Social Influence: ‘Power’ MV – Little Mix

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I’ve got some thoughts I want to get out about this music video in the hopes of helping make people more aware of what’s really going on with media and the kind of influence it has…social dynamics.

 

Let me first say that I love their sound and that they ARE empowered….remember that I’m not just about tradition. The work I do for women IS about empowerment (although mostly in their more spiritual feminine qualities).

 

I will continue Goddess activations and so forth and would love to work with them. Here’s the video:

 

Little Mix – Power (Official Video) ft. Stormzy

 

So it’s like a Girl Power, Independent Woman, Feminist anthem.

 

This is AWESOME – for what it is.

 

In this case I’m not going to talk about their energetic beauty but about the social dynamics going on.

 

First of all, I LOVE the sound of it. It’s got a very catchy hook – which is what also makes it dangerous. DANGEROUS for conditioning because it gets in the emotional belief system of those who listen to it.

 

The catchy hook is ‘I’ve got the Power’.  …”I’m the one whose in control”

 

Now; I’ve got a couple of angles on this so I wouldn’t just assume that I’m just a Conservative and put me into a box.

 

I’d love to work with Little Mix as artists and help them btw. I would relate to them WITH power and as much as this is a feminist anthem, we want to look more deeply into the implications of that.

 

From one perspective…a post-modern feminist one, it makes sense for women to now have a lot of power and status after eons of oppression under shadow aspects of what some refer to as the patriarchy.

 

What’s missing in this music video however are Kings. Keep in mind that I’m not coming from the perspective of being an incel. I’ve worked with single men for years however and am aware of what THEY are going through and how they are being left behind.

 

Remember; I’m on the FOREFRONT of empowering women – just not in all the popular ways however. And I think it’s on men to be aware of the social and power dynamics so that they CAN relate to women like this and NOT remain beta weaklings.

 

Anyways;

 

Their expression here in the video and song is about the shadow dynamic of ‘control’; control of the man and the relationship while having even higher status and power.

 

This is kind of like a Shadow Queen or Feminist-Diva – and there are OTHER archetypal expressions (also of which I’m sure Little Mix explores although I don’t know all of their work).

 

The thing is, modern Western men are getting left behind with this kind of emotional and CULTURAL programming that influences millions of women to adopt this behavior.

 

It becomes about unattainable superstar status women.

 

So is it about breaking down modern men? Kind of. This is ‘WHAT SELLS’. And it’s what’s popular…yet meanwhile, men are lost and there are no women encouraging real Kings or relatability (on any level).

 

From a Feminist perspective this is GREAT and very empowering – esp. after such SUPPRESSION of the meta feminine (which I also talk about) for eons.

 

HOWEVER…; be wary of the messaging…

 

If she has the ‘control’ in the relationship, he is going to be a beta weakling servant to her desires. 1 partner has to hold the dominant polarity.

 

From a healthy relationship perspective it’s not really about ‘power’ anyways…it’s more about connection and flow.

 

This is more of the social status power play to make up for a micro-fraction of men being in power in society while again – MOST MEN are being left behind.

 

Most modern single men can’t relate to this status of women and yet millions of women for over a decade keep getting further ahead sexually and socially. The social dynamics are real.

 

It’s a cultural phenomenon and issues; this disconnect and also fracturing of the masculine with the feminine (and where sex and the idea of relationships sell).

 

I just think men have to find a way to BE empowered themselves instead of all of the social messaging which is breaking them down and leaving them hopeless while buying into the fantasy of relationships (which sells).

 

So Little Mix are unreachable in status for almost all men. I personally LOVE THAT b/c after working with men for so long I’m about the advancement of women now.

 

It’s on men to find a way and I’ve given a path….just be REALLY cognizant of the social programming values and influence here.

 

The song conditions that women have the upper hand culturally, personally and sexually on an emotional level so men hardly have any chance and they go out into a world where other Western women are adopting these beliefs and behaviors. I’ve been teaching on this for 18 years now as a former top men’s dating coach.

 

So; men are essentially nothing here unless they can ESCAPE the literal program-receiver stimulus-response conditioning relationship which this presents…

 

Again; there’s no Kings and no support FOR what we could call as sacred reunification. It’s about power dynamics.

 

Control itself is the shadow of Valor (21st Gene Key) with the Gift of Authority.

 

Hetero men to put it bluntly have zero authority in what this MV represents…so again, just something to be aware of because if you’re not the values and conditioning is going right into your emotional system.

 

This POWER is exciting and real. It’s just about how you relate with all of it. A King knows something else. Siddhic frequencies and values of love are above the shadow games of power, status and control.

 

And it can’t be overlooked that Trans actors and divas are featured in this MV too. That is significant as well.

 

Without going deeper into it too much, it’s doing 2 things (whether self-aware with an agenda or not);

 

1. Making Trans more popular and acceptable


2. Breaking traditional relationship values and King-Queenship up even more, pushing regular hetero men down the social scale even further

 

This ends up with the women themselves being RESENTFUL towards men and wondering (ironically) where the real Kings are.

 

A King knows how to relate with all of this differently. He’s not the consumer pawn.

 

So BE empowered as men and women…I’ll all for that but also know HOW to relate with power itself.

 

Men have to find a way to navigate all of this because they are being left behind socially, culturally and sexually whereas only a fraction of men excel in this dynamic.

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Pro Image is Energy

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When we think of an Instagram photo or youtube video, realize that it’s not actually physical. You aren’t there in physical reality.

 

It’s an energetic representation OF the physical. Physical is the 3D world. But the truth is that we are multi-dimensional.

 

Image is multi-dimensional LIGHT that is communicating. And it’s communicating truth and information beyond what we are normally able to perceive.

 

It is consciousness and essence that is captured and frozen in time.

 

Image is not just a pixelized representation of your physical 3D superficial body. That’s a lower truth based understanding or filter of what’s going on.

 

My energy readings practically open up insights into professional image and beauty that are overlooked with our 2D and 3D filters or paradigm of beauty.

 

Now, we just have the higher dimensional tools and awareness to work on it.

 

The 4th dimension is generally known as the psychic/astral and the 5th dimension is direct realm of Spirit.

 

There are even higher dimensions, but for the most part you are actually ALSO communicating on the 4th and 5th dimension IN your image…especially if you are spiritually cultivated OR have power like a starlet or star.

 

This ‘light information’ goes beyond skin and the literal surface of beauty and image.

 

Essence communicates mostly (and cleanly) through the 4th and 5th dimensions rather than your physical body itself – yet all of it is still represented in image, video, film, instagram.

 

Think of the 4th dimension as the energetic dynamic or ‘vibe’ of a room that you walk in and can sense that there was just an argument – it’s that type of thing filled with psychic information that is outside of the normal, physical plane.

 

So the more cultivate you are (like a star or spiritual guru), the more your energy is going to transmit and communicate from higher dimensions with and through your image.

 

The more power, the more influence.

 

This is also where it gets into archetypal and siddhic qualities of Light. As you cultivate your soul embodiment and expression, this comes through in your image. This is what we do here at Sexy Chi 😉

 

See, you ARE communicating in image but it’s not just your physical skin; it’s all kinds of other variables that are energetic and multi-dimensional in nature.

 

Just because you may not yet be able to sense and ‘see’ beyond the physical 3rd dimension (which all of current beauty easily understands), doesn’t make it any less true.

 

You can get more training insights into sensing and see multi-dimensional beauty (like a practical psychic) throughout the blog.

 

To really dive in more with plenty of examples, check out Beauty 2.0 here.

 

The multi-billion dollar Beauty industry as we know it is limited. It values the literal superficial.

 

Discover more about the next evolution Beauty 2.0 and how you can further cultivate your energetic beauty to have more beauty, influence and impact on people with and through your presence and professional image.

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Anti-Aging Insights

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There is such a thing as your biological age and this can be DIFFERENT than your chronological age. If you are healthier and have the body and system of someone a decade younger, that’s excellent.

 

So is it true that you are getting older every day? Chronologically yes, HOWEVER there are days where you can anti-age a few years or at least months.

 

So the Beauty 1.0 industry has anti-aging creams and the like. I’m not downplaying that but there is the deeper actual health aspects internally that are a big part of this.

 

Mindvalley even has a masterclass on bio-hacking for anti-aging.

 

So your organs and other systems in the body are critical to all of this. When they are running optimally like someone years younger than you, that’s great.

 

A lot of people look OLDER than their chronological age and some look younger.

 

So how can you really anti-age in both the biological AND image sense?

 

Nutrition and physical health is important but that’s not my area of specialtise.

 

I’d check out that Mindvalley masterclass. But here’s where it gets even more relevant; your ENERGETIC HEALTH has everything to do with your biological age.

 

Your energetic health affects your physical health and health of the organs. The Taoists knew of this for centuries.

 

If your energies are blocked or qi isn’t circulating properly…if more stress and dis-ease is in your system energetically, it’s putting more wear and tear (aging) on your entire system.

 

So it’s not just about general nutrition and wellness for long-term vitality, it’s also about working on your energetic health itself directly.

 

There are forms of bodywork btw that also help the body naturally release stress and anti-age like Micah Skye’s NMRT work and rolfing which releases tensions in the myofascial tissue.

 

But even that may not get to all parts of the body. This is where DIRECT energy healing comes in to release stress, dis-ease, conditioning and blocks within the layers of the energetic (and thus physical) body.

 

So I would look beyond anti-aging creams for image support and I would also look beyond bio-hacking the physical body, nutrition and supportive cardiovascular fitness, detoxing etc. as important as those are and I would look directly at your ENERGETIC HEALTH itself.

 

This is what is overlooked by most people because they don’t have an awareness in it. Yet for me, it’s easy to tell if someone is aging faster because of energetic imbalances in their system.

 

An energy reading with me initially covers your energetic health. If something is extreme I would let you know right away. Those readings are visual and then become 100% kinaesthetic during healing sessions itself (including remote). I can feel what’s going on in your system with imbalances, etc.

 

There’s an ancient axiom; if something is off in the physical body, there’s always an energetic source.

 

The late Louise Hay (Heal Your Body) has some great insights in this area. Keep in mind that mental work alone doesn’t always or necessarily affect the energetic reality within your system.

 

A YOUNGER body is free from the accumulated stresses and anxieties in life. A younger biological body has more open flowing energies instead of energies that are blocked and obstructing which can lead to cancer and other diseases.

 

You may be holding onto trauma from decades earlier that is secretly taxing your organs and your different systems thus obstructing free flow of energies and cells to replenish and do their job.

 

Remember; your chakras are depositories of information that also feed the organs. 1/2 of your life force is stored in the lower tan tien (behind the sacral chakra), but if your sacral chakra is blocked, personalized and oppressed for any reason (including trauma), it’s affecting ALL of your system.

 

(Even reiki itself doesn’t always directly affect the areas necessarily for optimal energetic health)

 

Sure, the biological body will age through time, but why not keep it as young as possible before the med beds arrive?

 

You want to have great energetic health and MAINTAIN energetic health. This is at least as important as good nutrition and general zen wellness.

 

And yes; there is a thing such as energetic organ healing and curing cancers. My own QiGong master who is also a Medical Qigong genius helped cure my arrhythmia.

 

I’m blessed to have younger biological health myself because of my own energetic practices – even though I don’t have the ‘all organic’ diet yet.

 

People consistently think I look a decade younger than I am – and I know people in my high school graduating class who look 18 years older than their age.

 

Great energetic health that is templated as 2 decades younger than you are would be a blessing to vitality and longevity as well as many other benefits including actually LOOKING younger than your age.

 

Life sometimes just adds up and stresses you down. I remember doing 1 tune-up session for a late arrival at a men’s workshop I was hosting in L.A. and everyone could tell right afterwards that he looked several years younger after that 10 minute session. Even his crow’s eyes were less pronounced. But this is normal.

 

So maybe it’s time to embrace but also look past the more superficial solutions?

 

Maybe it’s time to do some serious energetic detox NOW so your body can more naturally do what it’s meant to be.

 

Do you want unnecessary junk stuck in your chakras and aura that are aging you faster? 

ME NEITHER! 😉

 

It may be said that Nutrition doesn’t directly cover all the areas we’re talking about either as energetic or emotionally traumatic issues may STILL be stored in your system affecting not just your health and vitality but your experience of life itself.

 

If you really want to feel, look and most importantly ‘BE’ younger than your age, then I would consider getting some direct energetic health detox and maintenance in sessions with me or someone else with great experience in this area. And ideally, do that in addition to any other anti-aging and wellness plan you have.

 

Als; good energetic health is FOUNDATIONAL to then cultivating energetic beauty and allure; where your soul really gets to shine and come through in your professional image and presence.

Sessions with me can be booked here @ https://sexychi.com/activations

An activation session block can be exchanged for a longer extended, comprehensive energy healing session instead – this is what I recommend if I know you have deeper issues (and even then if it’s more extreme, may take several of these sessions).

 

Regular activation sessions include a shorter energetic tune-up as part of the session before the activation itself.

 

I hope that helps! Taking care of your body should definitely including taking care of your energetic body; the source of it all

 

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