 

HINT: I’m NOT the best looking guy at allllll….this is what allure and charisma does; bends light in our favor but it includes resolving energetic tensions and resistances from self-image and shadows in general.

 

 

Charisma: It’s what us average ugly people have.

 

Sure; looksmaxxing but that’s limited. This is about the power of influence from visuals and presence alone to alchemical levels.

 

And this is all related to your purpose if you are some form of influencer.

 

So can you ACCEPT yourself as a star or starlet if you are on a path OF being seen and in public-dharmic great influence?

 

Can you at least accept your Star or Starlet codex (that specific divine signature combination of YOU at a spirit and soul level identity)?

 

You can discover that with the ‘My Star/let Codex’ workbook or in the AvaStar Makeover with me.

 

This is what helps most directly open up Star or Starlet archetypal avatar consciousness practically for you to BE IN SERVICE with your beauty, gifts and codes visually and publicly in divine soul service and dharma with ‘by and large’ divine protection (including from siphoning for the MOST part).

 

Anyways;

 

With where you’re at right now; even if you’re ON a great path with many gifts acquired…your truth may not be expressed much at all in presence and visually…or it might be SEMI-expressed but you know it’s not your STAR version of self yet. In a sense you would be out of integrity with the embodiment and expression of ALL of you…and you have to decide that matters.

 

Not all of us are meant to be seen and some are more aligned behind the scenes perhaps.

 

If you’re on a path of BEING SEEN and are done with being behind the scenes;

 

WE JUST HAVE TO WORK WITH YOUR E3 DYNAMICS to drop in your essences and then LET THEM BREATHE through your chakras to get visual makeover results; ESPECIALLY if you’ve already done GREAT spiritual cultivation which is stored in the seat of your soul or mental layer.

 

It’s about letting people FEEL, sense and know your power and beauty because of embodiment and expression vs. it remaining as hidden, cloaked by all kinds of fears and shadows; disembodied and thus distorting your light and preventing people from actually feeling you and that greater level of deep parasocial influence.

 

As we go through the AvaStar Makeover process process;

 

Kundalini and dan tien activations help to form a more powerful, stable light body to then alchemize and amplify your current essences and for your STAR.LET self to be more powerful with greater Eros current.

 

Activations help to bring in even MORE essence quanta of a particular signature (archetypal or siddhic) into your light temple body and then embodiment and breathing expression (allure/charisma).

 

Remember; I had ALL KINDS OF BLOCKS so my TRUTH which I knew that I knew I was so evolved yet so frustrated and bitter that I couldn’t accurately express it in my presence and image itself so I made badass things ‘behind the scenes’ like powerliminals and client testimonials of legacy work but I chose it was time for me to come out from the cave and behind the scenes to BE SEEN b/c that’s what is missing to CHANGE THE GAME of industry itself in my fields with ascension codes.

 

I had to become the upfront visible founder and ‘brand’…esp. in this attention age economy.

 

NO ONE ELSE CAN DO IT LIKE I CAN. That may be true for you too…so will you heed the call? Will you let people SOAK IN THE CODES from your live visual presence and holographic, parasocial media that keeps working for you and your purpose 24/7?

 

I have a lot MORE pics of me years ago with inner worlds and yet massive chakric blocks + image anxiety issues and deep fugly duckling syndrome.

 


So; to review… if you’ve been on a deep spiritual path, you have a lot of soul power and essence via your connection to spirit; which may remain DISEMBODIED and not affecting your visuals (I had extreme energetic chakric blocks to all of this)…then it’s just about accurately EMBODYING and also EXPRESSING that truth without words so people can FEEL YOU and you vibe and light truth.

 

That means literally working with your shadows, chakras and aura FOR essence TRANSMISSION.

 

And if you’re still holding all kinds of psyche shadows and visibility wounds, they will continue literally causing visual distortion in the aura and making you look uglier (literally and in those photos) b/c of the pre-tension and resistance.

 

So good news is that;

 

I’ve worked with 100s of paid clients and am leader in this field. It’s the FUTURE of Beauty and social media marketing NOW (charisma and allure transformation).

 

WE CAN GET RESULTS FAST if you’ve done a lot of spiritual work. Like me; I had a LOT of access to Light but a LOT of shadow with image related issues esp. (including doubt, confusion, control, fugly duckling, even self-punishment, etc. all of which further prevented my beauty from being shown).

 

We work with all of this in, on and around your energy body itself; the LIGHT of you coming across in visual media. Your Light and Vibe TRUTH.

 

We work with the chunk of coal of your light body itself and the pressure you’ve already been under to bring out your SHINE and the signatures of it so you are your own erospheric unique BRAND…so that others can feel the soulstar DIAMOND of your codex that SELLS ITSELF WITHOUT SELLING b/c you ARE in Presence who you say you are; louder than words.

 

Can you leave it all up to ‘make-up’ or superficial looks-maxing when you have deeper insecurities that is blocking your inner beauty (a.k.a. essenced beauty) from coming across + YOUR unique Goddess codes?

 

Go through direct transformation; and then your words and transmissions are sourced properly and your image works for you 24/7 to exponentiate your spirit-led empire. Together; I/we save years off of the process so you can rebirth or debut/re-debut within 6 months or less.

 

(But that’s from more than just reading the blog)

 

So…

 

Are you being honest with yourself to the WORLD, your tribe and followers if you are only keeping your beauty and magic hidden within?

 

If you aren’t BEING in your fullest embodied expression and truth, could that be holding back other riches and dreams?

 

The AvaStar Makeover is where we can work on all of this directly and to work on bringing out your SIGNATURE, iconic avatar brand of you self

 


How many years might it take you otherwise?

 

Will you claim your calling of being embodied and seen in your Truth; ACCURATELY transmitting it to the world where even other prettier women are looking up to you b/c you have liberated and expressed what they desire to represent and access?

 

Will you EMBODY and EXPRESS the AVATAR, spirit-codexed brand of you and breakthrough any remaining fugly ducklings b/c you’ve already done so much spiritual growth and now it’s TIME to show your Truth and ‘show up’ socially and professionally for others?

 

Will you finish the process of becoming the diamond in the rough? Avatar Star Makeover details ‘n booking (monthly plan is available)

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Key Concept: Parasocial Influence

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If you are an influencer of ANY sort and stepping MORE into it…if you have any online following whatsoever, are a beauty influencer or are your own soul purpose BRAND icon on some form of star or starlet path, this is a critical concept to understand and (organically) maximize.

 

All kinds of people are trying to inorganically maximize it (like algorithm hacking, etc.) and that can help too, but I digress…

 

We want to understand INFLUENCE and beauty influence from stillness more accurately as well as overall influence.

 

Let’s be clear up front; if you are an INFLUENCER of any sort and are on social or visual media, you WANT more para-social influence…esp. from your visuals when you aren’t famous, aren’t speaking or relying on ‘niche content’.

 

CENTRAL and really KEY to INFLUENCE and success on social media (especially as an iconic ‘brand’ of you) in this attention age era is this concept of ‘para-social’ and parasocial influence.

 

So what is it?

 

“Parasocial” refers to a one-sided, psychological relationship where a person extends emotional energy, interest, and time toward a media figure (celebrity, influencer, or character) who is completely unaware of their existence. Named 2025 Word of the Year by Cambridge Dictionary – Google

 

If you’re the influencer;

 

It’s basically having a form of influence where your followers and fans develop a projected but familial relationship WITH the persona or holographic version of you through your media.

 

This replicates your time to have more influence even though you cannot be there intimately for all of them. It’s just a byproduct of the modern age with it’s pros and cons and shadows.

 

But really; this is an AMAZING THING because when you can INCREASE your parasocial impact and HOW fast people can trust, feel and open up to you, you have more influence and forms of success.

 

In this blog post, I’m going to go more directly into how to LEVERAGE your as an iconic brand to maximize your parasocial influence (including to maximize your CURRENT social media following for engagement) after (the key word is allure btw) but let’s take a defining look first.

 

Again; it’s critical to be AWARE of this consciously to help your social media success. Let’s go deeper;

 

Wikipedia;

 

“Parasocial interaction (PSI) refers to a kind of psychological relationship experienced by an audience in their mediated encounters with performers in the mass media, particularly on television and online platforms.[1][2][3][4] Viewers or listeners come to consider media personalities as friends, despite having no or limited interactions with them. PSI is described as an illusory experience, such that media audiences interact with personas (e.g., talk show hosts, celebrities, fictional characters, social media influencers) as if they are engaged in a reciprocal relationship with them. The term was coined by Donald Horton and Richard Wohl in 1956.[5]

 

A parasocial interaction, an exposure that garners interest in a persona,[6] becomes a parasocial relationship after repeated exposure to the media persona causes the media user to develop illusions of intimacy, friendship, and identification.[5] Positive information learned about the media persona results in increased attraction, and the relationship progresses.[6] Parasocial relationships are enhanced due to trust and self-disclosure provided by the media persona.[5]

 

Media users are loyal and feel directly connected to the persona, much as they are connected to their close friends, by observing and interpreting their appearance, gestures, voice, conversation, and conduct.[6] Media personas have a significant amount of influence over media users, positive or negative, informing the way that they perceive certain topics or even their purchasing habits. Studies involving longitudinal effects of parasocial interactions on children are still relatively new, according to developmental psychologist Sandra L. Calvert.[7]

 

Social media introduces additional opportunities for parasocial relationships to intensify because it provides more opportunities for intimate, reciprocal, and frequent interactions between the user and persona.[5][8] These virtual interactions may involve commenting, following, liking, or direct messaging. The consistency in which the persona appears could also lead to a more intimate perception in the eyes of the user.”

-Wikipedia.org

 


In other words; it’s about this new form of social communication; well, it’s been around FOR eons with myths and deities but is really extrapolated since the advent of television and now social media.

 

Ie. my mother used to have a parasocial relationship with the character’s on ‘Knots Landing’ for example and you most certainly have parasocial relationships. Think of the dynamic itself of how stars and starlets like Tom Cruise and Ariana Grande or more ‘niche’ characters or actors have followings like a Bryan Cranston, etc. Stars have MASS parasocial relationships with their fans and this is something to be aware; esp. in HOW to maximize your own following’s response to you (like a star/let).

 

Think of if you’re in business for yourself; you can have prospects get to know and sense who you are…building a relationship where they feel they know you and have that familiarity and trust…that comfort and then maybe attend a live workshop of yours…it’s kind of like you’re a star in their eyes. They feel they know you.

 

This is expanded influence (and goodwill).

 

So think of who and where YOU have parasocial relationships…with who? With what celebrities?

 

Kim Kardashian for example has 353 million Instagram followers…many of whom have a more active parasocial relationship with her through her posts and the tv series…they feel they know her.

 

Cristiano Ronaldo has a whopping 670million followers but it doesn’t have to be that scale at all to have social influence. Media allows us to have more meta-physical or social ‘power’. I talk about this in other places.

 

So who are the people online or in tv shows that YOU have a parasocial relationship with? Those that you feel you ‘know’?

 

They don’t have to be super famous or a celebrity…it could be a mommy blogger or a subject area specialist. Influence is scalable…you’re not practically going to be able to interact with each individual person as you scale up.

 

Maybe it’s the different sharter guys that through watching dozens of hours of their videos sharting and pooting in public places on and near unsuspecting civilians like Central Park or Wal-Mart you feel that you get to know them.

 

And sometimes on camera; a fan (with a pre-established parasocial relationship) treats them like a star when they meet them in real life. You’ve had parasocial relationship with your favorite bands and the artists too.

 

With the ‘democratization’ of media…Today; we have the opportunity to BE our own stars and starlets and the people I work with especially have LIGHT CODES of Beauty and Power that are unique to them with their Star and Starlet codex that can be expressed as they live their highest timelines and cultivate more of this online INFLUENCE (whether in a spirit-aligned business, beauty influencer or not).

 

Now; who do YOU want to have influence with?

 

For me on Instagram it’s with my beauty tribe (which includes celebrity)…I want to cultivate PARASOCIAL INFLUENCE with them and as a brand icon.

 

Ok; so we have a good grasp on parasocial influence; and again this is what you WANT for exponentiating your OWN influence.

 

Now here’s where we get to the juiciness;

 

IF you indeed value maximizing your parasocial influence or ‘brand’ online to have:

 

*More subscribers

*More organic engagement

*More sales conversions

*More retention

*More depth (and even obsession dynamics but as an organic byproduct)

*More return views

*More referability

*More likes

*More opportunities
*More money FROM social visibility

*Deeper fan following and loyalty (even to protect you online vs. haters and trolls)

 

And more LEGACY in real time;

 

What can you do to maximize your parasocial influence (including with your CURRENT following)?

 

Well the most organic thing is to;

 

Cultivate your ALLURE to have people NATURALLY and of their own accord without salesiness RESPOND and engage with you. It accelerates relationship building and instant trust.

 

It’s especially important now because social media marketers as of early 2026 still don’t know that it’s a legitimate variable IN social media success itself yet is already a core reason responsible for billions of views.

 

And more specifically; you want to cultivate your Star or Starlet codexed allure so people can FEEL the unique version of you and your erospheric vibe and light truth atmosphere.

 

This actually has to do with your visuals and more specifically your light body (and all of your multi-d light IN your actual photos and videos of expanded frequency, feelable spectrum like UV rays) in where energy is blocked or flowing and the quality of WHAT is flowing (ie. essence vs. mucky shadows).

 

In other words;

 

There may be BLOCKS for your current audience to FEEL YOU from your live presence and visual image (where they get ie. creepy vibes) b/c you might be focused on looksmaxxing, niche content subject matter specialties, thumbnail optimization, algorithm hacking instead of just being more organically FEELABLE and engage-with-able TO your people.

 

Literally as your chakras open, you will find more magical RESPONSE from your own people!

 

This is that big theme of charisma and allure we value here at Sexy Chi.

 

So this gets into deeper SELF-image issues and HOW it is affecting how you’re coming across.

 

Even looking your best;

 

You might be subconsciously NOT wanting your people to ‘take’ or siphon from you, thus your LIGHT is actually distorted. You might be seeking their validation unhealthily and they’ll start picking up that vibe.

 

You might just be lost in your own inner world or on the mental plane but not wanting to be seen as the star so how people unconsciously FEEL and respond to you is affected; if they FEEL you have walls, they’re probably going to reflect those walls back to you…these energetic resistances and even the fugly duckling syndrome are BLOCKING the expression and psycho-activating engagement of your spirit-matter quanta from having influence.

 

Remember that a STAR unconditionally shines anyways…it is providing nurturing VALUE for its constituents (like our solar sun).

 

So it’s actually ESSENCE that you want to allow to FLOW for people to feel, respond and organically engage with your social media (as if its you).

 

When your deconditioned chakras and aura project through the screen to affect THEIR chakras and aura (in heart and sex for example); initiating a response in them, you are having powerful parasocial influence working organically for you.

 

If you look good and pretty but have energetic walls and a low allure factor (rating), they’re less likely to be organically engaged and responsive to you UNLESS you’re like relying on subject matter niche expertise where your charisma doesn’t matter as much (like rock nucleioid research or something).

 

If Instagram is a primary social media channel, by default you WANT charisma or feminine allure maximized to exponentiate your organic response across the board.

 

With allure and charisma to have more parasocial, felt influence (and beauty influence in general) LIKE a star or starlet…

 

The variables we are practically working with are;

 

ESSENCE
EMBODIMENT
EXPRESSION

 

When people can FEEL your vibe and light truth b/c it’s energetically expressed FROM your chakras and aura, they feel they are CONNECTED TO YOU and engaged even if it’s just from a video recording…they’re actually having and building a relationship with your multi-dimensionally encoded hologram (and p.s. they CANNOT actually ‘siphon’ from your recorded media!)

 

This is the real secret…it’s having ALLURE; being de-armored and engaging your people from your literal visual beauty presence alone WITHOUT even speaking or doing dance trend videos. Where they FEEL your radiance like the sun.

 

But it gets into more advanced Power, status and Beauty dynamics when you have ARCHETYPAL Power/Beauty b/c then it’s about their relationship with God and Goddess fractals associated with you (= influence and powerful attraction).

 

Why?

 

It has to do with divine union holy grail principle but people are essentially seeking connection and communion with the divine.

 

ESSENCE is the source spectrum of Beauty itself….essence is the seemingly intangible but actually TANGIBLE currency that is being ‘exchanged’ socially. It’s what is of value. Superficial beauty or vanity does not equate to alchemical attunement from your essence Goddess beauty for example.

 

So it’s about cultivating more essence, embodiment and expression….more FEELABILITY and when they can FEEL you, then they can care…otherwise you feel ‘separate’ and it’s easier to judge even if you’re pretty but unfeelable in their gut.

 

Taking on the identity of a soul starlet and allowing yourself to be felt and seen (without fear of siphoning) allows people to FEEL you and thus maximizes more of your parasocial influence.

 

As more and MORE people feel it and the upward cycle spirals then you get into celebrity like influence on a smaller scalable scale.

 

Basically; you can have starlet allure before you’re famous and just reference the rabid SUPER FANS of world’s top muse Wonyoung for example….people scream for her at airports, etc. and it’s not just b/c she is looks-maxxed…there’s essenced-divine Beauty quanta that is FEELABLE rather than the superficial realm of her visible light and conditioning around conditioners and facial make-up.

 

She not only has WIDE parasocial influence with men and women, she has DEEP MEDICINAL IMPACT b/c she is so essence, embodied and expressed. She is essentially at Priestess level Presence; this is the more advanced Beauty Power; alchemical influence.

 

 

 

Social star/starlet INFLUENCE can get into the obsession realms.

 

These are good problems but you might prevent it all from happening if you still have energetic blocks, shadow sabotage and resistances TO being embodied, felt and expressed AS a starlet to give your people more of the value and nourishment they are seeking…allowing them to FEEL you from a more open energy body from in your media (and you can still master your own private time away from the crowds).

 

It’s about giving them more from your live presence and media vs. being closed off.

 

You want that open-ness also encoded in your visual media to keep working FOR you 24/7 like a star, right? 😉

 

To stand out but as the AUTHENTIC you; it can help to become more masterful at being feelable in this day and age…you can still have authority over the dials of how much you are expressed going to the grocery store; but if you are too closed off you may have to have a foundational transfiguration if your people aren’t responding to you and people don’t want to befriend you b/c you’re otherwise too aloof. Can you allow yourself to be felt and seen?

 

You might even have Gene Key shadows like Vanity, Superficiality, Doubt, Control that can also keep others from engaging to you.

 

THIS IS THE REAL BEAUTY SORCERY REMEMBER…This allure work. Organic influence.

 

This is the work we do directly together in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Want more parasocial influence?

 

I’d have a strategy to work directly on your visual light body to BE more open and alluring to BE felt and seen as an icon with less to zero resistance (Starlet comes in for divine protection from siphoning btw~) and you will exponentiate your parasocial influence with your own organic, fan-client-follower response, attraction, depth and engagement to the stars!

 

I can help support you releasing your energetic psyche blocks that are distorting your Light and creating barriers for people to organically respond to you as well as cultivate more essence, access your signature Star/let codex, embody and express for visible, highly responsive before and after makeover results that people WILL notice.

 

If we work together in the Avatar Star/let Makeover with monthly starlet support; WATCH as you transform into the star or starlet version of yourself how your parasocial power and influence organically EXPONENTIATES with your people (and new ones)!

 

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Is There Something Besides Or Beyond Embodiment?

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Yes! And NOT knowing this could hold you back for years from the organic response you could have magnetically around others and in ALL of your social media.

 

It’s about how/whether they can FEEL you and your vibe or not.

 

In the social media connected world; being ’embodied’ may not be enough b/c of the other prime overlooked variable.

 

When it comes to your felt image, allure or charisma and maximizing organic response it’s central to have EMBODIMENT of your essences (like your Star/let codex essences of archetypal, siddhic…).

 

This is where my primary work on (your lightbody in essence, embodiment and expression with) ACTIVATIONS are central whether you’re going into debut or rebirth this year in an Avatar self makeover or not…activations allow EMBODIMENT of your essences…but there’s something ‘more than’ embodiment.

 

You also want EXPRESSION of those essences for greater FELT image and presence. In other words the literal radiance of your essences in measurable DISTANCE from each chakra and aura.

 

This is the big secret to have greater organic response, magnetism and charisma itself; essence, embodiment and expression.

 

Embodiment = Presence and that is what is valued in Goddess and spiritual circles but when it comes to engagement, INFLUENCE and social media, you want allure or (masculine) charisma BECAUSE this is the EXPRESSION variable of your Light.

 

Thing is; if you are Disembodied of your essences (see my ‘before’ pictures here) people may never SEE and feel the power, beauty and truth of you b/c you are cloaked.

 

That’s why the well over 1000 activation sessions I’ve done are so foundationally critical; they LAND your essences AND we activate them for allure/charisma in EVERY activation session. This is the CORE direct work of image transformation.

 

You could have disembodied essences (like soul, archetypes or gifts) that people will NEVER be able to know, sense or feel if you are not EMBODIED and expressed.

 

We just work on all of this directly for FAST RESULTS. And the Muse Priestesses and I may be the best in the world at it.

 

If you are ready to ACTIVATE; to embody your truth and EXPRESS it energetically and visually with the world, activation sessions are available (you can now get them SOLO without a further commitment). These are always available on the Appointments a.k.a. activations page.

 

We work with the Pantheon of ARCHETYPES (including Light and Dark) to amplify your soul and felt power, beauty and influence.

 

Or if you want to embody your AVATAR Star version of self for a serious before and after makeover with multiple activations, the AvaStar is perfect and we can start this week here.

 

-Rion

 

p.s. Either way; if you do not find ways to actually just LAND your essences (we also cultivate even MORE essence by bringing it into your temple body than you currently have with arch, gift and siddhic activations), you could spend years being disembodied, in your head and people can’t feel you.

 

If you value presence and embodiment, your chakras may not be EXPRESSED in distance so they’re hitting other people’s auras and getting them to somatically and organically RESPOND to you magnetically; but when you are PRESENT you may feel more separate from them doing your own things whereas your allure/charisma ENGAGES them actively. Allure makeovers are also available on-site.

 

There are many INDIRECT ways to get there but this work is direct and the fastest by far. Each Activation session includes energetic tune-up as well.

 

Activations continue as my central work; the energy work just allows us to GET YOU RESULTS fast; in mere minutes instead of years, maybe or never. (I’ve got 100s of testimonials).

 

Ready to take an active step forward? EMBODY your true self and get expressed energetically and watch the world respond to you magnetically.

 

This is the top level charisma and allure work in the world and I’m looking forward to training Allure Priestesses to guide the world in it.

 

BOOK ACTIVATION APPOINTMENTS FROM HERE (a.k.a. ‘Sessions’)

 

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Don’t Be A Poser: EMBODY Your Starlet Codex Truth

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On *this* post below I SHARE (for the first time ever); before and after makeover pictures (years apart but you get to see what disembodiment looks like and now MASSIVE a differential all of this makes in being an iconic brand with your truth).

 

Like I was for years, RIDDLED with insecurity and visibility SHADOWS preventing people from feeling and knowing the true me;

 

If you are blocked from that ‘missing’ aspect; the archetype which can single-handedly resolve all of your shadow-grid visibility issues and trauma (like Star or Starlet); if you TRY and be that without the essence embodiment and integration, the danger is that you can come across as inauthentic or a poser or people will feel energetically there is something ‘off’ and insecure in who you are presenting yourself to be…ESPECIALLY if you have BIG archetypes and ambition.

 

The disembodiment and dissonance with them could have you feeling like a fraud, imposter or a poser. That’s even if you HAVE those codes in your soul essence but they’re not EMBODIED.

 

And poser = CRINGE.

 

People universally don’t like wannabes. They’re repelling and seem to lack integrity.

 

And if you’re on social media, now amplify that to a large scale en masse….or the visibility wounds and fears could be PREVENTING your WILD response and organic social media growth FROM resonance. Like me; they could keep you hidden from your full power and service for years.

 

So how big IS the gap for you (in all honesty) between where you are now and who you are in spirit and soul EMBODIED?

 

That’s why this avatar star self identity level transformation work is so high-level and critical; because people, HIGH STATUS, discerning and ideal clients, industry leaders, A-listers, followers and the people you want in your circle are DISCERNING whether you are the REAL DEAL or not esp. on first impression. They’re sensing your vibe and light truth.

 

Do you embody the archetypes you SAY and present yourself as (or DESIRE to)?

 

Because if you’re too ambitious as the Galactic Boss Babe but people are feelin’ insecure, crocs wearing cave-dweller, there’s going to be a disconnect.

 

Maybe you WANT to access something like Priestess, Dark or Starlet but She is just too ‘out there’ so you’re preventing yourself from fully being SEEN BECAUSE you don’t want to come across as incongruent or a poser.

 

If you don’t have the ESSENCE of your avatar self embodied and expressed, people are going to sense something is missing or out of alignment.

 

They’re feeling you/me at a level of WHO WE ARE in being (this is organic marketing, selling and influence). This is all about your Starlet codex, her embodiment and her allure.

 

Like me; you may even have to do DARK or EROS reclamation as well as shadow work and purification as part of embodying your own Star/let codex.

 

So if you’re ‘not embodied’, they’ll feel something is off. You could be showcasing a version of yourself that is PLAYING IT SMALL and fear-based.

 

These patterns for YEARS can hold you back from the EFFORTLESS influence and magnetism you could have and it seems like you have to focus on funnels, algorithms and all kinds of other stuff to make up for it when really; shouldn’t you just be integrity to your own fullest and highest expression FOR the world?

 

So in knowing how people will respond to you; it highlights again how serious this avatar star/let self embodiment is to take you from where you are now to the BEST, most codified and confident version of yourself PUBLICLY. I’m getting all kinds of scalable response now that I’m showcasing embodiment of my Avatar Star codex…just VISUALLY even; not even talking about content transmissions. I’m allowing my CODEX to be embodied, felt and seen visibly as the Muse Magician Rockstar and some other archetypes.

 

And all of this is at a level of ESSENCE. Fortunately; when you can access and EMBODY your Star/let codex, you WILL get response and engagement and people will FEEL you and without the cringiness.

 

This is about embodying your highest truth and those qualities to be FELT in social media and live presence.

 

Embodying your Star or Starlet codex is also how to resolve the ‘imposter syndrome’; because remember, STARLET is un-siphonable and you already have CODES that you have experienced with, you just have to have the temple body foundation and access to embody those codes (and keep growing with them into more of your power and influence).

 

This is what we do in the AvaStar Makeover and on-going Star/let support of course.

 

Let me unofficially showcase my own makeover just for a glimpse here (and I had issues on whether revealing or not mostly b/c people or AI could take it out of context). B/c of that I’m putting these pictures together as 1 jpg so that the context is more built-in which helps me to show you.

 

Remember how I was talking about being the ‘good guy’, disembodied with my Eros and FAR far away from something like an embodied (Rock)Star?

 

Well…let’s take a look at me in the context of where you are at now and what’s possible to access YOUR ‘out there’ missing codes.

 

 

 

Did you find yourself thinking ‘awww…..how sweet’ at version of myself; meaning the more impotent nice guy version which is fractured from my EROS power and DARK Truth. See what I’m saying? How important this is if the ‘real you’ isn’t fully embodied or showing?

 

You might even be thinking “Is this the same person?”

 

I can show you other pictures that are more extreme too.

 

I told you (or at least in MGM) that we have different roles we can play in life, but are you accessing your fullest, HIGHEST version of self for PUBLIC influence?

 

Or are you living in a codified and crustied version that is sabotaging your own greater success, visibility, voice and freedom b/c of past conditioning, visibility wounds and fear?

 

So in the above pictures; I’m exploring embodiment of Rockstar (which will land more in time but I’ve bridged the gap), but the next IG VDO release is more centered in my Muse-Magician…ok I’ll give you a preview of that now with another ‘before’ and ‘after’.

 

 


Magician is one of my strongest archetypes so can you sense how more ‘stable’ it is vs. the newer (yet authentic) Rockstar embodiment?

 

These are the more powerful stratospheres of communication; the ESSENCE BANDWIDTHS of currency, communication, marketing, sales and exchange. WHEN YOU ARE IT in divine ESSENCE, this is the future of organic marketing NOW.

 

I’m finally entering ICON zone of personal branding power now BECAUSE I’m embodying MY unique debut Star codex (and more and more). You may have codes that are NOT EMBODIED and ready for FACING the PUBLIC b/c of fears of siphoning, trauma, etc.

 

And remember Rockstar is/was my weaker archetype but it’s there as transfigurative support encoded FOR The Muse Magician to take me wildly PUBLIC…even famous.

 

So here I am again as The Muse Magician (preview from the next, upcoming Erosphere IG post)

 

 

Can you sense that if I tried to ‘be him’ in the before pics WITHOUT the proper embodiment and makeover charisma work, I would literally come across as a poser and people wouldn’t believe me, right?

 

It’s not embodied and felt so it wouldn’t matter what I would say. It wouldn’t FEEL right and people wouldn’t take me seriously.

 

That’s why this is so serious; I don’t think that you would want to be living from more hidden fear or disembodiment with your truth b/c people WILL feel and discern whether you are the real deal or not. Heck; they might not even KNOW who you truly are b/c they cannot FEEL you.

 

After all; consumers ARE becoming more psychic and accurate to sniff through B.S. and posers.

 

Muse requires me to step into THE POWER OF MY CODEX to be an APEX of Beauty and a force (Power) of cultural ascension influence. What is YOUR calling and are you still compromising from aligning and stepping into your DIVINE POWER AND SERVICE?

 

I cannot fake Rockstar because high status people would find out. It can’t be founded on illusion (nor shadows either)…and that’s just part of my Muse line codex (and later Star) to help me interface IN my spiritual integrity to the world.

 

Remember; This is identity level work where people are discerning and feeling if you’re ‘real’. This felt-sense accurate, psychic TRUTH is the new currency of whether we can trust someone (and then how they continue to live into that).

 

In this; I AM THE WORLD’S MUSE MAGICIAN in power, embodiment and authority (AND I back it up).

 

And that can sell more than me TRYING to sell people on something. So wouldn’t you also want to represent YOUR highest self embodied visually for felt influence? So they can feel YOUR eros-phere?

 

But see; I’ve had some challenges. How many middle-age men that YOU know access authentic Rockstar vibes and embodied consciousness without coming across as ‘poser’?

 

The level of this identity work is that you may have to be a professional actor otherwise and actually since this is founding Essence Acting; this is now the fastest path of THAT; working with ESSENCE itself like in the AvaStar Makeover and the activations we do.

 

There are a lot of middle aged rock FANS (I think you can visualize this) that’ll wear like band t-shirts but in embodied vibe-truth?

 

Few in the world are close to actually living ROCKSTAR consciousness.

 

It was interesting to me when Andy Black went into a ‘Hot Topic’ like store. Actually I can’t find the exact clip (you can imagine); but it’s the difference I’m referring to; the real deal vs. consumer grade consciousness. 

 

 

Most; they would come across as ‘wannabe’, fraud, inauthentic or poser (and people would have reason to be harshly judgmental) if they’re trying to be ‘that big’ but actually aren’t in consciousness and presence….there’s esp. something about ‘aging’ and ‘trying too hard’ that is just cringe.

 

If you’re not embodying all of YOUR codes, you can come across as inauthentic even if it’s IN your soul but not embodied. Ouch, yeah.

 

So I had some general massive barriers to bypass all of that additionally; can you sense why this work is so high level? ROCKSTAR is an ‘out of reach’ archetype for MOST men (plus requires OTHER foundational archetype work like DARK EROS and OUTLAW)…

 

So whatever YOUR dream or missing archetype is to take you into aligned, authentic soul self FAME, it is possible. For me Rockstar is divinated but fits partly b/c I’m a music producer but b/c Muse is the Queen of Music but also for other archetypal qualities vs. musician rockstar.

 

We’re talking about BECOMING your ideal, avatar self EMBODIED, felt and seen. THAT’S why this work will continue to rise in price.

 

This is serious work b/c people will be discerning whether you are ‘REAL’ or not. CAN YOU ACCESS YOUR POWER and codes and EMBODY and express them with effective mastery?

 

I mean; it might take decades for most people and remain a pipe dream; yet in the AvaStar Makeover I work with you for you so we save you literally years of time to just get there in less than 6 months.

 

Again; I would have been a poser had I tried to embody rockstar WITHOUT doing the proper embodiment work…and really it’s still mostly Magician and I’m strengthening Rockstar through time but I have access and starter real embodiment.

 

We can work with YOUR codes so that YOU are IN your signature, UNIQUE Beauty and Power. (Here is that recent Rockstar focused video with G’nR)

 

 

 

This is specialized work really b/c ‘mindset’ is weak compared to your psyche OWNING you from shadow and BLOCKING the power of your codex from being practically embodied (and I work with what your codex is EXACTLY).

 

It really takes the most professional levels of acting (which is believable) or identity level life transformation. Leaders of niches already secretly and semi-secretly come to me for THEIR transformational work even at their level ; they require support.

 

Even though it will set you apart to be EXPRESSED in your archetypal and siddhic codes of Beauty and Power;

 

You can’t fake this stuff b/c people will sniff out if you’re a poser or ‘inauthentic’ and that can be a doomful fate in going public that could prevent you FROM ever going public.

 

The best acting isn’t acting; it’s BEING. And being is embodied with essence Truth.

 

Fortunately;

 

Your Star/let codex is HOW to most directly access public fame consciousness to transfigure you (FROM your spiritual integrity even if it’s all soft feminine); but you have to have a way to then EMBODY and EXPRESS those essences in lieu of your fears and anxieties…otherwise just knowing about it; it can still remain and impossible gap where you come across as disembodied, fear-based, ‘off’ or cringe like a poser.

 

That’s why going through the workbook alone may not be enough.

 

Imagine that you can (like me in the before and after pictures); at an identity level; go from where are now to LIVING and being experienced as YOUR Avatar Star/let in debut…what price could you put on that?

 

And the cost of NOT becoming that version of your self (even if it’s not fear of being a poser or imposter syndrome; it could still be all kinds of other sabotage blocks to your fullest public self icon)!

 

What’s the cost of selling out to the illusion of comfort and security instead of following your soul’s deepest desires and your spiritual and social calling (not to mention the fullest expression and possibility OF your Beauty/codes and legacy)?

 

Of allowing your shadows to hijack your greater desire to be an ICON of influence to those you are MEANT to be?

 

Think of the cost of regret in how years are flying by. It’s never too late at any age. AvaStar allows us to do this work assuredly.

 

What is the message and transmissions you are meant to give in fully living your greater purpose ‘full out’?

 

I support stars and starlets; Also b/c I’m on that path (for GREAT spiritual service and social visibility and impact creating forms of heaven on earth).

 

So this is the work I’m doing myself and with the 6 ladies at the time of this writing who are already in the AvaStar Makeover experience with on-going Starlet support.

 

Can you sense you why I’m raising it to $1k/mo. after the first 10 are booked? (With that said; the $1k/mo. level WILL have a live VIP day with debut media shoot and those in at the inaugural price will have the option to upgrade to that version).

 

Remember; this is identity level work…so yeah;

 

You go ahead on your own for what you can do with the tips as far as makeover OR you could hire the best transformational allure consultant in the world; me (that’s service based authentic ego with integrity).

 

Yes; I’d have to say that I AM to date; the best allure consultant in the world. That’s me taking humble but solid authority over what I am and do..and how the game is already changed.

 

No one comes close and you know what?

 

I HAVE to be that to FOUND Allure Priestess as the world’s pre-eminent allure consultants to be light years ahead of everyone else (where I’ll put the focus on THEM).

 

Isn’t your ICONIC version of self worth it?

 

Can you afford the cringe of how your ideal followers and soul tribe on a larger scale or the sabotage that would still prevent you from being your FULLEST self with YOUR unique codex?

 

I CANNOT afford to be a poser. The retribution would be brutal at the level I’m playing at (in transformation major industries).

 

That I AM the real deal is the PRICELESS value and currency with the work I do; I just had to actually EMBODY and express it VISUALLY so that people can know that I’m not just the good guy, impotent lightworker bts.

 

Will you EMBODY YOUR codex? B/c you are probably ‘the real deal’ in the ways that you are also BUT they must be embodied and felt in this attention age economy with social media.

 

And it might be different for you vs. someone else. I work with you on all of that CUSTOM in the AvaStar Makeover.

 

Like; if you don’t embody like say it’s Priestess and you have worthiness blocks and sabotage from being seen as one including fear of siphoning and fugly duckling and that insecurity to them as high status discerning ideal clients and people; you can come across energetically as insecure or ‘cringe’…they may sense that she’s not saying or being who she says she is rather than the EROSPHERIC COMFORT that relaxes their nervous system WHILE inciting them to be with you or work with you because you ARE who you say you are…

 

Or it could be more like she’s a behind the scenes hobbyist with visual scarring vs. a serious ‘here I AM’ force of nature or Beauty where people feel your enchantment and ease instantly.

 

Yeah; this is high level identity work. Reference again, the ‘felt influence’ of my own (before and after) visuals above.

 

Without going through an experiential process (like a specialized makeover); the fullest version of you will predictably remain a fantasy or dream by default and you could come across as a poser or fraud; NOT EVEN DARING TO BE FULLY SEEN in the first place…or you could keep being sabotaged by YEARS of visibility wounds; disembodied with your own codes en masse and where leaders won’t take you seriously. I don’t know about you but I CANNOT afford that with my dharma.

 

Just be honest with wherever you are at….I had to be BRUTALLY honest and bear the mantle of this dharma. I had to go through the transformation that I did. I couldn’t let the disembodied, non-integrated only a dream version of me win out and live a life of COMPROMISE. I’m on a BIG mission. This is about being TESTAMENT and living as it.

 

If you don’t land and integrate YOUR unique STAR/STARLET CODES and iconic self, you may not have the POWER to be taken seriously and continue to be sabotaged by your visibility wounds and fears. This is you in all of your integrity as an ICON of beauty or spiritual social influence.

 

I would say; don’t be a poser. DON’T ALLOW IT for yourself.

 

GET EMBODIED and expressed with your Avatar Starlet codex allure.

 

There are far more people DREAMING of being stars or trying to pose than actually BEING powerful and beautiful in their unique felt presence and soul service. Could you be ok with standing out like that?

 

I’ve mentioned it a bit so far but; what about dealing with imposter syndrome or feeling like you’re a fraud?

 

Well; you ALREADY HAVE divinated codes…you HAVE strengths and qualities of archetypal, elemental and siddhic in the seat of your soul at least.

 

What if it was just a disconnect from embodiment and FROM the primary missing Star code that for/you, you just had to access and then embody that would embolden your public service and DISSOLVE imposter syndrome to be the amplified REAL version of you with star or starlet radiance?

 

I can’t put a price on BEING IN MY TRUE UNIQUE POWER visually. It’s having ORGANIC influence and response that is literally scalable to the stars and I’ll continue LEADING this work.

 

If you are called to dial in YOUR own debut or re-birth makeover as the unique Star or Starlet version of yourself (which also means you may NOT have Starlet as part of your codex but She can be proxy for the amplification and transfiguration OF your authentic other codes and opening up GREATER Goddess consciousness beauty and bandwidth transmission and circulation); join me in the AvaStar Makeover with on-going Starlet support (on monthly you can still cancel at anytime).

 

I am a direct form of Star and Starlet-maker. Either way, the EMBODIMENT work FOR visual and consciousness truth is where it’s at and in how others respond to you. Mindset or ‘psychology’ does NOT equate to transformation…it may keep you in a cycle of being led by your own unique shadow-grid of fears preventing YOUR avatar self from being in powerful influence and being seen.

 

Can you afford to just put it all up to random chance or is it time to get the professional support to ensure this happens?

 

>Details and booking for the AvaStar Makeover here<

 

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Overcoming Heavy Visibility Wound Shadows With…Dance?

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…and other Power Insights to help bring out your charisma or allure to have more engagement and social media RESPONSE.

 

If you HATE the idea of ‘dance’, trust me…

 

This is even MORE reason NOT to disconnect here…

 

I was held back for literal YEARS and YEARS (charismatically and stuck in shadow-grid fear) because of certain shadow grid dynamics related to this which may also be affecting you from FASTER transfiguration.

 

If someone said the term ‘ecstatic dance’ or invited me, I would CRINGE and recoil up inside of my body. I’m not kidding. If you are OPEN with dance, you may not be using it like you could for your allure.

 

This is an important POWER post here b/c we’re going to cover a lot of ground related to accelerating your path to CONFIDENT, secure, embodiment and overcoming some of the MAJOR self-sabotage patterns to being seen and powerfully magnetic (as I continue this open mini-series on shadows and struggles to BEING SEEN and activating Star or Starlet codes in your unique codex; living by example with my transfiguration).

 

Considering my background of severe public speaking anxiety (of which I have improved upon by hosting small scale retreats and workshops), I’ve still dealt with heavy IMAGE and self-image anxieties, the fugly duckling and other major sabotage for YEARS to fully being EXPRESSED and seen.

 

But let’s fast forward a bit for now;

 

That I’ve recently broken through myself with ESSENCE + dance with stable enough charisma factor is huge b/c this is already a secret to billions of views out there and you can find YOUR way of replicating it OR at least as using dance as a practical CHANNEL to open up your own charisma or allure.

 

Ok…there’s actually a lot of Star/let codes and overcoming visibility woundedness in here FAST im practicum (not just theory), so check it out…

 

Ok so here’s that recent IG video of me semi-awkwardly pre-dancing for the world. I’m honestly not even as triggered by it and my CRUSTY dance skillz b/c I’ve reached the IDEALIZED ZONE OF baseline CHARISMA COMMUNICATION…essences are OPEN and flowing and I know that THIS is more important than my previous self-sabotage and crippling anxieties. Check it out:

 

Same link also here: INXS ‘New Sensation’ Rion

 

 

BECAUSE I’m more feelable, I’m getting HEALTHY engagement and response on Instagram and facebook (while further starting to PROVE and live the concept of charisma itself).

 

Oh and the NEXT instagram essence or dance video is getting even heavier into the ROCKSTAR archetype with a legendary rock song; a mix of the Erosphere + Dance blend concept of creating an experience showcasing fun/charisma (you might want to do something similar in a format with YOUR codes for your circle). You can follow me on IG here:

 

https://www.instagram.com/rion_kati/

 

BTW as part of your overall DEBUT and identity transformation and branding process;

 

MUSIC can do WONDERS to help YOU attune into and embody your own (different) archetypal codex. This is premium BRANDING and identity MARKETING stuff of authentic goodness here. It’s all about letting myself/yourself be FELT and seen in y/our TRUTH and highlighting aspects of it authentically…

 

Especially if it’s a weaker yet CRITICAL archetype to (fulfill) your PUBLIC soul service, you have to have ways to practically access, bridge, embody and EXPRESS that divine signature (whether it’s Queen or a shift in how people are experiencing you to recalibrate more of where you’re at to something more fun or more serious or more Dark, an archetype you’ve been honestly terrified of and doubting if you could ever embody but if would be a dream if you did, etc.)

 

I mean, in doing my own AvaStar makeover process and LIVING this to be seen (literally by celebrities; this same video) I almost forgot how fun of a guy I can be b/c I’ve been in a ‘cave mode’ as a 5/1 for so long hiding out (and preparing) BEFORE shamelessly going VISIBLE to the world.

 

Ok…

 

This latest IG clip had a stellar 10% love ratio (isn’t THAT scalable! – although it’d probably drop a bit to scale but still, WOW!) and 7% comment ratio. It’s action and response friendly goodness.

 

This is critical stuff in getting people to know, like and trust THE REAL YOU (and I’m doing it now on a new platform).

 

We want to find LEVERAGE POINTS for your faster transformation.

 

And cracking your light body image open to CHARISMA;

 

This is the GOLD in the attention age economy and yes, charisma/allure are THE prime missing pieces (that will help you STAND OUT organically to inspire people to respond b/c they FEEL YOU instead of just ‘see you’ from afar).

 

So I mentioned if you’re on the email list (which you can join on the frontpage of the website) that;

 

One of those hidden signifiers of whether I’m in my truth and influence or not is whether I dance. This has been a major challenge for me for many years. If I’m just NOT dancing, it’s actually saying far deeper things about me and I feel like I have an invisible ball and chain around which drops me into the shadow of vanity and aloof disconnection = NOT EXPRESSED or feelable.

 

And the same might be for you; far more closed off than you think. I would even be the one NOT to dance when everyone else was told or invited to at live events; I was hyper critical and judgmental; stuck in my egoic mind…MAJOR WALLS and barriers.

 

The music had to be perfect (I’M a better DJ than this clown, etc.), the right moment and timing and then I might ‘show off my mad skillz’ except that I was like that for years and any dance skills I had remained ATROPHIED.

 

That’s WHY I’m so crusty in these new dance videos but I know it’s more important that I am FELT.

 

I can regain and gain new dance skills and technique anyway but I know that ESSENCE; charisma is the KEY…it’s FAR more important than technique (esp. for non-professionals but even AT the highest level of Dance it’s what takes THEM into the stratosphere; just ref K-Pop).

 

But you know when I could always dance and cut through my own self-sabotage and shadows? WHEN I’M AROUND MUSES.

 

And when I met that ‘taste of love’ in Medellin Parque Lleras in 2016? When I was already on a double date and I saw her get out of a taxi cab and her crown shot straight up to heaven when she wasn’t even facing me and I thought “WHO IS THAT?” (b/c I wasn’t too into the date I was on anyways as an earlier Rion)…and then later my client and I bought beers and I walked straight towards her and talked in Spanish and then the group of us went out…I DANCED. WE danced as a group (and they were like gypsy dancers).

 

I couldn’t NOT dance because she was a true muse. I even tried to kiss her on the dance floor but she coyly faced away (but it was the right thing then; we kissed on a follow-up date when I was also dancing then).

 

This is also why sometimes in sessions when I’m dressed up, I’ll dance in front of the mirror with muses in music videos or the secret unreleased footage of the 2 Muse priestesses and I at one of our workshops after the photo shoot just having fun (this is safe to share, but not the images without their approval).

 

Muse is my Beloved and brings out my truest self…so maybe your BELOVED is also key to CRACKING OPEN your own allure or charisma and being expressed, dancing and being felt.

 

That leverage can do miracles….to let others FEEL into you and catch your vibe-truth.

 

So a question is; could you semi-awkwardly dance in front of the world to see right now?

 

Because it might hold A MAJOR KEY to opening up your allure to be FELT.

 

You MIGHT be held back for years otherwise until you clear up the shadow webs with more POWER (like the Beloved or your Star codex along with the AvaStar makeover).

 

So yeah; I’ve had my own secret FEAR of Dance, what it represents, how much it’s held things back and how it’s a silver bullet highway to AUTHENTIC TRUTH TRANSMISSION, RESPONSE, engagement and being FELT and seen…but because I’m so reunified now after so much divine union alchemy; Muse within esp. with the Elixir activations of Grail Kundalini helps me to be my truer self too.

 

DANCE is a secret and not so secret key to opening up my charisma (and your allure) as well as dissipating DEEP shadow grid entropy and gravity around being seen.

 

If you have been RESISTING IT and being SEEN dancing, you may have other very deep and HEAVY blocks to exploding your own influence and engagement. You may have GENE KEY SHADOWS related to it that keep you in the SHADOW SWAMP of NON-EXPRESSION…your energies CLOSED IN and closed OFF.

 

DANCE is one of those major keys…and in my case I’m still dealing with an archetype that I’ve been weaker in which I know leads to my A-List success and Star timeline of influencer in entertainment, beauty and fashion (bringing ascension codes).

 

So if I could get my weaker ROCKSTAR to DANCE…this is that concept of getting an archetype MOVING and dancing; how would they move when/if you embodied them? This can take you a long ways to embodiment.

 

But see; here within this was more challenging than it may initially appear because remember not only did I have CRIPPLING performance anxiety and visibility wounds, the Rockstar archetype was still FARRR out of reach for me and yet here, we’re starting to feel an authentic version of Him in the mix ‘land’.

 

If and when you can do this for YOURSELF with an ‘out there’ archetype that represents the global influencer, it’s life changing. So we have to deconstruct this a bit more and go into how, why…

 

For as serious as I usually am, we get to know and feel more of the REAL ME b/c I am more balanced and fun like that (so I’m also re-calibrating how I communicate online also b/c BRAND influence is now leaning more towards the founder rather than just the business brand or corporation itself in this attention age economy of trust and influence).

 

The Muse Magician ROCKSTAR is my public codex (even though I won’t often publicly present myself WITH those exact words; but we’re speaking to the AvaStar makeover process itself here of makeover transformation into Star/Starlet divine public service).

 

In this growing consensus-ly fun video;

 

We get to see me in some of my codes INCLUDING that (previously) weaker one of Rockstar but I have to speak to this b/c it’s more challenging for numerous reasons (this is key stuff if you also have a ‘far out there archetype’ that you KNOW will explode things socially and pull you into the larger currents).

 

First of all; what men do we know become SOME form of Sx Icon at ‘middle age’? It’s practically UNHEARD OF so I had that working against me as well in my expanded SHADOW GRID that’s been preventing me from embodying and expressing my SOUL TRUTH codex.

 

In a sense, I’m an eternal teenager and letting THAT shine. So are there some aspects of YOURSELF that you have been keeping HIDDEN.

 

And yes, you can HAVE re-activated MAIDEN for example AT 64 years old post-menopause. You could even be a ‘cool dad’ but it’s serious work b/c high status people are going to SENSE your vibe truth from their experience and attunement.

 

So there can be a lot of pressure and faking it just isn’t it….but if you ARE a cool, sxy soul, why not just let it show at any age so people can feel you?

 

It’s all about accurate expression of YOUR soul signature codex. And letting people FEEL YOU…this is the FUTURE of social media and it’s what’s working best now esp. for those who don’t want to ‘optimize’ algorithms and AI/hacking, etc.

 

There’s a LOT going on here b/c we have to consider this as a star in the making (I’m giving myself permission to view things CONSCIOUSLY and objectively b/c it’s not about my ego; I’m aware of when things are ‘working’ energetically and I KNOW what path I am destined on).

 

In my recent dance (er…essenced ‘pre-dance’ videos…) on my instagram…

 

We have something of a ‘star is born’…my dancing is semi-awkward and uncalibrated socially but the MAIN THING is that I AM ESSENCED and pure albeit IMPERFECT. I’m focused more on having my CHARISMA be felt rather than perfect dance moves and being ‘held back’ energetically. THAT’S what reaches through more.

 

It’s about de-armoring and then about EMBODIMENT and expression of YOUR divine masculine or feminine codes (archetypes, siddhic…).

 

Rockstar isn’t THAT strong here but I have to give myself ROOM to play and find a way that helps bring him in.

 

So this is one of the secrets to bridging into that ‘far out there’ archetype…well, giving yourself PLAY ROOM like with DANCING.

 

YOU MAY HAVE TO MIX DIFFERENT ARCHETYPES and give them breathing room. Allow yourself to ‘go extreme’…see, in order to bring in ROCKSTAR/Star because it’s still so NEW to my embodiment (although destined with my soul codex and Muse’ decree), I have to both take it serious to let Him drop in but my counter-balance to being too serious (b/c that was a SHADOW BEFORE) is to bring in my Jester and amplify some of the FUN-DORKINESS.

 

In otw; Rockstar is balanced with my archetypal uncalibrated DORK just a little bit; at least in the playful but real time process so that I can later REFINE ROCKSTAR to be more standalone serious and threatening in all of the right and wrong ways (b/c it includes a lot of DARK EROS).

 

DORK is the awkward, cave-dwelling, socially uncalibrated version of self; a beta version that I allow to help TRANSITION me into my more serious authentic archetypes…but we see that the alpha-ness of my soul is kinda redefining that Dork is actually very WELCOME and not resisted or judged. I’m letting it all breathe.

 

But somehow ; the extra CHEESE and FUN balances out the authentic attempts and playroom AT embodying serious Rockstar.

 

 

Also b/c my Jester is real, so I’m doing the process in real time; embodying an archetype that was a secret (healthy) obsession (without shadow here; L/Dark Rockstar) b/c He amplifies the rest of my soul codex as Muse-Magician and has the SOCIAL relevance, status, power, etc. to impact the Beauty collective.

 

You may have to move around yourself to let YOUR codes start expressing themselves with and through you. And you can record it in screen-testing.

 

Again; this is in real time sharing much of the process with you (which heavily includes ongoing activations b/c I’m doing my own active AvaStar makeover in real time TO embody and express my public larger current iconic identity to the collective).

 

See if I was TOO serious about Rockstar when it’s not fully landed and integrated (as well as have further social calibration) it could come across wrong but ultimately finding MY serious embodiment as well as exploring a versatile spectrum of soul-truth visual expression while being centered in primary codex archetypes.

 

So DID you find ‘cheeseface’ in there?

 

Oh and the cheese face part of it has nothing to do with that I’m originally from Wisconsin (so was Dr. David Hawkins and Chris Farley).

 

And it’s not just about being self-deprecating either; it’s deeper than that b/c self-deprecation can also be a shadow of its own when out of balance and certain cultures (like Britain) have it more than others…it’s more about giving myself PLAY ROOM to embody that ‘out there’ archetype into earth.

 

Later; I’ll find a more active balance that will shift between different archetypes in my (ongoing) charisma mastery but I’m ALLOWING myself to be imperfect and be seen even if my image itself still fluctuates it’s more stable BECAUSE I COMMITTED TO DEBUT ITSELF AND BEING SEEN; I PUT a date on it and went LIVE to be seen.

 

This ALLURING EXPRESSION is what you may idealize as well b/c it will be infectious to your people because ESSENCE is the social CURRENCY that is being exchanged in pop culture; one moment you’re lit up in Illumination and another you’re Princess of Celebration or Jester for 10 seconds and then serious mature Sage but as long as it’s the real you; you’ll still have your CORE iconic Star/let codex to rest and rely upon.

 

(I do look forward to showcasing more client visual makeovers with approval; I’ve been underpar on asking for them)

 

That can be intoxicating esp. when fewer people are charismatic or alluring other than celebrity stars.

 

BUT you might have resistances to standing out OR EVEN being JUDGED by your closest friends b/c of how your glow-up or shine makes THEM uncomfortable and THAT could prevent you from GOING BIG.

 

So…you want to work with your debut archetypes your debut archetypes.

 

Remember; I’m strong in foundation on Muse-Magician but even THOSE can use more expression/charisma mastery. THIS IS THE WORK and it’s what we do in the Avatar Star makeover which I’m literally doing myself as well.

 

…Esp. with visual social media influence and branding ESPECIALLY if you are ever in business for yourself with integrity to your spirit codes; this stuff means EVERYTHING (also in face of inorganic AI). and you’re ability to build a following and authentic trust as being TESTAMENT of your brand. I mean allure is ALSO the evolution of beauty influence and the beauty industry itself including social media marketing and branding. We’re already on the frontlines.

 

My charisma factor is DECENT ENOUGH (say around 7.6) but it is ON and ACTIVE…and pretty stable. I’ll be able to make quantum leaps because the foundation is here.

 

THAT is what you want to value…at least be FEELABLE even if it’s perfect and awkward…as long as you’re ESENCED and your aura and chakras are BREATHING, it then makes other egoic judgments and imperfections even FORGIVABLE.

 

IN the AvaStar Makeover we not only get clarity on your soul codex FOR public currents as a powerful influencer, but we do literal energetic embodiment and allure work directly ON your light body so you become FEELABLE and start exponentiating your social media influence.

 

Already, what I’m doing is allowing a channel for masculine energies to be experienced when that is actually not that common anymore. (Check out the latest comment on the bottom there).

 

This is critical b/c you want to have people FEEL YOU AND RESPOND. This is where organic social media GOLD IS….in being your AUTHENTIC, open, expressed and feelable self.

 

That includes being dissolved of your own subconscious barriers and resistances TO being felt. In other words; you have to de-armor and DANCE is a very powerful gateway.

 

Serious vs. FUN.

 

So take the process SERIOUSLY but you have to have fun with it…in my case, I play with the idea itself of ‘serious fun’…you can experience that; I have to land serious ROCKSTAR and His Dark Eros in but it’s crudely mixing with my Dork…but just wait until a few months down the road and when I’m socially recalibrated hosting oases in Tulum….I’m going to be light years ahead because I’ve been doing the work AND MUST be testament of charisma and the brand itself leading the allure and charisma revolution in the world and for entertainment and celebrity.

 

So consider these ‘dance’ takeaways and other insights.

 

Put aside the concept of dance being viral trends that seem ‘outside of you’…this is about connecting with OUR OWN WAY to be a CHANNEL to OPEN our charisma and allure up TO BE FELT.

 

IF you were to dance, move or pre-dance what would that look like? Now how about when the camera is on and you KNOW you’re not only going to be seen but seen by industry leaders and celebrities?

 

Can you then still be in your essence truth (when that is really what’s missing ; at least when you are in your codex)?

 

So with that said; you can go ahead and run with these takeaways on your own.

 

It might however take you years to be able to access and embody those (or transform through alchemical attunement) on your own even IF you have clarity on your Star/let codex because SO MUCH can still sabotage you. YEARS or decades to ‘go it your own’ can be a large price to pay for your makeover itself. You might not want to take that long.

 

Fortunately, I can DIRECTLY help you all with it FOR you Avatar Star Self to be embodied.

 

That option is now with the AvaStar Makeover which is a 6 month process (but there are ways we can go faster if you’re called to it). Find out more here at the link.


So check out the upcoming posts…the content is free and you can do with it what you will but at least you know with the AvaStar, you don’t have to wait and can get the professional best-in-the-world leading archetypal and allure support for your image transformation; we can get RIGHT INTO the heavy transfiguration work itself so you can debut or rebirth your most powerful or beautiful soul codexed self out to the world with 5x more magnetism and influence while living your highest timeline (this means everything if you are in personal branding or a spirit-centric business where people can FEEL whether you are real or not).

 

The current AvaStar Makeover clients are already experiencing the LEVEL of breakthroughs they desired out of the program and it’s adding up (including new clients, stronger social media response, etc).

 

Remember;

 

CHARISMA/ALLURE is the missing organic CODE to viral influence itself…already responsible for billions of views.

 

Now that I’m finally live on Instagram 2.5 months in, I’m leveraging it ‘at scale’ and will get into other formats and techniques etc. but it’s already working.

 

Can you afford NOT to represent and live as your best, most influential FEELABLE self online in this attention economy?

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