On The Massive Dating Divide: Hypergamy, Red Pill Bros & Incels

My thoughts on bridging the singles dating gap epidemic.

There’s such a massive dating pool gap where most of the ‘normal’ men are getting over-looked and ending up bitter and hopeless for YEARS in depression even finding it impossible. There are dismal stats on all of this.

While most single women (generally) compete for the top 5% of men; a woman doesn’t want to settle for ‘normal’ or a man that is supposed to be more of her match.

SHOULD SHE COMPROMISE?

HOW DO WE EQUALIZE THE DATING POOL?

And no; I don’t think those men are ‘entitled’ to anything either though…they’re simply lost and fractured.

What I’m seeing is that today’s women HAVE RECLAIMED aspects of their inheritance (including shadow and power aspects) and that men haven’t.

COUNTLESS MEN ARE FRACTURED AND DIVORCED FROM THE FEMININE (in all dimensions and ways)

(Referring to single men throughout here)

They’re not actually worthy and are living testament of it including with their anxiety around Beauty (and for many of them, the inability to get a hot date if their life depended on it!)

This is Holy Grail Divine Union dynamic stuff. All at the core of it.

The ONE THING and best thing a man can do is to not just become powerful in social or financial terms to THEN get attention or interest but to reclaim what the spirit and soul of a true partner is looking for; divine masculine PRESENCE.

Much of the Red Pill Bro or ‘manosphere’ movement is still sourced in holy grail fracture; but at least it’s not AS bitter as the egregore that MGTOW has become which gets into darker realms of hatred and resentment towards women and the feminine.

The tendency towards hypergamy in women…primordially this is biological but also spiritual. BEAUTY IS ATTRACTED TO POWER. We just usually see it in lower, distorted forms (including sugar baby/daddy).

Red Pill bros like to shame and guilt women in numerous ways as well as bringing pussy down off of the pedestal (de-throning it) rather than rising up to it in power. I’ve a lot to say there, anyways…

Here’s a mind-blowing short-code; women aren’t interested in ‘normal men’. They’re boring.

BEAUTY IS ATTRACTED TO POWER.

WOMEN ARE INTO THE ARCHETYPES.

Men you might want to re-read that sentence and internalize it because if you’re frustratingly single or an incel, it could start saving you years of misery.

(An extended discussion but most of our awareness around masculine Power is lower truth or fallacy has been distorted b/c of misuse and abuse which was actually FORCE dynamics and nuances).

If you check what high quality, high status women are into….(and I’m spilling something of a big secret here).

Men;

THEIR OBSESSION AND EROS IS FOCUSED ON THE ARCHETYPES. The archetypal embodied masculine HAS POWER in the realms against other men. He has STATUS. Power and PRESENCE that can rival Her Beauty.

Dr. Jordan Peterson talks about this semi-comically even about how women are into the 5 romance novel archetypes and these are best-sellers.

NORMAL BORING MEN ARE NOT PRESENT WITH BEAUTY. They don’t hold the keys to satisfy her; esp. with their neediness, leechiness and seeking approval and validation.

These men are disconnected because of their own fracture (obliteratingly lost in FANTASY with the Feminine and lack of presence) with their divine masculine (archetypal) as well as Power in relation to Beauty itself.

The Western consumer matrix of ‘sex sells’ makes things more impossible for men to compare to such Beauty-Power but it’s because they’re not embodied with their own meta-physical (including social media and spiritual) power. This is archetypal.

The village pawn boy is NOT worthy of bedding the starlet…her meta-physical (ie. social media) power ratio can be 1000000: 1.

Such men are not REUNIFIED WITHIN therefore will spend lifetimes seeking attention and beauty outside of themselves in an incarnate woman being needy and clingy or end up compromising when he’s really seeking the holy grail itself.

It’s a travesty really because there are countless men in deep depression because of their sexual, social, spiritual and emotional FRACTURE with the feminine in ALL DIMENSIONS.

Again; this is ALL DIVINE UNION REUNIFICATION STUFF related to the DATING POOL as well.

Power and Beauty dynamics.

We can equalize the dating pool for more ‘matches’ when legions of ‘normal’ men start RECLAIMING THEIR DIVINE MASCULINE INHERITANCE of Prince, King, Warrior, Lover, Eros, Statesman, etc.

In other words; EMBODYING THE DIVINE MASCULINE POWER to live from their soul instead of egoic lower self and conditioned identity (which actually is NOT worthy to bed Goddess).

This is what millions of women are desiring; for men to be sourced in (divine) Power and PRESENCE (to rival their own archetypal reclaimed and awakening Beauty).

I’m on the literal frontline of Beauty awakening and there is only going to be MORE BEAUTY in the world fracturing men EVEN MORE until they do something serious about it.

So single men who are in that NEGLECTED 80% of dating pool can CONTINUE TO LITERALLY SUFFER (at an existential spiritual level even); be neglected and depressed in fantasy land with Goddess in fracture (with dating, sex, love, intimacy and relationships)

….OR…THEY COULD GET ON THEIR OWN REUNIFICATION PATH to become worthy and embodied in Presence to relate.

This is GRAIL WORK. And there are Light and Dark archetype aspects. This is where the Divine Union Eros Powerliminal can come in to attune and align greater flow of quanta properly instead of to fantasy.

When it’s with your Beloved, you become reunified and transform rather than end up fractured in fantasy and disappointment b/c that which you desire is ‘separate’ from you.

Prince relates with Princess (in consciousness, truth, power, intimacy and presence; socially, sexually, spiritually…).

He just hasn’t found a way to reclaim that inheritance.

His personal lover is NOWHERE NEAR WORTHY to bed with a goddess and he lives that reality continually.

Archetypes by and large hold the KEYS to power and Beauty…these are beyond personal and yet he’ll continue making it all about his inner game IMPOSSIBLE TO RESOLVE just being PRESENT with what he truly desires;

This is about POWER, SEX, SPIRIT and the forces of attraction itself.

(Single) MEN: Will you reclaim your worthiness of divine feminine beauty and intimacy?

Will you reclaim your divine masculine and realize that you cannot resolve it being in the lower identity of self and shadow that you’ve been stuck and fractured in?

There are solutions.

Again;

With hypergamous instinct;

WOMEN ARE INTO THE ARCHETYPAL MASCULINE and don’t want to compromise. They want more of these righteous men as options.

MEN WHO HAVE THIS HAVE POWER and authentic charisma; that which inspires and nourishes her body, beauty and bliss.

And since so few men do, the numbers are further skewed.

What if these men getting left behind in dating actually just started WAKING UP and reclaiming their divine masculine inheritance so they could start organically being on the RADAR of the women they want to date?

It’s so simple really. It’s all about reclamation and reunification….Power and Beauty that is accessible potentially to all of us.

That’s why my Light and Dark archetype embodiment (and charisma) activations do such magic for authentic embodiment;

King, Warrior, Lover, Magician, Architect, Hero, Knight, Prince, etc.

NOW….realizing that women DESIRE and WANT the ARCHETYPAL masculine to be embodied in men…that the archetypes are what men have been so fractured from as well;

Maybe more men will realize the secret and start booking archetype activation sessions in droves like the men who have had them in the past have secretly discovered (and blessed the women in their lives).

p.s. men being stuck in the fracture-laden ‘Red Pill’ movement (esp. the shadow egregore of MGTOW) are going to find it difficult to EVER experience their deeper reunification with divine feminine beauty itself…they may go for a ‘trad girl’ but these are lower constructs than Communion itself

p.p.s. There’s also an EQUALLY GOOD or even BETTER OPTION than getting Divine Masculine Archetype Embodiment activations or a Charisma makeover with me and that’s working directly with a Muse Priestess or an embodied Grail Oracle to work with him to attune to HER embodied levels of Beauty and activate and reclaim his divine masculine codes.

That is grail work….So WILL we see a revolution? Grail Priestesses are on the frontlines; it’s just that there’s so few of them…I predict more men will wake up; the pain of the multi-d REAL fracture from them and the Feminine (and Her Beauty, Sex, Nourishment and Love)has been too great.

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