Becoming *More* of a Lover-Queen
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Imagine being such an evolved Lover Queen that your love/sex life is really magical and mystical!
Beyond the ultimate sex life as you knew it…When we speak about the concept of ATTRACTING a King-Lover or evolving your current partner into MORE of a King-Lover that is truly magical, healing and sacred..well…let’s talk.
We know that cultivating your energetic beauty more is going to attract more opportunity, wealth, a deeper love life and healthy masculine principle. How about living a life rich with beautiful experience for yourself?
Well, we will have to start with wherever you ARE whether you are single or in a relationship (and whatever limitations you may have), but even conscious loving is nothing near hierogamy; Sex of God and Goddess.
Hierogamy is a level of Lovership that is far beyond because it is sourced not in soul-mate twin-flameship as a path to God, rather a trinity sourced differently. It also allows your man to directly connection to the nourishing, nurturing, healing and inspiring nectar of
Beauty with and through you; closer to source.
And that universal cosmic love is worlds different than the inter-personal, inter-physical exchange that most people are experiencing sexual connection with. You allow God and Goddess into presence and into the bedroom where the sacred-ness becomes the new quality.
And…Especially if you are IN a relationship, there can be certain patterns and habits that are limiting the fuller embodiment of God/Goddess and a pantheon of archetypes to be experienced through you in the bedroom; preventing truly cosmic connection and Love. And if you are single, you might be waiting for ‘the one’ that can bring that connection for you. Well…
There’s only about 8 women (out of 1000) that I can energetically ascertain with assurance are at the level of experiencing hierogamy itself (not counting the 1 X-Lover I had experienced hierogamy with).
Yes, there are physically attractive, beautiful women in my circle but I’m really talking about one’s who have greatly cultivated ENERGETIC BEAUTY that is at that level of quality itself.
(And half of them are clients of mine!)
And through our remote work, I know that some of those women are still getting closer to ‘that’ level with a partner; yet all along their energetic beauty and radiance is cultivating and they are getting real world response and benefit from the profound changes; changes in their relationships, attraction and material resources.
All of this having to do with Reunification as we cultivate their energetic; siddhic and spiritual beauty to come through in their presence and professional image. And since we are dealing with source and primary authentic archetypes, there is no limit to how much of that consciousness and immortal beauty you can connect to, embody and bring into reunification with your King. We can explore different flavors of how the Feminine would want to express Her Beauty through you.
The MAIN solution to either BECOME the Lover-Queen that would attract such a King-Lover for experiencing hierogamy – and the main thing for inspiring your current partner into more of a King-Lover and having a thriving sex life that is full of immortal and siddhic connection and magic is:
Cultivation.
And the women who I know ARE very very evolved; they are on a path of continual soul experience and cultivation. Often taking a graceful warrioress to continue on her uncompromising path. She cultivates without compromise.
You would want to keep CULTIVATING your soul essence, soul experience, embodiment and expression (all representing more energetic beauty). So it is best to have a soul path that ALLOWS the value of continual soul cultivation.
Performance artists actually do this but non-consciously because they are in inspired soul service to a greater audience. They continually sacrifice and re-birth themselves into higher levels of soul beauty and embodiment so that this starts transmitting through their former, denser self.
Soul essence cultivation; you may desire that coming through in the energy body (which is also why energetic health is important because there can be shells, veils and other blockages preventing that embodiment and expression IN your literal image).
The women who are at the level to give and experience such immortal fusion have more cultivated light bodies and lower conscious resistances and attachments removed. They have burned through a lot of the shadow and negative karma.
The Lover-Queen energetic template is irresistible in the world with the masculine.
She isn’t as ‘icy’ as just Queen can be alone, she has the electric and erotic WARMTH that imbues her sovereignty. So wherever you are at now (and you may not even be a Lover or Queen let alone lover queen in its siddhic sense), there is always room for MORE of a Lover Queen and the level of woman it would take to love a Great King for example.
So, cultivation.
Cultivation (and we can have a path of cultivating your Lover Queen) includes deepening your devotional practice and shadow work, getting more experienced and such.
And it esp. means being devoted to your path – and ultimately to an aspect of the divine masculine. However, if you don’t have the proper foundation for sacred reunification (or continual energetic beauty cultivation), you are unknowingly preventing that great reunification WITH a King partner that is beyond your imagination.
If you are in a twin-flame relationship that isn’t connected to the divine foundationally, it’s easier to crash and burn and then become too attached to him or the next twin flame; what if you lose him?
You lose your connection to source and it was dependent on him all along. Hieros Gamos resolves this (dysfunctional) pattern and allows you to properly develop true High Queenship.
Another thing is that when you connect to a Master or someone who has great soul cultivation, connection and magic themselves, it makes it easier to accelerate your evolution through resonance and transmutation. That’s also where my work comes in and the lineages I hold – if we were to work together for example.
So if you desire such holy cosmic connection, first you want to have the proper foundation that isn’t rooted on twin-flame soulmate (Hieros Gamos Queen is different than Goddess-Queen and even that can make a difference as well as a path rooted in partnered tantra can be missing a LOT of the pure architecture of hieros gamos itself).
You want to be on a path of hieros gamos (consciously or otherwise) and you want to be cultivating your Queen and Lover.
With Sexy Chi here, when you are cultivating your energetic beauty you ARE essentially working on this greater reunification as a secondary value. Hieros Gamos X allows us to do the same work but with the value more primarily on sacred reunification and Queenship.
So if you really want the spiritual, relational and material wealth from your beauty that influences LIKE a Starlet-Queen you want to devotionally and actively be continually cultivating your soul essence and multi-dimensional soul experience.
There are always higher and higher levels of Lover essence that you can be imbued with and as you embody it more, your chakras and aura change and communicate something very different from before – and you start experiencing and attracting richer things in life.
It can attract that great King-Lover if you ARE single and it can radically transfigure (or threaten) your current relationship (b/c it may challenge him with too much change)!
You can cultivate your lover queen in other ways for example with spirituality, (clean) tantra and such. Here, we work directly on your energy field itself.
And this will greatly increase ‘may the odds ever be in your favor’ for attracting a Lover-King or transmuting your relationship to get him re-ignited into much higher and deeper love – even hierogamy (although for most women that will take immense cultivation and soul growth).
I am here to support your direct cultivation with both energetic beauty (and the results in your professional image and influence) as well as your sacred reunification itself.
If you know that you want to do more than just an activation with me, but want more exploration around your situation – feel free to request a complimentary >45 minute Hieros Gamos/Beauty conversation with me here<.
Beauty Attracts Wealth
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Let’s look at the concept of attracting provision and wealth with (your) beauty – especially if you aren’t at the level of a top model for an agency.
As you know, we can correlate a lot of attraction and success with those who are IN the professional image industries; advertising, modeling, beauty, social influencing, speaking, media and entertainment. Success is related with image in these big money-making industries and much of advertising.
Even in other less image focused industries, your image can be critical to ATTRACTING and converting business, sales and new clientship…especially as we are so social media friendly and people also want to get a sense of YOU if you are the brand.
So when we value BEAUTY as not just maximizing the potential of your extrinsic appearance and body transformation; when we also value it as your multi-dimensional energetic beauty which also comes through IN your professional image and presence (we just didn’t have the tools to be aware of it before), this gives us more room to work on taking your beauty and influence to entirely new levels of social influence, fan influence, client conversion and direct financial attraction.
And then we can also reference more explicitly beauty based dynamics like sex-working…even escorting as well as stripclubs or the entire sugar daddy attraction and exchange dynamic.
But if you aren’t involved in any of those, increasing your beauty can still lead to great indirect and direct wealth and prosperity attraction (without literally being a sugar baby).
And there are men out there who WANT to provide for a woman in exchange for connection to her beauty or status.
If you are in the business of coaching or are an influencer, your image is often what is attracting and converting new fans or clients. This leads to new and literal income with new business.
Marie Diamond btw is just a quick reference point of someone with energetic beauty. That beauty also comes through her voice in spite of not having what most people socially might value as being the best looking physically.
Quite a few of my past clients are women who are running their own coaching business and are attracting new business growth because of their beauty cultivation and how it transforms their image, energetic and non-verbal communication so that men respond to them differently.
The masculine desires to be connected with and reunify WITH beauty. So this puts your law of attraction on megaphone effortlessly without ‘doing’ anything more.
But it goes even deeper than this into the psycho-spiritual dynamics of wealth and attraction. Men and the masculine desires to connect and reunify with the highest form of beauty possible for him. It’s wired into his spirit and his biology.
My friend and Cosmic Muse co-host Gillian Pothier talks about the principle of provision a lot; being a honeypot magnet of attraction AS the feminine from the masculine principle where ‘cash is king’ reigns.
As you cultivate your feminine, energetic beauty and allure (and transmitting out into the world) you are able to inspire and MAGNETIZE the masculine spirit within men to reach out and literally offer provision, opportunities and gifts which can come in different forms.
Sometimes it is in men stumbling over themselves to take you on dates, offering to fly you places, etc.
You are also able to attract a man of more resources who WANTS to provide for you (when you have more energetic beauty that compels him). It’s his masculine inspired to support and protect your more open and vulnerable feminine essence.
Now this is DIFFERENT than being a more masculine shelled independent woman who is ‘going it on her own’ and making it through adaptation to a man’s world; holding both a masculine and feminine template; thus there’s a lot of transformation you might have to go through in order to shift into RECEIVING from your feminine.
This can be very fatiguing to a predominantly feminine essenced soul like you; especially if you have been in your masculine and burning out for years. It might be time to finally just rest and relax into RECEIVING provision and support from the masculine.
So remember, this isn’t limited to your physical beauty, this is about well, really BOTH energetic and physical – and maximizing those to be in your truest soul essence.
That might mean in some cases there is a lot of healing to do in relationship to the masculine as part of your process.
I have clients who have attracted new men into their lives who support them with housing, gifts and financial resources. It’s such a RELIEF for them to be able to know they are taken care of – and also to still have the ability to MAGNETIZE and allure money and resources into their life.
That kind of energy also supports him to earn and make even more money….or you may be single and just want this magnetism for yourself without relying on a man (this is also where hieros gamos principle comes in because its your relationship to the meta-masculine and its wealth and resources).
But to be able to attract such wealth, you want to get to a place of irresistible intoxicating energetic beauty (while maximizing your physical).
This may take really melting into and cultivating more of your feminine essence and the spirituality of it that is supported by the masculine who WANTS to cherish and take care of you.
Many women have what Gillian calls a ‘receivingness wound’ because (in large part of taking on the masculine component for themselves); they are literally preventing themselves from receiving PROVISION from the masculine.
So yes, beauty can literally attract more prosperity and wealth without having to be a Sugar Baby and without having a more literal exchange as an escort.
I have clients that are doing very well (and other men lined up to be with them) with men who are their match and not compromising.
Where can you take it when you have maxed out your extrinsic beauty potential at the top of the game? With energetic beauty! And it will change HOW the world relates to you.
So just how MUCH energetic beauty can you cultivate?
If you want a more thorough transformation, I would recommend the Allure Makeover Package available here.
If you want to cultivate wealth for the long-term with an endowed man that aligns with your vision-path, you can attract that and build a wealthy kingdom together.
In that case I would recommend the Hieros Gamos X Queenpath.
Beauty & Spiritual Growth
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What does beauty have to do with authentic spiritual growth and fulfillment? Far more than you can imagine!
See, with the popular Western paradigm of personal growth vs. spirituality; beauty gets left out of the equation.
The West values ‘mind, body and soul’ so what often happens is people get into passive zen meditation as a way to counter-balance their busy Western working lifestyle.
What’s missing in that equation is Heart and Sex (where people remain non-conscious) while Beauty itself is unfortunately *relegated to the superficial* because of our limited, 3D understanding of it.
But beauty IS spiritual and deep; not merely superficial. In fact, it can set your soul soaring with spiritual evolution that practically affects the wealth and depth OF your love life, finances, attraction, career, opportunities and more.
We don’t see that with the Mind, Body, Soul paradigm nor with just valuing Beauty as the superficial-founded Beauty industry.
So if now there are trans Youtube media personalities acting catty and bitter and you’re getting kind of tired from the superficiality of beauty and sensing there must be more to it (depth, spiritual connection – anything), take heed.
What is also missing in the passive valuation of Spirituality is the Creative, Sexual Force of Life – and this is where great alchemical power is for spiritual and total transformation of self, relationships and your love life.
This is the realm of King and Queen. Beauty INSPIRES and awakens Kings…it brings that impersonal consciousness into men.
And sure; beauty and the feminine form – superficially – can be inspiring on its own, but it goes deeper than this to get us closer to source. I’ll mention Hieros Gamos again later, but…
Beauty is also the foundational 1st Siddhi of 64 Gene Keys; literally an enlightened feminine aspect of consciousness itself.
When we accept superficial or extrinsic beauty as it is and ALSO include and embrace the multi-dimensional energetic or spiritual essence of Beauty (which can also literally transmit in your photos and videos); we get instantly spiritual as it involves the authentic cultivation of your lighted-bodied and predominantly feminine essenced soul.
Now, because we have broken the limits of mind, body and soul to take on the spirituality of Sex consciously; we are in the world of ESSENCE and the practicality of the divine (or meta-physical) Masculine and Feminine including immortal archetypes like Queen and Lover.
Celebrities are great reference points for immortal archetypes btw.
So the spirituality and implications of beauty go very, very deep because of the concept of hieros gamos or ‘sacred reunification’ which is a rare spiritual path of devotion that works with alchemizing the masculine and feminine aspects of all consciousness for transfiguration of Self.
As you cultivate you are able to hold and transmit even greater energetic and archetypal beauty that transcends your 3D physical looks and personality.
Beauty IS more than skin deep and that’s why celebrities have more influence with image (when you put aside the factor that we know them and have emotional association with them; if we just look at a celebrity we never heard of before we can SENSE there is something going on that isn’t just their physical body or skin).
Your energy is coming across IN your professional image and presence – and that IS spiritual and not limited to the physical dimension. How else can we be influenced from the image of someone from 100 years ago?
Sexy Chi is about direct energetic beauty cultivation which is also LITERALLY cultivating your actual spiritual growth and healing because it’s all one and the same.
We are cultivating your actual soul essence and experience itself – the real thing. We aren’t covering anything up here; it’s more about soul ESSENCE and vulnerability shining through.
Who you ARE is transmitting through your image and presence.
But most people don’t have higher refined light bodies shining through because they are denser and hold personalized identities that limit their influence.
This is the future of the beauty industry and image consulting; it’s mastering your energetic cultivation with essence, embodiment and expression. And there are other literal flavors of essence that can be communicate with and through your own aura and image itself because digital imagery itself is not merely 3D or physical.
So as you cultivate quintessence, devotion, compassion, peace within yourself you are also cultivating energetic beauty to have those qualities influencing in your image AND Vice Versa!
Again; that’s the SECRET to why celebrities really have more INFLUENCE from their image; there is more energetic beauty, power and spiritual consciousness that is transmitting THROUGH their image and presence (aka allure and charisma).
They have non-consciously taken on a greater path of sexual and spiritual growth of consciousness because of their greater purpose to serve and influence millons of people. Most people don’t give themselves permission to be a star, but what if your SOUL desired to be?
Beauty isn’t limited to your physical looks (and we know that too much attention and attachment to superficial beauty can be its own shadow).
To get a better picture of your overall total energetic and non-verbal communication in image;
I like to isolate physical beauty as your Beauty Quotient; valuing maximization of your extrinsic beauty potential unique to your skin, body, hair, etc. on a 10 point scale. That’s what the current multi-billion dollar Beauty industry does.
And I like to look at your energetic beauty level of communication as the Allure Factor on a 10 point scale as well.
SO…Beauty as a CORE aspect of your own spiritual growth? Yes. Does that resonate with your soul on a deeper level?
And it’s not just feminine beauty, but also the valuation of beauty and beautiful things in life – that is also spiritual.
And of course there are masculine essenced siddhic energetic aspects like Honour and Valour that could also be considered beautiful and charismatic that men can EMANATE.
After all the Shadow of Superficiality leads to the siddhi of Presence. And this is all coming across IN your literal image and presence – or not;) because image IS Light energy.
Now spirituality, consciousness, sexuality and the practicality of your image and beauty are ENMESHED – and it includes the totality of beauty and visual communication – not merely limited to the 3D superficial valuation of it.
So if you want to attract the ideal relationship, transform and deepen your current one, attract more provision and prosperity as well as experience tremendous feminine-essenced spiritual growth, you want to cultivate your energetic beauty which can include archetypal and siddhic embodiment as well as attunement alchemy and meditations with Beauty and other siddhic essences.
Cultivating your energetic beauty: that’s exactly what Sexy Chi does!
Fortunately, any work that you do with me is ALSO cultivating your own sacred reunification, healing and spiritual growth of consciousness to BE a richer, deeper, more desirable Lover and Honeypot.
If you want a more direct spiritual path filled with mysticism and magic – even Priestess-hood or of Reunified Queenship, then check out HierosGamosX.com
Beauty & Attracting the Relationship of Your Dreams
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If you want to attract a high value man where ALL of him is fascinated and into you for a rich relationship, consider that alluring feminine beauty universally inspires and captivates the masculine.
It’s not about your personality or developing that more, nor is it limited just to your looks of course (or how other women and the beauty industry values your looks);
It’s esp. about the energetic QUALITIES that you are transmitting to him when he first glances you.
This is what could capture his heart without his conscious awareness…it’s that “Gosh, there’s just something about her” X-factor.
Of course; do what you can with your physical beauty to maximize and express YOU, but you will find that as you cultivate your own ENERGETIC beauty to radiate even MORE into the world, the masculine spirit within men will be drawn to you like bees to honey…and not just for a short-term fling, but for something deeper and more real.
If you want ALL of him (heart, sex, mind, body, spirit and soul) then you want your energetic beauty TOUCHING and activating these aspects within him effortlessly just from your mere presence or image. Let it do the work at cause.
Again; this is different than just your physical attractiveness or body type.
If he is otherwise closed OFF to you because he doesn’t FEEL you in other parts of his psyche, there’s more of a chance he won’t view you as long-term lover potential.
So this is all about DOING LESS (like coming up with these concocted ideas to get his attention) and more about BEING MORE so that he can’t help but notice you.
Many women however, don’t give themselves permission to radiate such essenced-based allure and beauty through ALL of their chakras that transmits out to penetrate his aura and start working magic in him.
Many women (instead), master the extrinsic appearance of looking beautiful but can have a lot of trauma, cover-up or even a masculinized shell to prevent INNER energetic beauty from coming through in their image and presence.
That’s when men are unable to FEEL you. But if you can pierce his heart (with the beauty we are talking about), it can change everything because then his heart is engaged. He’s not just led from the 2nd chakra sex drive anymore.
See, the masculine spirit is INSPIRED BY Beauty. And when he is inspired by you and wants something more and FEELS IT in different aspects of his psyche just from your image and presence – that’s a world of a difference than not feeling you but thinking you’re ‘hot’ while his heart remains closed.
So as you allow your energetic beauty to be cultivated in soul essence, embodiment and then radiating in expression – it literally transforms your energetic presence and image itself.
Your chakras and aura are then transmitting iconic and timeless feminine beauty into the literal energy fields of other people and men and affecting them non-consciously.
Oh and in order to attract such a high level man, here is a great secret;
You want to BECOME that level of woman FIRST so that you are transmitting that out into the world so that he will find you through the Law of Attraction. It’s not about waiting for Prince Charming to show up; it’s about cultivating your energetic beauty and sacred reunification with the masculine within yourself FIRST to be ready for him.
And that can include BEING that level of Queen that would attract her King so that when he meets you, he just knows. And the mega leverage is to have a path of Hieros Gamos where you are reunifying and healing your relationship with Father, King and God; where your alignment is in place so you aren’t just reliant and needy on the next twin flame that could come along that would destroy you if he breaks apart the relationship.
Find more about Hieros Gamos Queenship here. That is a deeper support solution for overall transformation and attracting a King.
So as you cultivate and transform your image to radiate more feminine essence allure and beauty (which includes sacred reunification work), the world of men and how they respond to you transforms around you, but it’s you who had to change first.
When you are in LOVE with the divine masculine and different aspects of it, that energetically comes through in your essence and inspires HIS Prince, Lover, Warrior and Eros….but you are setting the template in that sense. So there’s a lot of cultivation you can do (or healing that has to be done first including trauma in relation to the masculine).
Yes, you can attract the relationship of your dreams and yes you could possibly transform your current relationships as well (however in many cases, the woman wants to grow so much and it threatens his security so it’s not always best for keeping the relationship unless he is willing to change).
My clients are consistently experiencing wondrous results…some of them have been attracting men and opportunities like mad.
To have a more thorough initial transformation I would recommend the Allure Makeover Package to get your energetic beauty really cultivating and breathing from your soul essence; this includes energy healing work as necessary. Either that or the Hieros Gamos X Queenpath.