In referencing archetypes for YOUR path, if Starlet is one of them you might have some problems down the road b/c MOST modern men would be too insecure to handle that form of power and path.
Does he actually support your visual expression publicly?
If not; such men (most of them) would get unrightfully (in relation to a starlet) jealous and envious closer to near all the time if your beauty starts getting too valued by the collective.
IF you have Starlet codes, a general rule of thumb is to NOT choose a partner whose manic shadow of control is going to be triggered (or envious) by your every move around other men (even if/when you have airtight agreements on boundaries).
He might even be too conservative for your fullest expression and that could end up hampering your own blossoming and cultural influence.
Can your EROS blossom and be seen socially as the healthy currency it is of influence (while maintaining whatever sexual-physical boundaries agreement with him)?
Starlets are different. They’re MEANT TO SHINE and not necessarily be constricted by a Red Pill bros personal triggers to the power of her social influence.
And yet as a starlet, you could still have a loving even DEVOTED monogamy with a detached enough man and solid agreements; one that wants you to thrive knowing that he’s with you.
Probably best that he has STAR Codes.
Just reference MGK and Megan Fox.
Instead of having each other on a ‘tight leash’ where they end up walking on eggshells (instead of being fully expressed and organic) b/c of their partner’s insecurity; they let each other and their EROS shine b/c cultural and social influence is just embedded into THEIR individual and relational codes as stars and a power couple.
Generally; Starlets should be with stars b/c their divine power and it’s necessity to BREATHE and radiate doesn’t match the insecurities of mortal, personalized men; their constriction, jealousy and control.
I’m really not with the mindset of red pill bros and conservative men like Michael Knowles that women shouldn’t be seen as sexual by anyone other than their partner.
The deeper spiritual psychology behind that is ‘control’ over divine feminine consciousness with a guise of moral superiority.
This sex, power and beauty already exists but are we going to be conscious about it or let it secretly own us and try to control it?
There’d be a different level of conversation if I was on the ‘whatever’ podcast, but they’re not ready for that.
Star/let codes just don’t match up with that (including only at least non-porno fans girls or entertainers).
You have to determine if that’s you (a starlet) or not b/c it’s going to be this push pull between you wanting to fly freer and be in your ero-somatic beauty and influence vs. reining yourself in to not trigger him and then living more from fear of his reprisal rather than true sourced power.
In otw for myself, I’d never let a beloved suppress her Starlet codes and physical beauty to diminish her soul impact b/c of my selfish and unwarranted jealousy based on our boundaries and agreement…stars are just cooler and DETACHED.
Again; a Starlet path is not for MOST people. Beauty influences in ALL dimensions. Everything else and security itself comes down to agreement and boundaries.
Also reference John Legend & Chrissy Teigen, Jay-Z & Beyoncé whether you agree with their politics or not; they’re ‘power couples’. Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively, etc.
You could have a beloved partner or twin flame; but then there’s these Starlet dynamics if you have those codes. It could be a cause of a lot of unnecessary drama esp. the more famous you become.
Starlet Herself would WANT her Star-man to be DESIRED by other women b/c she’s secure in knowing that She is with him and vice versa.
These are unique codes that are not for the masses themselves. They are exceptionary.
If you are on a GRAIL path, things matter critically to have a supportive partner (when incarnate).
If you are a power couple, both of you should be in the fullness of your maximal cultural impact and influence.
(It all comes down to agreements and values alignment).
I realize that (although I mentioned Grail Priestess before);
I haven’t put a post up simply dedicated to this important concept.
If you have followed me on (friends only) Facebook for a while, I’ve been speaking to (and leading on) this subject for years now throughout different posts (some of which are on-site here).
It’s the subject of Grail Priestess (and king-making).
There is a growing calling for Kingmakers because of the sexual, social and spiritual FRACTURE between not just men and women but the divine masculine and feminine centered upon Divine Union aka ‘Communion’ itself (which I also cover a lot).
Grail Priestesses play a DIRECT role in all of this awakening for men.
IF you are on a path of divine union that is called to serve the divine masculine with and through men (and not just seeking a divine union partner-king), then you will want to discover my website (which wholly represents the concept); Grail Priestess
From there, you should be able to access the Calling of the Kingmakerpower report that I wrote. I’d go there now if you feel something is calling you to it…there are a lot of rich, dense codes to unpack in that resource which could take you months of contemplation so if you’re getting that urge, now is the time.
I am the founder and guardian of the (world’s first) Muse Priestess lineage.
The world’s first Muse Priestesses will be made public in 2024! I’m also connected with other priestesses and lineages through my FB circle.
We also have the Grail Priestess attunement Powerliminal that can help you contemplate such a Divine Union path of Service…
Ok! Ever since we crowned (the naming of) last year’s Top Muse, I had the idea to do a Gene Key gift and siddhic post on her, so let’s get to it after a quick overview!
We’ll do a quick read on Danielle Marsh from K-Pop group ‘New Jeans’. You can already tell she has the ‘it factor’ or ‘x-factor’ (which is really in clearest terms SIGNATURE ALLURE that engages people…it’s beauty essence emanation)!
Sure she has talent; singing and dance skills, but here we’re referring to her essenced allure and some of those qualities ; which include gift and siddhic light frequencies!
Dani is 1/2 Australian, 1/2 Korean. ‘New Jeans’ has been popular since debut and I’ve referenced in other places that they have a very clear group vibe of Gene Key 1: Freshness (with the siddhi of Beauty).
If you’re new to Gene Keys (which is a more essenced and yin version of Human Design’s yang logoic analytics with a focus on the I-Chings 64 components);
GK is a beautiful, profound and practical method of working with the spectrum of consciousness to transform your shadow frequencies (esp. attuned to YOUR DNA) into gift (service) and siddhic (enlightened) vibe and light-truth qualities not only of consciousness but of essence.
I am a Certified Gene Keys Guide and you can find out more on-site here in places, on youtube or @ Gene Keys(with my referral URL).
Now; This is NOT meant to be in-depth too much (also b/c I just posted over 2 dozen new blog posts and want to move on) and it’s not in audio format;
I simply wanted to reference some of her gift or siddhic aspects in her chart and then bring them into the spotlight.
(Oh; one final disclaimer…we don’t know the exact time of her birth however from past experience when I’ve done charts for people at both ends of the 24 hours, usually 1 or 2 gene keys switches places whereas with Human Design the change might be more drastic. I used 1:15 pm for her birthdate of April 5, 2005. Being a public figure with publicly available information, she is open to performance critique, astrology readings, etc.)
I didn’t plan on showing her whole chart, just parts of it, but it’s just simpler logistically to do so…
(It might be kinda hard to see but…) Oooh, this is sum JUICY goodness!
What’s MOST exciting and interesting to me immediately is that she has the 42 and 32…She has double 42’s. This is the frequency band of CELEBRATION!
The archetypal Muse Herself (of which Dani is a soul fractal of) is already encoded with the Siddhi of Celebration and it’s highlighted as Danielle’s Life Work AND her IQ (personal logos)!
Interesting to note this Musey Gene Key (I also have it as my Culture ;)…is the Gift of Detachment and this Gift is encoded in Star and Starlet codes. Detachment is the ultimate cool and as a public figure is important for so many reasons.
I can speak A LOT to this Gene Key (especially b/c I have it and live in this range of consciousness) and the shadow of expectation but I’ll mention just a few things here.
B/c Dani is already so ESSENCED and otherwise healthy clear as an energy temple; we can start seeing the SIGNATURE vibe and light-truth of these qualities.
Indeed she’s accessed the siddhi of Celebration and it’s PERFECT for her life work…already becoming world famous and a Top Muse…
…to continue on the path OF her life’s work really being encoded in (siddhic) Celebration and it’s what her beautiful exuberant presence BRINGS in still images as well as throughout her dance and performance.
It’s like her soul knew to incarnate to have these qualities especially encoded to her DNA!
She really encapsulates this divine universalized signature beauty essence and this is also why she’s so alluring…a performance artist bringing the ascensionary vibe and light truth of Celebration?
Oh yeah! Her signature embodiment and expression OF the Siddhic Celebration frequency range of exuberant photo-chemical Light radiation – not only provides an escape for most ‘normal people’ but hope for their own ascension by being near her field b/c she IS authentically it (and I think literally one of the best active examples in the entire world of this siddhi).
When her field makes YOU wanna dance, that’s a good thing…such alluring, fotonic beauty!
Because she seemed to have a good upbringing, a lot of her purity, innocence and youth was preserved but she’s on her path and highest timelines. It doesn’t appear she has much shadow consciousness in her field although with other life experience and immersion, things may pop up.
I’m looking forward to see her mature more through time with Wisdom and I mentioned something about that in her Top Muse post where we can see it in an image and she was only 18…she’s an old soul.
She has an Evolutionary path (ooh Line 1) of Veneration. I also have this Gene Key as my IQ and it is NOT the easiest Gene Key to understand.
I’m about 6.5 years into working with GKeys and over 7 with Human Design (thus affecting full-body cellular change in living it). I know this GK well and could speak a lot to it.
(In fact; I even made our first siddhic attunement Powerliminal meditation on the Siddhi of Veneration itself which you can experience here).
There are 64 frequency bands of consciousness with Gene Keys and you can still use and transform with ones that aren’t in your own hologenetic profile (available on the main Gene Keys site).
With an INNER evolution of Veneration (line 1; self and empowerment), it’s about alchemizing the shadow of failures, preserving important things (like values, habits and qualities) and really moving into living in daily life REVERENTLY…like living in temple space everywhere she goes with honor and respect for all living things, people and fans…it is profound divine heavenly gratitude and exaltation.
So even though she is successful now, there may be future challenges or failures in different ways that will teach her Humility (another GKey) and to grow in the wisdom of Goddess and Muse veneration.
To me; she already carries and is open to this siddhic quality itself in her consciousness and light emanation b/c her Celebration is so open…ego hasn’t gotten to her so to speak…her gratitude is so apparent and already she is balanced and humble…the maturity of it could be cultivated more b/c this is a deeper Gene Key than it may seem but she has the open flow of deep respect for her fans which allow them to love her even more and the cycle HEALTHILY continues (although other things, dynamics or scenarios may trigger other shadows).
Her line 4 social IQ when relating with people is best to remain detached as expectations will lead to disappointments but she seems to be allowing her identity as a muse artist to guide the living OF Celebration (you want your own IQ to support your SOUL path) and her SQ (Spiritual Quotient) is that of BLISS!
With the Gift of Vitality…she’s obviously rocking that! Look and feel at how fresh her field is! (As she ages, she can rely on the wisdom of the Gene Keys to ‘renew’ and revitalize for example).
She’s already emanating siddhic frequency range of Bliss and being NEAR her field and its fotonic influence through the Law of Resonance and attunement can raise YOUR vibration into Bliss b/c it’s a higher power/beauty as an emanant Truth of consciousness.
She probably hasn’t even discovered kundalini yet (and the bliss that can bring), but imagine when her Bliss evolves and matures, she’s only going to become MORE alluring, infectious and alchemical to others (b/c there’s no limit to how much obsession-inducing quanta a starlet could hold).
Oooh…and her Radiance (related to health and well-being) is that of GK 61; SANCTITY!
That’s a Priestess valuation of presence.
Having a purified HOLY TEMPLE of feminine consciousness and light (which she already does although we’re not speaking to any pure, Dark aspects here) Since she has line 3 here;
She can best renew her aura and radiance through immersion and interaction – that which she has plenty of in her life; however, it’s best to have good vibes and supportive environments. Her Human Design bodygraph would yield more insights into relational management with friends and society.
In seeing what I’ve seen, she’s maintaining her field very well so far whereas someone like Hyuna (for example) has had more issues with maintaining auric energetic purity and clarity (remember that stars have an open contract with the public and that public is becoming more AWARE of the psychic truth of their image and professional performance!)
Hyuna’s more dynamic is what I’m saying with her aura…it’s like she requires more maintenance (and could be very well related to her Human Design auric type like mine requires more maintenance).
It’s important that she also venerates herself as she grows and changes throughout the process and that she is SECURE in knowing what that is and coming back home to it throughout her evolution.
If indeed she is a 1/3 profile with Human Design, she is an investigating (personality) with martyr personality. 1/3s can be the most stubborn of all archetypal-behavioral designs.
It seems clear that she already has siddhic Freedom as far as her SXQ (Attraction) which is sacral centric. Talk about FEEL-good vibes!
They (New Jeans, ie.) have so much Beauty INFLUENCE (as part of the overall equation) from their VISUALS because of their ESSENCED (and not just stylistic, superficial) radiance.
She seems to be managing things well b/c she COULD get trapped within the system and shut her sacral down but she is doing great at remaining SENSUAL as far as how others project and experience her.
She’s not being a victim nor has any of that vibe at all (and MANY people and aggregates do btw and we can show visuals of that here but I ain’t gonna taint this post ;); she’s IN her creative, sensual liberation as mostly a Muse-Maiden Princess of this phase right now.
By BEING a free soul in an otherwise strict system, she’s really thriving and it’s in the moments of stillness that her divine beauty timelessly emanates; a mixture of these gift and siddhic qualities.
And yes, I do Human Design & Gene Key audio 75 minute readings (I’ve risen my price) but I’d prefer to do regular sessions, you can still book it if you can find it on-site and really want one!
Remember that I do Gift and Siddhic DNA Activations in our appointment format that work DIRECTLY on your energy field. These help support your alchemical transmutation of consciousness and literal beauty essences. These are available in 3-packs or ie. the Allure Makeover.
(As far as Gene Keys; this can support a process of contemplation and education or be stand-alone on its own if you don’t want to delve further into GKeys transmutational consciousness and awakening work).
Ok…it’s been a while since I’ve done something of an energy reading in this public format and this was an MV that I’ve had earmarked for a while.
So let’s take a celebrity essence (energy) reading look at the popular studio choom K-Pop Itzy video of ‘Not Shy’ featuring in starting lineup from left to right;
Yeji Ryujin Lia Chaeryoung & Yuna (sparking a hello)
There’s a couple ways to approach this as I train the Muse Priestesses in Beauty Essence Reading/Consulting, but in doing readings – you would want to start looking at the first thing that you know is true and stands out (with an individual).
You can search for feelings, sensations, qualities, archetypes, etc.
The more of a past database of accurate references you have, the easier it will be to know things correctly. With this form of psychic reading we value reading the light and vibe essenced TRUTH.
With these kinds of psychic readings and allure consulting, I’m not predicting the future per se, rather I am interpreting what ‘is’ as accurate as possible (and verifiable) by universal standards, spiritual, psychic and social truth in front of me.
Remember that people’s energy can change from performance to performance or year to year and that I’m just reading what’s in front of me here.
For essence reading now; I’ll actually start with some vibe-truth word association freely and then perhaps move to archetypes and elements (if they’re not covered enough in the free word association).
All of our ITZY k-pop idol starlets are Muse fractals btw (encoded at a soul level). Here we go;
Yeji (예지);
Siren, warm and yet sharp, quick-witted, soft and lethal, eros, lightfire, some Dark Muse for sure, some Dark+Vixen, estrogenic, fertile, soul embodied (not that the others aren’t), foxy, portal to dark and erosy realms, reds and yellows (which they did a great job of knowing to match her to this anyway with wardrobe)
Ryujin (류진);
Ninja, solid but sharp, cool, like literally cool (her body and vibe feels this), confident, tomcat, secure in her body, can handle anxiety and pressure pretty well, not too easily shaken, cool pre-goddess, definitely has magic but knows who to share it with (she’s showing it in this frame more than average btw)
Lia;
Purity, Peace, amazing energetic health, Princess, Holy Daughter, joyful (although not the most in this MV), Serenity, holy waters, Grace Priestess, Maiden, good girl
Chaeryoung ( 채령 );
Muse-Goddess embodiment, silken, solemn goddessy, quiet, edenic, lush, body speaks more than words, autumn waterfalls, earthy wisdom, a light-warm auric eros charge, growing into maturity..
Yuna;
Cosmic, sparkly, triple espresso, shots of fun, emotional authority, celebration, upper realms, psychic intelligence and power, burgeoning light sorceress (for sure), celestial blue-light-fire, beam me up Scotty!, crystalline upper upper chakras, heavenly cleopatric, celestial empress-in the making and lineage, seems she might deal with a lot of anxiety in her mid-chakras
Who is the most ‘root’ grounded of them here?
(You can reference the energetic ‘weight’ of the root chakra)
1. Ryujin 2. Chaeryoung (a close 2nd) 3. Yuna 4. Yeji (but very similar to Yuna) 5. Lia
Keep in mind that the differentials aren’t that great. Also; if we looked at for example African dancers, they would be a LOT more grounded on average.
The most ‘overall’ grounded?
(Remember that in general, muses aren’t very grounded so this is something that could be further worked on).
Even though Chaeryoung’s root is a close second she is actually the most ‘overall’ grounded b/c of her sexy and maturing Goddess embodiment through her entire front channel.
Since I’m speaking freely here it might be interesting to note that (to me) personally; Chaeryoung isn’t the most physically attractive just on physical appearance alone (to me); HOWEVER she has effectively transcended any/previous limitations to simply allow universal archetypal and elemental beauty be part of (and mixed with) her soul truth itself so ‘how’ attractive she is gets all kind of jumbled b/c as I see her overall beauty and light.
This is what I’m referring to as how charisma and allure ‘bends’ light to allow us to see someone’s greater truth.
Her allure (emanation of conglomerate essences through her chakras and aura); it effectively warps reality and forces us to see something more true of who she is and thus she’s very beautiful.
We value the ‘light’ of essence and not just physical, superficial beauty standards and the light reflection of that. It may take some time to rewire your vision to see essence like I can but these readings should help!
Who is the overall purest or cleanest?
Lia. Here she’s at Priestess level of alchemical beauty btw.
They all have really good energetic health (I’ll speak to this in a bit more detail) but Lia has really clean chakras that breathe and flow somatically up and down. There’s definitely some lighter internal blockages but overall great. She has a very clean aura as well.
It seems that because her field is so purified, that she can ‘feel’ everything as is energetically very sensitive.
A lot of Western women have armored shells in their chakric and auric beauty as a defense mechanism for protection; however Lia is a good example of vulnerable, intimate, clean open-ness that allows us to FEEL her.
It’s important to note at mastery level…still…ALL of their allure factors could actually be increased to emanate even more powerfully (er, beautifully).
Who has the most warmth or fire (in THIS appearance/MV)?
Yeji. And it’s not just because she’s wearing red…she’s like this in other videos without the red too.
Ok…who is the most IMBALANCED as far as chakras go?
Well all of them could use more grounding without losing other qualities b/c then it will ‘feel’ more down to earth heaven on earth for their fans while still having all the atmospheric ecosphere of vibe and light-truth they each bring to draw people compellingly in (like allure does).
Otherwise;
There’s a number of things to say here. Yuna’s heart is quite closed (nothing personal, mine has been for years and other stars are as well) and unfortunately her chakras are not emanating very powerfully as they could be.
Her lit celestial aura and upper chakras are running her show (essenced performance baby!) – but we should be able to feel her mid and lower chakric power (beauty) more.
She has a strong healthy throat, ajna and crown of course but her lower chakras are not very embodied nor emanating much (allure).
Btw;
After 1000 sessions and energy reading throughout 21,000 hours of the world’s top performers I can say this with CERTAINTY. I literally know, see and feel what chakras, qualities and distances are.
My kinesthetic holographic or direct-connect with her field (the latter with approval only) at the time of this recording would also confirm it and things like this are verifiable with individuals themselves based on their reflection, etc.
(With that said; I’m still improving the accuracy and it’s still subject to some variance and imperfection – I am a great student OF Muse Herself).
With essence psychic celebrity and client readings;
Truth has to be the reliable foundation, not subjective interpretation that could be all over the place.
Anyways;
Yuna’s imbalances (and lack of greater ’embodiment’ stand out the most to me but all of them (even at this level) could use a tune-up to just open their chakras more to breathe a further distance.
Ok; I did speak to some supplemental archetypes earlier…What about elementals specifically (in any order)?
Ryujin; moonlit mountains and valleys (earth), cool stream
Yuna; celestial winter air, aether
Chaeryoung; water, earth, sandstone (in early autumn with her style tones too), wood
Yeji; eros-fire, fire, lava, a little bit of metal
Lia; air + heaven air, light, holy water
None of them have much Mermaid embodiment although Chaeryoung could go more in that direction the easiest, then Lia I’d say if she came down from her cloud.
I had another idea of doing intuitive crystal resonance readings but not for now.
I do have to give props to the stylists b/c in a way much of it IS actually non-consciously accessing their energetic essences ie. Yuna and Lia with the blues…
Chaeryoung with earthy Goddess tone to match her vibe. Working consciously with their vibe and light-truth is the future mastery of performance entertainment…K-Pop already has external style mastery and versatility down.
It would be fun to see them strengthen their allure strengths as individuals and then as a group (and how it mixes!)…b/c then there’s even more dynamism going on that people just can’t catch up with or get enough of!
For example; we could amplify the FIRE that Yeji already has for in her sacral and solar plexus, embody more from the seat of her soul, mix it with some more elementals and project it even further (in embodiment).
As muse-starlets they can access a LOT of essence, it’s really just in mastering things from here.
I could bring in more general chi power to mix into Chaeryoung’s sacral for example to create more Goddess-Eros and charge up her field even more…we could tone it in a certain direction or to a spirit animal. I’m not even mentioning gift and siddhic beauty essences in this reading too!
We may want to explore (all with their consulting and approval of course!) seeing what a more grounded Lia would be like (b/c I can power ground)…exploring when she is more ready for Goddess embodiment and a bit more of that maturity like Chaer’s taking on ie..
Most of their earthstar channels are closed off but Ryujins and Chaer’s would open and clear the fastest (within seconds with how I work) deep into the earth. Yuna’s cosmic powers are great but she could be more embodied on earth.
For Yuna I might want bring more of her celestial brilliance INTO embodiment retaining her Muse but perhaps strengthening her Light Sorceress and definitely open her chakras to breathe more.
I think with her she should also discover Dark archetypes to counter-balance b/c she has so much Light it’s more likely to turn to shadow with so much celestial psychic power. In the past I’ve seen her open to higher frequency astral interference so defensive strategies can be looked at but here’s she’s fine (the environment even vibe of the male producers, etc. MATTERS).
Yuna has heart but professionally speaking (and non-judgmentally) it’s still too closed in and personalized (and hey; it’s work for me myself and I as well)..as I’ve seen this pattern with her in other appearances.
(I mean just compare her to TWICE’S Jihyo for example who is VERY heart-centric and robust there).
(Hint; it’s NOT b/c of the size of her chest either – she is very heart-centric and open 😉 Now reference how energetically smaller Yuna’s heart is comparatively – not just physically per se
Oh…who would be the MOST shy of them?
Hmm…it pends on the context if it’s meeting him through friends or in cold public so I won’t answer that (maybe down the road)! Least shy probably Yeji and Ryujin. Most likely to accidentally show interest affection? Yuna. Natural flirting response? Lia.
Oops I might be answering some of it but again; these are my interpretations.
Hey; are you enjoying these insights?
There’s so many things to say and explore once I focus and get started! Imagine Yeji’s fire in Chaeryoung’s solar plexus and sacral alchemized and mixed with what she has now, people would start going nuts and the male stan attention would triple.
Remember this is plasmic quanta we’re talking about (‘chi’ aka beauty essences from the spectrum of Light-Sentience itself); and with starlets at this level, they already have great access to then further master with the right guide.
If they hired me or one of the Muse Priestesses (who are also dancers btw) for consulting and allure transformation, I/we would want to explore their Human Design body-graphs more to help them maximize their chakric and auric design as well.
Just doing a power tune-up for each is going to get their plasmic quanta chi essences BREATHING even more than it does. Keep in mind that pro performers can adapt to studio vs. stadium settings but it’s all mastery stuff to be self-aware of as well as for the production team to work with as well.
Ryujin might want to explore having more fire like Yeji does but of her own soul’s desire….maybe she’d want to have more Eros-fire and less detached cool-ness. Maybe they/we’d want to activate Yeji’s psychic and crown powers more…it’s all wide open.
Remember they’re ALREADY masteresses in many ways so I’m just speaking to a high level. They’re already light years beyond consumers with alluring beauty. If/when you watch the video and see more of them, this can all help you to see with deeper insight and ‘new eyes’!
Ok that’s enough of a reading for now but I’ll leave it with one more:
Who is the most likely thief in the night/steal your heart?
Yeji or Ryujin!
BTW, during producing this reading I received the concept of Celebrity Spirit Animals so check out the blog soon for 2 new posts starting that whole series!
1 of the shadows of the feminine heart and Queen archetype is ‘possessiveness’ of her partner.
‘Queens’ will often see it as a gift instead of shadow and yet it can end up constricting their man in numerous ways (ie. “Don’t even look at other women”, don’t show YOUR charisma around others b/c it might trigger my jealousy, etc.)
Unwarranted jealousy might arise if he’s a rare man who is actually serving other women in business (like me) which is why I couldn’t partner with ‘just’ a queen.
There’s can be a miswiring of service+star codes for more a tamping down and personalization of life force and other restrictive expectations in these kinds of shadow encoded relationships so it might be worth revisiting yours and reference others who give each other more breathing room and if that’s for you.
If he’s ‘your man’ ; is it a gift or a shadow of possessiveness that you carry?
How does he feel about it and is it limiting his (‘remaining’) freedom? Can he be even MORE free in such a committed relationship or is it already his death knell to freedom b/c ‘now you’ve got him’?
The traditional masculine ‘ownership’ shadow (which is also quite predominant out there) can also be valued as a gift through a cultural ‘King’s’ lens.
Could you be ok with him being WANTED by others?
I’ve mentioned before that this can also constrict such a woman’s allure and thereby limit HER social influence.
What’s more impressive to me than this type of Queen (shadow) constriction in a dynamic of ‘monogamy’ (and the deeper shadow of control behind it) is couples that give each other actual charismatic breathing room yet still have their own agreement.
Stephanie Pierre (and her relationship) is a stellar healthy evolved example of this; they allow each other charismatic and allure breathing room for other people to notice which is central to their ongoing social impact (while still maintaining their own agreements and integrity as a family).
She allows him to be in his power and from what I can sense; yes, women are into him and she’s ok with it b/c they have THEIR agreement and they give each other that breathing room.
Maybe more people should start referencing their relationship actually I think.
Star codes are just a different thing than what normies are used to.
Beyoncé and Jay-z could also be referenced as he lets her be SEEN by millions of people in her sexuality…they’re a power couple.
Best rapper alive or not (cerca ~2000~); that makes him a high level of ‘cool’ by default (also b/c of her status and his past legacy).
Do you want your man to be a star? Is he going to let you be the socially impactful starlet?
And btw a Muse Queen is light years different than a Control Queen!
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