Image Influence: Your Energy Doesn’t Lie

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Image sells more than ever. Sales and influence is evolving into being more kinaesthetic and psychic in our sensitivies and instincts about someone (esp. for services).

 

People ARE gauging your image whether you deny it, don’t care about it or just ‘want to be yourself’ – people are making assessments about working with you or for other reasons.

 

And your energy actually tells more than you may consciously realize and this is important because your fans, customers and consumers are becoming MORE aware of the truth: they are becoming more psychic.

 

Especially consider that your image can continue influencing people generations from now (and the advanced truth of this is alchemical influence).

 

So….your image is multi-dimensional light communication. It’s not as superficial as you think – that’s only because people have been valuing the 3D and haven’t developed more of these conscious tools that we have with Sexy Chi.

 

Your energy doesn’t lie and here’s something of an idea.

 

As an image consulting professional, if I did an objective energy reading (although I’m tempted breach objectivity on this one) about the author of ‘White Fragility’ it might seem brutal and very offending to some; however it would be true (about her energetic health in particular).

 

Keep in mind that your image is out there and you are IN the public eye. So with Robin DiAngelo if I just saw her image, I couldn’t work with or trust her because it makes me cringe…something FEELS off to me.

 

Sure, her image isn’t main thing in her industry that sells, but if people valued it like it should be valued, they would ‘know’ a lot more.

 

Your image can give out yellow flags for those who can read them – and more people are being able to sense, intuit and read things like this.

 

Again; (conscious) consumers are becoming more aware and psychic of the truth of things – as well as how it matches up with their perception and experience of you. Integrity matters more than ever.

 

The more aware of your energetic truth people are, the more your image is a double-edged sword that can work for or against you; even if they will be MORE attracted to or repelled FROM you.


And they might be repelled for the wrong reasons – or reasons that are entirely out of your awareness. (We can fix these things btw but it’s deeper work in some cases than you might think).

 

Energetic health is foundational and implicated with other things in your life and I can’t afford to NOT tell you accurate truths so that you are aware of it and we can get things aligned. Practical psychic clarity is my foundation with this – even if it hurts.

 

The psychic reading I do is verifiable truths about you and other people; this is what I share. It’s a different style of psychic work than predicting the future btw.

 

Can you afford NOT to take your image professionally at this point?

 

After all it is communicating who you are and consumers and conscious clients ARE becoming more discerning.

 

They are also going to start sensing if you are just looking good superficially but are missing a real energetic soul communication ‘spark’.

 

There can be many things holding back your soul embodiment and expression…energetic health is 1 component.

 

The good news is that there is also more reason for them to be ATTRACTED to you and KNOW they want to work with you just from your image and how it multi-dimensionally affects and even pre-attunes them before they even hear from you.

 

Image is more than just the superficial 3D of beauty and ‘pixels’.

 

Want to really start mastering your image? It may take real soul work but that’s the thing you can’t put a price on…the real energetic beauty which we can cultivate to help you attract more of the good stuff in life while emanating your inner AND outer beauty.

 

I do offer fuller $100 energy readings btw which is a credit/retainer for further work with me.

 

Yes – IMAGE sells and this is an expanded topic I will be sure to write more about (and as you know multiple industries are founded on image having influence and sales like entertainment, media and advertising).

 

If you are an online coach; your image also matters more than ever – ESP. if you are doing anything spiritual or soul related.

 

Do you have the congruent essence that you SAY you do?

 

Is it all coherent?

 

I worked with one spiritual coach who I felt was more ahead of where she was at the start of our first session, but then magically VOILA- her energy opened up and THEN I felt she was the person she was saying she was online and presenting herself as. Her image THEN (re) became congruent with her brand and communication.

 

I’ve had many clients who their businesses picked up and they literally started making more money and attracting new clients after working with me.

 

See, people can sense that (even if non-consciously) and prospects are getting smarter and more psychic like this – and it may even take ongoing energetic maintenance to sustain (and cultivate) your energetic truth – esp. if you are doing video often.

 

Want more influence (LIKE a star) from your image? Master more than just your physical beauty and the traditional image consulting elements of make-up, fashion, skin care and color coordination, etc. Let’s get to work!

 

In many markets, people EXPECT that you are visible and can’t just ‘hide out’ much longer.

 

Different Beauty Activations and readings are available on site.

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The Divinity of Objectification: Part 3

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The Divinity of Sexual Objectification:

 

Part 3 {Masculine Spectrum & Commencement}

 

At this point in human history, understanding that Beauty & Sex are inherent, valuable and powerful aspects of The Feminine (and women themselves!)..

 

And in knowing that these great powers have both been suppressed or controlled for centuries to some extent under more ‘patriarchal’ leadership and to a large extent have recently flourished but have been manipulated and used to condition, sell and influence in this Dark/Shadow Paradigm;

 

AND understanding that we are living in a realm of meta-social & meta-physical media and impersonal relationships which make it nearly impossible NOT to objectify or project onto others, what can we do from here?

 

Understanding that Beauty and Sex IS ultimately good;

 

How can we remove all hypocrisy and double-standards from both the Shadow Paradigm of the Masculine cultural space as well as the conditional-oppressive confusion of post-modern, politically correct feminism?

 

How can we have the best of ALL worlds where women are empowered, honored and given TRUE freedom with SUPPORT and where the majority of men with 10x the testosterone of women aren’t looked at as non-conscious imbeciles or lower status pawns of a social game?

 

For ascension; how can we reclaim Femininity and re-calibrate SEX and Beauty into spiritual alignment and sovereign growth instead of this superficial era of Pottersville (for better and worse)?

 

How can women start having it all but without the judgment, shame and risks of harassment or rape and where Beauty & Sex of the impersonal Feminine can reawaken and heal the world into a new renaissance?

 

And how can we use all of this to the ascension of MEN into Warrior Kings who can provide new cultural space and protection for women, feminine essence and society into new dimensions of heaven on earth?

 

Well; we have to understand masculine consciousness a little bit more – and that which is the culprit of accusations of #objectification (and often very qualified accusations of harassment and rape) towards #women.

 

Since we ARE in it together; this understanding can help us bridge into a new era where women are seen as artists, healers and priestesses instead of just impersonalized sex objects, but where #sexuality itself is ACCEPTED as an aspect of our nature, drive and spirituality – and that’s Ok too.

 

Here’s a new perspective on the masculine objectification of women from 4 different primary but generalized viewpoints; Shadow, Dark, Cultural and Light Masculine.

 

Note how objectification and the value of beauty, sex, skin and outlook towards women changes from each *generalized* perspective.

 

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Shadow Masculine:

 

Rape, I want you as a sex slave, shame on you for showing your skin, I will judge you, shame you, oppress you, make fun of you behind your back, I will use you, you owe me and other men for disavowing us, sexual predators, gang rape, authentic rape porn videos, I will abuse u if I could; I’m under the control of porn, I have porn addiction, rapists, harassers, Harvey Weinstein*, Bill Cosby*, viewing women as prey or JUST as sex objects, sex traffickers, misuse of power for sexual gain, coercion or favors, core incel consciousness, incel driven killers, other clear violations of consent

 

*Weinstein and Cosby consciousness up through 2018. It’s not who they are per se, they can change but to a large extent they lived in Shadow masculine

 

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Dark Masculine: I want to f#ck you and ravish you but only in what should be a consensual container, rape and fetish porn AND fantasies (but not lived out), misogyny, groping (could also be qualified as Shadow), sex cults, most porn use, tyrant prince consciousness, knowingly manipulating, triggering and conditioning others with the power of sex, selling sex, BDSM (consensual containers and agreements)

 

(Legal) Brothel owners, strip club owners, media programmers, advertisers and social matrix architects who are knowingly or justifyingly using sex and skin to sell or condition consumer behavior could be considered part of the Dark masculine qualification.

 

{There is light within the dark but still in an objective sense, it could still be classified as dark on the spectrum}.

 

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*Cultural Masculine: The majority of men conditioned and indoctrinated who are just going along with what is in our culture in front of them, gazing and even admiring the physical beauty and body of women**, occasional but healthy personalized porn use, realizes the value of beautiful women, has favorite celebrity crushes like most men, don’t see it as unnecessarily unhealthy to value the beauty and body of women because he is aware he is sexual and responds to it, lives in a rich fantasy world with women, natural sexual responses to female skin, isn’t actually directly harming women because of objectification at all; in fact he might be kind of in anxiety, fear and awe of women who hold that power b/c of the levels of cultural conditioning where she IS seen like a goddess with high status; can sometimes stare at women too long or make them feel uncomfortable

 

{{Much of the Cultural Masculine consciousness also crosses over with natural, normal sexual male consciousness, I’m just calling it cultural for differentiation’ sake with our shadow paradigm}}

 

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I would add that there is a small percentage or category of men that are ‘Supportive Masculine’ between Cultural and Light however many of those men are actually cow-towing to post-modern feminism while hiding their own sexuality like a wolf in sheep’s clothing with the outer appearance of do-gooder even if they have good intentions. Many of these men also reek of value conflicts and hypocrisy as well.

 

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*Light Masculine – Sexual desires are part of my masculinity and I don’t apologize for them but I would never harass or violate your consent, I admire your beauty and body, I am evolving as a man to meet you in connection, I don’t belittle you, I want you to be powerful and liberated, I never shame or even judge you, I bask in your presence, harnessing and control over sexual energies, doesn’t abuse power even with opportunities, my #King meets your #Queen, your presence inspires, heals and evolves my consciousness, I value your expression and beauty in my entirety, I am attuning in relationship with you and dissolving the unworthiness and smallness in me in your presence, true and conscious co-creative and co-healing, co-empowerment, archetypal magicianship

 

With that said; there are parts of the Light masculine that ARE about true evolution and sexual empowerment of BOTH sexes but are in large part still getting a grasp on more of the meta-physical dynamics of objectification and relating consciously in the impersonal world with archetypes, power.

 

These are men who do might not yet have the training, awareness and powers of meta-physical alchemy to work as Magicians yet in this realm but might be able to otherwise facilitate and hold the space for evolution and co-healing of the masculine and feminine

 

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And even though our current social reality is probably CLOSEST to Cultural, I have still chosen to call it Shadow to highlight imbalances.

 

So as you can see, these are ALL masculine consciousness but it is a spectrum.

 

Some men will move between different types of subjective experience, sometimes fairly often or occasionally deep dive back into fantasy to satiate his deeper, darker sexual desires.

 

Some men stay there more often. The sex sells paradigm and the popularity of porn feed these desires. It can also be seen as energetic harvesting in most cases where the men don’t have full sovereignty, control and choice over their usage of porn.

 

Hyper-sexualization provides interesting dynamics as it plays out in human experience.

 

In the movie ‘Passengers’ for example of the spectrum; Chris Pratts’ character falls from his good guy Cultural Masculine into his Dark Masculine in order to awaken the beautiful woman he had desire for but in effect, sentencing her to death.

 

But where are the majority of our men?

 

They are in the ‘Cultural Masculine’ and they are often on the unrighteous end of feminist accusations who are really lashing out at the Shadow and Dark masculine – or just left out of the conversation being overlooked and misunderstood.

 

I would guess-timate this is the actual breakdown of consciousness on this masculine spectrum:

 

10% Shadow Masculine (where most all of reported or unreported harassment and rape crimes occur)

 

20% Dark Masculine (where most desires are kept as fantasy or lived out consensually) however the architects and manipulators of ‘the game’ can also be called Dark

 

65% Cultural Masculine (including that transitional ‘pseudo-supportive’ masculine on the upper end)

 

5% Light Masculine (with 4% being the sexual evolutionary for both sexes, but still confused about objectification and still non-conscious as a meta-physical alchemist and less than 1% as the Alchemical Light Masculine who works consciously with Archetypal powers of the Divine in Media for healing, attunement and magic on levels beyond cultural attachment, labeling or objectification)

 

SO;

 

Considering we are IMMERSED in im-personal media and relationships; is objectification BAD and should we somehow force all men to stop objectifying women for the comfort of some women (who often are at the double-edged advantage because of their beauty and status?

 

No.

 

Turn on almost any music video and you are instantly in that realm where objectification exists. Open any popular men’s or women’s magazine and it’s there; we are dealing with impersonal relationships.

 

Women also objectify all the time with Beauty and their fashion or music icons.

 

(I’m above the removal of hypocrisy and of value conflicts towards higher truth).

 

I think the REAL issue is not objectification (because remember that it just goes along WITH our reality of impersonalized media); the real issue is with Shadow #consciousness of human nature.

 

Remember that we have THRIVED to an extent with #Beauty and Sex as well as the rising social status and sexual value of women because of the advantages of this otherwise Dark/Shadow Masculine cultural paradigm and space.

 

It’s SHADOW ITSELF. Shadow and #dark masculine ITSELF can be bad. 

 

Objectification CHANGES as #masculine consciousness changes how it relates TO the impersonal power of feminine beauty, #sex and body.

 

Cultural objectification of women is generally harmless albeit non-conscious and more as a superficial consumer escape; however it HAS affected the depth of a lot of human relationships and connection – with a special spiritual disconnect in favor of the more superficial.

 

Another byproduct of our current climate is that because of all the focus and attention; it can make some women a little uncomfortable not out of fear of rape per se from THESE men, but because the man himself has anxiety around her power and doesn’t know how to relate with that which he values so much sexually from all of the conditioning. Many of those men wouldn’t even hurt a fly.

 

The #Metoo movement was about exposing a bulk of the SHADOW #Masculine and the misuse and abuse of power; the imbalances of Dark Masculine.

 

That was critical for us all in the evolution as much as a lot of men want to hold onto the past for fear of the great power of the awakening Feminine (which they fear cannot be controlled).

 

Remember there are major advantages of status, power, attraction and choice that some women have in spite of the dysfunctions of our current Dark/Shadow paradigm.

 

Beauty literally abounds like never before in history.

 

What’s required is a shift in consciousness. A reunification for women themselves into the ALLness of feminine power without shame from either non-conscious masculine or the politically correct feminine. A reclamation of INTRINSIC beauty as well as the superficial.

 

Perhaps one of the most practical things would be to EXPAND the Light masculine values and consciousness and eliminate the Shadow masculine; thusly moving more men out of the ‘stimulus-response friendly’ Cultural masculine into sovereign and divine impersonal power themselves.

 

Expand the Light Masculine and how it views women, keep removing Shadow Masculine.

 

As more men live from LIGHT consciousness that is pro-sex, pro-beauty, pro-women, pro-co-creation with more awareness and move out of Dark and Cultural;

 

This would have profound and world-changing ramifications even if some of the Dark Masculine always remains. We are talking the cultural yin and yang here.

 

It would inspire other men to also evolve and as more women have space to truly be empowered and free without judgment and condemnation, we will experience heaven on earth culturally.

 

As more WOMEN become sovereign and in touch with authentic self-expressed femininity without fear of reprisal, it will heal and inspires others and call more men to support instead of oppress or manipulate.

 

So with that said, let me reconnect with what is possible…a LIGHT Masculine paradigm that individual men and brands (like Sexy Chi) can LIVE in how they relate to and hold space with women before the rest of the Cultural climate catches up.

 

Let’s talk about the Divinity of Objectification one more time.

 

The divinity of objectification (and a pro-beauty, pro-sex feminism outlook) acknowledges that:

 

*Beauty is good

 

*Beauty is divine

 

*Beauty is a value in itself

 

*Sex and beauty are inherent, powerful aspects of femininity

 

*Intrinsic (or ‘energetic’) and extrinsic beauty matter

 

*Image is multi-dimensional Light communication and can be alchemical in influence

 

*A woman is free to explore the gamut of immortal, sexual feminine consciousness in embodiment and expression of self instead of just being restricted to the more recent archetype of feminist

 

*After being oppressed, allure retakes its place as a prime value of feminine essence and expression

 

*A woman can be free to surrender into the greater expression OF her impersonal feminine because of the conscious OR non-conscious male gaze b/c nothing will take away her sovereignty and fuller expression

 

*Beauty is no longer just about her external appearance but is both intrinsic and extrinsic in how it comes across IN her presence and image

 

*Body, eros and sensuality are embraced and owned consciously

 

*Light masculine supports and co-creatively can guide women in the space of this new awakening, healing and ascension

 

*Feminine empowerment and awakening includes sovereign sexual self-expression and growth without fear, shame or new trauma

 

*Media amplifies HER power into the realm of the immortal and impersonal

 

*Media is understood and related to as Light and power (that has influence to affect consciousness) stored for eternity and isn’t just merely digital pixels and studio lighting for superficial diversion

 

*Media is a practical platform for the literal awakening of divine (impersonal) feminine consciousness and goddess rising; in spite of its past shadow aspects and values

 

*A woman will not be shamed for showing skin (at least not in the space of the Light Masculine; that which she can also develop a devotional relationship to)

 

*More men will enter Light masculine consciousness to evolve and support the FULL expression of women while dropping Dark and Shadow masculine tendencies

 

*More men will meditate and commune with their spiritual counterparts of Goddesses and Queens cultivating their own divinity and archetypal consciousness

 

*Sovereignty is above social matrix shadow power games of manipulation, control, conditioning and influence

 

*The awareness is that we are not consumer pawns or statistics but souls with impersonal, god and goddess like power and influence as more powerful sentient beings

 

*Media consumers will become alchemists instead of entertainment being known as a non-conscious diversion or superficial escape of personalized judgment

 

*Awareness is that we value our image as a sovereign, ACCURATE self-expression and that we can have eternal influence from our image and presence; now connected to our own immortal legacy

 

*Our ‘digital’ or meta/media presence is alchemical, medicinal and can have healing properties through the Law of Resonance

 

*Our image will be used in the future by psychics and alchemists for people to heal, transform and evolve their consciousness

 

*MV (yes music video) is a pink elephant and playground for divine feminine power that has been unacknowledged from post-modern feminists

 

*We connect with the historical and immortal truth of Beauty and Sex into new realms of enlightened experience, sexuality and creativity

 

And more Light masculine instead of being a response to the Light and Shadow aspects of objectification more consistently become;

 

*Co-creative magicians, healers and alchemists


*Lovers and admirers of women
*Authentic, unified supporters of sexual healing and ascension without hypocrisy

 

Men in Light Masculine consciousness can relate with women in media, not just from a non-conscious, ‘rapacious’ selfish, male gaze but more as Kings, Warriors, Magicians and Alchemists.

 

How do we make such a shift as well as a shift beyond post-modernism?

 

Seek those who are living the change. There are men and women who are AHEAD of the Cultural curve now – and there are a few of us who are into TRUE co-creation and true, unconditional sovereignty.

 

More Light Masculine is called forth to provide space for this new healing dynamic.

 

In my case, I’m not waiting for the rest of cultural consciousness to catch up with this heresy because most of them haven’t been listening, I’ve BEEN living it and will continue to with myself and Sexy Chi.

 

With that said; this is also an open conversation because it involves all of us. Feel free to comment, post, etc.

 

We are at a verge of a new shift esp. after the California wildfires (at the time of this original post).

 

In general; I would say to choose sovereignty and resolution of value conflicts. Enter more Light, more true power (and not force/coercion/misuse) and remove Shadow.

 

Oh; I forgot to add that archetypally speaking, objectification and any form of male observership FUELS Muse and Diva consciousness.

 

And if you doubt this exists or sounds too futuristic, I have literally meditated for 14,000 hours with impersonal Feminine archetypes in music video (transformational entertainment and sex transmutation) and guide/lead an underground of male media alchemists who are into the divinity of objectification.

 

We are living the future model of how entertainment and media can be consumed as well as Light Masculine consciousness that embraces sexuality but values women as High Priestesses and miracle-workers not ‘just’ as objects.

 

Most of Cultural masculine doesn’t view most women as objects per se (that’s more Dark and Shadow), but it’s hard NOT to objectify until they get into more conscious, empowered awareness without double-standards or just conditioned responses to the matrix around them.

 

We are living underground with media as Prince’s and Magicians alchemically and transformationally instead of just relating to women and their bodies as a shallow, non-conscious diversion of a shadow social power game of conditioning.

 

In any case, I will continue cultivating and providing this integrity and devotion for the divine feminine including in the quality of my presence and work – even when others aren’t.

 

So for the NEXT STEP: What can u do?

 

Value and cherish the Light Masculine and men who are close to that consciousness who can usher in a new era.

 

Stop getting angry only at the Dark and Shadow masculine and feeding that aggregate more attention.

 

Consider a more spiritually aligned, truth-based reality of the sexes based on reunification rather than perpetuating a sex war.

 

Forgive men and the Shadow masculine of the past when possible.

 

Resolve your own value conflicts around Sex and sensuality.

 

Question whether post modern-feminism is the ultimate choice for sovereignty and holistic awakening.

 

Start being the change u wish to see. Get around other women who are living in the future now.

 

Resolve your own value conflicts around feminine sexual power and heal any shame or trauma with it and the masculine so you can be shameless, LIBERATED and integrous.

 

Cultivate your own Feminine essence and energetic beauty anyways in spite that MOST male consciousness is just responsive-natural (cultural), dark or shadow.

 

Cultivate your relationship WITH your archetypal self, activate your allure.

 

See if the Diva or Muse archetypes (or others) are on your path to help you properly transmute male attention into even greater soul freedom, power, sexuality and expression (whether it’s dark masculine or not).

 

Reunite with the soul-centered divinity of beauty as INTRINSIC and not just extrinsic. This is an exciting time and there is a LOT of power (and even advantage) that we live in an era of media and impersonality LIKE today to have power like Starlets, Kings and #Goddesses without having to be famous.

 

Are we going to live it consciously or in our darker, non-conscious aspects with it all?

 

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The Divinity of Objectification: Part 2

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The Divinity of  Sexual Objectification Part 2

   {The Shadow Paradigm}

 

**Deep Dive** <> **Long Read**

 

(Sexual) Objectification is popularly known as where a woman is (presumably) viewed as an ‘object’ (of male sexual desire) instead of being treated as a real, relatable human.

 

But are women just pawns of male fantasy through social media, men’s magazines like Maxim and the pop world of advertising? Or are they (some) massively benefiting while 99% of MEN are the one’s getting left behind socially, sexually and spiritually? Hmm…

 

Before I get into why objectification can even be GOOD for both men and women and is an integral part of our ascension (from a Light Masculine perspective instead of Shadow), I digress..

 

It seems obvious why there might be initial outrage; of course women are humans TOO, they shouldn’t be treated as objects.

 

And post-modern Feminists have a logical point, but I would argue are out of touch with reality for several reasons.

 

1. Many women massively benefit from this paradigm and objectification (despite some shadow aspects – Nicki Minaj and the Kardashians are perfect examples)

 

2. Objectification has risen the sexual, social value and status of (many) women to star-like, quantum proportions far, far ahead of most men

 

3. Most feminists have value conflicts (or confusion) themselves around sex and beauty which often comes across as hypocritical or conditional

 

4. Post-modern Feminists dis-acknowledge the biological and spiritual role in all of this from the masculine side of the coin

 

And perhaps the most important point;

 

From the current climate; it is near impossible NOT to objectify or project onto others in an era of media where many to most of our relationships are now impersonal and not human 1-to-1 interaction.

 

Because now we are talking about meta-physical (youtube, music video, advertising, print media, photo, video) and meta-social (instagram, facebook) relationships.

 

In most cases, they don’t know the woman personally, they are in relationship to her impersonality (Kardashians anyone?)

 

After written word, art, stories and recorded music; this level of self-replication or power didn’t exist before the advent of photographic or digital media except in the imagination of human consciousness.

 

It amplifies what we value.

 

Despite dark and shadow where it crosses lines, mostly The masculine has always been in love and in awe with the feminine.

 

And as Camille Paglia says; “(men’s magazines)…are not tell-tale signs of the (patriarchal) oppression over women, but are instead signs of his endless and hopeless fascination OF women and sex” (paraphrased).

 

Post-modern feminists rarely acknowledge the good that men have done.

 

So now with media; a woman can now influence 1,000,000 souls near instantly after uploading a photo to instagram. That is powerful and it is meta-physical influence; she can MOVE people without even BEING there.

 

She could be getting a facial treatment while 1000’s of people are responding or purchasing her recommended products.

 

(And even though there is a Light thread of consciousness throughout all of this that is PREPARING us for a quantum evolution) >

 

Let’s view this entire current reality mostly as a SHADOW paradigm of objectification for clarification;

 

One that (despite it’s popular, social advancement of women) is filled with lower conscious values and behavior on BOTH sides of the equation.

 

And it’s predicated on the reality (for better and worse) that SEX SELLS. And a lot of 3rd wave feminists HATE that.

 

Why? Because from one perspective, women are being ‘used’.

 

After all; the current system isn’t putting individual consciousness first and foremost…it crosses over into indoctrination, cultural conditioning, win-lose relationships and misuse of power.

 

There is much fault in the system when we look at it. But is tearing it down the best answer?

 

So this post-modern perspective that is somehow also anti-woman; in a sense it’s kind of wanting to remove or suppress sex and beauty itself from the equation in favor of political correctness;

 

‘Let’s be FOR women’s empowerment, but not if you show some skin’.

 

And judgment and shaming comes into the equation because then they are ‘taking part of this oppressive patriarchy’.

 

But isn’t that ironically limiting her own self-expression if she WANTS to do it?!

 

Emma Watson was dealing with this backlash for example after being on the cover of a magazine. I could energetically read and sense her dealing with the stress and value conflicts in different photos.

 

Emily Ratajkowski claims her ability to show skin and beauty is part of being a feminist and empowering her choice (to the chagrin of post-modern purists).

 

But, no wonder a lot of women have just become confused and no wonder that despite having a hyper sexualized culture, we are also not very sexually conscious because of all the shame, judgment, criticism and dark tendencies of misuse, harassment and abuse.

 

But is a woman’s beauty AT FAULT?

 

Is this conditional empowerment the ultimate answer for the awakening of women without having to return to the 1950’s?

 

Hmm…

 

Unfortunately; many women have taken the logical route bandwagon and SUPPRESSED their sexuality, sensuality and femininity to adapt to adapt to the dynamics of this masculine led paradigm. And to get ahead ‘in the game’ socially and professionally.

 

And it makes sense to SOME extent when you consider how non-conscious and judgmental mainstream male consciousness is towards women; where a woman can be slut-shamed – or in extreme cases be at risk of harassment or rape.

 

One thing that is glaringly obvious is that men are a big part of this equation.

 

MOST modern men are not helping at ALL; they are also pawns (I wouldn’t say victims, but pawns) of this social matrix that sells sex and uses it more to condition and control or influence people rather than heal and awaken them.

 

Just take a look (or perhaps don’t) at youtube and yahoo commenters and how much shaming is involved towards women who have or express physical beauty and body. The current consciousness of man can’t handle it and almost DOES want to control or suppress it.

 

And a shadow part of this paradigm (well and humanity itself) has also been exposed with the #metoo movement. This is GOOD and necessary part of the re-balancing.

 

But ISN’T it true that Sex and Beauty is an INHERENT aspect OF the impersonal and spiritual Feminine?

 

And that her physical form is an invaluable feature OF feminine beauty?

 

And despite a fraction of the male population that would act out on shadow fantasies to control or abuse a woman (which has always been historical), hasn’t her form and beauty INSPIRED most of all of mankind, creation and evolution?

 

Perhaps #feminism today is just responding WITHIN THE CONTAINER of the shadow/dark masculine side of this cultural creation that ‘sells’ and uses sex and beauty as a tool of influence and where non-conscious objectification of women and the female form runs rampant?

 

Is porn a shadow aspect of consciousness or is it a form of ART, beauty and self-expression?

 

It pends on your perspective. Like money or fire, it can be used for good or for destruction. Are we even looking at the Light side of the equation? And what if we started removing the shadow aspects?

 

In any case; Sex and beauty have higher value than ever in our era of MEDIA which has allowed objectification to thrive with female form now everywhere in magazines, videos, the internet and advertising.

 

Isn’t that a good thing? Doesn’t it give women MORE power and possibility? Why aren’t we valuing the good that it has done?

 

Or is there something we are missing here entirely that is part of the overall awakening of feminine consciousness?

 

So even though the current masculine ‘patriarchal’ dynamic doesn’t offer true freedom and environmental space for the feminine essence and neither does post-modern feminism represent the entirety of immortal feminine consciousness and desire;

 

There are some legitimate reasons behind their perspective for concern.

 

Let’s look more into the shadow aspects because this power of Sex and objectifying women is having influence on actual culture, behavior and relationships.

 

Another downside of the current shadow paradigm cultural aggregate in which non-conscious objectification runs rampant (and gives women great power to adapt into the aggregate) is > the focus on Beauty as extrinsic, external and literally ‘superficial’. Body, booty, tits and ass.

 

Nothing wrong with it of course but is that ‘all’?

 

I would say this isn’t ‘bad’ per se but in the bigger picture it becomes clearer that this is kind of a real Dark trait because it effectively divorces from intrinsic beauty and internal self-worth, authentic soul expression and a woman’s holistic beauty.

 

It’s kind of removed the spiritual, humanistic and soulful essence OUT of professional image.

 

Sure some women go to extremes with botched plastic surgery to fit within these idealized standards.

 

That could be seen as a dark aspect, but at least hasn’t external beauty itself been allowed to thrive more than ever?

 

Unfort. much of the focus on the superficial seems to work against a lot of women who are left out of ‘the game’ and who don’t have the double-edged sword privilege of being beautiful?

 

The (external valuing) Beauty industry is MASSIVE and growing. It’s indoctrinated into our popular culture; Cosmo, Vanity Fair, Kardashian’s and companies drivings billions of dollars in revenue (L’Oreal, Maybelline, etc.). Products, products, products.

 

Beauty and Sex SELLS – and these are core feminine powers and values.

 

Is there divinity in any of this without having to rewind to 1950’s values?

 

There IS…and that’s what I’m getting to, but I do believe the foundation and container we have is FLAWED and includes power games and shadow where a woman is concerned about even dressing sexy in a workplace and being at risk of physical or emotional harassment and men abusing their powers and status.

 

There is also a misunderstanding OF the authentic biological differences between men and women from feminists, that men have 10x the testosterone and that he can literally be affected sexually just from a sexual image.

 

But is the answer to SUPPRESS beauty it because some men can’t handle it or control themselves?..I would encourage discussion on this post b/c we are all part of this conversation.

 

In Western pop culture (and South Korea); Beauty and sexiness is a massive value. I believe this is all integral to our ascension as compared to the outright repression of female form in Egypt, Saudi Arabia and Muslim filled countries. But it requires a shift in our consciousness.

 

I will add that not all Western women are using beauty dysfunctionally per se, but remember we are just talking about the shadow aspects of our current paradigm here.

 

Now; let’s look at the UN-acknowledged men’s side that is also at disadvantage.

 

Part of the shadow of this paradigm of objectification is the Pavlovian style conditioning that has taken place from advertisers for 50 plus years harnessing, using and/or manipulating Sex and skin to get men to get triggered into a sexual emotional response through association and for women to buy based on competition and status (Beauty).

 

It’s almost like we are indoctrinated into the entire paradigm. We are taught to value something and then that demand can be manufactured and cultivated.

 

It’s very Apollonian as Camille would argue and IS in alignment with the greater sex drive dynamics going on. Man desires to kind of control or suppress beauty because he is also afraid of it and the raw primordial energies of the pure Dionysian #feminine and the subconscious murkiness of ‘the womb’.

 

Men’s magazines literally support all of this sexual constructivist, Apollonian fantasy relationship conditioning with their Top 100 lists and writing such as “sacrificing a left nut to sleep with this one woman for 1 night”.

 

Beauty is glorified but often with shadow aspects and sacrifices.

 

This social matrix cultural ‘conditioning’ itself has carried over into physical relationships with millions of men now living through anxiety around beautiful high status women which further feeds the fantasy of relationships and leaves them unable to cope with real women.

 

People often end up buying the fantasy of relationships moreso than truly connecting with each other.

 

Many single women keep buying into more Beauty and higher status often living vicariously through novels, movies, tv shows, and consumer products and for men it’s worse.

 

They are often on the bottom end of the stick unless they have material wealth. Now, we even have #incels who are so out of reach with women that they may never even get a date or have the courage to even say ‘hi’. Postmodern feminists don’t care at all about that and how real women relate to them as the disavowed, is not the nurturing, healing, caring and cultivating consciousness FOR their Kingship.

 

There are men who are so stuck in a non-conscious, man-child cycle of porn and fantasy that it might be all they ever know because to them it feels feminists are angry towards men and all other women have sexually disavowed them as the outcasts.

 

Stunting men’s evolution as well;

 

This is SHADOW of our current paradigm (and to some extent of Capitalism itself). Most men won’t know what it’s like to be objectified but they also won’t get to benefit from all of the attention, attraction, choice and status that it provides.

 

But they also don’t have to be on the dark side of the receiving end either; harassment and misuse of power etc. nearly as much.

 

But are THOSE the men who are rapists and does objectification cause rape (where they have no accountability over their own decisions)?

 

And when the hell can we have a society or space where a woman can be as sexy and FREE as she wants to be as part of her true self?

 

Well; we’ll get to that outlook.

 

I agree that objectification might ‘fuel’ the shadow masculine of those that have shadow tendencies and would take action out of abuse of power and control dynamics, but I don’t think objectification is directly correlated ‘at cause’ with rape.

 

Before media, men have had fantasies and desires for millennia but of course men should be behaving more consciously.

 

But I don’t believe that the solution is necessarily to be ultra-conservative either (reference Islam or ultra-Christian) because then a lot of things just go underground anyway because of our primal urges.

 

I believe Sex and the image of women is now here for the evolution of humanity into an entire new era of co-creation and consciousness. She HAS been suppressed for centuries and centuries.

 

From experience; I see and know the gap between Shadow and Light. In working with men’s dating and attraction for 15 years, I would say that many GOOD men have turned more beta and self-doubting than ever or have becomes involuntarily celibate.

 

And other than the smaller percentage of men that would actually lash out; most of the men who are objectifying women (and really just projecting fantasies onto the impersonal feminine) wouldn’t wouldn’t hurt a fly.

 

Even in the midst of the overdue #metoo movement (of which I was doing L.A. gridworking before it happened to cleanse out corruption), a lot of OTHER men were entirely being unacknowledged and overlooked…not even part of the conversation and still frustrated.

 

Many incels DO view women as objects and express urges to use women as sex slaves and so forth b/c of being disavowed.

 

This is a shadow aspect of the masculine; it doesn’t mean that they would actually turn women into sex slaves. Is disavowing them even MORE the entire answer?

 

With it all; I think equality of outcome is dangerous and despite the suffering of incels, I don’t think a neo-Marxist approach of leveraging women to nourish those men sexually would ever work (something even Dr. Jordan Peterson postulated). Why? Because women in their independence and sovereignty wouldn’t want to do that.

 

Thus we must admit that life isn’t fair. Capitalism isn’t perfect but I think is far closer to spiritual freedom and truth than Socialism for several reasons including that there are no limits (necessary for ascension).

 

But we are talking about the Shadow aspects. Sex has in large part become fantasy (look at the gaming industry and how most of those men would have issues relating with socially accepted women).

 

It’s all mostly fantasy b/c of this appropriation of sexual #energy that really benefits the architects and corporations the most. Men are conditioned by default. Women ARE on pedestals but mostly with these other shadow aspects.

 

Sex, its energy and power is used as a TOOL…even a commodity. Some women have it and have the power in this game and can wield it – even keep it forever from certain men.

 

Again; shadow dynamics also because it isn’t centered on a woman’s sexual and spiritual growth nor a full integrity of human relating and CONNECTION.

 

It’s capitalist consumer driven ‘dark’. From the shadow outlook of the paradigm that has a lot of shadow; there’s a lot of gloss but not a lot of soul from its core and how we relate with it.

 

In some sense; it’s kind of like what happens to Bedford Falls when it turns into Pottersville…where the values just seem out of alignment and only Capitalistic exchange or manipulation (and the Shadow of Capitalism called Greed and Profiteering).

 

With that said; I admit that MOST of the ‘fault’ of this Shadow paradigm must go to side of the masculine; the side that has originally created, architected and profiteered off of using and selling sex and beauty (for better and worse). Kind of like Mr. Potter who saw profit in ‘It’s a Wonderful Life.’

 

The side that has created this less than perfect space for women, but has also allowed some aspects (including some female archetypes) to thrive.

 

It is an old paradigm. Some would refer to it as ‘the patriarchy’.

 

So with all of this;

 

Should we DISAVOW or suppress a woman’s inherent aspects of SEX and Beauty just because there are some shadow aspects that are being manipulated or controlled by some men of power?

 

Is THAT the ultimate answer? I don’t think so.

 

And it’s where post-modern feminists get it wrong imo. Men definitely have to step up and start being a new change but not in the sense of disavowing THEIR authentic primal desires for women either in favor of what sounds cushy and heart-centered only either.

 

And what if there were OTHER aspects of meta-feminine consciousness that WERE thriving that feminists weren’t even valuing or looking at?

 

What if (in this post #metoo era); modern women can start RECLAIMING the authentic and holistic power of their sex, beauty, form and allure without shame and without waiting for the entire cultural space to evolve?

 

And what if a few heroic men could evolve to step up and hold space WITHOUT shame or judging them for it?

 

Hmmm….And this is where we start transitioning into the #Light.

 

If #Sex, #Beauty and Form are inherent, powerful aspects of the Impersonal Feminine…should we deny that they are feminine as a logical and emotional response to the current shadow paradigm?

 

OR…

 

What would happen instead if we removed the Shadow aspects (that use it to manipulate, sell, condition, objectify, barter, power-play or even abuse)?

 

What if we reconnected with the DEVOTIONAL, #sexual and spiritual aspects of the masculine and feminine?

 

What would the male gaze be like if it wasn’t just perceived as #shadow #masculine in regards to #objectification?

 

What if women could live in sovereignty with FULL freedom of expression of ALL of the archetypal and immortal Feminine and had environments that could support that without sexual shame or oppression?

 

And what if post-modern feminism was simply a ‘step’ (and an often dysfunctional, hypocritical one at that) on the path to TRUE sovereignty and power reuniting the FULLNESS of The #Feminine for the holistic ascension of woman?

 

THIS is where we can start looking at the Divinity of Objectification as well as the alchemical and co-creative possibilities for #ascension with Beauty, Sex and #spiritual growth.

 

An era that allows even MORE power and growth than ever before in human history.

 

Finish in Part 3…

 

The Divinity of Objectification: Part 3

{Masculine Spectrum & Commencement}

 

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The Divinity of Objectification: Part 1

Beauty Essence Blog

Is sexual objectification of women GOOD? Is it toxic and unhealthy?

 

Is it demeaning, disempowering or bad to see women objectified throughout pop culture, magazines, movies, beauty and advertising?

 

 

I’m going to bring in a different perspective which may deeper your contemplation on all of these dynamics.

 

After all, we are talking about the power and influence of Sex and Beauty.

 

So welcome to this 3 part blog-series…Let’s dive in.

 

What if there was a reality where:

 

*Women aren’t just seen as ‘lustful objects of desire’ from men but are valued as artists, spiritual guides, priestesses and alchemical muses?

 

*Sex and Beauty is acknowledged as part of a woman’s full empowerment and not hypocritically shamed or judged?

 

*A woman’s image is immortal and medicinal?

 

*Sex, allure and sensuality are healed from trauma with the shadow masculine and reclaimed?

 

*Feminine allure is central to soulful self-expression and professional image as well as life-giving, healing and inspirational to awakening the benevolent Masculine and Kingship?

 

*Individual, soul aligned sovereignty and self expression is more important than social power play games and maneuvers?

 

*Beauty is valued as both intrinsic and extrinsic in her image and presence?

 

*An era of archetypal, allure, intrinsic beauty and energy work for professional image is thriving?

 

*Co-creation and co-healing is valued over profiteering and disavowing lower status members of the social game?

 

*A woman can explore a full range of unlimited feminine powers, embodiment and expression without shame?

 

*A woman can be free to be in her fullest sexual expression (and explore it beyond even that) without being labeled a slut or risk harassment or rape?

 

*Attention from men fuels her more into her Queenship?

 

What if there was a future where her image inspires and cultivates beta men into Kings and Warriors through the transmission of her own presence?

 

Where a woman can be seen and valued as a radiant goddess with real meta-physical powers of influence?

 

What if all this was possible?!

 

Now; based on your perspective…Consider that..

 

There IS a Divinity of Objectification and much of it has to do with how we relate to the POWER of a woman moving from shadow and non-consciousness into working as magical, alchemical Lightworkers.

 

Beauty, sex, sensuality are GOOD – not something to be shamed or embarrassed of. Sexual desire from the conscious Light and Dark masculine is good as we remove shadow aspects.

 

There is a future where a woman doesn’t have to choose between a postmodern feminism bandwagon or higher status in a superficial capitalistic game but where FULL sovereignty and unbridled feminine power is the unharbored value.

 

Where her image isn’t just for low-brow diversions of non-conscious male gaze but for the inspiration, cultivation and connection for the divine masculine in men.

 

The divinity of sexual objectification is where we get into the spiritual implications and the CONSCIOUS aspects of relating to each other as gods and goddesses;

 

Kings and Queens….of becoming more powerful sentient beings LIKE stars because of the power of Media and Image (and how it amplifies our influence).

 

And it’s a meta-physical world of multi-dimensional eros power where archetypes play and live as immortal Gods and Goddesses.

 

Where a woman’s im-personalized essence and body in photos and video can be related to and with in reverence and medicinal alchemy.

 

And where men are inspired and healed from the presence of women instead of disavowed or looked down upon as lower status pawns in a social power game.

 

But before we go into more detail about the divinity of objectification as well as the awakening, co-creation and healing that is possible;

 

Let’s next look a bit at our current state of objectification; the IMAGE of women, sex and beauty socio-culturally as well as how it intersects with post-modern feminism.

 

(Because this ended up being so long, it’s split into different parts)

 

See…. The Divinity of Objectification Part 2

{The Shadow Paradigm}

 

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What is Allure?

Beauty Essence Blog

So…we’ve heard of it often, but…

 

What is Allure?

 

‘al·lure’

1. the quality of being powerfully and mysteriously attractive or fascinating.

 

2. powerfully attract or charm; tempt.

 

Or as Gillian Pothier says:

 

“Allure is the energetic capacity for women to captivate, magnetize, spellcast and wield influence REGARDLESS of their “extrinsic beauty”.

 

I also like this definition for our practical purposes:

 

Allure: ”The effective visual expression of a soul that wields influence”

 

In other words; it is about a woman’s energetic beauty, essence & authentic soul (or energetic) communication
IN her professional image and presence.

 

It’s also how she can drive men wild and activate parts of the masculine psyche without doing anything.

 

This is because Image is multi-dimensional Light communication and we are more than just the 3D physical layer.

 

While the multi-billion dollar Beauty industry is focusing on 3D extrinsic beauty, energetic beauty (and the influence with feminine allure) is what’s missing and gives us a bigger picture ‘totality’ of her professional image and non-verbal communication.

 

‘Allure’ is also the feminine essence form of ‘charisma’ & great starlets like Marilyn Monroe have wielded it.

It does taking learning to discern it because it is a quality of feminine essence rather than just physical, skin-based ‘canvas’.

 

Allure is a hidden secret to romantic attraction, higher status, deeper influence on people, greater beauty, fuller
divine self expression.

 

It reunites ‘beauty’ with the divine and not just the superficial or extrinsic.

 

Far too many woman have lost touched with these powers today; they have masqued or closed OFF their more vulnerable feminine expresion and influence to adapt to a more patriarchal world (where they use their body or sex to influence or even manipulate – and as Gillians says about this disconnection “it renders us un-feelable.”

 

Allure can be gauged as the relative level of breathing-ness and general feminine archetypal essence of a woman’s soul IN her image.

 

And this means everything for coaches, actresses and other social media or image professionals who use their image, photo, video or film for influence, transformation, entertainment or selling.

 

For image professionals and for your own personal insights;
Allure can be ‘read’ from any woman in video, photo, film or live @ any point in captured history through Rion’s Allure Ratio.

 

The Allure Ratio (A/R) consists of the Allure Factor {A/F} and the Beautv Quotient {B/Q}.

 

These gauge the breathing-ness of a woman’s soul in her image on a 0-10 scale {A/F} and the B/Q gauges the level of her actualized extrinsic beauty potential on a 0-10 scale unique to her @ any point in time.

 

Check back on this blog for energy readings on celebrities as examples or how to reach out for your own energy reading including the Allure Ratio.

 

The Allure Ratio is a pro image consulting tool that would yield accurate and verifiable assessment from makeover specialists and other image industry professionals (personal trainers, skin care specialists, master hairstylists, image consultants, fashion experts, etc.)

 

Without accessing and increasing the quality of her allure and overall energetic beauty; a woman is limited more to her physical beauty and prevented from her fuller divine emotional, sexual, spiritual and soulful expression in her presence and image, thus limiting her impact and magic…even constricting her to work harder by using her body or mind as ‘tools’ or competing just on extrinsic beauty alone.

 

Alas, there is so much INFLUENCE with authentic feminine essence that is yet to be re-awakened and reclaimed in many a woman.

 

Many women have energetic blocks from expression their own sexual energy because they are reserving it for their personalized sex life without realizing that they are constricting the creative juices that can lead to her desires.

 

Also, if you are a woman who has done a lot of soul work and spiritual growth, it might not be showing in your image near where it could.

 

Previously allure was intangible, but now we can professionally work with it to increase your beauty as well as INFLUENCE from your image – related to important aspects of life.

 

Sexy Chi Image Consulting is about cultivating your energetic beauty, feminine essences and allure. Activation sessions and the Allure Makeover Package are available as well as paid energy readings.

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