Overlooked Relationship Constrictions On Allure & Charisma

1 of the shadows of the feminine heart and Queen archetype is ‘possessiveness’ of her partner.

‘Queens’ will often see it as a gift instead of shadow and yet it can end up constricting their man in numerous ways (ie. “Don’t even look at other women”, don’t show YOUR charisma around others b/c it might trigger my jealousy, etc.)

Unwarranted jealousy might arise if he’s a rare man who is actually serving other women in business (like me) which is why I couldn’t partner with ‘just’ a queen.

There’s can be a miswiring of service+star codes for more a tamping down and personalization of life force and other restrictive expectations in these kinds of shadow encoded relationships so it might be worth revisiting yours and reference others who give each other more breathing room and if that’s for you.

If he’s ‘your man’ ; is it a gift or a shadow of possessiveness that you carry?

How does he feel about it and is it limiting his (‘remaining’) freedom? Can he be even MORE free in such a committed relationship or is it already his death knell to freedom b/c ‘now you’ve got him’?

The traditional masculine ‘ownership’ shadow (which is also quite predominant out there) can also be valued as a gift through a cultural ‘King’s’ lens.

Could you be ok with him being WANTED by others?

I’ve mentioned before that this can also constrict such a woman’s allure and thereby limit HER social influence.

What’s more impressive to me than this type of Queen (shadow) constriction in a dynamic of ‘monogamy’ (and the deeper shadow of control behind it) is couples that give each other actual charismatic breathing room yet still have their own agreement.

Stephanie Pierre (and her relationship) is a stellar healthy evolved example of this; they allow each other charismatic and allure breathing room for other people to notice which is central to their ongoing social impact (while still maintaining their own agreements and integrity as a family).

She allows him to be in his power and from what I can sense; yes, women are into him and she’s ok with it b/c they have THEIR agreement and they give each other that breathing room.

Maybe more people should start referencing their relationship actually I think.

Star codes are just a different thing than what normies are used to.

Beyoncé and Jay-z could also be referenced as he lets her be SEEN by millions of people in her sexuality…they’re a power couple.

Best rapper alive or not (cerca ~2000~); that makes him a high level of ‘cool’ by default (also b/c of her status and his past legacy).

Do you want your man to be a star? Is he going to let you be the socially impactful starlet?

And btw a Muse Queen is light years different than a Control Queen!

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