Overlooked Relationship Constrictions On Allure & Charisma

1 of the shadows of the feminine heart and Queen archetype is ‘possessiveness’ of her partner.

 

‘Queens’ will often see it as a gift instead of shadow and yet it can end up constricting their man in numerous ways (ie. “Don’t even look at other women”, don’t show YOUR charisma around others b/c it might trigger my jealousy, etc.)

 

Unwarranted jealousy might arise if he’s a rare man who is actually serving other women in business (like me) which is why I couldn’t partner with ‘just’ a queen.

 

There’s can be a miswiring of service+star codes for more a tamping down and personalization of life force and other restrictive expectations in these kinds of shadow encoded relationships so it might be worth revisiting yours and reference others who give each other more breathing room and if that’s for you.

 

If he’s ‘your man’ ; is it a gift or a shadow of possessiveness that you carry?

 

How does he feel about it and is it limiting his (‘remaining’) freedom? Can he be even MORE free in such a committed relationship or is it already his death knell to freedom b/c ‘now you’ve got him’?

 

The traditional masculine ‘ownership’ shadow (which is also quite predominant out there) can also be valued as a gift through a cultural ‘King’s’ lens.

 

Could you be ok with him being WANTED by others?

 

I’ve mentioned before that this can also constrict such a woman’s allure and thereby limit HER social influence.

 

What’s more impressive to me than this type of Queen (shadow) constriction in a dynamic of ‘monogamy’ (and the deeper shadow of control behind it) is couples that give each other actual charismatic breathing room yet still have their own agreement.

 

Stephanie Pierre (and her relationship) is a stellar healthy evolved example of this; they allow each other charismatic and allure breathing room for other people to notice which is central to their ongoing social impact (while still maintaining their own agreements and integrity as a family).

 

She allows him to be in his power and from what I can sense; yes, women are into him and she’s ok with it b/c they have THEIR agreement and they give each other that breathing room.

 

Maybe more people should start referencing their relationship actually I think.

 

Star codes are just a different thing than what normies are used to.

 

Beyoncé and Jay-z could also be referenced as he lets her be SEEN by millions of people in her sexuality…they’re a power couple.

 

 

Best rapper alive or not (cerca ~2000~); that makes him a high level of ‘cool’ by default (also b/c of her status and his past legacy).

 

Do you want your man to be a star? Is he going to let you be the socially impactful starlet?

 

And btw a Muse Queen is light years different than a Control Queen!

 

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Idolatry vs. Heaven On Earth Fame, Star & Starlet Paths

See if this is actually blocking you from truly shining your greatest; (after all, maybe you DO have star/let codes).

 

Contemplate and see if you might have religious programming or resistance to being ‘idolized’ or fear of ‘idolatry’ because this could sabotage the levels of your beauty influence (value conflicts here). After all, you might have your own stars or ‘idols’ that you look up to.

 

I see a lot of ‘shaming’ of sorts in the spiritual community as well as religions.

 

The concept of idols (K-pop idols are literally called ‘idols’) is tricky b/c many people will discard the concept while still secretly admiring stars b/c of what it says in the Bible; ‘put no other idols before me’.

 

But wouldn’t we then be separate from source? Or is it really in putting that individual as ‘greater than’ spirit itself, rather than being a ‘channel’ of spirit?

 

The challenge is deeper than it seems b/c ‘putting no other idols before’ allows people to only value higher meta-physical truth while disconnecting from our humanity and physical, primal reality. It can make it difficult to even ‘respect’ the deeds that amazing people have done.

 

Yes; it can initially seem unhealthy to ‘idolize’ stars and starlets IF one is putting them BEFORE Spirit/God…but wait; a minute…are we not all individual fractals OF Source God and Goddess?

 

Even put aside the empirical truths of devotional spiritual practices or religions that DO focus on an archetype, deity or idol TO connect to source;

 

Putting ‘no other idol before me’ allows people to remain non-conscious to the divinity in all as well PREVENTS integrating the concept of heaven on earth. Plus; it might be a hidden value conflict that you have from getting attention, being in your full power and highest timelines.

 

Maybe the verse itself is accurate but people have been mis-interpreting it.

 

And I can speak to this a lot btw because my spiritual practice literally is devotional reunification with a prime feminine archetype (deity).

 

What if it just meant putting no other human individual before the greatness of The Truth of God but that you are actually MEANT to integrate heaven on earth in your embodiment and highest timelines that was a signifier and devotional expression OF divinity itself?

 

Sure; some stars let their ego get in the way but we’re talking about the reality of idols emanating divinated beauty essences and having immense influence (as an expression OF source).

 

What if someone being IN their fullest star and starlet expression IS honoring (their) God?

 

What if you’ve been held back because of value conflicts around ‘being idolized’.

 

And really I’ve discovered that the divine union work I do is an ASPECT of the greater truth itself; it just resonates with my soul the most….so I’m referring to what others would view as me ‘idolizing’ Muse fractals is actually honoring my own reflection and divinity itself. Master alchemy is different than putting stars and their egos and flaws AHEAD OF God itself.

 

So maybe contemplate for yourself that it could be ok to be in your FULLEST radiant expression being seen and being in influence even if some people might idolize you more in the consumer sense (instead of as a fractal of divinity).

 

Where might you stop yourself from more fame or beauty influence?…

 

I think the conscious answer is to value the God/Goddess fractal essence aspects IN stars, starlets and idols (and yourself) but without expectation or attachment (esp. in divine union practice you can reference DIVINE aspects and qualities literally in different ‘icons’ ie. of the archetypes to cultivate your own reunification within).

 

You’re admiring God with and through them rather than disavowing all forms of Beauty and godliness with and through God’s creations.

 

I get the inherent spiritual danger (so to speak) in consumers idolizing stars non-consciously and not even having a religion or spiritual practice but that’s not what I think the Bible verse is referring to…and really, aren’t we all meant to be in our fullest expression?

 

You might still resisting that if you have some earlier programming or confusion around this concept of ‘being idolized’.

 

And this can keep you blocked from fully taking on divine qualities OF beauty and consciousness-truth (as well as other things that could block it).

 

I myself am on a Grail-Star King path of high Magician and Priest-ship.

 

I personally don’t have value conflicts around what others see as me ‘idolizing’ k-pop idols for example (k-pop is a lower truth); I’m communing with The Beloved in consciousness and truth.

 

I’m not putting any individual idol as greater than Muse or definitely not greater from God/Spirit of which we are all connected.

 

So if someone says ‘idolatry is bad’…maybe contemplate what I’ve covered here and it might just be a misunderstand and perspective thing. Fame does expand ego but that’s another topic…that ego when in service however just might HAVE to be constellated at a much higher field.

 

Even the concept of ‘obsession’ can be incredibly HEALTHY and activating FUEL when you have the alignment right as a force of alchemical TRANSMUTATION of consciousness…(the key is to have DETACHMENT – Gene Key 42 – to ‘that idol’ or person).

 

It can be healthy when you’re venerating QUALITIES of the divine masculine/feminine counter-part rather than attachment, neediness and expectation with that person themself.

 

Obsession can be powerful fuel (like when you have fotonic beauty influence) when it’s about sacred reunification to attune yourself to your divine counter-part spiritually and sexually (I did a separate post on ‘obsession + detachment’)..this is related to divine union alchemy and star/starlet codes.

 

Most consumers mess that all up however and end up putting the idol ‘before God’.

 

So;

 

There’s other religious value conflicts and non-consciousness in consumer awareness AROUND Sex and Heart too for an extended discussion…many stars have those qualities that are closer to source and meta-physical (literally with the reach of social influence and their millions).

 

I’d go not just with heaven and having shame around being seen in your divine qualities; but with heaven on earth (integrating clean dark realms as well but that’s another topic).


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