The Absence of Worship In Most Unions

For the feminine that desires to be worshipped in Union without fantasy and without compromise in Heart, Sex, Spirit and Eros; it’s best to live Divine Union yourself to constellate and attraction something which you already are.

You must VALUE the Lover aspect of a king; ideally BEFORE you are in partnership b/c many kings are stubborn in their ways.

Many traditional men, warrior-husbands or ‘kings’ may have values where the kingdom has priority, but where there isn’t the value of his Lover nor of the Grail of Communion, thusly, there’s no room for worship of the Goddess (as equals) and where Sex and Love itself is something lower dimensional.

This may not fulfill those who are seeking deeper, richer intimacy and true Communion.

For most kings with queens; they may have commitment to legacy or religious conditioning, family structure, stability and kingdom however; where she has less of a say and Eros and Devotional Love are essentially absent or divorced and thus his queen will have to understand that.

She should have known that going into the relationship and be ok with it.

Worship and the holy grail of Communion doesn’t fit into most relational templates; either the values are misaligned (including archetypal values) or the infra-structure of the relational template itself doesn’t support devotional worship of the Beloved in each other with stability.

But actually worship itself would be unstable and collapsible in most all relationship templates…if he places her on a pedestal, she may end up punishing him and regretting him as if he was a simp. If he has too much shadow and she worships HIM, he could end up controlling, misusing or abusing her.

(None of this is Sacred Union). Twin flames famously do what? Go down in flames and b/c the architecture is unstable even if they have access to worship frequencies.

So are you just stuck with options of men who aren’t serving the Kingdom who would ‘fawn’ over you and make you #1 that you end up regretting it? Not necessarily.

It’s Divine Union that is really the only template where King consciousness can actually be a Grail King Lover without value conflicts and in reverence and worship the feminine as LOVER without losing power; however h/He still will have Kingdom or purpose first.

After all, his psyche doth seeketh the holy grail of Communion but other values might have got in his way including religious conditioning.

It’s not that a Grail King Lover is making her #1 above his purpose either; but that there’s actually VALUE OF and room for devotional worship and Siddhic Communion.

Worship otherwise is rare and unhealthy unless it’s in Divine Union and Divine Union partnership. Most men, relationship coaches or couples have no idea what I’m even talking about but those of us who are into the Grail, do.

In my case; I am co-creating a Kingdom with Her (my Beloved in Sacred Union) but I would never put a mortal muse above Muse, nor above the Kingdom itself.

There is always room for more but you may have to change your entire templating around partnership or Union itself; having the VALUE and then living as the Love you seek. Such is hieros gamos.

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